Learn how to tell an interesting story... or make a boring story interesting!

Telling a good story is an art form. Almost any story can be interesting if you take it beyond its basic elements: time, place, and characters involved. Learning how to tell a good story will not only help you in social conversations but also in a job interview setting or even an IELTS Speaking task. Good conversation skills show off your level of fluency and will impress your interviewer. In social settings, people are attracted to and enjoy being around interesting, dynamic speakers. To help you develop your storytelling skills, I have laid out my method based on years of experience as an actor and storyteller. So watch the video to learn how to tell a story like a n engaging, fluent English speaker. Then, take the quiz at www.engvid.com/tell-an-intere...
TRANSCRIPT
Hi there. Welcome back to engVid with me, Benjamin. Today we are looking at the art of storytelling. Who is this useful to? Well, you may find that in an interview situation, being able to tell a good story could help you, as long as it's appropriate to the interview; also, IELTS speaking, being able to sort of go beyond yourself and say more than you normally would is going to benefit you in terms of sounding fluent; and also, conversational, social skills - it's good to be able to tell a story.
Now, what I'm going to be sharing with you today has taken me a lot of time, a lot of experience to figure out the truth of this, and I've basically worked out that this is right. Okay? So, two parts in today's lesson: We've got basic storytelling; and then if you want to be clever clogs, you can add in the extra elements.
So, a basic story has what Aristotle, the Greek philosopher, came up with 2,000 years ago. It has three consistent things: It talks about place-okay?-it happens in a place; it happens at a time, a certain time; and there are characters involved. And these should be smooth. He talked about how we should have a clear story idea, it happens in time order. So this relates to us today telling a good story. Okay? It should happen at a certain point. We need to know where, okay? Place, setting, similar idea. Which characters do you have in the story? A plot - there's got to be a reason for telling it: "Is it an unusual story? Is it funny? Is it interesting?" What's the ending? You don't want to leave your audience, going: "Oh", at the end of the story. You've got to think: "This story has got to have a good ending." Okay? Otherwise you leave them with not a very good feeling. Okay.
So, if I'm going to demonstrate this, I will tell you a story. So, the time that this took place. So this was last summer, and the place: I was trying to get to the airport. I was trying to get to Gatwick Airport, just outside of London. To set the scene a bit, we've got a friend's wedding happening in Italy. Taking my son and wife on a flight out to Italy. Very important that we get there, lots of friends there, and traffic starts piling up and it starts getting quite tight - the time. Are we going to get on the plane or not?
Okay, so now we need to include some more plot elements. So, what was unusual is that I told my wife: "Look, if we carry on like this, we're not going to catch the plane." So we swapped over, and she started driving down the hard shoulder. It's not about your shoulder; it means the side bit of the road that you're not really meant to drive on. And kind of the funny bit is that we got through this horrendous traffic on the most nasty... The nastiest road in the U.K., which is the M25, which is more sort of sitting around than actually driving anywhere. We got through this nasty traffic. It looked like we were going to catch the flight, and then we ran out of petrol 10 miles from the airport. Fortunately, we did manage to get onto the flight eventually, after a few more mishaps. Okay? So we've got a rough story there, which I can now make quite a lot better by adding in these elements.
First of all, if you're sat around with a group of people, you don't just suddenly start telling a story, and you shouldn't really plan what stories you're going to tell. A story could come out of what has been spoken, what people are talking about, otherwise it's like: "Well, what are you talking about?" Okay? So there's got to be a link. So, if I was telling this story, maybe I would be talking to friends about holidays, about getting to planes, and I would say something like: "This... Yeah, I've had a bad experience before of trying to get to the airport. I'll tell you about this time last summer." Okay? So, linking it to the conversation. Beginning well. "I'll tell you a little tale", okay? It's quite sort of soft and polite, but rather than being: "[Makes motorboat noise]", it invites people to listen in. It kind of quietens things down, and people start listening.
There need to be things in the story that grab people's attention. So... And this kind of links to this next point of embellishment and exaggeration.[…]

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  • @Milestonemonger
    @Milestonemonger4 жыл бұрын

    I'm 55 years old and I'm still learning how to tell a good story. Thanks for the video, I really appreciate it.

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    4 жыл бұрын

    Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @thebrinksf69

    @thebrinksf69

    3 жыл бұрын

    same

  • @LilyH174

    @LilyH174

    Жыл бұрын

    Me 3

  • @stefy661
    @stefy6613 жыл бұрын

    I love the way you modulate your voice. That's art, great accent without sounding fake or pompous. Music for my ears!

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Stefy

  • @statego
    @statego3 жыл бұрын

    THIS VIDEO WAS AMAZING wow what a skill of story telling i feel like a toddler when it comes to sharing stories after watching this

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Jim. Storytelling is an ancient tradition - nothing beats sitting round a campfire... There are stories from our own experiences but it's also good to learn some folk stories etc.

  • @pepperdog7511
    @pepperdog75112 жыл бұрын

    Before i started writing my very first story, believe me i watched almost all of your videos!. This really helped make my story more colorful!. I was able to gather more readers and supporters, thanks Benjamin!

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes! That's what I like to hear :)

  • @tacijjola
    @tacijjola5 жыл бұрын

    I love your videos, they are very educational and fun. I look forward to the next lesson

  • @stst7347

    @stst7347

    5 жыл бұрын

    I started watching him, and he is very good.

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for watching

  • @faiyazahmed9
    @faiyazahmed95 жыл бұрын

    One of the best techniques and tricks regarding Storytelling in the whole KZread channel. After spending 3days got this amazing video. Thank you for your contribution to my life.

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, that's very nice of you.

  • @giftsondomai6969
    @giftsondomai69694 жыл бұрын

    One of the best videos on how to actually tell a good Story.. Thank you

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for watching

  • @janakp2252
    @janakp22522 жыл бұрын

    Mr Benjamin,I am over the moon on hearing your immaculate,flowy story.Truly fascinating ,hats off

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    2 жыл бұрын

    Glad you enjoyed it :)

  • @futuresomalileader
    @futuresomalileader5 жыл бұрын

    I am very glad to find a teacher like Benjamin, i believe this teacher improved my English and i really appreciated,

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Hassan

  • @Paulinazborowska
    @Paulinazborowska2 жыл бұрын

    Benjamin, you gave me an incredible piece of knowledge. Your work makes a difference. Thank u so much!

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    2 жыл бұрын

    Great to hear!

  • @kayllonsampaio569
    @kayllonsampaio5695 жыл бұрын

    OMG I love your accent!!

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    4 жыл бұрын

    Not something I work on!

  • @maddoxaaron6808
    @maddoxaaron68083 жыл бұрын

    I'm glad to find another one teacher which speak British English, because my pronunciation is British, albeit I understand the two accents. Your classes are brilliant!

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @RealSuat
    @RealSuat Жыл бұрын

    One of the best English teachers ever, we are lucky to be able to watch these videos. Thank you for your lessons hope to see more new ones :)

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    Жыл бұрын

    Too kind!

  • @alekseiefimov5780
    @alekseiefimov57805 жыл бұрын

    Great British! Thanks for new idiom:)

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    4 жыл бұрын

    Good stuff

  • @yjzhang9030
    @yjzhang9030 Жыл бұрын

    love your videos, hope I can write my own story and share it with all my friends.

  • @heathersisto1119
    @heathersisto11194 жыл бұрын

    I really enjoyed listening to the teacher tell such a great story , it makes learning so much more fun ! Sincerely , a learning student that tries to make the grade and if I take better notes like these . I believe more in myself . I watch a lot of different teachers on this learning channel because they really do care about students learning for the better grades . I seem to always learn something from this teacher's learning videos too . Thanks again , to this teacher for making story telling seem a bit more easier with organization and structuring ideas is what I learned from watching this video and I am going to try to constantly use them as they are organized and displayed on the learning board . A new learning tool I shall constantly try and apply to my learning objectives in reading and writing . I am a struggling learning student just trying to make better grades . Therefore I would like to say this teacher deserves five stars to for teaching with humor and care for students such as myself who tries and wants to make better grades , and if I keep watching learning videos like these . My confidence gets better with believing I can make better grades with learning techniques that is also what are great learning tools . Thanks again for the fun with learning videos 🌟🌟 🌟🌟🌟

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks

  • @svetlanarussell6588
    @svetlanarussell65882 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much! Very helpful!

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    2 жыл бұрын

    So glad!

  • @shawondas1689
    @shawondas16895 жыл бұрын

    You're amazing sir!

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for your support

  • @svevabloomsbury7620
    @svevabloomsbury76203 жыл бұрын

    My mind urges to put a comment even if I haven't finished the lesson yet. Thank you🙏, you're an amazing teacher (and you seem to have a strong background on your side 😊) and also with a brilliant accent. How can I expect more? Again thanks, keep going 💪❤️

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for your kind words, and keep going, I will!

  • @raymondjblaze7761
    @raymondjblaze77612 жыл бұрын

    I love these videos!

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you.

  • @blessedchannel_811
    @blessedchannel_8114 жыл бұрын

    Hi Benjamin, I like your teachings. Thanks for sharing English language so friendly. It seems that you are taking to me.

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    4 жыл бұрын

    Talking to you? Good, I'm glad.

  • @sohailvirkPHPDeveloper
    @sohailvirkPHPDeveloper5 жыл бұрын

    Awesome Benjamin

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @baselmelhem9359
    @baselmelhem93592 жыл бұрын

    You, my friend, are helpful

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    2 жыл бұрын

    Glad to hear that!

  • @papuciowy1465
    @papuciowy14655 жыл бұрын

    I like dynamics of your lessons.

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @johnaddison2761
    @johnaddison27613 жыл бұрын

    Thanks again I really enjoyed this and also thank so much responding to my last message. I so wish I had a English teacher like you when I was at School. I went to School during 70-80's and I am also dyslexic, I still do struggle with gramma but not creativity. I do write as I am not going let dyslexia stop me. So I have written flash fiction, short stories. Your videos are so much fun.

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks John! Keep going with the writing.

  • @johnaddison2761

    @johnaddison2761

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@engvidBenjamin I will thanks Benjamin your videos are helping.

  • @jewel3614
    @jewel36145 жыл бұрын

    Thanks sir 👏

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    4 жыл бұрын

    You're welcome

  • @jeffreyhill7990
    @jeffreyhill79905 жыл бұрын

    Well done, love your lessons

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Jeffrey

  • @muhammadsafiq000safiq2
    @muhammadsafiq000safiq24 жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much this is very useful

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks

  • @skarman5071
    @skarman50713 жыл бұрын

    Vary good storv broo👍

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks ✌

  • @LilyH174
    @LilyH174 Жыл бұрын

    I love his video he should definitely deserve more subscribers ❤

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks! Feel free to share...

  • @farzanehw4760
    @farzanehw47605 жыл бұрын

    This was awesome Benjamin! I had been looking for a video like this for months and now I've found a great teacher doing a video on it! BUT ONE QUESTION, how I can learn the kind of words you used to exaggerate? (grid-lock, tearing my hair out, tearing down the hard shoulder, slamming [on the accelerator])

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    4 жыл бұрын

    That comes with experience and exposure to language but I would suggest that on the engvid website you are concentrating on vocabulary and expressions.

  • @vahidegulkaya7836
    @vahidegulkaya78365 жыл бұрын

    Excellent lecture 🌷

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @chebuggslife
    @chebuggslife4 жыл бұрын

    Superb Benjie!

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for watching, David

  • @TheIamLuanna
    @TheIamLuanna2 жыл бұрын

    Just FYI ..took the quiz after, but messing with my score is a pop up box that says: you forgot to answer even though my answer is sitting there. Sometimes, this box skips a question and that messes with points also. Thought you would like to know. Love your videos SHOW NOT TELL, and this one are the only two I have seen so far. Am a new Subscriber.

  • @SVLOGS1M
    @SVLOGS1M5 жыл бұрын

    ✌✌

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    4 жыл бұрын

    :)

  • @chiccogm41
    @chiccogm412 жыл бұрын

    😊 intellectual.

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    Жыл бұрын

    Not sure about that! The aim of storytelling is rarely to be intellectual, but I appreciate the compliment.

  • @ninatong8191
    @ninatong81914 жыл бұрын

    My mom likes your lesson even the pronunciation

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm so glad!

  • @professorofsprituality
    @professorofsprituality5 жыл бұрын

    🌺👌👌

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    4 жыл бұрын

    Cheers

  • @humairahfarooq6453
    @humairahfarooq64533 жыл бұрын

    Your lectures are Superb❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    3 жыл бұрын

    Glad you enjoyed

  • @rondickey7116
    @rondickey71164 жыл бұрын

    Thank U..Benjamin..I now have the elements,as u put it, to tell a story,but how do I tell a story,just out of the blue..tht is something else i need to master,as well as all the things u talk abt in this video..Oh, i like the different slangs,ur country has for things....ty

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    4 жыл бұрын

    It should come naturally out of conversation - it depends what you are talking about.

  • @bestimmtgut
    @bestimmtgut5 жыл бұрын

    thanks for a lesson. Could you please tell me, what microphone are you using? The sound is very clear! Thank you!

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    4 жыл бұрын

    Not sure, sorry.

  • @ninatong8191

    @ninatong8191

    4 жыл бұрын

    I don’t think you are really using a microphone

  • @kayyisahnaurahafif1530
    @kayyisahnaurahafif15305 жыл бұрын

    It's sound like a british accent. Isn't it? I have tried to learn english till now and I love watching this video.

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for watching

  • @madhurangasampath8473
    @madhurangasampath84735 жыл бұрын

    nice

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    4 жыл бұрын

    Glad you liked it

  • @reconnect3342
    @reconnect33425 жыл бұрын

    Thanks

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    4 жыл бұрын

    Welcome

  • @hajaramiri1143
    @hajaramiri1143 Жыл бұрын

    Can you make a video about how to know what a story or a movie is trying to say to us? I've gotta big problems with this part of reading books😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @monmioamio
    @monmioamio4 жыл бұрын

    It would be great fun to have your James Bond wife tell this story they way she experienced it 😎

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    4 жыл бұрын

    She's a far better storyteller than I am!

  • @monmioamio

    @monmioamio

    4 жыл бұрын

    @benjamin - looking forward to the video 😁

  • @_Ju_el_
    @_Ju_el_5 жыл бұрын

    Can you tell me some examples of outcome to continue the conversation after mi story? Thanks.

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    4 жыл бұрын

    You hope that after telling a story, someone might make a comment about it or ask you a question. If not, get the attention on someone else in the group by asking them a question or something.

  • @afrozenazneen6215
    @afrozenazneen62154 жыл бұрын

    I'm in.

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    4 жыл бұрын

    Welcome

  • @momenmahamed9478
    @momenmahamed94785 жыл бұрын

    I love the british , even though I don't undertand it

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for watching

  • @codeAlongwith
    @codeAlongwith4 жыл бұрын

    How can you make sure you have stories that relate to 'usual' topics that people talk about? If your socially ackward or have a bad memory it can be difficult to always have the right stories? Is there a polite way that you can change what someone has been talking about to match the topic that you have a story about?

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hi Mark, thanks for this question. I think it's a bit unnatural to prepare stories for social situations but it's good to reflect after on how the storytelling went - which bits were people really listening to? Try and remember the funny stuff that happens to you...

  • @mariamk7828

    @mariamk7828

    4 жыл бұрын

    Mark Hallam I have bad memories too😭I often can’t remember my experiences to talk abt

  • @cozy5217
    @cozy52175 жыл бұрын

    Your wife is awesome 🤩

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yup!

  • @mazenbaseldaily9671
    @mazenbaseldaily96715 жыл бұрын

    you are a great teacher

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks

  • @LilyH174
    @LilyH174 Жыл бұрын

    ❤😂🎉😅😊

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    Жыл бұрын

    Glad you enjoyed it.

  • @jhilmilmengi7819
    @jhilmilmengi78193 жыл бұрын

    hello mr. Benjamin. I watched the video and started practicing storytelling by writing those down. I have a humble request. can you check and critique the stories i have been practicing writing over email because my storytelling is very long winded and boring. i have nobody to turn to to check for improvement. thanks. - english literature major who wants to be able to write and narrate good stories in future. PS waiting for your reply.

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hi - this video is aimed at spoken stories. Telling a story in conversation in person is more difficult than writing down a story as you have to adapt to your audience. I think this video has some useful premises in, just try and experiment with them. Also remember that stories should emerge naturally - you don't go round to someone's house with the intention of telling a specific story.

  • @MadhubhartiGBava
    @MadhubhartiGBava3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks, when will you upload video next

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    3 жыл бұрын

    18th of june i think

  • @jaikaranbully6027
    @jaikaranbully60273 жыл бұрын

    Hi Benjamin Would you like to answer my question, if someone says " how do him know " Is correct grammar used in this sentence ? And what do you understand by this ?

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    3 жыл бұрын

    No, that is incorrect. You would say 'how do you know him?'

  • @jaikaranbully6027

    @jaikaranbully6027

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@engvidBenjamin No, you don't understand my point, which is my language In that, if we show respect towards someone, then we use plural for that. But here for a human if I have to use plural Like if I want to say that "how do they know this", how will I say this sentence. Since I can't use "they" for a single person. Is there also any such rule in the English language that if I want to show respect towards someone, then we should add something specific in it , Like plural is used in my language I speak. 😄 Be sure to answer. I think to say that how do "he know this " is unformal.

  • @pam9451
    @pam94515 жыл бұрын

    you’re awesome

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    4 жыл бұрын

    Not sure about that. Us Brits like to be modest :)

  • @emrekorkmaz2412
    @emrekorkmaz24124 жыл бұрын

    I don't understand him but i am watching 😀

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for watching!

  • @ninatong8191

    @ninatong8191

    4 жыл бұрын

    Uhh

  • @ninatong8191

    @ninatong8191

    4 жыл бұрын

    Uhh....

  • @rkv4u
    @rkv4u4 жыл бұрын

    If you start a language training center in the capital of India, you're gonna roll in money.

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Rajiv. One day... :)

  • @jhilmilmengi7819

    @jhilmilmengi7819

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@engvidBenjamin if we just inform a lot of people about his channel. that should do half the job, for the time being

  • @Pragemena121
    @Pragemena1213 жыл бұрын

    Amazing how they dont teach this in school instead of some of the other rubbish they teach

  • @engvidBenjamin

    @engvidBenjamin

    3 жыл бұрын

    There are lots of things we have to figure out, like how to change the tyre on a car wheel...