" I was weak then, and you knew it" I felt that shit in my soul, yo

@my3boysms

7 жыл бұрын

Mieshia Dyches chills

@kandicevalrie7362

7 жыл бұрын

Oml

@kristiihill539

7 жыл бұрын

Yes! Back when this first came out I was dating someone who did similar stuff and caught me at a very vulnerable time in my life. Smh

@joyakirkland1136

7 жыл бұрын

damn rt this song so really real!!

@1000Mrjuwan

7 жыл бұрын

Mieshia Dyches "chills"

"Why would you call this love when you knew that it wasn't?" -still cuts deep into my soul.

@meeladsamadi

5 жыл бұрын

Ik!!! My favorite line!

@micahjianni3413

5 жыл бұрын

Dasha And Co. FELT THID

@wonderlust1308

5 жыл бұрын

Also “If this was not love, then please tell me what was it?”

@arvinsanders8753

4 жыл бұрын

The way that she sang love was the best!

@lianne93sangster

4 жыл бұрын

@@meeladsamadi lp

This shit still hurts hearing in 2024 when you've felt the exact pain, she's a true poet

2024 anyone .? Definitely nostalgic 💜

@deontrajones2995

Ай бұрын

Yuh

@irenemariaaxo

11 күн бұрын

Definitely ♡

“ I was weak then,and you knew it” I felt that 😭

@chinaowens9297

5 жыл бұрын

💙

@lina-rm4ks

3 жыл бұрын

that part hits too hard 😭

@EdiHooks0519

3 жыл бұрын

Stuck😭😭😭

@yanna4161

2 жыл бұрын

Felt it oh so personal

@makaelamiller4479

2 жыл бұрын

Bigperiodt

I still can't get over this being a freestyle. We are spoiled with her.

@deweyraines215

7 жыл бұрын

hellooooo I don't think people really understand how gifted she really is

@ndbeautyishername

7 жыл бұрын

+Dewey Raines can a freestyle be written down and then performed?

@Shawniefication

7 жыл бұрын

NirvanaDreamin Yes. Freestyle doesn't necessarily mean it's off the top of the head.

@ToPixas

7 жыл бұрын

then what is a freestyle?

@MsGlitterBombz

7 жыл бұрын

Tox.sick im guessing it was the notes she chose to sing

She's so raw with her lyrics. Ppl actually overlook the part about her cheating as well. She said she didn't want to hurt bf but she thought it was worth it, just to find out it wasn't. Cheated with someone who took advantage of her who also cheated on her. Love me some Jhene her story telling is impeccable

@adennega556

2 жыл бұрын

Oh i always thought it had to do with keys wanting to fight the dude for cheating on her

@AtheneHolder

2 жыл бұрын

i overlooked that bar..... when she said cheated with someone who took advantage I thought she meant the current bf was the one she cheated with then got in a relationship with and she didnt mean to hurt her ex.... interpretation is a helluva thing huh

@MatthewM575

2 жыл бұрын

One of the most underrated artists. Her voice is amazing lyrics are great also.

@Heluv_Diamond

Жыл бұрын

I think this is happening to me

@nnankebassey

Жыл бұрын

When you realize it’s a freestyle. She just came with the whole situation in her head at the moment. Magic.

She is seriously music therapy for me. I'll sing along to all her songs like I'm goin THRU it 😂

@tasmiyahmajeed1550

2 жыл бұрын

Yu are mi.. With all the emotions😂 and acting it all out in my head.

@charawardell4606

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣

@jodiesimons3390

Жыл бұрын

me too 👀, this sounds like a problem lol 🤣😂

@cecebornleader

11 ай бұрын

🗣️❤️💐

It's crazy how the most beautiful souls get used and abused , I thank god she put that pain into music and didn't become bitter

@Klagetemann

6 жыл бұрын

She also used him?? do u even listen to the song

@torischannel7850

6 жыл бұрын

Naturally Lynn Lol, she was sleeping with a man who was with his bm and she had a bf he found out she left him. & side dude bm bust in one day and caught them.

@SCREAMILLUSION

6 жыл бұрын

^No. She left her man to be with someone she thought was worth it. Also a BM isn't a relationship lmao. You literally will always be BM and BD to someone you had a kid with, sounding stupid with that... She did fuck up though being in a relationship and doing that, both were messy but the point is she thought the guy was worth the risk/chance. But he was just using her instead. So she lost in all regards. So she's an asshole for cheating but the guy's an asshole for leading her to believe leaving her man would mean they'd be properly together.

@Nirobiscloset10

4 жыл бұрын

Wow. Exactly.

@larrypolte6056

2 жыл бұрын

Bad taste in men.

Nothing is worst than giving so much time & energy to love someone, just to end up alone in the end

@zoiahargrove9500

6 жыл бұрын

PrettyBeautification so true 😩

@felixmartin9156

6 жыл бұрын

AMEN TO THAT

@fifafix1375

6 жыл бұрын

PrettyBeautification bro exactly

@UnapologeticallyEboni

6 жыл бұрын

😥 story of my life

@MissxNemisis

5 жыл бұрын

Feel like all I've been doing is crying buckets of tears for the longest. Pssh. These dudes aint shit.

She really spoke from her heart on this one. It takes a lot to get so vulnerable. This song will never got old :(

@melly2.072

Жыл бұрын

If you listen closely yo the lyrics sound like she left a nigga for a nigga. That’s called karma

When Jhene Aiko said “cause my brother was dying and you gave me a shoulder to cry on but it was nothing “ I FELT THAT😭😭

@dgpgllcofficial6168

2 жыл бұрын

Sameeee

@Teedimps1598

2 жыл бұрын

Felt felt felt that. Cos that really happened to me😪😪😪😪😪😪😪

@jocieemma1978

2 жыл бұрын

Deadass :((( same ugh it hurts

@diamondb1947

2 жыл бұрын

Same here😭, had just lost my dad

@marthanunez6470

2 жыл бұрын

You know Sean actually mentioned that too in his feature with queen naija in they hate our love. 👀 This song was definitely about Sean because he said he was there when her brother was dying

"Why would you call it love when you knew that it wasn't?" Gets me every time! 🤕😭

@marvinhusbands

7 жыл бұрын

kaiasia boyer gold fish memory.

@marcusbell2833

7 жыл бұрын

kaiasia boyer same here

@kalicream7223

7 жыл бұрын

kaiasia boyer swear

@trishanasmith6410

7 жыл бұрын

fdgfr5rfgjf5e frdrer4e4hgtfgg

@babygirl6789

6 жыл бұрын

kaiasia boyer fr tho

"if this wasn't love then please tell me what was it" that part hit me💮

@basicinfo2022

4 жыл бұрын

I came back to this song for that part. Narcissistic men never loved you, youre just a means to their end. It was all a lie.

@brittlynn8824

4 жыл бұрын

Love this entire song but that part hits me every single time!!!

@m.m.mmolly

4 жыл бұрын

Literally read this while she was singing the same words

@spicypeppermushroom8708

3 жыл бұрын

Best advice is that noone can take the piss out of u if u dont let them, listen to ur brain instead of ur heart, stop letting a feeling u feel for someone to be more important than how u feel towards urself

@Outofbounds7

3 жыл бұрын

Lust

one of the best songs ever written. this describes women's pain so well. i felt every lyric and melody. thank you

@Shayvideos1

2 жыл бұрын

Yes

@destinixshakur

2 жыл бұрын

Istg . But I don’t think she wrote it . I think it’s a actual freestyle

“Why would you call this love when you knew that it wasn’t, If this was not then please tell me what was it” the ending of the song is my favorite

“But I was the only one” “so I was the only lonely one” Those words hurt, especially if you’ve ever actually experienced those feelings first hand.

@trumpisgod2535

5 жыл бұрын

Forever_ Evolving_ she said I wasn’t the only one not I was

@ladyah71

5 жыл бұрын

Girl I feel u ♥

@urmum3688

5 жыл бұрын

💯💔

@teeayagaskin225

5 жыл бұрын

Im late but i am currently ecperiencing this and it sucks in the worst way

looking at the comments 😯 this song displays after effects of Narcissistic abuse . Remember who you were before they tainted your esteem . You are worthy and deserving of a happy , beautiful life baby .😘

@boxianademenace

5 жыл бұрын

Dainty Dacia this.

@Dianne10882

5 жыл бұрын

Good words

@Neeva01

5 жыл бұрын

2 abusive relationships, toxic as poison. Suicidal was the end result. But then i found my worth in Jesus christ. Hes the one and only man who will remain faithful, even in death.

@jessickadugger3826

5 жыл бұрын

Been there. Never thought I’d end up dealing with a narcissist. Long story short they are toxic and will put you down and bring you back up just to do it all over again with no remorse or regrets. He saw every flaw he had in himself in me because of his own insecurities and guilt. And that was a part of the cycle. It went from perfect to bad to worst without anything happening. And to top it all off I lost our son at a week old due to his “bad habits “🤷🏾‍♀️, while for all of six years I was dating him while he was single and chasing everybody else....no matter how much you think someone is there for you always ❤️ yourself first and harder. Everybody isn’t worth it....

@lynettemorales7455

4 жыл бұрын

Needed that

Crazy how you can actually feel her emotions thru the song, specially if your going thru something similar to this.

@sarahkelly2268

2 жыл бұрын

Yes a break up now

@DonnaChamberson

Жыл бұрын

I love how the music video only focuses on her and they didn’t show the male actors face.

@TamaraGarrettAlpha

Жыл бұрын

Exactly 💯💯💯

"You weren't the only one who was hurting, you weren't the only one with a burden." Damn that line! 😢

She just gets better and better.

@aliciam2215

9 жыл бұрын

for sure!!!!!

@yahsenkyri1213

9 жыл бұрын

Meni Asani omg marry me!! XD

@ephremmathe9985

9 жыл бұрын

Exb

@celestehernandez7852

9 жыл бұрын

Tru af

@AAMAZINrpdd

9 жыл бұрын

Indeed, the lovely lady Jhene Aiko has a beautiful gift. Her voice, heart, body, essence & spirit illuminates your mind to estonishing plains...

"I was so weak then, and you proved it." Always a reminder of the things we shouldn't have tolerated

Seeing her cry in the car is a different kind of pain you think u can never over come but I’m here to let u know that it gets better it always hurts when you deeply love someone & u won’t forget fast or easy but I promise it gets better with time 💜 self love is the best love

@MisterSpaceLee

2 жыл бұрын

Idk smh

After hearing this song for YEARS this is what I got: Verse 1: She's yelling at herself at all her ex's that used her for their needs. She was cheated on and it hurt her to the point where she went to another guy. Verse 2: The new guy and her were really vibing and the sex was amazing. She was enjoying everything until " 'Quis" (I'm guessing Marquis from verse 1) found out. She left Quis for him and the new guy's baby mama caught them together. She was devastated to know that he was cheating on her too. Verse 3: Jhene reveals to us she was in a dark place and deeply sad because her brother was dying. She thought the new guy was her comfort and showed her vulnerability only for him to do the same thing everyone did to her. I'm pretty sure Marquis was cheating on her and she cheated back for revenge, but ended up falling in love with the wrong person.

@naikamiot7302

2 жыл бұрын

wow i have never looked at it like that, that was deep .

@marikookie9004

2 жыл бұрын

Sounds like a good interpretation to me.

@Shayvideos1

2 жыл бұрын

Yep, I gathered the same thing pretty much too when I listened way back when.

@trinityreign5266

2 жыл бұрын

You broke that down so well.

@jayalexander929

2 жыл бұрын

Or Marquis was a good guy n she fucked up

When she brought up her brother that shit tore me up 💔.

@taylorh2967

5 жыл бұрын

star bevolo dealing with this now ...

@starbevolo5840

5 жыл бұрын

@@taylorh2967 I'm sorry hun :( . I hope everything gets better 💗.

@taylorh2967

5 жыл бұрын

star bevolo thanks it’s been a few months since I’ve lost mine so this song represents it oh so well ❤️

@slugandant

5 жыл бұрын

I literally cry every time she says that part.

@hindiraps1719

4 жыл бұрын

star bevolo facts I was so damn sad

When she says "Cause my brother was dying, and you gave me a shoulder to cry on" WOOH I FALL APART. Imagine singing about losing a loved one, going through it is already enough. I commend her for that.

@raetech88

6 жыл бұрын

yeah me too. hits my heart.

@snowvampyress7020

6 жыл бұрын

okay? LOL...

@snowvampyress7020

6 жыл бұрын

i hate sad music

@kennedykennedy3126

6 жыл бұрын

if that makes u feel some type of way listen to for my brother by her

@jalife6972

6 жыл бұрын

therealimlikewoa sorry for your lost

Ended up in a toxic relationship around the time my brother was killed, 3.15.14, 10 years ago tomorrow. This song always helps me get my anger out about that whole period of time when it haunts me. Thank you Jhene.

@anything4talishas32

3 ай бұрын

“I was so weak then, and you proved it.”

I don't care how good my relationship is when I listen this song I pretend I'm HURT HURT

@RileyRiley2018

2 жыл бұрын

Lol

@khanyakwethudlamini3513

2 жыл бұрын

Most def

@angelaaceves516

2 жыл бұрын

True

@soleilrivera8435

2 жыл бұрын

💯💯💯

@vector386

2 жыл бұрын

Okkkaaayyy 😂

This lady should be receiving award after award. Such a deep soulful songs. Hits your core.

@viviperri9707

7 жыл бұрын

Sharon Davis you're right...I'm agree!!!

The world needs more Krissy's. Like real talk

@monicagutierrez9549

7 жыл бұрын

Tyra Johnson hell yeah

@Sexablelvu

7 жыл бұрын

Tyra Johnson word

@hannahzimmerman6074

7 жыл бұрын

Tyra Johnson Amen.

@hamianh348

6 жыл бұрын

Tyra Johnso

@Marco.91

6 жыл бұрын

facts !

2024 still here. Jhene Aikos music is everything

Revisiting this song after so many years… but really just an observation. I’m glad she called out some of the questions like “why would you call it love when you knew that it wasn’t” “if this is not love than please tell me what was it” at the end of the day, the amount of love that you have for that person pour it into yourself. A unhealed/broken man, even sometimes lacking self awareness, will look for comfort and bury their hurt feelings into women when those unsuspecting women think it’s actually love. Guard your heart and your love ladies! Because that deep hurt, sorry will never be enough because it’s as though they stole a piece of you and threw it into the ocean when it doesn’t work out. Be open to pure love but only after you know and love yourself, and can trust what a man is offering you is intentional and fulfilling.

@TamaraGarrettAlpha

11 ай бұрын

❤💯

This song hit different when he really was cheating on you and you were right about your instincts all along .

@carriesimmons4961

4 жыл бұрын

I know

@candicehudson1054

4 жыл бұрын

Like seriously

@GinsengHoney_

4 жыл бұрын

Man.. 💯💔

@Splazefashion

4 жыл бұрын

Yes 💯

@allentation9747

4 жыл бұрын

true

"I was weak then and you knew it" most heartbreaking part of the song for me...

@Joediann

6 жыл бұрын

Lydia that part BECAUSE THEY KNOW!

@courtneyhussle198

6 жыл бұрын

Lydia ,💯💯💯

@reneec290

5 жыл бұрын

Yess

@christinapeckham8817

5 жыл бұрын

Why was i listening to that excact part when i read this . 😢

I once loved a man soo much that I was fixing him, while he was breaking me. Why would you call it love when you know that it wasn’t, this words helped me moved on

Years later and I STILL LOVE THIS SONG

This girl's lyrics doe...damn she pours her heart out on every song. You just don't see shit like that no more

@courtsohsodivaable

10 жыл бұрын

Yessss!!!

@PS3gamer236

10 жыл бұрын

actually you do

@mick3y092

10 жыл бұрын

Tezzlena1x06 O, ok

@daishasworld527

10 жыл бұрын

***** *cough cough* August Alsina too

@jeffo8com

10 жыл бұрын

^^august alsina is a bubble gum r&b singer , justin biebers album went harder than his

This is one of those song that I would be chilling with a glass of wine in hand while tears trickle down my cheeks exiting my beautiful left and right eyes. Thinking of all the fuk up mistakes I've made allowing punk ass men in my life. After the tears have dried I would be back to my normal happy self.

@DeeKTee

8 жыл бұрын

This made me lol. Why can't I be like this.

@thebuttuglydogishere

8 жыл бұрын

+Ebony Walter TF lol i love this comment

@blackdee1000

8 жыл бұрын

+Ebony Walter TF Real Talk girl! you gotta shed them tears in order to grow move on and remind yourself of the Queen you are!..

@brittsmommy90

8 жыл бұрын

👏🏽🙌🏽💯

@shadeyahuff7097

8 жыл бұрын

Facts

"I was not the only one who was hurting...and you were not the only with the burdens" hits like a brick wall

It’s 2022 & still there’s an emotionally raw feeling attached to this song that resonates in the depth of my heart ❤️‍🩹

@chayahouston2212

Жыл бұрын

same

The betrayal of it all, that's what cuts like a knife. When I get vulnerable with him and I tell him my inner fears and Pain and they still hurt you.

@nikkinicks3226

6 жыл бұрын

42893alison and they always promise th3y they wont hurt you.. liar!!!😤💔

@StepJ716

6 жыл бұрын

Nicole Holder yesssss🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

@bernicekemeng5306

5 жыл бұрын

42893alison it hurts

@shaperahudson5006

5 жыл бұрын

Or when they laugh about it in your face. ☹️😢

@maxineroberts966

5 жыл бұрын

She's telling a story! That's what she does with her music! You need to listen to ALL her music and then judge. Or at least listen to more than just this song! Her albums always tell a story

AND THE FACT THAT THIS IS A FREESTYLE OMG I LOVE HER

I love her talent, this woman captures a moment and leaves you to dwell on it, long after the music stops.

Still gives me chills listening at this moment in 2021.

Do not listen to this if your going through a heartbreak over a niqqa...you'll end up in jail for murder

@telmamendes3516

9 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂

@princessfakudze4832

9 жыл бұрын

😂true

@bernaldulce

9 жыл бұрын

Yes!!!!! Ahah lol I'm saying tho lol

@seblaeti4573

9 жыл бұрын

Dulce Bernal a b

@missninanicole8750

9 жыл бұрын

girl you aint never lied!! im sitting here listening to all the words like DAMN I WANNA KILL HIM!

RIP to all the good girls out there.

@MZPOETSKYLOVEBLACK

4 жыл бұрын

💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔🤬

@deleshiadavis4326

4 жыл бұрын

No, we’re still out here! 💪🏽

@xfairy3800

4 жыл бұрын

Completely destroyed 💔

@p.g.gtroutman9120

4 жыл бұрын

Wow lol 😎

@kaitlynamelia7080

4 жыл бұрын

Yall should stop cheating and it wouldnt be RIP

I came here to cry😢😭. I’m crying🥲🥹her voice is so sincere🥲🥹 and so touching🥲🥹. As a woman I feel her pain🥲🥹. She sung this song so beautifully🥲🥹 and so touching🥲🥹. She sung the soul🥲🥹outta this song. She touched me to the core of my heart♥️ with this song. I wish I can meet her and hug😢❤her. And tell her I’m here🥲❤️ for you sis. I love❤️and support😫all women in many races that love❤️hard😫. ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹😫😫😫😫😫🥲🥲🥲🥲🥹🥹🥹😘😘😘♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

7 years later, Im still crying over this song like I wrote it 🥴

So I was the only lonely one...😔

@Marco.91

6 жыл бұрын

😢😢

She's so underrated its sickening

@AdventureswithAmirah

6 жыл бұрын

Agreed!

@lonnie3856

6 жыл бұрын

All the people who speak real shit is underrated

@smendes2004

5 жыл бұрын

I don't think she's underrated...

@reneecharles9178

5 жыл бұрын

Love her voice... real shame though; awesome voice; she’s so old school, and the very best of👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

@davnoble8472

5 жыл бұрын

Silvia Mendes she is thooooo doesnt have the spotlight like the big names cardi etc

"why would you call it love if it wasn't " . hit home

Lyrics One, two, one two Thought I told you not to trust these hoes Say they love you, when you know they don't Say they will, but shit, you know they won't Yeah, you hear me, you don't feel me, though And you are not the only one You are not the only one You are not the only one You are not the only one Okay, fuck it It was Dominik, David, Braden All of them did the same to you Marquis and Sean and Brian All of them had they way with you Ever so often you get lost and miss out on everything Shout-out to Krissy That's my bitch 'cause she tells me everything And I was not the only one I was not the only one to you So I was the only lonely one Really, we had the perfect end That night we shared at the Comfort Inn We made love like the world would have ended If either of us had admitted We were in love But I was the only one So I was the only lonely one And I should've never took you on a boat for your birthday And I should've never fucked you on a boat on your birthday And I never would've came into your house in the first place If I would've known that you would hurt me like in the worst way 'Cause that night turned into every weekend and Every weekend turned to every evening You took me out and left me in the deep end then Quis found out and then I had to leave him 'Cause I couldn't be the one to hurt him Plus I thought you were the one so it was worth it But really we should've just ended it That day I was at your crib when Your baby mama just burst in, damn I was weak then and you knew it I was so weak then and you proved it 'Cause my brother was dying And you gave me a shoulder to cry on It was nothing, it's nothing, it's nothing, it's nothing If it's nothing, it's nothing, it's nothing, it's nothing, it's nothing Then why'd you Then why'd you call it love? Oh oh And I was not only one who was hurting And you were not the only one with the burdens But if we're nothing, we're nothing, we're nothing, we're nothing, We're nothing, we're nothing Why would you call this love when you knew that it wasn't? Why would you call it love when you knew that it wasn't? If this was not love then please tell me what was it If this was not love then please tell me what was it 'Cause when I met you at my favorite store And I saw you working at the door Traduire en français

@davidbello2445

Жыл бұрын

I sang along. Thanks

@shonteaburks1274

Жыл бұрын

🤍🤍🤍🤍

her music gives the absolute best vibes

@neicyc.699

7 жыл бұрын

Sooooo tru

@oggorilla113

6 жыл бұрын

yeeeeeeeeesss

I love the part when the beat changes / "I was weak then and you knew it .. I was so weak then and you proved it ....... " THEN THE BEAT CHANGE AND IT REALLY STARTS TO HIT

@Barbara_Strauss

9 жыл бұрын

Definitely, very good point

@leepilcher284

9 жыл бұрын

Me too, my favorite part of song

@rosesmith669

9 жыл бұрын

Yesss she went all out!!!

@michellekerrigan357

9 жыл бұрын

Acoustic

@ItsSoLikeSabrina

9 жыл бұрын

Agreed!!!! I was into it but when the beat changed I was lik

I remember listening to this almost every single day during my last year of high school. I was so young and heartbroken lol to this day it still slaps ❤

she really aged backwards, cuz she looks real young now

@ConfusedFood-fp3tm

4 ай бұрын

Blue

@ConfusedFood-fp3tm

4 ай бұрын

Blue

The guitar strums are so haunting, it may be a small piece of the song, but it so memorable and keeps me coming back.

@naomimariee6688

6 жыл бұрын

BrocksHampton 💯💯💯

@uglyprincess8083

6 жыл бұрын

BrocksHampton fr 💯

Dear heartbroken people...nothing in this world is forever , not even life here on earth...Its ok to feel pain but you have to know everything is a beginning to an end..my boyfriend left me and I grieved for about two weeks and I was back living my life because I know heartbreak is apart of life experiences. I know it won't be the first or last heartbreak in my life..I am ready for the next one..People leave us through life or through death..its envitable...Nobody or nothing is forever..Even the seasons leave before another comes back the next year...you will find a new season a new 💘 love...

@niyatzemariam5597

4 жыл бұрын

Very beautiful message. I was touched when reading this and I needed to read that for sure I really believe your comment was meant for me. Thank you for sharing such wise words. Very well said. God bless you!

@andreabartlett6160

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks...it hurts so bad this ending of my bb dad of 11 years...the lies cut deep...

@lemonheadrbx2671

4 жыл бұрын

@@andreabartlett6160 u bak with him??

@basicinfo2022

4 жыл бұрын

Yes but we shouldn't normalize countless heartbreaks. We need to grow and learn from it to not repeat otherwise its a bad toll on your health.

@trey494

4 жыл бұрын

You can only have one heartbreak in a lifetime, other's are merely disapontments

This that type of music that make you FEEL something in your soul . 💕

@MatthewM575

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely for real

I come back every time ❤

I used play this song out! Cried cried cried....But stronger now...Time heals all wounds ...

@jayrenolds1952

5 жыл бұрын

Stronger = Crazy.

This woman always speaks to my heart & soul 😩

@bullwinkle524

8 жыл бұрын

I love her so much

@destineecolvin4433

8 жыл бұрын

SAME !!

@skidflapz5076

7 жыл бұрын

+Destinee Colvin Girl did you just respond to your own comment??

@KateSullivanVEVO

7 жыл бұрын

she was talking to bullwinkle

@cristalpezza9580

7 жыл бұрын

yess$s$

we all need a chrissy in our lives 🫀

2023 and STILL A MF BANGERRR‼️‼️‼️‼️🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

"cause that night turned to every weekend, every weekend turned to every evening" 💔😭😭😭

@GeekyChic81

4 жыл бұрын

Mohau Haukiie Mafolo thee truest lyric in this entire song

jhene got me feelin heartbreaks I never experienced

And here I’m am still fucked up bout 2014💔 crazy how it’s so relatable 🙌🏾

"I was so weak and you knew it",she spoke to my whole soul!

Easily one of the best songs of the decade ....

@19832006

9 жыл бұрын

?

@KCHILDMUSIC

9 жыл бұрын

decade my nigga ?

@chanelljenise8264

9 жыл бұрын

^^^^^^^^ 😭😭😭😭😭😭

@jebbeddy

9 жыл бұрын

King kAS For reaaaal

@Nigganeyo

9 жыл бұрын

The decade? Bitch where😂😂😂😂. Its still a good song though lol

Don’t ever listen to this after a breakup EVER.

@sheilakiago5598

5 жыл бұрын

But look who's here😢😢

@leila1705

5 жыл бұрын

Regina Patrice Damn that's deep as hell yo..

@confirmationofinformation7714

5 жыл бұрын

I'm here.....shit😟😠

@MJ-zk7ne

5 жыл бұрын

Forever_ Evolving_ to late 😒

@nomiq_sparks185

5 жыл бұрын

But lookie here I am 😒

Damn, this is classic timeless music. I don't think this song will ever get old. The lyrics are beautiful, the meaning is therapeutic, the beat is amazing. The perfect musical "EARGASIM". PERFECTLY POETIC!!!!

This song hit but when she said “if this wasn’t love then what was it “ felt the shit out of that

"we were in love , but I was the only one. so i'm the only lonely one" 😭

@bmuchison6454

6 жыл бұрын

Shelby Swain a year later and still the realist line ever! So relatable

@courtneyhussle198

6 жыл бұрын

Shelby Swain facts

@reneecharles9178

5 жыл бұрын

🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🙆🏽‍♀️🙆🏽‍♀️🙆🏽‍♀️🙆🏽‍♀️💁🏽‍♀️💁🏽‍♀️💁🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

Is it just me but I swear I can never get tired of this song....Jhene is amazing...

@ceevee9607

8 жыл бұрын

+Eddie S all we ask for is honesty

@jahsjdhjsbbx6946

8 жыл бұрын

I've not even kidding, legit listened to this song 90 times, maybe more...

@EricaAsjaee

8 жыл бұрын

nah when I first heard it I had it on repeat & cried to it lol

@rainonme2010

8 жыл бұрын

your right! it changes a mans thought of Mind soul and characteristics

@crystalhall-odumegwu2580

7 жыл бұрын

TAKUMI FUGIWARA

wow Im 31 now and this song gets me so emotional cause now i really understand

Amennn !! God bless you all don't forget to read your word today and represent Christ in all you do and say , walk by faith and not by sight ! Please always remember to SPEAK GODLY (not cursing) things that will benefit you spiritually ! 🤍💗😊

I'm a MAN n I rocc wit dis shit heavy....U never know the pain u cause your significant other....when a woman loves she loves with everything she has.... they try to fully blend there life into yours....took me a long time to "fully" understand this n I'm still learning......Their God's greatest gift.....fellas treat your queens right

@necolesettles1720

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you King!!

@jewellesjourney7314

3 жыл бұрын

thank you king!!!!!!! you deserve the world .

@DAMN__________

3 жыл бұрын

Preach

@anointedbyjesus7766

3 жыл бұрын

Round of applause 👏🏾👏🏾

@ParlayParri24

3 жыл бұрын

Oh God

Finally someone who understands the honesty and pain in a women at all time. This is outstanding she underrated because it only takes real people to understand something so beautiful👐💪👏

@fridaepp3

5 жыл бұрын

@@infiniteepoch8 did you hear the part where she said " I thought you were the one so it was worth it"? They both did wrong, that doesn't mean she doesn't have the right to be hurt. She took a risk because of a lie and ended up losing it all, all at the same time. She made a mistake, that is exactly what she's saying. She also said "really we should have just ended it" and several " I should have never". This song is filled with her emotions and experience, both her own and her cheaters wrongdoing.

@fridaepp3

5 жыл бұрын

@Joep GTAS and I second that btw

@fridaepp3

5 жыл бұрын

@@infiniteepoch8 You don't have to feel sorry for her. And she has realised her mistakes, that is what the song is about. You see, when someone makes a mistake but are blissfully unaware of it because they are emotionally unavailable is one thing. But She is aware of her mistakes, she regrets and she owns up to it. This song is part "outrospect" *and* part introspect. That is where the pain lies. Retrospect is one of the most powerful perspectives we have, and she is taking the time to look back and learn from her mistakes and to own up to them. She is facing her mistakes, sharing them with us at the same time as dealing with it privately - that is actually a pretty bold move. She doesn't want us to feel sorry for her, she is simply sharing her pain and her regret. If anything I think she wanted to get it out more than she wanted to create a "piece". If you can't feel sorry for her (which you don't have to) try to see the beauty in that she is actually reflecting over the situation instead of shying away from it. Sorry about the rant it just interests me so I get a bit engaged, but I'm not trying to argue with you or anything so that is clear, I'm just talking about it with you :) (just feel like I have to say it so yiu sont get the wrong idea and get too fired up as people on yt do sometimes)

@fridaepp3

5 жыл бұрын

I think she did a misjudge of character. She fell in love with someone eccentric then and there because she was hurting and she [may have] thought that the love between them would wash away the pain because it seemed so real, new and exciting that she finally had other things to focus on. But then when he turned out to be a dick, she realised how much of a dick she was too (which she completely missed until that point as she was high/drunk on a fantasy) because she did Keys completely wrong and basically became the same kind of person that screwed her over. I think she is thoroughly ashamed of her actions. In some way she might feel like she got what she deserved, but in a different way I think that is a retrospect thing. Before all this happened, she was in love, she thought she was safe and she moved on from Keys, which often happens in love if someone is not the right one. So even though she betrayed him, she was in a difficult situation too and didn't know how to handle it which made it all a big mess. I think in the moment she thought she deserved "real love" because she didn't feel that with keys anymore so she thought she would get that from this other man. But he ended up being everything she thought she wasn't and then, after it's all too late, she realised that she is the same to Keys that this man is to her. I think that's what made her make the song in the first place, explaining what lead to this point in her life, explaining what hurt, what she thought would happen, what happened and didn't in addition to her own mistakes because she realised she thoroughly screwed up. I don't think she feels bad for cheating on Keys as much as she feels betrayed by herself for making the wrong choices, handling it poorly and making rash decisions which in turn hurt Keys. She definitely feels bad for him, you can hear it in her voice when she says the lines about him, but I think she doesn't feel like she deserves to say that she's sorry or to go more into that subject because she knows he doesn't wanna hear it. She definitely feels like she got what she deserved in retrospect, but more as a consequence of herself handling it poorly rather than because of her being a "cheater". If she would have broken up with Keys, told him what's up and had a real conversation about it that would still hurt but at least he would have felt more respected than he did when e had to find out himself. I think she is ashamed of her actions but I think that feeling speaks louder than getting what she deserved, because in the end everyone deserves true love and for her to be driven to this point shows that she was not Keys' true love in the first place so their relationship was destined to end regardless - the big factor is how it ended which she is definitely mad about. But what was she supposed to do? Stay in a relationship with someone she didn't fully love and deceive him that way instead? Pretend to be a perfect match for him but eat herself up from the inside? I think that in the long run, that would have made her deserve far worse than trying to listen to her heart, even though her heart was making her blind from the reality of the person she was in love with.

@fridaepp3

5 жыл бұрын

I'm glad I could contribute to your understanding of the complexity of these things :) I think most people in these situations, regardless of gender, have a lot of things leading up to and to deal with regarding these things and I think if we were better at asking people what's going on or putting more thought into these things regardless of what we think of it before we judge we could promote to a more fair and just way of dealing with these things as people who find themselves in these scenarios usually already have a lot of turmoil to deal with. I think the go-to way of dealing with it is often "you got what you deserved/you deserve to get bad karma from this" or "I want to get revenge on you because you should feel as bad as I do" when in reality it's often no need for such harsh and blunt reactions as the person is already going through enough even though we feel like they deserve worse. Often we are blinded by how much it hurts because "they hurt me" without realising that they hurt themselves just as much.

A true Pisces. She heals the collective with her music and frequencies 💙💙

@Chri5Rowland

Жыл бұрын

My favorite song of hers till this day. Got me through some real hard seasons. I have never felt a song like I feel this one

What I love about this video is how Jhene had Krissy right there with her keying that car...

@tezztriesit

8 жыл бұрын

Krissy is best friend goals tbh

@paleone8725

8 жыл бұрын

Lol big ups to the bff

@classicstorm

7 жыл бұрын

afeefa Valentine What?...

Such an honest song. You never hear of a woman admitting to cheating. She had someone who loved her. She became interested in someone else. Turns out that relationship was not meant to be. Her dude found out so she had to leave him. In the end she was going through a lot. Making unwise decisions coping with losing a brother.

@denaedanielsnegra3835

6 жыл бұрын

spoo man people interpret it in a personal way. I love her as an artist so I always listen to her lyrics. Without honesty and good lyricism a song is pointless.

@Lovergirl44

5 жыл бұрын

Karma is real

@denaedanielsnegra3835

5 жыл бұрын

@@Lovergirl44 yesss you get what you put out into the world

@caseywalker1714

5 жыл бұрын

Umm where is the she cheated part...

@Author_DeQuindra_Renea

5 жыл бұрын

Casey Walker ‘Cause that night turned into every weekend and Every weekend turned to every evening You took me out and left me in the deep end then Quis found out and then I had to leave him 'Cause I couldn’t be the one to hurt him Plus I thought you were the one so it was worth it I had to listen again too! Never picked up on that. Love when a person is lyrical like this

2021 and this song still hit as hard as it did when it came out !! OMGG i love this woman and her music

this is a song that makes me feel like im going through a treacherous heartbreak

Sometimes you gotta avoid a whole entire artist because you don't want to hear your life in a song. A very painful memory. A nightmare. Cruel. Mine as well gave me an empty box. Now you opened Pandora's box

@paradimews

5 жыл бұрын

Purtisha Wood Man 💔

@PGOuma

5 жыл бұрын

Fr took a break from her for a long a$$ while but lookie here, I'm back

@cutkicker

4 жыл бұрын

You right...

@1Seleeta

4 жыл бұрын

💔💔💔💔

@BriannaMelissa

4 жыл бұрын

😔

got me through my most heartbreaking breakup , i literally listened to this and 'drinking and driving' every second of everyday . i cried to this, fell asleep to this, showered to this. i truly don't know where i would be without this.

@babynevaehatwater9764

5 жыл бұрын

I woulda killed a man after a break up listening to this

@vuyelwamtshisa7263

4 жыл бұрын

same

@alexissmakenzie5460

4 жыл бұрын

going thru that shit right now.

@ravaedemapa1640

4 жыл бұрын

I second that. One day i was singing so heart my roommate. Was yelling to my room. Girl you better sing. I sung this so hard. I cried everyday to this song.

@breianafrance8634

4 жыл бұрын

Laay ❤❤❤❤❤

2024 still listening to this masterpiece. Jhene is something so special ❤

Still here in 2024 ❤❤❤

"Plus I thought you were the one so it was worth it " The WORSE feeling ever 😒💔

@jessterrones4170

6 жыл бұрын

So Gingerella agree😟

@fulfigchic

6 жыл бұрын

Preach 🙌

@courtneyhussle198

6 жыл бұрын

So Gingerella facts

@UnapologeticallyEboni

6 жыл бұрын

😥

@honeys7352

6 жыл бұрын

💯

Not even going through a break up right now. Actually happily married and this shit got me in my feelings!

@JiminsLeftElbow

5 жыл бұрын

Halleluja to that!

@amiya3219

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@vanessarodriguez137

4 жыл бұрын

me2

@zakiatamran2319

4 жыл бұрын

Coconut Bay Resort crazy right!!!

@Los47

2 жыл бұрын

Give it time 😈

Too good to not come back🔥

She's amazing her songs helped me start the healing from the many betrayals of my ex...the way she reacted in this video when she socks her hands expressing her hurt reminds me of me...I thought I was the only one too...cuz that's how its supposed to be ....may you live in regret forever cuz you're NEVER EVER getting any kind of affection from me EVER AGAIN...

THIS SONG IS SO BEAUTIFUL CAN SOMEONE PLS TELL ME WHY I DIDNT DISCOVER IT BEFORE AND WHY A SONG ABOUT BUTTS IS MORE POPULAR THAN THIS

@lanarose8002

9 жыл бұрын

Luba Makwelo Because this generation is only about butts. I'm sorry man... I just don't want to be in this generation anymore.

@timekalagrone1163

9 жыл бұрын

Lana Rose

@zandraj1570

9 жыл бұрын

Luba Makwelo "Pose to Be" has a great dance beat, a subject matter of degrading women, lyrics loved by many of today's young people and the collaboration of 3 (make that 2) of today's hottest artists each with their own very large fan base. I would not be surprised if the song won an award next year.

@realtalk675

8 жыл бұрын

so true. i love jhene's real songs

@realtalk675

8 жыл бұрын

+Lana Rose me too.. at least you be you and love what u love. not what the massa wants you to love

This brings back memories....thank God I've grown...dudes be doing the most

@jjforever2510

5 жыл бұрын

Micaela McBride stg!

@cha-chi1664

5 жыл бұрын

Doing the most, & blaming us bc they cannot accept the truth!

@Los47

2 жыл бұрын

🤷🏽‍♂️ the games tight till you find out

This song hit different when you did your real soul mate dirty and she warned about the ones who was never gonna have genuine love for you like she did and always will

Forever one of the greatest female artists of all time . Gotten me through so much 💖 so much love and respect for her!

am i the only one that cries to this song when they listen to it?...yes, ok

@saracortes107

7 жыл бұрын

Lilly Love same my dude

@sadibarry

7 жыл бұрын

Lilly Love ❤️ I'm always crying to this song 💯

@kimberlymclaughlin8766

7 жыл бұрын

Lilly Love noooo

@KryssiiPie

7 жыл бұрын

Lilly Love Every time.

@kaykaybihh7581

7 жыл бұрын

Lilly Love nope

This beat tho.

@lorainedominguez9198

3 жыл бұрын

She badass!!!

@NayelytheCat

3 жыл бұрын

@Georgia Peach It was a freestyle. Maybe about something that happened to her.

@ruthrichard318

3 жыл бұрын

@Georgia Peach her best friend’s name who help her harassing the other woman that her boyfriend have I think 😊

@lledo1984

3 жыл бұрын

@Georgia Peach I think her friend was naming all the guys that did Jhene wrong and jhene was just quoting what her friend told her in naming those guys. And right after she gives her a shout-out. Could be wrong but that was my interpretation 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

@chilldaonly1841

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah specially that break down

Cause my brother was dying you gave me shoulder to cry on it was nothing it’s nothing it’s nothing 🎶 because I really did lose my brother and I loved those lyrics with the father of my kids he knew what I meant to my brother and he still failed me 😩😢

@vividgeee547

3 ай бұрын

Lived*

It's always the first verse for me! Jhene is so relatable. She helped me get through one of the toughest times in my life with this whole album when it first came out! 💙💙🥲🥲

@TamaraGarrettAlpha

11 ай бұрын

Me as well 💯💯💯