Mom is very accustomed to playing games where everybody else must follow the rules but not herself. It's nice to see the judge isn't interested in playing and has, in fact, denied her access to her child over the holidays as punishment. Also... funny how quickly she was able to make arrangements to have the kid turned over once she realized she was REALLY going to be put into a cell. What a piece of work.

@49525Bob

6 ай бұрын

Which proves she's only interesting in hurting the father, not the welfare of her child. A real parent would sit in jail forever if they really feared for their child.

@jacklow9611

6 ай бұрын

She should have to sit out all the 63 days of his parenting time because I get a feeling she'll try to sabotage his make-up parenting time.

@icyroadwarrior

6 ай бұрын

Control freaking idiot she be

@sebimoe

6 ай бұрын

@@49525Bob So they would sit in jail forever and... hmm. And what? The child is taken care by whom exactly?

@Moksha-Raver

6 ай бұрын

The mother seemed like an extraordinary ax grinder.

If my child was being physically abused by her father, I'd sit in jail until hell freezes over to keep her safe. Funny how quickly this 'caring, loving, protective' mother is prepared to hand her child over as soon as the alternative is sitting in a cell. Methinks she's not being genuine (AKA lying through her teeth) and using her daughter as a weapon to hurt her ex-partner. I hate parents who do this. I'm sure there's a special place in hell reserved for all low-life slime (male and female) who think this is ok.

@LoneWolfUsul

6 ай бұрын

I think you may be on to something here. If I were afraid the child were being abused, I'd sit in a cell till i could get a hearing on adjusting custody...

@ihatespam2

6 ай бұрын

The only thing that happened was that she had cuts in here mouth, the doctor confirmed the cuts were there, but did not claim he did it. As far as we know there is nothing but her accusation, that he did it. And if she believed that she would have had it investigated at the time. He admitted to some form of physical act on her, not the kid. We don’t even know the nature of that. If he is abusive, I hope she takes a little time and properly accuses him and gets some evidence, like the kid testimony. Which if she had, would get him locked up.

@jonkirk1309

6 ай бұрын

Totally agree with you, she has no fortitude in that she would give up the child instead of going to jail. By the look of the father he basically just sat there and she spewed out her venom, he did not even flinch or speak out when she brought up the DV case... I would be very interested to know who started the fight and how much violence she perpetrated against her ex husband. There is more to this vindictive pissant mother than is made known.

@ross4681

6 ай бұрын

She didn't obey a court order. She should be in Jail anyway, I heard another judge tell a parent -You'll spend one day in Jail for every day you deny access to the other parent.

@rcward

6 ай бұрын

This.

As soon as she faced jail time her concern for abuse disappeared awfully fast.

@kell_checks_in

6 ай бұрын

No, it didn't. That's why she asked her final question from the Judge. The whole story hasn't come out yet. If dad's normal/sane, why does she have an order against him? They don't just hand those things out easily.

@SuperiorBrick

6 ай бұрын

@@kell_checks_in As someone who grew up in an environment of domestic abuse where the female was the abuser, I can tell you right now those things aren't hard to get. This woman easily could have faked stuff to get an order, I know it's possible as I've seen it happen with my own eyes. If that mother truly was scared the dad was going to abuse the kid, there's no way she would have fucking handed the kid over, jail or not

@Scriptorsilentum

6 ай бұрын

and as the judge noticed she didn't bring it to the attention of the police, family services, the court. wonder why? they're all usually pretty capable when investigating to fond out what happened. wouldn't she like all this brought into the open...?

@JohnSmith-rr3jt

6 ай бұрын

Actually yes, they do. They hand them out with 0 evidence and nothing but an accusation, no evidence or conviction required. Might wanna check your facts there champ...@@kell_checks_in

@rockhardrockhounds9970

6 ай бұрын

@@kell_checks_inbecause women often make false claims for family court? Duh…

As a dad with custody - this is a constant battle we go through.

@purpleandred7

6 ай бұрын

@raisedbycarnies, I'm sorry that you - and many other Dad's - have to go through that. What parents seem to forget is that it is all about their child and what is best for them .. not trying to get back at the other parent for the bad feelings they have against them. Too many children unfortunately get caught up in the battle between their parents. Even though I'm a Mom, I still believe that a man is very capable and can raise a child just as well as any woman can. Love is love, no matter who or where it comes from. I hope in your situation, your battle will at least have lessened so that you can just spend your time enjoying fathering your child.

@BoredBob

6 ай бұрын

I dealt with this and worse with my ex-wife from the time our kids were 6 until they were 18 from a legal perspective and for many years after from a plain interference perspective. Out kids are now 30 and still carry the scars from the games and manipulation my ex-wife engaged in. She still tries but generally our kids shut most of it down pretty quickly now but it's sad how some people can't move on with their lives.

@purpleandred7

6 ай бұрын

@@BoredBob I'm sorry you had to deal with that, as well. I think children have a pretty good idea when they become adults and have matured what really happened between their parents during their childhood -- they know who was a good parent, who loved them unconditionally .. and most importantly, it impacts them greatly when they realize who the one parent was that fought for them and never gave up. Don't think for a minute that what you did was lost on them. I'm glad the days of court and all the struggles you had to endure are now over for you.

@BoredBob

6 ай бұрын

@@purpleandred7 Best two things I ever learned out of my divorce was advice from the G.A.L. that basically "they can't choose who they want to be with now but you want to act in such a way that they want to choose to be with you when the choice is theirs" and from my lawyer who said "Fair is a four letter 'F' word".

@purpleandred7

6 ай бұрын

@@BoredBob Wow, that was excellent advice. You know, I went through a lot with my ex .. and I won't go deep into the gory details .. but I had a great lawyer, an even better Judge, and my children had an absolutely amazing attorney ad litem. Without the three of them, our lives would have been so much more difficult and stressful, as if it wasn't enough already. I had sole custody and a permanent RO for all of our family members, yet even with all of that I never spoke bad about their father to them, because he was still their Dad, no matter what. My job as their parent was to take care of THEM .. to love them, care for them, teach them, etc .. not to put negative thoughts into their heads or involve them in adult matters. I'm not claiming to be this perfect person either -- because I learned a lot through it all. It wasn't always easy to bite my tongue when I was going through it, believe me; but I had a strong support system who really helped me have courage and also set my attitude straight when I was losing it.

If she’s doing this type of shit in front of a judge. Imagine what she does to her child’s father.

@isarhodes1

10 сағат бұрын

FACTS!!!!

This “mother” needs to stop with her bs. She will use that child against him at any and every opportunity. The details of the DV weren’t discussed but seeing her behavior, I’d be curious what happened.

@Tessa_Kamoda

6 ай бұрын

giving her attitude i am willing to bet she antagonized him until he snapped and the snap was 'magically' recorded. also just because he was a shitty husband to her does NOT mean that he is a shitty dad to the kid. love your child and its wellbeing more than you hate your ex! otherwise ex could throw in the towel, just pays support and thats it. you may lie through your teeth why ex 'abandoned' child but with todays social media connections the child can and will search for ex, find ex and what do you bet will happen when ex shows child what you did to undermine ex, to deprive ex of their time, their access to child?

@gracesiegel7849

6 ай бұрын

@@Tessa_Kamoda I agree completely

@jwenting

6 ай бұрын

he probably defended himself when she attempted to beat him up.

@vintagelady1

6 ай бұрын

Gracie, you don't get a restraining order for DV for no reason---the guy ADMITTED to it. So you'd be OK to turn your child over to someone who was an admitted abuser? Not exactly mother-of-the-year behavior, honey!

@gracesiegel7849

6 ай бұрын

@@vintagelady1 first off, my name is Grace. Not Gracie. And do not call me honey. That is beyond patronizing. Second. While, I would normally agree with you, that gal gives off massive unhinged/manipulative/abusive/retaliatory vibes. I was raised by parents who were both that way. There’s so many things that she could have done to manipulate that system, and the court is often in the woman’s favor. Now I could be completely wrong, and if I am wrong, and he is abusive toward her, that is awful.

Using a child as a punishment in a divorce iss just sickening. My mother was wonderful that she wouldn't let us bad talk about Dad or anything like that and I still appreciate that to this day. BTW, he was not a good person. Here's hoping that their daughter doesn't end up with the mother's attitude.

@ryanmcclosky3312

6 ай бұрын

I never speak negatively about my 9 yr old son's mother in front of him, and I don't allow him to be disrespectful towards her. She's about as deadbeat of a mom as you can get but we don't discuss it unless he wants to talk about it. I don't want his opinion of her influenced by my feelings towards her.

@binghamtonblows

6 ай бұрын

The mothers attitude? What if what she is saying is totally correct? The child should get turned over to an abusive father with dv charges? Ok

@ginnysoules6766

6 ай бұрын

@@binghamtonblows She had cuts in her mouth and child protective services investigated. They determined it wasn't abuse. It means she fell and mom was bound and determined to make it seem like dad hit her. In cases of divorce today dcf, cps, whatever are REQUIRED to investigate both parents. They, obviously, determined dad is not a threat to the child. If mom keeps it up she will lose custody.

@ginnysoules6766

6 ай бұрын

@@ryanmcclosky3312 That's what a real caring parent does. You knew this because you have a soul. The woman in the video doesn't. All she wants is revenge and, sadly, the little one will pay the price.

@binghamtonblows

6 ай бұрын

@@ginnysoules6766 dad already plead guilty to domestic violence involving the mom, it is perfectly reasonable for her to be upset and inquisitive when her daughter comes home showing signs that something may have happened

Parental Alienation. The everyday tragedy nobody wants to talk about

@LoneWolfUsul

6 ай бұрын

I do. I really do. I just don't do child custody cases as a rule, because I'm afraid that some peer of the childs will see it some day and make their young life hell because of it. Kids can be so hostile. I went through GREAT PAINS trying to find any mention of this child's name and muting it out, in case they have more than one, no one will know which is being discussed. I think child custody cases are SO important, but they are also SO risky to spotlight. But in this case where both parents seems like real pieces of work... I think there is value to seeing this sort of behavior, in hopes that others will avoid behaving in a similar manner.

@elizabemagnaye1874

6 ай бұрын

A vindictive woman, bad for the kid, jail her till she learned a lesson .

@daughteroftheking374

6 ай бұрын

So very sad and true...

@cathyharder6546

5 ай бұрын

She should have gone to jail for the 63 days.

She’s unbelievable!!! That poor child, being poisoned against Dad! U know she’s never going to stop!!

@Ordinary_BS

6 ай бұрын

It happens more than you would want to believe

@jacklow9611

6 ай бұрын

I had a friend who got a divorce from his cheating wife who had two children, and from what I heard, tried to poison them against him, even though she complied to the custody agreement. The two children were smart enough to realize that she was lying to them, and, if it had been up to them, would have rather been with him instead of her and the man she married who she'd been cheating with, He remarried also, and they loved their stepmother more than they seemed to love their own mother (in fact, they acted like they had never approved of her cheating on him in the first place)

@baysbill

6 ай бұрын

The inconsistency of the courts causes these problems. IF he really is abusive, that is who he is, his nature. He will be abusive at work, with his child, wherever. And visitation should b restricted accordingly. Now before you jump up and down, notice I said IF. No judgments here. If he is not, there should b no protective order and parenting time should be shared.

@FasterFaster196

6 ай бұрын

Dad earned that poison by putting his hands on mom.

@JohnnyTromboner

6 ай бұрын

​@@FasterFaster196There is zero evidence of that though, just mom's accusation and subsequent unwillingness to sit in a cell. I'd think if there actually was child abuse going on, mom would be willing to sit in a cell as long as it took to protect her child. She seems 100% full of shit

I think she should have been held in contempt for her final remark.

@VideoJe1

6 ай бұрын

Yo that was totally contpemptious behaviour. Totally blaffing

@robbie_

6 ай бұрын

She was in the right, especially if he's been abusive towards her.

@jax3695

3 ай бұрын

@@robbie_there is no “in the right” when it comes to inappropriate behavior in the court room. And you have literally no idea what the full context of the situation is, so who are you to say who’s in the right?

She considers the child her personal property and leverage to punish her ex. It's unfair that she essentially got away with this. If you robbed a bank they wouldn't let you go just because you gave the money back.

@tomr3422

6 ай бұрын

clearly the judge decided it was OK for her not to follow the courts orders until faced with jail time - That will teach her a lesson

Women like her are why men in increasing numbers are completely foregoing marrage and having kids. I however applaud the judge for being fair and judging the case on the facts and not emotions.

@FasterFaster196

6 ай бұрын

Oh puhleeze.🙄 If you're so victimized it's for the best that you stay away from women then. Good lord give me a break.

@genxray951

6 ай бұрын

fair would have been her sitting in jail for contempt for the 63 days as well.

@henrypeterson7411

6 ай бұрын

Fair would also be an immediate reduction in her parenting time

@SetchiPaunda

6 ай бұрын

very true

@tomr3422

6 ай бұрын

Fair? She can clearly ignore any court order until faced with jail time then comply. That crack pot judge was anything but fair.

she's gonna play that domestic violence card everyday for the rest of her life.

Mom is a piece of work. She thinks that she doesn't have to follow court orders. And she goes on and on. People like her make me sick. The rest of us have to follow court orders, why can't she!!! I absolutely believe she has poisoned the child against her father.

@jacklow9611

6 ай бұрын

Which is why she needs to spend every one of those 63 days behind bars, for the contempt and for what she might try to do to sabotage the daughter's time with her dad, because it's a sure bet she'll try something.

@backagain5216

6 ай бұрын

Too many women are toxic and vile. She’s a constant victim. I’m sure she’s contemplated rape charges.

WOW!! A fair judge! That was a great order ..63 days with his daughter is fantastic!!

My brother was the victim of an accusation of DV by his wife. The police took the view that an accusation is the same as guilt and effectively banned him from seeing his kids for a year until the court trial. Even after he was found not guilty (because there was zero evidence to every allegation and there was even evidence refuting them), she still used the inherent bias of the police and courts to prevent him from seeing his kids i.e. every phone call was 'harassment' and every visit was 'distressing'. And the whole time she was turning his kids against him. It took until the children were adults for him to start to repair his relationship with them. And then a year ago he died. The mother's vindictive lies prevented her children from growing up with a father.

@ej2953

6 ай бұрын

I met a woman once who accused her ex-husband of sexual abuse of the child to try to keep the child away. She put her ex-husband through a year of hell before he was finally exonerated. She tried a great man other mean tricks as well. He told me once that he was her second husband. I asked how she treated her first husband and he said that she was as vindictive toward the first husband she was toward him. I came to the conclusion that if you are contemplating marriage, you should find out her attitude toward previous boyfriends and husbands and if they aren't amicable, run away for your life -- she isn't worth the hell she will put you though later.

@peterb2272

6 ай бұрын

@@ej2953 You just reminded me that she accused the father of her first child of sexually abusing him. We heard that not much of a investigation took place at the time which we kinda assumed was the authorities being incompetent or lazy. The father of her first child emigrated to Spain (we think). But with your story and what happened to my brother, it makes me wonder if the authorities did investigate properly and found no substance to her allegations, and the father emigrated to get away from Crazy. That was probably the start of her getting away with making false accusations.

@ej2953

6 ай бұрын

@@peterb2272 In the case of the guy I knew, all it would take would be a medical exam of the daughter to know that it wasn't true. He had visitation one night and took me along as a witness. As soon as he knocked on the door, she called the police and reported a home invasion. WIthin minutes, there were four police cars on the scene. I thought that they were going to arrest us both, but as soon as they asked him for his side of the story and he replied that she was his ex-wife, they relaxed and went to talk to her. I think that they read her the riot act over making false police reports.

@russell-di8js

6 ай бұрын

sorry about your bros death. every family is different i grew up with divorced parents & it werent easy but as i grew older i made up my own independant mind to cut thru the BS. anyhow best wishes to you & yours from the uK.

It’s so easy to get a protective order against anyone . She’s using accusations to try and win full custody. See it all the time

My bet is she lied about the domestic abuse to get at him. She seems like the vindictive C you next Tuesday type

@binghamtonblows

6 ай бұрын

Now do you base that on his guilty plea to DV charges or on your personal knowledge of these people's lives?

@erinmalone2669

6 ай бұрын

I would guess it was toxic on both sides, but bad partners are not always bad parents.

@paulam.foreman4413

6 ай бұрын

For sure a C ‼️

@ronmexico6241

6 ай бұрын

​@@binghamtonblowspleading guilty to d v charges jeans nothing, I work in the v system and men cannot protect themselves without catching a case. I'm sure that mouthy asshole of a mother embellished to get her way as she was trying in the video

She seems to want to protect her daughter until she has consequences. It tells me she's a liar. I've watched both men and women using the children to hurt the ex and it's despicable. My ex abused me but never our child and I made sure she got to see dad because our beef was our beef and had nothing to do with her. We set rules for her well being both physical and emotional because she was the best thing to happen to both of us.

@judyoneal7887

6 ай бұрын

I agree. She wouldn’t turn her over for 2+ months but the second she learns she’s about to go to jail oh she’s happy to produce the child. In fact, she can have her there in 30 minutes. 🙄 If that man had truly been abusing her daughter, she’d be raising holy heck & she’d go to jail before turning her over. If it were me, I’d sit in jail indefinitely before turning my son over to a man I knew had been abusive to him in the past. Folks need to remember that the needs of the child always trumps the desires of the parent.

@genxray951

6 ай бұрын

it's mostly women doing it.

@stevemeredith9022

6 ай бұрын

@@genxray951based on what evidence exactly? I have seen plenty of men be just as horrible,manipulative & vindictive in alienating their ex from their child/ children.

@vintagelady1

6 ай бұрын

So he modeled to your daughter that it's OK to abuse women & you modelled that women should accept that??!! Seriously? I'm willing to bet that she will marry an abuser when she grows up. It's the gift that keeps on giving.

@coreymartin3218

6 ай бұрын

Good post. I mean, she didn't even do a minute in jail and she's already making plans to turn the child over. So, she's not to be trusted about the domestic issues and/or she doesn't care about the child.

If i believed my child was being abused id sit in jail, not protect the child only as long as you don't go to jail, this isn't a mother its a vindictive ex whose using her kid to make his life as hard as possible, pathetic

My mom tried to constantly get us to see my dad as the bad guy after their divorce, but all it accomplished was to make us pissed at her. Happens all the time.

I love the father finally winning ❣️ My older brother was finally awarded his three kids, which included a step child. After the kids contracted scabies for a third time and my treating them was all I could take. I paid for my brothers divorce and custody battle! My father and I were the best of friends,the lessons I was taught keeps my head above all the BS! A FATHER IS THE BEST FOR EVERY CHILD❣️

This so-called mom is committing child abuse.....

I'm so glad these hateful mothers are being held accountable

When you hate your ex more than you love your child, that child will grow to hate you. I know because my parents were like that. My mom just died, but because she continued to poison me against my dad and punished me for not hating him as much, I cut her off years ago and hadn’t spoken to her is years.

@princesspiplaysbass

6 ай бұрын

Same here.

@erinmalone2669

6 ай бұрын

@@princesspiplaysbass ✊️

@erinmalone2669

6 ай бұрын

If you have parents like that, you have to get yourself mental health treatment to disconnect without being mired in the anger. We owe it to our inner child and our future children. love and peace.

the mom got real confident when she said she hid the child and changed her tune when and started getting scared when she knew she was going to jail.

She belongs in a straight jacket and locked in a rubber room, not a jail cell !! Shameful !!!!

@mr.smithgnrsmith7808

6 ай бұрын

Exactly, disgusting manipulative you know what…

@vintagelady1

6 ай бұрын

Nothing as nasty as a mom protecting her child---except for the daddy who's an abuser.

I hate these evil mothers that use their children as pawns against the ex just because they are upset at them.....How about following the court orders.....You don't get to pick and choose what you want to follow....I'm glad this judge gave consequences unlike so many others who just let them dictate proceedings!

@genxray951

6 ай бұрын

he should have put her in jail for the 63 days she denied that poor child contact with its father.

@RolandBullock-ej8wl

6 ай бұрын

@@genxray951 absolutely =)

Videos like this make me grateful every day to my urologist for performing my vasectomy a few years ago 😊

I've been in his shoes (less the charge of DV) with a mother who would say and/or do anything to prevent access. Part of my ex's motivation was spite but she also didn't want any cuts in her child support payment in case she had to cancel her hair or nail appointments!!! I'm glad to see this judge take a hard line!!!

Talk about parental alienation. She's unbelievable! That Dad has every right to see their child.

I think the mother should've been made to spend the 63 days she denied her daughter time with her father, in a jail cell so they both can relax and enjoy uninterrupted catch up time with each other...

Awesome!! DADS MEAN EVERYTHING TO THEIR CHILDREN ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

My parents ALWAYS described themselves as “we” to their kids on any parenting matters.

@gaseousclay9529

6 ай бұрын

tay, serious question, how much time do you spend on youtube just commenting.. i see you everywhere.. either you and i have almost identical taste or you're like the dude in clockwork orange just taking in every video on youtube...

@tayzonday

6 ай бұрын

@@gaseousclay9529 My iPhone says I was in the KZread app 42 hours and 54 minutes from December 3 through 10th . . . and 28 hours, 30 minutes so far this week with just today left. That doesn’t include any time I watch KZread on my desktop.

@tayzonday

6 ай бұрын

@@gaseousclay9529 Of course, sometimes I sleep to a playlist I’ve made of 300 ASMR medical exam videos . . . I’m not sure whether the iPhone counts the screen being off and KZread playing as screen time 🤷‍♂️

@tomr3422

6 ай бұрын

my parents always described you parents as "those people"

@gaseousclay9529

6 ай бұрын

@@tomr3422 that's just because your parents are siblings.

Short, sweet, shut her down. Love it. Then she panics after being in contempt and wants to show the judge she's so much smarter than him. Like he doesn't know the law.

The crazy thing is this "mother" is putting her ego above the welfare of her child. I personally know moms like this. The only thing they accomplish is that the child grows up and eventually feels contempt and disgust for the idiot parent.

Tough to watch that sickening excuse for a mother. Poor child.

Wow! This lady told me everything I needed to know about her. Using her kid to defy a court order to get back at and punish the Dad…and then she wants to talk about “best interest of the child??” I am sick of these women thinking they can make all the rules with regard to the children, just because they are Mom. If more judges ruled like this then we would have far less problems with these women. Her smugness was more than I could bare.

This is fantastic! Kudos to the judge!

Unfortunately this is very rare. Even if the mother is a pretty terrible woman normally the judge will take her side. Luckily this judge stood up for the law and this father.

Glad judge is doing this. Pleading guilty to DV isn't a sign of guilt. Women do this often. Their attorneys tell them to file false charges. The man is arrested, to fight it in court cost thousands. To plea guilty is immediate release and maybe 90 dollar bond. Thats how they abuse the system and fathers.

@misty7220

5 ай бұрын

Glad to see somebody else seeing this. It happens all the time and is just beyond saddening for the men who's lives are ruined.

My husband left me after 25 years of marriage, at the time we had an 10 year old son, NEVER EVER once did i stop my husband from seeing our son, i made sure my son knew his father loved him i made sure to tell him that every day. I am so glad we could co-parent and do it the right way, years later my husband and i are back together and my son grew into a good, kind man. Parents need to stop using the children as pawns.

@Eztliz

Ай бұрын

You made the wrong decision. Now your son knows it’s okay to behave like that. Good job. 👏

That woman has so much hatred for her ex husband that she is willing to destroy any precious time and love that the child can have with the Dad.,,which can never be replaced once gone.Never use your child against the other parent, that is so soul destroying for the little one 😢

If you really believed your child was going to be abused by the other parent, you would NEVER turn her over. You would gladly sit in jail until the other charges were investigated. The fact that the mother turned her over so quickly once her freedom was threatened just shows she doesn't really believe the child is in danger.

This smug, poor excuse for a mom, needs some time in jail so she stops making up her own rules and using the child as a pawn. 😡😡😡

The dad deserves the child as much as mom! The child belongs to both parents! ‘

This woman is a Karen. Working from a position of spite.

Having been a single father of 3 yrs old girl and 8 yrs old boy , I never received a dollar for child support , it was ordered by court. I wait for the day that men have equal rights for there Children’s 😊

Sounds just like my ex! I've even watched her, my ex, throw out Christmas gifts I've dropped off for my children. She even tried to get me charged with stalking when I've tried to give her child support.

Divorced parents can work together outside of the custody order, but when they can't agree, then the order is followed to the "T". Its like a piece of paper that baby sits the parents when they can't act right. This woman is like an 18 year old on a bad prom night.

@cynrok

6 ай бұрын

What does an 18 year old on a bad prom night act like? That's not an expression I've heard so I'm just curious

@rock-n-katfarm3591

6 ай бұрын

Childish and immature when she doesn’t get her way.

So child protective said no to the abuse and you know they look hard for any indications. I'm willing to bet the domestic abuse was most likely self defence on his part.

Lol was his DV charge actually self-defense?

@grbenway

6 ай бұрын

that wiould be the most likely thing.

@LoneWolfUsul

6 ай бұрын

I'm kinda thinking you may have something with this assertion.

@ShanDarkmatter

6 ай бұрын

@@LoneWolfUsul Idk these ppl, and I wasn't there. But I'm willing to bet he rocked her shit to defend himself, then told the police he did it to make sure the little girl got to stay home with the mom, who she seems to live with. Tale as old as time.

She should be happy that her child 's father WANTS to be in her daughter's life!

This Mom makes me sick. Kids hurt themselves. Get a grip lady.

She told the school to not allow pick ups and drop offs by the father, but is acting like the school took that decision on their own, Snake!

I would bet money the PPO is spiteful and the result of false accusations and testimony.

I had to go to mediation 15 times to keep my kids because their mother was bi-polar and would not keep compliant with the court order. That meant 15 court appearances, usually with the same counselors and judges. Each time, she was denied custody of our kids. This is what fathers have to go through when they are the custodial parent and are the responsible ones. But you only hear about the poor mothers, not the poor father. 10:21

As an adult I can say that I loved both my parents. My parents divorced but I never heard my mom say a bad thing about my dad. In hindsight, he was an alcoholic womanizer who left my mother hanging for so many bills it isn’t funny. But neither my mother nor my father used me to fight each other and for that I love them both even more.

Fairly easy to see that Mom is playing it up just to hurt the father. She sure was quick to make the child available once she learned she was going to jail until that happened, huh?!

It is disgusting when parents withhold children against another parent as punishment without merit especially when CPS said there was no abuse. I bet the DV was made up and the father had to plea because there was no way out of it.

This is an irrevocably broken family.. Brutal and tragic.. On a side note, mom’s voice is like nails on a chalkboard..

We need more judges like him. He is a Godsend.

You have to love your child more than you hate each other.

I have a feeling that by the time this child is a teenager, it will be apparent to he or she that Mom...aka...Ms. Myspace Matlock is always going to be a victim of someone or something or of just plain life. Once Dad was given his owed 63 days of being with his child, I was hoping that Mommy Dearest would have been slapped with Parental Theft and immediately given a 63 day sentence to show her just how the law is followed "To a T". This Gloria Allred Mom really needs some old fashioned Jailhouse Humility taught to her. What she thinks is REEL in her mind is not the REAL of the World. Appreciate you showing this case LoneWolf as it's a constant reminder for me to stay grounded! MOO From COW-lumbus, Ohio

The way the mom keeps bring up "domestic violence", I would bet that it never happened and she is using that term in the hopes the court would hear those worlds and find in her favor with out any proof.

I hope the dad and his baby girl have wonderful Christmas and a very Happy New Year.

Woman always get things their way about time a judge stood up for the dad!!!

Nice to hear this judge call this "parenting time" instead of visitation bc dads don't visit their children, they parent.

Thank goodness the dad had a lawyer. GEEZ!!! >.O

A man with a Domestic Violence conviction should never be allowed to have unsupervised visitation with a small child, especially a female child.

This mom seems very adept at manipulating the system, until this court session.

Good judge. I love how he gave father all the days he missed having her due to selfish mother.

About time women are held accountable.

Awesome judge we need many many more like him. I bet the husband JUST CHERISHES the day he met it I mean her!

A thing which keeps the child away from this woman is in the best interest of the child. If I were married to her I would be in prison for a capital felony. This guy was smart to hire a competent female attorney to offset the bias most courts have in favor of the mother. If she was really worried about the child’s safety she would have sat in jail rather than surrender her.

I was screwed when I got parents. I'm always happy when I see or hear about good parents. Shame on the mother for keeping this baby away from the father.

I love this judge. Bless his heart. I pray for the healing of father and child Blessings Be.

I can only imagine how busy this woman will be poisoning the kid's mind against the father any chance she gets. She understands now that she will not be able to keep the kid from him unless a court decides so, so chances are she will make sure to poison his or her mind against him. Make it so that the kid fears him, hates him and doesn't want to be with him. If she does a good enough job to where the kid develops enough anxiety to where it is detrimental to their health the father could lose his rights to see the kid despite this court order.

As a teacher, I cannot express hard enough that parents need to straighten out court orders and to be respectful to faculty at their children’s school. All front office and teachers see is what has been entered into a computer - we do not see the court order, we cannot change these instructions even if you have a piece of paper in your hand. You must go through the right channels because we will be liable for mistakes made AND lose our jobs. We also realize that your situation is the only one that is important to you but as middle school teacher I can have upwards of 120 students and do not check their profiles daily - if there is a change made, please contact the teacher and say this change has been made and you should see it on the child’s record. Parents should do this with all health data - allergies etc. Thank you!

She needs to tell her, the next time she disregards the court orders, that contempt will include jail time.

If she was legit worried about her child's safety she would've went to jail....

If an adult hits a kid in the mouth they're getting more than cut lips , all the doctor was confirm they saw the child with a cut lip not the cause & doctor did not alledge abuse . Mom is spiteful & lost Christmas with the kid . The protection order & plea of guilt was towards mom , was the child a victim or witness even ? Best interest is two parents if the child wasn't

That poor child having to deal with such immature parents is the real tragedy here.

If only every judge held women accountable

Well no accountabilty for her contemp will show her. Do what you want until the judge threatens you, then comply.

Myspace Matlock hilarious 😂

Love your comments during the hearing, brilliant 😂

I’m proud of all the women in here that actually is for the father wanting to see his child. Also ypu are seeing through all her lies. In almost every custody case I ever seen the mother says there was domestic violence. That’s just a way to stop the father from seeing the child

My ex played the same games. Unfortunately it required paying for a lawyer to get the same results that this guy got. The courts are far less sympathetic to the fathers who represent themselves than they are to fathers who pay for an attorney. I ultimately ended up with full custody in the end.

Claims of abuse are common in these types of situations. Mothers often use it to falsely accuse fathers in order to deny them their parental rights. It's a revenge tactic pure and simple.

I know judges that would excruciate the plaintiff for wearing a "Hoodie" in court even if he rules in his favor.

You know within 24hrs she was calling the cops on the father. This is war for her and as somebody else said she’s never going to stop.

Stop using children as weapons Keep children out of adult business If i believed my child was being abused I'd sit in jail just to keep my baby safe Parent alienation is unforgivable and usually truth comes out when the kids are grown up

It is amazing how fast she will comply when "Lock her up now" is stated.

Gentlemen pay very close attention to this and be very careful of where you dump your load!

The Mother was put in her place. Judge Kirkham sided with the child, fantastic. Mother publicly treated the Judge, father, and all in Court with disrespect. I do appreciate thorough, decisive Judges, with the true victims in mind. In this case, the child. Good for the father, and thank you Judge Kirkham. Happy Holiday's 🎄.

These kind of parents are toxic. They’ll do anything to punish the other parent going as far as lying about abuse and even talking the child into going along with it 7:58 wow. So it sounds like she’s been telling the school he can’t pick his daughter up.

Every child involved in a custody battle should be assigned a Guardian Ad Litem. Then the CHILD is actually put first and parents have to find the emotional and mental strength to COOPERATE!! My daughter went through a very very tough divorce two years ago. It was difficult at first - dad had done his best to brainwash the child who was desperate for his love and attention. Luckily my daughter is one of the strongest people I know. She did her best never to say anything negative about dad. In their case they followed the custody court order to a T. Now it's amazing the cooperation they have managed. To the point when one or the other has to go out of town on business or there is some issue - the other picks up the slack. If anyone had told me two years ago the pair would be working together for the best interests of their 12 year old I would have laughed. My daughter's bond with her daughter is stronger than ever - thank you God!!!

Wow, that mom is a piece of work and this is a woman saying that. She is so arrogant she was even talking down to the Judge. Not very bright at all.

I love it when Dad wins