Lawyers Jaypee Calleja, Patty Santa Maria argue for and against divorce law

Lawyers Joseph Peter “Jaypee” Calleja and Patricia Anne “Patty” Sta. Maria explain their arguments to oppose and to favor, respectively, the absolute divorce bill.
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  • @eidyl5560
    @eidyl556025 күн бұрын

    I love how Atty. Sta Maria delivered her argument. It's so relatable and easy to understand esp this statement "We do not put fire exits in buildings in hopes that the building will burn down". 👏

  • @kalawagisulan

    @kalawagisulan

    25 күн бұрын

    argument on emotion.

  • @PewPewJet

    @PewPewJet

    22 күн бұрын

    @@kalawagisulan no. Argument on logic. An analogy. Argument of pro-divorce as pure self-happiness. Why marry on the first place if the back up plan was exiting. 🤣

  • @ANNAANNA-ln5qi

    @ANNAANNA-ln5qi

    18 күн бұрын

    ​@@PewPewJetwhy exitlng if there no fire ?

  • @nobumnow

    @nobumnow

    17 күн бұрын

    why require fire exits if you don't expect fire burning your house?

  • @handheld0214

    @handheld0214

    17 күн бұрын

    @@kalawagisulan??? You are so wrong

  • @DonnaNunez-wi2vk
    @DonnaNunez-wi2vk20 күн бұрын

    coming from a dysfunctional family, I can truly say how impenetrable that facade is. We looked like a normal family on the outside, my parents served at the church on Sundays but the people around didn't know the terror wrought upon us by that person. Even my mother's family didn't know until her sister had been unfortunate enough to have been caught on the end of his rage.

  • @celfedealeligay402
    @celfedealeligay40220 күн бұрын

    Yes to divorce bill plz.😢 Ang tagal q ng hiwalay.nkatali prin gang s ngaun.tama n ang phirap 😢bigyan nyo po aq mkawala s trauma 😢😢😢😢

  • @TobiUchiha-hz1nu

    @TobiUchiha-hz1nu

    20 күн бұрын

    Bigyan kita ng gunting

  • @marissaandres844

    @marissaandres844

    17 күн бұрын

    Me too mas masarap maging single ulit forever tutal matanda na tayo kasi nakaka trauma.kung gusto nila mag asawa ulit it's their choice diba?😃

  • @dll7658

    @dll7658

    12 күн бұрын

    😢

  • @johnvista2858

    @johnvista2858

    6 күн бұрын

    Pakasal pa ng hindi nag iisip tas sino sisihin nyo gobyerno? Mabuti yan magdusa kayo alam nyo kubg ano ka banal ang kasal pinagisipan nyo dapat yan ng maayos at hindi ng padalos dalos.

  • @celfedealeligay402

    @celfedealeligay402

    6 күн бұрын

    @@johnvista2858 d Po aq kasal pina sign lng aq s papel n prang birth certificate at pinracis n x.never Po aq nkaranas Ng kasal kit San sulok Ng mundo.s pag durusa labis labis n kya dpt lng n layasan ang mga taong toxic,hindi healthy relationship.dq po deserve un pra s tabi nya mamatay...ung mga taong sarado ang utak at hunghang d nyo kailangan manahimik nlng.d k u nakakatulong.s taong ned ang divorce pra mamuhay Ng my peace of mind.

  • @alejandrogozon8578
    @alejandrogozon857820 күн бұрын

    There is nothing in the plain text of the 1987 Constitution that prohibits divorce. So to say that divorce is unconstitutional is to add something that is not written into the fundamental law. Atty. Sta Maria's argument is very logical, legally crisp so to speak. We cannot even invoke Biblical passages to prohibit divorce because that is tantamount to imposing something to those who have different spiritual orientation or no orientation at all . The constitution is for all, believers and non believers.

  • @skyscraper5287
    @skyscraper528715 күн бұрын

    Pass the divorce law. My parents were better when they decided to separate. Definitely, it wasn't easy for us kids but they made sure that their kids were taken care of. They have accepted their fate that they will never gonna end up together. I can't imagine the life we have now if they were still living together and forcing things would work out. I'm happy where they are now, compared to the life I had when they were together.

  • @scout11238
    @scout1123824 күн бұрын

    Very good arguments from Atty. Sta. Maria! Yes to divorce!

  • @banquo80s99
    @banquo80s9925 күн бұрын

    According to Forbes Advisor, 43% of first marriages in the United States end in divorce, with even higher rates for second (60%) and third (73%) marriages. Now, close to 75% of juvenile delinquents come from these broken families. Just imagine the social costs of that divorce may impose.

  • @beautifullycreatable

    @beautifullycreatable

    24 күн бұрын

    Salamat

  • @WillOcampo

    @WillOcampo

    24 күн бұрын

    My question is, is it because of the divorce or the fact and the reasons why they get the divorce course, I mean if the family is under abuse then it is the abuse that cause why the child is delinquent not the divorce,

  • @PewPewJet

    @PewPewJet

    23 күн бұрын

    True. Lets set USA as an example or case study of this divorce. Even Jeffrey Dahmer is a product of a divorced family.

  • @rommeljedpoli6570

    @rommeljedpoli6570

    22 күн бұрын

    This is a solid data to be used in the argument against divorce.

  • @PewPewJet

    @PewPewJet

    22 күн бұрын

    @@banquo80s99 divorce rates in the USA should be used as a case study as to why to avoid divorce law. Especially we are ONLY A THIRD WORLD COUNTRY. Also do you know Jeffrey Dahmer was a product of divorced family?

  • @immabelza607
    @immabelza60725 күн бұрын

    Very enlightening.

  • @cegiehd
    @cegiehd24 күн бұрын

    Passing the Divorce Bill will not contradict the constitution, because as Sta. Maria said, the instruction is to PROTECT. It will not violate marriages because that's not the state's job. Marriage is between the 2 people involved, the state merely declares them to be a valid couple. The things that destroy or violate marriages are between those people. Hence, divorce can merely be a safeguard for those affected by destroyed marriages, not for those that are thriving. I was married, legally still am, but I've been separated for 8yrs now with a pervert of a husband who had caused me so much mental and emotional anguish. Staying stuck in an absent marriage when I want to be free to love someone else and be happy with someone else forces me to violate laws if I were to end up with someone else. Staying stuck in a loveless marriage creates more anguish and anxiety, more mental, emotional, if not physical and financial distress.. The govt must remember that it is ALSO the State's job to protect not just the marriage, but also the people, the individuals involved in those marriages. That was what Calleja did not address. The Divorce Bill needs to be passed as it is a means to protect the individuals from destroyed marriages. And those saying "you shouldn't have gotten married in the first place" or "why did you get married if you wanted to divorce," first off, odds are you're either single or still bitter from a failed relationship. You obviously don't get into something seeing the full picture. You obviously dont get into something knowing everything about it. It's all part of one's experience. It's a journey, and marriage is a journey. So why don't you try getting married. Give us an update after 7-10yrs. If it works great for you, awesome. If not, let us know how you feel.

  • @PewPewJet

    @PewPewJet

    22 күн бұрын

    @@cegiehd why marry tho if ur back up plan was to escape. Why not stay celibate? 🤣 C'mon u are even part of that what you so called "failed relationship" the irony.

  • @arleneestal4661

    @arleneestal4661

    21 күн бұрын

    Yes to Divorce 17yrs separated here from a very violent ex husband

  • @Leiiiian

    @Leiiiian

    21 күн бұрын

    Well said! Yes to Divorce!

  • @cegiehd

    @cegiehd

    20 күн бұрын

    @@PewPewJet whoever said anything about a back up plan? You don't get married to get separated. Clearly,, you didn't understand a word that was said.

  • @cegiehd

    @cegiehd

    20 күн бұрын

    @@arleneestal4661 I'm sorry you had to go through that, but glad you're out of it.

  • @thegreytrekker
    @thegreytrekker24 күн бұрын

    I love the first exit analogy.

  • @AnnSese-kc3or
    @AnnSese-kc3or11 күн бұрын

    YES TO DIVORCE PLS!

  • @castransfin1024
    @castransfin102425 күн бұрын

    how brilliant is Atty. Pat Santa Maria

  • @johnrascal8104
    @johnrascal810425 күн бұрын

    In my opinion, if the Philippines have a divorce law in the future it might be apply for broken marriages and the condition requiremements are in the highest level of justification. There are marriages that the spouses killing one another, we can't force them to live together.

  • @LarDKavila3489

    @LarDKavila3489

    25 күн бұрын

    But no one is forcing. 🤷 We have laws against violence. If we sit longer on the topic, we will all realize we have laws that address different form and expression of abuse, married or not.

  • @user-dd9ki3qf7d

    @user-dd9ki3qf7d

    24 күн бұрын

    😂no to divorce bill,God wag mong pahintulutang mapasa ito,Amen

  • @jeianagtas3699

    @jeianagtas3699

    24 күн бұрын

    @@user-dd9ki3qf7d Edi dun ka sa GOD mo. Kung di para sa inyo ung divorce, THEN DONT GET ONE. wala ka naman nakitang "Mandatory" diba? Puro kayo GOD/

  • @linja3946
    @linja394625 күн бұрын

    Inviolable does pertain to the family institution itself where the government needs to protect, but it does not necessarily means that having a divorce law would diminish, tarnish or disrespect the institution because we have the Bill Of Rights which means every individual has equal rights to resolutions and remedies of the law applicable to a safe, peaceful and ideal environment.

  • @Thrive-vs3wr
    @Thrive-vs3wr24 күн бұрын

    Simple pero tumatak ang lahat ng sinabi ni Atty Patty.❤

  • @custodytv397
    @custodytv39723 күн бұрын

    Ang galing mo atty patty Sta Maria! Mabuhay ka!

  • @yuridelossantos569
    @yuridelossantos56925 күн бұрын

    divorce law should be allowed because there are marriages that don't work out. No spouses will separate unless they wish it. Spouses who have strong bond, whatever you do, you can't separate them no matter what. when spouses go for divorce, that means before they talked about it, they are already separated. it's the opposite of marriage contract. couple don't get together because of marriage contract.

  • @beautifullycreatable

    @beautifullycreatable

    24 күн бұрын

    As u saud it, 2 persons do not go to marriage as merely a contract - it is a commitment to love and a commitment to work for the family together. If they do not want that commitment, then do not marry.

  • @yuridelossantos569

    @yuridelossantos569

    24 күн бұрын

    @@beautifullycreatable not wanting to have commitment does not cause not to marry. the goal of divorce is not for the one who continuously love and honored what he/she committed, but for the other spouse who is lost n refuses to amend perpetually.

  • @rosemi719

    @rosemi719

    24 күн бұрын

    It's unconstitutional tho 😂

  • @rod1987
    @rod198716 күн бұрын

    But Will Contradict the Law of God who is Sovereign Ruler of the Universe, it's not about the church but about a God supposedly ruling us all in Theocratic way

  • @reginaldosano6593

    @reginaldosano6593

    15 күн бұрын

    I believe in God and I pray. But you know my friend that is the IDEAL. Na put God in the center. But it does not happen always. Even marriage counselling may di umuubra dyan. There are certain percentages of "failed marriages" you cannot deny that. So would you blame them kasi they did not follow God's words or try their best to save their marriage? And mahabang discussion yan - "Contradict The Law of God".

  • @sumbodi9533
    @sumbodi953324 күн бұрын

    Remember not all marriage works ,do not wait till insane happen.

  • @ricklentless
    @ricklentless14 күн бұрын

    People failed to understand the sacred of marriage itself. One thing that ruin it because the reason of marriage itself.. unwanted pregnancy, premarital sex, etc. If the meaning of sacred is no longer there then marriage it’s just matter of paper, while we forget that marriage life is God’s plan for us. I disagree with her analogy about “Fire Plan”. Still, I can’t judge people who want to divorce.

  • @user-vc5wl7uq2x
    @user-vc5wl7uq2x21 күн бұрын

    I’m for Atty. Calleja’s arguments, very logical. The constitutional interpretation and even the rules of statutory construction were clearly cited. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @neiltristanyabut

    @neiltristanyabut

    16 күн бұрын

    no, they're not yung mag-asawa na nga mismo may ayaw, inviolable pa ba yun? nagbabatuhan na nga, protected by the state pa ba yun?

  • @user-vc5wl7uq2x

    @user-vc5wl7uq2x

    16 күн бұрын

    @@neiltristanyabut Did you studied law? Who the hell cares about your opinion without a legal basis 🤮🤡

  • @gieannmahinay8876

    @gieannmahinay8876

    10 күн бұрын

    True​@@neiltristanyabut

  • @myribstellmesheslying
    @myribstellmesheslying12 күн бұрын

    At this point, I don't understand why we still don't have divorce here. Is it because of a law that was made by MEN in the time where 14-year old women were legally married? Is it because of religion, that people believe it is sanctimonious in the eyes of God? So, if I say I don't believe in God, shouldn't I be exempt from YOUR belief? If you don't believe marriage should be dissolved at any given time, then don't freaking divorce. Let the option to end a something be available to everyone if and when that something was not working anymore. Abuse, both physical and emotional, is a very real reason why we should have this. Heck, even happiness. If both parties don't see a future with each anymore, what is the point? Because PEOPLE outside of the relationship are against it? Apakabobo, nakakairita.

  • @priscacanares-bp8iy
    @priscacanares-bp8iy25 күн бұрын

    ❤❤❤"the family is the basic unit of the society" meaning if the family is broken, what kind of society will there be. therefore instead of having a divorce law the government should create/make programs that would strenghten/protect marriages. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @beautifullycreatable

    @beautifullycreatable

    24 күн бұрын

    Exactly

  • @TheDailyBugle66

    @TheDailyBugle66

    24 күн бұрын

    Is it possible to have broken families without divorce? Do broken families exist even without divorce? If yes, then what are you arguing about. Is the only thing keeping families from “breaking” is that there is no divorce?

  • @priscacanares-bp8iy

    @priscacanares-bp8iy

    24 күн бұрын

    @@TheDailyBugle66 yesss maam/sir. could you not imagine how a wife would feel knowing her husband has an affair with another woman/women? is it not possible that this wife would go insane after a lot of heartbreak. it would probably be not too bad if the husband would continue to give financial support and what about the feelings of the children, looking at their mother's condition, worse if financially he fails to support the family. what kind of children will there be in the community. could you not antipate/forsee the quantity of chilren/young/adult who could become additional problem to the community. worst if the husband could not be linked to only one woman but to more women and bore more children. 🙏🙏🙏philippines is not a rich country so how could divorce be possible. do please please please reflect on it🙏🙏🙏

  • @TheDailyBugle66

    @TheDailyBugle66

    24 күн бұрын

    @@priscacanares-bp8iy you make no sense, so no to divorce because then there is no support? So maybe the solution is in the divorce itself, where assets are settled and financial support is determined? That is how it is done in other countries too right?

  • @priscacanares-bp8iy

    @priscacanares-bp8iy

    21 күн бұрын

    @@TheDailyBugle66 yesss of course to rich countries but to poor countries where most of the people are jobless, could hardly even feed their own mouths, ,what properties/assets could be settled? and what financial support could be determined? hellllloooooowwww!!!!!!!!!!!! let us please be realistic🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @isaiahceasarbie5318
    @isaiahceasarbie531813 күн бұрын

    From the legal perspective, “constitutionality precedes necessity or benefits.”

  • @sai600
    @sai60020 күн бұрын

    Kelangan talaga may ateneo humble brag intro

  • @butchfajardo8832
    @butchfajardo883223 күн бұрын

    Debate with counties with divorce!

  • @lifeabroad4144
    @lifeabroad414423 күн бұрын

    7 years ago i got married with my foreign husband and after 1 year of being married he cheated me and keft me with my son who is new born.. Till now no communication and support from him😢

  • @Rayrey1984
    @Rayrey198422 күн бұрын

    Absolute divorce para tapus na ang usapan Sus maryusip wala namang pang support ang ama anong gagawin aber?hayaang mag nganga kasama mga anak ganun ba yung mga againts sa divorced?kaya tama na para makahinga naman ang mga kababaihan na my pangarap para sa future ng mga anak nila

  • @i_aatienza7220
    @i_aatienza722014 күн бұрын

    If one will think of only of themselves and not your children's trauma when one get divorced, you will favor divorce... if the parents can't endure marriage, the children will learn not to endure anything. Marriage is a vow and sacred, dont get married if you dont know its hardships. "Ang pag aasawa ay hindi kanin isusubo na pag napaso ay iluluwa". Sa harapan ng room na walang fire exit may nakalagay... " wag pumasok kng ayaw mapaso"

  • @pryingeyes3430
    @pryingeyes343025 күн бұрын

    Unahin sana yung anti dynasty law as stated on the constitution before this dividing bill. Nothing more damaging to a nation than a corrupt political dynasties who feds on the lowly and innocent people.

  • @Nobody_Roronoa_Zoro
    @Nobody_Roronoa_Zoro13 күн бұрын

    👏

  • @jericofloresfernandezferna6285
    @jericofloresfernandezferna628524 күн бұрын

    Atty Calleja good job.

  • @neiltristanyabut

    @neiltristanyabut

    16 күн бұрын

    paano naging good job?

  • @celfedealeligay402
    @celfedealeligay40220 күн бұрын

    My pag asa p po b aq maging msaya?😢nkatali po aq s kapirasong papel n d nmn aq nkasal.gus2 q nmn po mkawala s situation n nagpahirap s akin nuon p gng s ngaun 😢😢help po msakit s akin n nagaantay s divorce bill sna free po pra s mga nangangailangan tulad q.ipagkaloob nyo po soon dahil matanda n po aq at hangad q po my peace of mind.😢😢😢😢

  • @THEVERSESPOT
    @THEVERSESPOT25 күн бұрын

    Divorce in the Philippines is only for the rich who can afford the expenses involved in the process from getting the services of a lawyer to the filing and court hearings appurtenant to it, just like annulment. The lower and middle classes cannot afford it, which is why, in my opinion, it will not be an effective solution to marital problems.

  • @ethokjonesies

    @ethokjonesies

    25 күн бұрын

    so what's your solution? all remedies require resources. Divorce when legalized will have a more accessible threshold compared to Annulment.

  • @JoejoeReference

    @JoejoeReference

    25 күн бұрын

    "Chemotherapy is often accessible only to the rich, with the lower and middle classes often not being able to afford it. Therefore, it is not an effective treatment for cancer." If the problem here is accessibility then the focus should be on lowering barriers to those not in the upper classes, not just outright giving up on any hope of making this country a better place

  • @jericoeugenio4635

    @jericoeugenio4635

    25 күн бұрын

    Tapos mai scam pa nag bayad na ng mahal para annulment maiscam pa 😂 pera pera lang talaga. Mga mukang pera. Pinipilit ang annulment para pagkaperahan

  • @TechSavant360
    @TechSavant36023 күн бұрын

    Ayon kay Atty. Jaypee Calleja, ang Absolute Divorce Bill ay naglalayong magbigay ng mas mabilis at mas murang paraan para sa mga mag-asawa na wakasan ang kanilang kasal. Layunin nitong protektahan ang mga nasa mapang-abusong relasyon at magbigay ng legal na opsyon upang makalaya sa mga walang pag-asang sitwasyon. Ito ay isang malaking hakbang para sa karapatan ng mga kababaihan at kalalakihan na nasa ganitong sitwasyon

  • @aaronsalazar6734
    @aaronsalazar673421 күн бұрын

    lawyers makes simple things complicated!

  • @gerichovillamin9303
    @gerichovillamin930324 күн бұрын

    "Constitutionality precedes necessity." What a powerful statement! Kudos to Atty. Calleja for his very strong and logical arguments against divorce. Without appealing to the emotion nor getting support from religion, he was able to highlight the unconstitutionality of divorce.

  • @TheDailyBugle66

    @TheDailyBugle66

    24 күн бұрын

    He’s not really arguing against divorce, he’s just stating the technicalities against it. There’s no substance, just techinicalities.

  • @francisallensolis257

    @francisallensolis257

    8 күн бұрын

    I agree

  • @sumbodi9533
    @sumbodi953324 күн бұрын

    We have the right to scape from family of aggressive and detrimental to our health and growth..go with divorce law .

  • @almamorula863
    @almamorula86324 күн бұрын

    Ipasa nyo na lang ang divorce bill ...saka nyo na lang pagnilayan ang sinabi ni Hesus "kaya binigyan kayo ni Moses ng divorce paper dahil sa katigasan ng inyong ulo." Ipasa na, saka na lang kayo magnilay. Goodluck!

  • @axexexel2672
    @axexexel267221 күн бұрын

    ipasa nyo na yang divorce bill pra maging legal na kami ng kumare ko..

  • @felipecostillas3798
    @felipecostillas379824 күн бұрын

    I'm for absolute divorce... this issue is long overdue...it has to put into rest..." don't impose your belief on other people, because it is unfair.."..

  • @PewPewJet

    @PewPewJet

    21 күн бұрын

    @@felipecostillas3798 how about imposing the idea of broken family to kids his/her? Hypocrisy. Selfish

  • @felipecostillas3798

    @felipecostillas3798

    21 күн бұрын

    @@PewPewJet sorry, I'm not a guidance counsellor, im not well position to answer that question..

  • @PewPewJet

    @PewPewJet

    21 күн бұрын

    @@felipecostillas3798 but you are a parent, a sibling, an aunt/uncle, who doesnt feel sorry for the kids broken home/family? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @rrrast8934

    @rrrast8934

    19 күн бұрын

    those people are just delusional,,it doesn't mean its ok for you, then ok for someone else,,if vatican and philippines the only country with no divorce and yet a country with bunch of corrupt but so religious,,then i dont know what;s with the mentality of anti divorce then,,if it is for the good of whole?

  • @MN-pb2gw

    @MN-pb2gw

    18 күн бұрын

    Ang pinag sama ng Diyos hindi dapat paghiwalayin ng tao. Nasa bible po yan

  • @myribstellmesheslying
    @myribstellmesheslying12 күн бұрын

    Gusto ko yung sinira muna ni Attorney yung argument ni kuya Attorney na puro Constitution Constitution blah-blah-blah, not about the people at all. Tapos tinapos niya with very strong analogies.

  • @bok3246
    @bok324624 күн бұрын

    If only fancy words, good grammar and diction could feed the poor and hungry.

  • @keepcalm3275
    @keepcalm327524 күн бұрын

    Basta! Kilalanin ang lalaki at babaeng asawahin!!! Kung dumating yong araw na ayaw ka na niya! Layasan!

  • @PewPewJet

    @PewPewJet

    22 күн бұрын

    @@keepcalm3275 dapat po wag ka pag makalat ng lahi.

  • @ddm1190
    @ddm119024 күн бұрын

    Bigyan na natin ng hustisya un mag aswang hindi na tlg magkasundo,,hindi lahat ng swerte pagdating sa relasyon ay katulad mo.

  • @andrewlim6816
    @andrewlim681625 күн бұрын

    The key here is marriage is a sacrament. Proponents of the divorce law see this as just a way of ending a marriage and starting anew. Marriage is not for everyone hence before entering one, one should have a discernment of what one is getting into. God bless!

  • @reginaldosano6593

    @reginaldosano6593

    15 күн бұрын

    "Marriage is not for everyone hence before entering one, one should have a discernment of what one is getting into. hence before entering one, one should have a discernment of what one is getting into." --- Easier said than Done! 🙂. Lahat ng ikinasal SUMUMPA SILA NG "TILL DEATH TO US PART." Lahat yan maski-anong DISCERNMENT YAN - GOD's or PEOPLE way - they would say ready na sila at sila ay nag-mamahalan at walang makakasira and di sila maghihiwalay. Lahat yan pare. 🙂. Remember there is a pre-marriage counselling (required) both spiritual and professional bago ikasal ang groom and bride. And it would last 3 to 4 hours. There are successful marriages and there are failed marriages. That's the reality. "Marriage is not for everyone?" - O common tell that to the marines or kay Mang Maryo or kay Aling Iska. 🙂

  • @henrydelosata9403
    @henrydelosata940315 күн бұрын

    You are argue because according to the constitution.how about those more than 190 country you think there is no constitution on there country

  • @MN-pb2gw

    @MN-pb2gw

    13 күн бұрын

    Ang pinapag sama ng Diyos ay hindi dapat papag hiwalayin ng tao. Nasa bible yan at 90% ng filipino ay Christians. Hindi tayo dapat tumulad sa mga liberated countries

  • @maryannbolanos948
    @maryannbolanos94824 күн бұрын

    For those who are adhering to Absolute Divorce, why did you ever plan to get married in the first place?

  • @PewPewJet

    @PewPewJet

    22 күн бұрын

    @@maryannbolanos948 true. Collect and collect. Trophy. 🤣

  • @geramglennlompon1718

    @geramglennlompon1718

    22 күн бұрын

    Did you watch the argument? Watch again.

  • @rollylansamarita2557

    @rollylansamarita2557

    21 күн бұрын

    Divorce is an OPTION! An option that YOU can choose not to choose,,

  • @PewPewJet

    @PewPewJet

    21 күн бұрын

    @@rollylansamarita2557 No. You have an option not to get married and ruin a kid's childhood. 🤣

  • @rollylansamarita2557

    @rollylansamarita2557

    21 күн бұрын

    @@PewPewJet you are missing the point lol,, marriage it self is an option,, however when you entered it you should also have an option to be out of it because of abuse, cheating, and exploitation that you might suffer from it..

  • @jericoeugenio4635
    @jericoeugenio463525 күн бұрын

    #YESTODIVORCE❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Rayrey1984
    @Rayrey198422 күн бұрын

    My annulment nga kaso nadi naman lahat mapag bigyan kahit makalbo kana jan sakaka file mu kung wala kang kapit waley din kaya real talk tayo senate wag puro plano la namang nagaganap

  • @creestee08
    @creestee0813 күн бұрын

    sana may study kung mas maganda bang myembro ng society ang mga anak na lumaki kasama ang magulang kumpara sa hiwalay na magulang. dun ako sa positive sa kids. sa mag-asawa, wala akong pake at matatanda na mga yan. dun ako sa mga bata.

  • @user-pw9yj5nd9p
    @user-pw9yj5nd9p24 күн бұрын

    di mapapag usapan ang mga ganitong bagay kung iaalay natin sa panginoon ang pagsasama ng mag asawa. kailangan ang panginoon ay kasama sa buhay mag asawa. sa bibliya nasusulat kung pano magsama ang mag asawa. 100% walang maghihiwalay... all Glory to God 🛐

  • @butchfajardo8832
    @butchfajardo883223 күн бұрын

    If we don't have a divorce law that even our poorest people can afford, don't get married. If you get married and your marriage fails, you are the ones to be blamed!

  • @kitarendain3411
    @kitarendain341124 күн бұрын

    Hopefully, Filipinos will be awaken from a long sleep.... For those single people, DO NOT ENGAGE in marriage.. because there is not exit door provided by the law... Mag-live in nlng kayu.

  • @jericoeugenio4635
    @jericoeugenio463525 күн бұрын

    #YesToDivorce ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ThePilgrim_Redeemed
    @ThePilgrim_Redeemed25 күн бұрын

    The world’s morality is towards the pit of misery… i pray Filipinos will not follow suit. #NoToDivorce

  • @beautifullycreatable

    @beautifullycreatable

    24 күн бұрын

    Sabi nga ni Fr Ripperger, all socities will go down that road. Ang tanong is hanggang kailan naten ipaglalaban at poprotektahan ang ating pinangangalagang magagandang asal at prinsipyo.

  • @jeromechickboy7919
    @jeromechickboy791923 күн бұрын

    #yestodivorce

  • @HendrickAlbina
    @HendrickAlbina25 күн бұрын

    The Bernas argument got destroyed 🎉

  • @CrisostomoIbarra3835
    @CrisostomoIbarra383518 күн бұрын

    The highest law on the land is the will of the people. People created the Constitution and people voted for the current constitution. It is not the other way around.

  • @MarkPaul-y2d

    @MarkPaul-y2d

    16 күн бұрын

    The highest law on the land is 10 Commandments and Law of God..What God has United in Marriage, let no man divide..that includes you .divorce is Satan's agenda to destroy family and destroy marriage..divorce is not the answer..the family that prays together stay together

  • @CrisostomoIbarra3835

    @CrisostomoIbarra3835

    16 күн бұрын

    @@MarkPaul-y2d times like these remind me of the importance of the separation of the church and state. Ethically, the golden rule can be the guiding principle as every religion has a version of it.

  • @lolitodocallos1223

    @lolitodocallos1223

    15 күн бұрын

    yes it is true that the people created the constitution. But bear in mind that, if what you said, that the "will of the people should be paramount" over a law. Then we will going to have an anarchy where every one can do what he wills. It is the main reason why we created the government and our constitution and laws. For instance one person wants or will to get someone's property, without the government/constitution or laws. What do you think will happen?? Government is created so that excesses of our free will could be contained. Laws are passed so that we have proper ways on how to achieve things or work without doing/resorting to violence. If we only allow what the "people will" then we are all fuck_d up thats for sure. Bcoz not every one will agree on all things. It is the law that kept us from doing that, from going into the direction of anarchy. Therefore it should be the constitution that should always be followed. And not just what idea/propaganda is being popular today. The state should protect its constituents from what is called "impulsive behaviors" or those demagogues who are riding on popular issues like this one. The state should always prioritize what is best for the constituents not just today but for the generations to come. If they want to have a divorce they first have to change the constitutional provision regarding divorce or else it will be constitutional.

  • @daviddee7175
    @daviddee717525 күн бұрын

    Dahil marami sa atin ay nasa mababang level ng economy, lalaki lang ang problema kung may divorce. Magkano ang pa korte, yung suporta sa mga anak at iba pa na resposibilidad ng magasawa sa pamilya. Kung marirap ka, paano matutustusan ito? Kailangan ata explika sa mamayan kung ano ang pros & cons ng diborsyo at mag pa plebisito ang estado, di lang ang iilan sa kongreso.

  • @efrencabasal5093
    @efrencabasal509325 күн бұрын

    Someday we all filipinos will understand how important divorce is. It's applicable for all failed marriage & better solution to all mankind.

  • @butchfajardo8832
    @butchfajardo883223 күн бұрын

    Funny, you debate on divorce but you don't debate on battered wives and irresponsible parents!

  • @PewPewJet

    @PewPewJet

    22 күн бұрын

    @@butchfajardo8832 di ba responsibilidad mo na kilalanin mo muna magiging partner mo bago mo asawahin? If later nya pinakita kung anong totoong ugali nya kasalanan mo na yun. Papalakihin mo sa broken family mga anak mo. Just for selfish reason and lack of diligence to know the partner thoroughly

  • @butchfajardo8832

    @butchfajardo8832

    22 күн бұрын

    @@PewPewJet, tanungin mo mga binubog na misis. Hindi mo malalaman kapag mag jowa pa kayo na nang bubugbog siya! Lalabas lang yun kapag kasal na kayo! Yes, it's your job na kumilatis pero hindi mo malalaman kung sadya kang niloloko! Sa huli mo nalang malalaman! Kapag kasal ka na!

  • @butchfajardo8832

    @butchfajardo8832

    22 күн бұрын

    @@PewPewJet, malinaw na wala ka pang alam sa pag pili ng asawa. Tip ko sa iyo, mag pakilatis ka sa mga old folks! Baka magulat ka na wala ka pang alam sa pag ibig at pag pili ng asawa!

  • @butchfajardo8832

    @butchfajardo8832

    22 күн бұрын

    @@PewPewJet, how sure are you na yung pinili mo eh nag papakita ng true colors niya? Ito ang isa na tanungin mo sa mga old folks natin!

  • @PewPewJet

    @PewPewJet

    22 күн бұрын

    @@butchfajardo8832 then its the problem of the deceived. Kaya nga may kasabihan, walang maloloko kung hindi magpagpapaloko. Responsilidad naten hukayin lahat ng baho ng mapapangasawa.

  • @sumbodi9533
    @sumbodi953324 күн бұрын

    You have to ask the person's involved not those who.do not experienced irreversible couple relationship..peace of mind to both parties should be considered.family should live harmonious not chaos..broken family for such long time will never be the same again it needs to be settled accdg to their conscience..Phil's need divorce law

  • @rosemi719

    @rosemi719

    24 күн бұрын

    What no 😂 it has more cons than pro plus it's unconstitutional

  • @lolitodocallos1223

    @lolitodocallos1223

    15 күн бұрын

    if the law is passed, remember its not only married will be affected by divorce law, but those who will also get married in the future.

  • @TeacherMacky
    @TeacherMacky20 күн бұрын

    Divorce in any form is natural. Separations are inevitable. Enough of the latin! It doesn’t impress the audience. Outdated.

  • @jericoeugenio4635
    @jericoeugenio463525 күн бұрын

    Ako nga catholic pero hindi na ko naniniwala sa kanila.😂 sino bang Diyos ang may gustong magkapatayan ang mag asawa? Tapos pinayagan ang annulment pero divorce hindi? 😂 nakakatawa. Dahil ng sa kapirasong papel, swerte naman ng mag bebenefits na kahit matagal na kayong hiwalay sya pa din makakakuha😅 ayusin nyo batas nyo wag puro pera. May annulment nga sobrang tagal mahal na sobrang tagal pang maipasa. Halatang pinagkakaperahan lang 😂 #YesToDivorce

  • @DominicBanayos

    @DominicBanayos

    24 күн бұрын

    True may mga tao kasing mababa Pag iisip kaya nga may mga grounds

  • @siboyto
    @siboyto20 күн бұрын

    Atty Santa Maria made a stronger point.

  • @ThePilgrim_Redeemed
    @ThePilgrim_Redeemed25 күн бұрын

    Atty Sta Maria should go back to the Word

  • @Rayrey1984
    @Rayrey198422 күн бұрын

    E kung nag tagalog ka jan edi sana mas maintindihan yang pinaglalaban jan!hahahayy hirap na po ba magtagalog ang lahat? SO ETONG topic na to for the rich people lang talaga ang mga poor at di nakaka intindi ng english jan tabi tabi and pass nalang ang mga ferson

  • @jericoeugenio4635
    @jericoeugenio463525 күн бұрын

    #YESTODIVORCE

  • @rommeljedpoli6570
    @rommeljedpoli657022 күн бұрын

    Makipagpamilya ka tapos sa divorce bubuo ka Uli ng bagong pamilya. Ang dami mo nang pamilya. Unfortunately, I'm for monogamy.

  • @elm7794
    @elm779425 күн бұрын

    Yes to divorce , daming babae ang nag durusa sa mga babaerong asawa,

  • @user-fx2rb1nl9p

    @user-fx2rb1nl9p

    24 күн бұрын

    Lol😂😂😂 mas malala kung hindi lang babaero, lalakero pa...

  • @butchfajardo8832
    @butchfajardo883223 күн бұрын

    Constitution? Sino ba mga nasunod dito? Nasunod ba mga kagustuhan ng taong bayan? Hindi! Sabi noon sa news, "the Philippine constitution is made by the rich for the rich"! Never for the people!

  • @4935.arthur
    @4935.arthur20 күн бұрын

    may batas naman na poprotekta sa mga naaabuso mentally or physically dba? if divorce ay maging batas, baka naman maging abusive ung tao? since may divorce naman, they will tend to hurt their spouses, then do it again again and again. ??

  • @pedritofidel1037
    @pedritofidel103725 күн бұрын

    Bakit sobra ang pagtutol natin sa divorce law! Kung maganda ang takbo ng relationship ng isang pamily, hindi kailangan ito! Bakit hindi natin tignan yung mga pamilya magulo na, na nagsasama lang dahil sa kasal! Meron annulment pero very costly ang proseso! Ang Canada! Nasa nagkaroon sila ng pinaka mababang 5.6% divorce rate sa 1k marriage! Ibig sabihin! Ang divorce ay nagagamit lang na ultimo remedyo sa paghihiwalay! At bago dadaan sa divorce proceedings, may mga proseso pang dadaanan para masalba ang marriage! Let's us interpret the laws liberally, to suit the current needs/situation!

  • @LarDKavila3489

    @LarDKavila3489

    25 күн бұрын

    !!!!!!!! 😅

  • @rosemi719

    @rosemi719

    24 күн бұрын

    We have existing laws to address all of this we don't want a law that can morally bring down the future of other generations

  • @rosemi719

    @rosemi719

    24 күн бұрын

    It will be declared unconstitutional by supreme court the moment it passed 😂 change the Constitution first

  • @aikejesterrelente7450

    @aikejesterrelente7450

    24 күн бұрын

    puro kayu tutol magulo na ngae db di nyu kasi nararanasan kaya gnyn nlang ung pagtotul nyu wlang kwenta batas tlga dito sa pinas sege antayin nyu patayin ung mga babae ng mga kinakasma nila dhil Subra na ung gulo

  • @rrrast8934

    @rrrast8934

    19 күн бұрын

    true, they just so religously believe everything is right and its against GOD's will.But there are no separation of Power of the church and state, It should be a collaborative effort for the good of majority not the chosen few.

  • @TobiUchiha-hz1nu
    @TobiUchiha-hz1nu20 күн бұрын

    Kailan pa ba naging constitutional ang mga mambabatas ntin? 😂😂😂

  • @user-yx9vl4zz8o
    @user-yx9vl4zz8o17 күн бұрын

    Basta isa lang masbai ko, hindi ang tao gumawa ng kasal. Kaya wag nyong salaulaiin ang kasal. Kung kayo inaabuso hiwalayan nyo. Pero wag ma kayong magpakasal kasi di naman kayo sure kung hanggang sa kamatay kayo magsasama ng partner nyo. Married is sacred, kaya kung sakali man na magpapakasal kayo yong naghihingalo na kayo magpakasal para tiyak nyo na di na kayo ulit mag divorce. Dahil sabi sa sinumpaan ng ikinakasal ay till death do us part. Paano ang sinumpaan kung mag divorce pala kayo. Kaya dapat wag na kayo magpakasal kung mag divorce lang naman kayo.

  • @neiltristanyabut

    @neiltristanyabut

    16 күн бұрын

    that's just for christians not all marriages swear on that

  • @sweetmoon4422

    @sweetmoon4422

    10 күн бұрын

    Fyi madami kinakasal na nagkamali kaya nga need ang divorce eh may tao ok lang hangat nililigawan pro once na kayo na madami na mabago

  • @MN-pb2gw
    @MN-pb2gw17 күн бұрын

    Ang pinag sama ng Diyos ay hindi dapat pag hiwalayin ng Tao. Nasa Bible po yan

  • @Vision7728

    @Vision7728

    16 күн бұрын

    Meron na pong annulment sa Pilipinas recognized by the Catholic Church and by the govt. Ano pong pinagkaiba sa divorce?

  • @MN-pb2gw

    @MN-pb2gw

    16 күн бұрын

    @@Vision7728No to Divorce in the Philippines

  • @bobom9141
    @bobom914125 күн бұрын

    the world left Filipinos in the cave

  • @yuridelossantos569

    @yuridelossantos569

    25 күн бұрын

    sometimes it's better to live in the cave than outside of it.

  • @moioioio

    @moioioio

    25 күн бұрын

    ⁠@@yuridelossantos569and that sometimes doesnt apply to this situation. If you want to live in a cave go ahead. Dont enforce your beliefs to the entire population.

  • @yuridelossantos569

    @yuridelossantos569

    25 күн бұрын

    @@moioioio there are things that are more important than that belief of yours.

  • @vermont741

    @vermont741

    25 күн бұрын

    Blame the Catholic Church

  • @kalawagisulan

    @kalawagisulan

    25 күн бұрын

    it prevents you from going back into the cave.

  • @ricesmillo
    @ricesmillo24 күн бұрын

    This law is favour only sa mga walang Love sa puso at sa mga walang kasiyahan sa buhay. Therefore, this must be issued with highly paid in amount. Whether it's conflict or not in a previous law, mostly in the Laws of God.

  • @user-zb4wd3yt6t
    @user-zb4wd3yt6t13 күн бұрын

    So when the divorce bill is passed what will happen to child support. Since many will move on and start new families and many children will not recieve support because the salary is bot enough. I guess we need a law like many western countries that if you dont pay your child support you go to jail.

  • @evaadam3065
    @evaadam306525 күн бұрын

    Mandatory Pre-nup for all, panget, pogi, rich & poor.

  • @violetacampo
    @violetacampo22 күн бұрын

    Being a Christian who believes in the goodness of jesus, I choose to stand by Him. Him, being good, much more hollier than any of us, including those who push for divorce; I will always trust in his goodness and wisdom. God has designed marriage to be sacred; hence, to be respected by all, primarily and especially married couples themselves. I firmly believe that God wants couples to love and respect their espouses and commit themselves to this till death, as they promised in marriage. It is sad and unfortunate that christians who are pro divorce don't seem to realize that divorce is not just a separation between a husband and a wife; it is actually a separation from the Lord. Christians who accept divorce are rejecting Jesus, who himself teaches: "Whatever that God has joined together, let no man separate" How could you claim to be a Christian, and yet rejecting Christ's teachings? Isn't that ironic and hypocritical?

  • @neiltristanyabut

    @neiltristanyabut

    16 күн бұрын

    wala akong pake problema ninyong mga kristiyano lamang yan the Philippines is not a theocracy. so pwede ba, huwag niyong idamay ang buong bansa sa kagaguhan ng kristiyano lamang

  • @MN-pb2gw

    @MN-pb2gw

    15 күн бұрын

    Ang pinag sama ng Diyos ay hindi dapat papag hiwalayin ng tao. Nasa bible po yan at ang Philippines ay Catholic country. Ayaw ng simbahan ng divorce

  • @neiltristanyabut

    @neiltristanyabut

    15 күн бұрын

    @@MN-pb2gw 1. saan mismo sa putanginang bibliya mo? 2. so lahat ba ng gustuhin ng kristiyano sa pilipinas masusunod, ganun ba?

  • @neiltristanyabut

    @neiltristanyabut

    15 күн бұрын

    @@MN-pb2gw hindi gobyerno ang damasong simbahan mo

  • @TobiUchiha-hz1nu
    @TobiUchiha-hz1nu19 күн бұрын

    Divorce law = lawyers will make more money

  • @butchfajardo8832
    @butchfajardo883223 күн бұрын

    This clearly shows that they don't care for the suffering wives and children of our country!

  • @PewPewJet

    @PewPewJet

    21 күн бұрын

    @@butchfajardo8832 lol suffering of kids? Suffering of kids because of broken family how about that? 🤣

  • @JB-rq3gd
    @JB-rq3gd25 күн бұрын

    #NoToDivorce READ BIBLE, WE Are MAJORITY CHRISTIAN..

  • @ThePilgrim_Redeemed
    @ThePilgrim_Redeemed25 күн бұрын

    #NoToDivorce

  • @hildalumalang4388
    @hildalumalang438823 күн бұрын

    Wow👏👏👏👏👏👏👏✌ nice talaga pro divorce po ako.

  • @hildalumalang4388
    @hildalumalang438823 күн бұрын

    Sana po tagalog para maunawaan at maintindihan naming hindi gaanong makaintindi ng divocre pls.

  • @butchfajardo8832
    @butchfajardo883223 күн бұрын

    Funny, you debate on divorce but you don't debate on battered wives and irresponsible parents!

  • @user-vc5wl7uq2x

    @user-vc5wl7uq2x

    21 күн бұрын

    Huh? Don’t we have a law for abandonment like VAWC and child abuse?

  • @JB-rq3gd
    @JB-rq3gd25 күн бұрын

    #NoToDivorce READ BIBLE, WE Are MAJORITY CHRISTIAN..

  • @wehDiNga00

    @wehDiNga00

    25 күн бұрын

    Bawal din naman makiapid o saktan ang mga asawa sabi ng Bible ah. Dami nga dyan mga pari mismo na makasalanan din. Hindi lang dahil sa religion para hindi ipatupad yan. 😂 wala ka na ba mabigat na dahilan dahil lang ba sa christian ka? 😂

  • @fhebielacandula6861

    @fhebielacandula6861

    24 күн бұрын

    but the bible does allow divorce po

  • @bcmountains3070

    @bcmountains3070

    23 күн бұрын

    Sige, no divorce for you kahit na pwedeng one day patayin ka na ng asawa mo sa harapan ng mga anak mo. Alam mo ba ang magiging epekto non sa mental health ng mga anak mo? And in the long run, sa iyo din?

  • @JB-rq3gd
    @JB-rq3gd25 күн бұрын

    #NoToDivorce READ BIBLE, WE Are MAJORITY CHRISTIAN..

  • @user-fx2rb1nl9p

    @user-fx2rb1nl9p

    24 күн бұрын

    May Christian po ba na nangangaliwa? At nanakit physically, mentally n emotionally?

  • @JB-rq3gd
    @JB-rq3gd25 күн бұрын

    #NoToDivorce READ BIBLE, WE Are MAJORITY CHRISTIAN..

  • @JB-rq3gd
    @JB-rq3gd25 күн бұрын

    #NoToDivorce READ BIBLE, WE Are MAJORITY CHRISTIAN..