Thank you so much for making this video Courtney! As someone who has struggled with boundaries, these are some things that have helped me tremendously: 1. Practice being my own best friend, CEO, motivational speaker, financial advisor, personal trainer, etc… Those things are not innate, but we can practice them by investing time into ourselves, like learning a new skill. I know it’s not always easy, but believe and prioritize yourself as much as you believe in others. 2. Approach discipline from a place of kindness, honesty, and respect for yourself. Relapses will happen, learn what went wrong and take it from there, don’t punish yourself unnecessarily and repeat the cycle of disappointment bc dwelling in negative self-talk isn’t worth it. Small steps and consistency will make a huge difference, keep track of your progress and celebrate when you have been accountable to yourself. 3. Therapy! Self sabotage, resentment, and guilt will eat away at your self esteem and growth if you don’t make mindful decisions to heal. It’s NEVER too late to start healing no matter how far gone you feel. Start at the root of the issue (don't put a band aid on it), otherwise the pattern will repeat itself throughout your life. At the end of the day, your journey is truly yours to reclaim so don’t compare yourself to others… Sort out the childhood trauma and bad habits sis, learn how to set healthy boundaries and regain control of YOUR life. This video felt so personal to me and I truly empathize with those who have also struggled with self-integrity, I believe in you, you can do it sis!

@priscillaxsafi

Жыл бұрын

Thank you sis for these added points, I believe this for you too🦋

@CourtneyDaniella

Жыл бұрын

These are such good tips, thank you sis! Let me pin them so people can see.

@lookitsliena

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much girl for this! Especially number 2 really resonated with me

You need to be on TV, so eloquent, articulate, personable and intelligent. Go girl!

@CourtneyDaniella

Жыл бұрын

Aww hopefully one day 💕

@FA9082

Жыл бұрын

Its funny how this girl went to Cambridge of all places yet she is utterly clueless about how to get a man 😂

@ANa-qt7tt

Жыл бұрын

What are you even talking about weirdo? Get a life

@andiswaluthuli4867

Жыл бұрын

Immediately!

@ajahtre666

Жыл бұрын

@@FA9082 why do you keep coming back to her videos if you do not like her content ? I keep seeing your nasty comments. Pure trolling...

Being a woman of your words and of Integrity means considering your words highly. What you declare and instruct from your mouth is important. Know the authority you have in your life. I AM AN AUTHORITY FIGURE OF MY LIFE 🙌🏾COURTNEY❤️

@CourtneyDaniella

Жыл бұрын

Come on now somebody! Thank you for watching 💕

Melanin pulling through. You look beautiful. Please bless us with a makeup tutorial for this look.

@CourtneyDaniella

Жыл бұрын

Thank you and sure; I really am due to do an updated make up routine! 💕

"Take it a day at a time, but make sure today gets done." Thank you for this

@CourtneyDaniella

Жыл бұрын

Anytime x

So much self sabotage arises when I realize that I’m 24 and still waisting precious foundational moments of my life. I get so upset that I’m still in this cycle.

@CourtneyDaniella

Жыл бұрын

I hear it sis, but it's never too late to start using your time intentionally.

You look gorgeous and the hair colour 🥰😍

COURTNEY!!!!!! You are serving with this lewk, sis you are indeed growing and glowing and I love to see it. Thank you for this talk, it gave me alot to reflect on.

@CourtneyDaniella

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much sis 💕

Why hasn’t she blown up yet she’s insanely clever when it comes to this stuff

The hair , makeup , YOU, giving all you need to give. Come on sis Courtney!!😍😍

Miss Courtney, first of all you are looking more and more stunning every video! Second of all, thank you! God knows I neeeeeeded this, I'm going to start showing up for myself because I OWE THAT TO MYSELF, and that's on glowing and growing

@CourtneyDaniella

Жыл бұрын

Thank you sis and you are so welcome! I know that's right!!

“Freedom can come with more diligence.” Say that!!!!

This is way out of context but that hair colour is beautiful on you. 😝😍😍

@CourtneyDaniella

Жыл бұрын

Aww thank you!

"But do you actually do it?" Almost chocked on the candy I was eating 😂. This was a great video and very helpful is showing me where the missing piece was in all this. Being a woman of your word is HARD because like you said we don't have the previous accountability from before when we were children. And that accountability was not sustainable because it was all external and not really internal. Thank you again for this video there were many gems here.

Not you recording multiple videos and posting on the same day, appreciate the dedication Courtney 💕💕

@CourtneyDaniella

Жыл бұрын

Aww thank you sis, I'm really trying to stay consistent out here 💕💕 appreciate you too

“..you, the highest authority in your life have not yet decided “. This !! 🙏🏽🙏🏽👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Courtsssss you’re so pretty!!😍😍😍

@CourtneyDaniella

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 💕

The hair, the makeup, so beautiful 😍

Thank you for being a big sister. Your voice ,knowledge & personality is everything! 💐🥹❤

Barely a second in and I'm already being dragggggeeeed!! Love you Courtney❤

Court, I've known you're gorgeous since watching you on TMS buuuutttt you are glowingggggggggg in this videos gorlllll. Love it!!!!!!

Nah this hair colour is 😍😍😍😍😍

@CourtneyDaniella

Жыл бұрын

Hehe thank you 💕

you are such a role model and i'm so glad i have come across this channel

A video on productivity is very much needed pleaseeee. Thank youuuu ☺️

You look stunning Courtney😍

@CourtneyDaniella

Жыл бұрын

Thank you! 💕

i actually love your content, i’m so glad i discovered you when i did! i’m currently in a place where i’m getting more comfortable with making solid decisions for myself and realizing that if nothing happens then…nothing happens so i’ve been more disciplined and actually see myself making progress towards my dreams and goals! i also just got out of a long post-grad funk where i wasn’t sure what my next move should be and kept telling myself one day at a time and what you said towards the ending about how yes one day at a time but make sure you actually do what you need to do for each individual day was a WORD!! you’re so awesome omg much love💕

COURTNEY🥵🤯🤯🤯🤯 Love your look girl you look amazing ☺️ I’ll have to watch this again cause I definitely got lost with your beauty 😂

@CourtneyDaniella

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!! Haha please do

This was amazing, thank you Courtney. I would actually love those videos from you because your take on things with your faith and beliefs is such a blessing. You've been showing me how certain concepts look like in the perspective of a young Christian woman.

I just found your channel from your last video and I’m 20 seconds into this one and I have to subscribe!

Wonderful video, I would love to see more productivity content, especially with the strategies you have applied, your morning and evening routine etc

I truly love these “talks” lol 🥰

This is POWERFUL. thank you, wholeheartedly, for sharing this

Such a timely word sis 👏🏾🥲 loved the point on discipline with regards to having [healthy] consequences when we don't follow through with our commitments ... love love love your content 💜

@CourtneyDaniella

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 💕

Stunning !!! ✨

This was TOO GOOD. Thank you Courtney ❤

Honestly Courtney you are such a light. Thank you for your kindness, patience, and wisdom. I hope big things happen for you 🤍

Yeah this is a confirmation for all the growth conversations I’ve been having all week 😩😩💜

Oohhh yes! Just what I was waiting for! Love seeing your (and Renee's) beautiful face! I've been listening to your podcast on my drive to work and I've caught up with all of this years episodes. You always bring a bit of joy and light into my day, and definitely help me to bring it back and chill my mind when I'm hardcore stressin ❤

Girl you're glowinnnggg

I needed to hear this. Beautifully articulated, thank you for sharing!

This is so relatable. Love love the compassion you've shown in the delivery of this video.

I appreciate this.

I have to say this, you are just an amazing person, and I hope you realize all of the lives that you’re changing. I’ve been listening to To My Sisters for quite a while, and after yawls recent episode I had to subscribe to your channel, it’s just filled with so much insight, and I’m just so blessed to have you in my life🙏🏾

Thanks for all this wisdom. I could listen to you forever. Can we take the time to acknowledge how beautiful you are this video. Anyway new subbie here. Keep doing this great job. You are amazing. 🥰

I love the color palette of your make-up and hair love! Fabulous!!

Omg Courtney you look so goodt it's unreal!😍 Thank you for the nuggets of wisdom you keep giving us on here! 🥰

First of all the makeup 😍😍😍

I just love your accent, it's nice to listen to.

i do not normally comment on videos but wanted to say thanks for sharing this word! it does help!

literally 10 seconds in and you might as well have called me out by name - super excited.

Hello from a new subscriber & I found you on your celibacy content. Starting that journey myself & loving your modern, beautifully shot content on it. You're so relatable & gorgeous! We love seeing all your new stuff

I relate to this video so much! Very true, so easy to get caught up in finding techniques and strategies but putting them into place is what’s most important. Even if it’s small steps. Thank you for this video! ✨ also you are so beautiful! And love your delivery.

Miss Courtney thank you for your content , you have made a very lasting impression in my life. Thank you for carrying about woman all around the world.

Yesss pretty 😍! I just discovered your channel and have been binge watching like crazy !! beauty and brains I love it God bless you ❤️💓🙏🏾

@CourtneyDaniella

Жыл бұрын

Thank you and welcome! God bless you too 💕

This is so relatable to me . i see visions of how i want my life to be everyday and im always imagining the woman im dreaming to be each day but doing the work has really been a struggle for me not that i dont know what to do , i have ideas on how to start putting the work in my dreams but i just dont do it and it hurts me a lot. Thank you so much for the tips , i really appreciate.😀😀 Love you so much gal

Much needed, thanks girl 💕

@CourtneyDaniella

Жыл бұрын

Anytime 💕

Are you in my head? Lol I had this conversation with my best friends yesterday. Bless you for these tips. Looking gorgeous ❤️

YOU LOOK SO FLYYYYYY 😍😍😍😍 pretty gal!! just had to say before I continue watching❤

Great video Courtney! really practical take-outs

@CourtneyDaniella

Жыл бұрын

Yay!

Hair looks amazing!!!!!!

@CourtneyDaniella

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 💕

@precious3792

Жыл бұрын

@@CourtneyDaniella Please can you share the hair details. If is from your company, can you share the link. I really want to get this hair. Thank you and stay blessed 😊🙏🏽

How does it feel to be amazing and beautiful?! Thanks for sharing this. It was much needed although I didn’t want to hear it lol.

@CourtneyDaniella

Жыл бұрын

Haha thank you! And i'm glad it was helpful x

Thank you, i didnt know my strange anxiety was becuase of revenge insomnia.

Nice hair❤

Girl, you look stunning ❤❤❤

@CourtneyDaniella

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!!

❤❤❤

Pls where did you get your hair from? It’s so pretty 😭

Where’s this wig from x

Are you in Ghana?

@CourtneyDaniella

Жыл бұрын

No, I live in London

"And I saw the dead, small and great, standing before God, and books were opened. And another book was opened, which is the Book of Life. And the dead were judged according to their works, by the things which were written in the books. The sea gave up the dead who were in it, and Death and Hades delivered up the dead who were in them. And they were judged, each one according to his works. Then Death and Hades were cast into the lake of fire. This is the second death. And anyone NOT FOUND written in the Book of Life was cast into the lake of fire." (REVELATION 20:12-15 NKJV) Today, while you are still alive and able, may you repent from your sins, believe in your heart and confess with your mouth that JESUS CHRIST is your Lord and Savior, so that through Him, your name will be written in the Book of Life. "For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever BELIEVES in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved." (JOHN 3:16-17 NKJV) By God's GRACE, the gift of Salvation and Eternal Life is available to all. You can RECEIVE it. You can REJECT it. May you choose wisely.... ✝️

An easy way to become a woman of your word? Say less. Thats it. Just literary do not commit, or make promises, unless you're absolutely sure.