Jerry West on considering suicide
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Jerry West candidly reflects on his brother's death, his battle with depression and outlets to overcome low periods, including writing his autobiography, West by West: My Charmed, Tormented Life.
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Jerry....his honesty adds to his legend every day...
God bless Jerry West's family, my heart goes out to them with my prayers...He was a great man in many ways. RIP
Just goes to show you that even the most successful people in the world experience darkness in their lives. God bless you Mr. West!
@Lokh66
4 жыл бұрын
hmrhuang agreed
@jasonjackson5696
3 жыл бұрын
Точно, очень правда ….
@sawyerrice3244
3 жыл бұрын
We already knew this, but yea
@kalvinversetheworld
3 жыл бұрын
look at the backgrounds/childhoods of the top performers in almost any domain, especially sports. I can guarantee you it wasn't pretty.
@jaypeee97
3 жыл бұрын
Anyone can go through dark moments and keep a smile just a reminder to check up on your love ones n make sure they are okay
I met him years and had the opportunity to spend 30 minutes or so speaking with him. One of the most personable and humble humans you could be around. Absolutely a wonderful person.
Abraham Lincoln, too, suffered great depression during his life. His pulling himself out of it, again and again, was what gave America - and the world - his greatness. Jerry West's persistence and will to contribute his best to this world is, too, a gift to all of us.
Jerry West gave the present of one of the most honest conversations ever about suicide. This will undoubtedly help a large number of people. God bless Jerry and everyone
LEGEND! RIP I will forever love hearing him talk
It’s oddly uplifting to see a man of Jerry’s generation speak so openly about emotional struggles considering he’s from an era that it was not encouraged. Not that I want to generalise in that sense with regards the openness of respective generations.
Jerry West was before my time. back in the 5th grade I was encouraged to read by my teacher Mr Neal. and I just picked up any book to get started and it happened to be a bio of West. I've been an admirer of his my whole life. great in depth interview graham. good to see you hanging in there jerry
@NealBones
5 жыл бұрын
Now he just managed to turn the Clippers into title contenders as well 👏
It's crazy... Dude in this clip was in his late 70s and he thinks about the death of his brother like it happened yesterday which is insane. Shows that things stay with us until we pass away ourselves.
@franksters08
2 жыл бұрын
Trauma tends to stick around with us for many years, if not, our whole life.
@BAKER22-l4u
4 ай бұрын
Insane? WTF? NO!! It shows how GREAT a person he is inside and out...
I'm constantly wishing I was dead, and I don't tell anyone I know about it. The only reason I don't end my life is because it will really hurt the few people in my life. I wish I could go up to all of them and say that I have saved them from years of sadness, stress, heartache, darkness, blaming themselves, and probably divorce by not doing it... because it's the only thing I'm proud of. I'm just worthless. Thank you Jerry for being brave enough to be real.
@cjprince3017
7 жыл бұрын
eskimo289 Continue to be strong Whether you know it or not you are loved and God loves you
@Devin-pw7qw
7 жыл бұрын
eskimo289 get off your high horse kid they probably won't care
@eskimo289
7 жыл бұрын
My high horse? That's usually something you say to someone who's judging others as if they're perfect. So why would you say that? Because I have one thing in my life I'm proud of? I'm sorry if that bothers you. I've seen what suicide does to a family before. It wouldn't be good for my dad at the very least.
@kevinzhu6417
7 жыл бұрын
eskimo289 ignore cheese pizza man he doesn't know what he's saying, just a random person with probably a poor social life trying to be rude. pepperoni is better anyways don't worry bud
@caleb6595
7 жыл бұрын
Hey man, Ive been horribly depressed for the last 5 years but just these past few months I think I've really recovered. I know it sounds really cheesy but I just started being thankful for small things every day. I know being thankful for anything is hard to do and see when youre depressed but give it a chance man. If you want someone that will listen feel free to message me.
A true gentleman,an intellectual and a definition of an athlete.
Damn this is powerful..... The pauses west takes before expanding on his answers...... There are so many hours and so much time spent dwelling in the pain - he really takes pause to capture it all in his answers. Incredible.
Great interview, thanks for sharing. A true legend being able to share this.
You can see the pain in his eyes
Such a touching, powerful and informative interview Graham! Thank you so much... When did this interview take place if i may ask?
@senorstronk
7 жыл бұрын
2015, he lists that info in the info section of every vid.
@Aboukay80
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks.. I somehow forgot to check there
Graham literally came out of nowhere for me. You seem like a character from a fantasy plot. the mysterious reporter doing all these awesome interviews.. what comes next? you revealing to the World you are actually a vampire? haha
@JuniusR
7 жыл бұрын
lol
@bradlebanon8101
3 жыл бұрын
Graham sucks
@TheSnowshow33
3 жыл бұрын
@@bradlebanon8101 the funny thing is he is very unimpressive himself, but he does know how to shut up and listen, which is something a lot of interviewers seem to fuck up. And he does do his research. So for surface level interviews theyre actually good to listen to.
@avery94onabase
3 жыл бұрын
lmao what
@deepdirt
3 жыл бұрын
Oh you didn’t see his recent press conference? You were right. Vampire
This definitely needs more views! U came a long way man much respect.
What an incredible man.
Graham, you are doing an incredible job with these interviews. Keep up the great work just being Graham. Excellent.
@GrahamBensinger
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the kind words! -AD
Graham has more of a sparkle in his eye than anyone I've ever seen. His smile is outrageously warm and friendly and genuine-seeming. It would feel fake to me if most interviewers smiled like that, but it feels totally genuine when Graham does it. He comes across as very empathic, friendly, compassionate.
@tomdallas3690
Ай бұрын
He is a great interviewer. One of the best listeners in the whole world. Never interrupts unnecessarily, and never makes it about him.
As a young man, Abraham Lincoln read biographies of great people to see what they had in common. His findings? The great people he read about had all read biographies of great people.
@anhiirr
Ай бұрын
its bc ppl w.o figures to look up to that dont find those proper figures or outlets typically fall into the statistic category. Those with harsh to very harsh circumstances that DO infact find the proper insight or learn to be their own will/force while learning which inspiring figures to identify with are typically the ones that grow to be the exception/exceptional. ESP in a country like america be it west or lebron or other great players. I expect nothing short of what it took them to get to that level....to be what drives them in all things/facets of life. Or what IMO makes them geniuinely more different than other great players/peers of what sport or etc that first made them famous....getting to figure out/see for our own what really made them DIFFERENT is the resepct/due justice they deserve in their lifetime. Ill be looking foreward to reading wests and considering Lincolns among the ranges i had seen/covered in school back when. Stuff like this even crosses to figures like tupac. These figures are so equitable to our future/fruits of society.
He seems so humble. Yet he is a giant in the sport of basketball. Godspeed, Mr. West!
My God this was very powerful. Blessings Mr. Jerry West. Thanks for sharing!!
His book meant everything to me in high school. Jerry is a legend in and out of the courts.
Damn, seriously powerful interview Graham! Gonna have to share with my friends and family cuz you need way more subscribers! Thanks for all the content!
@midshipsport
3 жыл бұрын
The mainstream won't understand Graham's style, unfortunately. People like conflict these days
I always like Jerry West because he always was real💯
I respect Jerry West so much,great interviewer.
you have great skill Graham! I watch all your interviews. The one with Shaq talking about practice was amazing, keep up the hard work your an inspiration!
I think it's always so comforting to hear conventionally "successful" people talk about their struggles with depression. It's a reminder that I should never be jealous of anyone, and a reminder that no matter what material thing I do to "make myself happy", it's not gonna make me happy unless I shift my mindset.
Graham, you are the best of the lot today. Continued success.
Wonderful man. It helps me a lot people from his generation talking about mental health. It’s confirms to me, It’a real it happens an I need to to keep fighting on!
Kudos to Jerry for being open and honest about his struggles. A man who seemingly has had everything golden tells us he is like all of us. Fears , anger, depression and self doubt. I hope those that are feeling this way that hear his story find hope and find help. Your days will get better.
Has been a part of my life as long as i can remember. He will always be Zeek from cabin creek to me. I love this man. What a role model he is.
What a great personality for a man. Reminds me of my grandfather. An older guy who is willing to say things that make you listen. Jerry West
A great player, and an even better person!!!
People in North America equate success with wealth and materialism. This is the fatal flaw of our culture. People think, "If I could only get .... I'd be happy" This is a fallacy, and no external elements will every bring you real happiness. Wealth, relationships, championships etc will never bring happiness, it can only come from within.
Graham, you're really a great interviewer.
@GrahamBensinger
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jakub, we appreciate you watching! Make sure you're subscribed to the channel, we've got some great stuff coming up! -AD
Only people who truly suffer from depression can relate to what Jerry is talking about here. Depression for some people never goes away, so when you get smart-azzes that say "Just get over it, you ain't the only one that has had to deal with misfortune in life," you understand that some people just will never understand. One thing I did not hear in this interview is whether Jerry ever took ssri's and if they helped. They never did anything for me. I guess I need to research his bio.
Great interview!
@GrahamBensinger
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Glad you enjoyed it. -AD
thank you for your story god bless you and your wonderful family
I’ve never heard anyone ever say that before “Suicide takes courage“; but then my question follows “….Then doesn’t it take MORE courage to go on in the face of such pain?”
@jerryc5366
Ай бұрын
@skbnvacaville Absolutely what I was thinking! With GOD everything is possible! Without GOD - you can lose hope really quick. Suicide takes courage?? Only if you're trying to rationalize it. RIP Jerry. Peace.
@supwititproductionz3738
Ай бұрын
Different kinds of courage. Dying and venturing into that black unknown is its own thing altogether.
Mr. West, you are a champion to me.
I salute you Jerry.
People get uncomfortable with describing suicide as "courageous" cause no one wants to be thought of as glamourizing or encouraging it. But the truth is known by anyone who gets near that place in their mind, it takes an immense amount of courage to do it, until it doesn't.
@taejon4370
3 жыл бұрын
So true man if I had the guts to leave this earth by myself I would have a long time ago
@johnathanshell8190
2 жыл бұрын
i too have battled depression and sucidial thoughts and attempted suicide but iam still here by the grace of God press on to Jesus Jerry west❤.
RIP Jerry West😢
New sub! Great interview
what a powerfully insightful person. jerry west is incredible.
Daym Graham youre good, so young
Wow.....very profound.
"Mr. Clutch." Classiest NBA player and executive ever.
Wow very deep interview... how did u get The Logo? 👏👏👏
Zeke From Cabin Creek. Jerry West is one of the greatest basketball players of all time and is the greatest basketball executive of all time. And let's not forget that he's the NBA logo. There is a reason why guys like Shaquille O'neal refer to him as Mr. West. The things he has done for the NBA and the game of basketball are unrivaled. He is a true legend
Happiness isn't about accomplishments or acquiring things. Happiness is a state of mind.
I'm not into basketball at all but this was so helpful and insightful to me.
I pray everyone reading this has a blessed day. Know that God is enough. ✝️
Jerry West, MVP for life. All you heaters, did he ever gave up?
How do you get all of these people on your show?
I don't feel alone anymore
Jerry West is a great human being :-)
RIP
Tired of hearing old pro athletes say they didn’t make much money then. Compared to players nowadays, yes i see their argument in that sense. But when Jerry West played during the 60's he made a schiff load more money than my dad and all of his other fellow naval officers serving on submarines did.
Rest in peace.
Graham reply to my comment pls, you're a great interviewer BTW gonna make it really big one day.
@GrahamBensinger
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching! We're trying to keep hustling and growing the channel! 😬
Bensinger is an excellent interviewer
@GrahamBensinger
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Mike! -AD
So smart
i love you jerry
😓
Nobody has "the same" feelings/experiences. Not anybody.
I know how Jerry feels
If you are struggling in your life, pray to God! Have faith in God and try your best! God will help you get through what is bothering you!
I genuinely feel love and empathy for Jerry West, such a troubled but brilliant soul.
Jerry West and Larry Bird on the wings.
I’m only suicidal in the mornings. Well more then than any other time that I’m awake. Yet the tug-of-war goes on...
i dont know what he even did and hes inspiring
Hello cheerful people!
Good guy
THE LOGO!!
Respect to Two Legends: Jerry and The Gator.
My wife used to tell me ill be happier when I'm an lpn and she got it than she said ill be happier when I Bridge to RN and she accomplished that and now she keeps saying ill be happy once our KZread channel blows up and we make millions yeah goals are great and money is an awesome tool but if ur not happy with nothing you won't be happy with billions its the journey not the destination that matters!!
I seen an interview of his adoptive son who says he was molested by him,...It was so sad to watch 😢
@louisochs9135
4 жыл бұрын
His adopted son was molested by who?
I’m honestly starting to look up a lot on Jerry West.
Wow
I can somehow relate to the feeling of being ‘ just average ‘ , or even a failure , but I know that is the World talking to me . God tells me I am unique and a wonderful and a perfect creation . I choose to listen to my Savior. Tune OUT the World ( Satan ) and tune IN God .
That’s really the question, isn’t it? Is it worth it to feel this bad all the time?
@miguelitocunsuelo7200
3 жыл бұрын
Short painful answer. Yes it is!
if the world could know, money could never stop a suicidal weakness..
As a man...We've all been there.
Graham has everything in the interviews, well almost, because I'm still waiting on WWE interviews, hehe.
I see a lot of myself in Jerry West... wow
this dude looks just like the mandalorian actor but older. crazy
Wow, does Jerry West's brother ever look like a cross between Troy Aikman and Harry Connick, Jr.!
Oh gosh...smh
Is he a retired basketball player?
jerry west surprisingly doesnt have an old man voice
Suicide does take courage, if it didn’t there would be a lot more suicides!
“Suicide takes courage” thats the truest shit ever
@joeishere500
3 жыл бұрын
For me ,, it was a CLOSE CALL to snap me out of it !
The interviewer smiles too much. There is a time to smile and a time to wear a serious face.
Suicide is the opposite of courage. Suicide is never the answer. The death of his brother plus a suicide would've completely destroyed the family.
Yeah that’s the NBA logo.
r.i.p COBY
@ericmatterson9905
3 жыл бұрын
Who's Coby?