I couldn't never ever imagine myself being successful with no baggage/kids. Dealing with a man with a bunch of kids, babymommas, baggage, a liar and keep making me look like a fool.

@thatoneblackgirl3934

Жыл бұрын

Same smh

@livinglife6345

Жыл бұрын

Right. She is self inflicting her pain by still dealing with him after the red flags.

@christinajackson6309

Жыл бұрын

@@livinglife6345 This is a perfect comment. Because her being in this relationship is a *choice*

@thatoneblackgirl3934

Жыл бұрын

She 10000%% can do better but I understand once you love someone it’s hard to walk away 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

@bettyboop1568

Жыл бұрын

🎯💯💯

Take a shot for every time Kendra says “We need to talk”

@MarieAmicalola

Жыл бұрын

You trying to give us alcohol poisoning 😹

@aleahboone4323

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm drunk and I still have 12 minutes to go.

@kimillionaire

Жыл бұрын

And I'm drunk and dying of alcohol poisoning 🤣

@hafsabourrich1099

Жыл бұрын

"We needa tawk" 😂

@asiadoll3847

Жыл бұрын

I'm about to dieeeeeeee 😂 😂 why did I try thissssssss uggggh

Karlie is known to be messy, but not known to be a liar.

@Jsween876

Жыл бұрын

FACTS!!

@vanessamoreira3890

Жыл бұрын

I still think Karlie lied about fucking Pooh and her man

@daniellak.7521

Жыл бұрын

@tq231442 Kendra actually checks joc on the regular, but Karlie needs to stay out of it...Karlie is doing it out of jealousy and pettyness..it does not come from a genuine heart..so yes, Karlie needs to be called out, too.

@ssiiaabbyy__

Жыл бұрын

she is lol

@latinagibbs2770

Жыл бұрын

Facts

So basically this is just another case of a good black woman dating down. He’s using her to “level up”, meanwhile she’s “leveling down.” He thinks being with a woman that has it together is going to somehow make him mature and not look like the gigolo joke he is. Meanwhile he’s going to embarrass the hell out her and make her look like a fool.

@thatbeaatcch9884

Жыл бұрын

But the thing is that she was actively being told about his behavior and she still chose to marry him? Like I don’t understand how Kendra could be so naive?

@cuzimblk5719

Жыл бұрын

@@thatbeaatcch9884 Idk some people can't be better tbh.

@MarieAmicalola

Жыл бұрын

Idky “gigolo joke” is sending me🤣 accurate tho

@Jasmiyn123

Жыл бұрын

Exactly, And this is why I laugh at women that have the I could change him mentality. Like girl, Rather you change him or not. What's the point of wasting your time to see

@nikkikells8791

Жыл бұрын

Correct!

Kendra is proof you can be broken and educated all at the same time

@brizy___

Жыл бұрын

🎯

@beautyk2660

Жыл бұрын

@Tracey Dumase Banda Exactly 💯

@kat17L

Жыл бұрын

💯

@candycakes7921

Жыл бұрын

💯💯👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

@purgetheXYs

Жыл бұрын

bw can get all the degrees in the world, they never get educated om the bum ways of blk men.

It's funny how Karlie said that Joc got a boring woman and how he must've been tired of the "thotianas" considering she's one of those "thotianas".

@jennyjenga1929

Жыл бұрын

Lol I was thinking the same thing. Including her 🤣

@supervegitok956

Жыл бұрын

I agree is she serious 🤣

@QueenSugar72

Жыл бұрын

Exactly! She is the President of the club!

@LotsofLisa

Жыл бұрын

Did she ever marry that dude? While she sitting up here with her weird obsession over Joc.

@meloniesosa2013

Жыл бұрын

And popping out of a cake for him😂

Am I the only one that has no sympathy for Kendra ? Like this man showed her EXACTLY who he was and she chose to stay. She’s an attorney so why is Joc always able to talk his way out of things? Make it make sense. Being ignorant is a choice.

@natashacutiepie6074

Жыл бұрын

I love when we hold women accountable. ❤

@jermainelatimer804

Жыл бұрын

Exactly 💯

@tmac7734

Жыл бұрын

Facts how is Kendra an attorney and such a poor judge of character

@elisest.george8245

Жыл бұрын

@@tmac7734 I'm mad that she's an attorney and we saw nothing in this marriage planning process concerning a prenup. When she brought it up...he kinda talked his way outta it

@justsaying8358

Жыл бұрын

No, my sympathy jump out the window the momentshe started bragging about her ring to Karlie and acting like she won, cuz at that moment I realized that she's one of those "as long as I'm the one he comes back to/I'm the one that got the ring". At this point she well aware of what she put herself into and she likes to be in that situation.

The fact that she does not want to have kids with Joc shows she’s not as naive as she looks. The toxicity of the relationship is too much. She’s just in the relationship to try to prove she can be the one tame a man like Joc. Them men can’t be tamed sweetie leave them for the streets.

@livinglife6345

Жыл бұрын

Facts. I am glad she doesn’t want to have a child with him. She can divorce him but having a child with him is 18+ years with him.

@brandi17able

Жыл бұрын

He got several kids, I wouldn't want any with him

@royaldiadem_

Жыл бұрын

Nah it’s not that she just don’t want o be baby mama #6

@naemack1441

Жыл бұрын

I would also say Joc is trying to prove something to himself as well. That he can attempt to be faithful and change. ..wouldn't say she should take all the weight

@stardustxx278

Жыл бұрын

She's pathetic like most women and puts her worth on having a man or not. And he found a woman who will pay his child support.

Seem like the whole timeline is about him f**king up and saying sorry🤣🤨

@d3sign3rmom

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

@thatbeaatcch9884

Жыл бұрын

And people are still trying to blame other people for his actions and or making excuses

@sadepayne

Жыл бұрын

@@thatbeaatcch9884 Exactly 💯

@kishalashawn5542

Жыл бұрын

And her saying “we need to talk”! Lol

@sadepayne

Жыл бұрын

@@kishalashawn5542 Yep 🤣 d@mn shame

Y’all need to learn, “pick-me’s” and “as long as he comes home” women come in all shapes, sizes, colors, with degrees, careers, and their lives together. Just because someone looks to have their life together, doesn’t mean they’re not apart of the desperado club. 😩🤷🏻‍♀️

@azizasingh

Жыл бұрын

Whew, you preaching🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 amen sis. You told the whole truth.

@chelll6227

Жыл бұрын

💯

@moniqueduncan4377

Жыл бұрын

That mf gone come home that shit

@LotsofLisa

Жыл бұрын

“The desperado club.” ⚰️💀 Somebody dial 911. I have died.

@KMatea

Жыл бұрын

She’s a pick me at it’s finest. She’d literally be better off alone, I doubt Joc adds much value to her life.

I’ve never seen a woman wanna get married and attach herself to heartbreak and embarrassment so bad 🥴 all the red flags started waving before she married this man yet still she kept going ahead SMH

@naemack1441

Жыл бұрын

Some people don't want to accept defeat, too much pride 🤷🏽‍♀️

@sachelelandell8237

Жыл бұрын

Strange. And then she lied to The Bams and Erica to kinda save face, cried and everything, 2 scenes later I lied, they were concerned for her.

@cycarr1434

Жыл бұрын

Make me wonder if is to be in the show!!

@prettylittleliar7311

Жыл бұрын

Sad case frfr

@empresscolleenwilliams1092

Жыл бұрын

"That part" Heartbreak and embarrassment. So anything happens she deserve everything she gets.

karlie: we’re like family now kendra: i mean thts a stretch 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@DesignzRUs1

Жыл бұрын

Karlie is so fake SMH

@brittthecancerqueenempress9137

Жыл бұрын

Lol 😂

@enjoylife2thafullest262

Жыл бұрын

😂😂

Joc is who he is, and, is always gonna be. He tried. Kendra has to want better, FOR HERSELF. It doesn't matter how the audience feels.

@kiara198923

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@explorewilikkleisland1702

Жыл бұрын

Sis you damn right. Joc has proven time and time again he ain’t gonna change

@explorewilikkleisland1702

Жыл бұрын

And Monday’s episode prove it

@QueenRissa_34

Жыл бұрын

Exactly!!!

@jmo876

Жыл бұрын

All of this!!!!

Kirk was very disrespectful to bring up Karlie & Joc's sexcapades in front of Kendra. I'm not surprised tho. Kirk doesn't respect his own relationship, so why would he respect Joc & Kendra's? Karlie was disrespectful towards Kendra as well. On various occasions! Karlie was pressed & jealous of Kendra 😂 and Kendra had to reprimand Joc for his behavior one too many times for me! It's like she was raising an overgrown child smh

@Perfectpearl

Жыл бұрын

8:20

@kofi444

Жыл бұрын

Karlie is a hater!!, like a real life hater. And Kirk has no class at all .

Love cannot be this traumatizing 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

@leahosborne1380

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂 fr

@rubyturk9904

Жыл бұрын

Very exhausting

@boogphilly8321

Жыл бұрын

That’s because none of this is love, it’s lust and ignorance.

@madeleine9925

Жыл бұрын

Fr

The fact she is going to be a Judge yet has horrible judgement in men makes me cringe....

@brtitneymissick6610

Жыл бұрын

Her professional life with love doesn't have anything to do with her career. If it was so she wouldn't be where she is today.

@sandou3

Жыл бұрын

@@brtitneymissick6610how you’re going to represent authority and decide on peoples life if you don’t have a bit of common sense. I her what you mean but she seems like the kind of person to be overlooking red flags and be driven by emotions. I wouldn’t want her to be judging my case.

@emerald_skai205

Жыл бұрын

I wouldn't let Kendra Judge a talent show, let alone and criminal case

@MsLettertube

Жыл бұрын

@@brtitneymissick6610 What she chooses to do professionally has a lot to do with her personal life. She has bad judgement in her private life which means she shouldn't go forth and judge people professionally... Where is she today? On love and Hip hop!

@Rylanbanks385

Жыл бұрын

😅😅😅 For Real

She's book smart but not street smart, he'll continue to do her wrong and she'll make excuses for him, another Rasheeda..🤷🏽‍♀

@ashslay3224

Жыл бұрын

That part. I noticwd this is a lot of highly educated BW, sadly. 🤦🏾‍♀️

@friabarbie

Жыл бұрын

@@ashslay3224 opposites attract

@Jasmiyn123

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, I don't care what anyone says. Getting a side baby is a game changer. I could kinda see taking a man back after cheating but there's nothing that should make a woman want to stay after a side baby or an std is brought. Like I honestly don't see how women could work on their relationship after that

@georgia8592

Жыл бұрын

@@Jasmiyn123 The fact he got another girl pregnant whether it was on a break or not shows how reckless he is with his peen

@rosalynjeffery9510

Жыл бұрын

@@georgia8592 You think. He has 8 kids that we know of. I like Joc and I pray he do right by her...

Safe to say Kendra won’t be becoming a judge anytime soon 😂

@rudinecacique5800

Жыл бұрын

Why wat happened

@keneriifox7796

Жыл бұрын

No, SHE WILL. This is what drives HER.

@crystalvouse6435

Жыл бұрын

It takes time . She's a lawyer. Most lawyers takes time. Just like teachers before they become principals takes time..

@LortsJailsus

Жыл бұрын

She’ll be a judge as long as she stays in Atlanta.

@erinstojkov9300

Жыл бұрын

If I was intelligent enough to become an attorney- I definitely wouldn’t be dating someone like Joc and then appearing on a tv show like this

The realest person to ever speak to Kendra has to definitely be Jocs best friend at the wedding with the Gucci suit. If a man tells me at my own wedding his friend is for the streets, thats all I gotta hear.✌🏾😅

@keeksm0617

Жыл бұрын

Kountry Wayne is a comedian 🤣🤣

@kentorriasmith8475

Жыл бұрын

@@keeksm0617 and he came out to be right during that “Joke”

Y'all took a 'break' & he got another baby. Girl run! 🏃🏾‍♀️

@katiekade7615

Жыл бұрын

And do not look back. Lol

@butterflyblessbless5836

Жыл бұрын

The biggest reason not to go back🙅🏾‍♀️🙅🏾‍♀️🙅🏾‍♀️

@carmellahoney3599

Жыл бұрын

do not pass go, do not collect $200

kendra seem like the type of girl tht gets married to a guy just to say she’s married 🥴 knowing the whole marriage is going to b hell 🫤

@livinglife6345

Жыл бұрын

Sad but true

@summerbreeze2030

Жыл бұрын

Omg yes !

@KenziePayne-uu2ug

4 күн бұрын

She’s to dam successful and smart to be with someone like Joc to be honest

It bothers me that she is basically begging him to take her places. Red flag 🚩 that he don’t want you to come girl

It's like Sina said, Kendra is a nice person, just not someone Joc deserves.

Proposing/accepting a proposal when you’re in the middle of conflict, so much so that you don’t even want to be around the person, is… WILD.

@JewelPray

Жыл бұрын

💯 I was over here like ikyfl.. 😭

@Deltachick91

Жыл бұрын

Very wild

@stephaniemurria5534

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely 💯

Kendra girl....Godspeed.

@Seadeddy

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@ayanatetzlaff

Жыл бұрын

💀😭😂

@carmellahoney3599

Жыл бұрын

☠️💀

@HoneytheLibra

Жыл бұрын

💀💀💀💀💀💀

Kendra is definitely a fraud . The way she cried infront of Bambi and Ericka pretending she didn’t know about that girl is ridiculous.

@CVRenee

Жыл бұрын

Can't stand her. She talk too much. Always trying to act like she above the rest of Jocs women. She's not. Evidently.

Kendra thought she was Barbara the Builder. Men are not houses, you can't fix a broken man. You can't even build a solid home without a good foundation.

We needed this because it’s been a whole lotta confusion 😂

@lyrikjordan5897

Жыл бұрын

Right🤣🤣🤣

@shanteli5970

Жыл бұрын

I was thinking the same thing! 🤔😭👏🏾

@meghanwilliams4295

Жыл бұрын

😬

@couples_cleanse

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@cmapit3220

Жыл бұрын

And STILL is because clearly that was "overlap" from the beginning. Kendra knows what she got, she's not going anywhere.

He wants a woman that’s going to be “in-charge” of him like a mother, not a wife. Once he feels too tamed, he ventures out. They need to split up.

@monica012077

Жыл бұрын

Yup, Kendra has all the power in that relationship. She makes all the decisions and Joc won't say no to her because he's guilty for the past or present cheating.

@stephaniemurria5534

Жыл бұрын

Who wants to raise a man? Send him home.

Accepting a ring after back to back to back infidelity is crazyyyyyyy

Kendra has no real reason to stay with him. I think she thinks she can fix him.

@mayazeigler7387

Жыл бұрын

Right. It’s embarrassing & he’s not even cute

@livinglife6345

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@thegoat4089

Жыл бұрын

Facts!!!!!!

@jamesroberts1810

Жыл бұрын

All mighty dollar

@andrinetoussaint7166

11 ай бұрын

Or for clout...fame etc

She a very accomplished criminal and immigration attorney. More than enough men in her field who are intelligently equal to her AND will respect her. Ladies, please open your options or you will settle for dust

@jamesroberts1810

Жыл бұрын

Women love drama period..good guys are boring and routine ish

@stephaniemurria5534

Жыл бұрын

Relistate business

@southsudani983

Жыл бұрын

she’s insecure

@arleneaugustahair8393

Жыл бұрын

@@jamesroberts1810 my husband isn’t boring. I definitely break routine. I’m entertaining enough for both of us. We stay at home and have fun.

@andrinetoussaint7166

11 ай бұрын

She loves the pookie and ray rays

Kirk is an instigator!! 🤣🤣🤣 the way Joc turned and said "Kirk..." I watched that 5 times. 😭😂

@nicolewilliams1810

Жыл бұрын

😆 🤣 😂

@TheChicMaison

5 ай бұрын

He so happy it wasn’t him 😂

Yes, because the way to solve an argument about infidelity, is to say “Don’t worry about it” and propose…

@tam1729

Жыл бұрын

😂

Rasheeda needs to come and get her twin sister. She’s out here letting the human equivalency of a Citi Trends do her dirty.

@friabarbie

Жыл бұрын

now sis y u got me chokin 😂

@Lisatheecreator

Жыл бұрын

Girl I- 😂😂😂😂 not Rasheeda’s twin sister.

@cuzimblk5719

Жыл бұрын

Wicked💀

@modestinemungo4661

Жыл бұрын

👀 😆 🤣 😂

@Aissat55

Жыл бұрын

Right 🤣

Watching this hurts my heart smh. How do you ignore that he hasn't made your relationship public and still choose to move forward with buying a home + investing in businesses together? HOW?! Ladies, we really do need to want better for ourselves. This aint it.

@livinglife6345

Жыл бұрын

Right…. Sounds like they are more of business partners.

@diamcole

Жыл бұрын

@@livinglife6345 Nah, sounds like he'd been lying from jump and she should have seen his desire for secrecy for what it was.

@talishawinters9599

Жыл бұрын

@@diamcole Yeees girl you are absolutely right. He’s been dealing with her for all those years and was a secret. He continued to cheat. He did this whole marriage thing to shut her up. She had me feeling bad once they got married and then the story leaked about joc having a baby but she knew that this whole time smh Kendra set herself up for a lifetime of heartache

@LaDominicana33

Жыл бұрын

I think he wanted to keep her a secret because he was being so publicly messy and didn't want the Joc he is with her to cross over into the dirt he does in the streets. He would not have had to hide her if he just stopped being messy and ridiculous.

I like Kendra, she’s a mature woman, I like her energy, however I can no longer feel bad for the women who settle for this sort of foolishness. Settling for the bare minimum will create the standard that you now live by. No one is perfect but everything is a choice. No excuses for joc’s behavior but that’s what she’s choosing.

@consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688

Жыл бұрын

People are only as intelligent as the people they surround themselves with. Look at all the women in her circle, which one of them has a faithful intelligent man. Joc doesn't even practice safe sex. He's reckless with his penis, sexual health, and his soul.

@wellknownonikastan1271

Жыл бұрын

🎯

@butterfly-ef8fx

Жыл бұрын

ABSOLUTELY JUST SETTLING FOR THE NEXT NOT BEST THING

@blessedone612

Жыл бұрын

We have ALL DONE some dumb ass shit concerning that Good Good 😜 and knew betterr and didnt do a damn thang STOP THE FAKE SHIT , at the time was like yall just dont understand 😂😂😂

@kymberlipomerants5520

Жыл бұрын

If she is settling, how is THAT mature?

Kendra is so beautiful and an intelligent, passionate, big-hearted boss woman! She deserves a man that is going to cherish her and treat her with respect and integrity, not just for her, but for himself!

How a woman that’s soo accomplished decides to entertain a man with 9kids at that time and multiple baby mommas is beyond me!!!! She married him with his now 10lids so I guess it is what it is but that’s crazy! She don’t have no kids and he has 10🥴wow!

@zoes4645

Жыл бұрын

When most of us enter our 30s, especially the late 30s, all common sense goes out the window. We settle for less.

@tracieross9928

Жыл бұрын

@Fee I

@tracieross9928

Жыл бұрын

@Fee I didn't know he had 10 kids. I thought it was just 4.

@jazzy5410

Жыл бұрын

@@tracieross9928 He had 4 baby mothers. He had 2 kids with each woman. Now we got this “break baby”. 💀

@tequeshaharris4794

Жыл бұрын

That's what I said.

Kendra's reaction during the proposal was sooo precious, i really want the best for her

The drink being poured from the can on the “twerk.” Is the most triflin scene lol

@ahavayasharahla9110

Жыл бұрын

That's the BIGGEST RED FLAG for Kendra. Kendra should've kept it moving then

@Iamcherese

Жыл бұрын

The way the girl walked off when Kendra came over to get Joc had me hollering 😂

@motherhoodisamother8874

Жыл бұрын

@@Iamcherese no I think she pushed her 😭😂🤣

Soooo, long story short...he's been playing in her face from day one. Roger that.

@5thHouseProductions

Жыл бұрын

Right!!! Thanks Vh1 for clarifying it for us! 😉

@enjoylife2thafullest262

Жыл бұрын

10-4 lol

No degrees, education or career can erase the pathology of a person’s upbringing. This poor young lady probably witnessed all of the women in her life deal with men who ain’t shit since she was a child. Black women must not only better themselves in education and business, but MUST undo the bad relationship pathologies from their mothers, sisters, grandmothers, aunts and cousins, as the mindset had to be changed.

kendra is too good for joc and i wish she’d realize it. that proposal was a pure manipulation tactic and unfortunately she fell for it.

@marriejames01

Жыл бұрын

I think she’s going to get pregnant and he’s going to get tired of her and leave. I think he wants to “humble” her and f up her life by being a single mother.

@JewelPray

Жыл бұрын

@@marriejames01 smhh exactly, I hope that doesn’t happen tho but who knows atp 🥴

@nice1cool

Жыл бұрын

This !!! She said she needed time and he come proposing in front of her family hoping she forget the other shit and ….it worked

@LaDominicana33

Жыл бұрын

Everyone acted like that proposal was so romantic and it made me cringe. She was upset and didn't want to see him. Hell they weren't even really together and she was going through it emotionally only for him to pull the biggest stunt he could think of just to get her back. The moment he got on one knee it's like she forgot all the hurt.

@CVRenee

Жыл бұрын

No she's not.

Joc will never truly change and Kendra knows that. Leave the girl to enjoy her Holy Cheatingmony.

@monicastone3988

Жыл бұрын

I love how you said that cheatingmony! Your right Kendra knows he hasn't changed! Just because a man gets married doesn't mean he's changed..I'm not saying all men are like that I just saying that some are just like Joc!

@cela9852

Жыл бұрын

@@monicastone3988 yeap. Kendra won't ever leave so long as Joc keeps his shenigans undercover so that she doesn't get publicly embarrassed. That's why she got mad about the baby news getting out. She knows she married a man who has issues with being faithful.

@2jazzy2bt

Жыл бұрын

They might as well have an open marriage but this man wouldn't be able to handle it if she was getting her swerve on she don't have kids and this man has a thousand kids and a new I wouldn't be able do it

@Lisatheecreator

Жыл бұрын

It’s the cheatingmony for me! I’m gonna add that to my dictionary. I don’t understand why a woman of Kendra’s caliber would let herself get mixed up with Joc.

@Lisatheecreator

Жыл бұрын

It’s the cheatingmony for me! I’m gonna add that to my dictionary. I don’t understand why a woman of Kendra’s caliber would let herself get mixed up with Joc.

Kendra, an accomplished attorney, is willing to overlook Joc's indiscretions and infidelity at the expense of her professional and personal reputation/ character. She is smitten by his fame and famous friends; On the flip side Joc is smitten by her professional qualification as a future judge in training. They both using each other but in the end Kendra will be the bigger loser.

@Lonesome__Dove

Жыл бұрын

I agree with everything u said up until Kendra will be the biggest loser. I get what u saying but she the type that bounce bk quick and dont let no man get in the way of her visions. A go getter. Now Joc, hes never gonna be able to get another woman like her. He will be the biggest loser. Kendra may get hurt but shes been aware of the risk since the beginning, if they break up she ain't losing much but a headache.

@Blessedone642

Жыл бұрын

All of this will come up to hunt her career.

@s.keeton3795

Жыл бұрын

@@Blessedone642 I get why you'd think this show would hurt her & her career, I agreed when I saw the first season she was on... But now I highly disagree. I'm not really sure why I believe this show & Joc's shenanigans, somehow, have both fully given her a boost but they have.... & Will continue to do so .... It's the notoriety & having Dan's say things like"you should be on your own show your so funny!" "You should be a comedian!" "You should be a fashion designer or model... Whatever" cause they enjoy watching the persons, same pushed on everyone's comments that's even barely famous! 🤣🤣 That's how many celebrities become respected holding very prestigious titles & offices with literally zero training or experience, but also people think they are going to bring a new excitement & get younger generations interested in the subject, like supermodels having biology degrees, thermonuclear degrees & jobs, but those girls actually hold the job & really graduated. But the stems & sciences got a boost in applicants & renewed funding for the attention..... The same thing as Judge Joe Brown, Judge Judy, Judge Lynn Toler & Jerry Springer elevated during & after their shows, some going on to try political offices & aim for Seate, Chairmen of the Board, & other important political offices & candidacies while also being taken very seriously regardless of what shenanigans happened around to make them look awfully while on reality tv! I believe Springer was a mayor as well as holding an assistant lower offer after the show ended but I'm not sure.... Judge Brown ran for mayor but lost due to some scandal election night....

@soph5669

Жыл бұрын

This comment says it all 💯

@bellesanon2420

Жыл бұрын

Why it always gotta be the women the biggest loser lol what she has an entire career

What does Joc provide as a partner? Take money out of it he has multiple children with different woman, emotionally immature and cannot be faithful. Ladies, let’s take people at face value instead of the potential you think they might be one day.

@LaDominicana33

Жыл бұрын

That last sentence is KEY! When people show you who they are believe them!

@dahtcrazychiik

Жыл бұрын

@@LaDominicana33 always!

The title needs to be more accurate...their timeline that we know of! LoL 🤦🏾‍♀️🤭🤷🏾‍♀️

@jadabussey2278

Жыл бұрын

Yessss rewind it back 😂😂👏🏽

@loyalcapricorn1772

Жыл бұрын

Wait what you mean 😳👀 was Kendra messing around with joc while he was with karlie or sumn?

@ninaangelique4811

Жыл бұрын

@@loyalcapricorn1772 There's an interview of her saying they took breaks, so only they really know the timeline; definitely not VH1...LoL

@thatbeaatcch9884

Жыл бұрын

@@ninaangelique4811 but I feel like she just said that like Rasheeda did when Kurt had a baby on her

@loyalcapricorn1772

Жыл бұрын

@@ninaangelique4811 oh ok lol I thought I missed some good tea from the blogs 😝

Kendra kendra kendra. She knew his patterns and, unfortunately She BECAME a part of his patterns 🤦🏽‍♀️

The deflecting from that argument about him pouring water on another woman’s bum to her not wanting a baby is crazy deflection !!!!

@nice1cool

Жыл бұрын

Facts !!!!

@nursedee6791

Жыл бұрын

She was so blindsided by it that she didn’t even know how to respond. That look on her face told everything. Toxic people are good for that.

So what happened to the tattoo? Somebody still got pregnant😂

@aleahboone4323

Жыл бұрын

LMFAO 😅😅😅😅😅😆😆😆😆🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm Weak 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@ddanks28

Жыл бұрын

Same thing I’m thinking 🤣🤣🤣

@erehistruth2356

Жыл бұрын

Hot damn mess smh

The fact that Kirk could be so messy about someone else's relationship is laughable

Kendra signed up for everything she has and is about to go through. Don't blame anyone for your own lack or self discipline and true understanding of detachments.

@jefferlytoussaint853

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@jrose1999

Жыл бұрын

You can’t blame her for her low self esteem

@MizzFireRed

Жыл бұрын

@@jrose1999 its plenty of men in ATL, who's educated like herself, she thinks she can change him but in the end she'll lose like all the rest of the women who tried.. Speaking from experience!

@ericakane2400

Жыл бұрын

@J ROSE yes, u can. She could have stayed single. Went to counseling and work on that. Instead she latched on to community peen

@Givetheflowers

Жыл бұрын

Facts!

Joc leave Kendra alone before she becomes a bitter judge. Leave her alone.

Joc is the perfect example of believing the mess in your life is caused by what woman you have in your life. And not vice versa. Cuz even with Kendra he’s being the same Joc. Until he starts being accountable for his actions and changes himself, it won’t matter who is in his life.

Joc need a t shirt that says " We need ta talk" bc I swear 🤣🤣🤣

@ybeckom

Жыл бұрын

Or, oops I did it again!😂

@javalynbanner5185

Жыл бұрын

@@ybeckom lol right cause she stay pulling him to the side 🤣

BW if you had a lot of BDs/kids like Joc NO BM would marry you (hell they barely marry u with none). Step your self-esteem UP. This a big L.

@zammymynakersnackstbmoth

Жыл бұрын

How you turn this to a way to make this about bw?? Yall dusties....😂😂😂😂

@nomimua9842

Жыл бұрын

HELLO!

@xAshleyIsBeautyx

Жыл бұрын

You aint said not one lie

It's so funny how Kendra wanted to go to Karlie engagement party but Then didn't want Karlie at the wedding.😭🤣

@brokenpofu

Жыл бұрын

Cause she wanted to prove Joc was her man at the engagement party versus at the wedding she had since realized Karlie was still a threat and didn't want her at the wedding

@an-nisanichole5410

Жыл бұрын

Kendra DID Want Karlie There Tho , Joc Said He Didnt Want Her There 😅

Kendra had so many red flags before they got married. He showed her who he was over and over again. She will break her own heart by ignoring the red flags. She might be one of those women who stay with the man to prove a point while he is out making her look foolish.

@mvkvi213

Жыл бұрын

soooo many red flags were displayed!

I notice with Joc... whenever he has an opportunity to publicly deny something he claims he didn't do, he just laughs it off, and finesses his way out of the situation, behind closed doors. Doing that not only makes him look guilty, but it offers no protection, or security for the woman he claims he loves.

Kendra wanted fame so desperately that she allowed herself to be dogged out in front of the world. So, she knew what she was getting.

@sweetjanejonez

Жыл бұрын

Thank you.

@andrinetoussaint7166

11 ай бұрын

Thisssss

Kendra constantly has to pull Joc to the side and talk to him and remind him to respect her?! Whew Chile he ain’t worth your energy 🙅🏾‍♀️

Joc saying that he has been into many fail relationship as if it was someone’s problem not his

@nonhlanhlangobeni7861

Жыл бұрын

Lol she still deserves better

Karlie is so disrespectful to joc and Kendra's relationship especially when they went at the cabin, just because her and mo wasn't at one she choose to make everyone relationship a mess.

This woman, as intelligent as she seems, is a fool for staying with this man.

@youmaydisagreebut848

Жыл бұрын

Shes paying $$$ for his kids while she's childless ..... Joc loves and will always Want Karlie but kendra is the perfect s*x doll/ ATM

Kendra ain't gonna be no judge. After being on this show she can kiss that dream goodbye lmao. Nobody is going to vote her in or appoint her now 😂😂

@youmaydisagreebut848

Жыл бұрын

True that. Now that they can watch the show and see how Stupid and Naive she Truly is.... Who Wants an Attorney like That. .... Where is Kevin Samuels you need him.... oh yea.... 😔RIP KS RIP.... he would've said "your degrees mean nothing! and You chose him" "you knew who he was so why are you complaining now Modern Woman!?"

@brittanyfelder9850

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@ahavayasharahla9110

Жыл бұрын

That's not true all these judges that has skeletons in their closet... She might make supreme court judge... 😆

@angeleyes3396

Жыл бұрын

That’s what I’m thinking

@reneejones7511

Жыл бұрын

Go fix unu life and come out the people them business then quite fine.

Wait. So Kendra is mad at Joc for…. Being himself? Ohtay.

Joc loves Kendra but he's just not ready to settle

I love drunk joc💀..this was the funniest part of the season 🤣🤣😂😂🙌

@aarondyes224

Жыл бұрын

Mane said “see you can’t even get out, God dont want you to leave” 😂😂😂

@kweenbrook

Жыл бұрын

that was so funny. and he was genuinely drunk, speech slurred and everything. 😂😂

"I'm Definitely A Changed Man"😂😂 I thought Joc had changed too because he got Kendra's name tattooed on his D😂. I know that shit hurt....

Those emojis on that title are right ….the relationship really went from 😍 to 😳

Exactly... you knew what you had from the jump but want to ask brand NEW about Meda.. she knew..

Rasheed must have been her voice of reason when it came to her making decisions. This is just sad at this point. He was still being reckless by having unprotected sex and has another baby during him and Kendra’s supposedly “break.”

@pheonyxjohnson5966

Жыл бұрын

TRUE. I wouldn’t have been able to marry him. Because having unprotected sex means either you weren’t planning on us getting back together or you just don’t give damn about me.

@LaDominicana33

Жыл бұрын

And that's just the unprotected sex she found out about and only because a baby came from that situation. Who knows where else he put that thing with no condom on.

@quemc6000

Жыл бұрын

So he did have another baby with another girl in the new episodes it keep coming up. But it's the girl meda meina idk how to spell her name she got the baby

Kendra: The rumors about the "break baby" aren't rumors. Me: 🤡

@chosenbyGod..

Жыл бұрын

Lmafo 🤣

@kingscherry7

Жыл бұрын

Listennnnnnn I was like bish whaaaa😆😆😆😆😆😆

@jadebotan83

Жыл бұрын

My thing is how was she okay with him cheating on her and she was out doing her as well yet she mad about the baby?? Make it make sense!!

@ms.p6828

11 ай бұрын

Damn they just got married not to long ago. Please tell me how y’all already need a break tho😂😂☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️😂😂😂. Ain’t no breaks, ain’t no separation. We staying together or divorcing- I don’t do the in between stuff.

@shardaemitchell3053

10 ай бұрын

Do ya'll believe in breaks in relationships? 😂 for me, I'm genuinely asking it's either ya'll together or ya'll ain't 😂

Joc trying to argue when he's drunk killed me🤣🤣💀💀💀💀

I'm going to pray for Kendra because she's going to need it! 🙏🏽

@ms.p6828

11 ай бұрын

😂☠️❤️☠️☠️☠️😂😂😂😂😂😂

This headline needs to be "we need to talk" she always have to pull him to the side to address him with something someone said, yet she still went and married him. I wish them both good luck.

Joc is the show😂😂🤣🤣😅 and Stevy J.

Ugh I hate that she made herself look so goofy by messing with this man and trying to take him serious - all those babymamas would’ve been a dealbreaker for me smh 😭😭

@stephaniemurria5534

Жыл бұрын

😭😂🤣😅 "take serious "

Kendra face when Joc poured that water down poohs Crack. Omg. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@livinglife6345

Жыл бұрын

Right. So disrespectful.

@jasminegreene8159

Жыл бұрын

Embarrassing 😭😭😭

@ahavayasharahla9110

Жыл бұрын

More of the reasons why she should've just have fun with him and kept it moving because that was the red flag right there

@2jazzy2bt

Жыл бұрын

@@ahavayasharahla9110 exactly

Not attractive, baggage, bunch of kids and a cheater. What do she see in him🤔 Even if he was attractive he still shouldn't get a pass. Joc got too much going on.

Kendra looked so beautiful on her wedding day her dress was a 10 out of 10❤

Remember how we all thought Kendra had such class and in typical LHH fashion she's out here trying to fight her man's "entanglements" on national tv?

A man with 9 kids n several babies mothers is an automatic red flag for me. I couldn’t n being as accomplished as Kendra... Nah!!!

@miabarnett2587

Жыл бұрын

*13 kids

@AmakaN.

Жыл бұрын

@@miabarnett2587 damn!

@kishalashawn5542

Жыл бұрын

Naw that’s a stop sign!

@trinidadianbeauty1

Жыл бұрын

Wait he really got that many kids

@neicynunnery

Жыл бұрын

Wow didn't know how many he had...what a fool. Never would I either. That's too many. How old is his youngest???

Kendra think she different because she calls him by his first name 😂😂😂 what a shame

She deserves so much better.

@CVRenee

Жыл бұрын

You accept what you think you deserve.

I feel like Kendra wanted to be in a marriage where she could be the one in control. So she chose Joc as a fixer up project. But little did she know, when you see smoke, there's fire. But I think some of us need to be burned in order to understand that.

@cosmicneuromelanatedgoddess

Жыл бұрын

Yes that part

@virgochild4216

Жыл бұрын

That's what it seems like to me.

@candidlycamille

4 ай бұрын

👏🏽

Jasiel said he's trying to protect her integrity but both of them are on Love & hip Hop he has embarrassed the hell out of her... the only thing Jasiel wants to protect is the fact that she's the 💰 he's doing his thing, but if she's an actual attorney and she got all this going on for her she's the primary 💰 let's just be real and I love black women I'm a black woman but we have to be honest about a lot of things‼️

She deserves so much better...

@kishalashawn5542

Жыл бұрын

She deserves what she demands.

@emerald_skai205

Жыл бұрын

She deserves what she puts up with

I hate that they literally pay ppl to ruin their lives

She may be a real woman be he is far from a real man ! She needs a real man to match her and her lifestyle he is not it, but that’s something she’ll have to figure out herself… You live and you learn, don’t down talk her.

@kishalashawn5542

Жыл бұрын

Telling the truth is talking down?

Kendra is a true Black Queen!! We all have some kind of flaw everyone is not perfect. And I know for a fact a lot of people are looking and wanting love.

@ms.p6828

11 ай бұрын

All that you stated is in fact true. I love Kendra but she should have kept wanting and should have kept looking because he definitely wasn’t good for her heart and definitely not great for her career. She worked to hard for that career to be letting him taint it.

Kendra and her degrees. We know already. Geez😂

Kendra is too gorgeous and too good of a woman for this man 😩

@2jazzy2bt

Жыл бұрын

I would love to see her with a doctor or a successful black man that's not in the industry

@jasminegreene8159

Жыл бұрын

Well, she chose Joc. Despite her being an accomplished attorney with access to many successful top tier men smh. I don’t feel bad for her.

@tam1729

Жыл бұрын

Physically but is she mentally?

Maybe Joc should be a lawyer. Lol when I tell you that man can talk his way out of ANYTHING, he fasho in the wrong line of work

This relationship is tragic ! It reminds me of my old self. When I was an Attorney in training I met a real ROADMAN … of course I didn’t know this I was just out having fun and met him he was charming, kind and fascinated that I had it all together and wasn’t like girls in his “world”. The thing is even though you know right from wrong you end up falling for the person (yikes!) I did just that my life spiraled and I’d go to work tired from partying 5-6 nights a week. I wasn’t my usual self. I even found out he does drugs and wasn’t mad, yet I was the type that would NEVER. I however drew the line at marriage - somehow I knew in my heart of hearts that I should never make such a huge commitment so easily / hastily. I knew who I was dealing with and wasn’t gonna do it forever. So I quietly disconnected my heart and left him and booooy am I doing a 1000 times better I’m an attorney now which he didn’t get to experience with a great job and credit and I hear he’s still for the streets with a baby on the way ! PS one time he suspected I was pregnant he made me take contraception and watched me to make sure I took it! It wasn’t even about me because I had a lot of good going on for me but he was afraid to be a dad and still for the streets. Need I mention most of his fellow drug using friends have children with autism (yeah their using is that bad). We black woke women Don’t need to ever bounce back like Ciara ! We can choose to do better from the start but maybe we need the experience to fully appreciate what’s good. Also the entire relationship I was the money maker and spender even though he could afford it he was just bummy about everything

@neicynunnery

Жыл бұрын

Good for u sis . I bet he tried to trash talk u to his crew like u the awful one.

@freshangel1

Жыл бұрын

@@neicynunnery yeah I bet he did - but results show for themselves lol he’s in a worse state than we met

@madeleine9925

Жыл бұрын

So sorry you went through this, but at least you know your worth now!

@freshangel1

Жыл бұрын

@@madeleine9925 thank you 🙏🏾

I think she's with him and on this show to boost her name and lawyer status. She's stated that she doesn't want kids with him. What else could it be about him that would make a woman like her accept looking like a fool? 🤷🏽‍♀️

@jadebotan83

Жыл бұрын

Facts. You never lied.

@AJ-tb9cr

Жыл бұрын

Acting like a fool. Doesn't make her look good as an attorney

@lavishbyvicky8146

Жыл бұрын

@@AJ-tb9cr exactly

Jock does not deserve Kendra, but I will say this, if you choose to be with someone, be with them. Don’t listen to everybody that has an opinion about your significant other. Kendra knew who Joc was when she got with him. She need to stop listening to women who would be with Joc in a heartbeat.

Joc was bent like the number 7 😂😂

Imagine having no kids, a career and being a stepmother to 9 children!!!! If roles were reversed, joc wouldn't look her way.