Saying you wouldn’t love your child if there were LGBT is like saying “I love my child but terms and conditions apply”

@acommenter1255

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@sweettea4245

2 жыл бұрын

Jokes aside if a parent stops loving their child after they came out they never loved them in the first place.

@angelinenabua6336

2 жыл бұрын

@@sweettea4245 yep... Imagine changing your mind on a person especially your OWN child, just because they weren't what you wanted them to be 😭

@sweettea4245

2 жыл бұрын

@@angelinenabua6336 Parents who already have plans for what they expect their children to be are ruining the beauty of children in the first place. Its beautiful to raise your child and see them grow into an amazing person. Parents have to expect the unexpected when in comes to raising a child. Before going out and deciding you want to have a child, have a conversation with yourself and ask “Am I financially stable?” “Is my mental health okay?” “Will I still love and support my child if they came out?” “Will I be able to be a prominent figure in their life?” Etc. If you can’t see yourself in one of those scenarios then you need to fix that before deciding to make a baby. Don’t be your child’s enemy.

@angelinenabua6336

2 жыл бұрын

@@sweettea4245 yes. You're obviously correct. They hold such high expectations for their Children and forget that their Children may have another thought or gets forced just for them to exceed their parents expectation... And it's really sad.

"Dad should always understand his daughter." That girl have the sweetest dad ever.

@ibrahimismail5625

2 жыл бұрын

it really depends where you came from and ur culture and its really scary but personallyi think you can choose betwean these things with will power and all but what do i know i dont join communities

@whatareyouthinking6021

2 жыл бұрын

@@ibrahimismail5625 nah it totally depends on the person's personality and the person himself. Culture and the place you come from only has a small impact and in the end of the day you cant tell me that someone is a good father just cause he is from a specific culture

@ibrahimismail5625

2 жыл бұрын

@@whatareyouthinking6021 Society

@angelopezok

2 жыл бұрын

I was crying too when he said that

@misanthropic6582

2 жыл бұрын

I cried with her lmao her dad is amazing

When I came out to my mom, she took a knife from the kitchen and cried, threatening to kill herself. I was only a teenager at the time, and the experience was traumatizing. I'm so thankful that some of these parents are supportive, especially the girl with her father. I almost cried and I'm so happy for her. (2024-02-16) Edit: Really did not expect for this to blow up. I'm really thankful for all the positive comments, and yes, I left the house after and I'm out of that situation. I'm happily living on my own now with a stable income, trying to pay off some debt from university but otherwise fine. To everyone who is fighting trolls/haters, ignore them, I posted this comment to let everyone know that bad situations may happen but you will survive, and I am a testament to that, standing here today. The haters' words don't affect me as I'm doing better in life with a loving boyfriend, so don't waste your time trying to argue with them! Some people never change.

@tsuyu5103

Жыл бұрын

oh fuck that's terrible im hope you're doing well now. i know my words are nothing compares to parent's support but you're wonderful and your sexuality doesn't change or defines you as a person. my english is not that good but i hope you can feel what I've meant ♡

@idk43219

Жыл бұрын

@@tsuyu5103 Thank you so much! Your English is great and yes, I'm doing a lot better now.

@tsuyu5103

Жыл бұрын

@@idk43219 that's a relief♡ happy new year sunshine!

@idk43219

Жыл бұрын

@@tsuyu5103 Happy new year to you too!

@cherririiiii

Жыл бұрын

dude, im so sorry u had to go through that. i hope ur doing so much better now and that the people u are surrounded by support u and care for u.

as a closeted lesbian who lives in a VERY homophobic country, we need more people like that girls dad

@Animeworld-wu1uq

Жыл бұрын

Do you live somewhere in the middle east? My parents are from there and I hate how fucking homophobic they are

@tsuyu5103

Жыл бұрын

we definitely need

@theonionqueen3519

Жыл бұрын

Ayo fellow queer woman here. I’m supporting you, wherever you are, and I know you’ll find freedom and love one day. Stay strong.

@f1v3m0_xx

Жыл бұрын

as a lesbian who live in russia, we are really need more people like her dad. thank god, my mom accepting me

@henolongerneedsme

Жыл бұрын

​@@f1v3m0_xx очень рад за тебя!

the girl’s dad seems like he’s supportive but scared of the prejudice she might face

@griseldadominguez8734

2 жыл бұрын

I thought he was worried; not so much about what others might think, but rather it would hurt her chances of success in work environment

@shurebearys3482

2 жыл бұрын

@Jennie the idol we failed to protect she’s not blind lol

@trulydarya2540

2 жыл бұрын

OMG HI MISA PFP

@ebanydwayne1357

2 жыл бұрын

My dad feels like this as well

@ebanydwayne1357

2 жыл бұрын

@@miriamart3130 As someone who has gone out/dated/hook up with men I say, everything is wrong

That girl's father is such a heartwarming person.

@dareenkina

2 жыл бұрын

True!

@sudiptimurmu8851

2 жыл бұрын

He is so supportive and wishes her to be happy ❤️

@user-pw2kq2qu2z

2 жыл бұрын

i cried ;-;

@ms.darecee1029

2 жыл бұрын

Yesterday I came out to my mother and my mother reacted the same way!!! I'm so happy

@shreyasamanta7230

2 жыл бұрын

This made me cry

The girl with the father absolutely broke me. My dads barely around and when I told my dad a few years back I was bi, he almost killed me. He beat me and made me sleep outside for the night until I told him I was straight. I obviously lied and told him that I was straight, and him saying a dad should always understand his daughter KILLED ME. I started fully bawling and I never cry at videos.

@wooeidikd9412

Жыл бұрын

My parents were also brainwashed. I think they were brainwashed by the liberal party of the Philippines. It is a homophobic political party.

@sweetheart9099

Жыл бұрын

wow.. I’m so sorry..

@shygirleyes8535

Жыл бұрын

I would of told the cops I am so sorry

@TheBrightNeonRuby

Жыл бұрын

I am so sorry what happened to you. Are you ok?

@julescharles1032

Жыл бұрын

When he kicked you out, you should've ran away to give him a heart attack as revenge. Like, "ok you don't want me? Careful what you wish for!"

When I was younger my dad, who’s very religious, used to be extremely homophobic. He would say things like “gay people are disabled” “they’re predators” and would use shocking words against them. I was so scared of coming out I started getting depressed and I felt like he would kick me out of his life. When I finally came out 2 years later with the help of my mom, he started crying because suddenly he remembered all the painful things he said and he felt extremely sorry. And now here we are, he became a trade unionist and protects the rights of minorities daily. I’m glad I got supportive parents even if the journey was long and tough.

@OmgArrii26

2 күн бұрын

This is so sweet. I’m glad he changed for the better and saw the error of his ways:)

@TheManManoel

17 сағат бұрын

Your dad went through a redemption arc

is nobody gonna talk about “i broke up with my bf” “well done”

@jaslikeart

2 жыл бұрын

*well done*

@minty_1806

2 жыл бұрын

_w e l l d o n e_

@fennyfoxy3435

2 жыл бұрын

*WELL DONE*

@ib0ka609

2 жыл бұрын

*w e l l d o n e*

@zirconblue1249

2 жыл бұрын

*W* _e_ *l l* D _o_ *n* _e_

"We're family no matter what." That's really powerful. Parents of gay children should remember that.

@akemi566

2 жыл бұрын

yes, no matter how we grow up. I hope we can do the same to our kids.

@matthiasnroll1901

2 жыл бұрын

Any parents should remember that.

@user-un6ik2vf1f

2 жыл бұрын

I don't agree. I think that you should be allowed to chose if you see them as family i should not feel trapped with horrible people just cause we're related by blood family is something much deeper than that....

@Milk-ck1wv

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-un6ik2vf1f agreed

@Gundam-Prime

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-un6ik2vf1f You do make a good point but I don't think that was what OP meant.

If my child came out to me as lgbt, I wouldn't be able to help but be sad. Not because I don't approve, but because this world can be so ugly and unaccepting. As a parent, I worry that my child will have difficulty finding their happiness. All the more reason to give them my unconditional love and support.

@strugglingcollegestudent

Жыл бұрын

Do not be sad be proud! LGBT pride is a happy thing

@--MrThanakritJareonjaratkul

Жыл бұрын

​@@strugglingcollegestudent They're saying they're proud but the homophobic people will giv them a hard time

@dawinny3234

Жыл бұрын

Well just stop letting them be gay fr

@dawinny3234

Жыл бұрын

The world isnt ugly

@Hi-kd9mo

Жыл бұрын

@@dawinny3234 it doesn’t work like that 💀

it hurt so bad hearing "a dad should always understand his daughter" after just getting into a big fight with my father. i love this video. it's really hard to see other people have good relationships with their parents, but at the same time, it is comforting that not everyone has to go through the hurt of feeling alone in your home.

@crohyena

Жыл бұрын

same... hopefully one day i can be truly be happy for my friends who have good relationships with their parents without feeling pain in my chest.

@missously2088

11 ай бұрын

I understand that so well my narc mother still trying to brainwash me that she knows the world and how these things work. Nothing she has ever told me to do has led me to happiness.

I felt bad for the girl who got cussed by her mom. The smile she projects means pain to me.

@astrid8678

2 жыл бұрын

It justs shows how they're so used to it.I would've cried on the spot if I were them.

@niceloophole7782

2 жыл бұрын

“The smile she projects means pain to me” sounds edgy 😶

@astrid8678

2 жыл бұрын

@@shingswoooop Calm down for a second.They just wanted to express their oppinion with a sentence that you may see as "edgy and gay".Also stop using "gay" as an insult cause all you know is that they might be gay plus it gives off "I'm a homophobic popular kid that doesn't know human decency" vibes. Edti:The person deleted their comment-Smh,all i recall is that they commented “Your comment is edgy and gay” or smth like that

@niceloophole7782

2 жыл бұрын

@@shingswoooop my name or my username? My name means angel/wings of an angel 🤨

@kawaiiotakuttv9447

2 жыл бұрын

@@shingswoooop 😐 okay snowflake. Stop using gay as a insult

The girl’s dad was so heartwarming. What a fantastic father.

@ThinkBoxKorea

2 жыл бұрын

I really touched too 😢

@youdontknowme6349

2 жыл бұрын

i almost cried

@ubernerrd

2 жыл бұрын

It's truly nice to see a father that loves his daughter *unconditionally*.

@siyeonsfirstwife

2 жыл бұрын

Truly

@babushka9998

2 жыл бұрын

bless him

2:56 I love that even though his mom was hesitant she was more curious to understand better. Very heartwarming video ❤

I'm straight but oh my god I'm crying so bad rn...This father is just the role model for every parent. Everyone wants to be loved, accepted and supported by family unconditionally

“Dad should always understand his daughter. There’s nothing I can’t understand. We’re family no matter what.” It melted my heart so bad......

@pahoellyyy

2 жыл бұрын

Too bad dads like that are one in a million among traditional Asian parents... 😔

@nafasarianmehr1268

2 жыл бұрын

He's one in a million.

@Gl1tt3ry_C0m3t

2 жыл бұрын

Too bad my dad is homophobic and I'm actually pansexual 😔 And yes, he's Asian :]

@lotus8936

2 жыл бұрын

Nah bro it’s elated your heart so good! ⟟ loved that so much : D

@ladydeathstrikeX

2 жыл бұрын

He is one in a million literally. I really wish I had a father like this.

It's so sad that the girl who got cussed out felt that her parents were laid back and would probably not care what her sexuality was.

@H_shm29

2 жыл бұрын

𝙸𝚝'𝚜 on 00:38

@Helloknight

2 жыл бұрын

That’s how i felt too, before i asked them about why their god felt that being abuthing other than cis and straight is wrong

@IshikaGoel29

2 жыл бұрын

the fact that they didnt show hpw it ended up with her really makes me worried. i guess it really didnt go well

@notwerkinginthishouse8634

2 жыл бұрын

@@IshikaGoel29 Wish i can come to her and welcome her in my home

@user-he8ui1rq6w

25 күн бұрын

But the girl who got cussed and who said about her parents like you explained are different people The girl with laid-back parents was supported by her dad

"a dad should always understand his daughter" now that's a good father!!

I started tearing up when the dad said ''there's nothing I can't understand'' and ''We're family no matter what''

The girls dad is actually worried about the struggles she'll face, not exactly bc of the worlds perception of her. That's just a great dad :)

@daphodilly

2 жыл бұрын

THE AMITY PFP

@daphodilly

2 жыл бұрын

SO GAY 😩😩

@fallenlucifer

2 жыл бұрын

THE AMITY PFP IM CRYING BAHAHAH- THE NAME I JUST NOTICED AHAHHAHAHAH- Alr after that breakdown yup i agree.

@oliwiataras6017

2 жыл бұрын

I like your profile picture

@yuriiharaaa8545

2 жыл бұрын

Amity oh cramity

when the girl’s dad said “you could get married in other countries” and “we’re family no matter what” that was so heartwarming bcs that means her dad has basically accepted her already despite the shock and is already thinking about her future 🥺

@marianayumi7167

2 жыл бұрын

When he talked about other countries I teared up. He sounded shocked but was still completely supportive of her relationship 🥺

@fidhanawal5925

2 жыл бұрын

So are they actually gay?

@anikaaaaa5294

2 жыл бұрын

@@fidhanawal5925 thats the whole video😭😭😭

@mampihazarika9537

2 жыл бұрын

I know right? That was so nice.

@harshithautla2280

2 жыл бұрын

@@anikaaaaa5294 i think only for video they did that

I love how calm and relaxed he was when he said, "He has just grown on me" and he smiled

2:29 I DIED WHEN HIS DAD SAID “HUH?”

@DUCKS484

17 күн бұрын

Real😭

“There's nothing I can't understand, we're family no matter what.” that melted my heart

@stillnotfound2040

2 жыл бұрын

Same sis

@avyavy

2 жыл бұрын

made me tear up.

@marialuceferrara9823

2 жыл бұрын

Same....I'm crying 🥺🥺💜

@ayeshaananna2276

2 жыл бұрын

i am also crying with her...

@georgiar3995

2 жыл бұрын

Me too, though for a different reason - it reminded me of my mum's reaction when I came out. Shock, but overridden by concern and acceptance. Her main priority was getting me to sit down because it was the first time I had come out to anyone, and I was shaking so hard she thought I was going to fall over. Same-sex marriage had been legal here for years, but my mum and I were both raised in Christian Fundamentalism. She viciously defends me against her own family.

the father saying lgbtq marriage is allowed overseas implying his daughter can travel to get married is so heart melting

@yg1307

2 жыл бұрын

@@hari2824 no need to comment if it's gonna be rude.

@myra4537

2 жыл бұрын

@@hari2824 Dont be so rude man

@ohshanana2397

2 жыл бұрын

@@hari2824 tf, i you don’t have enough something good to say, don’t say it at all

@kruciphixs8292

2 жыл бұрын

@@hari2824 You wrote” I wish i didn’t have a dad like this” Did you meant to say that you wish you did have a father like this or it is not a mistake?

@kruciphixs8292

2 жыл бұрын

@@hari2824 it’s better to have a dad like this than have a dad like mine who says he cares but really he doesn’t.

that conversation with her dad made me cry so much. i hope one day my dad can be this supportive too.

I’m so sorry to everyone in the comments who’s parents are so mean. I cannot imagine what that’s like you are so strong live how you like love who you want. 💕

@MRSROVER_

Жыл бұрын

كليزق مسويه فهيمه

“I um..I broke up with my boyfriend.” “Well done”. I felt that

@dhruvikapathak9642

2 жыл бұрын

What do you feel

@sheesh7833

2 жыл бұрын

Wow there is the comment that got 1.8k likes and there is only 1 chat? Not fair

@adrianacastellanos2940

2 жыл бұрын

@@sheesh7833 lol it fine anyways 👍

@diliaaastarlight8691

2 жыл бұрын

@@dhruvikapathak9642 "emotions" like a normal human would

@dhruvikapathak9642

2 жыл бұрын

@@diliaaastarlight8691 oh l can't feel that because l not a human

That one father who was so understanding and showed support towards his daughter is just truly heartwarming.

@ELmayberry

2 жыл бұрын

yesss 🥰

@stinkyjoe4720

2 жыл бұрын

I agree, she was clearly not sure how he would react. I know she was crying out of relief.

@BiancaPark

2 жыл бұрын

His response really made me cry. You could really feel through the screen the weight lifting off her shoulders while listening to him...

@jayseanmof1959

2 жыл бұрын

i was literally crying by watching their whole conversation i wish i had a dad or mom like him

@Liliciousss00

2 жыл бұрын

@@jayseanmof1959 me too

The dad is such a beautiful soul. She is lucky to have him.

I came out to my family and they keep denying it. That was 2 years ago. It still hurts

@bojanadabic282

4 ай бұрын

than be normal

@Viv1enne.

4 ай бұрын

@@bojanadabic282 define normal

@adibmahmood8618

4 ай бұрын

​@@Viv1enne.Don't be gay simple😊

@SvetlanaBraunn

4 ай бұрын

@@Viv1enne.Straight

@elleg6026

3 ай бұрын

As a fellow gay person I just want to say that you are valid. You are perfect just the way you are. I'm so sorry that your comment was met with such nasty replies.

I was literally crying when her father said, "I support you don't mind others."

@ft.papacat8892

2 жыл бұрын

same.

@thegirlwhoofficallyneednam4019

2 жыл бұрын

ayyy Girl My Name Is Aanchal too💞💞

@kittikovari4322

2 жыл бұрын

I wonder how would he react if he had a son and not a daughter.

@opct_elite1310

2 жыл бұрын

Same bur idk how to tell my dad that I'm bi💙💜

@temswia521

2 жыл бұрын

OMG same here. I thought this only happens in dramas.

"a dad should always understand his daughter, there's nothing i can't understand. we're family no matter what". i teared up, he's so heartwarming 🥺!! that girl should be so thankful to have a dad like him.

@stevvejobss

2 жыл бұрын

1.2k likes and no replies wtf

@cjertel5847

2 жыл бұрын

I cried too! You can tell how much that meant to her. They are very lucky to have each other 💜

@ahem9590

2 жыл бұрын

He was such a good person...I hope everyone gets parents like him who support their children in situations like these...

@cjertel5847

2 жыл бұрын

Me too! We are going thru a moment in time where individuals are finally starting to break free and be exactly who they know they are. Members of the LGBTQ+ are so brave and I don’t think they truly know that they are changing the WORLD! Right here and now! I love seeing the videos of parents/family that accept their loved one after they tell them. And it breaks my heart to hear of someone’s family disowning them when they shared their truth. I don’t want kids, but if I ever do, I’ve learned from stuff like this that support and understanding is so important.

@fia1409

2 жыл бұрын

I’m crying rn. Bless him

When I came out to my mother she was calm and more accepting than my father who strictly told me to leave the house and never step inside this house again. I was only 13 at that time and it broke my heart. It takes a lot of courage yet they never try to understand. The girl is lucky to have a supportive father.

@qwertz666

Жыл бұрын

Doesn't your dad knows that he can go to jail for throwing out underage kid out of the house? It's not that simple.

@justmateloutre4768

4 ай бұрын

​@@qwertz666 His father has no gray matter in his brain

@conscience1417

17 күн бұрын

@@qwertz666Depends on country's laws

I am promising myself today when I will have kids I will support them in every situation and never will leave them alone

@maximeminassian6002

10 ай бұрын

You’ll be a better parent than a lot of people in this comment section then.

@user-oo9fv7sc3c

10 ай бұрын

@@maximeminassian6002 i hope I can be

@adibmahmood8618

4 ай бұрын

​@@user-oo9fv7sc3cnow bro you will be disaster parent

"We're family no matter what" 😭❣️ Everyone deserves a dad like him ❣️

@stanleysutandy3991

2 жыл бұрын

I want my mom like him :(

@ss-sr5my

2 жыл бұрын

@@stanleysutandy3991 no every mom is not same..they have different way of being kind and sweet🥺Ik your mom is that💗

@bangpinkcollabwillendthein8984

2 жыл бұрын

I want a dad like him

@shanthimeena8294

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@MinYoongi-xf3dz

2 жыл бұрын

My dad would beat the fuck out of me

The fact that fathers were more supportive than mothers burst the whole bubble of perspective that Hollywood had created in my mind over the years.

@luffymain

2 жыл бұрын

the one dudes mother seemed alright with it. acceptance doesn’t have to do with gender.

@MillieDuu

2 жыл бұрын

@@luffymain True. Acceptance depends on the person

@nishikaaa6515

2 жыл бұрын

@@MillieDuu FRFR I WISH EVERY PARENT HAD THAT MUCH UNDERSTANDING-

@MillieDuu

2 жыл бұрын

@@nishikaaa6515 IKR

@icarusgotooclose

2 жыл бұрын

I think it had to do with which parent they had the closest relationship. I think many women have closer relationships with their dad while their mom has more expectations for them, and vice versa for men. Obviously not always, but i think it's a common theme.

내가 엄마에게 내가 게이라고 말했을 때 그녀는 "걱정하지 마라, 나는 너를 지원한다"고 말했다. 다시 한 번 그 순간을 생각하면 마음이 따뜻해집니다.

@sweetheart9099

Жыл бұрын

aawn that’s so cute

3:37 melt my heart

the daughter is crying, the dad is crying, I'm crying, we're all crying

@Faceless_Venice

2 жыл бұрын

Not really, but your 100th like

@dxcSOUL

2 жыл бұрын

@DripTrollKing we got some internet tough guys here

@millionsofpeople9414

2 жыл бұрын

And I’m not crying

@JeonJungkook-qi7pl

2 жыл бұрын

I cried too

@ledbileq

2 жыл бұрын

Who’s we? 😂

No CuZ the way the girl’s dad was like “you can get married in other countries” was actually sweet cuz it kinda meant to me that he was already thinking of how she could get married and was planning it even though she JUST told him that she liked a woman 🥺🥺

@emma-vb8ys

2 жыл бұрын

it’s so sad how lgbtq people can’t get married in korea yet. i hope it becomes legalized soon and more koreans become more open minded towards gay people. that dad was so sweet and i love him

@meh9677

2 жыл бұрын

I thought the same!

@rayn724

2 жыл бұрын

I’m a lesbian, and in my country not only is gay marriage illegal, but it can land you 7 years in prison 🧍🏽

@aathira741

2 жыл бұрын

@@rayn724 Which country?

@rayn724

2 жыл бұрын

@@aathira741 Pakistan :’)

When I came out as Bi my mom started crying, my father was so disappointed, and my brother who was on the phone said he was going to beat me up, I left the room and came back later to apologize for who I am, when I saw the girl’s father being so understanding and loving I started crying with her. It was so sweet

@nufailanoon

6 ай бұрын

Being bi or g ay is not bad, because it is not a choice! But the problem and perver$ion is when those feelings are acted upon and that person does sex with the wrong gender or having suspicious romance expressions with the same sex

@nufailanoon

6 ай бұрын

@@moving8496 how is that a contradiction? They are different, they were born with an inclination towards immorality but of course depends on the society you are born to, if you are for example from Spain, it would be normal but not in other countries. And who told you it is their right to act upon their feelings? They can make friends and best friends but no such thing as boy-boy relationship

@scarlessyt

5 ай бұрын

@@nufailanoonit is a choice

I'm Muslim., a girl, and yk how hard it is for us girls in a Muslim environment to actually live, they're all like "a woman is obligated to be with a man to even go out", you can't date openly, neither be yourself, I'm bisexual, and once my mom almost knew and she was about to literally cancel me lmfao, but I joked about it and said it wasn't anything serious, watching them coming out and some of their parents support them really warm the heart, my religious parents would never, so I'm just waiting till I'm finally independent to do what I can

@dfdxdfdydfdz

Жыл бұрын

Don’t be a Muslim

@UnBesoDeCristal

Жыл бұрын

❤

“i’ve heard they can get married in other countries…” my heart sank, the fact that equal rights are that far away from lgbt koreans. the idea of gay marriage is simply an idea to them :(

@nehanaveen2252

2 жыл бұрын

it's simply an idea and a faraway dream in many countries

@karalsor6145

2 жыл бұрын

@@nehanaveen2252 yeah....I'm just waiting to go to France where its legal, unlike in my country...I know I will never come out to my parents, and if I end up marrying a girl...they won't know :/

@fazetta

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah... imagine living in Iran Which I do while being forever closeted.

@user-qx2kb9jl4y

2 жыл бұрын

@@fazetta I live in a country where it is illegal to be homosexual but You have it a 100x worse omg. I can’t imagine it

@missdibule2039

2 жыл бұрын

@@karalsor6145 We would be glad to welcome you. Same-sex marriage is a recent yet really important part of France now, and a big step for more tolerance and equality. You have my support

"Can't you just support me?" Okay i feel the pain when she said that :(

@shazzadahmed2682

2 жыл бұрын

Koreans with their fake Caucasian surgery

@carameuloz

2 жыл бұрын

@@shazzadahmed2682 what is wrong with you

@justamberish

2 жыл бұрын

@@shazzadahmed2682 what?

@ziqqyziqqy

2 жыл бұрын

@@shazzadahmed2682 bro who hurt you

@h1l1ght420

2 жыл бұрын

@@shazzadahmed2682 obsessed behavior

As an Indian I can't say to my parents that I'm bisexual .🥲 even I can't say them that I am a tomboy not a regular girl on the streets. It is very sad that parents don't understand that love is love🥲

@srinan6215

Жыл бұрын

yea its true

@titanszs

Жыл бұрын

love is love with siblings too then no😂?

@error_tryagain_4049

Жыл бұрын

Same, I'm terrified to say I'm aromantic, 'cause I feel like the first response I'll get is to become a priest (something I vehemently don't want to be when I grow up)

@oanagaby

Жыл бұрын

@@titanszs are you dense?

@titanszs

Жыл бұрын

@oana gaby love is love stop hating 🥱🥱🥱

lol “I don’t care, go make money” attitude

@jj4774ns-te5px

4 ай бұрын

I think his point was "people will gossip, will make your life tough, but you go chase after your dreams because if you work hard, you won't have time to hear them, plus your success will shut them up".

“I broke up with my boyfriend” Dad: “Well done” But he was so understanding and a good father. Always came back with the milk 🗿

@cathaythai7711

2 жыл бұрын

PFFT-

@mcdonaldslumine1777

2 жыл бұрын

Not the milk 🗿😂😂

@joelcombs7588

2 жыл бұрын

What a legend.

@user-yz3qf1zt6g

2 жыл бұрын

Not like deku's dad lmao 💀

@mcdonaldslumine1777

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-yz3qf1zt6g he went to get milk 13 years ago and still hadn't returned 🧎‍♀️✨

I love how the dad is so supportive but the "I broke up with my boyfriend-" "Well done." KILLED ME I love it

@Marjorie_But_A_Commentator

2 жыл бұрын

Maybe the guy was pretty terrible to her and the father was aware.

@gayforurparents2990

2 жыл бұрын

I like the ranboo pfp

@HeyILoveThis

2 жыл бұрын

@@Marjorie_But_A_Commentator for me it was just funny I preffered not to think about a backstory to that since it makes it a bit depressing ngl

@HeyILoveThis

2 жыл бұрын

@@gayforurparents2990 ty

@ranumy3026

2 жыл бұрын

I also like ur pfp

I'm from the UK. My boyfriend is from the Philippines. We have had nothing but support from both our families when we came out to them. We are both very lucky. I wish it was the same for everyone. Please just all live your lives the way you want to. Don't worry about trying to please others. You only get 1 life, go live it the best way! 🥰❤️👬🏳️‍🌈🇬🇧🇵🇭

My mom and dad would probably disown me

why are people asking if they’re really gay? that one girl literally broke down cuz of how supportive her father was.

@sillymulchgobbler

2 жыл бұрын

The previous video was seeing how parents reacted to Koreans telling their parents that they’re dating an American, so they thought that this was just a social experiment like the other video, which it isn’t.

@prettysailormoon

2 жыл бұрын

@@sillymulchgobbler oh okay. thank u for telling me.

@sillymulchgobbler

2 жыл бұрын

@@prettysailormoon np

@d.ani.6882

2 жыл бұрын

Even if it was an experiment it showed some of them that their parent's love isn't unconditional after all. Let's say these people are straight, but still support LGBT and wanted to do this experiment for that reason. When you find out that your parent(s) is homophobic and responds super negatively towards you, you realize that in another life if you WERE LGBT, you would not be accepted by your own flesh and blood. You realize your parents don't love you as much as you thought they did, and they only love a specific version of you that aligns with their beliefs and what they want. It's even worse when you already, for real, are LGBT. Having to come into terms with that is a heartbreaking experience. It's heartbreaking to think that if you tried to be vulnerable with your parents and tell them something as important as that, which would by no means be easy to do, they would think much less of you. They would be ashamed of you and, in extreme cases, disown you or cut ties, because they can't accept someone who is LGBT as their kid.

@ensomniac9479

2 жыл бұрын

you don't need to be gay to be overwhelmed knowing that your father will support you no matter what.

“Dad should always understand his daughter.” AHH MY HEART SO SWEET.

@lovelylipbonesouwwwwwwwolv2198

2 жыл бұрын

IKR so wholesome!

@dreaminqx

2 жыл бұрын

☺

@claireify1963

2 жыл бұрын

ikr i cried!

@annathenagitostan3092

2 жыл бұрын

If my dad was like that I would've been happier

@iloveexo5287

2 жыл бұрын

😊

5:43 Her dad made me tear up😭

4:20 this moment is so beautiful, the dad is so supportive to her daughter, he says like I don’t want this to kinda “block” your life, you have to first earn money etc…

Parents who don’t accept their own children should’ve never had em in the first place.

@annabellehe4307

2 жыл бұрын

They just want little clones of themselves smh

@StxtchKiss

2 жыл бұрын

@@annabellehe4307 right like a person is still individually their own person. 🥴

@honeybee2532

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah but too late by then.

@lamma746

2 жыл бұрын

@@sotis1756 you can still have children. The thing is ignorant parents like this are still around and it doesn’t motivate most same sex couples to have kids. Also, plenty of adults on Korea aren’t having kids or getting married anyways. Harsh parents and society is the issue.

@MikkiManson13

2 жыл бұрын

@@sotis1756 1. Gay ppl can have biological kids, whether through surrogacy, IVF, sperm donor, or by just one member of the couple being trans. If they decide to have biological children, of course. 2. Obsessing with your kids having kids like that is creepy af. 3. Do people like you just not realize that there are plenty of cis straight people that are infertile or just choose not to have biological (or adopted) kids? Having even a straight kid isn't a guarantee that you'll get grandkids. Children don't exist to reproduce for you wtf

OMG THAT ONE GIRL'S DAD "you can get married in some countries" HE WAS LITERALLY READY TO HELP I WANT TO CRY (btw this is a positive thing i think someone misunderstood lol_

@embb120

2 жыл бұрын

Freak you are icl

@chiakistetrisaccount3451

2 жыл бұрын

@@embb120 ?? sorry what?

@frootparrot4581

2 жыл бұрын

@@embb120 what????????

@blueflamingo4526

2 жыл бұрын

@@embb120 you're weird

@cheddarcheesewoah

2 жыл бұрын

@@embb120 icl?

I have a girlfriend. My mother only knows about her as a friend. And last night we had a little conflict about traditions etc.. she took a knife and said that she would kill me if that friend turned out to be a lesbian..

@Gen7nn.

5 ай бұрын

That is horrifying.

@SakuraandMizu

4 ай бұрын

i am not homophobic, but i dont support yall [due to personal reasons] but i respect you guys a lot...but please, this is so scary...i hope your okay and doing well, please take care of yourself and report anything to the police if you feel unsafe around her

the last girl's interaction with her father was so heartwarming to watch

I feel so bad for the girl whose parents swore at her :( poor thing, I hope she’s okay.

@ri7244

2 жыл бұрын

right also 1K likes in a 2 days!?

@samihaaraisa

2 жыл бұрын

@@ri7244 2k in one day- wow

@environmentaly7894

2 жыл бұрын

@@ss-sr5my "make them good" girlie why was her coming out the parent bad? She doesn't need a scolding, she needs a supportive parents. She did nothing wrong to be cursed out like that.

@ss-sr5my

2 жыл бұрын

@@armygenezenxmy2498 well i am not talking about any gay lol can be another thing too

@environmentaly7894

2 жыл бұрын

@@ss-sr5my it was about her coming out, not other situations smh 🙄.

Imagine getting that reaction- "Dad, I broke up with my boyfriend" "Well done." 💀🤚 Edit: Her dad is literally too sweet though. I feel like this is how my dad would react if I got together with a girl. I've told him and my mom I'm pansexual and they are like "... Your point is?" like they see no difference in me. They both don't believe in sexualities and how you should be with the opposite gender only, so I'm relieved-

@talarv9026

2 жыл бұрын

I'm so happy for you that you have such supportive and loving parents! ❤

@4l1v3._com

2 жыл бұрын

@@talarv9026 Thank youu🥺❤️

@sandhanitizer6260

2 жыл бұрын

Ur so lucky! I came out as pansexual too, and they literally didnt talk to me for months. They said i can either be GET OUT OF THE HOUSE or quit being pan. But somehow, I'm surviving in this household.😥 and whenever i have a guy over(Im a guy too btw), she tells him to get out of the house. Then when i have girls over, she tells them to get out too! I really dont like it in here!😭😭

@4l1v3._com

2 жыл бұрын

@@sandhanitizer6260 Awh, I'm so sorry for you! Don't let them control you into thinking what's "Best for you". Nobody knows what's best for you better than yourself❤️ Sexuality can't be helped, and if they can't see that then that's their problem. I hope you'll be able to get out of that situation soon❤️

@sandhanitizer6260

2 жыл бұрын

@@4l1v3._com thank you!!❤ btw im army too!

To you individuals who believe that the father shouldn’t support his daughter, I genuinely hope that you don’t become parents. There were quite a few of you and I really didn’t expect it. When you decide that you want to bring life into this world, the bare minimum that you should offer them is unconditional love; especially when it’s a trait that they didn’t choose and literally cannot control. Denying parts of them and deciding that you should scold them and hate them due to them simply loving is the same as denying your child happiness. If you still can’t understand it, then imagine your parent hating you and telling you that you’re disgusting for having a specific skin color. The concept of choosing sexuality is essentially the same as choosing skin color. It’s unjust and unnecessarily hateful.

@justmateloutre4768

4 ай бұрын

Hi I completely understand what you did and what you think but, honestly I can't support LGBT people because of my religion, Islam, which I do not want to leave If I had a gay child, I wouldn't support him but I would respect his sexual orientation, I know it's not his choice but honestly I couldn't let him marry someone of the same sex as him, because in Islam we do not have the right to marry gay. If you see this message, please don't be aggressive, I'm just posting my opinion and I'm a little young 🙏😭

I grew up in Thailand and remember telling my mom when I was a teenager that I liked a girl in my class. She didn’t make a big deal of it and just casually said that I can do whatever I want as long as I’m happy and it doesn’t hurt anyone. I’m truly grateful that many Thai parents are open-minded about same-sex relationships.

The girl who was smiling while her mom was cussing her out literally broke my heart like you can feel the pain in her smile

@tokiohotelsgf

2 жыл бұрын

@@jasonshade9182 I'm proud of you love 🤍

@cellotron4758

2 жыл бұрын

@@jasonshade9182 I’m so sorry for your pain. You’re better now right? If you want to talk about it, I’m here.

@ricewine353

2 жыл бұрын

@@jasonshade9182 and they say love always wins. Like the fuck grow up cuz in the real world that is bullshit.

@Tranitosaur

2 жыл бұрын

@@ricewine353 It still does, it's just the parents didn't love the person which is why they had to severe ties.

@LelouchViBritannia13

2 жыл бұрын

@@jasonshade9182 Proud of you! You can't choose your blood relations but you can choose to surround yourself with people who love and support you.

I feel bad for the girl who got cussed out by her own mother... though I'm really happy how parents supported their children and I hope hers will change their mind sooner or later. When she smiled through the pain my heart broke:(

@sarraleo8034

2 жыл бұрын

Hello Noelle

@AyanAli-py7ci

2 жыл бұрын

@Yungplaygurl Korean women were told by their fathers in the 1950s to get plastic surgery to attract white military men because oriental features looked unattractive. This is how plastic surgery started in Korea.

@yunkiwa1083

2 жыл бұрын

@@AyanAli-py7ci what has that to do with this 😂

@yunkiwa1083

2 жыл бұрын

@Yungplaygurl I knew that i am half korean but it was sooo random

@skygoomysteatime3967

2 жыл бұрын

Yea like she didn't came on the screen after the mother was cursing poor girl.

I live in a country where even the younger generation struggles to accept homosexuality outside of movies and bl series. I've thought about coming out to my parents several times, but every time the certainty that I will be kicked out to live on the streets has held me back. I've always been Daddy's girl, and I wish my father would be as supportive as the girl's father. She's lucky to have one who doesn't hesitate at all to have her back.

As a gay person, Why is this so freaking sweet 😭😭

“Dad should always understand his daughter. There’s nothing I can’t understand. We’re family no matter what.” Wow 😭😭😭

@killertank3168

2 жыл бұрын

I cry when her dad say that 😭😭😭

@armyyy7444

2 жыл бұрын

I wish I had a father like her

@nadacentap.c.a.t921

2 жыл бұрын

This melted my heart 😭

it really hurts watching the way the lady said "can't you just support me?" while trying to smile after she heard how her mother cussed at her for being true to herself.

@dolcemaddalena

2 жыл бұрын

The mother may come around. I have gay friends who experienced this at the beginning. Parents react differently and many are just in shock and do not know what to say or how to behave with news like this. I don't agree with their reactions but this is in South Korea and it is conservative. Her mother may need to process it. One of my friends in school came out when she was in her late teens. They kicked her out but eventually they came around. It took a while and they accepted her orientation and support her 100%. My cousin came out and my aunt was crying because she was scared not angry. She was concerned about discrimination, hate crimes, this was in the seventies. She told him to leave and move to the city as we were in a rural conservative village.

@erika._.lex6

2 жыл бұрын

@@dolcemaddalena nice! Hopefully the mother comes around…

@imapoptartbro

2 жыл бұрын

@@dolcemaddalena that brings hope to me as well! i’m planning to tell later in life, while im in collage, not high school

@gothicfox2937

2 жыл бұрын

@@dolcemaddalena please just know that South Korea is a conservative country so I wouldn’t be surprised if she didn’t but I would like to hope that them other did soon accept her daughter

@supervipergaming1357

2 жыл бұрын

W mother

the DAD made me cry, i wish my parents were that supportive

That video was both heartwarming and heartbreaking. I've never even officially came out to my parents or anyone as bi, one day it was just like "oh, btw..." And it was all cool. I feel so sorry for the girl with that bad mom. I hope she can move on in her life and love women the way she wants to.

@jj4774ns-te5px

4 ай бұрын

I think it was just an experiment. But look how it hurts to know your parents' love is highly conditioned.

@high_while_droolin69

4 ай бұрын

@@jj4774ns-te5px it probably does.

When that girl's dad said "we are family no matter what" made me tear up so bad . Remembering that my dad said that don't even consider me as your dad if you are going to be like this.

@Shreyy_raghu

2 жыл бұрын

That's soo true!

@kotoriitsuka3218

2 жыл бұрын

That’s so sad. I am a straight girl but I do wanna see my dad’s reaction. But I am a coward lol.

@aloemae2106

2 жыл бұрын

I'm so so sorry you have to live with what he said...., you are absolutely wonderful and worthy of love

@MonkeyDLuffy-rr3wl

2 жыл бұрын

@@kotoriitsuka3218 What do you wanna see, if you're straight? Seeing how he'd react if you lie about being gay? I don't think it's a good idea, cuz it'll permanently stick in his head.

@samihatasnimmim7609

2 жыл бұрын

:)

I'm so surprised that parents are okay with showing who they're to kids, but when kids show who they're, they're NOT ACCEPTED. Amazing Edit: Damn the likes tho!

@FlorEnCeCe

2 жыл бұрын

Showing who they are to kids like what? What do they show they're kids

@ubergamer2010

2 жыл бұрын

@@FlorEnCeCe ... not accepting?

@friedfetus.8948

2 жыл бұрын

Animayo parents who physically/ mentally abuse their kids in the name of stress or anger issues, over controlling parents, parents who drink in front of their kids, parents who quarrel in front their kids and much more. In the end when we ask them y they’re doing this they give some senseless excuses like “tats how kids should be raised” or “this is normal in every family” or “this is how adults act”or they say “don’t talk back to parents”. They chose to give birth to us it wasn’t our choice and it’s their responsibility to accept their children and let them grow in a safe and accepting space. It’s their responsibility to not vent out their anger or apply unnecessary rules and traditions on kids and let them think and act freely.

@FlorEnCeCe

2 жыл бұрын

@@friedfetus.8948 thx for the essay

@disgustedbyyourstupidity9895

2 жыл бұрын

@@FlorEnCeCe idk why, its a thanks but i found it offensive lmao

I love that her father started thinking of ways that could help his daughter live with who she loved!!! He already was thinking about ways to get them married❤❤❤

the way they made the one good response stand out even with all the other negative ones shows so much about how we should communicate in our world, about how we can lay our focus on the positives, how far we've come, while still being conscious and aware of the issues we face. much aroha 💜

It’s really interesting how at the start they were all like my parents are so accepting of me and they always support me but this one small detail all of a sudden changed that

@justinneff9560

2 жыл бұрын

The way they intro’d the video I thought they weren’t actually gay just seeing what their parents reaction would be. Honestly, I’m still a bit unsure. PD never asked “do your parents know you’re gay?” Just told them “today you’re telling your parents you’re gay.”

@BiancaPark

2 жыл бұрын

@@justinneff9560 I was also unsure but I think the more important message from this video was the parents and their reaction/response to their child coming out to them. I honestly don't care if none of them are actually gay, you could tell that it meant a lot to the woman talking to her dad that he would accept her and even meet her girlfriend to have dinner. It was so heart warming to see. :)

@pregnantleggies3696

2 жыл бұрын

@@BiancaPark Yeah we just don't want them to just don't want them having other people pretending to be gay for views. The message and the hardships people experience by coming out are certainly in the video.

@SieMiezekatze

2 жыл бұрын

Internalized homophobia is scary

@lryxai

2 жыл бұрын

Now I'm scared to come out to my parents ;-;

“A dad should always understand his daughter, we’re family no matter what. Don’t think about what others say..you live your life..” 🥺🥺🥺 I teared up. I wish I had a father like that

@isabellahaas6617

2 жыл бұрын

me too...

@pamt3130

2 жыл бұрын

Same here 🙁

@AyanAli-py7ci

2 жыл бұрын

Korean women were told in the 1950s by their fathers that they need plastic surgery to attract white military men. They told them Korean men are oriental losers. This is how plastic surgery started in Korea

@abdilitttle5674

2 жыл бұрын

Korea is the suicide capital of the world because Korean women don't like Oriental men. They desire Caucasian featured men added with Caucasian noses, and air brushed skin tones too

@xo_xomg

2 жыл бұрын

same :(

I would love my son until the end of time, no matter what. Love is unconditional.

Her father is so supportive she is very lucky to have a father like him when they both were crying idk why but my tears also started falling down

when the mom said "hang up the phone" I was scqred she meant she didn't want to speak to him anymore, but the fact that she said that becauae its a serious subject she wants to be talked in person was heartwarming to me

@jlyn_7918

2 жыл бұрын

thousandth like :)

@jauxro

2 жыл бұрын

Right 😭 that was a much better outcome

@potato6877

2 жыл бұрын

well in person she could easily slap him...

@thedarkking32

Жыл бұрын

Nature: Men and women were born differently so that they could be attracted to each other, and because of them humanity now exists Science: There is not a single gay gene Logic: If everything is about love, you can marry your mother, sister, daughter, marry 100 different people or even a marry cow Fools and degenerates: Nature, science and logic are homophobic

When my sister came out to my parents, my mother said "okay and so what? You are still my daughter, I gave birth to you, I will protect you from anyone" and she meant it, any family member that tried to be homophobic she would put them in their place. My mom is someone you don't mess with LOL.

@arrowoftruth5726

2 жыл бұрын

Wow I'm so happy for your sister and bless your mom... She's a sweetheart.

@bonelessmice6828

2 жыл бұрын

I love your mom (not like that lol)

@basma.gogogo

2 жыл бұрын

I'd really love to have your mom :(

@dagoose9570

2 жыл бұрын

that's very sweet, you have a great mother

@themarieseries

2 жыл бұрын

I would love to be friends with your mom. I feel like mine doesn’t understand me.

I'm just literally crying bc of this. I want a father like this.

this father is way beyond his league !!. If every father was as supportive and understanding as this guy - the world would not just be beautiful but a very "special" place. You are a very blessed girl to have a father like him.

I am not a part of LGBTQ community but that girl's father's support for her almost made me cry . It's really nice to see parents accepting their kids for who they are

@lyan749

2 жыл бұрын

its so sweet and nice!

@kaitbunni

2 жыл бұрын

right, when she started to cry i almost started crying, it’s so sweet to see kindness and acceptance

@JUDEIRA

2 жыл бұрын

Same , i cried

@niki-nz2lp

2 жыл бұрын

same

@evfterbbang

2 жыл бұрын

A Dahyun Stan is here HELLO 👋😘

Damn that girls mom went off! Didn't want to hear a word! That was quite harsh but it's just what I expected, most of them rejected but the one girls dad accepted despite being surprised.

@abcdefghifkl

2 жыл бұрын

@zappafan11 real parents accept and support their children for who they are

@itzmehDevi

2 жыл бұрын

@zappafan11 Excuse me? That's not a good parents. A parent will love their child for who they are..They shouldn't hate their child just because of who the child lloves..cause in the end..It is their child

@itzmehDevi

2 жыл бұрын

@zappafan11 That's wrong cause it's weird.. It's not even the same thing.. Gay doesn't mean you are loving someone older than you or loving animals..It's just loving someone despite the gender. Parents should support their child even if they like the same gender and it's not illegal or something

@roxy489

2 жыл бұрын

@zappafan11 That’s the worst comparison ever.

@__yeri3719

2 жыл бұрын

who the hell is this zappa person

1 out 4 parents are supportive and cooperative in here.. I wish all parents were like the dad.

Father: "Don't think about others,Just Do What you want" those words

This is one of these scenes Korean son: "Mom, I think I'm gay" Mom: "Okay and? Your still a failure-"

@zannchristo

2 жыл бұрын

What in the Beatrice Horseman is this?

@souravidas3532

2 жыл бұрын

@@zannchristo asian family

@anasshole7927

2 жыл бұрын

@@zannchristo Bojack niceeeeee

@fillemorte

2 жыл бұрын

@@zannchristo bojackkkk

@fairfight9857

2 жыл бұрын

@@zannchristo Mr Peanutbutter haha

Я расплакалась, когда отец поддержал свою дочурку... Это так трогательно, и этого так не хватает! Просто чудесно Вот бы у всех всё было хорошо🥺💙

I literally cried when her dad started supporting his daughter and told her kind words 😭

I love how that dad who said "Well done" also started thinking like "I've heard you can get married in other countries". This man definitely returned with the milk. That's the kind of dad every man should aspire to be.

@thedarkking32

Жыл бұрын

Nature: Men and women were born differently so that they could be attracted to each other, and because of them humanity now exists Science: There is not a single gay gene Logic: If everything is about love, you can marry your mother, sister, daughter, marry 100 different people or even a marry cow Fools and degenerates: Nature, science and logic are homophobic lol

@arcanesidus_

Жыл бұрын

Naw dawg he had the milk stocked up before the baby came

@thedarkking32

Жыл бұрын

@@arcanesidus_This comments section is crazy bro, they are literally proud of this shit lol

@arcanesidus_

Жыл бұрын

@@thedarkking32 What do you mean?

@Sofia_847

Жыл бұрын

@@thedarkking32 wtf

that lady's father got me tearing up wow sana all

@Yeonbin

2 жыл бұрын

same sana all ganun ka supportive

@trevamagee3573

2 жыл бұрын

Yes me too

@wakeupwakeupwakeup89yearsa30

2 жыл бұрын

Asexual ako so no future kids for my parents AHAAHA

@ampalayuh3190

2 жыл бұрын

@@wakeupwakeupwakeup89yearsa30 LMAO ONE OF US

@justanegghoppingbycozexois1019

2 жыл бұрын

@@ampalayuh3190 uhm ask ko lng. Pano mo malalaman na asexual ka? Nalilito din ksi ako e

The dad that supported his daughter 😭😭😭We need so many more parents like him. What a lucky girl to have such a supportive dad! ❤

Came out to my dad as bisexual and he said not to worry cuz i’d grow out of it. Yeah dad, you were right. That’s why I have a fiancée who’s a man.

@lowgoingman

29 күн бұрын

😂

When the girl's dad said, “no matter what, we’re family.” I started crying because I realized I will never have parents just like hers, I just wish I could have a supportive and understanding family.

@crpzez

2 жыл бұрын

omg same, we rockin on the same boat woop woop :’)

@crpzez

2 жыл бұрын

@@luckykhan755 lmao that’s bs, some people have abusive parents, your logic to me sounds like smth a helicopter parent would say

@manuela.elstener3484

2 жыл бұрын

@@luckykhan755 But they can also break it, I don't remember how many times my father made me cry, I have a trauma bcz of him. Ofc, he's my father, but it doesn't mean that I need to love him no metter what, I can handle all the shitty things that he did, but some people can't

@manuela.elstener3484

2 жыл бұрын

*Matter (sorry, my english isn't so good)

@marianayumi7167

2 жыл бұрын

you can build your own, someday. i’m cheering for you, friend 💕

my heart hurts for the girl who got cursed out by her mother... i feel so bad for her. i am bisexual and came out to my very christian black mother (if you are black you know how homophobic the community can be) surprisingly she took it well... i am grateful for that. mine reacted similarly to the way the dad of the girl did, accepting and wise. this was a beautiful video.

@imtrappedinsangwoosbasemen246

2 жыл бұрын

im black and 15 but I haven't come out to my family yet, I only came out to my brother and my two best friends as pansexual. The thing im worried about is that my mom talks a lot, so if I tell her she'll most likely tell the whole damn neighborhood, even if I did tell her not to. Also yeah I agree, the community is quite homophobic, especially out in the hood.

@Pathfinder-qp1he

2 жыл бұрын

@@imtrappedinsangwoosbasemen246 fellow Pansexual! No one in my family knows but j might come out to my very accepting sister when she’s a bit older and I can trust she won’t accidentally out me; my parents are those bigot conservatives who are the “ew all these PRONOUNS and LABELS” kind of homophobes so I don’t think they’ll be accepting and at best will mock and dismiss my sexuality rip we stay strong together

@v-tiful

2 жыл бұрын

wow thats rare

@kohammy

2 жыл бұрын

im black and a lesbian, the black community is so homophobic towards lesbians and im afraid to come out to any of my black friends or family unless theyre lgbtq+.

@Qqqpppuyt

2 жыл бұрын

as a first-gen black bi with christian ghanaian parents, I don't even try to think about coming out to them

I cant believe i cried, im not even lesbian but hearing the father of that one girl made ME feel like even if i liked another girl and people judge me, there are a lot of people who will love you no matter what and it feels so warm ❤

4:40 Please tell me that I'm not the only one who cried with them:') It can be the best thing that u can here from your parents in such situation! Can't it just be like this for everyone¿(:

@relozodegaru782

Жыл бұрын

No

What's surprising is that among the parents, a father responded more positively than others and the things he said really assured her that he understands and support her. Most people expect mothers to be the understanding one but here the father responded calmly and affectionately despite the shock.

@weItyang

2 жыл бұрын

it depends on ur parents personality tbh

@youcantseeme3907

2 жыл бұрын

@@weItyang agreed

@leonardoenrico2152

2 жыл бұрын

But her father is dissapointed, I can hear his cry

@hsnrb9959

2 жыл бұрын

Maybe because moms are more invested in their kids - they are the main caretakers, especially in more traditional countries like Korea - so when their 'perfect' little girl/boy does not turn out the way they dream of, the mother doesn't respond well to it. Most likely the mothers will come around and be understanding after some time passes. That's just my take on it.

@_WhiteW0lf_

2 жыл бұрын

@@leonardoenrico2152 which parent isn't? Any parent would be disappointed for various reasons while acceptance and support is a case to case basis. I don't think I've heard, it's very rare, of any parent say they would want/wish a child to be a member of LGBTQ+.