Last Month I Was Cringe

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Last month I went to cons, had a midlife crisis, and cringed at myself.
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Music: Good Things Brewing by Devil and the Perfects
and Childless Millenials by Tom and @LilDeuceDeuce
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  • @EvilMastermindOfDoom
    @EvilMastermindOfDoom Жыл бұрын

    Having watched years of behind the scenes content, the development in Tom's reaction to hate videos is just beautiful. We love a healing king. Or a healing just normal guy.

  • @daxterquiny

    @daxterquiny

    Жыл бұрын

    +

  • @tby11_

    @tby11_

    Жыл бұрын

    @@daxterquiny yes

  • @neartheplumtree

    @neartheplumtree

    Жыл бұрын

    i agree so much. genuinely very happy for him

  • @bxzwiz8326

    @bxzwiz8326

    Жыл бұрын

    taking stuff at face value rather than, as he describes so well in this video, using it as confirmation of his thoughts is such a huge step forward. I hope Tom realises this change in his perception of himself doesn’t go unnoticed.

  • @samaravasiloff6381

    @samaravasiloff6381

    9 ай бұрын

    Isn’t it also nice that he laughs more often and he’s got a bigger smile nowadays that he displays on his face very often?

  • @HopeTheNiceAngel
    @HopeTheNiceAngel Жыл бұрын

    Hi Tom! No idea if you check these comments but hey, might as well. I was the non-verbal woman who came to your stall at MCM on the Friday and I'd like to thank you for being so understanding of the situation - Even when I was certainly less communicative than others! You were happy to read the prepared cards and take the initiative in talking to me about all the things I wrote about even when I couldn't particularly reply easily. It was a lovely experience to meet you and people aren't lying when they say that hanging around your stall feels like a safe spot in the con halls. Apologies for my face in the pictures - I have incredibly bad resting bitch face and really need to work on making my eyes express emotions rather than looking perpetually tired and dead inside (Though both of those things are true.) Thank you again for being accomodating, and I hope to see you again at October MCM! I'll try and have better cards... And a copy of Bee Movie. I will never let that joke die, no matter how much you want it to.

  • @Una_Ridlow

    @Una_Ridlow

    Жыл бұрын

    This is so wholesome

  • @hotelmario510

    @hotelmario510

    Жыл бұрын

    Are you the one with the sunflower lanyard? If so, I just wanted to say, as a fellow sunflower lanyard wearer, thank you for doing your part in taking our lanyard back from anti-maskers. I am still furious about that.

  • @bandit60g25

    @bandit60g25

    11 ай бұрын

    "resting bitch face" imma save that for later XD

  • @TheQueenOfPotatoes

    @TheQueenOfPotatoes

    11 ай бұрын

    How dare you make me cry by this comment.

  • @HopeTheNiceAngel

    @HopeTheNiceAngel

    11 ай бұрын

    @@hotelmario510 Alas no, that is not me - I did not send any photos in to Tom. But still, screw anti-maskers!

  • @SWAT6809
    @SWAT6809 Жыл бұрын

    The "realizing that you forgot how to think long term because you're used to just surviving another day" hits very close to home, it is a very strange feeling because you're consciously aware that it shouldn't be this way without knowing the other way.

  • @Chazzy0x0

    @Chazzy0x0

    11 ай бұрын

    Yeah that really hit me, I was like wait, I'm not meant to be living day to day? I'm meant to think into the future!?

  • @rosejuliette9180
    @rosejuliette9180 Жыл бұрын

    Pro tip - Don't pluck nose hair. Trim them with rounded scissors. Plucking in that area is particularly prone to infection and irritation. In bad circumstances infections can end in a permanent loss of smell.

  • @lipstick_attack

    @lipstick_attack

    Жыл бұрын

    ☝️I second this

  • @Bruced82

    @Bruced82

    Жыл бұрын

    It's in the danger triangle of the face (mouth - top of the nose), in very rare cases, any infection can travel up the brain, which can be bad...

  • @dovestone_

    @dovestone_

    Жыл бұрын

    Also nose hairs literally filter out in-coming germs so you’ll probably be more prone to colds etc without them

  • @foolishsparky

    @foolishsparky

    Жыл бұрын

    @@RenTheWrenMore paranoia! :D

  • @Rockmaster867

    @Rockmaster867

    Жыл бұрын

    Wouldnt be the worst thing in the world after seeing that grill

  • @Roger44477
    @Roger44477 Жыл бұрын

    Adoption is always a really good option. You aren't bringing a child into a world that might not be able to provide for them, but instead giving a better chance to a child already in this world. And you don't even have to adopt a baby or toddler, but could instead give a home to someone who might be considered "too old" by most prospective parents.

  • @mittenielsen8424

    @mittenielsen8424

    Жыл бұрын

    I wish sometimes adoption would be easier tho.. my sister and her husband werent able to adopt mainly because he had cancer like twice during his life and beat it, but the adoption agency takes that as a red flag bc that means he might get it again.. To begin with the whole reason why they cant get kids is because he got treated with some very strong meds as a child to fight the cancer which he didnt figure out until after he was 30, that those treatments had basically made him sterile

  • @chelli6555
    @chelli6555 Жыл бұрын

    Playing beer pong with tea mugs while the king's coronation is playing in the back is the most British thing I've seen.

  • @Wesyan1999
    @Wesyan1999 Жыл бұрын

    Hey Tom, my dad was 40 when I was born and my mother was 36. Your life doesn't have to progress at the same rate as everyone else

  • @justme-et3sr

    @justme-et3sr

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah, my mum was 30 and my dad was 42 when I was born, I wouldn't say that it's too late for someone to have a child if they think it's right

  • @depressionpie4859

    @depressionpie4859

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah my dad and his wife just had a baby back in September. My dad is 43 and his wife is like 39 I think, idk I don’t talk to her (hence why I refer to her as my dad’s wife and not my stepmom)

  • @TrackpadProductions

    @TrackpadProductions

    Жыл бұрын

    I get that not being as spry as you once were is gonne be distressing and unnerving for anyone, and that for some reason the internet thinks your life is over once your age begins with a 2, but... why is Tom acting like being 32 is _old?_ A 32 y/o is still very much a young person.

  • @justme-et3sr

    @justme-et3sr

    Жыл бұрын

    @@TrackpadProductions well, everyone is going to react differently to their age

  • @mittenielsen8424

    @mittenielsen8424

    Жыл бұрын

    My mom was 39 when she had me and my dad was 42

  • @maddie_1122
    @maddie_1122 Жыл бұрын

    rik having a wii is absolutely fantasic parenting on behalf of eddie

  • @DarkStarCoreX

    @DarkStarCoreX

    Жыл бұрын

    Funnily enough that's what I used to do when I was like 6 years old playing Super Mario Galaxy and I had the spring mushroom on, I'd just jump up and down.

  • @maxresdefault_

    @maxresdefault_

    Жыл бұрын

    If I had a kid I'd totally buy a Wii and play Wii Play with them and their friends when they're old enough haha

  • @Max_The_Flower

    @Max_The_Flower

    Жыл бұрын

    I feel like it’s a nintendo switch and Mario 3D All Stars judging on the way Rik is holding the controller

  • @Thirteenth-cs2cm

    @Thirteenth-cs2cm

    2 ай бұрын

    I used to have a wii but it died :c

  • @livinhere
    @livinhere Жыл бұрын

    "Charlie is bisexual, so I guess she can do that", yes, if anybody is wondering: Bisexual people have the right to do about everything and this is the expressed opinion of me, a bisexual, speaking for every bisexual ever.

  • @goos2024

    @goos2024

    Жыл бұрын

    real

  • @dylanparry8364

    @dylanparry8364

    Жыл бұрын

    As a member of the council we appreciate you as a representative 🫡

  • @mightykingwario

    @mightykingwario

    Жыл бұрын

    This also applies to pansexuals because they are similarly _vewy cool._

  • @shadowcween7890

    @shadowcween7890

    Жыл бұрын

    ​​@@mightykingwario The term " _vewy cool_ " has been copystruck by PanUnited®.

  • @Koichi-Kun

    @Koichi-Kun

    11 ай бұрын

    @@mightykingwarioI envy you guys because you can just date anyone you want

  • @svenluijten
    @svenluijten Жыл бұрын

    Regarding the podcast idea: there's a very similar TV show here in The Netherlands called "Over Mijn Lijk" (translates to "Over My Dead Body") that is basically a mini-documentary that follows terminally ill people (ranging between 14 and 40 years old or so) on what often ends up being their last few months or years. I get that this may sound morbid or grotesque, but it's a lovely show that really puts into perspective everyone's struggles. The maturity some of the youngest terminally ill people show is honestly baffling to witness. If you do decide to do this podcast, I think it'd be a nice way to tell the stories of people we don't often hear about. The points you made about it having to be handled _exceptionally_ carefully are valid, and you'd need a rock solid production crew and a very steady mind going in.

  • @trieuwerts
    @trieuwerts Жыл бұрын

    Hey Tom, the podcast idea is essentially the Dutch program called 'Over mijn lijk' (over my dead body). Over here it was a pretty impactful show and even won a couple of prizes for how they handled the subject. If you can find some of the episodes with English subtitles it might give you an idea on how to handle those conversations.

  • @MarionettePuppetMaster
    @MarionettePuppetMaster Жыл бұрын

    All of us were cringe back then, especially when looking back through previous years when we have little to no experience of what's going on. Also, we can never forget the moment when the TomSka bubbleheads were brought up. Anyways, hope you are doing well, and I can't wait to see what you'll make for a wonderful comeback of your main channel Tom.

  • @justanotheranimeprofilepic

    @justanotheranimeprofilepic

    Жыл бұрын

    If you aren't cringing at yourself from years ago you aren't growing enough as a person

  • @khajiithaswares4147

    @khajiithaswares4147

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@justanotheranimeprofilepic Then i must be growing like all hell because i cringe at things i did 5 minutes ago

  • @neonfroot

    @neonfroot

    11 ай бұрын

    @@justanotheranimeprofilepic Thats an overused phrase people use to cope with arrested development. Also, cringe isnt gonna stop with brain development.

  • @justanotheranimeprofilepic

    @justanotheranimeprofilepic

    11 ай бұрын

    @@neonfroot that wouldn't be a phrase to cope with arrested development it's a phrase against it. Arrested development means you stopped developing but being able to look back and recognize that you're better then you used to be is development. Also yeah obviously cringe doesn't stop because even after your brain stops growing through puberty it is developing, learning from experience, becoming better

  • @Pantsmode
    @Pantsmode Жыл бұрын

    And yet the question still remains what *was* going on with Liam's underwear?

  • @bubbubthealmighty9240

    @bubbubthealmighty9240

    Жыл бұрын

    The Greatest mystery of our generation! What *was* going on?

  • @fangoram29

    @fangoram29

    Жыл бұрын

    He was just gonna go play some sports later obviously

  • @tanakaitoi

    @tanakaitoi

    Жыл бұрын

    Nah just another lad in the “UNTIL THEY’RE RAGS” crew.

  • @ShikiKiryu

    @ShikiKiryu

    Жыл бұрын

    Hes wearing a jockstrap :p

  • @PrettyPinkPeacock

    @PrettyPinkPeacock

    Жыл бұрын

    Worn out and separated from the waistband is what's going on

  • @JadeNeoma
    @JadeNeoma11 ай бұрын

    As a fellow ex-suicidal person the genuine surprise at still being alive still catches me off guard a lot

  • @GalaxyUnicorn

    @GalaxyUnicorn

    11 ай бұрын

    I don’t really consider myself “ex-suicidal” (partially because I kinda had the same “passive suicidal ideation” as Tom, and partially because I do still struggle with it sometimes), but I totally get that as well. Like sometimes, I’ll just stop and be like “Holy shit, how did I survive that?” lol

  • @eggman37
    @eggman37 Жыл бұрын

    When the day is bad Tom and friends are there to bring joy. Love you guys

  • @-_Jupiter

    @-_Jupiter

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree

  • @niasiamack9333

    @niasiamack9333

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree also

  • @snjert8406

    @snjert8406

    Жыл бұрын

    Heck yes.

  • @diamondphantom_
    @diamondphantom_ Жыл бұрын

    I never thought I’d live to go to college, get married, etc. due to suicidal ideation, so I totally understand those feelings you’ve had. Cheers to us for surviving and thriving ❤

  • @Josh-os7vn
    @Josh-os7vn Жыл бұрын

    FOR FREE??? I have no idea how much you read these comments but this was a great chapter in the Last Month installments and I really appreciate it. Your emotional growth and the 'I'm just an innocent men' was eye-opening and really touching. I wish you all the best Tom, especially with the recent hate from those protests. Also with the podcast idea, rather than having the concept be AFTER an individual passes away, I think being able to release it so that that the individuals can see the impact they've had on people and gain support would be better. But even that, that doesn't account for, as you said, all the logistical, ethical and soul-crushing issues lol

  • @SergioEduP
    @SergioEduP Жыл бұрын

    I was expecting Squidge to just stand up during the intro and for Tom to be excited that the paw grew back so quickly

  • @sarahwatson3192
    @sarahwatson3192 Жыл бұрын

    As someone who has had to deal with deal with death a lot in my life from a young age. Im at ease with death for the most part. I watch ask a mortician and I try to talk about death casually. I think it needs to be normalized. Also im turning 25 this year. I used to say I wanted to have my family done by the time I was 27… I used to want to at least be married by 22. Then life happened, I struggled mentally for years and years, and now im getting my life back on track, im planing a big move in the next few years (Canada to Korea) and love and children will happen when they happen. I no longer feel the need to put so much pressure on myself I just want to be happy and enjoy what I’m doing.

  • @stonewalluk
    @stonewalluk11 ай бұрын

    Thank you for supporting our work! 🌈 💕

  • @AlexToonsAnimation
    @AlexToonsAnimation Жыл бұрын

    always love to see tom and the gangs antics, makes me feel hopeful for adulthood to turn out like this.

  • @k_potato3156

    @k_potato3156

    Жыл бұрын

    Fr

  • @neonfroot

    @neonfroot

    11 ай бұрын

    TomSka is one of the lucky few. Dont count on it for you

  • @AlexToonsAnimation

    @AlexToonsAnimation

    11 ай бұрын

    @@neonfroot true, ill just have to try be optimistic while i still can.

  • @ShinyPeachWater

    @ShinyPeachWater

    11 ай бұрын

    i’m really glad i’m not the only one who thought of this too. i get tomska is one of the lucky people who get internet famous/popular doing what he loves, but it still gives me hope. it makes me realize that i don’t have to succumb to boringness and can still be fun and act like myself

  • @BattleAnkka
    @BattleAnkka Жыл бұрын

    I really like seeing Tom wearing jewelry! It suits him.

  • @DoeiDenise
    @DoeiDenise Жыл бұрын

    In the Netherlands there's a very interesting television series about that calles "over mijn lijk" (over my dead body). It really is interesting and meaningful to hear them talk about what they've learned in dealing with death. But definetly very taxing for the interviewer. You know, since everyone they interview dies.

  • @rebeccaallsopp2864
    @rebeccaallsopp2864 Жыл бұрын

    Hey Tom! Regarding your foot: (Am a doctor, but do not consider this a definitive diagnosis, please see a practitioner in person) I suspect what you have done is indeed bruised the bone, which is very painful for a long time afterwards. That intense pain you felt in the moment sounds like you happened to hit a nerve (kinda like hitting the funny bone in your elbow). Not a podiatrist, but if I remember right treatment is basically rest and anti-inflammatories Hope you feel better soon!

  • @thepanlanman998

    @thepanlanman998

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for being part of the miniscule percentage of commenters that infer that they've got the definitive opinion. God I realise I sound like a twat using huge words lmao

  • @charapresscott7750

    @charapresscott7750

    5 ай бұрын

    ​@@thepanlanman998God I wish I could remember how to articulate my vocabulary in a way such as that to not feel like an ignoramus

  • @platinum2522
    @platinum2522 Жыл бұрын

    you're "just some guy" who helps make the day of "just some other guy" better. I love your high energy, and your low energy helps me be self reflective about our shared insecurities (even if they may be few)

  • @PuddingCat101
    @PuddingCat101 Жыл бұрын

    On the podcast idea, as someone who came uncomfortably close to not being alive, you could interview people with that perspective as well as people with terminal conditions. It might help with some ethical considerations and a lot who've survived live very differently from how they did before

  • @OllamhProductions
    @OllamhProductions Жыл бұрын

    Back in high school I tripped, of all damn things, and had a hairline fracture on the front part of my ankle. Very much the same type of feeling, nauseous and sharp pain walking. I wound up walking on it for a week before going to the hospital to have it looked at, then was in a cast for a while after.

  • @kirstyberesford5515
    @kirstyberesford5515 Жыл бұрын

    As a mum who has two LGBTQ+ thank you for helping rise awareness

  • @juulvandijk5041

    @juulvandijk5041

    Жыл бұрын

    Dang you got two out of five?

  • @definitely_a_girl
    @definitely_a_girl Жыл бұрын

    Poor squidge :( Ok im not deleting this , idioticity is also a part of history and we shall learn from it

  • @seal_49
    @seal_49 Жыл бұрын

    I cant express how much i love that tom has a photo album of almost every year, like i would love to do that in the future and thought it wouldn't be possible but toms definitely proved that wrong.

  • @MeatBones
    @MeatBones Жыл бұрын

    I believe in your guys' ability to make something wonderful, and honestly, you don't have to wait for "that one banger", if I'm a good representation as someone who has religiously watched you guys forever, I can confidently say that I would love absolutely anything you make. Creation is a blessing no matter what (which is a hilarious thing to say, coming from an athiest, but the point still stands, love ya, and thanks for everything you've made :))

  • @Lurokrim
    @Lurokrim Жыл бұрын

    Tomska, you’ve been someone that I’ve known for basically my entire life. All of your videos have helped me make some good friends over the years and I deeply thank you for that. I’ve seen several of these ‘Last Month’ videos that you’ve started in 2023, and it’s just amazing to see you go from someone who has mental health problems and feels like they’re a failure, to someone who is pushing through their problems and starting to use past experiences to refine the way you live today. It truly is amazing and inspiring to watch you climb yourself out of this pit of despair and sadness and start to just pioneer through these problems and put yourself on top of these grievances. Most of us on here we’ve known you for our entire lives, you may be just a person in your eyes. Although to me and so many more, you’re someone that we can be inspired by to be better, and gain the confidence we need to push through our own problems. I greatly thank you for being in my life and I now strive to do amazing things with what I have. -Lurokrim, a youngling that likes all your videos.

  • @Lurokrim

    @Lurokrim

    Жыл бұрын

    Is this too long, I think it may be too long

  • @xChuChux911Chu
    @xChuChux911Chu Жыл бұрын

    My teen years were the late 70's/early 80's so imagine how cringe my pics are lol Sorry i missed you at MCM May but thank you from the heart of my bottom for the lovely video message you did for me via my mate. Cheers Tom. Oh and if you ever get stuck for a convention again feel free to hit me up, i dont mind filling my car with merch and sitting for hours whilst you pee or whatever. Love and hugs to you all

  • @IMPofTHEGASsTATION
    @IMPofTHEGASsTATION Жыл бұрын

    i am not doing very well rn and this video has already made me feel so much better and i've only been watching for like, 30 seconds

  • @mittenielsen8424

    @mittenielsen8424

    Жыл бұрын

    Hang in there, youre doing your best right now and that is good enough 🫂

  • @JoeyKlu
    @JoeyKlu Жыл бұрын

    You are one of those people I wish I could just shake and then hug through the screen. Like, BRO. Stop beating yourself up. And understand that just because you're not beating yourself up doesn't mean you're being egotistical. Also, perfectionism is the enemy of creation, progress and fun.

  • @Gregsusername
    @Gregsusername10 ай бұрын

    See the really interesting thing is that I had that same journey with you of you being this figure in my childhood and me thinking "oh i don't find asdf funny anymore cause i'm an adult" in middle school and now i watch your content videos and the last week/month cause honestly it's nice seeing someone i once looked up to unveil the youtuber curtain to show off that they're just a normal ass person.

  • @forensicdead8793
    @forensicdead8793 Жыл бұрын

    Confidence is knowing your good at something. Arrogance is thinking your better then everyone else. Certainly helped me with my self esteem.

  • @Valkenhyne
    @Valkenhyne Жыл бұрын

    That discussion about not thinking of the future at around 20 mins in really got me thinking... I've been in that survival mode of only thinking about today for so, so long. I don't even know how to start thinking about the future.

  • @nicreven

    @nicreven

    Жыл бұрын

    best luck to you, stranger

  • @philalethistry7937
    @philalethistry79379 ай бұрын

    I was there through Eddsworld's youth into its death and I also followed your channel and I gotta say, not once did my teenage mind think that you're not cool in any way. You've always been somebody I looked up to and I do not remember any time where that viewpoint was challenged. So happy you made it through your mental illness, and glad you're okay!

  • @moxxym
    @moxxym Жыл бұрын

    I swear to god you have a new injury every weekend, it's actually getting impressive

  • @miriambarborini1111
    @miriambarborini1111 Жыл бұрын

    Hey Tom, this is just a random comment from a random nobody, but you are a good person and I think you will make a good parent. So if you ever are in doubt about kids, think like it is a way of giving back to the world the good things you learnt. In a garden with weeds, plant a flower 🌻

  • @ethanramy
    @ethanramy Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Tom, Elliot, and Eddie for this absolutely wonderful and amazing video. Thank you so giving us so much amazing and wonderful content. I hope you and your wonderful family’s are doing well? ❤️🍻

  • @SwediCandy
    @SwediCandy Жыл бұрын

    As soon as you described your podcast idea I was like "Yes! I want to listen to that!" But the 'It will come out after they are gone' made me instantly cry so idk if I could handle actually listen to it, with my most important person in my life also gone;;;

  • @nicreven

    @nicreven

    Жыл бұрын

    hope you're okay?

  • @deadpoolcornah1229
    @deadpoolcornah1229 Жыл бұрын

    If you hadn't gone to that con, I would have missed seeing you entirely. You made my weekend by being there. You also got some Kinder Beuno Fudge from me. I want to see you more at any conventions I go to.

  • @HesterLeveret
    @HesterLeveret Жыл бұрын

    Oh man, I'm glad you reminded me of Karl. He was in a few Barshens videos and was so cool and chilled out I thought he was just a mate of theirs that'd shown up for some filming sessions. Gonna go watch them after this.

  • @tigeranimations4519
    @tigeranimations4519 Жыл бұрын

    Tom signed my fan art and Tomska live was the highlight of my first comic con

  • @datsvewynice
    @datsvewynice Жыл бұрын

    i know we don’t know you personally, but i just wanted to say that no matter what you choose to do- whether it’s have kids or not, you will do it well. after years and years and years of hearing you speak about other people with so much love and empathy, i just know that the decision you make will be informed and right for you ❤️

  • @geli2559
    @geli2559 Жыл бұрын

    23:04 another way to have chocolate strawberries for a summer picnic i recently learned is to take the strawberries and bring a bar of chocolate to the picnic, put the chocolate in the sun for a bit until it starts to melt, dip the strawberries in it boom chocolate covered strawberries

  • @silverblade1107
    @silverblade1107 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for being so open about your mental health as always

  • @ElliottSargent
    @ElliottSargent11 ай бұрын

    Tom seems a lot happier and more secure these days. I’m happy to see that.

  • @stefgreen5237
    @stefgreen52378 ай бұрын

    I don’t really watch a lot of your stuff but it really struck me - it’s very telling there’s actual women you hang out with / treat the same as men. It’s nice to see, it’s a weirdly stark contrast to other internet personalities that really don’t. Even people I watch - and I’m left leaning. It’s refreshing. Oh and the kid thing, I’m in a similar situation (but older). Do you really want kids, or do you want the idea of a nice settled life where you’re mentally healthy to handle it. For me sometimes I think I just like the idea of a life where I’m strong enough to have a family and it’s all positive.

  • @TheJoss113
    @TheJoss113 Жыл бұрын

    Hi Tom, big fan for a long time. My mom recently passed from cancer. Didn't get to talk to her much. I'm sure she would have had a lot of stuff to say. I love the concept of "this person is dead", I know a lot of people would love it. I also know you would face a lot of opposition and backlash. Just know you would do a lot of good to a lot of people by producing and hosting this project. To a lot of people. I'm still trying to find ways to process the pain this whole thing has caused me. This is something that I'm sure would help me and a lot of people. I know this must still sound weird from a stranger after all these years but thanks for the news. We will never know each other but it still feels like getting news from an old friend everytime you post this kind of video. It's fucking weird. Love your work, love the influence you've had on me and my friends over the years, thanks for the laughs and the cries. Thank you. -Random french guy

  • @lookapooka
    @lookapooka Жыл бұрын

    "im just normal men" got me

  • @cha0ticneutralbigs
    @cha0ticneutralbigs11 ай бұрын

    As someone who is a size 7XL I really appreciate you keeping a very inclusive size range for the merch so I can also participate

  • @harryolive750
    @harryolive750 Жыл бұрын

    As someone who works in retail, your problems are valid. Because at least we can have fun by subtly angering rude customers by sending them down the wrong isle and running away giggling like a child

  • @erinyonke7962
    @erinyonke7962 Жыл бұрын

    Watching these gives me some sort of space in my head to find peace. I've gotta hand it to Tom. He's been through so much and has a unique view on things. I can and can't relate to things he worries about.

  • @FlipperTea
    @FlipperTea Жыл бұрын

    Hey Tom, long term fan of yours and the guys! I think your idea on This Person is Dead is brilliant. I’m a mental health therapist - and I think doing a short course on counselling would be really helpful to you. Levels 1 - 3 teach you to be the best listener you can be, and keep the conversation flowing in a compassionate way - you’d also learn how to look after yourself during and after those conversations. Then perhaps for a top up - a bereavement course too could be helpful. I honestly think a lot of jobs would benefit from taking a counselling course because it teaches you to have real conversations, whilst being delicate. I understand there’s a lot of ethical things to think about but I hope you go through with it! I think it would bring a lot of people comfort. Best of luck, and much love to you and the gang ❤

  • @lifebloodcore2106
    @lifebloodcore2106 Жыл бұрын

    If you're unsure about bringing a child into the world, you could always foster or adopt. In that case, the person would exist in the world anyway, you're just giving them a good home and support system. That's what I'd like to do in the future (mainly because the idea of being pregnant and giving birth terrifies me but for those other reasons as well)

  • @RooneySparks
    @RooneySparks Жыл бұрын

    I have a very strong feeling that this is the last year Tom is going to be on KZread. Like after these next few contents and of course one Last Month is over, maybe one or two videos on the main channel, he'll finally retire. I wouldn't be sad too about it or anything, it's very well deserved. I definitely wouldn't be surprised either

  • @Smami
    @Smami Жыл бұрын

    I really appreciate all the talking you do about your mental health, as somebody who has been struggling with similar suicidal idealizations and depression it really means a lot that you've always been so willing to talk about it, especially in your unique way of talking. Thank you again Tom :)

  • @sluggyboo
    @sluggyboo Жыл бұрын

    Meeting you at mcm was amazing! I keep myself up at night at how awkward my interaction must've been but I'd do it again in a heartbeat lmao

  • @theauthor1238
    @theauthor1238 Жыл бұрын

    Another great last month video that makes my day. Hope you're doing alright, Tom, and being a writer myself, I feel your pain on having writers block/and/or not feeling confident. However, you inspire me, not just because you're a talented as a KZreadr, but more how down to earth and honest you are. Can't wait for next month, and have a great pride :D

  • @feragu3021
    @feragu3021 Жыл бұрын

    I know Rik is being raised right, just by the fact that he's playing MARIO GALAXY, FKN LOVE THAT

  • @Ramonatho
    @Ramonatho Жыл бұрын

    Seeing Barshens and mentioning Karl made me sad. But I'm glad people remember him.

  • @chip5838
    @chip5838 Жыл бұрын

    Tom, you can just expose someone's jockstrap like that

  • @kennanalana3520
    @kennanalana3520 Жыл бұрын

    Trust me if you feel bad about anything (might that be your self or just life) working out or just sport is the best anxiety killer

  • @SegeMarl
    @SegeMarl Жыл бұрын

    One thing you could consider for childern, especially if you are concerned with brining a child into the world, or can't, is adoption, those childern are already in the world, and you and your family could be what gives them a better life.

  • @Jan_Iedema
    @Jan_Iedema Жыл бұрын

    My philosophy when dealing with injuries and going to see doctors is basically if the pain isn’t gone or severely reduced after two days, I’m checking with my GP.

  • @stephaniecarlson1068
    @stephaniecarlson1068 Жыл бұрын

    You had the right mind set for that adult video. It did help out my ex and I who where sexually active teens. It's horrible to hear what happened with those people.

  • @matangoldstien5922
    @matangoldstien5922 Жыл бұрын

    Genuine as can be, I am glad Tom is doing well after he started to take care of his mental health. Him taking up a therapy and feeling better about himself also brings other people to go seek what mental health needs. In general this series is such a great one honestly

  • @Boeje1994
    @Boeje1994 Жыл бұрын

    The Danish tv-channel TV2 has a program series that called "De sidste ord" (The last words). In this they have interviewed some famous Danish people like actors and politician about their lives. And the interview is only aired when the person is dead. So we don't really know whom has been interviewed before people die.

  • @karlyjasonodonohoe1940
    @karlyjasonodonohoe194011 ай бұрын

    You being just some guy is what inspired me, I watched the slaughter of the shapes to orchestral music and your live action shorts and your scripts and jokes in general made me feel like I could be funny (I desperately needed a coping mechanism and comedy was the safest) I write scripts now and I’m very content doing it. Nothings been bought or published mind you but having 50+ scripts ready to go doesn’t feel horrible.

  • @CJFS00s
    @CJFS00s11 ай бұрын

    (4:19) *You have yourself a keeper there Tom!* 😂

  • @SMDC2000
    @SMDC2000 Жыл бұрын

    not projecting this onto me, but I've been living on the same thing of not planning a future, living day to day, no real building the future. I've actually been kind of wanting to build stuff back up too the past months. For context i have schizophrenia (and I'm very open about that btw, not dumping any trauma here). I can live ok, just hard to find work, can't do a lot of typical things that come with life. But finding happiness in small things. Anyway, been very happy this series is back. i'm happy you are doing better in life and not letting hate videos or stuff like that get to you. Keep being our "just some guy", much love my dude ^^

  • @t3mmie625
    @t3mmie625 Жыл бұрын

    I saw you at MCM Tom and didn't post about it but it was genuinely the highlight of the trip I was overstimulated an meeting you was great and thanks for listening to me talk about muppets, see you last month

  • @hemtin6764
    @hemtin6764 Жыл бұрын

    The beer pong with mugs is the most uk thing I’ve seen all day😂

  • @onedude9427
    @onedude9427 Жыл бұрын

    Hey Tom, as someone who has enjoyed your content since Skinny-Skit-Tom, I just want to mention I think you're looking really well dude. Wishing you all the best, here's hoping the foot's not broken 😅

  • @maxanimator9547
    @maxanimator9547 Жыл бұрын

    23:46 "i AM aN ArtIsT !" Made me think of that, thought it was funny in this context. Hopefully you unlock that motivation you've lost.

  • @RobertJPalmer
    @RobertJPalmer11 ай бұрын

    I also had a hige depressive period in my mid 20s, and its weird looking back at how I lived my life just assuming i was going to not be alive at 30. So happy i managed to get help and get through those times, and im very glad you did too Tom! ❤

  • @IToldYou2DredNot
    @IToldYou2DredNot Жыл бұрын

    It's so nice to see you getting better with your mental health, and I hope you keep improving.

  • @stalebread773
    @stalebread773 Жыл бұрын

    God I love and enjoy last month so much, as a viewer of Tom for so many years it’s so nice to see him heal and learn about these issues and see how he and others deal with it. I have struggled with a lot of the same issues that he has and I admire this totally normal dude, who has had a good impact on my life, even if people hate him, most of us love ya, keep up the amazing work Tom

  • @GilWanderley
    @GilWanderley Жыл бұрын

    20:33 Oh. Are people supposed to do more than live day by day? I guess I missed the memo!

  • @headspacehobbies_
    @headspacehobbies_11 ай бұрын

    The way you talked about the "long-term thinking" resonates hard with me, and I'm sure a lot of other people as well. I'm sorry you experienced these probably quite scary thoughts but well done for making it through. It's possible to make it through the darkness and seeing the light. Hoping it's my turn soon.

  • @certifiedsillystring
    @certifiedsillystring Жыл бұрын

    wow!!! a new last month video!! I sure haven’t watched this one on the patreon that you should buy!

  • @rank1986
    @rank1986 Жыл бұрын

    Hey Tom! Love your videos,and been a great help for me. Just the way your speak open about all your daily problems and success is so good. From a dude with 2 kids(boys) and struggle with depression,add+h ect so can i say that its hard to have kids when you have the «problems» you have. That said,kids can make you reflect about all the problems and see things that you thought was hard is not worth the stress. Dont overthink about it,go with the flow of life😊. Thanks again for sharing the ups and down in your life. Love from norway❤️

  • @theasylum877
    @theasylum877 Жыл бұрын

    3:27 beer pong in tea cups is the most british thing I've ever seen 😭

  • @TheNetherHunter
    @TheNetherHunter Жыл бұрын

    I do not know what has changed as I have watched a lot of your videos but while watching this I could not stop thinking how much of a handsome man you are Tom. Also the stepping on a pebble and stuff just made me want to give you a hug.

  • @Whiteythereaper
    @Whiteythereaper Жыл бұрын

    I've been really looking forward to these each month. I've been having a dogshit year so it's nice to see wholesome content

  • @WOS_Stabbers
    @WOS_Stabbers9 ай бұрын

    Tom, Toom, Tommy, Toommoodle! Toska, Toridge!, Tom! being just a guy who made some stuff that i bring to all my nerd friends, and play card games with and use those videos to tie together bits of our culture from all over the world, but sharing the same internet. It was a new thing, and anytime I want to put smiles on someone's face, i can just vomit some rainbows onto them! (foolproof)

  • @SirRichard-1
    @SirRichard-1 Жыл бұрын

    I've been watching your content since before I made a KZread channel. When I was in school I even downloaded all the adsf movies (all 4 of them at the time 😮). I can honestly say you have made an impact on my life, indirectly. Without your funny dark humor I probably wouldn't be here right now. It's absolutely fantastic that you are doing better now too 😊

  • @multisplace3783
    @multisplace3783 Жыл бұрын

    These videos are making me realize how fast the months are going by.

  • @Brandon-butterb1
    @Brandon-butterb1 Жыл бұрын

    Well…didn’t expect that bombshell. My mom was 25 and my dad was 27 when I was born. Here about to be 25 and I have no SO, no plans to find one, no thought to have kids, no thoughts about the future save for a five year plan to be radiological tech.

  • @SimpleNebula19
    @SimpleNebula19 Жыл бұрын

    17:50 “Yo for free.” Funniest part.

  • @xxPenjoxx
    @xxPenjoxx Жыл бұрын

    Loved seeing you and Dan on no rolls barred. Hilarious episode.

  • @samwai3762
    @samwai3762 Жыл бұрын

    the beginning give me a good ol jumpscare... DONT DO THIS AGAIN TOM

  • @caitwon
    @caitwon Жыл бұрын

    My mother had me young (20) and now I'm 24, turning 25 in a few months and I get the same thing with kids. At my age, she had a 4 year old and a 1 year old, a house, and was married. Those are all things I don't have right now so it definitely is a mindfuck and I can relate.

  • @neonfroot

    @neonfroot

    11 ай бұрын

    Its because our culture is infantilizing us. Also, marriage and parenthood are sold as exclusive adulthood locenses. Too many married folks end up in awkward predicaments and so the kids have to look elsewhere for a trusty competent adult.

  • @triggeredfloof
    @triggeredfloof Жыл бұрын

    I'm glad you are doing well tom also nice work on the planter

  • @Sylvestriss_
    @Sylvestriss_ Жыл бұрын

    I'm not on deaths door, but I have recently had much worsening symptoms of ME/CFS or long covid. Due to this I cant leave the house without a wheelchair and can no longer work. Since I have had these symptoms my worldview has changed and I appreciate all the little things. I look into my garden and feel so lucky to be able to experience nature and do some of the other things I love in life. I know Tom said he didn't really want to make it but I personally would love to see that podcast be made.

  • @JasperCasper24
    @JasperCasper24 Жыл бұрын

    ya'll that jingle at 19:30 really made me consider texting my therapist

  • @rose18O4O5
    @rose18O4O57 ай бұрын

    I remember meeting you at mcm comic con and when you where filming the line, the people at the front of the queue were directly behind me. It was such a surreal experience for me, meeting one of my favourite content creators and seeing how amazingly kind you are is just awesome! ❤❤

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