Every children deserves a parent, but not all parents deserves a child... -Unknown

@terabyte2307

2 жыл бұрын

Your words should get repeated......children should not bear the burden....kids....just want "parents" to care........

@ghazalysi6574

2 жыл бұрын

my parents don't...wish I wasn't born

@lisamalabonmanoban1481

2 жыл бұрын

Precisely

@helenebennie3961

2 жыл бұрын

@@ghazalysi6574 that is terribly destructive to your self esteem. Hard to reach out and seek the people who will love you after that - that is the point of the song. Do you mind me asking how old you are?

@ghazalysi6574

2 жыл бұрын

​@@helenebennie3961 nobody likes me tbh...even my friends, I'm always the last priority to them which I don't blame them because when my mom can say such terrible stuff to me how can I blame strangers...the point of this song for me is to never have a child and never make someone live through this hell, I mean this world... and I'm 23 btw I just graduated from university

I grew up with a toxic mother but I'm breaking that cycle with my children her mistake will not cost the future relationship I want with my children

@rachelcollins2928

4 жыл бұрын

I wish you a good health

@crispycreamz2493

4 жыл бұрын

Same but with my father tho

@marianmoon3146

4 жыл бұрын

More power to you girl!

@jjging4308

4 жыл бұрын

Britta Balfour honestly my dad was an alcoholic and was raised with really good parents but some bad things happened to him when he was a teen and it causes a lot of problems for him in relationships he and my mom had a very volatile relationship but he was never toxic to me or my siblings always supported us as much as someone who is struggling with alcoholism can he was less toxic than my mom who had a really bad relationship with her mom but was a fully functioning member of society I’m still thankful for her providing all the things I need I just feel like my dad loves me and my siblings more I can tell how much he means that when he says he loves us as he really wants to protect us from all the bad in this world I just feel more love in the way he speaks compared to my mom who just seems a little cold

@jjging4308

4 жыл бұрын

Britta Balfour I want to be a parent who’s fully there for my kids like my mom but really let them know how much I love them and believe in them like my dad did

I was a ‘daddy’s girl’, growing up in the 60’s-70’s. Everytime my mom and dad had a fight, I saw my dad getting his keys, and my little 6 (to 12) year old self would run outside and climb in the car ahead of my dad. He’d get in, look at me, and say ‘as long as you’re quiet’ and allow me to ride along, where he’d get a coffee and order me a chocolate milk. I saw him simmer down, become calm, and after a bit we’d go home. My mom, God Bless her in her pain, would snap at me, saying I was ‘taking sides’. I was able to tell her, some years later before she passed (rather suddenly) from pancreatic cancer: Mom. I wasn’t taking dad’s side. I just wanted to be with him to make sure HE CAME HOME. This song encapsulates so many memories, so much pain…

@koodeyta

2 ай бұрын

😢😢

@user-od2um9mw8o

2 ай бұрын

Boy! That is a beautiful story. A movie story. Just awesome!

@jatinsharma5024

Ай бұрын

🙏🫡 How are you now?

@chadphriday197

Ай бұрын

Jeez, that's heavy. Condolences about your mom.

@ARDIANSYAH-yx6kf

Ай бұрын

you're a good boy. so sorry about your mom

I'm always asking God to have mercy to my son, to spare him not to repeat my story. May God heal all these children from a broken family.

@Annieisfreejustlikebutterflies

22 күн бұрын

Don't know who this song was wrote about but if had the power would dedicate it to the monster who hurt me in twenty seventeen. I have lived with fear everyday since he cracked my ribs.

@josephlewis9237

9 күн бұрын

I've had many failed friendships growing up. One was rude, badly behaved and got away with anything, one was boring, rude, awkward, difficult, hard to pleased and unsociable, one was weird, strange, boring and had a demented and deranged family and one was spoiled, bratty, disobedient, poorly behaved and loved having everything her way. When I was 19, I suffered the biggest and the worst blow of all. This former Secondary schoolmate of mine took the biscuit. We were friends for 6 years, but, he was honestly the worst friend I ever had and the worst friend anyone could have. He was everything I hated-Rude, pampered, spoiled, bratty, pampered, attention-seeking, controlling, greedy, irredeemable, unaccepting of other people, tight, manipulative, arrogant, ignorant, selfish, grouchy, grumpy, impulsive, impatient, unsociable, difficult, awkward, unapproachable, unlikeable, childish, immature, ungrateful, obnoxious, bossy, irresponsible, uncool, lazy, entitled, dishonest, deluded, delusional, unpopular, had no empathy, no understanding towards other people, had no humility towards other people, cocky, sarcastic, conceited, stuck-up, difficult, awkward, I would rather go as far as the edge of the solar system or the end of the world to get away from him or not socialise with him, just horrible and hateful. All he ever did was control questions and conversations, try and change me into somebody I'm not, try to have his own way all the time, give up all the time, find the lazy or the easy way out of things, eat like a pig rather than deal with anything, use people, act shy and sensitive to gain attention and sympathy, lie, moan all the time, claim he was so much better than me or infact anyone else, make excuses "I can't do this or that because I'm busy", refuse to be honest, use families to cover up his backside or cover things up for him, refuse to own up when he did something wrong, wouldn't socialise with anyone, read text messages but not reply to them, exclude me from friends day outs, choose somebody else over me, get way with anything, have his own way all the time, kept pulling out of school, refuse to answer any question I asked him, refuse to take part in any conversation, dragged me upstairs in his house and my house to avoid making any effort talking or socialising with anyone, took after his rude, outspoken, opinionated and difficult father and he was ugly both inside and out. We fell out twice. I don't know how or why I forgave him the first time, but, it turned out to be a big mistake and he went back to his bad ways again and again and again. No matter how hard I tried, I just couldn't be the bloke he wanted me to be. I just didn't have it in me. I hated his father, but, he took the biscuit. He was the biggest mistake I ever made and the most horrible, most babyish and most conniving person I ever had the misfortune to be friends with. I wanted to be sociable, outgoing, liked, embraced and more and more and more and more popular, but, he wanted to be in control of everything, control questions and conversations, have everything his way all the time and only please himself, nobody else. His father was just as bad as him, but, I always thought that anyone who liked, defended, accepted or befriended my arch enemy from Secondary School was a poor judge of character and had poor taste in people and friends. I hated, disliked and loathed anyone on his side. Long since then, he's remained the biggest outcast from my Secondary School, been ditched and walked out on by my other friends and now only has 3 friends. 3 friends who are uncool, dweeby and have rubbish taste in people and friends. Me on the other hand, I have come to my senses and socialised, befriended, mixed and been accepted by far better people-people who were cool, sociable, outgoing, popular, liked me, accepted me and embraced me as one of their own.

2020 anyone? Nostalgia hit me like a train... Edit: 2021 and still going! Edit 2.0(2024): Timeless song.

@sweetplaces

4 жыл бұрын

damn, time is going so fast

@valentinamatti36

4 жыл бұрын

Martin bezuch you are right... I'm in the 2020 and the time is going so fast... It was yesterday the I was at primary school and now, second of secondary school... I'm afraid of the time.

@Ashbrringer

4 жыл бұрын

I was in primary school when the song came out... now I'm a college/university student...

@vikvik9573

4 жыл бұрын

ROMANIA❤️❤️

@Ashbrringer

4 жыл бұрын

@@vikvik9573 I ain't from Romania, but respect for Romania from Macedonia :D

"I was so young you should have known better than to lean on me." That one lyric summarizes my entire childhood in a way I thought no one else understood.

@Hotziggaty

4 жыл бұрын

Sarah Peterson it must have been so hard for you. Many children are placed in that position by broken hurting parents. I retreated into drugs and alcohol, unfortunately my children lived through it with me. Now they have both had their struggles, very hard. My father abandoned my young mother and her four children when I was four. The cycle goes on and on.

@cisticbox2199

4 жыл бұрын

That one lyric make me cry...

@ajsoltani

4 жыл бұрын

When my mom was depressed she would use me as a therapist. Just dumped all her problems on me. I was in high school and felt like I was the adult at home. Didn't tell her about the stuff I was going through because I didn't want to add to her problems. Which is why they found out about my suicidal thoughts from my psychiatrist about 1.5 years after it started.

@xtrnl999

4 жыл бұрын

@@ajsoltani I'm sorry to hear you went through that. You were likely right to hide it from your mom. Mine would lecture me about how I had to grow up and be more grateful whenever I mentioned my depression to her.

@Corinacampbell18

4 жыл бұрын

Same.

Kelly, when this came out I was homeless, on drugs, and in jail. Now I have a good job, a husband, and I’m healthy. This song and “Clover Cage - Miraculous” are the two songs that helped with my depression. I just want everyone to know that things will get better. We are in this together. I love you ❤

Some day I'll stumble upon this song again, and I won't have this anger anymore. I'd have forgiven, moved on, _be_ happy. This song would be familiar in tune, I might remember the lyrics vaguely and then mumble along, I would know with my mind that it was very painful as I related it, but I won't feel it anymore. Thank you for this song, Kelly Clarkson. To everyone going through similar pains, may we get through this as quickly as possible and come out the other side not too hurt that we've lost ourselves completely. God loves us.

@user-lk7gg5pq3o

Ай бұрын

Imagino eu de 38.chutando a porta

Broken home isn't choice,, but people's that lives with this kind of pain is stronger than anything..

@notjokeyaya4468

3 жыл бұрын

sorry? lie about trust. I can deceive people who believe in my goodness. which in fact I have a lot of sins and mistakes. but I don't want anyone else. fall with my mistakes and sins. avoid it. it was devastating and never came back. especially losing loved ones. not changing other people's wishes to follow mine. but what is the real truth. you will be disappointed if you see me but believe me if it's the truth it is for you not for me. but thank the true God. if you are disappointed make a superman version come down from the sky and help you. You know . you don't lie inside. it will never exist and happen. is this like an endless word? up for debate. I don't feel like my age is getting old and don't want to keep admitting mistakes. remember the death of the corona virus has been in thousands in each region. even the farthest areas. many people are sad and desperate for those who experience it. money and lives are falling inappropriately. faith began to shake violently. an atsmofer of sadness and despair . which one do you want to follow?

@notjokeyaya4468

2 жыл бұрын

edible fruit and not? God forbid it? and can't even eat it? talk about cause and effect? does God allow all these problems? with this belief? if we look at this world and its interests. anyone studying the true path and religion? why be so far away from the goal? when there is an incident or crime, it is natural and must???? ....? should I be that person? we must be vigilant? do we learn the truth? not as perpetrators of crime and making crime look positive and must be done. crime is crime. there is nothing good in it. even harm others and destroy your career. If you want money? not wrong? remember but the way? Stay with God? but we have to have a job, from what? that can make money right and not breaking. let alone insist on being right. clearly in God is the opposite? so use life and what we have wisely and well. before we know it. sorry for always coming late. try and think for real. not always use analogies to change paradigms and perspectives. keep fighting reality and repeating the same mistakes. become a science that contradicts the basic foundations of cause and effect and real logical thinking. what is real and reality. before we realize and it's too late. fill this day with kindness and enthusiasm. Don't forget to take good care of this corona virus. because the future of vaccines and the amount and level of economic income of a country are determined. only true vaccines. which can treat body cells that are attacked. heart and brain cells are cells that can only grow after decades. even have to be willing to spend energy that should not be wasted from this body on purpose.

@tbedard34

2 жыл бұрын

Stay strong miss lady

@notjokeyaya4468

2 жыл бұрын

cause and effect of disease and additives. bullying behavior of society or groups. epidemics and death. cause sub-controversial problems in the future. inner wounds and save a lot of controversial stories and conspiracies. not based on data or facts. but allegations and accusations or vents. mental health and mental health problems. if financial problems between friends. debts and receivables. must be paid. I don't want death. but my money back. my only business problem turned into enmity and evil. if money ..then money back. not death. or reply .. because friendship is not just built . even years for a trust as a friend. if the competition is not fraudulent behavior and a crime against the opponent. but improve your skills and good grades and develop your skills. if not dirty business. revert to additives if chemical and toxic elements are possible . addition.... on contagion... so the effect is many times lethal. on combustion smoke. goods and so on. with commonly found poisons. if it contains an element of intent. inhaled. as suspected at the start of the pandemic. toxins and germs. sabotage. in China it is no secret that since ancient times the kingdom. There are two roles in the palace queen and cook. who can rule within. the cook can give medicine and healthy food. but it can also poison and make you weak. slow or rapid death. I didn't mention this... in advance sorry? I don't mean to make rumors or conjectures. beware. beware of evil and double-tonguedness. bullying behavior for satisfaction, racism, irritation, fad, habitual nature, business, self-esteem, lack of competitiveness. no wonder found in children and the current situation. because of the downturn in the economy and circumstances. vigilance and caution. because this behavior is carried over into adulthood and without end. without any evidence and clarity of punishment. many are now conspiracies or fake news. either intentional or unintentional? even the reality of the evidence yet. can corroborate a truth that happened and the many tricks of hidden crimes with no visible basis. which requires an in-depth investigation. you may experience this situation. develop your abilities with positive values. stay away from those people. love your family and loved ones. not baseless suspicion. Corona doesn't just damage the lungs. brain. weakness of the body. emotion. profession social and others. but this situation is faced all over the world down to the lowest strata. not impossible could not happen. apologize and pray to the true God. whatever your religion. the good will still be there. kindness will lead you to the truth.

@notjokeyaya4468

2 жыл бұрын

deal with s.....attacks .with 90% . alert . maintain a distance. home and work masks. don't wear a mask talk a lot. replace a new one. hot shower. eat hot spicy soup. boiled eggs min 2 .vaccine. turmeric ginger. cooked and boiled garlic. pickled cucumber. normal. initial attack. Hot water apple cider vinegar max 2x a day no more than 3 days. stomach blood pressure and heart. coca cola salt. Chew betel leaf a quarter max 2x a day. daunt min 3x a day min. pineapple. fruits. red wine. guava guava juice. celery. pawpaw. papaya seeds. papaya leaf. warm lemons. eat well and optimal body heat. The d virus even survives with the doctor's drugs and vaccines weakened. hot room temperature in the car. sauna. min 20 minutes. with good rules and conditions and not dehydrated. medicine and consultation. Drink ginger at least 3 times a day. fit condition. vegetable and meat ginger pepper soup. sit and sleep in a slightly upright position. oxygen saturation. changing food variety. Avoid foods that cause excess stomach acid. without an empty stomach or tiredness. the help of friends and relatives. mandatory before ...and after recovering.... hot steam therapy. two spoons of salt min 15 minutes and min 3x a day. clean the ears and nose. eye drops. because the corona increases secretions in many parts of the body.

“My heart can’t possibly break, if it wasn’t even whole to start with.” Gets me every time.

@stacilynnbranum6284

4 жыл бұрын

same

@wareagle4864

4 жыл бұрын

Me too. Me too.

@lanasteel1000

4 жыл бұрын

😭

@thatisrrlyhot

4 жыл бұрын

I dont got it

@MouAresounTaPneusta

4 жыл бұрын

Γμς τα, same. Today I was wondering how you call the emotion when you feel sad about losing something you never had in the first place.

I will not make the same mistakes that you did I will not let myself 'cause my heart so much misery I will not break the way you did You fell so hard I've learned the hard way, to never let it get that far Because of you I never stray too far from the sidewalk Because of you I learned to play on the safe side, so I don't get hurt Because of you I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me Because of you I am afraid I lose my way And it's not too long before you point it out I cannot cry Because I know that's weakness in your eyes I'm forced to fake a smile, a laugh Every day of my life My heart can't possibly break When it wasn't even whole to start with Because of you I never stray too far from the sidewalk Because of you I learned to play on the safe side, so I don't get hurt Because of you I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me Because of you I am afraid I watched you die (I watched you die) I heard you cry Every night in your sleep I was so young (and you're so young) You should have known better (I was too young for you) Than to lean on me You never thought of anyone else You just saw your pain (you never saw me) And now I cry In the middle of the night For the same damn thing Because of you I never stray too far from the sidewalk Because of you I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt Because of you I try my hardest just to forget everything Because of you I don't know how to let anyone else in Because of you I'm ashamed of my life because it's empty Because of you I am afraid Because of you Because of you

Even now, in 2024, I'm still crying while listening to this song. I'm listening to this beautiful and sad song.

To everyone who survived narcissistic or abusive parents I'm glad you're here today and I hope you never give up trying to be happy. It can be so much harder than some people will ever understand but you are strong and you have been through things nobody deserves to deal with. My heart goes out to you. 💜 I hope you can break the cycle. And that having a bad childhood doesn't have to define your whole life because you can be happy. You've already come so far. And if you're not ok... that's ok. 💜

@Littlekey1212

2 жыл бұрын

im still stuck here trying to make it through this hell.... this song describes me... im a 16 yr old girl stuck with an emotionally physically and mentally abusive mother and brother and this is completly domestic violene her and i need mmoney an online job to leave to get to an online friend i want to meet that ive known for 1 yr and a half and im honestly about to have another breakdown i have depression fears anxieties...

@echastee

2 жыл бұрын

@@Littlekey1212 I hope you get out of your toxic situation and into a better place asap. You are strong to be going through this. I'm sending love. Nobody deserves abuse. I hope you can find safety and heal. I'm sorry I can't help more. I wish I could help you escape. I hope you can get an online job and save some money.

@Littlekey1212

2 жыл бұрын

@@echastee thnks that means alot to me

@1234mikechris

2 жыл бұрын

Being with a narcissistic is a very difficult situation, But when you find the right person to get you out you appreciate life more & you thank the person who got you out! I'm Not looking back, I was lucky.

@Lilirain0189

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you ❤

Both of my parents died along with my brother at age 15 I have been a orphan since that date I’m now 29 and the pain will never leave my heart 💓 because I was to young to realise they where my best friends , Mum , Dad , Matthew I’ll see you in eternity I’m heading every day towards you xx

@donna-niajonathan6779

3 жыл бұрын

Be strong honey 🙏🏾💪🏾❤️

@mazuro1293

3 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry about this but I do hope you can find solace and strength in God and know that they are up looking down at you and proud of all your little victories and accomplishments, plus the big ones. Take care

@craigmainland6403

3 жыл бұрын

@@mazuro1293 Thank you 🙏 your kind words mean a lot to me. Have a fantastic day , much love.

@abneernayyer1860

3 жыл бұрын

♥️♥️♥️♥️

@helderalmeida2790

3 жыл бұрын

I've no words to make you feel better.

To all the parents who suffered from the world , could never stand up to themselves and made their kids their emotional punching bag and taught their child never to trust the world , to never trust anyone , to never feel any emotion . To treat them like theyre weak for having emotional needs. To never even feel human. To all the emotionally Stunted children who cant even process basic feelings without fully having a mental and emotional breakdown . Who can never trust anyone ever fully . Who can never maintain relations in their life , without being Paranoid, bitter and ultimately losing it. This Song is for you.

Its April 2024, let's see how many legends are listening to this incredible song🎙

@user-mg1zg4dc2k

Ай бұрын

❤

@richelynsantiago792

Ай бұрын

Up

@maciel.4539

Ай бұрын

Here

@yeah38

Ай бұрын

Hi yellow guy

@Untheiceman

Ай бұрын

Ojas up

hey, broken homies. it's still our Anthem

@islandneni1829

3 жыл бұрын

Definitely!

@missk6295

3 жыл бұрын

Yes :)

@Mihoyminoy124

3 жыл бұрын

Yep

@kaitlynsweazy318

3 жыл бұрын

@F. Santos

@jackiewanja9783

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah

If I could meet Kelly I'd tell her how her song help me deal with the pain of my father's abuse.. thank you Kelly I love you God bless you!!

@monsieur9743

4 жыл бұрын

He was teaching you to be strong x

@salmaznagui7842

4 жыл бұрын

@@monsieur9743 yeah, teaching her to be strong in a worse possible way

@ivanajeremic7036

4 жыл бұрын

@@monsieur9743 abuse isnt teaching

@user-te2tb3fv6l

4 жыл бұрын

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@neea9

4 жыл бұрын

Stay strong!🤗☺️

This song definitely reminds me of my mom. The lyrics express my life so much growing up, how much I needed her to just notice me but she never did. She neglected me for years, despite me doing EVERYTHING for her. And now, I feel so scared and empty in life. And it's because of my mom, that I've become so sympathetic and understanding...but also so vulnerable and easy to hurt. Thankfully, I do have a very loving boyfriend who's been filling that hole in my heart that my mom created so long ago. But it's still hard most days, remembering her neglect and how she warped my brain to the point I couldn't be 'normal' for a very long time.

@nicolechery8696

4 ай бұрын

I grew up with a nassastic mom. Now I'm afraid I became one. I don't know how to break the cycle. I feel deeply for anyone that goes through this. My daughter does everything for me, and I just don't know how to love her

@vanillyssweet777

Ай бұрын

My father...

Who's listening to this song in May 2024?

@Groovy507

12 күн бұрын

I am

@user-kb6pi1to7g

11 күн бұрын

I,m

@BruninhaMou2000

10 күн бұрын

🙋🏾‍♀️

@Rogersdkdk

8 күн бұрын

I am. 😢

@taonganyama2255

8 күн бұрын

Me ❤❤

"...Because of you.... I don't know how to let anyone else in...." Hit me hard...Grew up in a family where both parents were emotionally unavailable...

@fellagaspersz7505

3 жыл бұрын

yesssss

@m-4682

3 жыл бұрын

@@fellagaspersz7505 I keep replaying the first like 40 seconds lol, it just hits me too hard

@notjokeyaya4468

2 жыл бұрын

edible fruit and not? God forbid it? and can't even eat it? talk about cause and effect? does God allow all these problems? with this belief? if we look at this world and its interests. anyone studying the true path and religion? why be so far away from the goal? when there is an incident or crime, it is natural and must???? ....? should I be that person? we must be vigilant? do we learn the truth? not as perpetrators of crime and making crime look positive and must be done. crime is crime. there is nothing good in it. even harm others and destroy your career. If you want money? not wrong? remember but the way? Stay with God? but we have to have a job, from what? that can make money right and not breaking. let alone insist on being right. clearly in God is the opposite? so use life and what we have wisely and well. before we know it. sorry for always coming late. try and think for real. not always use analogies to change paradigms and perspectives. keep fighting reality and repeating the same mistakes. become a science that contradicts the basic foundations of cause and effect and real logical thinking. what is real and reality. before we realize and it's too late. fill this day with kindness and enthusiasm. Don't forget to take good care of this corona virus. because the future of vaccines and the amount and level of economic income of a country are determined. only true vaccines. which can treat body cells that are attacked. heart and brain cells are cells that can only grow after decades. even have to be willing to spend energy that should not be wasted from this body on purpose.

@notjokeyaya4468

2 жыл бұрын

when you live in the forest alone in reality. with real knowledge and ecosystems. you shoot because you need to. even you realize that you are lonely. your heart doesn't want to destroy more. where you feel comforted by the presence of those who comfort you. the logic of this life will surely emerge. when the purity of the heart is not polluted by unrighteous thoughts. what do you shoot for? there's even a better way than archery. to survive? there's not even an end. all have a function and are used for something that is right and not justify something of the thing done.

@notjokeyaya4468

2 жыл бұрын

All jobs require good management. even in places of worship. when making mistakes and violations. in big cities. not an ordinary sight. but get used to it. when we do not dare to admit and bear losses and mistakes. but by taking the right or something basic. to cover losses from people's property or that is contrary to even violating God's law. be for the atonement and cover the loss, even make it a fantastic field and profit. good things, bad things and a feeling of dilemma (good people look evil and are annihilated) become a familiar image. it is so sad and unlucky if a righteous person experiences the same thing as an evil person. beware. remember the story of the brothers. his brother .did what was right and best for God. but his brother became jealous and killed his brother . not all good deeds, bring benefits for yourself, even for God. there were only four of them and who would want to see and for what? Be alert and don't let this heart be ruled by bad thoughts. if not the closest person? who can help? why everything is turned opposite. keep trying and spirit?

"My heart can't possibly break, when it wasn't even whole to start with" This makes me cry + thank you for the likes 😊

@marinaarzunity9134

4 жыл бұрын

Me too😭

@notjokeyaya4468

4 жыл бұрын

it is possible for a solar explosion some time or month in the future. in this year. some regions in Asia have experienced temperature increases earlier than usual and will continue to decline. unusual heat. heat stroke alert. flooding in the next month and hot like drought. Australia will have more impact on global warming with California. losses could be more in the coming year. takes a long time to recover. the effects of widespread warming and rainfall. cannot be taken lightly. that there is a lot of damage and fire in the world has destroyed forests in parts of the world. and Latin America is facing in the future. the earthquake alert will increase by 4 months in areas affected by the earthquake good wishes and prayers and security and peace.

@febgirl220

4 жыл бұрын

So very true! Also, I was so young you should’ve known better than to lean on me... I hear pieces of myself so often in this song, a few are not “bad” but made me stronger n more aware of choices before I made them....I hope this is coming right to where nobody takes this the wrong way.... that’s not my intention. Another song that touches my heart is “Where is the Love”

@pamelabarrosdemelo4115

4 жыл бұрын

@@notjokeyaya4468 k

@pamelabarrosdemelo4115

4 жыл бұрын

@@notjokeyaya4468 oj

By far my favorite Kelly Clarkson song. Such a powerful and devastating song. In my mid thirties now, and this song will keep aging like wine.

What an absolute queen, giving us a song about breaking generational curses 20 years before it became a popular subject ❤

“I cannot cry because I know it’s weakness in your eyes” wow. It just hits harder now that we’re older.

@happyface4711

2 жыл бұрын

Or it's because we are finally feel comfortable to cry now. It's sad. God bless you nia I hope it gets better for you.

@CP-nl1uo

2 жыл бұрын

Or because we get attacked when we cry, because we cry

@misfitbrit1989

2 жыл бұрын

Maybe we cry because we've held the pain in too long. Because we've had to be strong too long. Crying isn't weakness. God bless y'all ❤

@CP-nl1uo

2 жыл бұрын

@@misfitbrit1989 , how would we get rid of our psychological pain without tears?

@CoconutGirl333

2 жыл бұрын

@@happyface4711 Exactly how I feel. thank you so much and god bless.

Dear future child. I will never do the same mistakes my parents did. I will always be there for you and love you with all my heart. You will never be alone. You will always be loved.

@rosemaklari3904

4 жыл бұрын

h a

2024 and I am still grappling with the years of abuse I went thru at the hands of my ex husband and oh GOD what our children saw…. So thankful to be away…. This song speaks volumes

2024 anyone???

@alfiangerung9147

2 ай бұрын

Yes still go on

@mostly_vavaaa

2 ай бұрын

Alwayssss

@williamzomuanpuia1770

2 ай бұрын

yup..

@Lillystubee

2 ай бұрын

Me

@Angelboy7190-TTV

2 ай бұрын

Yessss❤❤❤

The fact that Kelly Clarkson wrote this masterpiece when she was just 16.😭

@DukeEnglishTeacher

2 жыл бұрын

Now I am more than double of her age that day and I just lying here to listen to her... That's legend!

@terryknutson3202

2 жыл бұрын

True Stuff Hannah?

@bikermice

2 жыл бұрын

Not a masterpiece simp

@Anonymous-in4ed

2 жыл бұрын

Wait. SHE WROTE it???!?! Omg.... Omg wow. Omg... Seriously?!?! Omg omg omg. Wow

@terryknutson3202

2 жыл бұрын

@@Anonymous-in4ed please go back to sleep anonymous...........

I will not make the same mistakes that you did I will not let myself Cause my heart so much misery I will not break the way you did You fell so hard I've learned the hard way To never let it get that far Because of you I never stray too far from the sidewalk Because of you I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt Because of you I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me Because of you I am afraid I lose my way And it's not too long before you point it out I cannot cry Because I know that's weakness in your eyes I'm forced to fake A smile, a laugh everyday of my life My heart can't possibly break When it wasn't even whole to start with Because of you I never stray too far from the sidewalk Because of you I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt Because of you I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me Because of you I am afraid I watched you die I heard you cry every night in your sleep I was so young You should have known better than to lean on me You never thought of anyone else You just saw your pain And now I cry in the middle of the night For the same damn thing Because of you I never stray too far from the sidewalk Because of you I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt Because of you I try my hardest just to forget everything Because of you I don't know how to let anyone else in Because of you I'm ashamed of my life because it's empty Because of you I am afraid Because of you (oh) Because of you (mm, oh)

@TS-wc5tb

3 жыл бұрын

영어공부

@andrewjwheelerjr275

3 жыл бұрын

Because these lyrics are beautiful and powerful to the bone marrow love her and this gem of a tune stay strong and courageous😂😂.

@tamara3724

3 жыл бұрын

@@andrewjwheelerjr275 it reminds me of the song "Breakthrough" by TWICE, powerful but not as sad as Kelly's lyrics

@changednamelit

3 жыл бұрын

Scrolled through the comments to find that one guy who copypastes the lyrics under a music video. Thanks mate

@guliazyulfigarova1597

2 жыл бұрын

❤

I've had a toxic father, so thank you Kelly ♥️✨

@user-ew9cc6ip9n

3 ай бұрын

How are you Maam,hope that you are okay

2024 who is here? ❤❤❤❤

“My heart can’t possibly break when it wasn’t even whole to start with” 😭

@rachelluviano7514

3 жыл бұрын

My favorite lyrics. Watching this video reminds of my parents disfacial marriage. People always tell me and "your nice but heartless at the same time, who broke your heart" NO ONE has ever broken my heart, being rises by 2 broken people there for "my heart can't possibly break because it was never hole to start with."

@miroslavafiladova8514

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, thanks dad. RIP. I hope you found peace.

This tells the story of millions. But children should never have to be a part of this...

@Alejandromichael84

6 жыл бұрын

Yes, I understand. But, the parents need to understand that. My ex-wife left me - I could never do that to my daughter - to bring her up into a broken home - but, my ex is selfish and stubborn and only thought about herself - I could NEVER take her back, it would never be the same. She left, and I will ghost her for the rest of my living life.

@simonp4420

6 жыл бұрын

Because my parents abuse me when i was a kid. Now, im 25 yo and having suicidal thought. Abd think about it everyday. 😭

@brizia9323

6 жыл бұрын

Yes..... the damage is real and hard to fix. Im forced to live with an anxiety disorder, panic disorder, agorophobia and ocd. Too much traumatic events happen when growing up and now its hard to handle all the mental damage done by my parents. And still they like to point out the problems I have due to this mental disorders do they even know they caused these mental problems??? harsh ..

@swashbuckler9640

6 жыл бұрын

Radha Chatterjee That’s just how life is. I’m a child and I’ve just gone through so much in my life. Nothing dangerous, just a lot of mental abuse and being screamed at every day and being told terrible things. And I have a lot of family problems. It’s not better, but the past few days have been good so I guess that’s good.

@oliverbolts3759

6 жыл бұрын

Peggy Schuyler I disagree with the "or divorce" part heavily. My parents are divorced, but were mature about. I never heard them argue to my memory, I never saw violence, even to this day they can hold civilized conversation when discussing something about me as far as I'm aware, and I see both almost equally. There is no reason for two people to be in a toxic or miserable relationship for the child's sake, and that is what leads to the violence and cheating that will likely give the child trust issues and anxiety.

14 years if you're still watching this... You're Legend ❤

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Because of you I find it hard to TRUST!! not Only Me, but everyone around Me.

@legrandodile8373

10 күн бұрын

elle est belle moi j'ai confiance an moi

To everyone who have family issues, who never feel loved, who have traumatic experiences and etc,just wanting to let you know that you are loved. You are worth it and the scars you have doesn't define you. You are you. You are loved by many. Please stay strong for a bit, stay strong for that new music you've been anticipating, stay strong for wanting to eat the meal you've always wanted, stay strong for your friends who loves you even if they don't show it right away.

@princessofedits7230

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@quiezel5287

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks :)

@courtneypopich3117

3 жыл бұрын

Lol

@harryboyes2812

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, friend 👍

@adyaparamitaputripratama2786

3 жыл бұрын

@@courtneypopich3117 is there something funny?

Why is it always the sad songs that get the most love? The answer: because if there’s one thing we can all relate to, it’s pain. Be kind to others everyone. And stay safe.

@mioiz18

4 жыл бұрын

stay home, coronavirus is painful

@dhondiramshinde6932

4 жыл бұрын

So true

@dhondiramshinde6932

4 жыл бұрын

@@bobblesV4.0 you too

@hexmaniacgabby5160

3 жыл бұрын

Cause we all depressed

The comments on this video prove Kelly deserves all the flowers 💐💖 thank you for putting this feeling into a beautiful song

Who knew 14 years later kelly clarkson would be a successful talk show host. She is such an inspiration 💗

“My heart can’t possibly break when it wasn’t even whole to start with” so profound !

@abducco3110

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr

@dawntraynor1152

3 жыл бұрын

N H

@nikkistigs

3 жыл бұрын

That line kills me. Every time.

"Because of you, I'm ashamed of my life, because it's empty." Ten years later and it still gets me

@dsansil

2 жыл бұрын

the song is from 2004

@cristhoferherrera9102

2 жыл бұрын

I dont know how to trust not only me but everyone around me :(

@myrnalucero3969

2 жыл бұрын

Oh my god this discribes me

@harumi.3740

2 жыл бұрын

!!!!!!!!!

@KaungMyat-ho8rr

2 жыл бұрын

@@dsansil No bro Around 2010

14 anos já, eu ainda sofro com essa música me traz tantas lembranças boas que não consigo segurar as lágrimas 😭❤

Kelly, thanks for sharing this beautiful song. It is needed now in so many families because the family unit is being destroyed. God bless you!

When you're not an english speaker and all of your teen years this was about a broken relationship and now realize it'a about toxic parenting and abusive parents and now it just hits you REALLy close to home.

@traceyshrubb8755

3 жыл бұрын

❤️💜💚💐🌹🥀🌷🌺🌸

@liveanddoeverything

3 жыл бұрын

Funny

@paulinax894

3 жыл бұрын

100%

@alexandramariepapa9359

3 жыл бұрын

:(((

"i was so young, you should have known better than to lean on me" gets me everytime.

@rachelluviano7514

3 жыл бұрын

Kelly is clearly talking to her mom in that lyric. I feel the same way as you.

@alyssonbarroso7947

3 жыл бұрын

Me 2

@afcknusername99999

3 жыл бұрын

I get what she's saying and I sympathize... I just don't know that I can blame my mother for looking for comfort or support, even though, I was young and I had no idea what to do. There were so many times I held a knife at the door or paced around with a baseball bat just bc I wanted to kill the guy that hurt her and I just couldn't do it.

@stephaniebennett9809

3 жыл бұрын

@@rachelluviano7514 this whole song is about her mom🥺 whats sad is people dismiss it as a break up song because they don't listen to the lyrics well enough but this song is so much more meaningful and powerful than a break up song. Anyone can get over a breakup, but a damaged relationship with your own parents? Now thats just something you don't recover from💔

I will never forget the day my foster daughter came to me and played this song for me. She said it was a song about her and her mom. To this day this song makes me cry. I still see my foster daughter and we have stayed in contact all of these years. She still calls me mom.

Listening to this song explains the amount of heartache I’ve had since my father left us. Growing up without him I didn’t think much of it. But now, as an adult and a wife and mother, it hurts to the core. Explains why I am the way I am today. Never afraid to be alone bc the one man that should have never broke my heart, broke it at such a young age. Being alone doesn’t scare me.

I bet she had no idea how many lives she'd impact with this song.

@91.Squary

3 жыл бұрын

she ist leavingin niuce song

@HHH-nl2yd

3 жыл бұрын

Around the world

@lucylanch6262

3 жыл бұрын

Yes🥺

@jtrillguzman9641

3 жыл бұрын

@@lucylanch6262 kzread.info/dash/bejne/fX2nzs1wc6nYnJs.html

@stanstraykids8681

3 жыл бұрын

Yes

OH!!! I never realized until now that this song was about her dad!

@rhiannonanthony3093

8 жыл бұрын

I didn't either, but I actually think it's about her mom

@DegrassiInstantStar

8 жыл бұрын

No, it's about her father. She's stated several times she wrote this song about how her father left her mother. But some aspects are likely about her mother, etc.

@ttforever1984

8 жыл бұрын

+DegrassiInstantStar in some ways yes but it's also a lessons to couples

@Cesia1008

8 жыл бұрын

I actually think is about both her mom and dad, and how their bad example hunts her until now.

@xtcmauko

8 жыл бұрын

so so treu,,we sometimes do shambles,,but thtsbc we love our womens

Love her songs she's the best I'm 48 yrs old I remember when she won American idol 😊❤❤❤❤

I hope every family just passed all the pain and have peace and happiness in their way to live

It took me 30 years of suppressed trauma and 2 years of therapy to realize that I've been singing along to this song since middle school without knowing what it really, deeply meant to me. I forgive you, mom.

@justbreathing8003

3 жыл бұрын

You never deserved so much of trauma and suffering. You're so brave to forgive your mom... I wish you have a beautiful life ahead. I'm sure you'll become stronger and stronger with every moment passing by. God loves you.

@laestherminator

3 жыл бұрын

@@justbreathing8003 God bless. Your kind words have lifted up a soul today 🙏

@The_holly_and_the_holy

3 жыл бұрын

God bless you and everyone under this comment 🥺

@laestherminator

3 жыл бұрын

@@mutias.noviani785 My heart goes out to you Mutia. You are strong--just one foot in front of the other. That's all we need to focus on.

@oliviadavis1464

3 жыл бұрын

I completely understand the pain I’m gonna through separation at the moment and I forgot who I am num to the world and no one can understand I don’t want to live but I have to we don’t get choices we are trapped in the scars they left us

You know what hurts the most is when you can relate to this song with your own father, the only thing is he didn't even leave.

@jan8853

8 жыл бұрын

I feel the same

@aislynnwilken8380

8 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry to hear that. but I can tell you that you're strong. and I'm proud that you've been this strong

@elenarodriguez666

8 жыл бұрын

+Aislynn Wilken yea

@salmaa222

8 жыл бұрын

same. he didn't leave. so i had to leave.

@TheNinchyy

8 жыл бұрын

same here...he did not leave..but he was not a good father..he was an alcoholic and treated my mom very bad when he was drunk..and i was.also only a child when i saw all this stuff..i must admit he changed a lot in the last couple of years..but i just can't forget and forgive all the things that i witness and felt in my childhood..i think i can't have a serious relationship because of him..i really do not trust men because of him..i always think that they will hurt me in one way or another..so i always end it before it gets to serious

Great voice, great song, sung with every emotion possible - truly earth shattering🙏❤️

I’m 19 years old, it’s so hard to be a Christian teenager and many teenagers don’t believe in Jesus but i want them to believe in Jesus I’ll pray for them everyday and I’ll keep my faith forever 💗💗🙌🙌

Raised by single mom since I was five, I didn't realise how parent could affect their kids until I became grown man, there's something lacking inside of me but I thought I'm fine which is not. For many years I thought I've been doing right choices turns out I'm just escaping. Escaping from home, escaping my true feeling to anyone.

@romyoverbeek4086

3 жыл бұрын

Stay strong, you will learn to deal with it and feel better i’m sure.

@afcknusername99999

3 жыл бұрын

:(

@victoriasantizo4867

3 жыл бұрын

I hope, your able to come it and live the life your meant too live.... From personal experience, I realized it ok to grow up without father.... Was it painful yes, but in the end it wasn't him I was searching for.... I don't know your circumstances, but i know what you needed is already inside you.... I praying you realize this before it too late....

@dunn6357

3 жыл бұрын

Same feeling 😔

@victoriasantizo4867

3 жыл бұрын

@Ma2yves You mean it can be difficult...

If you’ve grown up in an abusive childhood this song hits you on so many levels

@dianadinah24

3 жыл бұрын

I know

@tylerstewart6376

3 жыл бұрын

Yes so much that it hurts.

@rayanerodrigues5043

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah. I feel like this song will always hit me in a painful way.

@TheAnthonysblls

3 жыл бұрын

yes everytime i heard this song it makes me cry coz i grew up physically and emotionally abuse

@tylerstewart6376

3 жыл бұрын

KIT KAT I luckily only had emotional abuse.

This line hits so hard "because of you, I'm ashamed of my life because it's empty" 😭😭😭

Для меня это один из самых тяжелых клипов, которые я когда-либо смотрела. И он лечит твою душу❤

My aunt was the one who introduced me to This song which was 4 years ago, 2010. She was probably the only family member I ever had that Cared for me. My parents are just a pair of Messed ups. A few years later, she passed on from having cancer and the only thing I have left is this song to remind me of her...And I break down everytime I hear this song. Thank you Aunty, Because of you, I actually felt loved for that once... :') God bless anyone who listens to this song and get feels .

@ruijosedasilvagibbongibbon1706

10 жыл бұрын

Oi boa noite, gostei de sua Historia e muito bonita, e ao mesmo tempo muito triste. Tchau gostaria de ser seu amigo. RuiBradok

@henryebisike1385

10 жыл бұрын

I really and exactly know how u feel This gets me and explains what I feel and have been feeling for years And I'm glad that someone else knows my pain as well My parents were all fucked up and it felt like no one in the world cared about me

@ruijosedasilvagibbongibbon1706

10 жыл бұрын

Oi eu me importo. muito com você...você não disse se aceita ser minha amiga. escreva-me, adoraria saber mais sobre você...e sua Historia. Tchau RuiBradok

@angelocaetano3861

10 жыл бұрын

Olá, sinto muito você ter passado por isto. Sei que não é fácil, mas tente ser forte! Um dia isto tudo terá fim e você será muito Feliz..

@rebeccabajada2911

10 жыл бұрын

I don't know you, but surround yourself with people who love you :) Hope all is well!

who else’s childhood was like this? and looking back you’re just amazed that you pulled through all the hurt even when you thought you wouldn’t.

@user-sb8cs3le2j

5 жыл бұрын

+ArmaniCoat me

@raquelpk2

5 жыл бұрын

I was these parents and I stopped myself because of this song. Granted I was only 15 when I had my daughter . But still this song opened my eyes . I didn't want to be like my mom.

@BlakeZang

5 жыл бұрын

15 years long when I first heard this song and it still make me cry I think only who had grown in the broken family can really feel the lyrics

@gayhartlen3598

5 жыл бұрын

When I first heard this song I thought about growing up, a mother who instilled fear when I very young! I am stronger for it now, I won!

@sinaberghahn3396

5 жыл бұрын

Hallo ich steh voll euer lied ich bin Sina Berghahn!!!

Masterful song and video. Excellent depiction of how children assume the blame for parents abuses of each other and the kids, and I love how Kelly portrays the "inner child" aspect of healing. Very well done.

Столько лет нет папы, до глубины души, в самое сердце, цените близких когда рядом❤

She wrote this when she was 16. Very powerful song to be written at any age, let alone as a teenager. I think sometimes we forget just how good a writer Kelly is. Sometimes her songwriting gets over shadowed by her unbelievably beautiful voice. We all have our own opinions about music, but for me Kelly is the best singer I've ever heard.

@frankingenito

2 жыл бұрын

In response to the comment from Breanna Jones that this song was written by Reba McEntire: The songwriting credits are given to Kelly Clarkson, David Hodges and Ben Moody. Hodges and Moody produced the song. Kelly has said that the song would not have gotten recorded without their help, so she gave them a songwriting credit. But Kelly wrote it at 16. It was about her parents divorce. Reba did record her own version of this with Kelly. Kelly released it on her Breakaway album in 2005. Reba's version came out on her album Duets in 2007. So while Reba did sing a version of it, she had nothing to do with the writing of it. I hope that clears things up.

@lovinglifehealth

2 жыл бұрын

I just heard an older interview with Jewel speaking about how insanely gifted artistic Kelly Clarkson is.

@virginialudovicasofiabarbe1197

2 жыл бұрын

I love Kelly, her voice is great! But The Voice is, Whitney Elizabeth Houston... nothing against Kelly, she is fabulous! But Whitney is Whitney…love y'all!🤍🤍🤍🤍

@frankingenito

2 жыл бұрын

@@virginialudovicasofiabarbe1197 That's what's great about music. There is something for everyone to enjoy. For me it's Kelly, for you it's Whitney. Everybody's happy. With all the hate in this world, music can bring people together.

@virginialudovicasofiabarbe1197

2 жыл бұрын

@@frankingenito oh yes! I'm totally agree with you! Everyone has his preference, his liking... Music unites! Music makes life more enjoyable ! Music is love, music is against the hate! Wishing you all the best! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🤍🤍🤍 And sorry for my English I'm Italian...😊

This song is still heart breaking even after 11 years and it still makes people cry EDIT: Thank you guys for likes,stay safe ❤️

@gguk4131

3 жыл бұрын

Wow your still there.. Stay safe :)

@katarina7449

3 жыл бұрын

i am crying...

@mr.spunks86

3 жыл бұрын

@@gguk4131 you too i wish you to stay safe

@vincentnyundo9053

3 жыл бұрын

True

@zapdersis3035

3 жыл бұрын

I am literally crying

Как же она душевно спела,!!!!!!!!, эмоции зашкаливают😢, это настолько жизненно всё показано и исполненно. Многие такое прошли в жизни,.

2024 e eu aqui sempre ouvindo essa música perfeita ❤

When she sings "I cannot cry because I know that's weakness in your eyes, I'm forced to fake a smile, a laugh everyday of my life..." Always hit me hard 😔

@marcoantoniorodriguesfaria355

2 жыл бұрын

Então de sua amizade há mim lá em Tweet em

@Elysiumsw

2 жыл бұрын

me too. Every time I cried as a kid, I would just get yelled at.

@christlejanemonares5614

2 жыл бұрын

😭

@kamunanyak1685

2 жыл бұрын

U re not alone. 😭

@rafaelfactor120

2 жыл бұрын

I feel the same as well

Everytime I listen to this song, I cry. Everyone relates differently to it, it reminds me of my childhood, the abuse from by father, the family fights, screams, hitting. Every word, literally every word, hits so hard. I'll never be like that, I keep telling myself every time the song finishes. I'm 30 this month, and I still fight the demons from the past. But we all just have to be better, better than our parents, better than us yesterday. ♥️

@kutpanda9159

3 жыл бұрын

😥😥😥

@hannahmontanajoseph9666

3 жыл бұрын

💔😥

@katienewswanger

3 жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry!!

@georgemckinney6318

3 жыл бұрын

😩😥💔

@aileenvargas8913

3 жыл бұрын

Stay strong 💪🏼

This song gets me all the time 😥😥😥

Who else is Listening February 2024?🔥👇

@Huntray1

3 ай бұрын

❤

@beketelenhlabatsi6498

3 ай бұрын

❤

@dayanereis1740

3 ай бұрын

❤

@yamkelamzobotshi6476

3 ай бұрын

❤

@NthabisengKobiso-kf2sf

3 ай бұрын

❤

Dear my future child, i promised myself will give you all my love and i will never repeat the same mistake like how my parents did. *Please don't reply if you never experienced living in a toxic family. My dad cheated and abused my mom.

@tkangel-sb3zq

5 жыл бұрын

💜

@huy-7a2huu66

5 жыл бұрын

💜💜💜💜💜💜

@sohanejaafri8191

5 жыл бұрын

💜💜💜

@jennyjenny4285

5 жыл бұрын

Bts Maknae I hope you make it I wish you my very best and good luck to everything you do in your life

@TheThikun

5 жыл бұрын

👍👍👍👍👍

Anyone with divorced parents knows how this feels and how true is this song, and the feelings of fear to fail just like your parents did

@valerynatale

5 жыл бұрын

or parents who are divorcing. This song explain exactly the feeling...So modern in a sense

@kateFGMP

5 жыл бұрын

My parents have been married for 30 years, and trust me. I prayed everyday to them get divorced. Otherwise I woudnt be here crying on Christmas day.

@your_princesa_isabelg

5 жыл бұрын

Ikr😞

@ThePeachyCat

5 жыл бұрын

Sometimes a divorce is better than a sick and toxic marriage. Since I am 12 years old I say too my mum she should make a divorce,

@marisah5682

5 жыл бұрын

yeah divorced? my parents had me and left each other i feel like i failed so bad

Because of you I couldnt accept love. Because of me I gave it to myself.Im here,still standing and youre not.

Man I'm 62 and this song makes me cry about my Dad. PLEASE take care of your children... They don't get over it.

To anyone who's been though this I'm soo sorry and I hope u make your life way more then your pass and live happy. Don't quit on life just look at the good things and make your future better than your pass

@serycleancooking

6 жыл бұрын

thank you :)

@ChiaraIacobucci

6 жыл бұрын

tina tunup So much needed words. They made me tear up

@itsdatzeldafan2694

6 жыл бұрын

thank you for understanding me :')

@naomieyeiah1524

6 жыл бұрын

tina tunup you are absolutely right. The future is always brighter than the past.

@heatherdalton3378

6 жыл бұрын

tina tunup your a good person

To everyone who has been through childhood trauma, You are amazing. You're so strong and I'm so proud of you for managing everything so well. I know you feel confused and helpless but please never give up on yourself. It wasn't your fault,you were just a child trying to discover the world... God has a gift for everyone who has been so strong to deal with a traumatic childhood,he has for you too and that's why he has given you so much strength. I believe in your power and I know you'll be able to get through this difficult journey and come out stronger with every moment passing by. Just because,nobody knows about your pain doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Your trauma is real and matters. Stay strong.

@yongyutyotin3997

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much

@mvannorden02

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much 💕 I needed that

@melarredondo1969

3 жыл бұрын

Yes it is...I'm trying to find a homeless shelter to escape the emotional abuse 😢

@intansari4687

3 жыл бұрын

I'm crying read this

@CP-nl1uo

3 жыл бұрын

Have been through childhood trauma - this reminds me of plants that are fed with poison instead of water. Have to survive this and it's a miracle to grow up psychologically strong or healthy after childhood trauma

I watched this music video for so many times and still, it breaks my heart

Hurt comes in many forms. I am not afraid... Don't use my weaknesses as your scapegoat. People hurt in many ways, you have no idea.

After all these years, I still get goosebumps EVERY time I hear the part that goes, "I was so young, you should have known better than to lean on me"...

@mfub5166

6 жыл бұрын

The part that I identify with is "I'm ashamed of my life because it's empty", I do am ashamed of my domestic violence day to day

@carlawlk

6 жыл бұрын

youdonknowme ä. Ä

@dsparkstbbucs

6 жыл бұрын

"My heart can't possibly break...when it wasn't even whole to start with."

@shakurwonders5216

2 жыл бұрын

@@mfub5166 "my heart won't possibly break when it wasn't even whole to start with"

@AK-jw7rx

2 жыл бұрын

For me it's the line, "because of you I'm ashamed of my life, because it's empty.". I'm single and I don't have children yet

I still cry everytime I hear this song.. the memory is so fresh and recent

This is a heartbreaking song. And seems to be so common in this modern materialistic world we live in. People can't see the big picture of really matters in this life, which is the relationships in our lives

*This song never gets old. For the ones of us who understand the lyrics. You deserve better than you may allow yourself. Life is too short to be stuck with misery!*

@jumbo-bo

6 ай бұрын

🎉😂

@glennsteynen3078

6 ай бұрын

And I hope you know the same goes for you

@katjabornemann9247

3 ай бұрын

❤

@angelesalvarezlasarte656

3 ай бұрын

❤l o v e ❤ 🍓🌟🇱🇷

@angelesalvarezlasarte656

3 ай бұрын

❤absolutamente ❤ mi realidad ❤

I wasn't physically abused as a child, but I did experience emotional abuse and neglect. I keep coming back to this song because it articulates the experience so vividly and real.

@mariannemayparis

Жыл бұрын

Same here. CPTSD is a nightmare especially when you didn’t have the bruises to show. I hope you’re okay.

@annaliza8514

Жыл бұрын

I pray you'll get better soon guys 🥺

@SanchoGracie

Жыл бұрын

Same.

@rosalia2940

Жыл бұрын

***True love = the love of God!*** God himself went to the cross for you out of love for you as a human being Philippians 2:5-8

@jclyntoledo

Жыл бұрын

Same! 🥺

The song makes a lot of sense. I can relate. Your past doesn't define you instead it makes you better cause I am not better!

Literally to the 1% who's reading this, God bless you, and may your dreams come true, stay safe and have a wonderful day:)

@adriaanwilliams6256

3 жыл бұрын

thank you! needed that!

@__gumusservi

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this! I wish you the same✨♥️

@wankamal91

3 жыл бұрын

tq frenz

@juliamarieandino6724

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks wishing yo the same!💖

@pinkrose0717

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks dude❤

few years later i finally understand this song and this video :'(

@ndilimekenambala9266

8 жыл бұрын

😢

@katthefanenthusiast5793

8 жыл бұрын

My old helper loved this song! When I listened to it, turned out I like it too! Great song! Too bad it's a sad song.

@irisvanderpol3926

8 жыл бұрын

Same whoa!!

@gabriellatotty3380

8 жыл бұрын

still dont

@VeronicaNagorny13

8 жыл бұрын

+Winnie Lu Right? The first time I watched it, it was just a music video, but now I understand it.

A real song, no words....

American Idol 2024 brought me here!

This song so beautifully and accurately shows the painful emotions that are at the core of childhood trauma and narcissistic abuse by parents and caregivers in early childhood. Powerful.

@sweetjoker0813

2 жыл бұрын

But u overlooked the trauma experienced by the wife.

@naomideviana8993

2 жыл бұрын

Yess👏🏽

@lidiomarbarbosa5330

2 жыл бұрын

@@sweetjoker0813 meio que caras assim só falam de homens mas nunca poe a mulher como abusadora

@tatetaylor6301

2 жыл бұрын

Don't think so simp

@Dreamtox111

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this. :’)

A perfect music video for a broken family💔

damn nothing can beat this ,the emotion that Kelly put in here is so strong to the point of making you tear up and empathize ...2024 and still here. I'll go hear piece by piece next😆😅😅 its a top tier combo.

LYRICS : I will not make The same mistakes that you did I will not let myself Cause my heart so much misery I will not break The way you did, you fell so hard I've learned the hard way To never let it get that far Because of you I never stray too far from the sidewalk Because of you I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt Because of you I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me Because of you I am afraid I lose my way And it's not too long before you point it out I cannot cry Because I know that's weakness in your eyes I'm forced to fake A smile, a laugh everyday of my life My heart can't possibly break When it wasn't even whole to start with Because of you I never stray too far from the sidewalk Because of you I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt Because of you I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me Because of you I am afraid I watched you die I heard you cry every night in your sleep I was so young You should have known Better than to lean on me You never thought of anyone else You just saw your pain And now I cry in the middle of the night For the same damn thing Because of you I never stray too far from the sidewalk Because of you I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt Because of you I try my hardest just to forget everything Because of you I don't know how to let anyone else in Because of you I'm ashamed of my life Because it's empty Because of you I am afraid Because of you Because of you

@joybrown4011

7 жыл бұрын

thank you

@joybrown4011

7 жыл бұрын

Exo God is watching you...

@Miss16071999

7 жыл бұрын

Denise Bouwer XD !!! :*

@faihahermawan7084

7 жыл бұрын

thx...

@joybrown4011

7 жыл бұрын

yesim XP

@kellyclarkson thank you from someone else who has been through this cycle, for giving us a song to vent to, and hopefully heal from

Alguém ouvindo essa música em pleno 2024?

I’m 16 years old. And I’ve never was a child. This song hits me so hard, I feel like the lyrics was written about me. Thx Kelly for this beautiful song.

@moonlightbae2960

3 жыл бұрын

Me too, my father was an alcoholic with complication and he loved to humiliate my mother and me and my little sister. As a child, I injured myself and had anxiety neurosis. Currently I have no contact with this man, I am happy and I have everything I want because I earn a lot and have a lot of friends. This song reminds me of the horrible moments my father sent me 💔😥

@shxdique5866

3 жыл бұрын

Me too, my father was horrible when I was growing up. He never cared for anyone other than himself and left when I was about five.

@sylvainletourneau9541

3 жыл бұрын

Take care of you... That's a song..... getting me deep thinking,

@loronthompson7344

3 жыл бұрын

@@shxdique5866 same but I chose not to publically share my story as I don't want sympathy

@shxdique5866

3 жыл бұрын

@@loronthompson7344 then why are you sharing it now?

I finally understand the meaning of this song. This reminds me what my father did to us.

Who is still listening to this 11 years later ❤❤ this song hits home 😔😔

@user-zd8ff7qc7p

3 жыл бұрын

I am here😂😉

@caitlinbc1636

3 жыл бұрын

I am here to

@marissavasquez7721

3 жыл бұрын

@@caitlinbc1636 thx I appreciate that

@crystalpost736

3 жыл бұрын

This then "Stronger" right after 💪♥️💪♥️💪

@jaymoneyshow

3 жыл бұрын

It always will! Forever ❤

"My heart can't possibly break when it wasn't even whole to start with"... Dude I felt that🥺🥺🥺

@LoveAndMusic123

3 жыл бұрын

Nie.k nie.kkeo to już

@vioe2537

3 жыл бұрын

Tell me about it