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LEADERSHIP IN MARRIAGE | What does it look like?

We discussed submission at length about 2 weeks ago. Phetola share how sometimes lack of leadership could have been her stumbling block in submission. Today we unpack what leadership looks like from his vs her perspective.
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  • @welheminahkgokgutsebane9635
    @welheminahkgokgutsebane9635 Жыл бұрын

    Please remember to like.

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes please!! Thank you🤗🤗…Plesse also Subscribe, comment and share❤️❤️❤️

  • @materenemolaoa1752
    @materenemolaoa1752 Жыл бұрын

    The level of wisdom bestowed upon you two is absolutely out of this world. Thank you for sharing yourselves with us. May the Lord continue to increase you in wisdom even as you continue to pour yourself out on us. 🙏🏾❤️

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    Жыл бұрын

    You’re so kind! Thank you so much for your words of affirmation ❤️

  • @dineomakibelo8048
    @dineomakibelo8048 Жыл бұрын

    Papa Action 👊🏾 The thing with your conversations is that you don't have to be married to benefit from them. I mean as someone who's divorced, this was still such a Masterclass on life and self-development! Thank you for always sharing gems with us, yerrr!

  • @suzethngutonua6908
    @suzethngutonua6908 Жыл бұрын

    "YOU CAN TRUST A PERSON THAT'S CONSISTENT "~ Phetola👏👏what a word! "Consistency equals trust"

  • @gbngcobo
    @gbngcobo Жыл бұрын

    'People don't follow dreams, they follow progress.' That's so profound.

  • @liferesetwithboni

    @liferesetwithboni

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm loving this ❤😊

  • @nomsa06
    @nomsa06 Жыл бұрын

    Phetola you’re my number one. I absolutely love how you articulate yourself. The points you got across on this video were solid ma’am. I resonate

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    Жыл бұрын

    Aaah sis! Thank you❤️❤️❤️🤗🤗🤗

  • @siyamthandandlakuse8042
    @siyamthandandlakuse8042 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much fam for covering this topic with such wisdom and grace. Thank you for giving us crib notes so we can learn from your journey. May God continue to bless you and increase your territory #PeaceAnd Blessings #PapaAction

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for inspiring this instalment Siya❤️❤️❤️. We really appreciate you❤️❤️

  • @gcinilemhlanga3226
    @gcinilemhlanga3226 Жыл бұрын

    Our very own Alicia and Usher😁. On a serious note, you know what, I can listen to the two of you all day. Your content is so refreshing and thought provoking at the same time. Thank you for another exciting episode. I cannot wait to hear your thought on…’submission in marriage- what does it look like’…in your next instalment 😍😍. My take home - purpose, consistency, Papa Action🤩🤩

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much!❤️❤️❤️. Absolutely love the idea of sharing what submission looks like. I think in the previous installment we focused more on what it doesn’t look like❤️🤗

  • @user-to1ov7qp8p

    @user-to1ov7qp8p

    Жыл бұрын

    Yep

  • @nette2144
    @nette214410 ай бұрын

    New subscriber here from across the Pacific. I found this video at a very low moment in my life where I am confused and feeling overwhelmed by years of anxiety from being like a mum instead of a partner in a marriage. The overwhelming load of responsibility that I carry is wearing me down.

  • @sindithabisilephungula8127
    @sindithabisilephungula8127 Жыл бұрын

    I absolutely loved this conversation so much family 🥺 Thank you so much for this thought provoking conversation.

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for being with us❤️

  • @zoe_flower7373
    @zoe_flower7373 Жыл бұрын

    My Favs❤❤ Watching while I'm at work 💞

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    Жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ thank you fam!

  • @misscarol_m
    @misscarol_m Жыл бұрын

    love you guys..nothing as attractive as a papa-action indeed

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    Жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂♥️♥️♥️

  • @nwadiutoasandanwankwo
    @nwadiutoasandanwankwo Жыл бұрын

    Papa action. This offers so much nuance to the topic, which is incredibly profound! I love that the man was also humanized in the discussion, while still calling him to be the leader he was ultimately born to be. Thank you so much Mr and Mrs Makhs, you embody Ephesians 5 so beautifully!

  • @sanelemjoli4877
    @sanelemjoli4877 Жыл бұрын

    Beautiful conversation as always. I'm glad to be in present in this class. The Great I AM loves you

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    Жыл бұрын

    Aaaah Sanele. Good to see you❤️. Thank you🤗

  • @missbokani775
    @missbokani775 Жыл бұрын

    Papa Action!!!! 😂😂😂... I know lm really late but thank you for this installment. I'm not married yet but lm happy l get to hear these things before marriage and it's gonna help me learn to support my partner the right way without making him feel incompetent

  • @blessingolayemi1527
    @blessingolayemi1527 Жыл бұрын

    I'm now hooked on your podcasts. So much wisdom and the communication is top-notch

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for journeying with us ❤️❤️❤️

  • @valentine_b_ndlovu
    @valentine_b_ndlovu Жыл бұрын

    You closed at a high note Fam🎉 action! I know the bible says money is the answer to all things, action for me is the answer to all things, because even money will not come unless you do something 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽papa action is it 👌🏼👌🏼awesome conversation right there, love you both ❤❤

  • @temalangenimachethe6944
    @temalangenimachethe6944 Жыл бұрын

    Intro always gets me 🔥🔥🔥🔥 OK, now let's watch

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    Жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @busisiwengwenya4450
    @busisiwengwenya4450 Жыл бұрын

    Loadshedding! We are here.

  • @mamellomphahlele6965
    @mamellomphahlele6965 Жыл бұрын

    I believe in consistency and structure, however I think it would be unfair to expect the leader to lack room the freedom to at times let their guards down, to relax and not to have it all together some times. Leaders are also human 🖤

  • @joeydlaminivlogs
    @joeydlaminivlogs Жыл бұрын

    I ready enjoyed this conversation thank you so much. Loadshedding

  • @nomsa06
    @nomsa06 Жыл бұрын

    Liking before I watch. Dangerous 😅. Liking because I’m always happy to see a video upload from this family.

  • @reabetswe_m
    @reabetswe_m Жыл бұрын

    Bathong now I can’t unsee the usher and Alicia keys 😂😂😂😂. This was such a powerful podcast. Teaching us to carry each other in love and understanding. As I doer my approach to the dreamer was not always great and frustrated me and now I know how to probe certain conversations without being frustrated. Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    Жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂❤️❤️❤️mama and papa action. Thank you for sharing❤️

  • @brigettebond6088
    @brigettebond6088 Жыл бұрын

    Papa action. Lerato wow thank you for saying leaders need to Communicate and yes Photo there's nothing more attractive when a man takes action. Thanks again to the Makhs for an inspiring podcast. ❤

  • @user-to1ov7qp8p
    @user-to1ov7qp8p Жыл бұрын

    Mrs Makhs skin yahoo also she knows Mr Makhs will always give her the accurate word😊 she is looking for .

  • @sheronsnethembancube2693
    @sheronsnethembancube2693 Жыл бұрын

    I love your ministry ❤

  • @FELICITY_NOBELA
    @FELICITY_NOBELA Жыл бұрын

    Papa Action I feel like I am married lapho I am not dating. I am so happy I got to learn all this stuff in my single phase

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    Жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️🤗🤗🤗

  • @user-ew9sg2bz5j
    @user-ew9sg2bz5j Жыл бұрын

    Your advice has just made me a better man. Salute🙏🙏🤝

  • @godandglam9636
    @godandglam9636 Жыл бұрын

    Papa Action!!!!!!😂😂 I love this !!!! Love love this 🎉. Y'all should have more than an episode a week!!!!! A week becomes too long to wait on this wisdom🤧🤧.

  • @KatlehoMo99
    @KatlehoMo99 Жыл бұрын

    Dankie papa le mama ACTION !! 🎉

  • @nkosinhlemhlanga636
    @nkosinhlemhlanga636 Жыл бұрын

    I sooo need this now! Thank you guys

  • @siyabulelaunathigongqa2957
    @siyabulelaunathigongqa2957 Жыл бұрын

    My fiancee plugged me to you guys, and I love you guys and your content❤🫂😊

  • @happymuller841
    @happymuller841 Жыл бұрын

    Ewuuuuuuu Nkosi! Load-shedding! Papa Action! Kuningi! ...One Love! Loved this fam❤❤❤

  • @winniethipa4011
    @winniethipa4011 Жыл бұрын

    e ba Papa Action Lerato is funny love the instalment

  • @shalomthembydonga1748
    @shalomthembydonga174810 ай бұрын

    Papa Action.... Thank you 🤗🙏🏽

  • @fortunatelebogangndlovu3707
    @fortunatelebogangndlovu3707 Жыл бұрын

    Old time fan you really inspire me alot I am definitely learning alot from the both continue teaching us what you know may God bless you all the time

  • @thandoselowe7478
    @thandoselowe7478 Жыл бұрын

    Phetola is so beautiful 😍❤️🔥I love you so much Mrs Makhetha😍😍😍🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    Жыл бұрын

    Aaaaw Thando you’re so kind! Thank you so much sis❤️❤️

  • @nomcebo63674
    @nomcebo63674 Жыл бұрын

    Load shedding, loved the video❤

  • @metkalfouregis5944
    @metkalfouregis594411 ай бұрын

    Great stuff guys

  • @kozibamtyutu6507
    @kozibamtyutu6507 Жыл бұрын

    Wow wow.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @roomforimprovement4
    @roomforimprovement4 Жыл бұрын

    ACTION! Very enlightening conversation there

  • @kangolmqhakama6273
    @kangolmqhakama6273 Жыл бұрын

    Papa action😂😂😂. Thank you Mr. and Mrs. Makhs. Much love💕

  • @paulinanangombe2349
    @paulinanangombe2349 Жыл бұрын

    You guys are the one maan.... i jc love your bond, how you are open to discussing and bring your thoughts in different areas that most couple's don't talk about.... relationships are there... jc a tap on your shoulder " i want to have it" that's all🤣🤣🤣

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    Жыл бұрын

    Aaah thank you Paulina. We appreciate your kind words. JC has got you😂❤️❤️. Ba re ask Akere ❤️

  • @paulinanangombe2349

    @paulinanangombe2349

    Жыл бұрын

    @@TheMakhs tata action🤣🤣

  • @ndumimakhanya4612
    @ndumimakhanya4612 Жыл бұрын

    Been patiently waiting for this💃💃

  • @4thegrandkidsIdonthave
    @4thegrandkidsIdonthave Жыл бұрын

    Pearls of wisdom galore!❤ #papaaction😅

  • @faithlivingwithSam
    @faithlivingwithSam Жыл бұрын

    I loved this conversation and l will like to have it with my husband we have never spoken about what leadership looks like. I think that on the consistency thing, l think we should have grace for each other.

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    Жыл бұрын

    Definitely. We could all use a little grace ❤️

  • @suzethngutonua6908
    @suzethngutonua6908 Жыл бұрын

    Be the person of action! Yes sirrr

  • @ms.buhlee
    @ms.buhlee Жыл бұрын

    One thing about you guys, you will always sign your name. 🥰 Thank you for this video..

  • @selmakaviua3786
    @selmakaviua3786 Жыл бұрын

    Papa action ❤❤❤❤

  • @kingdomgirlsarise
    @kingdomgirlsarise Жыл бұрын

    Notification gang🎉🎉🎉

  • @vistorinaamputu4682
    @vistorinaamputu4682 Жыл бұрын

    I am always here for all these great, raw conversations you bring to us :) #loadshedding

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    Жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Prince-fb2rg
    @Prince-fb2rg Жыл бұрын

    This was a set up/ an indirect grilling on Mr Makhs, the 'leader' in the marriage/ fam'.. 😅😆.. Kidding .. Great content as always y'all! 👍

  • @johannamakwala
    @johannamakwala Жыл бұрын

    Thanks u for Ur teachings 🎉❤

  • @mamaneontshichats7665
    @mamaneontshichats7665 Жыл бұрын

    No we're always learning from you, thank you ❤️ Papa Action 😂❤️

  • @lerekomolefe4323
    @lerekomolefe4323 Жыл бұрын

    Papa action. Thank you for yet another informative installment ❤❤❤

  • @andybizzle4376
    @andybizzle4376 Жыл бұрын

    Afternoon Fam. ❤ (Alicia and Usher 😂😂)

  • @nozwelomahlaba8064

    @nozwelomahlaba8064

    Жыл бұрын

    It's giving My Boo 😂 (that song by Alicia and Usher from the early 200s)

  • @andybizzle4376

    @andybizzle4376

    Жыл бұрын

    @@nozwelomahlaba8064 listen!!!

  • @KhanyiMsibi
    @KhanyiMsibi Жыл бұрын

    Loadshedding 😂 Thank you for another riveting instalment ❤️

  • @tshepobogopa5645
    @tshepobogopa5645 Жыл бұрын

    Vision is so important but at times heavilty critisized whith no fruits

  • @mamellomphahlele6965
    @mamellomphahlele6965 Жыл бұрын

    A suggestion please: It would be great to include a snippet of Mr Makhs playing the piano /keyboard from time to time, like he did on Christmas day with the family 🎹 ❤😍🎼🎵

  • @busisiwemgolombana6385
    @busisiwemgolombana63859 ай бұрын

    Thanks

  • @lungilendlovu4584
    @lungilendlovu4584 Жыл бұрын

    This one spoke to me a lot cz I am going thru a time where I don't feel heard. I try to communicate but it's jus not happening. I'm at a point where I dnt know what n how to voice myself. Kurough Papa action is new kom nee

  • @siyamthandandlakuse8042

    @siyamthandandlakuse8042

    Жыл бұрын

    Hang in there sis 🤗 🤗 don’t stop praying and talking to God about it. He sees and he hears you…

  • @lungilendlovu4584

    @lungilendlovu4584

    Жыл бұрын

    @@siyamthandandlakuse8042 thanks cc

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    Жыл бұрын

    Sometimes it takes time for our significant others to hear us… but because God is God they do some day get that revelation❤️

  • @sinovuyobusakwe1001
    @sinovuyobusakwe1001 Жыл бұрын

    Paps Action

  • @ShereenRamahuma
    @ShereenRamahuma Жыл бұрын

    Load shedding 😂😂😂love you lots❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @palesamatabane3138
    @palesamatabane3138 Жыл бұрын

    Notification gang!!!

  • @kholofelohope3540
    @kholofelohope3540 Жыл бұрын

    The intro... you guys are so funny 😂

  • @sunflowerpalee
    @sunflowerpalee Жыл бұрын

    😂😂loadshedding....ohhh papa action😂😂a beautiful conversation your journey is helping us alot guys. We love you❤❤❤

  • @aphelelesibali6355
    @aphelelesibali6355 Жыл бұрын

    LOVE IT GUYS. SABU USHER AND ALECIA- KEYS😅😍. You guys just made me laught at the beginning of the video

  • @marvelousmbali8002
    @marvelousmbali8002 Жыл бұрын

    Issa wrap♥️ papa action 💀

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    Жыл бұрын

    Issa wrap fam!❤️❤️

  • @samanthaonkakhulu2566
    @samanthaonkakhulu2566 Жыл бұрын

    Wow.

  • @kgothatsomosweu7358
    @kgothatsomosweu7358 Жыл бұрын

    PAPA Action😁😁 I truly enjoyed this.

  • @wethembekilendebele7922
    @wethembekilendebele7922 Жыл бұрын

    PAPA ACTION!!!!

  • @Lindokuhle_Mat_Mas
    @Lindokuhle_Mat_Mas Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for the upload 😊

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for being here❤️… sorry for the delay🥹

  • @MissSipamla
    @MissSipamla Жыл бұрын

    #PapaAction😍😍

  • @lebohangntjabane693
    @lebohangntjabane693 Жыл бұрын

    Papa action😂😂😂loved this installment

  • @oaratwalesedi-mmopi8573
    @oaratwalesedi-mmopi8573 Жыл бұрын

    Ga re itse loadshedding mo Botswana 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️❤

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    Жыл бұрын

    Bathong lona! Are you guys not God’s favourite mara! Aowa we are moving to Bots mos😄❤️❤️

  • @oaratwalesedi-mmopi8573

    @oaratwalesedi-mmopi8573

    Жыл бұрын

    @@TheMakhs 💃💃❤🤣 tlang kwano

  • @tshepobogopa5645
    @tshepobogopa5645 Жыл бұрын

    This is Tough Most Men are not taught these or exposed early to this

  • @kethabiledazuka5368
    @kethabiledazuka5368 Жыл бұрын

    Papa action💃💃💃😂😂

  • @suzethngutonua6908
    @suzethngutonua6908 Жыл бұрын

    Papa action😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂good one!

  • @NatashaShapolaMwamba-ny9vy
    @NatashaShapolaMwamba-ny9vy11 ай бұрын

    #loadshedding #Papasction. Men litsen to Mr. Mahks be Papa action🤣❤loved it❤ The last remark about your sex life was unforseen,but it was the cherry on top made me giggle. Adore you both 🎉

  • @zizogxowa7446
    @zizogxowa7446 Жыл бұрын

    Not Papa Action chile🤣😂. Guys, please not Papa Action abeg😂Do we know who Papa Action is guys😂🫢? But,I love the sentiment and 100% agree.

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    Жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂 Ma 80s know😂😂

  • @maphefomalatji2226
    @maphefomalatji2226 Жыл бұрын

    Papa action 🤣🤣🤣 I love it here.🥹

  • @kholofelohope3540
    @kholofelohope3540 Жыл бұрын

    Load shedding bathong 😂 Papa Action 😅

  • @mayanacosar1900
    @mayanacosar1900 Жыл бұрын

    papa action😆

  • @nomkhosimchunu4744
    @nomkhosimchunu4744 Жыл бұрын

    Papa action! 😂❤

  • @shamiso_t
    @shamiso_t Жыл бұрын

    😂😂Eskom bathong. Papa Action. Norr this was very informative 😅

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    Жыл бұрын

    Eskom e re tshwere ka di washene!😂😂😂

  • @PalesaV
    @PalesaV2 ай бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @bonolomabaso9611
    @bonolomabaso9611 Жыл бұрын

    Papa action

  • @sindysibanda1841
    @sindysibanda1841 Жыл бұрын

    Loadshedding❤❤

  • @teemtshali9411
    @teemtshali9411 Жыл бұрын

    Papa Action😂😂❤❤

  • @nitagh-9451
    @nitagh-9451 Жыл бұрын

    Papa action 😂❤️

  • @KhanyiMsibi
    @KhanyiMsibi Жыл бұрын

    Papa Action 😂😂❤

  • @andybizzle4376
    @andybizzle4376 Жыл бұрын

    #PapaAction

  • @zamandlela5417
    @zamandlela5417 Жыл бұрын

    Just here to say, papa action! lol

  • @theotherside602
    @theotherside602 Жыл бұрын

    Had this conversation with my husband not so long agao😊😊😊

  • @temalangenimachethe6944
    @temalangenimachethe6944 Жыл бұрын

    Eish Fam. Maybe I was in the wrong frame of mind to absorb....I struggled to follow in today's instalment. Let me watch again in a few days. Love💕

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    Жыл бұрын

    Please do watch again❤️…

  • @daisylillian594
    @daisylillian594 Жыл бұрын

    Load shedding

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    Жыл бұрын

    😂😂❤️❤️

  • @oaratwalesedi-mmopi8573
    @oaratwalesedi-mmopi8573 Жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂okay Usher and Alicia ❤❤❤ ke a le rata

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    Жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂 we love you!

  • @shamiso_t
    @shamiso_t Жыл бұрын

    33:30😅nkosi yam😂😂😭🤣❤️

  • @nalediliphapang7429
    @nalediliphapang7429 Жыл бұрын

    Loadshedding 😂❤️

  • @TheMakhs

    @TheMakhs

    Жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂❤️

  • @mrsh4527
    @mrsh4527 Жыл бұрын

    Loadshadding/papa action