ALHUMDULLILAH my mother is not educated but she treats my bhabi like a daughter, in return my sister who recently got married is having a loving mother in law. I must say it's all about what we give to others, it turns back to us.

@Beeps_R_US

2 жыл бұрын

Karma is like a boomerang what you throw will come back.

@samahazaman123

2 жыл бұрын

Its very rare though.

@achillesabbe5492

2 жыл бұрын

@@placeboeffect7031 The divorce rate in the sub continent is low cause of the issues he said in the video. dagh lag jate hain larkion pe. ghar wale kehte hain ke mar ke hi ana. Honestly, you cant compare the west and us. we are vastly diffferent and both have problems.

@ayeshaamjad3511

2 жыл бұрын

MASHAHALLAH

@squared8388

2 жыл бұрын

Not necessarily, bad things happen to good people most of the time

We suffer from a disease called “ what will others think “

@yuireo5500

4 жыл бұрын

shut the fuck up

@dingdongman5784

4 жыл бұрын

@@yuireo5500 looks like u suffer from it too

@jeroxama5877

4 жыл бұрын

@@yuireo5500 tatti bhari hey terey dimagh me :)

@jeroxama5877

4 жыл бұрын

@@yuireo5500 terey jesey logo ko me jahil bolta ho :)

@aaminah952

4 жыл бұрын

Sahi👍

I'm a doctor from Pakistan lives in England, severely traumatized from in laws. Hats off. Kash har Mard itna samjh Dar hojae

@rehan1694

3 жыл бұрын

Prayers for you Sister

@samanabid2422

3 жыл бұрын

u r educated..... take a stand get out of it

@hollywoodisasataniccult4022

3 жыл бұрын

@@samanabid2422 lol u think it’s that easy? Trauma is a thing

@pendlelancashire

2 жыл бұрын

*Don't send one sided comments for sympathy. We don't know the both sides nor do we know what the full story was .*

@sarahsiddiqui9591

2 жыл бұрын

Girl get out of it. Fuck those ppl

Once again, Junaid uses his trademark common sense and reasonable style to handle a sensitive topic. We males have to stand up for females. Many kudos to Junaid for standing up for females.

@rgtllc9959

3 жыл бұрын

Bhai, begane ki shaadi mein kyun naach rahe ho ?

@nightflares3572

2 жыл бұрын

@@rgtllc9959 kia bakawas kar rhe ho?

I just watched Ur video and I want to share my life experience with all of you..... About 4 years ago, I got married and right after the valima I got divorced, because the person I married was completely unfit for marriage as he was a kind of transgender and his parents forced him to get married.(I believe he was completely an innocent person).. Since it was completely an arranged marriage and I never talked to him before marriage I was completely a shock for me.... And after the divorce his family started to tell everyone that I m a bad character girl... Anyhow, I did my MBA before this incident and after that i decided to start to study again.. now I m holding an MS degree ( gold medalist) and working in a reputed company as manager finance and trying to get a good scholarship in abroad for my PhD.... This whole point is k we girls must focus on our career and shouldn't depend on any men.... Talking about marriage, shadi is supposed to be a beautiful companionship between two people rather than a boss or subordinate relationship.... Although I don't want to get married ever but this is message to all women....

@mahiitistic7399

4 жыл бұрын

Sad to hear wht haeepend with you, but kudos that you got out of the situation with a medal (literally!) 👍 But dont be scared of marriages. Allah says if He closes one door, He WILL open another iA. I hope you get married again to the person who deserves you.

@taqinawaz4148

4 жыл бұрын

Everyday is a new day with new things to come. Give your life a second chance. May Allah gives you what you destined for.Ameen

@syedmunawer2847

4 жыл бұрын

In your case , your family members are culprits , kyun jab larki shaid fix hoti hai larki walon ki familye ka yeh farz hota hai ke wo larke ke bare maloomat kare uski family ke maloomat isteqara kare, har ek barik detail nikal laye jisse agay zindagi me koi problem na ho paye. . .

@aishgill2210

4 жыл бұрын

@@syedmunawer2847 I agree but this kind of case can't be investigated before marriage... since his Looks and appearance was quite normal and the same time he was educated and working in a firm.... Nobody could ever imagined this kind of issue....and yet u r so judgemental about my parents who are truly great people because when I told them about this scenario they didn't take a second to decide if there is any other possibility to carry on irrespective of society... Because many suggested that we need to give some time for medical or what but they just thought about their daughter... my parents are not culprits but vistim as well ... The trauma they have faced as well as financial distress, nobody can understand.......

@mahiitistic7399

4 жыл бұрын

@@syedmunawer2847 you dont know the situation so you cant judge. Looks deceive big time.if any one is a culprit it's the guys parents! They purposely destroyed her life by forcing their son to get married. This is ridiculous!

It should not be age restricted because every teenage girl needs to know this. it's an important matter and let's be honest current generation is well aware of everything

@Bilama

3 жыл бұрын

Yes agree

@abdullahzahid4654

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed

@rabbiyaali6905

3 жыл бұрын

I agree

@HTrntrs

3 жыл бұрын

& boys too, I’m religious & free-minded at rhe same time. Thank God I was blessed to be born in such a family. But most of the boys are either too religious or too much free minded which creates such problems. Boys need to watch this too so that in future they don’t destroy the lives of girls.

@HTrntrs

3 жыл бұрын

@muhammad adeel lakhair U’re sensible Mashallah, bur not the most of under-aged guys are sensible enough, that’s why.

I went through the same thing the guy wasn't interested in females, i took divorce focused on my career and now im married again. Alhamdulilah and my life is all settled

@AliRaza-wr1ec

10 ай бұрын

ap ye baaten comment mn na kra kren boht se logon ki nazren lag jati hain Allah Ka Shukar ada kren Btw Allah Apko Mazeed kamiyabi de Aur apke Husband ko Bhi Ameen😊

@LunaLighthouse

10 ай бұрын

Can you explain little bit more on what do you mean why you say he wasn’t interested in female. Like was he not straight?

@shivamjha7504

3 ай бұрын

​@@LunaLighthousehi bro being not interested in female would mean he is gay which means he has romanctic feelings for males

I had an internship in a mental health facility in the in-patient ward with male psychotic patients. The most asked question from the parents of these people was "when can we get them married?!!!!"

@farwanqv

10 ай бұрын

🤦‍♀

I'm from a middle-class family but an open-minded guy. I'll show this video to my parents so I and they both can take better decision when our time comes. . InShaAllah. Indeed great insights and logical things to think about deeply before any decision about marriage. Thank You So Much for Everything, Sir! Edit: My parents are wise enough to make a decision. I'm just an IT student. I'm not gay or something like that or I'm not interested in girls etc. I don't know why some so-called *mzaaq* krny waly log are commenting this. They're not getting my point. Yup, people can think according to their upbringing & limitations of their mind. Junaid Sir clearly showing *ye video parents, larky larkiOn k leay hai* That's my point k I think parents should watch this. He just cleared things up. *Like ratio is making it clear that lots of people are getting my points.*

@fayyazgaming5873

4 жыл бұрын

Censor laga ke dekhana

@xyedfarhan4296

4 жыл бұрын

Virginity test tumhre yahan howa ha 😂😂

@SarmadMustafa

4 жыл бұрын

@@xyedfarhan4296 hnsna tha bro?

@WhiteWolf-lp2in

4 жыл бұрын

I appreciate :"))

@aktarzaman4013

4 жыл бұрын

soooo,,,you r not interested in girls,right?Just kidding!

Nothing makes me happy than a men realizing these type of issues from women's perspective and being the voice for them in a society like us.. and nothing makes me sad than a woman not understanding other women's perspective and say things like "lallo mat chalao" in platform like national TV.. and give a green dhandi to the people who always think that women are supposed to stay quiet and be obedient all the time even when it's completely wrong!!

@ehtishamamin5601

4 жыл бұрын

Okay but are you ready to accept the fact that women also have a part to play in the household and are you ready to talk about responsibilities when you talk about rights which you clearly have in the constitution.

@aishashaikh5699

4 жыл бұрын

this is all for show. This guy has harassment cases against him. he needs to be banned. He is no better than Mrs Khan

@muhammadnabil3390

4 жыл бұрын

@@aishashaikh5699 Any proof...?

@Englishpracticenow96

4 жыл бұрын

This is the new phenomenon that emerged with the time girls are getting educated and matured. On the other hand acid has been thrown, womam are set ablaze, murdered and on routine get beaten.

@Englishpracticenow96

4 жыл бұрын

@Usama Fayyaz go come up with the stat, have you ever heard woman beating man, or throwing acid on man. May be one two incidents in a year. But talk abt woman you will find in thousands, go search google. What i see i talking about. Woman is the other suppressed human being in sub continent. Transgender is the most suppressesd ones.

I am happy that, before merriage I asked my husband for Hepatitis test and he agreed and he was clean but, I wish if I would have ask him to do the test for legal drugs for psychos too. He was on medicine for his psychological needs and was an alcholic too, which I realized about 3 months after our merriage. Anyways we got seperated after 10 yrs and got divorce after 14 yrs and taking care of my kids with help of Allah... young girls pls pls pls study harder and focus on career first, spouses may come and go but career should be your first security...believe me your parents wont be there forever. If you have career everyone, i cluding your kids will respect you. Unfortunately desi men are not so keen into divorcees, but if you financially strong, then you need not to worry about anything else. For Divorcees I would say just chill and enjoy life...its beautiful. Life with None man is much better than life with a bad man...

@kashifjaved8805

4 жыл бұрын

Divorce is not so ezi madam g

@abdullahyahya2471

4 жыл бұрын

Do you live in Pakistan?

@kashifjaved8805

4 жыл бұрын

@@abdullahyahya2471 no sir i am living in qatar but i face the divorce it's very hard thing

@kashifjaved8805

4 жыл бұрын

@@abdullahyahya2471 where r u living

@abdullahyahya2471

4 жыл бұрын

Actually my comment was for @Zahra Alani. I live in Pakistan.

we need more people like you in our society..very well said...❤

@pendlelancashire

2 жыл бұрын

*and then what? You've been diseased to think of rights but never about responsibility .*

Thanks for talk about this issues. And please make more videos about social issues. Stay blessed

You are the only KZreadr who is making right use of ur platform!I admire ur efforts a lot

@Chiriyakhana

4 жыл бұрын

Really inspired really first time dekhi hai aisi video. Werna har banda is topic pe bhi mazak ura raha hai

@fouziayasmeen7519

4 жыл бұрын

The Wide side is also a Pakistani you tuber who aware and have a good research skill kindly do check

This man deserves 100 million subscribers. He Keeps everyone equal. Whether It's men or women.

Reminded me of Dr. APJ Abdul Kalam's speech in European parliament. " Where there is harmony in the society, there is peace in the world"

@faheem8141

3 жыл бұрын

Tumara mulk mn Muslims marta 1 din tumara sath asa hogaaa

@nitinkalburgi6727

3 жыл бұрын

@@faheem8141 Jinke ghar kaach se bane ho woh doosro par pathar nahi marte. Apne Desh ke Human rights violations dekhlo, blasphemy, honour killings, forced conversions n FATFs listing. Apne aap ko zara sheeshe mai dekhto lo🙏

@faheem8141

3 жыл бұрын

Tum dekhlo bhai kitna rape hota hn jhoota media Bollywood

@punitpal2726

3 жыл бұрын

@@faheem8141 pakistan mai rape nahi hote kya ?

@faheem8141

3 жыл бұрын

Hota hn lekin Hindu ka

Bro you are right .. India m bhi kuch aise hi case h . And we need to understand that hamko purane riwaz or purani soch KO khatam krna padega.. It is must important.. And thanks for make people more aware.. Love from India 🙏

@sweetvicky24

4 жыл бұрын

Kya hai be Aisa India mein? Kuch bhi mat bol..Indian minorities mein ho Sakta hai..par it's not at all like what happens in Pakistan..faltu ke defame mat Kiya kar

@kartiksingh5328

4 жыл бұрын

@@sweetvicky24 bhai bura lga ho to sorry baat defame ki nhi h.. But yr satyamev jayate ka pura episode h is topic pr aap dekh sakte ho..

@sweetvicky24

4 жыл бұрын

Are you giving example of Satyamev Jayate? Where Amir Khan was playing with emotions of people and making money.. please yaar, be sensible..usne toh ek episode love commandos ka Kiya tha in which some 3-4 people were there who use to give shelters and support to run away couples..and reality of that love commandos was later unfolded by Hindustan Times..it was a total racket of money making and many more..you will get the article on KZread or Google..

@kartiksingh5328

4 жыл бұрын

@@sweetvicky24 buddy Punjab m aise bhot case h ... Or m yha pr defame nhi kr rha kisi KO.. India development m aage h we know that.. But agar koi kami h to uske baare m bhi baat krni chaiye..

@kingman-bo5dt

4 жыл бұрын

@@kartiksingh5328 bhai ye banda bhakt hai. Backchodi he Pele ga aur kuch sach nahi sunega.

Keep spreading awareness regarding these taboo topics which are very less discussed in the society :)

@MsDeeslife

4 жыл бұрын

Shaheer Sherminator 😂😂😂

@Hkcinematics

4 жыл бұрын

I totally agree with junaid bhai, even every single word is true, I'm Haris khan from karachi, I'm 25 and a well matured person and I'm looking for a mature,whatever young or little old, (age is not important for me, I'm looking for a divorced or widowed lady to get marry; specially looking for that one lady, jisko shadi k bd sirf is bt py divorce dekr nikal diya gya ho k tm baanch ho, bachy paida nhi sakti ho, ya aesi ksi choti baari bt py divorce dekr ghrvsy nikal diya ho, ya ghr betha diya gya ho. Main aesi ksi bhi lady sy khushi sy shadi krna chahunga, and my all true love , my all true feelings will be only for that one loyal lady. Even, to be honest, It will be my honor,I will try keep her very happy and I will n asi fazul soch rkhty h, for further details, Interested persons can contant at these social websides: Www.facebook.com/hmkonline Instagram name : HARISKHANINSTA

@emperorclaudias3316

4 жыл бұрын

Damn you ate handsome

Although I'm a girl but I would really like you to share suffering of married men in our society.. I'm gonna get married soon so I wanna know how not to make my man suffer in silence and how to support him through thick and thin. Thank you.

@meetdave33

3 жыл бұрын

As a recently married man from India, the basic things we expect from wives are loyalty and support.

@usamahusnain5257

3 жыл бұрын

@@meetdave33 the best thing wife can give his man is UNDERSTANDING.

@GENERAL-WALID

3 жыл бұрын

App jesi larkia bhi hoti hain....

@uniqueunonymous1055

3 жыл бұрын

@@usamahusnain5257 welp i also need sex...why dont pakistani women want great sex after marriage atleast that is what i have heard of from my freinds...........................................................................................with great sex i mean understanding might go beyond a whole new level

@waris8807

3 жыл бұрын

Am a suffered man marying a girl with sychosis. I was on a short visit. شادی کے بعد لڑکی ٹھیک ہوجاےگی ۔ Three lives suffered. Mine, girls and a child. Stop hiding, lying please.

I've fallen in love with his mindset! We really need more people like him in our society! Alhamdulillah my family is far away from such mentality but for a longer time I feared marriage crazily, infact hate would be more appropriate word. I'm 26 rn and my younger sister is married though I am not so people wonder that why i didn't get married The things you mentioned are the reason why I didn't get married. I'm a person for whom divorce isn't an issue even with 3 kids but I don't wanna go down to that road because Allah hates it the most! Anyhow! I wish the elders of our society pay deep attention to the things you mentioned, that's the only way to a happy life indeed :)) thanks a lot!

@sumayyahasan1094

10 ай бұрын

What a negative mindset, have you ever thought about Ur old age?who will take care of u when u are over 60? And who told u divorce is the most hated thing? Infant It's compulsory to take divorce as per Islam when life is stuck and no other options are there, Islam says that one should marry so plz follow Islam and don't make Ur own rules, people like u brainwash others too,sorry to say

@maryamnoor9122

6 ай бұрын

so true tayyaba i think shadi aik total luck ha and you can ofcourse pray for your life partner but jitna ganda hmara culture ha or ajeeb male mentality ha not all but majority are egoistic males har trah ki situation k lye tyar rhna chahye

His wife maybe the happiest person in the world 😂👌 good work man 👌👍🏻

@rajujee9

4 жыл бұрын

He is still unmarried

@sistersinthekitchen4284

4 жыл бұрын

He is married.

@kuikiawan4288

4 жыл бұрын

He is married to a women who already have a child before marrying him. He said this in a podcast woth mooroo. Hes such an open minded and a brilliant person!!

@sistersinthekitchen4284

4 жыл бұрын

@@kuikiawan4288 I've seen complete podcast, i didn't find out where he is talking about his wife. Can you tell me the timing?

@JoshuaSavio7

4 жыл бұрын

She must be proud. But he made some videos talking funny stuff about his wife which is normal and happens in every relation, his reationship/family is not our concern btw. But what he is trying to say is; You won't get a perfect partner. What will make it perfect is the level of Communication/understanding, tolerence, trust and love.

Wow. Mind blown. Hard to believe men like you exist these days! I'm a fan. A HUGE one. This is by far, my most favourite video on all of the Internet. Already shared publically on Facebook. I hope people take heed.

@aswahfatima284

4 жыл бұрын

@@drraanamahmood5636 I don't have Amazon but I will try to check

@mdmalik8332

3 жыл бұрын

bhai log, sab khawateen o hazraat deen e islam ko follow karein, aap s.a.w.w ne aalaw tareen namoone hmare liye chore hain, apni azwaaj se talluqaat, ik so ik sunnatein hain deen ke ehkamat hain ke miyan b.v ko apas men kese rehna chahiye kese wo ik dusre se be inteha piyar o muhabbat kar sakte hain, ye talaqon ka ratio etc sab isi liye hai ke hum sab apne deen se kahin boht door non muslims ki pairwi main lage hue hain hum her chiz fitrat se ulat krny ki koshish kr rahe hain jabke islam deen e fitrat hai modern religion hai, bs g ALLAH Hafiz s hm sbka, mn namaz pabandi se parh raha hun to filhal sirf isi ki naseehat krun ga sbko shayad ke tere dil main utar jae baat meri, ba'amal insan ki baat taseer rakhti hai to kindly sab musalman behn bhai namaz parhein ALLAH k huzur hazri dein namaz farz hai chahe aap kitne bhi gunehgar q na hon aap pe namaz farz hao InshALLAH namaz ki barkat se jab apki koshish ye hogi ke apki namaz qabool hojae to aap khud hi sb burai k kamon se bachne ki koshish karein ge isi liye kaha gaya hai ke namaz buraiyon s bachati hai, or kindly hm gunehgar log kis mun s ALLAH k han hazri dein or namaz na parhi aisi soch rakh kr khud ko mazeed gunehgar mat karein, jab naik hain ache hen bure hen bs namaz farz hai namaz parhni hai, ik wqt ki namaz s start krlein rakat'on ki tadaad km kr k prhna shuru krein ik dam tng nhn krna khudko jism ko bhi aahista aahista namaz ki adat dalein khud pe bojh na dalein, InshALLAH apki khulus e niyat pr ALLAH ap apko himmat or toufique dein ge ke jab aap na bhi chahein tab bhi namaz parhein ge, kindly deen seekhiye, main to ab bhi quran e kareen rawani se nhn parh skta lekin koshish krta hun parhne ki or double sawab hasil krna hun quran e kareen parhne ka or atak atak k parhne ki mehnat ka sawab bhi, so guys ALLAH pak ap sb p apna khad fazl o karam frmae. Aameen ,Sum Aameen.

@mdmalik8332

3 жыл бұрын

quran e kareem, sorry 4 mistyping.

@syedasifhussain2074

2 жыл бұрын

Same I live in KSA 🇸🇦So I didn't even know any of such things & many of those things which he mentioned happened with my Parents & she has gone through alot especially because I had a sister but but she was born sick my dad's side started saying Shit about my mom but right after 4 months of her death they found out I was gonna born so I agree with you 100%

Much respect for addressing ‘closet gays’. My friend,a lawyer, was telling me how a lot of cases are due to ‘saab ka interest nahi hay’. And these men even link the girls to their own brothers and fathers inorder to shut them up during the court trial. So sad. Much love and respect from 🇮🇳 Desi families are okay if their son is the ‘up’ in the gay scene, married and has kids. Their problem is when he is effeminate. Men like you are a rarity ...such honesty 🙏

Bhai india 🇮🇳 se hu but bhai ki baat me dum hai... Esa hi hota hai, that's true

@abd5182010

4 жыл бұрын

He is from Pakistan

@yogesh124

4 жыл бұрын

@@idrees640 comments delete kar de bhai koi mtlb ni h in sab ka Thank you

@aryankhorana

3 жыл бұрын

True bro

Each and every word is 100% true. I wish all parents, sons and daughters listen to this. What a remarkable comment about phd and a 21 years old.

@harisahmed3771

4 жыл бұрын

@Usama Fayyaz And you're found this garbage because it's not in ur favour😄

@salikhassan9188

4 жыл бұрын

@Usama Fayyaz What are you going on all about and crying under every comment? Huh? You are the kind of men he warned about in his video.

@bashirsani7665

4 жыл бұрын

The most sensible content creator

@toobakhan426

4 жыл бұрын

Usama Fayyaz u disgust me

@toobakhan426

4 жыл бұрын

Usama Fayyaz men like u are secretly gay and to take out your frustration u hit women cause you know anything else can’t happen

This is a cultural problem, I think it will take decades to slowly eliminate these bad tendencies. They are ingrained in us and as long as people like you speak for what's right, we might have one entire generation that has progressed past these bad traditions and mentalities at one point. Keep it up, Junaid.

@royshaheer

4 жыл бұрын

Its like adapting all the bad things and slowly integrate it in everything. Even media is responsible in it

@hollywoodisasataniccult4022

4 жыл бұрын

Not just him but you yourself should also speak up

@syedasifhussain2074

2 жыл бұрын

Nope my Family is completely following it + we Sindhi most of ones I know don't follow those 😁👍🏻👍🏻

Zabardast video I have also suffered abuse and was a victim of shadi hu jye gii tu theek hu jye ga and I was constantly abused by him both physically and verbally and being cheated by him.I was physically abused to marry him by my family.And now I am on a verge of a divorce and now I have to live through the stigma of divorce just the age of 21. (Thanx to my father and my family who treated me as liability all my life)

@rameen23

4 жыл бұрын

So sorry yaar please leave him and start life over with Allah’s will 😔😔😔😔😔

@a.r.5874

3 жыл бұрын

more power to u girl, stay strong......feel sorry for ya

Hats off to you buddy. More power to you.

Junaid you're so understanding. Ma Sha Allah. Your wife is lucky

@boomzmm6928

4 жыл бұрын

Sobia Irqam inki biwi nahi hai

@aaryanramzan3077

4 жыл бұрын

As I'm sure so is Junaid.

@mrcyrussamud9305

4 жыл бұрын

@@boomzmm6928 junaid bhai 3 saal pehle se shadi shuda hain🙂

@boomzmm6928

4 жыл бұрын

Mr,Cyrus samud 👌

@arifkidwai293

2 жыл бұрын

Lucky or no lucky - irrelvent. Junaid's wife doesn't allow him to stay with her in England

A very serious topic discussed very smartly.I agree with your talk because this is the reality of our society.

This guy talks so much sense and is a credit to his country. ❤️

Love to see a youtuber pointing out our society flaws and teaching prevent these

Junaid bhai you are great. However, what you are touching on is centuries old mentality that wont go away so easily. Education and open discussion is best

@jazibali7791

4 жыл бұрын

Beta abhi ap chote hoon ap nahi samajh paon ga

I’m glad you also mentioned “guys who are not interested in girls”. You were very careful in talking about that esp since it’s still a taboo topic in pak

Brilliant! 👏🏼👍🏼 I am mind blown about how you know exactly what goes on! It’s just unbelievable how you summed up five women’s life I know including myself. Married in a well educated family, and being an orphan my very own Stanford graduate husband filled our Nikha Nama with cancelling the whole wife’s right section with a long diagonal line!

@freezius13

2 жыл бұрын

the same in pak, happening, evn id cards not givn for kidz , life destroyed n woman too

@sarahsiddiqui9591

2 жыл бұрын

Can you please elaborate on the page of the nikkah nama that he keeps talking about? What rights are on there?

@fjanjuah

2 жыл бұрын

hope the man gets some common sense and be a human being

17:00 someone please make my parents understand this! 😞 This guy's spitting facts! 💯🙏

@rabiaarif4785

3 жыл бұрын

@@jibrankhantareen7300 o bhai, who are you to judge a random online user about whether they confront their parents are not?! Ridiculous. Did, I, in my 15 words comment, indicate that I don't confront/leave my parents? Aap yahan bethy khudi assume krrhy. You think it's that easy for us to go confront our parents? duhh?? Especially when most of us have got authoritarian parents..? It's not always that smooth for every single girl out here to leave their parents like that, ok? Yes, I do blame my parents to some extent but what's the best that i can do? Study and be independent, right? Yep, that's what I'm doing. And just a tip: apny phone k notes wali app mein rant kia krein. And apologies, if I sound too critical. Peace :)

@fizz.zzz101

3 жыл бұрын

@@rabiaarif4785 well said👏, its so hard for people to understand this tbh. 😐

@muneebahmad4378

2 жыл бұрын

I feel for you But you have to stand for yourself

Teach your daughters that if her husband and mother in law is abusive then talk to your parents.

@BabarKhanJaved

4 жыл бұрын

And teach the parents of the abused girl that they shouldn't turn away their daughter in her time of need. They need to have her back, regardless of what people say.

@toobakhan426

4 жыл бұрын

Why teach daughters why can’t teach your son to not abuse women and respect them equally as they respect their mother or sister?

@ahmadmirza4628

4 жыл бұрын

@@toobakhan426 indeed. Parents must teach their sons to treat the women gently with care and love she deserves that's why I wrote "IF". If those susralis are abusive than girl should have courage to respond the situation effectively.

@kiranghafoor9127

4 жыл бұрын

@@toobakhan426 This nation is never going to teach their sons . they are never going to focus on the main cause of the problem.

That's so true.. we normally don't see love and kindness b/w husbands and wife in our day to day life. They just exist together below same roof.

Who gave dislikes on this beautiful video.are they human beings?

Good job Junaid! So honest and well spoken. There should be more men like you in Pakistan.

first 40 seconds into your video, you nailed it. That is why Islam put so much emphasis on community and felicity at home.

Salam junaid bhai! I never ever commented on any video of you or someone else but this topic, the way how you explain each and everything is just heart touching and eye opening for many families and literally this video should be broadcast on every tv channel to create awareness.

I swear the problems in india and Pakistan is 200 % same 🤣🤣👌👌

@TaimoorTahir

3 жыл бұрын

Dono چ hain!

@AhmadAli-ix7bg

Жыл бұрын

SAME BROO

@Rabi6949

10 ай бұрын

Yes

@everythingeditzzz9708

8 ай бұрын

No brother same hogi lakin itni ni waha male gender k lia b kamzkam koi bolta hai yaha to aurat k chkr ma beqasoor mard phass jata hai sirf aurat bole man lety hn mard bole to evidence mangty hn

This needs to be understood by elders specially!! Great message

Your opinion is absolutely fine. 👍🏻👍🏻

Excellent !! Aik baat ye bhi hai k agar larki k maa baap k paas paisa hai to faltu mai damad ko gifts or financial support na dain ye bhi aik aadmi ko dependent or bekaar bana deta hai or ap k marne k baad beti suffer karti hai kyun k us k husband ko aadat ho chuki hoti hai external help ki.

@naheedn5294

4 жыл бұрын

Wohi tu

@naheedn5294

4 жыл бұрын

@@Jojos469 wohi tu

@Jojos469

4 жыл бұрын

@@naheedn5294 tjhe bemari hai shayad apni lolo chalane ki hahaha

@sarwatkokab8711

4 жыл бұрын

@@Jojos469 hum ne aisa hi kiya hai. and kindly mind your language.

@Jojos469

4 жыл бұрын

@@sarwatkokab8711 bht time hai tere pass mind ur language all the women like u my foot.

What a profound message ! There is a big need of continuous radicalization in our society. Great efforts Junaid sab. I pray for every married girls for their well being and wishing all the best to those who will marry and embark on a new venture. Good Luck to all of my sisters and daughters.

I recently came across your video and decided to check more of them. Must say, I'm thoroughly impressed. Kudos to you for your much-needed servives.

Junaid bhai.. . U r such a social inspirational guru.. Keep it up 👍👍

A very sensitive issue. Yet need to be discussed thumbs up 👍🏻

Appreciate your concerns in bringing these issues to the fore Junaid. There should be equality among both male and female.

I cannot begin to express how much I enjoyed hearing you speak. Absolutely hit every single nail on the head.

I always wanted someone to discuss this Topic on Media You did a very Fine Job 👍

You must use captions in your videos so that everyone internationally understand your opinion!

@muhammadhamzabaig9182

4 жыл бұрын

Is that your nick name ?

@BaBa-pf3ol

4 жыл бұрын

@@muhammadhamzabaig9182 It's my fav actress's name!

@muhammadhamzabaig9182

4 жыл бұрын

@@BaBa-pf3ol I see. Korean showbiz's craze

@rabbiarao8359

4 жыл бұрын

Caption please

@adityamuley87

4 жыл бұрын

He doesn't caption out because otherwise pakistan will have no honour in the world.

Fantastic podcast. Brilliant analysis. This applies to all the countries in South Asia.

From India:-. Excellent advice. Personally my opinion,men and women in our subcontinent are not explained or trained for marriage or on raising children. Earlier ,due to big families people imbibed the right values.now we presume the right thing as what our parents did...which may be wrong. Even a common thing like a driving license needs training,..and we get into a marriage without an inkling of what it is really about.... Hope we come out better in future

I swear this man can make his separate country with his knowledge

@user-gd6xx2dy2i

4 жыл бұрын

Ziada nae hngaya???

@Hm-qx9gl

4 жыл бұрын

Mjhy to nae lgtaa bhai es bndo ko bt ka tarikaa ahta hai

@user-gd6xx2dy2i

4 жыл бұрын

Baat ka tareka ana ya na ana tau alag baat hai.. Par new Pakistan samjh nae aya yeh tau woh Amir liaqat k program ka scene yaad agaya kash app meray walid hoty 😜🤔

@rahabazhar14

4 жыл бұрын

@@user-gd6xx2dy2i hahahahaha sahi baat hai

@137betashot

4 жыл бұрын

@@user-gd6xx2dy2i 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Literally cried at many points. So relatable !

@JamilAhmed-zj9cx

4 жыл бұрын

Hi

@awaissinsights9633

4 жыл бұрын

Jaa Jaa Turr ja wadi Cried 😂😂😂

@zevolt123

4 жыл бұрын

Haaiiii 😍😋

@gr8virgo987

4 жыл бұрын

@@awaissinsights9633 ho skta hai oun k sath aysa kuch hoa ho, aur woh relate kr pati ho... App shyd oun logoo may say jinhay current nahi atta, lol😂.Feeling sorry for you🙊

@sheikhhamza2893

4 жыл бұрын

Allah bhtr kre

Me ek doctor hoon mre husband bhe parhy likhy hain,i always wanted to fill my nikahnama myself and my husband agreed magar jo aas pass k log hoty hain wo pangay karty hain k kya zaroorat hai falana dimkha aur mre nikah nama men haq mehr se le k saray columns jo mre liye thy wo sab cross kardiye... girls please take up ur nikahnama and fill it with ur hone wala husband..

@mrcyrussamud9305

4 жыл бұрын

Matlab kya apka haq mahar parosio ne lene liya??😱

@sibtainabbas6349

3 жыл бұрын

Nikah nama k tukron se kia ho ga jab apki banay he naa khench taan kerne se kia ho jai ga .meri wife ne na nikah nama dekha ha na me ne hme apni resp pata han and we are doing well baki jahan chutia log hn wahan zaror fil kren takay bad me aik dosre se sahe nimat saken

@foziaazfar7747

3 жыл бұрын

When I said to fill my nikah nama , myri ammi ny mjy sb sy ziada danta. Family he opposed krti h.

I wish I could thank you for this this LIKE YOU DESERVED to be thanked. You're doing a great job please don't stop

If we look into our islamic history we would find that the sahabi used to live separate from their parents but they would do tasks for them, take care of them, keep checkif their parents needed anything

@learnarabicathome1099

4 жыл бұрын

Btw all over saudi, dubai, oman egypt its still practiced. And you canmot marry if you dont have separate place for wife

@syed1721

3 жыл бұрын

@@learnarabicathome1099 separate space for wife....what do I mean by that???

@underratedreviewer

2 жыл бұрын

@@syed1721 he means own house, not one family house where everyone is living in small space

I literally cried after watching this video Love you brother love you a lot for this video

@hilalshah4237

4 жыл бұрын

Rouna wale bat tou koi n the !!!

@amitpathak7208

4 жыл бұрын

@@hilalshah4237 lolzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

@samanabid2422

3 жыл бұрын

me too... reminded my story .....

@merannouman828

3 жыл бұрын

stay strong.. 2nd aik request sab larkiyon se learn about your rights...

@Aaasim725

Жыл бұрын

@@hilalshah4237 Just a sympathy vote, nothing else.... yay aaj ki aurton ka nya tareeqa hay kay 4 ansoo baha lo aur phir poora mahalla ikhtta kar lo aur mard par ilzaam laga do kay woh bara zalim hay bilkul isi tarah jaisay hamare haan blasphemy law ko miss use kya jaata hay aur us ki aar main be-gunahon ko especially minorities ko target kya jaata hay.

So glad to know Junaid you are also a man of our society who can talk on these issues so unbiasedly and sensibly with facts and figures.keep it up!

Watched your episode with my Family. They all are agree with you. Thanks for your podcast.

Yes!! government should establish law about to hv some tests of every couple before marriage , I think its a great way to secure many lives . All of us should come forward to ask our government for this law

@sohailarain8369

4 жыл бұрын

Usme bhi fake reports banjaengi paisa dekr :D

@usamahaidery7140

4 жыл бұрын

@@sohailarain8369 hahahahaha

@farwanqv

4 жыл бұрын

Sohail Arain well may be but at least this practise should be started.

@amleonine

4 жыл бұрын

You means demo test :D

@Hassan-ki4un

4 жыл бұрын

rida hassan we have to take responsibilities and not leave everything for government government ye karay wo karay shadi ek aisi chez ha jo choice ha or khud dekh kar k kr saktay hain government ki need nahi

Junaid sb you won my heart today First time ever I am listening someone speaking truthfully.. You deserve some national award seriously You properly slapped mrs khan Thanks

@rubi5509

4 жыл бұрын

Kisi ko slap award deni se pahly Yaad Rekha jab life ko theek se samjh jao gee tou Mrs Khan ki baatyo ko b understand Kar lo gee..AJ ki aurat mard ban Rahe hai..ap jaisi sab log apni Bhabi se expect Kartya hai k sab k Kam Kari aur alag Ghar ki demand b na Kari.. aur apni bar her terha ki freedom Chaya.. husband Acha lagya yeh na lagya par USI k money par apna Pura huq chati hai..Ghar logo se banta hai..Jo tum ko AJ Chaya woh kal ko tumhari daughter-in-law ki demand b ho gee..tab tum jaisio ki Soch Kuch aur ho jati hai..AJ yeh ganja tum aurato k liya BOL reha hai ise liya Acha lag reha hai ...aurat itni b bechari nahe jitna yeh bta reha hai...yeh case ab Kam hai ..aur Quran Mei b aurat ko fitna Bola Gaya hai..mardo k saath b bohat bohat Bura hota hai..baat Karo tou sab k liya Karo Kahi mard Bura aur Kahi aurat..AJ ki aurat besharm aur batmez ho Gaye hai. TiK ToK he Dekh lo hum log Kahi se b Muslims nahe lagtya..ise media nei AJ k bacho ko barbaad Kar Diya hai..aur yeh sab qayamat ki neshnya hai..itna Gand abroad countries Mei b nahe jitna Pakistan Mei hai.. abroad mei women's job b Karti hai aur ghar b dekhti hai..aur Pakistan Mei Kam wali ho tou b aurat thaak jati hai.. useless people.. aurat Ka b test Hona Chaya..kuch zayda he over acting Kar reha hai yeh ganja

@united7594

4 жыл бұрын

@@rubi5509 very well said 👐❤

@jyotmotte6695

4 жыл бұрын

@@rubi5509 wah ji wah!

@hammadfatmi8142

3 жыл бұрын

Miss khan hadia ... he didn't slap anyone and Mrs khan is 100% is right , shadi ko mazak banaya howa h tum aurton ny . Agar responsibility ni uthha sakti tu maat karo shadi , jao jaa k aurat March join karo

@hammadfatmi8142

3 жыл бұрын

@@rubi5509 totally agree with u yeh aurat March wali category h

I agree with each & every word of yours.Thank you for guiding our people

The best is when the in-laws expect the Bahu to be picture perfect in everything regardless of how much faults are there in their own son and in them selves as a family forgetting that she is also a human after all and will have both strengths and weakness. Equality is the key in every relationship, otherwise it just doesn't work, simple as that...

I'm not that person who watch long video clips... But this is soo inspired me.. I watched whole video.. There is need to change the mentality

@kamranthakurrajput6722

3 жыл бұрын

Right

@abdulnafay7185

3 жыл бұрын

Me too

@pakistanirandomguy7982

3 жыл бұрын

Podcasts are useful iske pas guests us level k available hote tw 3 hrs b bnda dekh leta he

Thalassemia, STD, Hepatitis, Drug diagnosis should be compulsory for both involved in "marital contract"

@sarahusman6123

4 жыл бұрын

Good point!

@simpleman4491

4 жыл бұрын

Gee bilkul and Herpes especially genital one.Now a days it's hard to find a virgin man.Doesnt matter if they reside here or abroad. STD is a must.

@waqasanwar122

4 жыл бұрын

khuda ki bandi shukar hy ciggratte ka nahi kaha

These things should be made a part of the curriculum in our colleges and universities. Can't agree more.

So apt for the society we live in. Also it's unbelievable that is talking about these issues with so much wisdom. We need a balance between duniya and deen.

Funny how we talk about the differences between India and Pakistan but legit every single problem that the population faces remains the same. The beliefs, stereotypes, ideas, everything remains same even though we're all taught how different we are.

@saifulhaque4804

4 жыл бұрын

i have to say there are more similarities than differences

@SerAbbas

4 жыл бұрын

Because all Hindus and Muslims were living peacefully together in Indiah for hundreds of years until the early 20th century.

@a1atif

4 жыл бұрын

@@SerAbbas Until British decided to leave.

@Pro-Sanitary

4 жыл бұрын

@@SerAbbas bro you can see now in Imdia whats happening there

@punjabiurduhindipoetry9544

4 жыл бұрын

People are people no matter where you live in the world

No man, I can't expect this much class from one single person. MashaALLAH. These issues are giant nowadays, better to conclude these at least in your own homes.

Holyshit I cant believe this is a Pakistani channel. First time, respect from India. These things were and still are discussed in our country. A lot of progress has been made here. Guys nowadays have the sense that girls might have relationships before they met them. People whom I know respect it. Good to see Pakistan talking sense, and look at comment, just see how many girls feels that their voice is spoken here. Kudos from india. ✌️

@xtylishb4377

4 жыл бұрын

Nikal randian

@FadiKhan

4 жыл бұрын

$hamik_RoY to u Pakistanis is what ur media shows. There is a lot more to Pakistan.

@sheharyarkazmi8262

4 жыл бұрын

$hamik_RoY You guys in India are living in a bubble created by your establishment to push propaganda against Pakistan through media and other outlets. Anyways, glad to see your comment. Peace from Pakistan

@sidrashah1587

4 жыл бұрын

Bhai apni larkiyon ka rona ap log sunty jo nahi woh bechari is sy be zada dukhi hain

i am happy that you make such informative videos without any hesitation. we all want to know such answers but we can't express ourselves sometimes. also i didn't expect that someone would dislike this video. this is also a proof of your talk that such beasts exists

Love From Balochistan ❤️

@i-am-7654

4 жыл бұрын

بھائی پروموٹ کرنا ہی ہے تو اپنے ملک کو کرو لو فروم پاکستان بولو صوبے کا نام کیوں لکھتے ہو یار لو فروم کوئٹہ بولو ۔۔ کوشش کیا کرو کے پاکستانی چینل پر شہر کانام لکھا کرو اور باہر ملک کے کسی بھی چینل پر ملک کا نام لکھا کرو پلیز بھائی شکریہ ۔۔ 😍 اور سوری اگر میری بات بری لگی ہو ۔۔

@naviibaloch7131

4 жыл бұрын

@@i-am-7654 Brother ur Rigt i m from Gawadr

@i-am-7654

4 жыл бұрын

@@naviibaloch7131 شکریا بھائی ۔۔😍

@suafsquad58

4 жыл бұрын

@@i-am-7654 bhai ap kese bacho wali bt ker rahe ho ye International nhi local channel he to banda Love From Pakistan khene ka kya matlab????

@i-am-7654

4 жыл бұрын

@@suafsquad58 میرا پورا کمینٹ ریڈ کریں ۔۔💖😍

Dislikes karny walon ke current nahi ati 😂😂

@pazeerad6576

4 жыл бұрын

🤣😂

@daniyalkhan2753

4 жыл бұрын

👌👌👌😂😂😂

@shaistasohail3214

4 жыл бұрын

Hahaha..

@say2bibhu

4 жыл бұрын

Na Bhai..WiFi signal nahin hey😂😂

@usmannaveed3785

4 жыл бұрын

Lmao

And NADRA verification of the rights of girls in Nikkah nama is the best thing to do!!

@zaeemiftikhar8333

4 жыл бұрын

Literacy on top ham na deen k han na dunya k so eslye aesy hota

Lallo is such a weird word 😂😂😂 awesome video..i must say thanks,because after mrs.khan interview you responded and directed to all the women men out there who are opressed by the opressor and survivng being a victim..your voice is soothing for all the mothers fathers girls and for the betterment of our country.👍👍applaud👏

@humaali6535

4 жыл бұрын

Lalo Is an old urdu word

im 19 and your video has made my day ..Hats off to your knowledge ..i would love to share this with my friends..marriage is a huge issue 99 % females..hope to see your more videos on these issues❤️👍🏻

@zulqarnainzaki5854

2 жыл бұрын

Now youre 21

Well said 👌👌👌i feel so relaxed after watching this video i was mentally so upset

@muhammadkhayyam7318

4 жыл бұрын

Are you facing?

Pakistan should make a law where blood test, psychology test, drug test is made mandatory before doing nikkah/getting marriage certificate from the legal authority.

@malangi31

4 жыл бұрын

And who will pay for all those tests?

I’m so much impressed with his level of awareness and the way he talks is really heart winning 🏆

Brilliantly explained, dude you make so much sense. God bless you always.

@ramlazamir854

4 жыл бұрын

App ki batain one sided hain Srif hamesha larkay hi galat nhi hotay Larkiyon ne bhi bouhat toofan machaya howa hi please us per bhi roshni dalyee

@sadiam8595

4 жыл бұрын

@@ramlazamir854 lol litteraly sari auntiyan aur maulwi hazrat aurton ko hi bura boltay Hain koi ek bhi aurton ka point of view day tu AP log itni tension mein kiu aaa jatay ho ???

U may agree or not.. but he explained The Divorce issue far better than whole BJP parliament.. Love u Junaid Bhai..

@Hrshsngh_19

4 жыл бұрын

Saale tum Katwe log BJP hi kyu aa jaate ho.

@syedmunawer2847

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah right ! And also listened assad sir.

@adityamuley87

4 жыл бұрын

Good... That's why BJP ended triple talaq

very thoughtful and ground to earth opinion. Many thanks JA. Hope many parents will listen and make rightful decisions of their children.

Always informative... Waiting eagerly to see u 1 Million..❤️

Exaclty you are saying all truth. There is no importance for highly educated girls or carrier oriented girls. They need a girl that could be proudly presented to whole family but after that wo job or education chor dy.

A very sensible and mature discussion held by junaid bhai. Hats off.

Brilliant talk! Hats off to you Sir!! Aik aik bat Sachi h..And one thing to emphasize on are the tests of both partners that Junaid sir have talked about in this video that must be done before wedding and it's also my personal opinion!!!

Excellent.. Thanks Fawad chaudhary sahab(minister Wala) .. Unke tatti jaise baat dekhte dekhte ye Kahinoor jaise channel mila.. Now watching all the videos.. Salute you sir.. Respect from India 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏👍👍👍

I’m Pakistani living in US, and allahumdullilah not facing any issues like this.. few in laws, they are nice people and gives me space.. hearing this, is frightening as Allahumdullilah Allah saved me

@HJack-bv7kb

4 жыл бұрын

Stay blessed... Good to here...

@okaberintarou5020

3 жыл бұрын

Kanjri

@zainidrees184

3 жыл бұрын

behen be careful of them they would be nice untill you are oversea Pakistani.

@okaberintarou5020

3 жыл бұрын

@@zainidrees184 Despo. Salay tje koi ni milni

@zainidrees184

3 жыл бұрын

@@okaberintarou5020 you shadeed single I don't need her. Is asked her as behen. Go for a psychological appointment you creep.

Damn marriage is a scary business for Pakistani girls..

@beekingkhanuk2718

4 жыл бұрын

Not only a pakistani girls All over the world im a British pakistani

@destinyachieved4599

4 жыл бұрын

Im an American and its the same situation here as well

@afhamafzal999

4 жыл бұрын

Specially In Pakistan

@irfanali-dd4id

4 жыл бұрын

i m not ur yaar

@princessangeleya2375

4 жыл бұрын

Same situation har jaga

This video is so on point! Just amazing!!!!

So good to talk forthright about such a burning topic. Good job...Hope people learn from this.

Junaid bhai....we Indians suffer from the same situations and mentality

Please make part 2 of jin stories with solangi.

@desilifeinamerica2880

4 жыл бұрын

Hahahahahaa 😂 😂 wapas 😂😂😂😂😂

@muhammadmuzammil9706

4 жыл бұрын

Please bhai solangi kha hain bhai kha hain

@desilifeinamerica2880

4 жыл бұрын

@@muhammadmuzammil9706 HAHAHAHA. It's so funny. I enjoyed his stories too but lol, y'all want him so bad 😂😂😂

@muhammadmuzammil9706

4 жыл бұрын

@@desilifeinamerica2880 Yaar such main yar woh yaad hain interior sindh main tree sa churial geeri thi zameen par woh Wala kisa

@MoAmmarHasan

4 жыл бұрын

han bhai sirf hansi maazaaq ki baaten sunni hain ..social issues bhaar me jaen

Very correctly said. Terrible narrow mindedness of society !! Thanks for sharing this great video. By spreading awareness you are doing a great job!!

You are a gem of a person Junaid bhai. You deserve all the respect you can get. Keep up the good work.