I remember watching you like a year ago and your Korean has improved a lot since. Congrats!

앗 깜놀! Belle님과 사귀시는 줄!!ㅋㅋ 두 분다 이렇게 한 영상에서 보게 되다니! 두 분다 여러 유툽 채널에서 보게 되네요~ 항상 잘 보고 있어요^^

이번주에 방송예고 나오시길래 깜짝놀랐어요 오오올😎

한국인이지만 크리스마스가 왜 연인의 날이 된건지 이해 못하겠음ㅋㅋㅋ Even Im Korean, I cant understand n dont know why the christmas has been couple's day in Korea. Its really weird.

@dolpin018

6 жыл бұрын

어디에서 본건지 생각 안나는건데 저희 어머니 아버지 세대 때 통금 시간이 심했었는데 크리스마스 날은 밤에 교회간다고 허락해줘서 나가서 교회는 개뿔 애인 만나러 갔다고 들음

As I can see, this couple fashion madness is getting less these days in Korea.. it was way crazier in the past.

@KoreanAlex

6 жыл бұрын

Mika in Korea~ yeah, im ok with this trend passing 😄

@HelloTravelHolic

6 жыл бұрын

I low key like it >_>

@claire-hb9mm

6 жыл бұрын

yesss i agree

완전 공감했어요, 알렉스! :)

Yeah the whole part at 1:45 is really key. When dating a Korean girl I always explained the differences after the first date since being exclusive from the start would put too much pressure on me. I think saying that someone is your bf/gf is really a big commitment in the west, since that means we might marry them at some point. In Korea it feels like bf/gf isn't as heavy commitment-wise. I see lots of couples in Korea that form and break up quickly.

@user-bh3oo8st2h

6 жыл бұрын

right. i think it is because of our conservative culture. korean girls dont want physical affection before they DTR. because sometimes they think it determines their value :( ... they might think the man who want physical affection before DTR is playboy

@KoreanAlex

6 жыл бұрын

폴서울 PaulSeoul you're preaching the truth. Girls that push the "boyfriend" title too quick don't last long with me. It's the pressure

여친인줄!!!!! 알렉스형 여친 공개 안하세요? 크하핫

hahahha this brought back some memories. I dated a guy a couples of years back in Korea and he told me he loved me in Korean after two dates... Another time I had a guy friend who I met maybe 3 times? for like casual coffee and he auto thought we were in a serious relationship... it was news to me XD. I think it depends! My husband asked to date officially pretty early too, but at that point in my life I also was on the same page~ and I kinda liked that we "defined the relationship" quickly~

how did you manner to speak in korea. For us foreign we meet someone straight away couple. For korean is it friends first. Then later on couple. Is it

Oh my .i love your channel very much .thanks

That was fun to listen! I found like not only the us but all weatern world is somewhat similar

알렉스님~ 영상 재밌게 잘보고있어요~^^ 얼굴도 잘생기시고 한국말도 잘하시고~~ 정말 정말 부럽고 멋지세요^^

I think most of the parts she mentioned about Korean girls are now old-fashioned.. Only teenagers or very young 20s who just started dating someone in their entire life got jealous so easily like that and couples don't celebrate every 14th. I guess maybe it's because she studied abroad(?). I agree with the DTR part but it's not like more than half of Koreans do.

@trolliyummy8901

6 жыл бұрын

Jackie Kim I totally agree. She is saying particulary conservative people.

@lucaskuszmaul5931

4 жыл бұрын

마케팅담당좌Galvão I like what you said it’s so nice

한국에 꽤 오래 계셨네요! 한국말 굉장히 잘하세요ㅋㅋ

Please teach us, Dr. Love! Haha. I have so much to say on this topic.

@KoreanAlex

6 жыл бұрын

MiKole ~ well, this will one day be a recurring segment. So come on the show and speak the truth!

@user-si2le9ou8u

6 жыл бұрын

MiKole 마이콜이다

good video. time for a new shirt bro, lets go shopping again haha

알렉스님 영상을 잘 만드시네유~

재밌어요🤗

알렉스 코리안 브로 보다 왔어요 열심히 하세요

In Korea, there are so many anniversaries to take care. It's kinda crazy especially for men because it means you have to pay a bill for that much. So, some people give up getting in relationship cuz they are in lack of money to date, including me.

완전공감해요

본격비교? 가 아니라 한국연애의 단점이구만. 그렇게 싫으면 다른 나라 사람, 아님 자신에게 맞는 성향을 지니는 사람과 데이트 하면 되지 않음? 그리고 여자친구가 무슨생각을 하는지 궁금하면 직접 여자친구에게 물어보면 되는거 아니에요??? 100% 한국 사람들의 데이팅 스타일이 다 저런건 아니라고 생각함(이런 내용을 영상에 넣어주면 좋았을 것이라고 생각함). 그런 사람들만 골라 만났나. 말 안통하는 사람들은 꼭 한국이 아니라도, 캐나다 미국에도 얼마든지 있음. 그리고 이건 다른 얘기지만 한국에 있는 외국에서 온 사람들 한국 여자 쉽게보고 이여자 저여자 만나고 다니는 사람들 많음(우리 문화는 이렇게 많이 달라 하면서, 문화차이를 방폐막이로 이기주의적인 연예를 즐김). 예로 많은 논란을 불러일으켰던 방송인"에네스카야" . 한국여자분들 똑똑하게 자신의 의견을 잘 피력했으면 좋겠음. 우리문화는 이래 하면 무조건적으로 받아들이지 말고, 다른 환경, 문화에서 지내 왔는데 어떻게 모든게 똑같을 수 있겠음. 서로 대화하면서 접점을 찾아가는게 옳바른 인간관계가 아닌가 생각함. 우리문화는 이래 하면서 강요하고, 포기하고 받아들이기만 하면 그게 행복할 수 있겠음. 주제가 조금 빗나갔지만 어쨋든 그럼.

@yoyoman335

4 жыл бұрын

Jocelyn J damn u mad?

안녕하세요 알렉스님~ 워낙 한국말을 잘하셔서 글도 잘 읽으실 것 같아 한글로 댓글을 남겨요~ 유나는 많은 영상중에 이 영상을 가장 좋아한답니다~ 캠블리 희승님과 함께 하시고 남자친구 여자친구에 관심을 점점 갖고 있거든요~ 이번 다이아 신년회에서 만나서 정말 너무나 반가웠습니다 외국인과 대화 할 기회가 많지 않아 언제나 아쉬워 하는데 잠깐 동안 미국친구가 되어 주셔서 고맙습니다 오늘 다이아 신년회 영상을 업로드 했는데 7분이 넘어가서 알렉스님께 유나가 영상편지를 보냈답니다 유나는 이번 다이아tv 에서 만날 분들중 알렉스 님이 제일 좋았다고 하더라구요 ^^ 유나에게 기쁨 주셔서 감사드리고 미친( ^^) 알렉스님 채널에 항상 행운이 함께 하길 바랄께요~ 새해 복 많이 받으세요~

both are cool meet lots of Korean before

데이트 할때 돈내는 것은 어떻게 하는지 알려주세요

I was kinda confused about who was talking about what country

@KoreanAlex

6 жыл бұрын

LittleLulubee yeah a bit tough... An American living in Korea talking with a Korean living in America...

Interesting!

2:16 haha

재미있어요 ^^!~

Soooo this video confirms that I am ready for Korean dating culture....is that strange?? Haha....I’m ready for matching couple outfits! 😬

@KoreanAlex

6 жыл бұрын

skycedi I think you'll be good, man 👌

여자분 멋있어요

재밌어요ᆢㅎㅎ

I have been dating this Korean girl called semi, and she is wonderful I met her in Australia, traveled to nz with her ,she’s got a massive face she is so beautiful and I want too be with her every single day

알렉스 한국말 잘하시네요 ㅎ.ㅎ

@KoreanAlex

6 жыл бұрын

거성 ㅋㅋ 아니에용... 아이 앰 샤이

@user-zm6hm9mw6g

6 жыл бұрын

미국친구 Michin Alex 알렉스 미국말도 잘해

기념일많은거 ㅇㅈ하는데 요즘 누가 여자만받아;;기념일되면 친구들(여자)이 뭐 사주지 이러고 서로 선물교환하는데ㅋㅋㅋㅋ 참낰ㅋㅋ근데 기념일은 많아서 무슨 주변커플보면 커플옷에 커플반지에 나중엔 사줄게없음ㅋㅋ

미국친구 어디서 봤다했더니 영어 캠프 광고에서 여사친 옆에서 욕하는 그광고였 ㅋㅋㅋ

i had a korean guy that I had met a few times hit me with a "so what are we?" i was like....uhhh............nothing yet bro. chiiiiiilllllllllll. haha he asked me to be his gf so many times, and im like, not yet bruhhhh. idek if i actually like you or not yet. lol. we had nothing in common.... i couldnt understand why he wanted me to be his gf. I even said to him, why do you like me? we dont even like the same things?????? he could only say dumb stuff like, you're so pretty....and funny.....like, yeah, i know dat. but...imma need a lil more than that bucko. haha. had I actually said yes to being his gf, im pretty sure it would have ended less than a month later. haha.

hello there my friend this is good one hmmm nice

@KoreanAlex

6 жыл бұрын

James Taraki ~ thanks James!

I am dating with a caucasian guy now. But we dont text a lot like every 2-3 days? Just for confirmation about when we meet and what we do. We see each other twice a week. But the texting bugs me out. It is too little . He said he hates texting but he will try. Nothing got changed. He said he is dating me only. Is it like normal?

@KoreanAlex

6 жыл бұрын

Nicki Jee For me, it's not enough, but there are people like that in the beginning of relationships. If it's early, give it time. But eventually, even people who hate texting will still text once or twice a day. But if it bugs you, stand up for yourself, and keep letting him know. Good luck, hope it works out for you

미국 사람들은 진도가빠름 그래서 좋음..ㅎㅎ

@CanadlanPark

4 жыл бұрын

걸래티오지게내누

If you're an American, it's much better to date a Korean-American. The best of both worlds!

@KoreanAlex

6 жыл бұрын

WOOJONG Your suggestion has me intrigued... 😁

Lord, she is beautiful

I know it is a lot different here. I missed my 100 day anniversary and felt so horrible because it's just not a big thing in the US. Also I have a lot of guy friends and it pretty much ended a relationship in the past for me because he just couldn't handle it. There are just so many differences that are sometimes hard to follow

@KoreanAlex

6 жыл бұрын

Foreigner Language haha really??? If he couldn't handle that...

오홋~

Hello counselor lol

We are totally worth it tho cuz we are pretty korean woman? Hmmm this makes me quite uncomfortable even if I am a Korean woman. Cos it sounds like pretty women are always deserve for something? Then how about not pretty one? Hahaha

미친 알렉슼ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

알랙스 넘 좋아여 함 알랙스 같은 남자 나도 사귀어 보고 싶다~인상 좋고 넘 말도 잘하고~

한국에 있으면 이런 문화적인 차이를 느끼고 부담스럽다면 같은나라 연인을 만나야하지 않을까! 한국은 데이트 문화가 보편적으로 이렇게 하는데 왜 그게 이상해?

흠.

yeah... that whole wearing couple outfits culture is.. i'll just say something else lol It's just not my style to feel like I gotta let everyone else know like "hey, WE are a couple" 😂

I'm Korean but this does't relate to me. I think that is in Korea "Since today it's 1 day we've been boyfriend/girlfriend" is just unnatural. And more important than all the anniversaries and couple items is our heart and love in the relationship. :) Not on the surface, but what's inside.

@KoreanAlex

6 жыл бұрын

Irè Shin Agreed! What's on the inside should be most important. Thanks for your comment^^

@Andreas32300

5 жыл бұрын

I couldn't agree more ^^

This V seems little superficial&partial for American oriented. you can make the video in terms of dating more detailed and I highly recommend to invite 100% local korean person who has lived in korea at whole time as a guest. And yeah, overall Korean feel weird to American style like seeing multiple people at the same time. what the...

3번보고 dtr 좀 그래....왜그래 다들 요즘?ㅋ

please Speak English !!!!!