I remember this Formula 1 race that had a horrible accident, one of the contestant's breaks didn't work and the car ended up flipping and rolling off the track. Another contestant that was in the top 5 stopped his car and went to help this guy even tho that would mean a sure race loss. I remember this selfless act even today. I can't explain why, but sometimes in life, there is this feeling that overcomes us to "do the right thing".

@HelloWorld-fg2nm

Жыл бұрын

His name? Lightning McQueen

@dislikereporter2271

Жыл бұрын

That's the plot of Cars

@slushyslushslushbruh

Жыл бұрын

Was that regarding Ayrton Senna stopping his car to help Ratzenberger?

@StratGame126

Жыл бұрын

That could be either Alonso’s crash in Melbourne in 2016? Or thereabouts. Where Romain Grosjean who was also involved in the accident got out to check on him. The other one that comes to mind is the Guanyu Zhou accident this past season in Silverstone, UK where Zhou flipped over a safety barricade and George Russell got out and made sure he was conscious.

@MigorRortis

Жыл бұрын

Which race was it?

It's crazy how this man explains everything in such a brilliant way!

@v1705

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, in America, maybe. I Think he is a populist. In the land of the blind, the One-eyed man is King.

@itiszulu

Жыл бұрын

@@v1705 I have followed him for quite a while. He is definitely not 'one-eyed' man. He is not an American. He is based in Canada, but engaged in talks and conversation all over the world.

@SarcasmIsMyGame_

Жыл бұрын

Wasn't so brilliant debating Sam Harris. He later appologized for his behavior and admitted he wanted to win so bad. Kind of ironic.

@B2Roland

Жыл бұрын

Shame he's a loon

@ytplol8446

Жыл бұрын

@@itiszulu Bible said the one who ensures will be saved.. Win the long game, but take it easy..

Really wish this kind of thinking was more prevalent in our culture.

@todoido13

3 жыл бұрын

Hell yeah!!!!

@vsslsmchlks

2 жыл бұрын

It might be alive in some corners.

@fredriksjoman

2 жыл бұрын

You'll have to raise the average intelligence

@scottdozier2946

2 жыл бұрын

It sounds as though you should start developing your voice and speaking. Don’t just wish. Do.

@Rhys-jd1kt

Жыл бұрын

The world can go fuck itself. I wish it was more prevalent in ME.

I started racing in 3rd grade. My first race, I won 1st place. And I always win races. And when I lose, I was a sore loser. I wouldn't accept defeat that lightly, because I was so used to winning. Even at 2nd place, I consider that losing already. And when I acted up, my dad got upset, because he said that's not how I should act, and I should have more fun than actually winning. He never explained why. And I've always thought I was having fun because I was winning. I just followed him and when I lost, I tried to act it was okay. And from then on, I wasn't a loser who acted up when I don't get first place. Honestly... whether it's a subtle thing that I carried over to my young adult life, I can't ignore the fact that it probably impacted me more than I thought it did. I am honestly a person I would want to meet in my lifetime at this point. I am a conscious person, I go to the gym, I'm very social in any social setting than before because I'm an introvert. And it's all because I just want thing to be a little bit more fun than when I wasn't present at a place. Let's get better everyday kings and queens 💪

@hidude1354

Жыл бұрын

beautiful

@w1nther930

Жыл бұрын

In my opinion, what people like the previous you need is a complete and utter loss. One that makes you nearly despair. Sounds harsh but the reality of things is that most people when they lose will keep making excuses like "Oh i wasn't feeling good today" or "I wasn't serious!". Hell, they'll even say you aren't even good and they're better. Seriously it makes me want to vomit whenever i encounter those people. They don't want all their effort to be all wasted so they make excuses and think not giving up is the answer. They need a reality check. This quote here sums up why i think like this Quote by Ego Jinpachi from Blue Lock "Defeat is a natural phenomon that must exist in the world of competition. Even for the world's best it is impossible to win everytime. What matters is what you take the from defeat. A loser is denied on the field they play on. For at fighter, there is nothing worse than that despair. And yet many average joes don't carve this despair into their minds, that's important. Denied for their powerlessness and lack of talent, they're afraid to acknowledge their mistakes and unconciously make excuses, fantastically unaware they are doing so. In order to feel like it's all been a waste, they trick themselves into thinking not giving up is the answer. I call it "dream doping". Their goal used to be achieving their dream, but now their goal is the act of chasing after it. I have zero interest in garbage who continue to fool themsevles while chasing the ghost of a dream. If you don't live your life to achieve your dream it's pointless. That's why defeat is the crossroads for your dream. What's needed is the strength to fully realize your powerlessness in that moment. The ability to feel despair. There is a path you can only see once you've given up on path to your dream, and that path leads to new potential. Those who continue to fight in spite of their despair are bestowed the power to achieve their goal."

@bully2681

Жыл бұрын

Losers lose races, winners win them. Sorry for breaking it up to you. You could have fun being a loser but that still makes you one

Winning is just a product of improving yourself. Winning games comes naturally when you become the best version of yourself. This goes beyond sports. Nowadays people put to much emphasis on the "win" but not the actual science of why a "win" happens.

@eZeero

Жыл бұрын

True 😊

Sometimes people just need to accept defeat and not make excuses

He’s explaining don’t let success control how you live and treat others

@JohnDoe-jt5lb

3 жыл бұрын

No, that wasn not the point of his answer.

@missionpupa

3 жыл бұрын

What hes saying is a game is just a game within a game so dont lose the bigger game just so you can win the smaller game in it. Sometimes when you win, you lose.

@Fran-rd1nl

Жыл бұрын

Don't let the pursuing of success do that*. Because,if you are obsessed with it,you probably won't see the bigger picture. What is important is what you become. And of course that is not necessarily excluding the specific game you are playing. If you are getting better and there are clear chances of promotion,its a good game. The lose of a match won't affect that. And this still applies to high leagues. It's useless to act egoistically. Long term attitude.

@randyg.7940

Жыл бұрын

​@@missionpupa no....he's saying Nikes are good soccer shoes

@missionpupa

Жыл бұрын

@@randyg.7940 so are adidas

This made me realize that the way people approach games is usually the exact same way that they approach life....that was a crazy thing to contemplate

@yol_n

Жыл бұрын

Life is a game, or a series of games. This analogy does make it pretty easy to understand :)

@sherbang7076

Жыл бұрын

actually everything you do is interconnected to your inner being and feelings. when i was a kid i played the electric guitar and, not so well initially :) after my first love adventure.... i started playing guitar waaaaay better. i remember i was watching my fingers touch the chords and there was something different about it.... I was more gentle, receptive and engaged..... fingers would dance on the chords.... i wondered how ? the sounds i was able to pull off, were one order of magnitude better..... Well.... my new guitar-touching, was actually derived from the way I learned to touch my first lover gf :) What you said above, triggered in me to remember that... i was approching the guitar-play, the same way I was approaching the playing with my girl :) Since then, I realised I can put this type of love in my work, in cooking, writing, listening, talking, hugging, walking, dressing, cleaning, making love..... Well, thats life in a nutshell. Because of my first lover, I learned to love myself and love my life a little bit more. Her love has touched my way of approaching life forever :) behind every good impression that I was able to leave, in life, there is a successfull story of love that thought me so :) I am fortunate enough to say that I had experienced true love, often and none of my past relationships i closed, ended up in bad breakups. I am one of the few guys, that is still a friend with ALL the ladies from the past. How i got here ? It all goes back to my first love. She thought me how and why to live life :)

@aojbooker8650

Жыл бұрын

@@sherbang7076 lovely story thank you so much :)

I've been told: 'Winning alone is not enough. Everyone else must also lose' which never quite sit right with me.

Dad actually taught me that losing has way more value than our society gives it credit for. Winners get the trophy, short term success to put something on a shelf that says we were really good. Losers though get a test, a divine test to grow themselves offered only to them. Growing up I always thought it was weird he wasn’t making it about my skill, but my attitude was always the thing he was trying to teach me on. Thank God for that. He taught me how to find silver linings, how to look at a loss and see it as a way to seek areas of improvement, a great extension of that lesson was how to ask the best kid on the field for help, and in a catastrophic defeat, be the kid least phased personally with the most positive outlook, a great extension of that lesson was to learn to smile and enjoy myself in tough scenarios. I’d practice basketball, but I never realized he was teaching me how to handle the storms of life. Thanks so much dad.

Networking, networking, networking is the important thing that school and parents rarely teach

Exactly, it is written in the gita, don't worry about the result, but keep doing your part as best as you can, and accept your result. If you follow this you will automatically win at life 🙏

@crazyrr144

Жыл бұрын

india didnt really do too well with that religion, so i dont think its good advice

@ytadd9414

Жыл бұрын

@@crazyrr144 how so ?

@crazyrr144

Жыл бұрын

@@ytadd9414 they were dominated by foreign powers with different religions, so its not a successful philisophy to hold

@leaflight7903

Жыл бұрын

@@ytadd9414 India is a different story: they didn't even work to win the game. It isn't winning if you don't work to win

@ytadd9414

Жыл бұрын

@@leaflight7903 idk what you mean by that, but india did fight back against the invasion of abrahamic religions, thats why we still have our indigenous faith and culture preserved to some extent, although ofcourse we took a severe beating also, but we are definitely stronger than european nations who lost their pagan indigenous cultures to Christianity

He’s talking about life as an infinite game vs the short-sighted and short-term finite game. Simon Sinek has a great book and lecture(s) on this.

its ok to loose the battle but don't loose the war

@UniverseShinobi

Жыл бұрын

Lose*

Omg mind blowing. I gotta watch the whole pod cast. N follow this guys work.

Not put winning above everything at all time - beautifully said...

THXs Mr petterson for your share video 🙏💚💋👑👑

Picks them up the right way if you win. Handhakes too are just one of the most importamt part of the game. It gives smiles and naturally wipes out tears.

I’m not always a fan of his perspective but he knocked it out of the park on this one. Rock on 🤘

I came to KZread cause I was thinking about winning or losing what matters is to participate like he said. Is a privilege to have a chance at winning. Life is a gift we should grateful for the opportunity. GBY

I totally agree with you professor , thats why in the game when we lose we tend to be sport , because we understand the manner and values of accepting defeat and challenges in life either it's in sport or even how you gambling your life , we learn to accept failure as well we define the behaviour when once we encounter a failure and in kind you become sport and professional ....God bless Professors Jordan Peterson and more power

Thank you sir n thank u comments

Exactly, I needed someone to explain to young men these life game..

Spot on

The key is play well with others

I really wish I heard those lectures when I was in grade 9

Very good clip

I don’t think I’ve ever watched something that I haven’t been nodding my head yes while he speaks. Everyone needs to understand this concept and strengthen their belief and understand the wisdom behind this.

Warrior seek not the victory but the struggle

Deep! Thank you!

This is the type of talking to we collectively as a society we should gravitate towards when it comes to parenting. I like his comment on how we look deeper at our winners to not be narcissistic

You will win either way, winning or lossing by gaining experience. We dont need to scare someone if we lose. #Honor is an achievement

@Saskaruto16

Жыл бұрын

To paraphrase a good quote I can't exactly remember: Anyone who has every been good at anything has lost exponentially more times than most people have ever even played.

@theorangekindle4565

Жыл бұрын

@@Saskaruto16 Sadly because there are envious, jealous and insecure real devils that are playing as God. Real good ones, still...are the real winners by the ways. ✌️💕

Basically, what can be derived from that is : by observing how one plays games, you'll have some insight on how he's approching life as well. Very interesting lecture grid.

GOLDEN LIFE ADVICE

you know something important going on when Joe Rogan shut his mouth for 5 mins

If this doesn't hit you like a freight train, you weren't paying attention.

Love this

i think it's very important whether you win or lose but only as someone who doesn't mean it the same way, wins are great for all the obvious reasons, losses however are the greatest life lessons on the path of the hero if one has the courage to seek wisdom in all trials they will know power

That’s why I compare life to like seasons in football. We are all trying to make it to the playoffs and win but sometimes or most of the time we find ourselves rebuilding in the off season to get better.

Absolutely brilliant articulation. Makes me ponder on my message here, how I can get even remotely close to Dr. Peterson

@stevebrule6046

Жыл бұрын

The package is in you it’s in everyone, he’s just unpacking it. Like how he says that a simple saying is “really complicated” at the beginning of the vid.

damn I love this guy's speeches

I 100% agree with you., Doctor Peterson.

One of the sacrifices one have to make in order to be the absolute best at anything is your control of emotion when things doesn't go as planned. Why is that? Well, in order to surpass everyone around you, one need a drive and discipline that is beyond normal standard to become the absolute best. One also need to be more competitive and more ruthless than the competition and team mates. This means that your will to Win is so strong that when you fail at the finish line your reaction will inevitably break your mental and composure to some degree, making you burst out things you would normally not do. If the goal is to only do your best, then one will Never be the best. In order to reach excellence one must strive for perfection. If you only strive for greatness you will only reach decent to good to average. Reaching for the impossible is what makes people able to attain legendary status in any given domain.

@samuelalley7331

Жыл бұрын

Why the need to surpass everyone around you? You missed the whole message.

@PN5758

Жыл бұрын

@Samuel Alley I believe OP is referring to high performance individuals who are striving for fame and glory in their professions. It is hardwired in these individuals to outperform their peers and strive for perfection. Kobe Bryant is a perfect example.

Listening to this man's words in this and many other vids . Iv Ben examining alot of shit in my life . I appreciate this man's existence and makes men like me think and analyze deeper Blessings to him 🤘🙏😔

Fuggin brilliant.....

There needs to be a balance winning is also important. The world market values people on how much they won in life at sports,education,family,etc.

Truly a good man

F'ing brilliant!

This is a level of complication more likely to evolve in the child’s mind to giving up and quitting.

Great!

Think about Belichek/Brady in relation to what JP presents from :55 to 1:21 seconds into this video.

It's about the friends you made on the way

when you've lost the battle but you've won the war.

This is what the coach says to the losing team, the winning team’s speech is much much different. There’s also a better sports mantra you could quote; winning isn’t everything, it’s the only thing.

I have come to basically the same conclusion which is: Life is not a game to be won, but should be lived as an adventure in learning how to love and serve God, others and yourself.

I really agree with Joe Rogan here, his input made all the difference.

Absolutely right. 👾

This is odd to mention but this makes me grateful I had watched McQueen sacrifice his win to help king after his crash.

The message I got from this is that life is a series of games, so as long as you are there to play the whole game, don't worry about the first one.

@royk.9347

Жыл бұрын

Damn I like this comment. thank you

@gmajororder

Жыл бұрын

He never said nor implied : “don’t worry about the first one”.

Jbp is a legend🤟🤟🤟

Right. Its just important my opponent loses.

So true!! Truth (honest noble character) matters and truth prevails.

I play netball, over 50's at City level. I play to win for the team. I'm goal attack and shooting is my strength. However, I will readily pass the ball to goal shooter if they're in a better position, if they haven't shot for a while, if it distracts the opposite team. I love everyone on my team and treat the opposition with competitive love. Sometimes I find it hard when others are purely self driven but that's where personal character training comes in. Thanks Jordan

@GabrielConstantinides

Жыл бұрын

I suck at basketball, but I will hopefully never forget when one of the players on my team passed the ball to me at the trials to be on the school team. After gaining possession I immediately fouled, but I hope I get to properly thank the person who gave me a chance in that moment

It seems that Life consists of the interplay between competition and cooperation. Neither is more useful than the other, since both are necessary. Perhaps, finding a virtuous median may be a goal worth pursuing for our own, and the community's, wellbeing?

It does matter if you lose you are mocked and bullied

Wise Jordan is wise

This reminds me of Krishna's teaching to Arjuna on the battlefield, in the Bhagavad Gita, "You have right only to committing actions towards your prescribed duties, and never to the fruits of your actions ; Let not the fruits be the motive for your actions, neither let your attachment be to inaction."

Amen!

loved erjp.

Wisdom.

Basically try and win but not at the expense of being unsportsmanlike is how it was explained to me

Makes me think of Steve Nash.

Lol. “Jamie” Whoops, I mean, “ like, are you, THEEEE, Jamieeee?”

@Citi2en_V41n

2 жыл бұрын

Or Joe Rogan on some other, maybe Tim Pool, show: “don’t you guys have a Jamie?…”

It dosent matter if you lost something but it matter you lost yourself

The development of character as a practice in ethics is desperately undervalued by our society (I hail from the UK). Imagine if more kids understood that their personal destiny would be enhanced not on their attainment of a sports scholarship, for example, but on the development of their moral character. Good begets good, in a life well lived. And by the way that isn't to say we shouldn't be ambitious, but if our goals are attainable and with social value then all the better.

Why this in my reccomended after watching herm edwards' "YOU PLAY TO WIN THE GAME"

Ego Jinpachi would like a word with dr. Peterson

Indeed agree with that; life is not a single gameplay. It's a series of championships; all it matters is how we play the game and, if we lose, how hard we practice back! 🚀 Importantly in the game of life, reciprocity should always be kept alive! 🌍 💯

Joe Rogan is the GOAT 😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮

Do you agree? Articulates a great parallel in attitude & play as it relates to the development of character in sport/life

Nobody likes losing, because to some, the idea of losing to another person means weakness and invalidation of the self.

Some managers need to watch this video…

Survival is winning. Cash comes and goes.

So, in a social environment, it is more beneficial for the self to not make all the moves and win the one game but rather developing reciprocity with others helps you win the most games during life, which in turn is also so you can win lol,

Your goal is not to win a competition with the opponent on the field; your goal is winning against the depravity inside seeking to produce a lesser version of yourself. Winning is to cultivate the character of your inner soul to always present the best version of yourself in all things..not just sports. The reason I chose the word best and not perfect is because "best" implies growth whereas perfect suggests being God which none of us can be. It's also important that you do not measure your best up against another's best which always leads to personal shame in the end. There is ALWAYS someone smarter, faster, and more talented ALWAYS. And If you don't believe that last point than you have no concept of humility in your worldview. Because, though you might be the best in the world at one thing means absolutley zero in the scope of a successful life, character, and love. I could have the highest IQ on the planet, but also be a menance to society. This is not success. Comparing yourself with others rather than following your inner compass of growth will also make you quit things all the time. The mature person can lose battles but not quit overall. The immature who measures theirself by what he/she observes in everyone else will feel powerful when they outclass someone who is inferior to them, but likewise be driven to quit when that person comes along who outshines them.

@arunbaskar9337

Жыл бұрын

Winning is to Always present the best version of yourself - Very well said

Joe be in listening stance

Life is a collection of many different games.

Yes it is important. But your reactions to things and understandings are just as important. You must constantly work to be better,even if it's very slightly over time. It depends on what each person is comfortable with.

I’m here after losing spelling bee to my enemy and she won

My nigga got me at even games are not a game 🤣

I can’t stand losing. I fucking hate it. I have the mindset where if I lose I just suck straight up

You want to win. You just don’t want to be so attached to the outcome that you alienate everyone around you when you lose. There’s no loss. Only learning experiences.

Winning is not everything. Wanting to win is .

@MasteryOrder

Жыл бұрын

If you enjoy topics about mastery and masculinity, I invite you to explore the videos on the Mastery Order Channel. Challenge yourself with some ideas about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would like to see in the world. We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own thoughts so that others can benefit from them as well. All the best to you!

So true, WOW! But how am i supposed to explain this to my kid again? 😂

...even a game is not a game

This is the difference between Khabib and Jon Jones, why people respect and admire Khabib but dislike Jones. Both are winners, one has great character and helps others, the other is an arrogant narcissist. Makes sense.

Coming here after losing pimnas 33, uhhh sedih

It's how you play the game

This should be required “reading” actually watching, for every parent, coach, etc prior to allowing them to compete in all sports!

I dont really care about winning, just doing things to enjoy the moment,