Kim D. Slams Luis Ruelas For Unacceptable & Strange Behavior on Past Weeks RHONJ!!!
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Before we get to today’s regularly scheduled RHONJ recap, Kim D. comes in hot to chat about all the real life drama happening with The Gorgas - and other cast members - in the real world. With The Gorgas serving Bravo Bloggers with Cease and Desist Orders, being asked by Bravo to “gag” what they say and stop the toxic interviews and being subjected to and faced with a Change.org on line petition to “Fire Melissa Gorga”, Kim shares her hot takes on whether Melissa is acting scared knowing it is the last season of her $1.5 million dollar paycheck or a smart business woman just trying to protect her financial future. With rumored friendship break ups all over the Garden State and Big Apple, Kim turns her attention to one of the most awkward episodes in Housewives History a la Luis Ruelas, a $250K business deal steeped in delusion and bad math and, once again, two newbies Cabral and Fuda who has come correct to play, who mean business and who have already made their lasting impression on fans worldwide in just a few short episodes. With a jam packed week, let us cue the music and begin our weekly Sat chat with the only and only, Miss Kim D!
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I really wanted this marriage for Teresa to work. She’s been through a lot but I wasn’t comfortable with the way Louie handled himself! I’m starting to feel afraid and nervous for Teresa and her girls.
@kissad.7985
Жыл бұрын
Mind you, that was before the wedding and the big blow up 👀
@barbararomeo4708
Жыл бұрын
@@kissad.7985 I know! That makes me feel worse.
@gloriacato7761
Жыл бұрын
Why wont 8t work, her first 1st worked as long as she wanted ir to. Plus, Theesa has more suitors than this BLOG. LOL
@barbararomeo4708
Жыл бұрын
@@gloriacato7761 I never said it won’t work. I said his actions the last few weeks has me nervous.
@theboysclub365
Жыл бұрын
Teresa has been through a lot because of her own actions. She's no victim. 99% of the problems are caused by her. I think she's mentally ill...there is something seriously wrong with her. She demands that Joe and Melissa defend her against Margaret, but she joined Jennifer in calling Joe a b*tch...and then denied it knowing full well it was seen on tv! An idiot.
That was a very disturbing moment with Luis for real. The guy is off. Really hope Teresa and the girls are safe. Thanks as always you 2🤩
@kellyallday365
Жыл бұрын
I really hope they’re safe too.
That was SO disgusting of Luis... I had so much anxiety after watching they way he spoke to her. 100% not acceptable by any means. This really made me look at Luis so differently... No prenup is so concerning...
@theboysclub365
Жыл бұрын
She needs someone to speak to her that way. You can't reason with someone who is mentally ill...even jail didn't change Teresa
Just the fact that Louis spoke to Teresa in this manner before they got married is more than one red flag it’s about 100 red flags. I don’t know if the stress of the wedding is making him crazy but his eyes and the way he says to Joey I sleep in your father’s pyjamas to make your nieces comfortable at night… That’s ridiculous
@kissad.7985
Жыл бұрын
Weddings are usually more stressful for the bride than the groom so imagine how she must have been feeling if this must be the excuse for his behaviour.
@theboysclub365
Жыл бұрын
How else are you going to talk to Teresa? You can't reason with someone who is as mentally disturbed as she is!
@LIGal398
Жыл бұрын
This has absolutely nothing to do with wedding stress. This is a control freak freaking out because he couldn't control Teresa at that moment. He's done it before. Several times on camera.
He is verbally abusive. He spoke to Teresa like she was a child who didn’t know anything . It was really awful. He chastized her in front of Margaret, Melissa. I am surprised Joe Gorga didn’t stick up for his sister when Luis spoke to Teresa like that
@texan903
Жыл бұрын
Teresa said she wants nothing to do with Joe, so why in the world should he stick up for her? She is actively seeking to put her brother out of work and she NEVER has his back. She had EVERY warning before marrying that guy.
Omg Kim hit the nail on the head….. then how does he talk to her behind closed doors….EXACTLY!!
What annoys me is that just when I am starting to like Luis and how good he is for Teresa, I didn't like the way he dismissed her like that and then invited Joey to sit down with him. I hope Andy deals with this at the reunion.
@serritawatkins8113
Жыл бұрын
Right you tell Teresa to leave but tell Joe it's okay to come interrupt.
I would react the same way Kim!!! Who does he think he is talking to Tre like that? I would flip out
@reneegolovacha1880
Жыл бұрын
Well when you are a nasty trash human being, this is what you get and deserve 🤷🏼♀️
Luis was yelling at Teresa to leave his one on one convo wit Melissa but when Joe came over he ain't say 💩. Teresa love her men to act weird wit her. I hate that for her. Love you And Kim d
@raycarter8070
Жыл бұрын
I was little shocked but not really-it seemed like Theresa will do anything to look famous and rich for me?
@jennianthony8127
Жыл бұрын
The shiz was weird. The behavior seemed really controlling
I can't believe how she let him talk to her especially when he was talking to Melissa. Unbelievable. That's not love. Now you can see how he treated his ex's. I couldn't believe it was Teresa and she was taking it! She went from bad to worse. And holding Melissa hand? !She might not leave him but he will leave her . No prenup..
@kellyallday365
Жыл бұрын
I hope he doesn’t hurt Teresa. I think he’s showing his true self and, it’s not good.
@aprilrawls5162
Жыл бұрын
Teresa is such an idiot for not having a prenup. She would not listen to anyone about it. I hope he leaves her and takes every dime she has. Teresa is so ignorant yet she's arrogant and thinks she knows more than anyone else. She will need Joe and Teresa then.
@texan903
Жыл бұрын
People have blindly followed and worshipped Teresa for years as if she can do no wrong. Teresa barely knew this guy and she rushed to marry him. It's unfortunate but now the chickens are coming home to roost.
@candicelopez4825
Жыл бұрын
Go back and look at how Joe Guidice talked to her. It's crazy!
@kellyallday365
Жыл бұрын
@@candicelopez4825 Yes, it was crazy also
Luis is very controlling. He shows he has no respect for Teresa. Luis loves the camera.
@donnahamilton7850
Жыл бұрын
The camera and himself
@ashleykelly3279
Жыл бұрын
You got to remember how Juicy Joe used to talk to her and call her all the names and cheating . Idk who the hell would you h the fat little greaser!!
@ashleykelly3279
Жыл бұрын
If they take off Evan he’s the only eye candy and he loves his whole ge and she loves him. Instead of being jealousof their wealth, their sexy, their happy marriage, they should be celebrating the one happy couple on the whole franchise. If not, there will none left. Evan is only reason I watch bc he’s so freaking sweet to Jackie and he’s damn hot as hell!!!
@ashleykelly3279
Жыл бұрын
Teresa wants Evan. I guarantee u if Evan offered her some of his sexy a•s, I promise you she’d take him up on it. She tried to destroy their marriage and if I was Jackie I would never let her live it down , same way Tre treats everyone else especially her brother and sister in law.
The sad part is her brother and sister in law was sitting right there watching and listening to him do it. I understand why Teresa feels no one cares about her- because her family watch people disrespect her and say and do nothing about it. It’s crazy. But Kim is right.
@texan903
Жыл бұрын
Joe Gorga had his sister's back when it came to Juicy Joe. However, it cost him because now Teresa is trying to get him fired, AND Teresa and her brats took a left turn on Gorga. I wouldn't have said or done anything, either. However, if I were Gorga, I would try to capitalize on Luis' abuse to try to secure another season. It'd be all business for me going forward.
@prettybrowngirl41
Жыл бұрын
Teresa wouldn't listen and then turn around and be mad at Joe.
@yasminheskey8981
Жыл бұрын
The nerve of this comment when yall criticize the gorgas for speaking up about Teresas bad behaviour and choice in men. Look what happen when they spoke about Joe Giudice and Luis
@reneeancog852
Жыл бұрын
Theresa turned on anyone who had her back and an opinion even if in her defence, she said she doesn’t want them speaking on her, so she is getting exactly what she asked for
@rinasupino8755
Жыл бұрын
Honestly I think the Gorgas were in shock after all that shit went down .
The way Louie spoke to Teresa was disgusting and I cannot help but wonder if he speaks to her like that always.
@theboysclub365
Жыл бұрын
It was necessary. You can't reason with someone as ill as Teresa. Not even jail and losing her parents changed her...she needs someone to get in her face. I'm no fan of Luis, but Teresa deserves it.
@Jess1234
Жыл бұрын
His delivery was way off ,he needs to chill the F out
I first thing I thought when I watched Teresa saying, Luis put up $250,000 was, I feel like somehow, someway Luis is lying about the amount. Something is off here.
@raycarter8070
Жыл бұрын
I agree!
@kissad.7985
Жыл бұрын
Definitely! Why would he put that amount of money in a business, from someone else idea, plan before it even started? He seems to be digging a deep hole around her and when she falls into it, he can step back and watch in like a bystander 👀
@kellyallday365
Жыл бұрын
@@kissad.7985 Right, exactly
@kellyallday365
Жыл бұрын
@@raycarter8070 Thank you
@arievena19744
Жыл бұрын
I'm sure it was Tre's money
At the reunion Louie will apologize for his behavior and it will be ok in his eyes- he will lay it on thick. I feel like he talks to Teresa like a child instead of his equal. Kim, I agree with the ideas you said Louie is putting in Teresas head. All the red flags and the daughters are okay with this because of the lifestyle. Its odd that Bill Aydin is so chummy with Louie.
That was one of the most frustrating and annoying episodes. Seeing Luis trying to be a quasi therapist and trying to be a peacemaker for Teresa, Melissa and Joe. He is out of his depths! This is not fixable! The same argument has been going on for years. Stay out of it! But the way he was talking to Teresa and telling her how to act and control her was outrageous. Luis needs self awareness cause you may be good for her in many ways but this behaviour has to stop!!
Couldn't agree more, I cringed watching this episode. Especially Louis behaviour and talking to Teresa like a bold child. It's not even red flags, it's blatant desrespect and coercive behaviour.
He did this to her last year at I think Jen's shore house. He came in with guns a blazing the 1st time we saw him. I've believed his exes from day 1. That was her biggest mistake, not listening. She couldn't be bothered about his past. He's manipulating her right in front of her fam, friends and the viewers. To people who haven't been in a relationship w a narcissist, it looks like he's doing good for her. To the ppl who have, we see right through it.
@chattycoryn5064
Жыл бұрын
So well said & I 1000% agree. All facts.
I'm getting Stepford Wife vibes from Louie and Teresa's relationship. I can't imagine her daughters being ok with the way he's talking/treating her. She needs to bail, possible it's not too late for an annulment.
@kissad.7985
Жыл бұрын
She claims that her daughters are desperate to find a guy like Louie for themselves because he treats her so well 😅
@MonixaMay
Жыл бұрын
She can get a post nup, I believe. I just don’t think she will nor do I think he would sign it.
By all reports, Joe Guidice is still close to Teresa. Hopefully, he is watching the show and has a heart to heart chat with Teresa (and maybe Gia to help get her Mom to see) Luis's problematic behavior. Juicy Joe still loves and cares for Teresa. And he'd certainly want to protect his daughters. He (and Gia) are probably the only ones Teresa may actually listen to.
@piney70
Жыл бұрын
If (and big IF) he ever decided to talk to her about that, she'd just brush him off or get angry that he involved himself.. I think she's incapable of seeing an abusive man for what he is, it's her normal unfortunately
@chayo4537
Жыл бұрын
What does he know?
@kristelcorrea769
Жыл бұрын
@Chayo If Joe Guidice is watching the show, he will see what the rest of us have seen and the terrible way Luis speaks to Teresa. Joe Guidice is Teresa's daughter's Father and has every right to speak to Teresa on it since HIS daughter's are seeing that since Luis is now their stepfather and wouldn't want them to think it's ok for any man to treat them like that. Teresa is still in her love bubble and not seeing Luis speaking down to her the way he is. Joe Guidice is probably the one besides Gia who Teresa may listen to. You know she won't listen to Joe Gorga, her brother.
@LaniAnne402
Жыл бұрын
Teresa will defend Luis because she cannot admit she’s making a mistake. Hope this changes.
This marriage is not going to end well
Yes! For sure! Now we can all believe the things Louie’s ex’s were saying about him!!
Mr. Luis displayed some Jekyll/Hyde attributes that were tough to watch. Controlling behavior was in the house (or on the patio). Cringeworthy and unsettling.
He's lacking some type of awareness if he thinks wearing pajamas confers some special quality upon him. Red flag.
Agree with you Kim.He is MORE than a wild card.She deserves better.To controlling in my opinion❤
Retired psychotherapist and STAN OF YOURS…I SAID 2 yrs ago he was a psychopath…he showed, without conscience, who he is…check his history with women…❣️💗
Yes Luis is a predator like all his exes said!!!!!! You guys are being fooled Teresa isn't changing She is doing what she thinks will gain Louie's approval and that's it. But Teresa is the same Teresa deep down inside.
Eventually the hands will be raised …if they haven’t been yet
I made this point in another comment in a past episode of the podcast, Teresa doesn't get agitated at home, at least not with Luis. How long she can maintain this suppression is anyone's guess.
@Sweeetgal8
Жыл бұрын
Good point. That latent anger will come out some other way.
Luis is a freaking weirdo, there's no denying that.
@bsota8513
Жыл бұрын
Period.
Louie needs to have her back @ the reunion
@kissad.7985
Жыл бұрын
You do for life? The reunion lasts about 24 hours max. Some of y'all trying to find any excuses for both 😉
@theboysclub365
Жыл бұрын
No he doesn't because Teresa is dead wrong! That's not what love is. He needs to speak the truth even if she doesn't like it.
I've always said it! Loius true cors are going to show who he really is! People don't change generally and Teresa is weak minded. He plays on the things she needs like her love bubble! Her friends tried to warn her but look what she did to marg! I feel bad for her daughters. They are going to get hurt again!
It doesn’t help his behaviour from what all the allegations were last year, im not the biggest fan of Teresa but equally she needs to be safe
@donnahamilton7850
Жыл бұрын
And her beautiful girls
I love this conversation!! This is all very relatable! ❤
Melissa actually said herself that she had daddy issues on the ultimate girls trip
And..... then...he throws her under the bus. In inviting Donna Marco to the wedding.😮
Your right guys we see a change but at what cost? Is it worth it for her to stay with him? He was very dismissive towards her and Joe can see it because he abused her too. That's the only reason I believe that Joe and Melissa. They don't respect him that's why they ripped him off😮
@miss_bougie6653
Жыл бұрын
Luis behaviour was disgusting but tipping someone off only shows your character not the other person, there is no excuse.
I love Kim in this interview...and is 💯 ❤😊 I would never too😢😢😮😮But she ALLOWS it !?
I get why people are upset at him for the way he spoke to Teresa but I think he got frustrated that he was trying to meditate between her and Melissa and Joe and no one was listening to him. And Teresa was being really calm with him, I guess Louis needs to understand that no matter what he does is not to get involved in Teresa’s matters and remain out of them
@dorothytorreggiani1857
Жыл бұрын
I agree, Louie was very frustrated bc he was trying to let other people talk and wanted her to listen to them. There's probably no drama at home, for him to act like tat, he probably regretted that on tv and Panama part too. That was weird.
I love you Kim D. Honestly I do, so regretfully I have to correct you that Melissa did state out of her mouth that she has deep rooted daddy issues on the first #RUGT ❤
After that last episode of Louie aggressively raising his voice to Teresa AGAIN... and in front of everyone? Oh, no. That's strike 3 for me! I don't like him. Don't trust him. He needs to back her up, and now he's already hurting her (emotionally & mentally). Wouldn't be surprised if he physically hurts her in the future, and she keeps quiet about it. Teresa is changing for the better. I just hope she doesn't lose herself. She BETTER get a postnuptial agreement. If she doesn't... 😑
@kissad.7985
Жыл бұрын
What is wrong with Teresa protecting herself? This thing about how everyone/everything else should be adjusted to accommodate Teresa is not sustainable. Life doesn't work that way.
Love your sweater, David. As far as Luis, we all knew about his mind games from all his ex girlfriends.
Kim, I wanted Teresa and her daughters to have their happy ending. I don’t think it’s her fault. Her father had a temper, her brother has a temper, Juicy Joe spoke to her often in a bad manner while she took care of the home, cooked, had very young daughters. Now, Louie, so I’m not sure she realizes that she has been abused by four men. I love Jersey and I was so triggered. Your mantra is mine also, who do you think your talking too. And then he turns on a dime and gets nasty after being namaste, hold my hand and gets angry at others. I want Teresa to get an annulment, it’s not a year and kick him to the curb.And d Melissa has her problem with angry threatening Joe, a fourth child. What the hell. Never in a million years.Teresa if you made it through jail and five years of horrible times with your daughters and what they endured, you are strong! Get rid of him now.
@piney70
Жыл бұрын
Right, that is her 'normal', and that's so sad..
@MySweetAriane
Жыл бұрын
😢
@chayo4537
Жыл бұрын
She does realize it. She just doesn't mind it. Cause she has no integrity and is low-key pretty much hi-key a masochist. But that's relatable. So she's fine there I guess
@jamiebenzin3754
Жыл бұрын
@@MySweetAriane 😢
@jamiebenzin3754
Жыл бұрын
@@chayo4537 we can agree to disagree.
Looking to me like he wanted 15 mins of fame, and latched onto her cuz he knew he could control her. She latched on to the first guy that came along. Women don't understand how important it is to stay single, heal, and work on yourselves after a relationship! She could've been spending time with her beautiful daughters, friends and maybe things would be better with her brother. (I REALLY hope those two can work this out). And I really pray Luis is treating her better than we think. Maybe he was just frustrated in that scene. 🤞
Totally agree with Kim nobody would speak to me like that us woman from Northern Ireland won't stand for that and for everyone else to stay quiet was shocking
Luis showed us something new....I bet we see that escalate this season. He wants to appear like a big lovable dog but that dog is a biter. He has a wad up his sleeve & she's his new cash cow. Sumpin ain't right.
I missed it...what did he do? Not the pajama part but what he said to Tre??
Louie's Behavior: I just noticed that Louie gets frustrated when he gets interrupted, that's been the thing from when he first went to Jennifer Aydin's house where Melissa/Jennifer had that fight and the reunion, Louie gets upset when he's trying to talk and he keeps getting interrupted by Teresa trying to speak FOR him. Caught My Attention: Season 13 Episode 8, the thing which caught my eye is how Louie took Melissa away from the group had her on the couch, held her hand, looked into her eyes, and started to set the tone mentally... and Melissa was into looking into what he had to say, Teresa caught it and interrupted, which is why Louie got frustrated with Teresa.... See, Louie is a pimp at heart; he took Melissa and put her on the couch while Joe was playing hackey-sack and Melissa was OPEN because she looked into his eyes and Louie was SWAYING her towards his benefit...then what happened? Teresa noticed, Louie got upset, Joe came over, he calmed Joe down twice and then had him on the couch swaying Joe and then what happened?... Notice the symbolism: Melissa was the one in the 'driver's seat' as they left as Louie was still talking to Melissa, he wasn't talking to Joe, he was talking to Melissa, and he CAUGHT HER EYE... Louie is a muther-loving-pimp... it's the influence and attention he gave Melissa and Melissa 'heard' him -- now it doesn't matter what Louie does, he 100% has Melissa's ear and Joe is going to have to break that spell. Man Rule: You NEVER allow another man to take your woman and put her on the couch and hold her hand and gain her ear like that for a good time, whether it's 1-5 minutes, especially when you are in the same area, unless she's talking to a relative or her father. I was very shocked Joe Gorga allowed such a thing in his presence... Teresa caught it before Joe and I think when Joe noticed he really went to make his presence known. Melissa: I was surprised she allowed herself to be taken to that couch... it's as if she wanted to engage with Louie on that level.... See, its not 'romance' or an 'affair' it's the allowance of you heeding the voice of another man in your ear through your eyes -- you do not allow that unless you are open and receiving of another influence, I don't care what the situation is, if everyone is healthy and just in a situation, you cannot allow something like that to occur as a wife...it just doesn't go down. Melissa was open to hearing and understanding WHATEVER Louie had to say -- but that's the cover, it has NOTHING to do with what Louie was saying, it's the influence. Reunion: If Melissa wants back on the show it would be sad if Louie put her in a situation to say that she can be back on but Joe cannot and to see her response... I think that would be a real control move by Louie and Teresa just to see if Melissa is riding on Teresa's sage. I'm curious to see how Joe Gorga handles the reunion and what he wants to do in the future? Marge: I thought in this Episode 8, season 13 she redeemed herself because she set the order for her own persona by putting Danielle in her place, establishing trust with Teresa and Louie and really establishing the foundation of being a settled-branch where everyone can see, challenge, or try her but she can always talk herself in-and-out of it. Fuda Party: I thought the women were very jealous of the mermaid and I thought this was one of the best episodes; Fuda didn't want things to get way out of control but she held a good event at her home; I like how Teresa handled Jackie like a den-mother and head-mistress talks to a teenage girl. I liked how the guys got along and there was no wild drinking or homo-erotic activity going on... Jennifer held her own and I'm looking forward to next week.
@chayo4537
Жыл бұрын
There was some projecting in that first sentence. "He was setting the tone mentally" sounds like you got experience or you know about that energy
@chayo4537
Жыл бұрын
Women need to stop being so damn weak and open when it comes to men. Men are not even on that level or should they even be that influential on woman. Girls mature faster than boys. Does anyone remember that? So it baffles me and it's an insult that majority of women get bamboozled by men based off of their lack of emotional intelligence.
@chayo4537
Жыл бұрын
@@kellyallday365 stop pandering its not cute. But yes they're a good writer and intuitive. Cause that's the energy of what happens between certain men and women
@lexirr1302
Жыл бұрын
You have now entered the Twight Light zone 😵💫
@plainsimple244
Жыл бұрын
@@chayo4537 The Truth: If the sentence you quoted was what you said I was projecting, I was not projecting in that aspect because of what Louie actually did... Go back and look at it, he asked Melissa if he could talk to her, he set the tone of 'where' they would talk, he sat her down, held her hand, looked into her eyes -- showing you he was direct, precise, and on-point concerning conveying whatever agenda he had... okay? What that does is set the tone mentally -- it doesn't mean anything evil is going on, just like a teacher letting you know he doesn't tolerate foolishness in the classroom; you can feel the no nonsense attitude in the room -- same here. Yes: I do know about that 'energy' as you say because it's in all of us, the thing is, how to use it -- it's like your favorite food, song, or when you like or dislike something, in this case, when someone is offended and you don't allow the confusion to continue -- that's what Louie was doing; he WANTED Melissa to know where he stood with her individually, you see? Now Melissa ALLOWED herself to be TAKEN. Why? Because NO MATTER what Melissa says, just like Louie told Teresa, it doesn't matter if god were talking to you, you don't come interfere like this... so no matter what Melissa says in 'hearing Louie out,' the point is, she's a married woman who was taken by another man and he held her hand and he looked into her eyes and what did she do? SHE LOOKED INTO HIS EYES -- go look at it...and she extended her hand -- that's called a 'connection'. So when Louie was talking, he was running GAME to her and letting her know WHAT TO BELIEVE as it relates to HIM -- this is so Melissa can see her mental options and make her OWN decision. So what happened? Melissa made her own decision. I'm telling you, when Teresa interrupted (please go back and watch) Teresa caught that mental connection Louie/Melissa had, it's an INFLUENCE to take the mind in any direction you want...so when another WOMAN allows a MAN to do that, she WANTS to be influenced by HIM and not so much her husband... You see? Why do women have affairs? Because they get INFLUENCED by another man. It's not that they don't love their husband, it's because they get swayed by 'whatever' allures them and one thing leads to another: a gesture, laugh, understandings, a drink, a party, a hand held, a slight touch, a compliment, all that combined with looking in her eyes and really expressing yourself OR listening to her and hearing what she's saying -- that turns a woman WILD inside -- so my point-of-view is: Why did Melissa allow herself to be taken to that couch, hold Louie's hand, and connect with him that way without calling Joe Gorga, her husband, over to that couch as well? This is why Teresa interrupted that situation. Am I saying Melissa was wanting Louie? NO!... But look at what happened mentally to Melissa afterwards: She was in the driver's seat of that vehicle, Joe wasn't; Louie controlled Joe Gorga again mentally by calming him down and diffusing a situation pandering to Gorga's hurt, and then speaking to HER in the car while HE was there; Louie wasn't speaking to Joe Gorga in that car, he was speaking to Melissa -- which is why Melissa said she was exhausted. He took MELISSA! Confessional: Why do you think in Melissa's confessional about Louie, she was tearing up and really upset inside, it had to do with her emotions being stirred up and that was Louie taking her mentally and Melissa was pissed that her husband didn't put an end to it or see it. That's all. It's like mentally a guy feeling up a woman and her husband is right there talking about all the new technology he has -- the wife is like, 'Hey look at what the hell is going on here?!!!?'... So the woman gets caught when the husband doesn't put an end to it or get in the way -- TERESA had to interfere, not Joe Gorga, which pissed off Melissa a lot; that's why she was breathing all hard in her confessional -- remember, it's a mental game, it wasn't physical but mental but her reaction was physical and emotional. Louie owned that night.
Kim D., you let us know ASAP if Luis starts harassing you, I feel like he will, even if he uses fake emails or whatever
I was rooting for Luis, but that was weird. I didn't like the way he acted at all.
and this is not the first time. WE HAVE SEEN this Behavior, lies, naivety.
@behindthevelvetrope
Жыл бұрын
Yes
Teresa doesn't argue with her husband in front of the camera. She didn't put her ex under the bus, she will not put Louie under the bus. I hope she gave him hell at home.
Teresa in my opinion is Blinded in love!!!
@chayo4537
Жыл бұрын
People got a certain perception about love
Past footage shows Melissa saying she has daddy issues to the group on UGT, and she also admitted to being insecure.
Abuse Kim? Abuse because he told to essentially be quiet while he was in the middle of talking to Melissa is abuse ? And unacceptable?
i agree. if he speaks to teresa like this in public and on camera how does he speak to her at home. this is sad. i was hoping this marriage would turn out better for her. she needs to stand up to louie. he's a sad little man to speak to her the way he does. i hope she is going to be okay. what i also don't like is that he will turn on her and try to make himself look good at her expense. not right. her 4 daughters don't need to see this. i hope they don't find men who treat them like this because they think this is normal when it isn't.
The sad thing is, I don't think Teresa cares that he talks to her that way.. She finally has her new marriage and is going to do and say whatever she has to to make it seem like it's perfect and everything is great, just like she did with Joe.. always excuses excuses and things are perfect
I 💯 AGREE WITH KIM D!!!!!!!!!👏👏👍
His behavior is what is familiar to her….😢
Teresa her father, brother, Joe and Louie that's the type of men she's used to. She has no self esteem to let anyone talk down to her but it's all she knows.
I really tried giving Louis a shot but the way he speaks to Teresa is, sickening. The way he was so flip floppy, back and forth, one minute he's telling Joe he wants to punch him in the face, the next second he tells him he loves him, the next he's yelling at Teresa to fix it, the next all in Joe's face.....was completely insane.
Such a rollercoaster...I was starting to think he was good for her getting her into therapy and seeming to want her and her brother to work things out. But that was so disturbing so now I am back to being concerned. He really is trying to isolate and manipulate her. The thing that is even more frustrating is that she doesn't need him. She turned her whole life around and got her family out of trouble and could have been such a great role model for her daughters as an independent business woman. Now her daughters have to witness this?!?! Must be some learned behaviour from her traditional upbringing.
@behindthevelvetrope
Жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯💯💯
Kim ur sooo right. He is out of line.
I love how Kim D is talking about this topic! I love Tre, but I would have never believed her taking that from anyone! It’s gotten so real, and it appears that Luis is feeding it all to her. He knows what’s he’s come into and is going to use it to the advantage it seems 🤷🏻♀️. Love the namaste Teresa, but damn, never saw her taking that kinda talking to on national tv again 🤦🏻♀️. Juicy spoke some ways, but this made me cringe even worse because it seems like manipulation overall.
This man Louie is so bent on acting and trying to portray a good guy, but when your a good guy you don't need to do that it's obvious to everyone. Now having a wife who mops up after you and explains you is a huge red flag because good men don't need their wives explaining their behavior. The amount of money I've seen going down the drain between the two of them them is concerning. Doesn't Teresa know Bravo cash won't be there much longer and if she thinks Louie gonna take care of her and her kids she is sadly mistaken. If she didn't protect herself with a preunt she deserves all that's coming to her for stupidity.
Oh come on, you didn’t see this coming? When friends and or family are waving the red flags, PAY ATTENTION! Teresa hasn’t changed and neither has Luis. She was in her love bubble. Teresa looked at it as, she has a past Luis has a past. Difference is Everyone knew Teresa’s past, she knew zilch or turned a blind eye about his past. My prediction is, T being a Taurus, she’s not giving up on L. She’s not going to want to hear, I told you so, she’s too stubborn for that. Flip side, watch out if T&L buck heads 😳
I get he may get frustrated cause all they all do is point fingers at each other and yell over each other but he's barking at the wrong one..the way he spoke to her...not ok if anything he should have had her back for the world to see not try to shut her up....curious to see if and how it gets addressed at the reunion...it was super awkward and cringe..I actually felt bad for her in that moment...and i dont often feel bad for teresa
Luis unfortunately is coming off as a master manipulator
Was this at the reunion
I totally agree, with Kim. He embarrassed her and should of told Margaret to listen to Teresa, why does she always have to listen to them.
Speaks to her like she’s an ignorant child …and she’s Tolerating it!!!! I’m not team Theresa or team Gorga …couldn’t care less …but I must say I agree with Melissa’s description …and she was putting it mildly …he’s a LUNATIC
Teresa’s Karma is that guy she pretends she loves. A couple times he’s whispered “I’ll punch U (Joe) in the face but wen Joe approaches him n size him he’ll stretch his arms n act like hé calming Joe down. I just hope Joe n Melissa continue to show us what real authentic LOVE looks like! Terassa’s jealousy, envy, malicious intent is goin ova every body’s heads!!
Now I think we have a glimpse as to what the Gorga’s have been putting up with….
I have thought from day one that Louie is a BIG RED FLAG! He found a woman with 4 girls and some money. Watch out for him!
I was creeped out by the behavior too
I was also wondering why Teresa isn’t using her married name? She’s not a Guidice anymore!!
Melissa did say she had Daddy issues in her book and when they went on Girls Trip
Luis is controlling. I feel bad for Teresa she just wants love and can’t get it correctly for any many in her life any, family, anyone it’s sad
@yorkvillecharlie
Жыл бұрын
he's a narcissist, which people have been telling her from day one.
@chayo4537
Жыл бұрын
What's love got to with it? Is that what love is accepting a bunch of bull
@moneciamenifee3603
Жыл бұрын
@@chayo4537 I was just saying I thought she found love in someone and it seems like she didn’t, he doesn’t seem like he is good for her after all..
This deal was done in 2020... They said they were so hopeful, that Louie was going to bring them together as a family. But...
Theresa is all about loyalty and respect, but at the same time she let her fiancé than to talk to her like she is nothing and especially in front of Joe and Melissa. So my respect to Joe Gorga because he always has Melissa’s back.
Why is everyone so upset with Louis? He didn't call Theresa any names. She wouldn't allow the others to speak, them she yelled at Louis to FIX IT! What's with wearing her father's PJs!!!! That is weirdo
That daddy issue comment definitely came from Luis and you know Luis and Teresa be in the house talking shit about Melissa and Joe 😂
Luis actions portend the adage: THIS IS(or wiil be) MY SHOW!!!
Luis behaviour was totally unacceptable and disgusting. I think Tre went over to try to tell him it was pointless hashing things out with Melissa because she doesn’t want to make peace. As we saw in her confessional Melissa couldn’t care less, she was still stuck in “Tre + Luis =evil” mode so it wasn’t going anywhere but Luis being such a showman (conman) wanted to fix everything and try move on even if it was for the cameras sake.
@reneegolovacha1880
Жыл бұрын
Please wake up. Teresa is the problem. Not Melissa. Melissa shouldn’t work anything out with that trash bag. I can’t wait when Luis walks out on her. She deserves it
@chayo4537
Жыл бұрын
He's evil but Melissa is allegedly under his influence. Talk about living a double life.
The Pizza story doesn't make sense. So what did Luis actually spend $250,000 on? Receipts please.
I said the same as Kim D. That daddy issues remark came from one and only Louie whose brainwashing her.
Luis is off the chain off the charts ! And then crying hysterical 🤦🏻♀️ did he cry like that when he messed treated previous relationships he is yet to take accountability. 🤦🏻♀️ crying like Mel the worst actress with no tears.
He got what he wanted. The end!
@denisehartung8011
Жыл бұрын
Tre is paying the freight. Louie is enjoying it all
@denisehartung8011
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One more thing. Wow Louie showed his cards…that didn’t take long
Juicy needs to be prepared to have the girls live with him.
Louie is a manipulator and Teresa is easily manipulated and unfortunately her daughters seem to be following in her footsteps.
Teresa always take shit talk fr her men. Old school. I liked Juicy but ... That's y Teresa goes off on the women , but never her men.
Kim keep it COMING! All women and men SHOULD have someone who stands behind them and walks with them through the storm ⛈️ not CREATE MORE BATTLES that the other HAS to fight 👊🏻 I TRULY HATE IT FOR TRE and I hope she weathers this storm better than the last few or at least invest in a BOAT 🛥️ maybe an umbrella ☔️
@behindthevelvetrope
Жыл бұрын
Def
And one more thing. I think Joe Giudice treated Tre more as an equal. Not to excuse his name calling of her but I think she probably gave it back to him, in private if not on camera. But Luis presents himself as the parent scolding his child. Joe didn't do that.
I, by no means am I fan of the narcissistic ConMan Louis!! Having said that Teresa does need to be told this is how she acts. What Louis said was the truth, but it should’ve been down behind closed doors from a spouse. Teresa and those girls are in for a world of hurt
Mark my words. Eventually he's going to take everything from her and dump her and her daughter's out in the street. Just have that feeling. He's just happening to meet her in the very beginning what's too much of the setup.She was nothing but an easy mark.
We r alll shuttering Kim. U r sooooooo right.
Kim’s right seeing him speak like that is a 🚩
This might be a very dark season where we all see the reds flags but Theresa. The season ends with a marriage without prenupt. Louis is not respecting Theresa. Overstepping. And has a very strange nature. Good? Bad? His talk abt self-help and speaking like it's therapy hour is creepy. And Theresa is too submissive. And says things that doesn't really seems to be genuine? A forced change from Lois? He is taking over & she allows him. Poor example to the daughters. I have a bad feeling abt this. The last time she ended up in prison. She has to start think critical and put Lois in place. It's unacceptable the way he speaks for her. And running around in nonnos pj?? Theresa ffs. Set some bounderies or tell him to go. Is he trying to replace nonno? What else is he doing?!
This lady is spot on never allow that in a relationship girls!
@behindthevelvetrope
Жыл бұрын
Yessss
Good somebody should stand up to Teresa, good for him everybody try telling her something wrong WITH him.🤮