Where to get help: • Lifeline: 0800 543 354 (available 24/7) • Suicide Crisis Helpline: 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO) (available 24/7) • Youthline: 0800 376 633 • Kidsline: 0800 543 754 (available 24/7) • Whatsup: 0800 942 8787 (Mon-Fri 1pm to 10pm. Sat-Sun 3pm-10pm) • Depression helpline: 0800 111 757 (available 24/7) • Rainbow Youth: (09) 376 4155 • Samaritans 0800 726 666 • If it is an emergency and you feel like you or someone else is at risk, call 111. (www.nzherald.co.nz/nz/news/article.cfm?c_id=1&objectid=11820374)

@ps3Hubbards

7 жыл бұрын

As the uploader are you able to pin this comment?

@PhoebeGrigor

7 жыл бұрын

Apparently so, good idea!

@ethanwalker6065

7 жыл бұрын

They helped me, and they've helped others you should really watch what u say bout this stuff

@JKA-vj9mh

7 жыл бұрын

Ethan Walker i get 💰 from thid

You did the right thing Jono, if what you did saves just one life, it was all worth it.

Aw man Jono you are so brave. You kept it together so well ... My deepest sympathies to you and your whanau

Big ups to Jono for speaking out about something that is not talked about enough, im sure he has saved somebodys life already.

Rest In Peace Timmy. 5 Years and it’s still so raw. We love you x x

The whimper around the end is what gets me...

So sad to see the bro like this... may his friend rest in peace.

@amyfinn8660

7 жыл бұрын

Antonio Tutua RIP

*respect* Jono, *respect - real men have emotions, real men have tears - *respect* - much love and kia kaha

Depression grows the more you try to deal with it on your own. Just giving yourself at least one shoulder to lean on by speaking out can make the world of a difference to you and others around you, so speak up and talk about it for you as well your friends and family ❤️

@JonnyUnderrated

7 жыл бұрын

Absolutely. But its hard....Its So hard to tell the people that love you that you suffer. Its ironic but its the hardest thing to do , is tell the people that love you the most that youre troubled. You dont want to seem "weak" , you dont want to seem powerless. You want to put the face on because you love them so much and you dont want them to think less of you.

@dill7573

7 жыл бұрын

JonnyUnderrated I couldn't agree more, by thinking that you would look "weak" by saying your not 100% and suffering from mental illness to your family but what I guess they need to understand is that it only makes you stronger by being able to do what most people wouldn't and just talk about it with them

@veeteebarri

7 жыл бұрын

life is always going to be hard, that's why you are here. There is always a purpose of everything, whether its something you say, something you touch or something you do. Sometime's not thinking at all is bliss... center yourself.... breath and live the moment.. its all good...your not weak.. your here adding value with your existence....

Tough to watch but something that needs to be heard and super courageous for Jono to express his compassion and feelings for those in need after such a heartbreaking loss of a mate.

If any of you feels like calling one of those lines now, don't wait. Here's a list of suicide help lines per country: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_suicide_crisis_lines . Don't wait. Call.

I've been in hos position. I know how hard it is to talk to anyone, let alone try to front on a national show. Good on Jono for speaking out, it just shows it can happen to anyone at anytime. talking to someone is only one step, we should never be afraid to ask "are you ok" to someone you think is suffering.

@amyfinn8660

7 жыл бұрын

Dave Watson It's good that he talked about it to get it off his should Very Brave

I have met Jono in real life. He is a really nice guy. May his friend Rest In Peace.

Deserves to be trending!

this acctually brakes my heart 😢

@thefrenchadventure

7 жыл бұрын

It is breaks, as in broken. Brakes are what you have on your car to come to a stop.

@Dawt_Calm

7 жыл бұрын

Maybe Jah meant that stops his heart. Why there are two C's in "actually" and no capitalization at the beginning or period at the end is beyond me.

@Sda-vh1or

7 жыл бұрын

Peta Dee 😂😂😂😂😂

@amyfinn8660

7 жыл бұрын

Jah Mia I think we all have ups and downs in life and this is one of them Very Sorry Jono 😢

thanks Jono for putting that message out but some people (guys especially) aren't comfortable with asking for that help and opening up about themselves.

my dad and stepmum believed i didnt have anxiety or depression but a "situational melancholy with a woe is me attitude" which just happened to be consist every week (so obviously a just a phase) So good when the people you have around you understand and support you.... There are organisations that help give you the tools to manage, prevent, protect emotions and situations from having such big impacts on you, as well as listening to you earnestly, who want to help, they dont see a problem, they will see your strengths, what foundations you already have in place and just help you grow into the person you want to be. Please reach out, Connecting is the biggest thing you can do during this time when all you want to do is be swallowed up and isolated.

Depression among men is unfair. Because we are meant to be strong. If we look depressed it makes us look weak, if we look weak then we feel inadequate. So we brush it aside and don't seek help. I'm going through what I think is depression. You see I've had visitations with my daughter ceased all because her caregiver, who is her aunt, doesn't like me. The mother of my child won't help, the law won't help me, nobody will help me. Nobody fucking cares because as far as they care I'm just the fuckwit who donated sperm. So I struggle day to day constantly being sad, then happy thinking of my daughter, then depressed that I may never see her again, then I get a little happy thinking there's a chance. The emotions go up and down and it's killing me and nobody cares. And thus my days continue in that cycle and nobody cares

@naghamaziz8120

7 жыл бұрын

No reason to deny you seeing your daughter, make it your mission to fight to see her and have her in your life, that will give you a purpose, and please seek help, talk to your GP, meds are there to help when feeling down or even just counselling at first, good luck in all and God bless

@taylorsukoshi6126

7 жыл бұрын

Anton Nzl Kia Kaha, you got a reason, your daughter. I've been in a similar situation, all I can say is keep trying for your daughter, then at the very worst, a day will come when she is old enough to make her own decisions, and she will remember you, always trying your best for her...

@taylorsukoshi6126

7 жыл бұрын

Anton Nzl Kia Kaha, you got a reason, your daughter. I've been in a similar situation, all I can say is keep trying for your daughter, then at the very worst, a day will come when she is old enough to make her own decisions, and she will remember you, always trying your best for her...

@juliaconnell

7 жыл бұрын

I care Anton, I care - I really do.

@juliaconnell

7 жыл бұрын

depression is NOT some "philosophical illness" - the *medical* (and by this I mean doctors - your mainstream everyday doctor) - knows this - depression is a *chemical imbalance in your brain* - it's not some 'airy fairy' hippy 'oh I feel sad so I must be depressed' see your reaction is exactly why there is still such a stigma about people who are truly suffering from this don't talk about it and are reluctance to seek help - especially men I can understand why it looks like "everything suddenly turned into "depression"" - there is a growing understanding of what depression is and what a huge impact it can have on lives (hence this video!) - not 'magic' just more awareness and understanding - which is a good thing

so sad😢

@amyfinn8660

7 жыл бұрын

Marie Barns Agreed. =(

Why the hell does this have down votes? Seriously?

fuk jono made me cry here in perth miss watching you fellas #realtalk

Spread the word brother much love

Very sad. Very sorry Jono.

aww 😢 💕

A semicolon ; is used when an author could've chosen to end their sentence, but chose not to. The author is you and the sentence is your life. #semicolonproject

This was uploaded on my 12th birthday :(

Ben should of let him talk and say more. But big ups to Jono for interrupting and saying what he did

@kpfifa517

7 жыл бұрын

The show had to end

@lordcrumb07

7 жыл бұрын

Ben interupted him at the start because he thought Jono couldn't go through with it. Jono put his hand on Bens shoulder as a way of saying "its ok I can do this, but thanks".

@blaynehamilton2120

7 жыл бұрын

it doesn't matter whether the show had to end or not. Jono had an important message and they should of just let him go on

@genbatnz

7 жыл бұрын

Blayne Hamilton ... Yes they should have let him carry on ... but they did in the end.

@mariebarns2444

7 жыл бұрын

Blayne Hamilton i thnk ben was jst tryn have jono bk

How is it possible that 10 people have disliked this?

I wouldn't be surprised if this ends up trending

@PhoebeGrigor

7 жыл бұрын

teegan How frequently do you stalk me?

@teegan5835

7 жыл бұрын

AIIUserNamesInvalid we know each other

@PhoebeGrigor

7 жыл бұрын

Oh I wasn't actually accusing her of stalking me!

@nzwilco9276

7 жыл бұрын

with a different title, yes. it was hard enough finding it with the title breaks down. i hope this gets out there as a message to anyone relating.

keep the chin up folks, anything worth having in this world is a struggle

5mths after having my baby, I noticed a difference with myself. despite having a baby, which doctors said I couldn't.. I wasn't happy. I looked after my baby and husband the best I could until I snapped and told my husband I don't feel anything for anyone anymore. we seeked help, called depression hotlines and u know what they told me? dickheads said I was bored, and I'm not depressed.. my gp at the time just said the same thing not taking into account post natal depression. 6yrs later I'm here struggling to find what the point of life is. my new doctor says I have post natal depression that went undiagnosed. I finally have help because I want to help myself out the years-deep hole I was trapped in. I don't want anyone to pity me or tell me "your strong you can do this" coz to be honest, that means jack shit to me.. I'm sharing my story coz the help organizations out there for depression need to get their facts right. I was suicidal and had given up on my self.. having some lady and an ill-informed gp 6yrs ago tell me I'm not depressed because my symptoms didn't match what they had on the database made me feel rejected, and discouraged and utterly foolish for some reason, and was reason enough to stop me from seeking further help. I knew there was something wrong with me mentally.

@Tq-qy7zi

7 жыл бұрын

Aurora Trent your natal depression isn't a stand alone thing, I'm not familiar with those services myself and I haven't given birth but that "hole" is deep and it could most probably be that lack of numbers that made you feel even more alone (not to mention that your symptoms were not on the systems database) even people could connect with other people more often then teamwork could be used to get out of the ugly hole.

I feel for Jono

❤❤

Three days, and he is able to do this, pretty big balls to risk it all like that, but the message is true though :)

❤

👏👏👏

poor jonoo

I spent my hole day. Thinking about this. And I get bullied alot at school And Its hard for me. Everything is and I get that it's just. Nobody Gives two shits about me. Please Help me =(

@amyfinn8660

7 жыл бұрын

My parents wouldn't care. They hate me too.

@blazingshot2016

7 жыл бұрын

Kaleb Finn man, thats sad. Do you have a skype? Wanna talk there?

@amyfinn8660

7 жыл бұрын

Flaire_ Z No. But I can discord. If you want.

@blazingshot2016

7 жыл бұрын

Kaleb Finn yeah, im ok with discord too

@amyfinn8660

7 жыл бұрын

Flaire_ Z I can't do it atm.

Say what you want about Ben but end of the day he meant well. It's not an easy situation too be in

should listen to pull the trigger by russ

Ben going "You're alright man" and trying to take over to keep the show going was a great example of NZ's "harden up" mentality.

@welshkiwilady

3 жыл бұрын

I love how Jono spoke up though

aww😢nehhhht😂

The worst part about society is that feminists who are seen as the heroes in our society by most media and adults would be absolutely disgusted in this video because it's about a man telling other people that they are fine how they are. I find that really sad myself