Never lend money to anyone. That is my main rule in my marriage. I told my husband if anyone comes to ask for borrowing money... give them a little only. Never lend anyone a huge amount without proper paper or check.

Many of us learned the hard way too… so yes, love yourself only now. 😢 It was a lesson to teach you and many like yourself… but God sees your good heart and he also keeps track of people like them too. 😊

Oh yo kuv xav mas yog peb cov me nyuam tsis muaj nyiaj tsis txhob ua haib haib rau niam thiab txiv es tom qab ho muaj teeb meem nas viv ncaus muaj li cas es ua li ntawv xwb tsam yus niam yus txiv hnov es tu tu siab os

@MissPeachie

15 күн бұрын

I agree 100%. Yus tsis yog neeg millionaire tsis txhob siv nyiaj li lawm. Hmoob ruam tshaj.

@JRxwb

14 күн бұрын

Tsis yog tsis muaj nad… tus txiv tsis kam xwb nad. It ain’t because they don’t have the $$, it is because the husband says No.

Lawv aww...txhob xav tias yus siab zoo es luag yuav siab zoo li yus.. No, tsis yog li ntawv. Kuv los yeej kawm tiav lawm thiab os tus viv ncaus.

My Golden Rule in Life: 1. Kuv tsis txais Nyiaj, 2. Tsis txais lus, 3. Tsis txais khoom!

@tseemhlubtseemnco

10 күн бұрын

Pom zoo li thiab. Yog thov txais yus nyiaj ces xum muab pub xwb zoo dua txais. Yog lawv thov txais $1000 xum muab $100 pub xwb thiaj tsis muaj kev tu siab. Kuv twb kawm tiav tag 3 qhaub lus ko lawm thiab.

kawm tiav kiag kev txais nyiaj 6 phoojywg thiab cov vivncaus lawm

Kuv los yeej raug lawv tshuav yus Nyiaj tab sis lawv tseem ntxub ntxub yus hos yus cav txaj muag rau nws thiab

This is why I don't make friends. All I have is my husband and my kids.

Money don’t buy love, family, and friendship. When it comes to borrowing money, never give above 500. Now you know.

I'm soo glad I don't have any friends so I don't have to deal with this problem.

If ur own flesh & blood won’t even pay u back, why would any1 else pay u back? I learned an expensive lesson too. U know who ur true family members/friends when they say what they mean & mean what they say. Actions do speak louder than words. Since then, if any loved ones need $, I just gift them what I’m willing to part with.

Your not stupid u just love people different., it's ok self love is the best

Yep... kuv twb raug lawm kuv yeej tsis ntseeg leej twg li lawm. Qiv nyiaj mas thaum yus muab mas muab 1 pob rau lawv hos thaum lawv them ces pua yaj pua yeej ces lawv them tag los yus cov nyiaj yeej tag khaws tsis tau 1 pob li qub li os lawv aws.

Many of us learned the hard way too… so yes, love yourself only now. 😢 It was a lesson to teach you and many like yourself… but God sees your good heart

Bruh, your siblings and you should've just not include your 2 sisters who had no money to help with your parents gifts in the first place. Divide the money equally between the ones with money.

Well! At least you knocked some sense into your head that’s a good thing.

Can’t feel bad for someone who doesn’t learn their lesson..

Yep that’s why I don’t have any friends and don’t need any.

txhob cia siab tag tag rau leej twg thiab txhob hlub luag tag tag thiaj tsis mob mob yus vim li ntawv kuv thiaj tsis muaj ib tug phooj ywg zoo zoo nyob qhov los kuv tsis nco qab tus siab

Only my kids can get a big chunk of $$. Otherwise I tell people I’m more broke than you. And never cover for a sibling. If they don’t have it, just don’t get recognition.

Niam no mas kuv tsis ntshaw phooj ywg thiab viv ncaus lawm Vim luag siv yus ua chaw tiag taw xwb Yus txoj kev siab zoo pab tsis tau yuav tau xyaum ua neeg siab phem thiab

Koj yog kawg kuv twb raug lis koj hais koj thiab os tus Vivncuas

Love comes in the smallest gift. The expensive gifts are just for bragging and showing off. GeneX, our parents inly see love in money and anything expensive forms.

Ua neeg zoo yeej swb os mog tab zoo neej dua os txhob tu siab yog ib txoj kev kawm xwb mog

Sister, banks have a lot money for people to borrow, tell them to go there. Car dealers twb muaj finance rau neeg siv. Txhob qiv nyiaj li, xum cia tusiab thaum nyiaj nyob yus tes. Ua neej nyob txhob ua best friends rau lwm tus, koj tus txijnkawm kiag tseem dag ntxeev siab tua tau koj. Txhob ntseeg neeg yoojyim li ko nawb.

Txob muab nyiaj los yuav kev hlub, kev phooj ywg. Siv rau koj thiab tus txijnkawm xwb os.

Omg! Your sisters didn’t even want to repay you so what make you think this friend of yours will pay you back! I guess you haven’t learned your lesson like your husband said 🤦🏻‍♀️.

You guys created the issue for yourselves n trippin over 5k. First off…do what you can, not what you want. Car and gold necklace at the same time was too much for you guys. Secondly, if a sibling is not willing to participate, we’d proceed without their help. Your parents were right! They’d be more at peace with nothing rather than having to witness all this drama unfold.

@VangleeNaxay

15 күн бұрын

😊😊😊

@lisvaj7375

15 күн бұрын

I don’t agree with your first part. Why tell her you’ll pay her back if you never intended but wanted to still borrow? It’s the two sisters.

@JRxwb

14 күн бұрын

I don’t really agreed to what you’re saying but I do think that if the sisters didn’t have 5k to use for that purpose they should have just said the truth and don’t pitch in. I’d rather have them be mad at me for not having it or can’t help than to be mad at me that I won’t pay back.

@mckenzievang369

13 күн бұрын

Well, if these 2 sisters are the troublemakers. Doing things in purposely, if they don't want to participate the party they should saying out the brothers. Why are they asking her to borrow to make their looking good as other kids? That's such shameful!

@saixiong2956

9 күн бұрын

real talk

จริงๆเทอไม่ได้โง่ ต่อให้เทอเสียเงินไปเยอะ เทอทำเพื่อพ่อแม่เทอเอง เทอจะได้บุญเยอะเลยนะ เสียเงินให้พ่อกับแม่เอง อย่าคิดมาก คนอื่นไม่ให้ก็แล้วแต่เขานะ ❤

Niam Ntsuab teev Hloov Koj lub aslas roj os Koj lub roj twb tag lawm os

@mntxy300

15 күн бұрын

Yog kawg tswb twb quaj2 lawm

Omg lady you didn’t learn from your first mistake loaning money to your sisters and now your friend. If your sisters can do it to you what makes you think a friend wouldn’t. You have too much money scattering around, please love yourself. Stop buying people’s love with money.. smh 😞

Always do love yourself first. That is your first priority.

Yus yog tus siab zoo hlub 2 lawv ces yus yog tus rau mob tshaj . Kuv los twb mag li koj lawm thiab os viv ncaus . Nyiaj ces thaum mus mas luag laug tab sis thaum rov los ces dub dub muag kawg li . Ces kuv yeej Kawm tiav lawm thiab 😢

You are too generous and kind no wonder people the advantage of you. You’ve got to set some boundaries, think about yourself and your family first before you lend money to them. Like your husband said, you’re too generous and naively stupid to give your money like nothing. These people just start to avoid you and hate you once you ask for reimbursement. Can’t trust people! Remember that!

Ua neeg tsis txhob tsab2 muaj nyiaj mas, tej thaum yus twb tsis nco hlub yus tus kheej es lwm tus txhob vam lawv yuav hlub yus mas los.

Luag sob lus twb hais meej tias, kev hlub ces nyiaj yuav tsis tau no ne. Nej hom siv nyiaj yuav kev hlub rau txhua qhov txhia chaw las as.

Peb lis peb tsis ntshaw phooj ywg lis koj as txhob tuaj ntuas ntuas tib neeg os ntuas koj xwb mog

Thanks for sharing. 🙏

tus niam laus koj zaj dab neeg no hais tau zoo heev li os

Thaum koj cev nyiaj rau luag mas yooj yim kawg tab si thaum koj xav tau rov qab mas tsis yooj yim nawb, yus yuav tsum ntse yus xwb mog ❤

Koj zaj dab neeg no kuv tu sb kawg vim kuv zoo li no thiab ntag yus hlub luag xb luaj yeej tsis hlub yus li 😢

Kuv ces nyoo poj Niam hmoob lawm os .

kuv yog ib tug raug li no thiab. kuv kawm tas lawm thiab ces kuv nyob taus taus

Glad you graduated

Viv ncaus aw.... Tsi muàj hmoo Los hlub neeg tsi muaj hmoo Los ua phooj ywg es tsi txhob ua phooj ywg lawm os nawb yus txoj Kev hlub ces ua mus poob qhov ntuj xwb es txhob ua phooj ywg lawm yus nyob yus ib leeg kuv los ib yam nkaus thiab os.

kuv los zoo li koj thiab os tus viv ncaus aw peb ua neeg nyob ces yus hlub yus tus kheej xwb os tsis txob tos luag hlub yus os

Peb txhob mus ua phooj ywg zoo zoo rau ib leej tus twg kuv pom cov ua phooj ywg zoo zoo ces yeej muaj teeb meem li no

Leej twg txaus siab pab los mam pab tsis txaus siab los txhob qiv nyiaj rau, kev ua party zoo siab mas yuav tsum txaus siab ua txhob yuam

Donation only yourself or family whoever you trust borrows money never ask back

Niam ntshuab teev koj hai2 dab neeg cov Lau ua tsev kub nyiab tag koj xa nyiaj mu pub 2 tug Lau ua tsev kub nyiab ua tsev

When it comes to money, I don't trust anyone even through its family. Plus, it's my birthday for mom. If I give, then only I give. I won't ask other to help or offer or help them first, and they will pay me back. No. People have life, and things are going on. They might not have 5k for their birthday. Well, it looks like you didn't learn your lesson from your family. Still borrowing money from your friend. When it comes to money, tell them to borrow at the bank. That's why they have banks for.

Kuv twb kawm tiav lawm thiab.

There goes that fire alarm 🚨 it’s low battery 🪫.. change your fire detector!

You are so ruam, you already got scam by your blood sister and now you still borrow money to a stranger who claim to be your friend. Smh .

@MissPeachie

15 күн бұрын

She wanted to borrow people’s love but it turned ugly.

vim yg yu lub siab zoo ntsaw kev zoo xb

Yog kawg txhob hais nyob meskas kov os tij nplog no lo yeej zoo li thiab kuv ces ib tug ntag mus noj mus hau ib puas zaug lo yus them xwb thaum yus tias yus tsis muaj nyiaj mas lawv yeej tsis Kam them li txhob tseeg lawv thiaj li tsis mob2 yus

Hais yog kuv heev kuv kuj kawm tiatb lawm thiab og

Lawv kuv xav tsis txog tias yus ua siab zoo rau kwv tij los yog vivncaus xwb es thaum. Npam los yog yus ua neeg siab dawb los npam ua neeg siab ncaj los npam yus rhaub dej kub haus los rov hlab yus xwb no ces nim no kuv cia li ua neeg phem qia dub tsis ua siab zoo rau leej twg lawm os ua siab zoo hlub kwv tij neej tsa los npam tib siv npaum nkaus li yus rhaub dej rov hlab yus mas xyhov mob qhov twg tuaj tuaj khawb tsis raug kiag thiaj mob tas ib sim nawb lawv qhov npam2 yus no twb vim yog yus tsis ceevfaj xwb nawb nej nco ntsoov tias piv txwv tias koj rhaub dej kub haus thaum koj mus hlev los haus koj tsis ceevfaj thiaj li hlab koj sab tes no nawb

I believe your storyline it happened to people?

Nyob zoo cov me phooj hauv no leej twg paub niam ntsuab teev zaj dab neeg tu tub xa xov rau tu niam nyob meka hu li ca ku nrhiav tsi tau mloog li

Kuv ces twb mag mag lub maib ko kawg li os..yeej chim kawg los vim yus lub siab zoo thiab siab ruam dhau xwb!

Zoo li ib Tsevneeg twg peej muaj ib tug muaj tug siab zoo2 li koj txog thaum kawm tiav mam paub os tus sister.

Plan ua party loj łój tab sis tsis xav spend nyiaj ces txhob Ua zoo dua.,you never learn from your mistakes.I been there before and I learned from my mistakes

Sigh* no words.

Wow cas koj muaj nyiaj ua luaj ib sij yuav ib lub tseb rau na.😂 Kawm tiav lawm ces zoo ma

Lawv aw… yus siab zoo ces yus yog tus mob xwb os sim neej no cas yuav yog nkaus kuv thiab os

Kuv li kuv yog neeg tsis muaj tswv yim ces kuv ntshai2 qiv nyiaj rau tib neeg txawm muaj ib pob los yeej tsis qiv twb muaj bank ne yog xav tau kuj qiv bank xwb vim yus yog neeg zoo ces yog qiv rau tsis them ces yus Laj2 tsa ncauj hais li nawb,

Hmoob os hmoob aw cas yuav xav taus ntsej Muag ua luaj es Tseem yuav create teeb meej Loj ua luaj rau yus cov Viv ncaus nus muag os hmoob it is not necessarily to buy the old man car and buy mom gold me I buy for my Children they are not buy gold for me niam thiab Txiv twb yuav tuag es coj Los tsis zoo ab tsis lawm naj

Neb ruam los neb ntse na, luag muaj life jacket rau txhua luag leej txhua tus luag ho tsis muaj txaus rau yus ces yog luag tua yus los mas. Tsis tas li los ua neej nyob tsis txhob pheej ntshaw phooj ywg tsis txhob ntshaw ua zoo rau lwm tus, koj mas koj yeej ruam tiag tiag koj tshuav lawv nqi tiag tiag li

Poj ruam thaum twg koj mam kawm tias os txom twg los yus nriav teeb meem rau yus poj ruam koj tu txiv tseem yuav koj ces koj muaj hmoo kawg yog kuv ces koj twb uas poj nrauj lawm mas.

Tiam no ua zoo tsis tau zoo lawm os

How do people have so much money to keep letting people borrow?

Ruam tiag tiag koj na. Leej twg kom koj pheej khav khav theeb hais tias koj muaj muaj nyiaj no na. Koj ces nyusm qhuav ntxim xwb os. Tshuaj khib twb tsis qab ntsev los cav nim khav hais tias muaj nyiaj kawg. Yog muaj ib tug neeg ruam li koj es pheej khav theeb thiab pheej muab nyiaj yuav kev hlub kev phooj ywg xwb ces kuv los ham tsis ntxias kom koj txais nyiaj rau kuv thiab los mo. Koj ces hmoov zoo uas kon tus txiv tseem yuav koj os. Yog kuv yog koj ces ntshe noj tshuaj npaws liab tuag zoo dua. Ruam tshaj ruam lawm.

tsis yog koj ruam os vim koj siab zoo xwb

Lady, you did it on your own well to help others. Don’t blame anyone for not paying you back…you never learn your lessons that people are taking advantage of you anyway they can…your husband is totally right about what he said about you…hope you completed your learning lessons…😩!

@JRxwb

14 күн бұрын

Nice big heart people will get hit like this… I learned it the hard way too but it’s ok… people like them will be forever poor!! 😂🤣

Leej twg yog Tus Siab zoo CES leej twg yeej yog Tus raug mob tshaj, thaum nyiaj nyob ntawm yus tes CES tsis luaj twg os , thaum nyiaj mus nyiaj luag2 thaum nyiaj yuav rov qav los CES yuav ua nej muaj chaw dub muag os, txhob hlub lwm Tus tshaj koj yuav Tau hlub koj Tus kheej ua ntej es txhob ntseeg2 luag xwb 😊

Children should not do party for your parents and if everyone are not put the money on the table you should not pay for the other

Lady, yog leej twg muaj nyiaj es lawv tsis muaj ces nej txhob ua ua birthday es tom qab sij ces lis os. Tseg nej tej surprise lawm nawb. Tej zaum nus muag ua tau. Tiam si tshuav cov yawm yij lawv tsis yog yus neeg nawb.

Tsis tim lawv tim yus

Kv xav nrog kj tham yuav cas kv thiaj hu tau kj os niam laus

Regarding your sisters, they tricked you but your co-worker, you did it to yourself. She didn’t force you to do the things you did to her. You didn’t learn from your sisters

Yg lm o viv ncau ce siab tsw g zoo ib yam o yu twb siab zoo ce luag tsua kau yu nkau xb hai lu lo twb g ntshai yu tu siab yu tseem g muaj neej li no thb ce luag hai lu ma twb g xav tia yu yg luag tu niam hlua li o

First of all do not loan any money to friends or family! It’s either a gift or don’t give at all. I have given many monetary gifts of either several hundreds or even thousands of dollars but I gave it with zero expectations of it ever being repaid. I also gave it willingly and with a glad heart. Second if you’re foolish enough to give away money as a loan write up a contract.

Wow, you never learn. Your own sisters didn't pay you back. Why do you think a friend would? Geez, how many times will it take you to learn? Last time was the lesson, but this time is the blame and you are to blame. Stop buying love and acceptance.

Cas koj twb mag zaum 1 tas lawm los cas koj tseem kawm tsis tau tia thiab na Tus Niam tsev aw

Thaum xub thawj cas koj tsis cia koj tus ñus deal nrog koj tus niam hluas thiab niam laus! Koj hom ua ua niam thiaj tsim muaj cov teeb meem no. Thiab peb txawm muaj nus muag coob npaum cas los muaj tej qhov tej tus yuav ua tsis tau vim nyias muaj nyias lub neej. Es txhob khav ua tej yam tej tus ua tsis tau xws li yuav tsheb kim kim rau tej laus li no

Koj tsis ruam,koj phem kawg,koj tsab muaj,koj ua rov rau koj xwb.

Lady if you have that much money to give freely, please give me $10k too. Your own sisters did it to you and still you didn’t learn you willingly give $6k to a friend 🤦🏻‍♀️ technically your sisters don’t owe you anything…you just put more into the party for your parents…if you put it that way then they really didn’t owe you. Just correct with your parents that all the money was from you instead of cutting ties with your sisters. You’re just as evil as them that’s probably why your relationship with them was severed.

Lawv ua km yus ntse xwb mas niam hluas.

$5000 xwb yuav tsi tau yu ke vim ncaws os kuv tseem pub kuv cov sister ntau tshaj ntau kuv twb pub tau os. Kuv twb pub kuv cov sister 20 30k lo twb tsi ua ca ne

That’s alot of hassle for $1,500 lol…there’s a difference between nice and naive…

kj cov viv ncau no ntshe kj niam mug nkawg lộ swb tsi yog kj txiv cov niag mẹ nyuam e thiaj siab phem lí ko

Tus poj dab ces yog koj tus Niam laug ntaj.

Wow!! Your heart is too big. Money will be the enemy between family and friends

Kuv xav mas tej zaum ntshe koj pheej ua tus mi khav tias koj muaj nyiaj no es lawv thiaj txais xwb os tim koj xwb.

Tus viv ncaus qhov Nov tim koj xwb nawb vim koj khav theeb dhau lawm tias koj muaj nyiaj dhau lawm es koj thiaj txais nyiaj rau tus ub tus no. Nyob hauv lub ntuj no yeej tsis muaj leej twg paub tias koj muaj nyiaj tabsis koj khav dhau lawm es koj yeej tsis yig li vim koj xav show lwm tus tias koj muaj nyiaj.

Never learn!!!!!

This woman in this story never learned her lessons.

Bruh if you not gonna be able to pay back or don’t want to pay back at all, why even borrow. $5k is a lot of money

I feel bad that your husband put the whole blame on you when he was ok with you giving your sister the money.