They don’t like Jen and it’s sad cuz she’s been in this marriage for 12 years. And she was right to remind them that they all have failed marriages. I think the bigger problem is they can’t accept Loyiso’s spiritual standing and how he keeps them away from his family, but I think that is why his marriage has survived this long. No annoying family that is hell bend on not understanding you while also trying to control you

@happyasouthafrican

Жыл бұрын

She must not allowe them to control her,they all failed so they must shutup

@priscillakhambule1141

Жыл бұрын

Yena Umama likuphi elakhe iduku ungumama omdala. Makuqale yena abonise ukuthi nali ngilufakile nawe njengomakiti kwamele ubenhe can June family gatherings

@Ms-lb7lb

Жыл бұрын

So true!

@ShareTheGospelTV

8 ай бұрын

I completely agree. They trying to control her. I'm glad she reminded her meddling and controlling inlaws that shes the only one who's still there .😂

But loyiso guyz is very humble and calm

Let’s hope their marriage doesn’t start having issues now that family is involved. Clearly they did fine without everyone.

@ntokozopearl6177

Жыл бұрын

Sometimes family can mess a Son's marriage..I also think this is probably gonna create some issues for Jen and Loyiso.

No one talks louder than the sister-in-law with no husband. I wish she would shut up maan! 🤐

@NunuNkosi-jn9oy

Жыл бұрын

bathong😮

@duchesstyra

Жыл бұрын

Yazini she’s out of line

@tabithabrenda9878

Жыл бұрын

Yhoo makathule nyhani uyenza mbi yonke lento

@gentlesoul9046

Жыл бұрын

In Xhosa culture she has seniority in the family as U dadobawo .

@kikiUN1

Жыл бұрын

Exactly!!!

Mama ka loyiso must lead by example though and stop telling Jen things in front of the whole family because that feels like a humiliation and a humbling tactic.

@ZomziWeAfrika

Жыл бұрын

It’s a family meeting though

@thamsanqathesonsinxezi

Жыл бұрын

@@ZomziWeAfrika men don’t need to hear womens business like that. She’s saying these things in front of Jen’s husbands brothers it’s not appropriate. When a makoti gets married, the older women of the family groom her. They don’t tell her these things at a family lunch 😂 they’ll never tell you how to be a makoti when there’s men sitting there. And I repeat, uMakoti learns by example.

@phililezulu3213

Жыл бұрын

Well said, I definitely agree. Your approach is important, and right now it seems like she is being ganged up on

@thamsanqathesonsinxezi

Жыл бұрын

@@ZomziWeAfrika it’s not, it’s an anniversary celebration 😂

@fjhkerwoiero00

Жыл бұрын

@@ZomziWeAfrika it's NOT a family meeting, it is a Brunch & they are invited by Jen & Loyiso! How do makoti invites you for food & enjoyment at her home & then you start berating her?? Poor timing from jolling Makhulu!

Shame these people have made it clear that they have a problem with Jen. Especially the sister in law! Bathong, ke jealousy or what??? I love Jen for how she always stands up for herself😂❤

@keepitfrankwithfentse

Жыл бұрын

She can't win ngwana batho. And she does not even pick fights with anyone.

@neosjournal_

Жыл бұрын

@@keepitfrankwithfentse they stay provoking her shem

@allthingswithnsovo5196

Жыл бұрын

I wanted to say the same thing, what is the issue kanti.

@zrtopics2418

Жыл бұрын

I feel terrible for Jen so many digs.

How can one family be so blessed musically? No man. It's not fair. The Balas have a distinct sound and I love it ❤

Thank you Bala family for allowing us into your home ❤😍. I pray we get more seasons, such an authentic reality show

Lol😂😂telling someone to wear a doek in her house

Zwai has anger issues did you notice his nose when Loyiso wife says lm the only who is still here

@duchesstyra

Жыл бұрын

Yes I get a feeling of resentment

Imagine someone coming to your house and tell you how to dress

@happyasouthafrican

Жыл бұрын

in the name of culture that she failed to apply in her marriage😂🤣

@zama8386

Жыл бұрын

and after they have been married for 12 years😂😂 Cha ayi

@hleziphidhlamini1012

Жыл бұрын

She remains a makoti to avoid a lot of issues dress appropriately uphume kubo. Avoid izinkulumo

@nette2144

10 ай бұрын

@@hleziphidhlamini1012I agree with you.

I just noticed. When Zwai or Loyiso gets angry, they start blinking a lot😂

@tumimasibi2366

Жыл бұрын

Yes😂

The singing warmed my heart ❤️

@tshepotyrenmodisetshepo4852

Жыл бұрын

Sispinkie'voice tjo and Zwai's baritone 😢😢😢

They don't have timing at all imagine after 4kids they tell me to do things as Makoti,hayi leave Jen alone

@alinahcindi2783

Жыл бұрын

Seriously they don't hey. Love how Jen always has some come-backs though 😂😂😂😂

Jen is right, she's the only still around because for 12 years they were married with her husband they didn't have the in-laws meddling in her marriage. Side note, they ALL have failed marriages, except her & Loyiso.

@mynameis2685

Жыл бұрын

its none of her business . It doesn't matter . How has a failed marriage or not . She must wear. A doek . Or ask .they invited them . For saying that she was disrespectful.

@mizzleefromsa3493

Жыл бұрын

@@mynameis2685 Your sentence construction my dear, let me try to decipher what you're trying to convey to me. 1st of all, she invited them to their home, that was not the forum to address such, secondly if they do things culturally, they must invite her elders, & do things the proper way. They can't come & dictate to her what to do in her house, that's not right. If she goes to their house then they can have those demands. There was nothing wrong with her dress, it covered her arms, did you see any cleavage? NO. And for the mother to say "that's not my daughter" that's where the danger is🚩🚩

@mizzleefromsa3493

Жыл бұрын

@@mynameis2685 It is her business that they have failed marriages. I won't listen to a single person to teach me marriage advice, just like I won't take advice from a failed business man.

@nananxumalo1990

Жыл бұрын

@@mizzleefromsa3493 well said. Pinky Bala is the one that irritates me, poor Jen.

@mizzleefromsa3493

Жыл бұрын

@Nana Nxumalo 😂I know right? Yes, in this episode, she annoyed me too.

❤️ love Loyiso and Jen , humble couple and rooted in their believe👌

Pinky can sing maaaan!!!

But mama, where is your doek? She is taking your shape.

@alinahcindi2783

Жыл бұрын

Thank you wear is mama's doek

@asive_dimpho

Жыл бұрын

She's not married to Loyiso, and Jen is not her mother-in-law so she doesn't have to.

@happyasouthafrican

Жыл бұрын

🙄🙄🙄 they all failed in their marriages to apply wat,they want Jan to apply yet they expect Jan to follow all this crazy rules after 12 yrs

@zama8386

Жыл бұрын

@@asive_dimpho but she's married to the man she came with

@asive_dimpho

Жыл бұрын

@zama yes, tradition doesn't say you cover up when you with your men it speaks to your in-laws, Jen is with her in-laws and not with her husband and friends. Read up on IsiXhosa tradition guys if you not Xhosa, the only thing I can agree with yoll on is why they waited so long to teach her the ways of being a Xhosa bride.

Pinky's voice😍😍😍😍

@tshepotyrenmodisetshepo4852

Жыл бұрын

I got goosebumps while listening to her

Jen is what a wife should be! 🥹

@tumimasibi2366

Жыл бұрын

I like the way she stands up for herself

@nananxumalo1990

11 ай бұрын

@@tumimasibi2366 I also like it. It's so hard to do that sometimes she is very brave.

Why do people do this? Because she could have addressed her makoti on the side not put her on blast like that no! After 12 years of silence and disregard, now you want to play catch up like this?? No. And also, Jen wasn't being shady bhut Zwai, Jen was just saying she is the only wife to her husband and the only makoti the family knows concerning her husband like there is no other that will replace her. She was not referring to anyone else's marriage. We need to learn to have generous assumptions of people not always jump to assume the worst. Or rather people should talk less and just eat and part ways because wow😂😂😂 the discomfort is tangible.

Pinky looks like their mommy❤❤❤ beautiful women including Jen. Ive always admired their family

That's her house tjooo...she isn't naked or half naked or dressed in an appropriate way ..ae suka tlohelang ngwanemong...Pinky itholele lejuba

Well said Jen futhi uZwai uyaphapha

They are expecting Jen to wear a doek and yet they are still addressing her as Jen. They are trying to instill the tradition when it's convenient for them. Poor Jen 😢😢

I feel like this family wants to bully Jen 😢 If they know it all well why are their marriages all broken 💩

Zwai is so matured, uyindodwa mfondini... 👏👏👏 Got a big heart...

One thing about Xhosa families we will sing our little hearts out when we gather

Mama is a Christian and she doesn't follow culture, but Jan must wear doek and follow a Xhosa culture. They must give Jan a break. Now that she has moved closer to the family, she'll have headaches.

@ncesh8348

Жыл бұрын

The mother in law must tell the daughter in law to not wear a doek even if the mother doesn't follow tradition . The daughter in law gets permission from the mother in law

@khanyimkhizwana8048

Жыл бұрын

To wear a doek is not a Xhosa culture, it is a mother inlaw's responsibility to teach her daughter inlaw how to conduct herself as a makoti that has got nothing to do with culture.

@thobekamvimbi3041

Жыл бұрын

You do not understand what this Monster in-law is troubling my spirit. She's evil, questioning that nonsense of wearing a doek, on other hand doesn't conform with that traditional work or do that was happening there, she wasn't happy at all. Meaning is confused, She's a Christian on other hand, she wants her daughter in-law to wear a doek as symbol of respect, but do not want to support the traditional gig that was happening in the family. I was very patapt, it just shows how arrogant in-laws can be towards their daughter in-law, and as a husband you have to keep quiet , not back chat bcz you respect your family, and compromise your relationship to your siblings. It does put a man in a dilemma bcz he cannot choose between his parents and wife. Going forward , that abuse will destroy their children's marriage. Mother in-law on other hand, is not modeling the right thing, is not wearing a doek to show Loyiso's wife how to go about as a Nkosikazi. Khona, why these years they've been married. It's tiring!

@khathutshelomatlou9712

Жыл бұрын

@@thobekamvimbi3041 I also questioned the doek thing since she's christian. I know there are christians who follow tradition but you see it in practice. I just see hypocrisy here.

I like how you all don’t see a reason of Jen dressing as a Makoti infront of her mother in law but all of you married Xhosa dress accordingly hee ndiyanoyika

They hate each other’s guts 😭🤣

@ZomziWeAfrika

Жыл бұрын

Every family has issues in the real world. Their is being publicized that’s the difference

@thamsanqathesonsinxezi

Жыл бұрын

@@ZomziWeAfrika I agree with you there.

Mother in law must wear a doek.I love Loyisos family and the whole show

If they were as cultural as they try to come across ,they wouldnt be telling Jen these things now. How to be a makoti after 3 kids and so many years in marriage? Mxm

@yolisamrso9827

Жыл бұрын

Maybe in their little minds they thought Jen would'nt be here by now hence they didnt bother showing her what is expected of her as a makoti.

@happyasouthafrican

Жыл бұрын

Their little mind failed them and they are late with their so called culture.

Azikhale bathathe Jenn🤣

The Balas are real! I love it!

kodwa mama...you shouldn't have spoken about the attire in front of the brothers

Yhu I love you the BALA'S.Mama you are so great.❤

Sham Jen an loyiso ...wishing you guys more blessings and prosperity.

A love a singing family❤️. It reminds me of my own🥹.

I love their singing part

Jen you loved. Contine to be humbled

The singing 🥰😊

I luv u guyz👏👏your voices woow

Lyiso omg looooove him

Wow what a beautiful family. ❤❤

Such oppression on someone else’s child, daughter in laws will never find a space in homes they married in yhoo, sister in law must stay away.

@happyasouthafrican

Жыл бұрын

worse she failed in her own marriage😳

@nananxumalo1990

Жыл бұрын

I dont understand her as well. sister in laws should not be mingling She should stay away.

They are a beautiful family

Is it me or PINKY has a problem with Jen??

@khanyimkhizwana8048

Жыл бұрын

I think her favorite makoti was Melanie. And from what I have picked up on other episodes Jen also doesn't like her inlaw's.

@auntyb4130

Жыл бұрын

Yes

@brandonstilinskit3924

Жыл бұрын

Yes, zwai aswell

@vimbaimupesa4670

Жыл бұрын

@@khanyimkhizwana8048 Melanie is who's wife

@constancenikiwe4145

Жыл бұрын

No it's Jen who is a problem here to her it's all about Loyiso not his family must watch carefully and she's defensive

I'm glad Jen stood up for herself as a makoti. Way to go, Jen!😂

I just feel they don't like Jan. Jan u are beutiful and be strong dear❤

Yess Jen🎉

Jenn must learn from Mamazala, how can you tell makoti to wear doek but WENA?

@mpumelelontombela589

Жыл бұрын

But she is the wife and its about respect

@fez6840

Жыл бұрын

​@@mpumelelontombela589 it's her house tho

@thamsanqathesonsinxezi

Жыл бұрын

Unxibe iWig ngelo xesha yena umamazala 👀👀👀👀 like pls

@amb549

Жыл бұрын

Even if she's got her opinions its how you say it. Respect and loving way.

@houseofentertainment7243

Жыл бұрын

Cz they doing it for TV

My sister been married to Xhosa man for 20 years. She dont wear doek unless she wants to. Her husband told her it doesnt matter and her mother in law. How does wearing doek represent respect honestly?

@NelaNos

Жыл бұрын

It's our culture and if you decide to partake in a person's culture then you respect and comply

@lisanomafola6804

Жыл бұрын

So if they're going down to rurals they don't Weare iduku? How did she do it with other makotiz

@houseofentertainment7243

Жыл бұрын

Lol and Xhosa ppl acting like they are cultural really is new to me,maybe cz they on tv. Those ones go to an Afrikaans speaking place and turn coloureds,go to JHB for a week,come back Zulu

@ncesh8348

Жыл бұрын

​​@@houseofentertainment7243 I know a lot of Xhosa people who come back from Joburg and still speak pure Xhosa. And yes we are cultural, in my village married women wear docks especially when they are going to meet the mother in law. There's is nothing wrong with being friendly and speaking other people's language's ungade uthi sijika sibe ngamaZulu namacoloured.🙄

@yomie7026

Жыл бұрын

Its tradition. Each family is different and can change their traditions.

I wish Jen can just call them to order in Afrikaans if she is😍😂😂

@neosjournal_

Жыл бұрын

She’s Polish 🇵🇱 & Ghanaian🇬🇭

@shalbec3232

Жыл бұрын

​@@neosjournal_ then how did she end up on the show?😂

@chiefer1325

Жыл бұрын

She is Polish +Ghanaian

@chiefer1325

Жыл бұрын

​@@shalbec3232she is married to one of the Bala brothers, Loyiso

They can sing though ❤

Amandla Jen😍😍

The setting is Wrong wethu. Mama could have requested Jens ear privately about those things not During the people aibo. Now wenza ugirl ikomkyk infront of her kids

Tjo Jen and shade tjo wow

Loyiso blinks a lot though 😂

When they broke out in music 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍.

Abasaculi kamandi❤

Zwai sana is very emotional yhuuu ha.a

Is it gonna be on ShowMax?

Jen was so right!

Ey pho niyangiculela yini Bala family 💝 ningithatha ningibeke

Sister 's voice 👌👌👌

@pointa2b388

Жыл бұрын

And Zwai's low notes

When she said “Jen invited us to Loyiso’s house” I knew she does not like her.Because how is it not Jen’s house to.Why not say they invited us to their house? And about Doek mother in law should set an example 😒😒

@Estell-o3t

Жыл бұрын

Jen is very stressful to Sis Pinky. She wants to humble her so bad😂😂😂

@OkwithOG

Жыл бұрын

@@Estell-o3t how?

Klk they are trying to change that and celebrate with you guys...

I'm the only one still here.... spicy

I love the way the Mother resetting everything, families really truly need such if there's a point & for the big sis I love older siblings who stand the ground .

Things can still be reviewed and re-looked at Jen, you can’t mend the past but only focus on the future, Xhosa 5:39 culture is best known by Xhosa people, if you had and eaten u Tsiki, khabavise kamandi maan nje bazive nabo banaye umolokazana, you’ll see, everything will fall into place,

"Makoti standing " khange ndihleke bethuna

Heh bathong!🤣😂

LOYISO'S MOM❤

Lol uZwai didn't like jen's shade

So in-law and tradition apply on how Jen is dressed but not in other places lol typical Africans only to their convenience

@patienceikombele9161

Жыл бұрын

My point exactly 💯

Why the old lady is not wearing a dork? WHY the sisters in laws are not wearing doek ?

Jen sorry babe 🥰🥰but with respecting your elders u'll go far even if u feel like it's unnecessary..do as they say.

Did Zwai’ ex wife also wear lk that?

Ungumakoti jan😂😂

Eeeh 😂

Jen is so respectful. So wats the fuss about. Think they want Loyiso s marriage to fail.

Pinky you can sing nd you beautiful akere...but uve never married girl maybe take a bck seat nd hear what loyiso has to say khala sakhe isqathulo mostan chill 🤫

Sis pinkie mare......

Pinky and Mama must leave Jen alone, it’s been 14 years later and you want to change things and don’t wanna respect her Approach is important

ahhh nifuze bani ngokucula

Mama WA off rampa nou. You also married but you not on your doek too....

The reason why Mel left

Family neh

Umakoti is makoti and that doesn’t change.Kumele ulandele imithetho noma wazi ekumeleke kwenzeke as a or especially Xhosa tradition.But if u were told not to then….

@baxolisembungeni462

Жыл бұрын

Otherwise,I love u Bala Family

Loyiso seems so offended

Typical sister in law Pinky, she hates Jen.

That's bullying maketala nentombi yakakho kumakoti. But why are you doing this... This way??? If it was you, how would you fill...?

These people's marriage failed despite being "Doek wearers"

Wow Eish am the only still standing

@AFRICAN-TALES.3447

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

@beeelephant7898

Жыл бұрын

It's not shade but the whole tree shame 😂😂U Jen kodwa une phuza face for umzalwane😂

@fjhkerwoiero00

Жыл бұрын

@@beeelephant7898 she became mzalwane after meeting Loyiso, by then Jack Daniels had had its fair share! 🤭😭😂

@beeelephant7898

Жыл бұрын

@@fjhkerwoiero00 Ooooh makes sense ke ngoba hayibo🤭😝

I'm the only one,was far fetched 😮😮

Yhu guys you can sing, Pinky your Soprano 👌, Zwayi Maan you are so humble even sowucula, Jen shame wena ukhamisa utyhale shame ngathi usethobhini...awulazi ingomso ntomboo, mama yena made confused things nomakoti wakhe ngoba uyatsho Jen ukuba kwathw doek doesn't matter kutsho umama ku Jen, Makoti naye shame is victimising abakhe xa esekoneni kwingxoxo yakhe no Pinky wazikhulula ngokuba arrogant egudla imitshato ephelileyo or efileyo egudla u Zwayi nophelo no Pinky ongasenamkhwenyana wababerha below the belts ethi she is the only one here, yabona ke ngoku mouth diarhea ke le ka Jen xa beyikhumtsha these uttering zika Jen ngoba uthetha kuthethwa kodwa utaboniswa and ubyanisile u Pinky Bahama ukulungisa ipast eye ya wrongo..yena gqi ngokubhoxa uthi nguye yedwa okhoyo kwabamakoti a akho abanye boyiswa. Realy Jen? Zandixakwe

It is soo important for Jen to wear a doek so that will consider her as umakoti woo Bala

@happyasouthafrican

Жыл бұрын

12 yrs later😳 after their failures they now want to tell her wat to do

Haebo I jealous granny zwai pinky ....yes Jen is right her marriage is still saved....❤❤❤what's with doeks nd long dresses haibo bethunana in this modern times jerrrreee😮

The hypocrisy.