It took me years to realise it was the loss of the dream of the family that killed me, not the divorce from of a woman I grew to despise. Once I got that the healing accelerated. But still, a divorce with two young daughters was the greatest hit I have taken.

@digidrum2003

8 күн бұрын

Same here....I thought we would grow old together and be grandparents together....instead she moved in with a cop she work with and the cop dude doesn't want her around her grown daughters or any other family. It's been 1 year now. Good luck brother.

@ted2136

8 күн бұрын

Me too bro. It was the no family or different family life that gets me. 1 year on, see my kids 4days of 14. Making the most of it and battling on

@ted2136

8 күн бұрын

3:11

@marrop2760

5 күн бұрын

@@digidrum2003 oops! sounds like a sociopath to me! or narc..

@digidrum2003

5 күн бұрын

@@marrop2760 You got it... a narc.

Getting divorced, for me, felt like a party was going on and suddenly they wanted me to leave. Like, leave existing. Burnt a hole through me. Burns a hole through anyone that feels it.

@annebenn353

14 күн бұрын

I had a party.🎉

@TickleMeChelmno

7 күн бұрын

annebenn353 Because vvomen literally cannot lose in this society.

As someone who’s currently cut off from his daughter this touches home for me.

1 marriage is absolutely the rule, I will never marry again

Divorce fundamentally broke me as a human. Been 5 years, and it's only getting worse so far. And the financial burden of the support after the fact has all but put me into bankruptcy. Wouldn't wish this on anyone.

@davecom3

5 күн бұрын

Reading up on the teachings of stoicism helped me immensely. Start by being a friend to yourself.

@davecom3

5 күн бұрын

Read up on stoicism. It helped me immensely.

@MrFossilMetty

5 күн бұрын

@@davecom3 Thanks dude. Being easy on yourself is one of the hardest parts. lol. I appreciate the care and advice. Thank you

@elijahrector2168

5 күн бұрын

You’re never alone. Mine filed for divorce today. Getting through one minute at a time

@Highlander1432

4 күн бұрын

Family court and the aftercosts bankrupt so many men. It destroys the hopes and dreams they had. Educate your sons about the realities of the family legal system

It's been 20 yrs. Since my divorce. Still destroyed financially and emotionally. It's absolutely not about her. It's about my kids. I hang in there for them. Otherwise, just paddling around aimlessly

I have been married and widowed twice. I was blessed in the first marriage of 27 years. The second marriage made me understand why people get divorces, although I did not divorce him. My health went down in those seven years with him. I have not looked at another man since his death. Thankful my children were with my first marriage .

@Matt-yz3iq

7 күн бұрын

I wish you the best.

@HendersonHinchfinch

3 күн бұрын

Serious question. What did you feel when he died? That may be hard for you to answer, but I’m genuinely curious. Be well

My x and his affairs literally obliterated my finances and my career. I had to leave my job because he was involved with a coworker of mine and she refused to leave. I had my kids and a teaching career. We lived on next to nothing for years. My job was never the same after having to leave my beloved school. 12 years later I’m through it, with a new partner and still working through the job stuff. I carried the heaviest pain in my body for years after that. I made it out, but I had to claw my way out. Be good to each other folks. ❤

@HendersonHinchfinch

3 күн бұрын

You didn’t have to leave your job, you decided to. Your X didn’t literally obliterate your finances and career, you did. He definitely made it hard for you though.

@mattg7207

Сағат бұрын

@@HendersonHinchfinchone of the most ignorant responses I’ve ever read. It’s the hate in you that makes it hard to love and support each other.

@mattg7207

Сағат бұрын

I’m glad you clawed your way out. The path we choose isn’t always right or the easy one. It’s the destination that matters. I hope we all get there.

@HendersonHinchfinch

Сағат бұрын

@@mattg7207 No ignorance. Everything I stated was factual.

@mattg7207

54 минут бұрын

@@HendersonHinchfinch You must be the see you next Tuesday that worked at the school.

It has taken me over a year and a half to get through the day my boys got back to their mom’s house without crying, and it still happens here and there. Easily my most painful experience.

I am so glad he chose to be a story teller and actor. He has given great artistry to filmmaking. So authentic!

@chebrubin

4 күн бұрын

Hitching your politics to Lizz Cheney is what killed him

I've always really liked Kevin Costner, he seems down to earth to me

Been there and done the American Dream. Single is much better. Life goes on.

@OGLD

12 күн бұрын

No way is single better

@carlosmacmartin4205

12 күн бұрын

@@OGLD And why is that?

@OGLD

12 күн бұрын

@@carlosmacmartin4205 I’ve lived both. Being married to a great woman will make your life far better than being single

@carlosmacmartin4205

12 күн бұрын

@OGLD To each their own. I've made my life better without the aid of anyone else. It's possible some people need another person to make them feel complete, while others don't. 🤔 Me, I'm not lacking anything or needy. I feel great being alone. More at peace with myself and the universe. Yeah, perhaps I'll meet another woman someday, but in the meantime, I'm not in a rush or suffering from desire. Works for me.

@diegodesouza9697

Күн бұрын

@@carlosmacmartin4205single is way better, but once you have a kid with a woman you will try everything to not brake the marriage because the kids. That’s the issue that the majority of man have. Sometimes I think I should just do like it was done hundreds os years ago, but for some reason I can’t just leave my son and go for another live with out him.

I got home one night ,sat in my chair and when I looked up the devil was sitting there,he said why aren’t you afraid most people start crying or screaming,I said that may be true,but I was married to your sister for ten years ,now that’s frightening!

@davidfly254

6 күн бұрын

😂😂❤😂🎉 Thanks man, best laugh of this week!

The only thing worse than death is betrayal. Married 35 years and one day she said she wasn't happy and that was it.

@Theresa-dg1rk

3 күн бұрын

I understand. I look at as a second chance to find real love and a blessing I didn't stay til death

@ThisHandleWasTheOnly1Available

3 күн бұрын

Yes, betrayal is the worst

@CA1567-v8p

Күн бұрын

A women never divorced unless she has a backup plan

@eileenhetherington3704

Күн бұрын

@@jonmueller2117 That's life. People change. Sometimes a relationship runs it's course.

@eileenhetherington3704

Күн бұрын

@@CA1567-v8p Absolutely not true. I was looking after the kids while he was a Merchant Marine. Found out he was cheating every time he pulled into a different port. Gave me 2 STDs. A good friend bought me plane tickets from my husband's hometown in Minnesota back to Oklahoma. We had nothing. Dirt poor. No car, no job, no home. It took years to rebuild our lives, alone. And we did. Got an education and a good job. Kids had their grandparents, too.

The answer to get over a divorce or separation is not to find someone else but to be happy with yourself.

I said my Vows and whole heartedly believed "till death do us part". Once was enough. "She" on the other hand is on her third go around. I shake my head at seeing or reading about people who have multiple marriages as in 5 or 6 or more. They marry like they are eating a bag of Skittles! NEVER do I want to feel that mental hurt again. I have dated since then and even lived with a couple of Ladies but unlike Ric Flair, I shall NEVER Walk That Aisle Again WOOOOO! And the best part is my Kids are my biggest supporters! Stay Strong and Keep Strutting! 👋

The sepraration from the woman in a divorce is the easy part - there are plenty of women out there, after all - it's the serparation from your kids and the fact that you go from seeing them every day to seeing them on a set schedule. That's what rips your guts and your heart out

@MrJayehawk

29 күн бұрын

Fully agree. A decade into something I don't want to still be in because I refuse to leave my children. It's not the right choice for everyone, but it's the only choice for me.

@kingdong640

24 күн бұрын

I got a flat tire in the rain once and although it's not as bad as some of the other stuff on here it was tough. Not something I'd wish for anyone.

@annebenn353

16 күн бұрын

Good luck I think the worst thing for Kevin was the shock when he returned after filming to find his wife having an affair with his tenant and friend. Friend being the worst to accept.

@jensejense

16 күн бұрын

I are to much because the food was so good.

@LK-bz9sk

11 күн бұрын

You’re exactly right. The death of the dream of the family is the real pain. Not the divorce from a woman it didnt work out with. To come home to a silent home, no longer two young daughters running into my arms “daddy daddy daddy” if I let it in, still kills me 28 years later.

Kevin you are a wonderful person I wish you all the best Life must go on. So good luck my dear Kevin. Don't give up. Life is wonderful and offer us so manny surprises.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

The pain doesn't go away even when you move on with someone new and great.

@MrRatclima

6 күн бұрын

I've always wondered that. My parents got divorced when I was 9 and now I'm older, I'm curious as to how it may have affected my Dad.

@dimebagvinnie644

5 күн бұрын

Sorry yo , I'm about to get divorced

@HCP-ux9ej

5 күн бұрын

@@dimebagvinnie644 sorry to hear 😞

Two class acts right there. Kevin Costner is one of my 5 favorite actors. The first movie I saw with Costner was American Flyers, a very touching movie about triumph, family, and loss. If you have not watched it - do so.

@laurajoy8164

10 күн бұрын

Great movie also one of my favorites

@pando4000

9 күн бұрын

Love American Flyers

The key to a successful divorce is an excellent prenuptial agreement. Costner's 2nd wife, whom he most recently divorced, did not do the calculus on the cost/benefit analysis of filing for divorce as she received far less than she anticipated and was overtly engaging in an extramarital affair with a friend of Costner who was also a tenant on Costner's estate. His prenuptial agreement protected him.

definatly agree about the divorce. Its hard. Alot of pain after 26 years with her.

@michael7v6

Ай бұрын

I’m dealing with it now. 22 years. She is 1/2 moved out as of today. Sucks.

@62LSXNova

Ай бұрын

@@michael7v6 I’m sorry man. Stay strong. It gets better over time. I know it doesn’t sound like it or feel like it right now but it will. I been there. Almost 4 years for me now. Met someone new and living life again. It will get better

Especially when the ex cleans out your bank account.

@ericwilliams626

25 күн бұрын

Men are sometimes in love, women are always in business.

@DD-xw6uw

21 күн бұрын

The worse part is that in most relationships the man would’ve made that money regardless of whoever he was with. The woman had no impact, but she gets half as if she was half the reason the man got the wealth in the first place.

@jamesmiller5272

14 күн бұрын

What happened to me also

@debrad6599

13 күн бұрын

0:07 When you have their children and raise them while the husband is away working, you are entitled to half of everything - It's the law!

Strong people always have a strong story, thanks for sharing-

As a man who’s been married and divorced, I’m not sure why any man would sign up for a second, third, fourth marriage. Nothing wrong with long term dating or relationships without having the burden of the legal hassles and unnecessary drama that goes along with a divorce.

@MrScottskiuk

12 күн бұрын

I totally disagree. I've been divorced, and had two serious relationships since. Neither worked out, in part because I was so fearful of what might happen if it went wrong. I regret that entirely. Marriage is a statement of commitment. I would give up all my financial success for a happy family.

@daryl9799

11 күн бұрын

​@MrScottskiuk Why do you need a piece a paper for your commitment? You can have a commitment in a long term relationship with two mature adult and if thing go sour you can walk away making it easier for both parties. The piece of paper is a man made trap just to follow the heard it's all in your mind but hey if you think lawyers and the government are on your side go for it.

@adambritain5774

11 күн бұрын

Been married once. And divorced five years later. Won’t be doing it again.

@seanl904

7 күн бұрын

Spoken by a guy with probably not a lot of money.

@private-private

5 күн бұрын

@@MrScottskiuk More power to you then, but dont whine when it all turns to shit. I think Brocklanders is 100% right but as men we have the right to make any decisions we want. But if you enlist you march Marriage is NOT a statement of commitment, you have been drinking the coolaid. Marriage is no commitment due to no fault divorce. What marriage is is a pension plan for your wife in most cases ( not all) and she gets the pension when she stays with you or not. If you had two serious relationships then they did work out, they just did not work forever but so what? They were nice relationships so go have some more. Im sorry but it's your thinking thats skewed, just because it'd does not last forever does not mean it did not work. If your wife died after 10 years would you consider your marriage a failure? or say it did not work out? No!!

Wow amazing… that is actually why I remain single! “I don’t think I can take more pain.” Been divorced since 2018…time passing and with the idea that I will remain alone…

@joendrsn

6 күн бұрын

um its generally women that initiate divorce. you should be able to find yourself a good man - and your risk of divorce would be about 0 % unless you stir up a mess

@private-private

5 күн бұрын

But you dont have to be alone, you can date, you can be in a relationship, just dont marry the government and dont live with them. Women can be great, relationships can be a ton of fun but we all keep signing the contract with the government. Enjoy all the company of women, just dont sign contracts and dont co habitate. No excuses. Why do you think it has to be alone or married and they are your only options.

@francesalmanza5747

3 күн бұрын

@@private-private lol I am a woman lol i think you meant I should date men lol thanks for your comment 😊 it made me chuckle 🤭

@private-private

3 күн бұрын

@@francesalmanza5747 Exactly right too! Same rules for women regarding men. If you have your own home and life just date men, enjoy them because we are great. We love to be with you, love your company, dinner dates, movies, a little travel and love to have your clothes on our bedroom floor... LOVE IT ... but dont live with us and dont sign any contracts with us. I always think when we are all free to walk away and feel free to walk away but happy.... why would any of us walk away? A bit of an over simplification but you get the idea. And when you are not tied to the hip of a man physically or emotionally you really cant be too hurt right? I think most men and women are great, its the contracts that destroy us, its feel trapped that destroys us. Freedom, peace and a contented mind are the most valuable things in the world but when young people have them they give them up for a pipe dream sold to them by government. WHY????? 🙂 Thanks for commenting back. Is your name actually frances. I named by boat Frances. Its a lovely feminine name.

@CA1567-v8p

Күн бұрын

​@@francesalmanza5747you go on alot of dates?

I agree with both of you! I’m going through the second one now. (I felt a real affinity with Kevin. I’m just north of Oklahoma, in Hesston Kansas. And my late brother was 5 years older than me. And I was a dreamer as a boy as well. I enjoyed hearing him talk.)

@private-private

5 күн бұрын

The SECOND one? With respect then and man to man? Quit moaning about it because you did it! TWICE !!

Open range is one of my favorites, Semper Fidelis Bible and ⚔️ from a fellow Okie.

I never really have wanted marriage, but the countless stories I've heard how bad divorce wrecks your life, I damn sure don't want it now.

@nweeezy

3 күн бұрын

like EVER

I think divorce is worse than death. Just brutal

@henrycooper4213

2 күн бұрын

You need perspective if you honestly believe that. You live in a safety paddy fairy land. You have no idea about suffering or what it truly means to live.

Divorcing my husband was the worst pain I’ve ever been through emotionally speaking. It completely changed the trajectory of my life. That was 30 years ago and it still remains the most painful time in my life. I didn’t marry to divorce. Thankfully, I met and married a wonderful man 28 years ago. I feel blessed. ❤

@mprkg

12 күн бұрын

Give me a break. You divorced and like immediately remarried.

@73cidalia

11 күн бұрын

​@@mprkg Two years later is "immediately"? Don't judge. We don't know what came before and how many years of it before the divorce was official.

@curlew-3592

11 күн бұрын

🤔😂😂😂

@torreyintahoe

9 күн бұрын

@@mprkg Two years isn't immediately.

@TickleMeChelmno

7 күн бұрын

Oh poor you

I got divorced a year ago. I have two young kids. It was the hardest thing I have ever been through. Felt like getting run over by a dump truck. Whant Andy is talking about at 2:42 is exactly how it felt.

The loss of my nuclear family was devastating to me. My ex-wife and I are still very cordial, and we shared custody of our two kids (they're 20 and 22 now) with no issues...all is well on that front, but it's still devastating: I don't think I'll ever get over not having a "real family", and I have no interest in a "blended" family.

@robsmith8933

2 күн бұрын

I feel for you man. Been through a painful divorce. Thank God we didn’t have children together. It would have ruined my life.

@DoctorHemi

2 күн бұрын

@@robsmith8933, thanks, and I'm sorry to hear about your divorce. Kids or not, it's still one of the worst things to have to endure. Good luck, man.

What a solid guest! Andy’s neck keeps getting bigger

Hurts the kids most of all Sometimes you don’t get over it.

Just a couple stand up fellas talkin about being men and how tough it is to be themselves

@joendrsn

6 күн бұрын

thats right. whats it like being you?

Neither Kevin Kostner nor any of us decide on our fate. For one. fate doesn't exist. To say it does, rids one of free will. Two. We don't live in a vacuum, untouched by the world around us. We are like billiard balls, careening off one another. Someone might bounce you in one direction, you bounce them in another.

I say this with love which is the most precious gift life has for us. Things happen for a reason, in time he will understand why... .

Can't get divorced if you don't get married.

@nweeezy

3 күн бұрын

bingo

Andy, thanks for liking my poem- how about passing it on to Kevin Costner? The man, like any other star, always had skin in the game; he had to start at the bottom and work his way up. When he quit his marketing job, he and a few other young actors and writers used to "train' in a disused CHEMICAL factory. But that's what serious people do. Apparently, at an early audition a female casting agent told him they wanted someone "handsome" for the role. What was he- Shrek? The director Adrian Lyne was very kind to him, getting Costner the "lead" in an Apple computer ad in 1983. Apparently, he showed up looking like, in Costner's words, "a bum". He told Lyne "he'd rather go fishing". Lyne reminded him that the gig was worth twenty-grand- serious money forty-plus years ago- and delayed the shoot for a day, then shot it.--Kevin Whelan (and yes, I really am a "Kevin"!).

"There's nothing wrong with Love" ❤

@pfc4156

5 күн бұрын

Apart from love for your children, is there love?

I am married 34 years. Both of us on first marriage. We were thirty when we wed. Likely made the difference.

Yes divorce is no walk in the park that's for sure but my ex wife and i realised that we both had to work extra hard to shield the kids from any emotional divorce pain on the kids...now the kids are in their 20s with good jobs and in good relationships and my ex wife and i get along better than ever!! I should write a book but i have no idea what i did to get this result...????

woulda been cool to hear Kevin’s thoughts on his divorce

@ThisHandleWasTheOnly1Available

3 күн бұрын

Not having heard Kevin's thoughts, I still know exactly what they are. I'm sure Andy does too.

I was married for 5 years and then was divorced with 1 kid. It wasnt hard that marriage was very toxic..I still made investments and made profits..Then I married again. Lasted 14 years and two children ...Sold the investments and made money and then divorced again again not regretful. It was a part of the Journey I am still holding high and doing what I want to really do..Everything is a risk..

An Oscar worthy performance here.

@janefromtennessee

26 күн бұрын

He is real!

@SquidGunman

26 күн бұрын

@@janefromtennessee He forgot to mention the part where he caused the divorce by cheating on his wife with numerous bitches.

@CA1567-v8p

Күн бұрын

​@@janefromtennesseehe plays make believe he's crazy 🤣

I did not know the Duttons lived in Compton at some point

Great western

My divorce was difficult but all have solutions and try to be positive ❤❤❤❤

I had to watch my ex let her boyfriend hurt our kids for years. She would lie to protect him and to detectives.

When are we going to see a Navy SEAL podcast about Italian cooking?

@edwardhovitz1753

18 күн бұрын

Lol ha!

Kevin is better without her

Imagine not being worth 900 million....divorce hurts a lot worse.

@ThisIsMyCareFace

3 күн бұрын

No. It. Does. Not.

@toddjohnson271

2 күн бұрын

@@ThisIsMyCareFace YES....the average man gets devastated much worse than Kevin Costner who can afford the damges.

2:35

I made it through a divorce and NEVER AGAIN! Stay single and your pockets will always jingle😜

i think watching your parents wither and eventually die is the hardest thing to go though, sorry kev. I've been divorced and I've watched my mother fade away over a decade, and the latter was 100x worse, for me at least.

Please bring this up on Rogan some time Andy to help others. Glad to hear you're in a better place now. I honestly think we can turn this country back around in a decade or two if we can get rid of "no fault divorces." I think both sides would entertain it.

Where's rollo?

FEILD OF DREAMS TOO LOL

❤❤❤❤❤ Kevin ❤❤❤❤❤.Ti auguro il meglio ❤❤❤❤

Can u check on him? I think he may be having a hard time.❤

There is nothing wrong with love, thank you for that. 🕊

Someone once told me: a man will sacrifice his happiness for his family. A woman will sacrifice her family for her happiness.

@charlesterrizzi8311

2 күн бұрын

That’s a really messed up way to think. People that think this way set themselves up for disaster.

@user-bt3fo3og4z

Күн бұрын

It’s true .

@eileenhetherington3704

Күн бұрын

@@JosephSchuett Total BS. It's normally the other way around. I lived it, so did numerous friends. You marry and the kids start coming. Next thing he is stopping for a drink after work with the bros, even though you both work. Then the "weekend business trips". Someone else's perfume on his clothes. Then the creeping contempt. Somehow he is devastated when you want a divorce.

"They deserve an Oscar, Kevin Costner, Oh My Gosher" - Big Sean, Wiz Khalifa, Phone Numbers

Count yourself lucky if dicorcw is the worse thing you've gone through

I am not a Kevin Costner fan even though I love his movies dances with wolves been my favourite. I will be the same age next month as Mr Costner and I truly hope in time he will find true happiness again. I am sure all his children will always be there for him like he has for them . Really admire your work. Wishing you all the best. Lynn from york in Yorkshire. England.

@Lousmash

10 күн бұрын

So you love his movies, but dislike him as a person, or?

I made the decision I could never get married when a judge ordered Kevin kostner, a 70 something year old man to pay 120k a month in child support. Will never get married

@BrockLanders

15 күн бұрын

Smart man

@jayniekinser7029

14 күн бұрын

He had a prenup and could have stuck to that but he chose to give her the $125,000 a month. He can afford it. Maybe he shouldn’t have worked so much. Did he need another hit movie? Maybe she should have traveled to be on set with him and get tutors for the kids. I kinda blame her because there are women who live in poverty and their husbands work lots of hours and they are just content. But, whatever. He’ll eventually find someone new who maybe won’t mind his long work hours.

@dubiousdistinction6500

10 күн бұрын

@@jayniekinser7029 125k a month? wtf? they have 20 kids? jeezus

@annast9172

9 күн бұрын

This was a temporary payment, it was soon reduced to 63K. And honestly, making a decision not to get married because of a Hollywood divorce is stupid.

@CharlieBravo887

2 күн бұрын

@@jayniekinser7029 You kind of blame her? It's 100% her. She's a malcontent witch and a disgrace to boot.

Kevin Costner and other CSUF distinguished alumni have their pics in one of the campus buildings.

Three divorces and at my age I will end up alone

@michaelpurvis2247

28 күн бұрын

6 divorces by age 54, then i remarried to someone quite a bit younger. your soul has no age. take care not to make prisons for yourself with words. if you are a good man, someone worthy deserves you

@Lou-im4by

27 күн бұрын

With a wonderful beard like you have,it hard for me to believe your still alone!😊

@beeamerica5024

27 күн бұрын

@@Lou-im4by my choice 🐝

@private-private

5 күн бұрын

As you should, 3 divorces.... come on now honestly. FFS. 3 !!!!

@beeamerica5024

5 күн бұрын

@@private-private thanks. The word is unique or eunuch

Love these guys who tell these sob stories then here they are jumping into the meat grinder again. I shed no tears for them sorry

There is a guy on KZread you pointed out all the women who divorced rich, famous, strong, successful, good men. There are a lot of selfsh women who will ever be happy by choice.

@CharlieBravo887

2 күн бұрын

If men were spiritually aware enough to see what is in wimmin, they'd never get married under the state.

The thing about divorce. Apart from the pain, is that forever you are classified on every form, ie. Single/Married/Separated/Divorced..You must check that box Divorced. I wish I could be .. single again. One divorce, thirty years ago and still holding out. I may die before I get married again. Just gonna live with that. I did see the full length interview. Great One. 🦎

@seabrook1976

6 күн бұрын

So check single. No one follows up on that stuff anyways.

You might like this short poem I wrote on the theme Costner talks about at the beginning of this. 'Nota Bene Dreamer': If you truly believe that/ you too/ could be there/ doing that/ then you're halfway to/ doing it. /It's called a head start. / But...be careful sharing your dreams/ because a dream is a/ tender, God-given thing/ and can disappear in a /puff!/ of wind./ Share them with one but/ not everyone. ----Kevin Whelan

@RickLag8514

14 күн бұрын

Wow that was really great, thankyou for sharing!

whoa, you got John Dutton?

Divorce is so bad. Ilost my oldest son to a drug overdose 6 years ago took a peice of my soul. Your not supposed to bury your children

@digidrum2003

8 күн бұрын

Similar situation....my wife left me for a coworker of hers and took our 16 year old son with her.....he passed away shortly after moving with her. I will never recover from his passing. Take care and I'm sorry for your loss.

@KathrynAntrim

8 күн бұрын

@@digidrum2003 I'm so sorry for your loss. People say it will get easier as time goes on but it doesn't will keep you in prayer.

@digidrum2003

8 күн бұрын

@@KathrynAntrim Thank you for your words.

Kevin costner est un.homme honnete tres.sur de lui❤zohra zohra

Divorce is tragic ..but there are far worse things.

@nichellesanchez3701

27 күн бұрын

In your opinion. Stop speaking for other people and minimizing their feelings and experiences!

@MapleBar777

27 күн бұрын

“Worst” is relative to an individual’s own experiences. Comparing experiences to someone else’s only unfairly invalidates someone in pain, adding to it.

@viviennepastor3188

14 күн бұрын

I agree. The tragic death of a loved one is something that I have never recovered from.

Plenty of us ladies happily single, self-sufficient and prefer it this way. If you find love, don't marry. Live down the road and visit.

@nweeezy

3 күн бұрын

@CharlieBravo887

2 күн бұрын

Nobody cares lady.

@CA1567-v8p

Күн бұрын

You date a lot?

@eileenhetherington3704

Күн бұрын

@@CA1567-v8p Long-term relationship of 25 years. I didn't want marriage. Already had it. We have seen each other through every kind of hardship. We are both financially independent. I like my house and my habits, same with him. We live within walking distance. No fights over money, chores, annoyances. No contempt or boredom. Having your own space keeps your relationship fresh. You are choosing your partner, again, every day. We met when our kids were grown. Couldn't be happier.

@eileenhetherington3704

Күн бұрын

@@CharlieBravo887 No. YOU don't care.

Wow now you know how your first wife felt when you dumped her.

@annebenn353

16 күн бұрын

But he paid handsomely for that?

@jensejense

16 күн бұрын

Yes feeling goes away with money.

@annebenn353

14 күн бұрын

non of your business. He grew up and we all change in life.

@annebenn353

14 күн бұрын

so what😂

@wayne_3791

13 күн бұрын

Wow….bit toxic

Imagine paying for college with odd jobs!

@thisisironclad

4 күн бұрын

It's all about thinking outside the box! 💪

His 2nd wife dumped him BIG TIME!!

Same here….

Best thing for avoiding divorce.......... don't get married. 😊

Divorce attorney here telling men to stay single

@eileenhetherington3704

7 күн бұрын

Plenty of us ladies happily single, self-sufficient and prefer it this way. If you find love, don't marry. Live down the road and visit.

@Theresa-dg1rk

3 күн бұрын

Or do a common law marriage. The courts don't belong in a covenant.

@chipsteve

2 күн бұрын

​@@eileenhetherington3704 most of you ladies pressure and push for commitment, then pressure and push for marriage, then once married proactively push for divorce (80% of divorces are initiated by women). Statistically about zero percent of men do all of that.

same here

Why did this ask this famous man a question and then start talking without a break. Not here to hear him

Can anyone say overexposed? Every other video or tv promo has this guy on now…every day…

@janefromtennessee

26 күн бұрын

Not overexposed. He is mainly on because Horizon will be in theaters soon. I like it that he is allowed to tell people about his life. He is a class act. He has had hard times but many of us have had them as well. God bless his endeavor!

🙏❤️

Not sure I’ll ever recover from it. Worst thing ever. IMO.

Desirable (Ladies, please note "desirable") women move on, monkey-branch and survive. They will always have a plan for both themselves and you and if that plan isn't happening they take what they can and rinse and repeat. Men stay the the fetal position suffering the loss (which in a successful mans position will be much greater than the woman). I've had 1/2 dozen reconstructive surgeries, gained and lost it all more than once and nothing was more painful than divorce. Never again

@eileenhetherington3704

Күн бұрын

@@TheRealRoch108 It goes both ways. Men will leave a wife of many years for a sweet young thing. Or cheat compulsively (which is what happened to my marriage). They will ignore or mistreat their own children. I had no back-up plan after all of this. No money. No home. I started over and got my education. It took years to rebuild my life.

I'd like to draw attention for all the divorced men out there looking to date with young children: YOU're NOT READY TO DATE!! Most men look at dating as a way to get their needs met, not at the people they affect and draw into their drama trap. Most men with young kids a few years out of divorce are not ready, and essentially using women like prostitutes, just bcz they pay for dinner. Later they come to realize they are not emotionally available and shouldn't expose their kids to a string of their short term "dates," and when it comes time to commit again, they go stone cold and freeze up and eventually ghost their dates

If only parents could think of the kids! Divorce is SO painful

@Jenda-ld8dj

8 күн бұрын

The kids always pay the highest price.

Divorce is a difficult you have to forget and move on,sometimes the people we least expect are closer to us than we rhink,other unknown things are better and chsnges it's better to live in an open relationship,there are so many divorces 💃

Im surw his mega millions and the next youngster who catches his eye will help him get over it.

@samh.6272

14 күн бұрын

Can you get any more juvenile? People with money suffer too, or maybe that's just your jealousy speaking. Who knows. But I can tell you one thing: money doesn't heal the heart, it just helps with stress in life. You don't have the financial stresses like others have when you are financially secure, but it doesn't, I repeat, it doesn't heal the emotional pain from divorces or any other hardship in life. Maybe when you ever achieve financial success, you'll know that. Until then, better to not speak on something you know nothing about. You come off as a sour puss. And bitter and resentful because you lack what it takes to be financially stable and secure. Ignorance is bliss, I guess.

He is acting right now.

@janefromtennessee

26 күн бұрын

He is real. He is a kind soul.

@whiskyngeets

12 күн бұрын

Show me on the doll where Kevin Costner hurt you.

@CA1567-v8p

Күн бұрын

​@@janefromtennesseeKind souls don't make it big in Hollywood

This is why, God hates divorce. It’s worse than dying in the fact that the marriage is dead but everyone involved is still alive. It’s a special kind of hell.

Your divorce is an ego crusher. Stop the nonsense. It's about YOUR failure (which is fine) but stop the bullshit. Your ego was crushed. It's not about emotion, its about your mind.

@CharlieBravo887

2 күн бұрын

You're projecting again.

Kevin #1 stop getting married, it obviously doesn't work for you 💔 #2 Talk to your upcoming young male stars and warn them to stop getting married in the People's Republic of Kalifornia. 😅😅😅

Found another woman. Didn’t learn then

Divorce because of infidality and lies in a marriage reverberates for decades ... perhaps forever.