Jordan Peterson - Failing A Class

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Psychology Professor Jordan B. Peterson talks about hitting unexpected obstacles in life. What does it mean to fail a class? It's a remanifestation of things you had considered irrelevant.
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  • @senior5904
    @senior59046 жыл бұрын

    Imagine the feeling of failing a course that teaches you how not to fail.

  • @nickbelanger5225

    @nickbelanger5225

    5 жыл бұрын

    At that point I would just drop out and hang myself

  • @nickcage3703

    @nickcage3703

    5 жыл бұрын

    probably pretty successful

  • @Uryendel

    @Uryendel

    5 жыл бұрын

    I failed a semester because I didn't get the minimum grade on a course who is supposed to help you prepare your future

  • @yellowandy99

    @yellowandy99

    5 жыл бұрын

    I did that

  • @Kimyumoto16

    @Kimyumoto16

    5 жыл бұрын

    There’s no such course. It’s impossible to teach or learn how to fail without going through failure. Failure is inevitable and constant but so is success. The question isn’t how do we avoid failure but rather how do we measure failure/success and what does that constitute.

  • @TotalAnarchy27
    @TotalAnarchy276 жыл бұрын

    The thing is. No one talks about the camera man or women who follows him around during his lectures. Thank you mysterious camera person.

  • @harresdirksen1950

    @harresdirksen1950

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you mysterious camera robot

  • @crawfordbrown75

    @crawfordbrown75

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ahem Camera *PERSON* Christ stop assuming gender pronouns...

  • @SteamShinobi

    @SteamShinobi

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@crawfordbrown75 ur joking right?

  • @crawfordbrown75

    @crawfordbrown75

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@SteamShinobi lol no??

  • @SteamShinobi

    @SteamShinobi

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@crawfordbrown75 Okay, so you have assumed their pronouns are not s/he dichotomy - which is assuming their pronouns, only in line with your own personal ideology and ideolect. What is there to gain from making this statement and assumption? Are you not committing the same act you are condemning?

  • @elinor5551
    @elinor55513 жыл бұрын

    Just got a D (52%) on a test I studied so hard for. Hurts even more because I felt that I knew the topic inside and out and I believed that the test went really well. Guess I was wrong.

  • @nelsonperez9546

    @nelsonperez9546

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exact same thing im going to. It hurts more then normal because I put in the extra effort just to fail harder.

  • @kcuba1228

    @kcuba1228

    3 жыл бұрын

    all the time

  • @ridhwanhilmi6201

    @ridhwanhilmi6201

    3 жыл бұрын

    same thing happened to me, it hurted my motivation real bad

  • @TallyFox2

    @TallyFox2

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re not alone my friend. Studied to the best of my ability for a Calc II Test and it came out as a 66.

  • @Wildlifelover2001

    @Wildlifelover2001

    3 жыл бұрын

    i feel you gal, i literally just got some essay feedback and i got 57 (2.2 in UK grading), cried for a bit but now I'm looking to Jordan peterson for some strength and wisdom so i don't become pessimistic and complacent.

  • @bassboostey9424
    @bassboostey94243 жыл бұрын

    Imagine failing a class with a subject that you will never use in life just because that's what the system requires.

  • @ctg5679

    @ctg5679

    3 жыл бұрын

    Especially if it’s not required for your major

  • @Inyedy

    @Inyedy

    3 жыл бұрын

    History of grammar structure of English class for me. That class is ruining my life

  • @karimzakaria9621

    @karimzakaria9621

    3 жыл бұрын

    First year of Uni I had no idea about ratemyprofessor and foolishly never read course descriptions. For gen eds, I took a anthropology, philosophy and religion class and man those classes were depressing as hell

  • @bassboostey9424

    @bassboostey9424

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@karimzakaria9621 Lol I took anthropology and hated that class. The professor sucked and the tests made no sense. I got a B though.

  • @Slenderman63323

    @Slenderman63323

    3 жыл бұрын

    whew i had to grind through calculus. I'm studying to be a software dev, and calculus really isn't that important, it's the discrete maths which is important

  • @kalel0192
    @kalel01927 жыл бұрын

    I was hoping this was a video showing Peterson announcing that he was giving everyone in his class a failing grade.

  • @ArciusDK

    @ArciusDK

    7 жыл бұрын

    was expecting that fom the titel, got disappointed.

  • @Zeffarian

    @Zeffarian

    7 жыл бұрын

    Maybe that's what he does after the video gets cut off and what we see here is him prepping them up for the big bombshell.

  • @zakityzak3364

    @zakityzak3364

    7 жыл бұрын

    If not for the dash between his name and the title I would have thought that too, I bet that video is out there though lol

  • @henri3672

    @henri3672

    7 жыл бұрын

    Zervus that would be funny "so you see the reason I brought this up is cause well.... yeah you all failed. Better luck next time" lmaooo

  • @slamdunktiger

    @slamdunktiger

    6 жыл бұрын

    That's a bit sociopathic.

  • @carlosmunoz5178
    @carlosmunoz5178 Жыл бұрын

    I just failed my calculus class today. I was very confident that I would pass my final, but I completely fumbled the bag. Weeks of studying and got slapped in the face with an F. I’m still in shock, but I won’t give up. Still can’t believe I failed my first class 😢

  • @thewyatt1001

    @thewyatt1001

    Жыл бұрын

    Same bru

  • @360Aiii

    @360Aiii

    Жыл бұрын

    Same bro

  • @Ca13b1

    @Ca13b1

    Жыл бұрын

    same

  • @samirachoudhury6489

    @samirachoudhury6489

    11 ай бұрын

    Same

  • @shari726

    @shari726

    7 ай бұрын

    same issue landed me here

  • @Valentino016
    @Valentino016 Жыл бұрын

    One thing I learned as a failing student to a A plus student is that intelligence isnt based on your test scores. Intelligence is the way you combat your internal emotions and the way you challenge thos challenges into making better outcomes with critical problem solving skills. The way I went from failing to passing is practice, recall, analyse, and just told my self to do it. If others can do it you probably can to. Dont let your gaurd down. And dont beat your self up.

  • @sundayschooldropout2977

    @sundayschooldropout2977

    Жыл бұрын

    Are you for real because I'm really in a bad state and I really need to improve

  • @JefferyWisdom

    @JefferyWisdom

    Жыл бұрын

    I've always used the scientific method as a way of looking at life. When you test a hypothesis, you step through possibilities and correct things based on outcome and evidence Life is the same way. When you do something that fails, it's important to not focus on the failure itself but rather the reason behind the failure, and correct it based on the evidence you find.

  • @hayab9453

    @hayab9453

    Жыл бұрын

    I got B- today and since it is 2 years masters class it will affect my grades,I felt like I was stupid because most people in my class got A

  • @ShadeandShadow4ever

    @ShadeandShadow4ever

    Жыл бұрын

    Practice, recall, analyze Good Choice Reminds me of flashcards but with the author, date, and item

  • @corybrown8196

    @corybrown8196

    6 ай бұрын

    if its any consolation, people tend to associate 'intelligence' with letter grades- when really they have almost nothing to do with one another. The only relation they have, is that higher intelligence allows someone to learn, retain and apply information my quickly than others. (think of it like having more RAM on a computer. A 16gb RAM would have less lag when opening multiple tabs on a browser than an 8gb computer, but thats about it) "if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing it is stupid" @@hayab9453

  • @TheMrANONYMOOSE
    @TheMrANONYMOOSE5 жыл бұрын

    He absolutely nailed my point of view on life, if you've got a problem the solution isn't giving up, it's working harder. Literally anything that's causing stress, find it's source and do anything you can to get rid of it

  • @MrCmon113

    @MrCmon113

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes you have to give up though.

  • @yellowspike3344

    @yellowspike3344

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah school isn't for everybody. I dropped out of college because I hate being taught something by someone especially something I don't want to learn. Instead I learned how to start my own business and do something I love which is art. What I learned from self teaching myself was learning how to get better at something and how to improve, rather in school it's learn how to memorize. It's a nice feeling fail at something compared to school. When you fail you know you can improve and your going the right direction. But in school failure isn't so good. Your parents and teachers scold you asking you "you have no future". School can teach you a lot stuff too like how to manage time, how to memorize things more effectively and drama.

  • @beverlybarrera8921

    @beverlybarrera8921

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@yellowspike3344 yeah that’s what I don’t like schools. But I am in college and want to drop but I get stress and overwhelmed bc I don’t plans to start. I have social anxiety and worry about that I may not find a good job for not having a degree. I don’t know if I can manage to survive and plus I am afraid of my family opinion. What if they are right, what if I am wrong.

  • @chickennuggets1837

    @chickennuggets1837

    Жыл бұрын

    @@beverlybarrera8921 you hit the nail with all these worries, you know what you DONT like which is college but also have no idea on what you DO like or at least what you can do (in terms of abilities)

  • @OReily08080

    @OReily08080

    Жыл бұрын

    @@chickennuggets1837 right, I'm really thinking about "what else can I do?" "What other options are there"

  • @tylerfarmer1592
    @tylerfarmer15927 жыл бұрын

    Dr. Peterson does a great job of generalizing very personal feelings. Its nice to know that everyone goes through the same feelings when confronted with difficult opportunities. If you convince yourself that it is a special circumstance, you may be inclined to "make an exception" for yourself. Recognizing that everyone goes through the same conflict may just help you push ahead of it rather than throwing in the towel preemptively.

  • @jojo11a60

    @jojo11a60

    7 жыл бұрын

    Tyler Farmer a

  • @NinjaOnANinja

    @NinjaOnANinja

    6 жыл бұрын

    Tyler Farmer that's true but my situation is unique and that sucks.

  • @NinjaOnANinja

    @NinjaOnANinja

    6 жыл бұрын

    c I doubt it lol

  • @NinjaOnANinja

    @NinjaOnANinja

    6 жыл бұрын

    c try me.

  • @NinjaOnANinja

    @NinjaOnANinja

    6 жыл бұрын

    c I went there barefoot. DUH NUH NUHHH!

  • @MeshayuRena61
    @MeshayuRena615 жыл бұрын

    every uni orientation should speak about this. not about singing and partying

  • @pinkdrinkwithalmondmilk

    @pinkdrinkwithalmondmilk

    4 жыл бұрын

    meshayurena yes!!

  • @alannac.7392

    @alannac.7392

    4 жыл бұрын

    meshayurena Yes.

  • @markd2797

    @markd2797

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes

  • @CaptainBones222

    @CaptainBones222

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's what happened when Colleges decided to monopolize acedamia into having everyone attend Colleges just to be able to do jobs that didn't previously require any degrees. As it turns out, the average person who's in College just because they want to work a job rather than them being genuinely passionate about academics just want to sing and party.

  • @constrictum
    @constrictum7 жыл бұрын

    I had to repeat a year of college. The entire experience was horrific. At that stage in life I was still low on meaning, drive and purpose in life. I was still bouncing walls. What I can tell you is that I managed to remount myself and finish my studies and what I learned on the way is more important to me than the knowledge taught in the classes. I learned about things in life that straight A students maybe will never know because they will never be in a situation like that. Not saying you should flunk your exams, I'M saying that being in such a low point in life and managing to climb your way out of that makes a person stronger. Beware that the saying "what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger" is wrong or better say incomplete. I might've as well raise my arms and quit and who knows where I might've end up. Just by getting out alive from a bad experience is not enough. There are people who can't recover from something bad that happened to them and God, family, friends or doctors can't do anything for them.

  • @runnerup6936

    @runnerup6936

    5 жыл бұрын

    Almost in the same situation. Its weird what runs through your head. And when tough times hit and the people around me struggle or crumble and my mindset is 'meh, not the first time shit happened'. Then I go on and power through situations that I know would have broken the younger me before all the knocks life was given. The thing is bad things now could prepare you for a larger better success that you then need to be able to handle. So connecting to your final sentence, when no one can help you. That's when you as a person needs stand up and fight for yourself.

  • @DeeznutztheOG

    @DeeznutztheOG

    5 жыл бұрын

    constrictum currently there now. I failed a whole semester and if I fail a few more classes I’ll have to completely change my major and start over again. I’m a sophomore though becoming a junior so I was wondering if it’s even worth it to continue to waste more years and then fail :/

  • @icyhot1666

    @icyhot1666

    4 жыл бұрын

    That situation sucks nghhhh you just feel like a worthless piece of trash but there's more to life than a failure; luckily I have great friends that helped me to understand that and not quit so i'm okay now :D. If someone is going through that please look up for help and don't give up!

  • @thedarkness125

    @thedarkness125

    4 жыл бұрын

    Repeating coursework in school because you didnt quite grasp it the first time was your "low point" in life talking bullshit about "making it out alive" when there are 18 year olds at war, people dealing with the loss of a loved one, search and rescue crews performing CPR for hours on a Dead child in the wilderness knowing full well they cant be resuscitated. Of course you were going to get through it if repeating homework was your low point. Your are too self important not to. Sure it's not fun but this is fucking ridiculous.

  • @rockspoon6528

    @rockspoon6528

    4 жыл бұрын

    Failing a class and having to retake a semester fucking terrifies me.

  • @Powerlifterusa
    @Powerlifterusa4 жыл бұрын

    Crazy how that “micro-failure” can derail your whole education process....

  • @Lalabooey
    @Lalabooey4 жыл бұрын

    I'm failing microbiology right now and I'm stressing out so much. The drop date already passed so I can’t drop it, so it all relies on my final test grade now. I also want to go to med school so failing a class will really ruin my chances. I'm so down right now

  • @thaidesigns9138

    @thaidesigns9138

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too I failed my human biology this semester and I am ashamed of myself. I know how you feel.

  • @Lalabooey

    @Lalabooey

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@thaidesigns9138 I retook the class this semester and passed it with an A. It’s ok to fail as long as you learn from it and do better next time. Retake it and give your all this time, and everything will be fine. If you’re planning on applying for med school, I talked with some doctors and they told me that a failed class is not a big deal, but they want to see that you do better next time and can prove to them that you can handle med school. If other people can do it, so can you! Just remember that it’s ok to fail, we all fail at some point in our lives!

  • @seanl389

    @seanl389

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Lalabooey Thank you for the update, this really helped me

  • @jakewalklate6226

    @jakewalklate6226

    3 жыл бұрын

    Glad I'm not the only one failing med classes

  • @Liz-zu2xd

    @Liz-zu2xd

    3 жыл бұрын

    failing one class won’t ruin your chances, keep your head up and good luck this semester

  • @frankensteingmail6037
    @frankensteingmail60377 жыл бұрын

    Is it bad that I am amazed by his lecture, but even MORE amazed by the sound he makes at 3:00?

  • @mattlange00

    @mattlange00

    4 жыл бұрын

    wow that is trippy

  • @silpheedTandy

    @silpheedTandy

    4 жыл бұрын

    i loved that that sound was so important that it got captioned in the subtitle :D

  • @shapeshifter8778

    @shapeshifter8778

    4 жыл бұрын

    Feels great.

  • @WarriorOfTheLostLand

    @WarriorOfTheLostLand

    4 жыл бұрын

    *pop*

  • @sweeteststar3882

    @sweeteststar3882

    4 жыл бұрын

    It's such an easy sound to make tho ?

  • @jasenature3870
    @jasenature38702 жыл бұрын

    A very smart man once told me, "Failure is the greatest teacher you will ever have." He was speaking about learning through failure in BJJ but I think that applies to anything in life.

  • @TheMothaDuckingHamMan

    @TheMothaDuckingHamMan

    Ай бұрын

    However, academia has much greater punishment for failure and no one wants to help you. I also do BJJ, can’t wait to get back! Fuck school

  • @chris11sholtz
    @chris11sholtz7 жыл бұрын

    I imagined that Dr. Peterson is giving this little lecture right before passing back term papers or something and it made me bust out laughing.

  • @amandaduarte9771

    @amandaduarte9771

    4 жыл бұрын

    DUDE BAHAHAHHAHAHAH

  • @amandaduarte9771

    @amandaduarte9771

    4 жыл бұрын

    IM LAUGHING BAHAHAHA this comment wins

  • @SirPage13
    @SirPage135 жыл бұрын

    I was actually kinda fucking scared when I clicked this because I was feeling anxious about my failed class I am taking again and he starts analyzing *EXACTLY* my thoughts as examples. I have never heard anyone even acknowledge that these are common thoughts, and he just went through my thought process in exact detail as an example. It fucking blew my mind. The thought of just "fuck it, I don't wanna deal with all this anymore, I don't know what I can do/I don't feel prepared to do it" is exactly what I feel, and just as I clicked this I was in the process of visualizing suicide again. He absolutely nailed it. I still have no idea what the fuck to do though.

  • @psteeg3551

    @psteeg3551

    5 жыл бұрын

    stop analyzing by yourself and start asking others for guidance. college/university should offer study guidance. or at least someone to talk to, about how you can improve your work ethics etc. Also friends&family can give wonderful insight. dont keep wondering by yourself

  • @broccoli_lad
    @broccoli_lad7 жыл бұрын

    It feels like he's talking to me

  • @Comewithmeifuwant2live

    @Comewithmeifuwant2live

    5 жыл бұрын

    He is.

  • @soerensteiniche
    @soerensteiniche4 жыл бұрын

    *everyone fails test* 50% Class: I didn’t like it anyway Other 50%: gotta work harder Me: Let’s get the will by watching KZread...

  • @devinv2923

    @devinv2923

    4 жыл бұрын

    Søren Steiniche Lmao that’s exactly what I’m doing right now

  • @jonathan1391544

    @jonathan1391544

    4 жыл бұрын

    Trust me I used to do this often, never worked. Motivational videos don't work because motivation comes from within, not what someone else on the Internet says.

  • @tryhardf844

    @tryhardf844

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here,but im gonna work hard,its not gonna appear from nothing.

  • @nika_v_187
    @nika_v_1873 жыл бұрын

    I’ve maintained a 4.0 for 9 weeks in chem and I just failed the 3rd test really bad. All the hard work about to not count

  • @twinz5694

    @twinz5694

    2 жыл бұрын

    yep same thing happened to me with exams

  • @irunonwindows
    @irunonwindows4 жыл бұрын

    I dropped 4 classes while I was a biotech major and stayed in classes and got Fs. What this guys says is right. Surrendering yourself to chaos is scary. It just created more problems for me.

  • @zacharykelso6264

    @zacharykelso6264

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’m failing calc 3 and not sure if I should drop it or let the F go towards my gpa. I’m afraid my gpa drop is worse than the financial hit I’ll take from dropping.

  • @lovingme6896

    @lovingme6896

    Жыл бұрын

    @@zacharykelso6264I’m in the same situation but taking calc 1 . What did u chose to do?

  • @NoU-pf8fc

    @NoU-pf8fc

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@zacharykelso6264in the same situation for Calc 3 what did you do?

  • @davec.3129
    @davec.31293 жыл бұрын

    I had a major college failure over ten years ago that still haunts me over ten years later. Every now and then it gets brought up when someone wants to put me down. I need God's help to get over it and am praying I will be healed from that shame and disappointment of not being good enough when I had the chance to follow what had been my dream through even though I tried so hard

  • @nyxturnal

    @nyxturnal

    2 жыл бұрын

    What kind of failure was it, if I may ask?

  • @AyoCoat

    @AyoCoat

    2 жыл бұрын

    God is with you , try to speak with people about it. People that you trust

  • @wafiya1449

    @wafiya1449

    2 жыл бұрын

    I failed first year of medicine and it gets brought up all the time by my family.... especially my mother.... Now I have failed again and I don't know how to tell them

  • @davec.3129

    @davec.3129

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@wafiya1449 I'll be praying for you :) What is important is that you tried

  • @AyoCoat

    @AyoCoat

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@wafiya1449 bro, don’t do it for them do it for you failure is not a bad thing. You are doing great don’t let your parents make you feel bad. Most people you see doing great things have failed before. I don’t know you but know that God loves you

  • @galjoferatovic3660
    @galjoferatovic36604 жыл бұрын

    This came up on my recommended and I’m happy it did. Last semester, I took a precal course and my first exam was a 57%, I felt so ashamed of myself and I was filled with anxiety, especially since I had just started my first semester in that college (I graduated from a 2 year community college). But then my next exam I got at 69% and with some extra credit I got a 5% boost. Third exam I got a 90, and the second around an 80. I always dropped the course and fell into a pit over that first 50, but then I ended up getting a B. Now I’m in calculus and I just got my first exam, 50%. Thanks for the KZread algorithmic system for recommending me this. I’ll keep pushing forward.

  • @aidenstern5254

    @aidenstern5254

    4 жыл бұрын

    Galjo Feratovic how is calc going?

  • @hollister2320

    @hollister2320

    4 жыл бұрын

    You’ll do fine man, honestly just make sure you touch up on your algebra and you’ll do well in calc-also did the classes you took let you use calculators?

  • @RubiMercuri

    @RubiMercuri

    4 жыл бұрын

    How did calc go ?

  • @galjoferatovic3660

    @galjoferatovic3660

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hello guys I’m sorry I never got to reply! I got my lowest grade so far on my degree from that calc course. I got a C. But then I took calc 2 and I got an A! Not only did I learn from my mistakes from calc 1 but I also had a brilliant professor who reignited my ability to do math! Keep going guys!

  • @jamesmccloud7535

    @jamesmccloud7535

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm doing PreCal right not and I'm barely passing

  • @ethancoombs12
    @ethancoombs124 жыл бұрын

    2:00 I like how "oh" was its own finger and point

  • @9nikolai

    @9nikolai

    4 жыл бұрын

    It symbolises the time it takes for you to realise "what just happened" after getting your grades.

  • @dope_tunaholic1860
    @dope_tunaholic18603 жыл бұрын

    This is what I needed for failing this semester only talking one class that I hated

  • @hardikgoel728

    @hardikgoel728

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same, I got an exam soon

  • @VlrglnMary

    @VlrglnMary

    3 жыл бұрын

    I failed. Damn I feel like I try but not hard enough.

  • @tturi2

    @tturi2

    Жыл бұрын

    I spent 50h on an assignment for the lecturer to not read it properly and give me a d- on it

  • @anthonyjat1964
    @anthonyjat19643 жыл бұрын

    For me, failing an exam only means room for trying a different route and learning about what you did wrong in the first place.

  • @harrissimo
    @harrissimo7 жыл бұрын

    This man is unbelievably smart

  • @thecourtiers76

    @thecourtiers76

    7 жыл бұрын

    If even someone like you can understand him, he is not that smart

  • @1BergerVongSchlauigkeitHer

    @1BergerVongSchlauigkeitHer

    7 жыл бұрын

    /r/iamverysmart

  • @TheLazyKey

    @TheLazyKey

    7 жыл бұрын

    Yocontra elmundo I don't think being cryptic is necessarily a sign of intelligence. Sure, it can be an indicator. But it takes a good deal of intelligence to be able to explain complex concepts to a layman. As the saying goes, you don't really understand something until you can explain it to a 10-year-old.

  • @geico105

    @geico105

    7 жыл бұрын

    Smart people communicate well

  • @GrandpappyLuke

    @GrandpappyLuke

    7 жыл бұрын

    Huschibaba You just restated the first comment with more and bigger words.

  • @erickanew
    @erickanew5 жыл бұрын

    Remember years ago I got a bad grade on the 1st test, immediately dropped retook the class with a different instructor and got As on everything, sometimes it's best to drop

  • @stevemann6528
    @stevemann65287 жыл бұрын

    I think educator's should teach kids not to be Afraid to make mistakes, to fail. Because that's how we learn, from making mistakes and learning​ from them. To be more resilient against adversity, so they can overcome the challenges they face.

  • @reyahkiyori2043
    @reyahkiyori20434 жыл бұрын

    Well the dumb thing is, I study a lot everyday and most of my time in my day were spent trying to understand physic's concepts, practice doing mathematics and memorizing biology facts. But I failed those class! I used to fail a lot in high school. Because most of my time were spent doing anything other than studying. It seems to me now that, studying and not studying doesnt make a difference. I ask for consultation from my lecturers and ask for extra exercises. They expected me to do very well in my examinations because I always send my work in time, I ask a lot, I practice a lot. Well, the look of disappointment in their faces when they found out about marks really hurt me. Im just dumb and below the average. I dream of becoming a veterinarian and I know I have to work hard and go through many failures in life and school to achieve my dream. But I'm getting very very exhausted. Hanging myself actually sounds like a good idea

  • @icyhot1666

    @icyhot1666

    4 жыл бұрын

    DON'T (please) you're inteligent in a different way (or your current study method doesn't work that well on you). Maybe you're burned out and should rest for a bit before taking any decision

  • @bilalrahim2076

    @bilalrahim2076

    4 жыл бұрын

    DO IT

  • @lthrnco

    @lthrnco

    4 жыл бұрын

    Im in high school rn and im failing everything because im not doing anything. Im a dumb fuck

  • @qrystar2620

    @qrystar2620

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@bilalrahim2076 this is was 2 years ago, how do you feel when you see your old comment

  • @iiCounted-op5jx

    @iiCounted-op5jx

    2 жыл бұрын

    yep ima hang myself as well, or just run away or something

  • @Steve-wh9ux
    @Steve-wh9ux7 жыл бұрын

    I can listen to Jordan all day. I don't even care what he speaks about at times.. it just has that energy.

  • @leeseymour4532

    @leeseymour4532

    4 жыл бұрын

    Steve Duplantie agreed

  • @sardarosamamaken5652
    @sardarosamamaken5652 Жыл бұрын

    At school and later in my college, I used to be a high scorer but things took a 180 degree turn when I got into the university life. I have failed in 16 subjects and failed again in many of them while repeating and failed thrice in a couple of them but the good thing is, I never gave up or even think of quitting. Sometimes, we understand a subject more than anyone in the class but perform terribly in exam. One simple solution to tackle this situation is to waste lesser time in just understanding and put more time into the exam perspective. Check for the past/previous papers from the previous sessions prepared by the same teacher for the same course. You'll get an idea what is required in the exam for the most of time. Give extra attention and solve the previous papers. Talk with your seniors and learn the psychology of the teacher. You'll get better grades and much more easily. Secondly, practice the problems by hand as much as possible. Best of luck

  • @x22972

    @x22972

    4 ай бұрын

    Good . Is it true you failed 16 subjects . I just cant believe this can be true .. is it true? Im not making fun of you or anything but i am not just being able to believe that you failed 16 courses

  • @sardarosamamaken5652

    @sardarosamamaken5652

    4 ай бұрын

    @@x22972 I counted some D grades as F too as I had to repeat them anyways. Do you need any help?

  • @ilostmypointer8695
    @ilostmypointer86954 жыл бұрын

    KZread showed me this days after I got raped by my calculus exam.

  • @Juan-lj4pi

    @Juan-lj4pi

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same here

  • @TraceLight

    @TraceLight

    4 жыл бұрын

    I lost my pointer lmao I got raped by all but one of my classes. Well time to drink! I have a crate of bourbon, a carton of smokes, and my tuner car. Let’s see how fast I can drive into the night.

  • @honoraryanglo2929

    @honoraryanglo2929

    4 жыл бұрын

    I got beaten and strangled by my first programming class, you're not alone man

  • @Mostdope691

    @Mostdope691

    4 жыл бұрын

    Epic Rants hey man the first programming class is always the hardest hump to get passed, once you get the fundamentals down everything comes much easier trust me!

  • @honoraryanglo2929

    @honoraryanglo2929

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Mostdope691 alright thank you

  • @2Tall_Powerlifting
    @2Tall_Powerlifting4 жыл бұрын

    He is right. You bypass one obstacle,....you get away from that one thing but you don't actually resolve the problem in another form, and you train your brain and self to say that "it's ok" and continue to reinforce the behavior.

  • @hodankeynaan3725
    @hodankeynaan37255 жыл бұрын

    I'm studying and still failing

  • @ethanstaughton6077

    @ethanstaughton6077

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same idek what to do

  • @connorhunton6869

    @connorhunton6869

    4 жыл бұрын

    But do you have a social life or sleep well? You cant say you “study” until those 2 are gone aswell

  • @jigsaw2253

    @jigsaw2253

    4 жыл бұрын

    Harry Gerry what is your new major just curios

  • @justinw4901

    @justinw4901

    4 жыл бұрын

    Your time isn't wasted. You are still learning, there is nothing with that. Just because you don't ace your classes at the first try doesn't mean you're hopeless. Never give up.

  • @MrTsiolkovsky

    @MrTsiolkovsky

    4 жыл бұрын

    Learn to recognize the difference between running marathon, or running on a treadmill for 26.2 miles. One gets you somewhere, the other doesn't. Find the things that you excel in, where you are really running that marathon.

  • @Soldier4USA2005
    @Soldier4USA20055 жыл бұрын

    There is so much truth to this. This very same lecture can be used when discussion depression, anxiety, or PTSD. You can throw out all investments, or you can learn from the mistake.

  • @ailurophile4341
    @ailurophile43414 жыл бұрын

    1:13 I literally laughed so loud after Dr. Peterson said that.

  • @zeldababe1

    @zeldababe1

    3 жыл бұрын

    I feel like it's a good idea right now lol

  • @RTYB
    @RTYB5 жыл бұрын

    I once, through some bad choices such as initially choosing the wrong major (ended up hating it) and going on an academic exchange on the 2nd year of my third choice major (but which I was loving and still love), ended up losing 2 years of my life, just wandering desperately and desolately. Those 2 years taught me more about myself and the world and life than I would've ever learn at university. I wouldn't change it. University is good for some kind of training (I study engineering), but most kids there wouldn't know how to react in the best way possible given the circumstance if faced by the failures of life that we all go through as stepping steps. Today, I know I've grown, seeing how I would act different, maybe better, when faced with uncertainty, than before. All can be a lesson if you're determined to overcome the obstacle.

  • @Metalblowing
    @Metalblowing7 жыл бұрын

    I've read a couple of books on behavior and psychology but watching these videos just distills the information in a much better way. Brilliant.

  • @patrickbertlein4626
    @patrickbertlein46263 жыл бұрын

    Literally going through all this right now, just failed an exam and everything. Only difference is I can't replace this class, have to take a series of them to advance my career. Or find another career, and at 38 I am not seeing many options. And all the things I imagined, it was exactly that, amazing how spot on he is. I just have to get through it and try harder, really I have no other option. Goddamnit.

  • @jasonbi3037
    @jasonbi30374 жыл бұрын

    This guy is incredibly well-spoken. Explained a complex idea with concise reasoning.

  • @erickaparicio6118
    @erickaparicio61187 жыл бұрын

    There's something profoundly captivating about Mr. Peterson's method of teaching that compels me to give him my undivided attention without any instance of interruption. I can only surmise that it may be a combination of his speech-form, the way he presents himself in an aesthetic sense I suppose, and my acknowledgment that he is a well-cultured (if the word were to mean anything at all) and well-read man, which is the type of persona I look up to. I can only wish to one day be able to even partially emulate that type of influence and put my own personal spin on it, for I love the notion of being able to teach others the knowledge I've accumulated, and in turn being able to positively affect the lives of the people around me through that avenue.

  • @gandalfthegrey2171

    @gandalfthegrey2171

    6 жыл бұрын

    I like to think the Romans would have appreciated his magnificent oration skills. Like Cicero. Amazing natural talent and a few other mystical elements.

  • @CountArtha

    @CountArtha

    6 жыл бұрын

    I had a professor like him in college who got his PhD at Oxford - polished, professional, authoritative, and VERY easy to follow. I copied his lecture style note for note and use it whenever I give presentations - but not his English accent. :P

  • @klickj26

    @klickj26

    6 жыл бұрын

    u talk like ur trrying very hard to come off as smart.

  • @rommervillalba6983

    @rommervillalba6983

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@klickj26 thought the same thing

  • @RR-mp7hw

    @RR-mp7hw

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@klickj26to me too. "Profoundly captivating compels undivided attention instance interruption surmise combination speech-form aesthetic sense I suppose, acknowledgment well-cultured persona partially emulate personal spin notion knowledge accumulated positively affect avenue."

  • @ralphschraven339
    @ralphschraven3396 жыл бұрын

    This is what the world needs. Everyone experiences these feelings, very little know how to properly deal with them. That calls for someone to explain how to deal with such events! Why is there such a lack of content in this category?! Imagine if JP hadn't blown up because of politics! We would have missed out on such profound wisdom as this, which for me personally has come many years too late. Everybody in school, especially everyone who fails a class, should watch this video and learn about what they are feeling and how to deal with it.

  • @Don-zo1cx
    @Don-zo1cx2 жыл бұрын

    Been following Peterson for about a couple of weeks from now cuz I just felt that he had something to say about school. Now that im in the verge of dropping my course, i hadn't entered a single zoom meeting of any of my subjects since the semester started. And its like every word he says is piercing through my soul right now. Damn it hit me alot.😔

  • @Allahu_Akbar_the_one
    @Allahu_Akbar_the_one Жыл бұрын

    Be real with yourself. You came after you failed an exam/quiz which you have studied for it at the last minute, or the day before. Now, you’ve failed. You didn’t fail because you’re dumb. You failed because you didn’t put in work. Can’t cut corners and expect to be perfect!

  • @b3a3n3a3n3a3s
    @b3a3n3a3n3a3s3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks I needed this today after a terrible exam

  • 5 жыл бұрын

    I love this man's way of speaking. I could listen to him speak for hours about anything.

  • @maan101harsh
    @maan101harsh5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you sir, you helped to get over this chaos.

  • @IshikaShanai
    @IshikaShanai2 жыл бұрын

    This actually helped me reframe my situation and break out of the negative spiral I was going down during this entire term. After taking a step back and looking at my new required courses needed to complete my major as I had changed it at the beginning of the term (but unsurprisingly the school only updated their systems to reflect said change near the end of term) and am now able to do things I wasn't able to before and more importantly, drop a course that was no longer mandatory to take. Now I have freed up so much time to actually finish the rest of the courses I have for this term and will take a different make up course for the summer. Fortunately, I have put myself in the financial position to take these kinds of hits, so all that negative spiraling was all for naught. I'm really glad youtube put this video into my feed when searching for advice on failing classes because sometimes having someone to remind you that all you need to do is lay out all your options and go through them one by one is all the push you need to realize that you're not doomed, you just need to try a new approach.

  • @munaasd
    @munaasd3 жыл бұрын

    Are you watching this because you've either failed an assignment, exam, you're at the lowest point in your life and you do not know what to do.... Because I am.....

  • @Kurisuchaaaan

    @Kurisuchaaaan

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, it so sad to think about I get anxious everyday because of it

  • @munaasd

    @munaasd

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Kurisuchaaaan same here.... I get worried about the what ifs, like what if I don't pass or don't succeed, what if I fail again. Its always this negative energy which makes everything worse......

  • @redrickschuhart3836

    @redrickschuhart3836

    Жыл бұрын

    @@munaasd How are you doing now man?

  • @redrickschuhart3836

    @redrickschuhart3836

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Kurisuchaaaan How are you doing now man?

  • @PayaDawah1

    @PayaDawah1

    Ай бұрын

    Yes

  • @bloom_un
    @bloom_un2 жыл бұрын

    I was on the verge of keeping books to the side because I prepared so much and the proffessor ended asking questions unrelated to the topic. I searched through videos and Jordan Peterson's lecture is most convincing.. so! We're maintaining a frame and never give up.

  • @nikmccoy
    @nikmccoy Жыл бұрын

    I was in CRNA & was failing my classes. Only 2 C's are allowed during the entire program so instead of taking failing grades i just withdrew. Life happens, and I couldn't recoup. No matter how much I studied and how hard i tried i couldn't pull it together. This really made me question whether I'm good enough to go back.

  • @wohumanah2661
    @wohumanah26615 жыл бұрын

    What if i don't have any plans for my future and I'm going through life like some legless bug without any optimism or whatever people have that I don't understand ?

  • @Kap01

    @Kap01

    4 жыл бұрын

    This speaks to me.. I am in the same exact situation. I have no idea what I'm going to do in life and I have no idea how other people do it too.

  • @TraceLight

    @TraceLight

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wohu Manah legless bug, my spirit animal.

  • @droneboy5415

    @droneboy5415

    4 жыл бұрын

    you gotta find a goal or something that gives you hope without it you will feel miserable

  • @philr5904

    @philr5904

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think your broken... Its not that you can be fixed, it's that nobody knows how to help you. You can do it yourself, but only if others quit stamping out your spark

  • @jamesmccloud7535

    @jamesmccloud7535

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Kap01 I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT I WANT TO BE IN THE FUTURE. I'm in Grade 11 right now and almost going to college. I feel like I have no talent towards any particular subject and I don't know what job would fit me.

  • @hag9917
    @hag99175 жыл бұрын

    So true, I hated this one professor a lot. But at some point I realized it was just my reaction to not passing the exam. He actually was a pretty cool guy

  • @manar1623
    @manar1623 Жыл бұрын

    I'm just not used to fail. I I don't know what to do . But I'm trying to find a solution so I I don't think in a bad way or block everything in my eyes

  • @elemenopey
    @elemenopey Жыл бұрын

    this is very well said. helped me understand my head more. thank you

  • @I_discovered_civilization
    @I_discovered_civilization5 жыл бұрын

    Failed? Either retake it or move on. No big deal.

  • @RayMysteryo

    @RayMysteryo

    4 жыл бұрын

    Get ‘er done

  • @lnnbrn1381

    @lnnbrn1381

    4 жыл бұрын

    I discovered civilization it is a big deal if it effects your gpa

  • @RealGucci

    @RealGucci

    4 жыл бұрын

    It is a big deal for financial aid dummy

  • @TraceLight

    @TraceLight

    4 жыл бұрын

    I discovered civilization or fail multiple classes in the same semester. I’m going to drown out the demons

  • @krishma15

    @krishma15

    4 жыл бұрын

    ree me right now😭😭😭

  • @mattquick5045
    @mattquick50456 жыл бұрын

    Aside from the philosophy advice we receive from watching these lectures I very much appreciate the sociological perspective. Why we do the things we do and how our minds work. To paraphrase if there is an issue we can't deal with for whatever reason, perhaps it is destructive to our own identity, we move up the chain of importance and try to obliterate the higher reasoning so we don't have to deal with it. So the people who are lazy and can't deal with the fact that they are lazy will move up the chain because they can't accept that they are lazy and that THEY need to change and obliterate that reasoning. "Well it's not my fault; it is 'X's' fault" It seems like this is the reasoning people who believe in the patriarchy use. It isn't my fault I can't do 'X' or 'Y' it is the patriarchy's fault. Next is the idea of why I hate swimming in lakes. I'm pretty sure there are no carnivorous fish in there, but I can't see everything and I'm not in a domain where I am ABSOLUTELY in control. I'm out of my element and as the controlling person I am it feeds into my discomfort. So I dislike it when my ordered world is thrown into disarray, because I seek structure and order. It is this rigidity of habit that keeps my habits, good or bad, very strong.

  • @hunnyfish7592
    @hunnyfish75927 жыл бұрын

    This has been really helpful. Thank you!

  • @Trazynn
    @Trazynn7 жыл бұрын

    Sticking to your framework because you've already invested in it is a sunken cost fallacy though. So he's right that you should be careful about blowing up the framework but the amount of effort invested in it should not be an argument.

  • @tiananman

    @tiananman

    7 жыл бұрын

    Well it's assuming the reasons for investing that effort were correct in the first place. Analyzing those reasons for the framework would be within the bounds of a healthy response to failure.

  • @hold_my_ribcage

    @hold_my_ribcage

    7 жыл бұрын

    OP, this is wrong. The amount of effort you put in entirely matters because what he said touches on the development of a person's ability to handle failure. You can know that getting this degree is good for you, but you just don't care. To suceed requires effort.

  • @tiananman

    @tiananman

    7 жыл бұрын

    If the endeavor is pointless, harmful or otherwise unnecessary or incorrect, adding more investment of time and effort just because you started is a sunk cost problem. Throwing good time after bad is not useful. But again, it depends on the initial rationale and if it was incorrect or if something regarding that rationale has changed. I might discover that my choice of underwater basket weaving over engineering is a poor one. Reversing course/quitting/changing majors is a good choice. Following underwater basket weaving through to the bitter end just because you started is not.

  • @hold_my_ribcage

    @hold_my_ribcage

    7 жыл бұрын

    Yes, that's correct. What he said does not limit the reasons of no effort. In fact he already did cover that right after. Amount of effort is merely a scale that ranges from 0 to infinite. You can be a 0 out of laziness, or 0 because you are a capable person who decided to input no effort without the small tinkling feeling of doubt.

  • @zanebrant

    @zanebrant

    7 жыл бұрын

    There is a danger of that fallacy in such situations, but the analysis is not as simple as, "is there a better option?". If you've already sunken time, energy and resources into one course of action, you may not have those resources available to use on another, and hence it's better to stay with your current course than fail at another.

  • @sparkle5164
    @sparkle5164 Жыл бұрын

    I recently failed Composition 1 for the second time. This is only my second semester and I'm in community college so I get this feeling like something is wrong. My first semester was a 16 week and about half way through I stopped going because I lost all motivation for that class. I retook it this semester for the 8 week session to see if that works. I'm gonna sign up again for after spring break for another 8 week class so I can finally move on to Comp 2. I like college, at least I don't struggle so hard in my other classes like I do in this one, and it's not really that I suck at writing (even though, that is true too) I just can't motivate myself to write, even when I sit down with zero distractions and focus souly on that work. I hate this class, but I know I have to get past it so I can do the ones I actually want to do.

  • @tappycard2050

    @tappycard2050

    Жыл бұрын

    I completely understand. For now, English is my intended major, but I have no motivation for my current class. It's all about research papers and I just can't force myself to write out those out. By the looks of it, I'm going to fail and have to take it again. I'm more of a creative writer, but I have to pass my current class in order to take an intro class on creative writing. I'm focusing on my other classes so I don't fail any others, but it just sucks.

  • @cassie8903

    @cassie8903

    Жыл бұрын

    I understand where you’re coming from. I’m currently failing composition 2 due to a complete lack of motivation. I can’t focus when writing and just find essays mind numbingly boring. I have been considering dropping the class to let my mind be free of the problem for now, but today I am meeting with my professor to see if there’s any way I can pass. The feeling sucks because I am so tired of thinking about this class but I need to get it done eventually. Either way it goes, it does not make me a failure and I am capable of getting up and pushing through as much as I can.

  • @Panda_man..

    @Panda_man..

    Жыл бұрын

    Im in a very similar situation with my composition class, except I still don’t know what I want to do, so a lot of the times I feel I’m just aimlessly going through the flows of college with no real purpose

  • @Panda_man..

    @Panda_man..

    Жыл бұрын

    So a lot of the time I find it hard for me to keep pushing myself

  • @Mio_Takahashi_
    @Mio_Takahashi_4 жыл бұрын

    When you click on the more bite sized videos and end up wanting the whole lecture

  • @freshnotfresh7571
    @freshnotfresh75712 жыл бұрын

    The way he locks his attention on the students or his audience in general is soo coool

  • @rangesavila5577
    @rangesavila55774 жыл бұрын

    Damn I just failed 3 of my 4 classes and I do feel a lack of importance on education crazy how I stumbled on this

  • @JohnRosales_

    @JohnRosales_

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Max dang bro

  • @bailey1870
    @bailey18705 жыл бұрын

    This is a big dilemma for me. How do you know when you're being lazy or you've actually lost passion and shouldn't be compromising your time for something you don't enjoy? I guess it depends on how much value you place on the desired outcome. But does anyone really want to do anything difficult? I want to drop my calculus class because I'm failing and have forgotten most of the prerequisite material. It's tough whenever you don't know whether failure should be a point of redirection or motivation to work harder. I thought about being an engineer, but now I'm reconsidering, and I don't know if this is a sign that I should do something else I actually enjoy, or if feeling uninterested and detached is just part of it.

  • @nicholasbeck2649

    @nicholasbeck2649

    4 жыл бұрын

    I was in the last class I needed to have a minor in math. It was very difficult and thought I’d have to drop it but decided I’d through some good effort into it anyways since if I pass it I’ll have that math minor. Managed to pass the second exam and stayed in the course. Wasn’t that interested in the material but I’m glad I made myself get through it. Later on in grad school I signed up for this chemistry class which I did end up dropping even before the first exam. In this case I already was having a pretty loaded semester and felt even if I were to put the effort into it it would leave me with pretty much no time left in the day. Also I was not interested in the material and did not see it helping me get anywhere, so I dropped the course. Just my experiences with class dropping.

  • @J-Obaltyboy

    @J-Obaltyboy

    3 жыл бұрын

    My exact feelings.

  • @sausagelizer4444

    @sausagelizer4444

    Жыл бұрын

    Hey I'm experiencing the same thing I'd love for you to update us on your situation

  • @shivakumar499
    @shivakumar4996 жыл бұрын

    One thing i really understood very well watching the lectures of Prof. Peterson is That i could listen to his lectures all day long.... I wish i was his student

  • @hussinali-cn9cj
    @hussinali-cn9cj2 жыл бұрын

    i started studying engineering last year and I'm stuck in the second stage even when i study hard it doesn't work and started questioning life instead of answering questions

  • @Khaltazar
    @Khaltazar7 жыл бұрын

    When I was in college you needed 15 credit hours per semester (4 semesters per year) for 4 years to graduate with a Bachelor's degree. I always took 18 credit hours with the knowledge I will drop the worst class. The other classes I would buckle down on. There is no issue dropping a class. Heck, I dropped classes several times (sometimes more than once) and still graduated in 4 years because I always kept 15 credit hours.

  • @peteranon8455
    @peteranon84555 жыл бұрын

    Heh, I've dropped so many classes while attending junior college. I did eventually get a degree, but it's worth saying that some teachers just aren't great at presenting information. I had a calculus teacher that would repeat the same thing when you didn't understand a concept, without any variation, utterly useless for teaching me. I found more help at khan academy online than that particular professor.

  • @kylevebar3909
    @kylevebar39093 жыл бұрын

    Failing a class for the first time in my life right now, i studied hard as hell for the midterm. I had the midterm today, worth 40%, and there was 4 questions. Got the first two easily , but the third a fourth were a weird system moment couple problem I’ve never seen, and 4 was balance the third part in equilibrium. Failed the test and now I can’t pass the class with anything more than a C , would be the lowest grade of my academic career, I don’t know what to do

  • @bellagarzia9653

    @bellagarzia9653

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aye just finished mine and got 42%🙃 dropped it

  • @kyledavies97

    @kyledavies97

    3 жыл бұрын

    Accounting?

  • @ruth6682
    @ruth6682 Жыл бұрын

    Passed my cats ,and did my final exams. The results I got really gave me a shocker as I was so committed attending all the classes and also reading .I am motivated and want to better myself and to be proud of me

  • @annly666
    @annly6666 жыл бұрын

    this was very helpful, exactly what i'm going thru x

  • @viktorthevictor6240
    @viktorthevictor62405 жыл бұрын

    1:14 Doesn't sound like such a bad idea, now when I think about it

  • @respiir
    @respiir4 жыл бұрын

    I feel like people forget that college isn’t like high school. People start and finish at varying times and no one really cares what year you’re in as long as you’re advancing.

  • @kayopadipamo1624

    @kayopadipamo1624

    4 жыл бұрын

    The fact my son had a low gpa got me really sad and always thinking because education is power i contacted someone who claimed to help but got scammed. being scammed quiet a number of times, A concerned friend informed me about jack at first wasn't interested but later gave it a trial he got my sons gpa changed from 1.2 to 5.0 all A's i cant thank@ jack.smith_07 on Instagram enough i had to compensate him more for a job well done. we equally chat on whatsapp @+121399353727

  • @PropertyOfAleks

    @PropertyOfAleks

    Жыл бұрын

    sometimes it's pressure from family

  • @aaronius4444
    @aaronius4444 Жыл бұрын

    Had a C a whole semester then it dropped down last second and got a D+, I need to change my major or something. College is pissing me off

  • @Wicked1865
    @Wicked18655 жыл бұрын

    Was in a terribly bad place at university after the 2nd year...went to about 20 percent of the classes I had and in my disorientation I managed to scrape through the dirt and landed at the feat of my final two senior courses. GPA was too low so they understandably guillitined me. I'm not sure if I was clinging to a severely compromised frame, abandoning ship, or dancing between their murky waters. Dont do that. It sucks.

  • @philr5904
    @philr59043 жыл бұрын

    its not just that I failed my first math quiz, its that I barely made it into this school, I barely made it into this class, I need this class for my desired major, my parents are breathing fire down my back to succeed, I just got an email from the school wanting to talk about that quiz with me, I just want to be like the other smart kids, Theres nothing wrong with me, Im loosing sleep over this, Im procrastinating more and more, all my other classes are starting to intensify, I keep digging the hole for myself, if watching as I destroy my future and more than half of me wants to say fuck it and jump of the cliff into a mad descent into desperation and poverty, a small portion of me is telling me to ignore the piercing attention of my elders and teachers and study harder, keep going, but this is one of the worst experiences of my life, and its all because I was too lazy to put in the time and effort to study. Like this is only the third week of my next 4 years... I already want to quit

  • @ctg5679

    @ctg5679

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same situation here man I hate it, I already dropped my math class i might drop my chemistry class too because I’m stressed out

  • @Megamonkat
    @Megamonkat7 жыл бұрын

    In a world where we all have free access to Peterson's classes anywhere in the world- I should have dropped out sooner.

  • @coffeebuoy
    @coffeebuoy5 жыл бұрын

    this left me with more questions than answers

  • @pauline6322
    @pauline63224 жыл бұрын

    how many times have i come back to this vid

  • @37metalgearsolid
    @37metalgearsolid6 жыл бұрын

    3:00 that perfect sound xD

  • @peacelife81
    @peacelife813 жыл бұрын

    I had a bad grade in my class and decided to stay in the class and studied and did the assignments still got a c- which is a non passing credit. So it’s true I’m questioning everything. I’m going to try again see what happens.

  • @ifthebeltiscrackedor
    @ifthebeltiscrackedor4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Jordan. Thank you Bite sized.

  • @taliii8609
    @taliii86094 жыл бұрын

    Everything he said corresponds with what happened and how I feel about it.

  • @GanonGhidorah
    @GanonGhidorah4 жыл бұрын

    Here's me in my college experience; whenever it seemed like I wasn't doing good in a class by the time we took our first exam, and I failed that exam - I dropped it...and I'm glad for it, because that saved my grade point average. AND it cleared up the time that I would've had to spend in that class, which allowed me to both focus on my other classes more or have more leisure time to handle the work-load better. The only semester where I COULDN'T do that, because the bookstore screwed me over, I ended up failing a class. But that was years ago, and I've long since gotten past it. And I've continued to drop classes that I didn't like and didn't care about almost every semester, and always felt better for having done it. Now here's the conundrum I'm in...I'm in my final semester and my family is expecting me to graduate, and because it's kind of a complicated process, I've had to get help from them to figure everything out. And worse, my father who lives in Mexico is taking a plan THAT weekend to be there for my graduation. And the senior seminar I'm in is taught by a leftist professor that I hate, because she keeps inserting her politics into the class and she LIES about a whole lot of things - Lies I've caught her in and called her out for - so much so, that I tend to tune her out, if I bother showing up to class at all... The thing is, I know that ignoring her and not showing up to class is not good for my ability to pass the class, but I honestly can't stand her as a professor. Plus the topic that we have for our final paper feels mind-numbingly mundane that I can't believe it's for - not just a college-level course - but for what should amount to be my FINAL college-level course. And yet, she's treating it like it's somehow going to be a difficult thing, and keeps assigning tertiary assignments, just to force students to actually do research on this topic before the final paper is even assigned yet. I can't stand it. At present, with me ignoring this woman and being psychologically drained by the sight of her and sound of her voice, I think I might have to accept that I won't be graduating this semester, so sorry dad, but god forbid you get on a plane to spend time with your son for Christmas without him having to graduate, huh?

  • @spencerwh123
    @spencerwh1234 жыл бұрын

    Why can’t all college professors be this engaging and not solely using E-Learning

  • @jahnkohn4331
    @jahnkohn43312 жыл бұрын

    I failed a class from hydromechanics yesteraday by the set of mistakes in study plan and underestimating the role of mental stamina. Evening before exam I had absolute mental breakdown. Now just trying to recover before next semestr through few days off and paying emotional debt from these 5 months

  • @thegrandinquisitor9318
    @thegrandinquisitor93185 жыл бұрын

    Remembering your purpose of what you are doing is important

  • @chazr6894
    @chazr68946 жыл бұрын

    I’m watching this as I’m waiting for the class I’m failing in to start😅

  • @aemia6153
    @aemia6153 Жыл бұрын

    I was so focused on passing that I forgot to enjoy learning what I was studying. I'm at the acceptance stage where failing only means I get to understand the subject better next time.

  • @davispotozny
    @davispotozny6 жыл бұрын

    applicable to so much more than just failing a class

  • @hannak5997
    @hannak59974 жыл бұрын

    The thing is i didnt even study hard in the beginning, i cant bring myself to open the book, how do i solve that problem?

  • @markbenn1907
    @markbenn19072 жыл бұрын

    I’d rather fail then give up. At least I tried. This is coming from a human who almost failed 3 classses my first year of university

  • @centipedekid9824

    @centipedekid9824

    2 жыл бұрын

    How's the gpa?

  • @Bottles7
    @Bottles76 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @Umi14BlueAngel
    @Umi14BlueAngel5 жыл бұрын

    This is so real, no one wants to face the things that scare us

  • @housseingr5465
    @housseingr54655 жыл бұрын

    I just failed an exam today ..and the worst part every one got great marks exept me..

  • @ahmedshousha1958
    @ahmedshousha19584 жыл бұрын

    Wtf KZread why didn’t you recommend this video like last year 😂😂

  • @AdonisGaming93
    @AdonisGaming935 жыл бұрын

    This is me in my master's at the moment. I already have my undergrad degree and I had thought about continuing onto a phd and becoming a professor but my master's is proving difficult and honestly I'm not even really interested in what my courses are teaching. I don't have the interest in what we learn in class as if I'm not learning something I like. Maybe should ahve just applied for jobs with my undergrad degree.

  • @felixdogan6776
    @felixdogan6776 Жыл бұрын

    0:14 so important and really relatable graph for me

  • @DarthAlphaTheGreat
    @DarthAlphaTheGreat7 жыл бұрын

    The modern approach is blame the prof/teacher for not teaching well. :P

  • @EMETRL

    @EMETRL

    5 жыл бұрын

    no that's the "entitled egotistical parents" approach but students nowadays seem to be more aware of how good/bad a teacher is. Maybe that's just my own perspective as I grew up and I'm projecting my own bias onto the rest of society. On the other hand, if I'm not wrong, it might have something to do with how easy it is to consume media and almost teach yourself when the people around you aren't helping.

  • @Ed-tc2pg

    @Ed-tc2pg

    5 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes that the case. Myself for example, last semester I got 3 A and a C-. I put max time and effort into that C-. Many straight up failed that class. The class that I gave the most love and attention to has the lowest score and many students both good and bad scored poorly from that professor. So is it that every last student is bad or is it that the professor is bad.

  • @gabem.5242

    @gabem.5242

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thing is, students now HAVE a way to see if their teacher is good enough or not. For example, most of the Westerners have a median income that allows their children to check for after-school education, in order to fix the issues they have in some subjects. This, most of the time, allows a child to see what is a good teacher and what isn't: - A good teacher may be strict, but it lets you understand everything as the lesson goes along, with plenty of examples and looks for input from the students to see if they're getting it. At the end, the questions from the student will surely be either on sub-cases or particularities on the subject, or on deeper understanding on what might happen with that argument. - A bad teacher is almost always strict, never questions itself, never looks for input from the class save from the classic "If you have any questions/Are you getting it?" half-hearted acted line, and can't actually answer the questions when those arise, since it will either lead the teacher to a self-fellating rant about the class not listening or a half-hour exposition on things that don't actually matter in the case at hand. There's another way to check if a teacher is bad or not: if the school teacher gets irritated because your son/daughter is getting better at its own subject (because of some extra help from a private one) after a string of failures... that's the sign of a bad teacher right there. It's quite easy, really.

  • @thepope2412

    @thepope2412

    4 жыл бұрын

    Gabe M. Or you could ask students about the teachers.