KEEPING YOUR RELATIONSHIP SPICY (EP. 46)

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(S4, EP10) KEEPING YOUR RELATIONSHIP SPICY. What does it look like to you to keep things “spicy” in your relationship? Is it new experiences with your partner, is it traveling, how do you prioritize your relationship? One thing we do know, spicing things up doesn’t always mean sex. In this episode the fellas touched on some creative ways to connect with their partners that keep their relationships spicy and wanting more! From daily connectivity games to sexting they had a lot to say about this one!
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  • @JaNyaJohnson
    @JaNyaJohnson2 жыл бұрын

    PART 2 PLEASE FEATURING CANDICE AND CHANEL!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @lavidalovely8898

    @lavidalovely8898

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes please

  • @MoreOfSiren

    @MoreOfSiren

    2 жыл бұрын

    Omg please please please lol

  • @hotdayum

    @hotdayum

    2 жыл бұрын

    We need this!

  • @onrethegoddess2410

    @onrethegoddess2410

    2 жыл бұрын

    Fully support this!!!

  • @etfenta7843

    @etfenta7843

    2 жыл бұрын

    That would be dope

  • @lucretiajeans8212
    @lucretiajeans82122 жыл бұрын

    This gives me confirmation that there are still black men out here that are willing to love properly and do the necessary work in valuable relationships.Great job guys!

  • @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    2 жыл бұрын

    🥃🥃🥃

  • @Shiekhempathpowers

    @Shiekhempathpowers

    11 ай бұрын

    Watching you all made me appreciative of my journey with self and my relationship and made me realize what I needed to change in self to value my man more and especially after 7 years were at a place of being way better mindful selfaware accountable giving each other ease realizing we're growing learning it's new to us both even after 7 years

  • @Sergie_babes
    @Sergie_babes2 жыл бұрын

    Was smiling ear to ear the entire episode. Can't wait to experience this type of love and reciprocate it back as well.

  • @Lexi-tb8ok

    @Lexi-tb8ok

    2 жыл бұрын

    Agreed!! Learning so much from this guys!

  • @livinmabestlife

    @livinmabestlife

    Жыл бұрын

    Me tooo

  • @indigobeauty1
    @indigobeauty1 Жыл бұрын

    I think unconditional love tend to come more naturally to ladies, which is why we find ourselves in toxic situations. Not wanting to give up on someone and seeing the potential when we should just leave and Pray for that person from a far.

  • @savannathesiren
    @savannathesiren2 жыл бұрын

    It’s the emotional intelligence for me!!!! Men need safe spaces like this 💯. This was fireeeeeee 🔥🔥🔥 I love how you talk so highly & respectfully about your partners, hold yourselves accountable & admit wrong. It’s feeling like a rarity these days so thank you for showing my jaded ass that their are men doing the work 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽

  • @Kamogelo
    @Kamogelo Жыл бұрын

    The writing letters part made me smile so hard. ❤

  • @alesiasinspiration
    @alesiasinspiration2 жыл бұрын

    I had to realize through my first marriage that love is not a battle field. It's not where your ego goes to prove itself/it's worth. It isn't a place to reintroduce your toxic patterns learned from childhood. And it's not the place to keep secrets.

  • @marteciagass4975
    @marteciagass49752 жыл бұрын

    Jalon was showing out this episode 👏🏾👏🏾 stay dropping gems!

  • @etfenta7843

    @etfenta7843

    2 жыл бұрын

    Big facts

  • @ANGEL-ne6ue
    @ANGEL-ne6ue Жыл бұрын

    Nice & Neat is not one of the best, but the BEST male podcast out! Their emotional intelligence, authenticity and vulnerability exudes through every episode!!! #Handsdown

  • @callen9679

    @callen9679

    Жыл бұрын

    👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @lanisajamia
    @lanisajamia2 жыл бұрын

    That’s not called thirsty, that’s called applying pressure! Jalon and his gf were already talking and getting to know each other. She had good discernment and clearly made a great choice.

  • @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    2 жыл бұрын

    🥃🥃🥃

  • @coachchauntea5222
    @coachchauntea52222 жыл бұрын

    This is a great episode! I think that I am in a similar position as Jalon(talking to someone long-distance). I think that if a man and woman have been talking and getting to know each other on a daily basis, it is not thirsty if a man decides to take the relationship to the next level. Jalon was already in, but feeling the chemistry in person was ultimately the deciding factor to enter into an official relationship. It was well planned out, and the intention was there. That is something that I believe most women can appreciate. Also, I love the communication notebook idea from Duke as well as the sticky notes from Omar. Thank you guys for sharing!

  • @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    2 жыл бұрын

    🥃🥃🥃

  • @Effort.lyss__
    @Effort.lyss__2 жыл бұрын

    Nice and Neat never disappoints 💎.. An episode dedicated to answering questions/giving advice on scenarios from the viewers would be dope. I think you guys’ opinions/point of views would be much appreciated.

  • @dyvenotbeaublanc4127
    @dyvenotbeaublanc41272 жыл бұрын

    Y’all just turnt my game up 75%. I used to do the little things but now a days they say we’re too thirsty, but doing the little thing is who I really am.

  • @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    2 жыл бұрын

    Do you fam! 🥃🥃🥃

  • @instrinsiclove
    @instrinsiclove2 жыл бұрын

    It’s the intentionality into pouring into your partner. Loved loved loved this episode! And I’m not even finished.

  • @mailman5865
    @mailman5865Ай бұрын

    I wish I had friends that can go this deep into conversations.

  • @tylertutt2873
    @tylertutt28732 жыл бұрын

    That intro song hits EVERY time!

  • @TheBlackestTruth

    @TheBlackestTruth

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeees, it really does not get old 😂

  • @theconversationist6777
    @theconversationist67777 ай бұрын

    As a 31 year old woman working to better my relationship of 12 years nothing is more appreciative than a emotional stable man. Express how u feel, mean what u say and stand on it while respecting one another

  • @christinanickerson2709
    @christinanickerson27092 жыл бұрын

    Jalon was on FIRE this episode. this was good!

  • @yulnikita
    @yulnikita2 жыл бұрын

    I don't think I would ever want to love a romantic partner unconditionally. My love is definitely dependent on how I'm being treated. So, if someone is really hurting me and it becomes repetitive, my heart is going to into protective mode. My self love needs to supercede my love for someone else.

  • @marie_frzr
    @marie_frzr2 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣 Duke, shut up LOL . I couldn't stop smiling when you squealed like you were one of the girls ... "Not the first time you saw her face to face" ... Duke 's reaction was literally my action. Great episode. Keep dropping gems and putting us on game! And Omar 🤣 🤣 "Naw , I ain't gon say that" Candice better ask the follow up questions.. what did you want to say. Lol great self-correction in the moment . 🤣

  • @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    2 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @hotdayum
    @hotdayum2 жыл бұрын

    This was so good, guys! I’ve watched every episode and this was definitely one of my favorites. You guys dropped some DIAMONDS! I (a woman) definitely learned some things that I will take back to my relationship. I also love your friendship dynamic- able to respectfully disagree and listen to one another without invalidating. Keep it up! 🥃

  • @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    2 жыл бұрын

    🥃🥃🥃

  • @perrij
    @perrij2 жыл бұрын

    If she gave you her number and she don’t answer your call and don’t text you after she didn’t really wanna give you her number in the first place. Lmaoo

  • @kayjonae218
    @kayjonae2182 жыл бұрын

    Amazing episode y’all!! It’s always like a breath of fresh air to listen to you guys converse & actually make sense! Y’all DON’T MISS 🔥🔥💯

  • @theprmuse
    @theprmuse2 жыл бұрын

    If we’ve been talking and the energy is there! I’m running to the airport😩😎

  • @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    2 жыл бұрын

    🥃💯

  • @amandaj8500
    @amandaj85002 жыл бұрын

    I lovvvved this episode! Thanks for sharing with us.

  • @dylanjohnson1877
    @dylanjohnson18772 жыл бұрын

    I love this podcast fr, y’all pmo to so much game 🥃🥃 Jalon IS HIMMMMM fr 😮‍💨

  • @monetcheree
    @monetcheree8 ай бұрын

    Writing notes are so underrated! Sometimes I mail it to the house 😊

  • @keneshalewis2875
    @keneshalewis2875 Жыл бұрын

    Soooo good!!!!! So grateful for you three and finding this podcast ❤❤❤

  • @daijariley8681
    @daijariley86812 жыл бұрын

    I really love y’all 😂. We definitely need more men in the world like you three. The maturity, the gems, the realness. It’s just all there 👏🏾

  • @SAHMLifeUnfiltered
    @SAHMLifeUnfiltered2 жыл бұрын

    Love this definitely need a part two ❤️

  • @jazmine6255
    @jazmine62552 жыл бұрын

    Excited to had come across this podcast but even more excited about following their beautiful inspirational women!!!

  • @dkells68
    @dkells68 Жыл бұрын

    This is by far one of the BEST EPISODES YOU ALL EVER MADE!!! Definitely kicked game here!!🙌🏾✊🏾💯

  • @LaDonnaBabe
    @LaDonnaBabe2 жыл бұрын

    I really enjoyed this. Positivity and genuineness with a smile of course 😊

  • @naynayhi93
    @naynayhi932 жыл бұрын

    I’m agreeing with Jalon on what happened with his girl. That would be thirst if she didn’t mess with it. She just happened to be matching the love

  • @martinjeremiah3091
    @martinjeremiah30912 жыл бұрын

    Love this guys man. Always dropping jewels. Shine on my bruddas ✨

  • @Deidre401
    @Deidre4012 жыл бұрын

    That last segment is exactly what I needed to here about the choice of loving someone. Especially about leap in conditional love and removing the selfish thoughts of “feeling good” all the time. Absolutely wonderful Episode!

  • @daijunayturner352
    @daijunayturner3522 жыл бұрын

    This set up so much more welcoming!!!yayyy

  • @valariowhite1273
    @valariowhite12732 жыл бұрын

    So much game given in this one. Definitely challenged me to be better in my next relationship. The Funny thing is women will ask for you to keep things interesting, spicy, or ask for more but most of the time they don’t necessarily know what that tangibly is UNTIL they see it from you. Which is the challenge. And the game y’all give here are examples of the tangible things desired by them. Salute 🥃

  • @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    2 жыл бұрын

    🥃🥃🥃

  • @MonayciusBeauty
    @MonayciusBeauty2 жыл бұрын

    Y’all dropped some jewels on this episode💎 … love the convo and the openness. Anddddd yes I’m hopping on that flight🤸‍♀️ ✈️ 🤣

  • @RenaAlise
    @RenaAlise2 жыл бұрын

    One of the best episodes! I definitely enjoyed this fasure🔥

  • @TarotbyGlow
    @TarotbyGlow2 жыл бұрын

    My guys came to fuckn pod!!! Y’all been upping it every episode! The energy, the vulnerability, the GEMS! I love it here! #TheNice&NeatWay 🥃

  • @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    2 жыл бұрын

    🥃🥃🥃

  • @instrinsiclove
    @instrinsiclove2 жыл бұрын

    I agree with Jalon. He would’ve been doing too much for me IF I didn’t like him and he planned all that out…because the connection was there and the feelings were mutual, the trip and everything planned in between was a go.

  • @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    2 жыл бұрын

    🥃🥃🥃

  • @onrethegoddess2410
    @onrethegoddess24102 жыл бұрын

    Yess loving the longer videos !!!

  • @NH88836
    @NH888362 жыл бұрын

    Great episode guys ✨

  • @FanBanks
    @FanBanks2 жыл бұрын

    Wow this must be nice to have. This is so beautiful to hear men discuss these topics.

  • @marcusrivers5354
    @marcusrivers53542 жыл бұрын

    Another great episode 💯💯

  • @shernz6188
    @shernz61882 жыл бұрын

    Loved this episode... as usual.

  • @jeremywilliams3931
    @jeremywilliams39312 жыл бұрын

    This episode was so DOPE! Very intense funny, but real. Keep it up💯💪🏾

  • @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    2 жыл бұрын

    🥃🥃🥃

  • @sakiyia
    @sakiyia2 жыл бұрын

    This was an amazing conversation. I listened in from beginning to end. Thank you for your insights and thought provoking conversations! Well done gentlemen! Super dope podcasts

  • @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    2 жыл бұрын

    🥃🥃🥃

  • @Mistertisdale
    @Mistertisdale2 жыл бұрын

    I really enjoyed this episode!

  • @briamonyae1396
    @briamonyae13962 жыл бұрын

    This episode is so good!

  • @livinmabestlife
    @livinmabestlife Жыл бұрын

    I love the traveling,staycations,and writing letterz

  • @Tesha-A
    @Tesha-A2 жыл бұрын

    Great episode!! ✨

  • @keneshia9618
    @keneshia96182 жыл бұрын

    Such a good episode. Sending this to my man for him to watch as well

  • @keeannahj.7498
    @keeannahj.74982 жыл бұрын

    I have always tried loving without conditions even if things don’t go my way or I’m not happy with something someone has did. I really love y’all’s podcast every Thursday I feel like I’m learning something new about myself.

  • @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    2 жыл бұрын

    🥃🥃🥃

  • @Mimi8402
    @Mimi84022 жыл бұрын

    Wow this podcast is a true gem, great job guys.

  • @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    2 жыл бұрын

    🥃🥃🥃

  • @gayeanjohnson7942
    @gayeanjohnson79422 жыл бұрын

    I watch you guys all the time so happy to hear you guys came to my country!!! 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲

  • @alexb9487
    @alexb94872 жыл бұрын

    Great episode! Yea I would take the trip since we’ve been talking for a while. It shows intent

  • @shekinah.w
    @shekinah.w2 жыл бұрын

    Duke dropping gems and being transparent about his past struggles and how he’s grown 🔥That’s Nice and Neat

  • @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    2 жыл бұрын

    🥃🥃🥃

  • @dariansmall5537
    @dariansmall55372 жыл бұрын

    Amazing episode fellas!! I’m big on writing to my lady too, to keep things fresh and different. I appreciate the OG advice!

  • @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    2 жыл бұрын

    🥃🥃🥃

  • @SuziG22
    @SuziG222 жыл бұрын

    Love this podcast 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    2 жыл бұрын

    We love you! 🥃🥃🥃

  • @etfenta7843
    @etfenta78432 жыл бұрын

    A lot of gems on this one fellas. Great relationship/ dating hacks 💎

  • @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    2 жыл бұрын

    🥃🥃🥃

  • @amandaaloveess
    @amandaaloveess2 жыл бұрын

    @49:25, I love to write as well as it helps me process my emotions and thoughts. I know for a fact I wouldn’t want to rely on writing my responses in a book every time I get upset. I say this because in the past, I feared how emotional I got in my responding. I’m learning to just say what’s on my mind. It’s all about processing emotions for me and getting the message across. Without this, I’d get more frustrated when the person is not responding how I want them to when I haven’t even spoken my mind.

  • @YungRajonRondo9
    @YungRajonRondo9 Жыл бұрын

    Best episode yet!

  • @devanteforde6391
    @devanteforde63912 жыл бұрын

    Very insightful

  • @cinqueh
    @cinqueh2 жыл бұрын

    This talk right here different. Definitely picked up a few things, much love

  • @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    2 жыл бұрын

    Love! 🥃🥃🥃

  • @SkyeLuke
    @SkyeLuke2 жыл бұрын

    Gems fellas!!! 🙌🏽 🔥

  • @keys8885
    @keys88852 жыл бұрын

    Great episode. Very spectacular 🫡

  • @foreignbaby2878
    @foreignbaby28782 жыл бұрын

    Great episode 🤎

  • @TheHumblePiePodcast
    @TheHumblePiePodcast10 ай бұрын

    Great insights fellas!

  • @jellisabaxter9070
    @jellisabaxter9070 Жыл бұрын

    I’ve been here since the beginning definitely one of my fav episode and pov we only think men are thirsty when you have to tell them no more than once .

  • @janaanmartinez5754
    @janaanmartinez57542 жыл бұрын

    Every man needs to watch this episode! They can learn a lot about to how have a long lasting relationship. This was dope.

  • @dennesaaa
    @dennesaaa2 жыл бұрын

    I was laughing the entire time! Y'all are too funny 😂 Another great episode 🥃🥃

  • @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    2 жыл бұрын

    🥃🥃🥃

  • @dyeshiamonet1788
    @dyeshiamonet17882 жыл бұрын

    definitely taking the trip.

  • @LaKae444
    @LaKae4442 жыл бұрын

    Wow Jalon dropped a gem at 25:04. All gas !!! ⛽️ 41:31 they had a change of heart on that "thirst" ha 🤔 "Forever is a long time, lets make sure we're doing it right" - O 🎯 55:28 O almost dove off the deep end😂

  • @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    2 жыл бұрын

    🥃🥃🥃😂😂😂

  • @feverishcc15
    @feverishcc152 жыл бұрын

    Aaaw Duke’s gift for Chanel’s birthday! ❤️

  • @conceitedtv2962
    @conceitedtv29622 жыл бұрын

    These guys are really great genuine guys and it was a pleasure working filming there podcast 🥃🥃🥃🥃

  • @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    2 жыл бұрын

    Love fam!! 🥃🥃🥃

  • @SOllySOllyMe88
    @SOllySOllyMe882 жыл бұрын

    👏🏾👏🏾 Gems

  • @brittanyb5942
    @brittanyb59422 жыл бұрын

    Good ideas guys!!

  • @khychelleflanders
    @khychelleflanders2 жыл бұрын

    I loved this episode! Jalon be talking his shit!

  • @letashaluxuries5661
    @letashaluxuries5661 Жыл бұрын

    Great suggestions, nothing wrong with being thirsty with the right person.

  • @carmellabrown7204
    @carmellabrown72045 ай бұрын

    I like the notebook idea. I'll try to implement that.

  • @jasminehenderson5344
    @jasminehenderson53442 жыл бұрын

    Love the podcast! Great hearing the male perspective on relationships. Y’all stay dropping gems 💎 Just a little feedback, not sure if it’s the mics but the audio is a little off. Some mics are lower than others and can’t hear as well.

  • @jasminehenderson5344

    @jasminehenderson5344

    2 жыл бұрын

    Also wanted to add I love how you say to still dress up for your relationship/date nights, not just girls nights. No matter how long the relationship choose to show up for yourself and your partner.

  • @beeuniquelyu
    @beeuniquelyu2 жыл бұрын

    This was an amazing episode! Jalon: If I was a woman in that situation if just talking and I was invited to an experience, YES I’M GOING! I really enjoy this podcast and the way y’all are able to communicate as friends. Very genuine set of men right here.. Y’all are some great dudes and the conversations are so good and relatable! Keep it up 🔥

  • @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    2 жыл бұрын

    🥃🥃🥃

  • @_samalita
    @_samalita Жыл бұрын

    I love an itinerary man. pure gold lol 💛

  • @candacecolette7555
    @candacecolette75552 жыл бұрын

    JALON 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @Risk-Fortune
    @Risk-Fortune2 жыл бұрын

    Bring back the weekly drops!

  • @justjhules1222
    @justjhules12222 жыл бұрын

    We want the first ladies on soon!

  • @candacecolette7555
    @candacecolette75552 жыл бұрын

    I'm a Traveler, so I'm always down for a Trip!

  • @shernz6188
    @shernz61882 жыл бұрын

    JA has Jalon glowing.... Representing! 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲

  • @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    2 жыл бұрын

    🥃🥃🥃

  • @Bee-sp7mb
    @Bee-sp7mb2 жыл бұрын

    If we’ve been talking for a few months and I haven’t felt anything alarming or off-putting about the guy, I would’ve happily skipped my tail to the airport lol the way he described how it happened would’ve been a perfect green light for me.

  • @ccf303
    @ccf3032 жыл бұрын

    57:00 basically describing a woman's humanness. Woman shouldn't pressure themselves or be pressed by a partner to be trapped in vanity. Pressure to look good when going out, look good at home, look good going to to sleep, look good waking up. No sane human can maintain that and shouldn't have to just to be cared for in a relationship

  • @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    2 жыл бұрын

    We agree

  • @alesiasinspiration

    @alesiasinspiration

    2 жыл бұрын

    Period. People go thru ups and downs and looks change. The drive to be your best that's what's key.

  • @withlovebyads
    @withlovebyads11 ай бұрын

    This episode was 🔥 It’s the emotional intelligence and consideration of their Ladies for me! Do they even make men like this in London, UK because….

  • @chantelleg5529
    @chantelleg5529 Жыл бұрын

    Awesome episode. Jalon is very insightful and very self aware. However he was definitely giving thirsty. Perhaps he really liked the girl but not meeting her in person and doing all those grand gestures is a lot. I’m glad it worked out though.

  • @EbonyBrownChats
    @EbonyBrownChats2 жыл бұрын

    I’m scary so I wouldn’t have took the trip with a man I’ve never physically met. I need to know where your mom, grandma, bro and auntie live. 🤣🤣

  • @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    2 жыл бұрын

    💯

  • @donishadashantii4921
    @donishadashantii49212 жыл бұрын

    Playyaaaaa J 🤣🔥

  • @juanitab530
    @juanitab5302 жыл бұрын

    Where the new episode? These get me through my train ride to work. 😩

  • @Lexi-tb8ok
    @Lexi-tb8ok2 жыл бұрын

    That’s lit! If it’s come one I’m talking to and we never met face to face I may tell my girls like this where I’m going .I don’t know if you got a try to kidnap me but I’m going on the trip for sure!! Lol

  • @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    @NiceAndNeatThePodcast

    2 жыл бұрын

    🥃🥃🥃

  • @jasminecooper8610
    @jasminecooper8610 Жыл бұрын

    I would take the trip…. I’ve taken the trip . It wasn’t out the country but I definitely went to see him ❤

  • @morepurposepodcast
    @morepurposepodcast10 ай бұрын

    🔥🔥