Your not alone, Missy! Men who compliments others and don’t compliment you is a man who don’t like & love you!! Trust your gut, it’s telling you problems gonna happen!! 😢❤😮

Your ex-husband admired her for years, and the minute her late husband told you guys about his sickness, your husband heart was jumping for joys 😅. Who knows, they probably had an affair way before her husband passed because a sick man can't give her what she needs. The reason he frequently visited them was to visit her only, and gave her what her husband couldn't. Koj mas paub tsawg. Let him go and focus on your life. HE chose her over his family, I hope your children HOLD him to his choice.

Sorry you went through that. YOU don't deserve it. May you find enjoyable things in your life. You were strong for yourself and I like that👍🏻👍🏻

Tus txiv dev uas thaum nws twb pom xeeb ntxeev siab tau es mus rau tus sab nraud lawm txhob vam tias nws yuav tus tshiab nws tseem yuav hlub koj. Nws tsuas ntxias kom koj siab muag es nws txhob poob lub neej xwb nws twb tsis hlub koj lawm. Koj txiav txim yog lawm. Koj niag txiv dev ntawd twb xav tau nws tus phooj ywg poj niam los lawm ntev. Peb poj niam tsis txawj sib hlub yus tus txiv tuag lawm yus tseem mus txeeb yus phooj ywg tus txiv dev thiab.

Stay strong. Move on with your life. Start a new life and travel the world

Niag txiv dev liam, ua tau qhias neeg tshaj plaws. Niag pog poj ntsuam khaus pim. Tos tsis taus tus txiv tuag txawm siv yuav rawm mus nrhab ceg rau lwm tus txiv neej. Ntshe tus txiv dev no yeej nqa ntawv los yaim tus poj no lub nceb os.

Pab tus poj niam tu siab kawg tabsis cov poj niam zoo2 Nkauj li no ces tus txiv tuag kiag lawm ces ib co txiv neej yeej cia2 siab rau tus poj niam hos.

Htau zoo kawg os yom

You did an awesome job telling this story

Ouch!

Haha😅🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤣🤣🤣 nrog kj zoo siab uas kj ua tau li ko

Qhov Kuam tuag ntshe twb yog koj niag txiv lom pob. Koj niag txiv ib txwm qhuas qhuas es nws lom kom kuam tuag ces tuag kiag xwb koj niag txiv thiaj li mus thawj kiag.

Txiv dev gold digger ces kawg zoo li no xwb.

A guy who always compared you to other women, ces nws yeej nyiam nyiam lawv los mas. Txiv neej ces tos tsis tau lawv tus friend tuag ces tham kiag lawv tus poj niam xwb mos. Cia nws mus nws txhob khuv xim kiag.

He actually accomplished what he set out to get. It’s a dog eat dog world.

Yog ua le caag peb cov quaspuj moob es yuav txhooj kum ruam tshaaj npua lawm hab nawj.

Don't worry sis, that life ain't gonna last very long. Lmaooo!!!

Cov txiv neej ko yog cov es ntshaw2 nyiaj naj tsi txhob tu siab os tus viv ncaus yog txiv ntshaw nyiaj xwb tsi txhob khuv xim os yuav kav tsi ntev os.

The lady was never your true friend from the beginning, if she was she will never try to ruin your marriage or even try to be with your husband even if your husband wanted to be with her, she must have liked your husband from the beginning as well and took the opportunity once her husband died. There are many fishes out in the sea for her to choose from but she rather ruin your marriage, learn from this and move on with your life, wishing you happiness and prosperity going forward. Don’t waste your time with someone who never really love you from the beginning.

Txiv dev liam koj ntshia seb tsis ntev xwb nws yuav raug aib pog tom cov menyuam muab nws ncaws tawm, nws yuav tsis tau chaw ntsaub chaw tuag. Kav tsij txw txhob pub koj tej menyuam thab tsob nws, kav tsij hlub koj tus kheej thiab ua neej hluag ntxhi mog tus me niam tsev. Ua li koj ua yog tshaj plaws os

Ib feem txiv dev tiam no yeej zoo li koj niag ko os ! Kav liam os nws mus lawm los zoo nyob hlub koj tus kheej os nyiaj txawj tag ces kev hlub yeej txawj tu thiab os

Txhob tu siab os vivncaus. Nws yeej tsis hlub Koj tiag. Nws yeej ib txhwm twb yeej nyiam thiab qhuass niam tij xwb. Kuv tus txiv yog nws pheej qhuas lwm tus poj niam Kuv ces twb tsi Ua phooj ywg thiab ua ke nrog lawm. CIA nkawd ua nkawd ib hnub twg nws yeej yuav paub tas xwb os

Cas ua neeg nyob es tej poj niam Liam no es yuav khaus ua luaj tus txiv tuag kiag xwb txawm siv nrhab kiag rau lawv tus txiv deev yeej tsis xav txog luag tus poj niam txoj kev mob siab li

Pom niam ruam mas ruam kiag li koj ntag. Cem kuj cem koj niag txiv nkaus xwb los meb. Tim koj niag txiv xwb nas. Cem tej kwv tij ua dabtsis naws txhob ruam ruam mas. Txhob cem niam Kuam thiab Tim koj niag txiv lim hiam ntais ntuj tsis faithful rau koj li.

Love is blind, but it will not last

Ntshe nws twb muaj kev cia siab tau niam tij lawm mas.

And this is the reason why divorcees and widows have a bad rep. Some women just don't care. As long as she can take your man, she will do it. But that is a blessing in disguise. She takes away your problem and your trash! At the end, you just loved the wrong person for too long. Now use this time to enjoy yourself and love yourself. He will see you glow up and regret hurting you one day! One thing I hate about our Hmong OG is allowing men to cheat and have 2nd wives. Most of the time, they will be on their son/brother side. Doesn't matter if he's right or wrong. It's because he's a man and that makes him more credible. This is one of the worst mindset in our community and it needs to stopped. I am proud of you for standing up to these old men and not taking their shit. They know they are wrong, but still tried to persuade you because you are a Hmong woman. That's not going to stop us anymore because we are more than that. Our worth is more than being a 1st wife and worth more than being a good obedient nyab. I'm so glad my husband and I both don't care for friends. You can never really trust anyone fully. Most people don't have you in their best interest.

This is what you call a real dev thawj thiab 😂

Truth is, txiv neej ces, you have to be a good niam tsev during the day time and a good maum dev at night time. At the end of the day, if you don't fit their criteria, koj txawm yuav ua npaum li cas thiab koj txawm zoo nkauj npaum li cas los yog lawv tsis nyiam koj ces tas li ntawv xwb os.

HELL NO! Fcai! 😅😅 Good girl, stand your ground.

Cas tus niam tij ntawv cas yuav ntshaw txiv ua luaj thiab twb paub tias koj twb yog koj tus txiv tus poj niam tseem los yuav koj tus txiv ruam los yog ntshaw txiv thiab nej cov poj niam tsis txawj sib hlub

Txiv dev liam lob

Xyov..I can't stop xav phem na!😱 Ntshe luag twb ua lub I lauv lauv yus long lawm! Los xyov tseem yog luag sib khoom lom thaub thiab o😰 yog tseem ua tau lub na!..

Please be a good DOGGIE!!!!🐶

Koj niag txiv twb muaj muaj siab rau thaub ntawd tus poj niam twb tos tsis taus thaub tuag es nws yuav tham yuav deev xwb yuav yuav los ua niam yau. Cov txiv dev no ma xyov li os...av tsis lim ces ntshe ua tsis taus neeg zoo li os. Pab txaj muag dhau lawm.

Vivncaus kv li nws xum tso plhuav nws cov minyuam , tub ntxhais, tseg ua ntsuag ciaj, xum mus thawj ib tug pog, uas nkees ua haujlwm company, tabsi keej ua hauj lwm txiv neej

Wow I praise this women for stepping her foot down yas u don't need a dev in your life.😂

Poj niam coj tsis zoo es txiv kawg tso pov tseg xwb!!!

Technically when you file divorce you can let the court know that he is marrying a second wife and want spousal support. He can get in big trouble because it’s illegal to marry two wives in the United States

Koj niag txiv dev ntawv mus tsis txog twg lawm os, tsis ntev no ces lawv yuav muab nws ncaws tawm tsev. Nws yuav tsis tau chaw tuag

Well, at least he got some money...and two women in a life time.😂😂😂😂

Niag txiv dev liam. Tus poj niam liam es thiab yuav niag txiv liam xwb mas. Muaj koj niam txiv dev cuam kiag rau trashcan. Txhob khuv xim kiag

Es koj tsis yuav alimony nav😂?

This is not a real man. This is just a wanderer. You should be glad that he had left. If he stays with you, he will give you no peace and happiness.

She's just upset her husband left her for the other woman. Many people have no integrity, but sounds like he hasn't suffered adverse consequences and thus this story is not satisfying for the traitor. I hope you at least got spousal support, 401k and etc. Otherwise, sounds like he got it good .

A beautiful, rich, sexy, well mannered, great cook woman. WOW, never heard of it before. Is there even such a thing. Why would she even agreed to marry your husband considering you guys were so close 🤦

Nej cov Hmoob Meskas nov tseem ruam tiag2… Koj tustxiv thiab nws cov kwvtij na. Hos, Tus niamyau nej nim qhuas2 nws kawm-ntawv siab2 Tabsis tseem mus txeeb yus cov phoojywg tustxiv mus ua niamyau thiab. Ntshe kawm-ntawv siab2 noj quav xwb pob.

Ok, and??? I understand it's messed up but it's all the same as many other cheating stories. I just wanted to hear that it wasn't greener on the other side and he tried crawling back to you and you said no. Otherwise, this story is pointless in sharing.

Your husband always has a secret crush on his friend’s wife for a long time. There were so many red flags but you were desperate and wanted to be in the rich class circle. Can’t blamed anyone but yourself!

Koj yeej ua tau phem heev li os yus yuav tsum coj kom ncaj ncees thiaj os tus niam tsev aw...Vim yus tsi txawj ntxias yus tus txiv hais tau phem thiab twm luag xwb ces kawg lawv khiav xwb.

What a despicable husband. He put a dog mask on to do what he did.

Dog man

I can’t believe the widow has the guts to do that to you too!! They must have plan for it.