To all the ladies in the comments that's hurt over a man don't give up. I speak for the good men. We are looking for yall just like yall searching for us. I found mines. So I just wanna say don't give up on us there are plenty of us good men out there waiting to be all you ever dreamed of. Hold your head up and know that you deserve better and I pray for all of you that better is coming

@inspiration3133

Жыл бұрын

Best comment ever...

@taneeshafleming4871

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏🏾

@funsizedbre5454

Жыл бұрын

This comment was so needed I appreciate that you are one of the good guys and glad you found your one

@mariescosmetics2471

Жыл бұрын

I needed this with tears running down my face thank you 😊

@raineydiamonds8522

Жыл бұрын

That's nice to hear coming from a man

Being a good girl in a world full of hurtful men is painful 😔

@OnlyTSay

2 жыл бұрын

Af 😞

@shequirasmith7922

2 жыл бұрын

You right

@Lastdayone

2 жыл бұрын

Truly

@hildajones5160

2 жыл бұрын

Be gay

@kimbrown1830

2 жыл бұрын

Very 🤧

This song is deep but Lord knows you better love yourself 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

I will admit, this song did hit home until I had to remember what I did… When your losing your self something has to happen to prevent you from drowning. Fix your crown, turn that frown into a smile, and press play!

Real R&B never goes out of style!! Amazing voices from beautiful black woman! #blackgirlmagic

How does this song have me all in my feelings and I'm happily married? Freaking memory lane, this collaboration is EVERYTHING!

@naomiebussa-muissa6001

3 жыл бұрын

That’s what I said...got me thinking of my break up from like 10 years ago 😂😂

@lani73able

3 жыл бұрын

Girl yes I’m like this ain’t even my era but the lyrics are relatable for the younger population.

@watchmedome2

3 жыл бұрын

Omgg Sisss!!!! Why is that sooo me too!

@wondrikabrown4840

3 жыл бұрын

Me tooooo

@moneygreen1953

3 жыл бұрын

You sure you happy?

I’m sorry for making hos out of the few that really tried to love me. I am the poverty of my own mistakes. I love you sister for God has provided you.

Man, this song hits different. It's on repeat!!!

This song makes you go through all the feels ❤😥

@petrinasmith9644

3 жыл бұрын

Yaaaassss sis

@KeituTheSongbird

3 жыл бұрын

@@petrinasmith9644 ❤

I cried myself to sleep the other night over a nothing ass ninja... And if I would have came across this song that night... I would have listened to this on repeat.. While crying... But instead I listened to H.E.R. "MY song" on repeat and cried... The lyrics to this song are exactly the thoughts that went through my head... And I can't believe I cried over him... But then I remembered... It's my time of the month... I knew I wasn't a weak bitch 😂 😂 😂 Love the song Jaz

@ernestopare-adu5159

3 жыл бұрын

😭😭😂😂😂😂😂

@brandiclemons6502

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣😭😭

@kezianorea7856

3 жыл бұрын

Lmfaooooo😂😂😭😭

@sylviababajide7660

3 жыл бұрын

Keep ya head up Sis! You Deserve Better you know it!

@ladytoya6403

3 жыл бұрын

@@sylviababajide7660 thank you so much for that... Right on time message though frfr... I needed the encouragement today

I always thought they really don't want a good girl and no hope for me. I love myself don't get me wrong it makes you scared to go out there because they want the other girl and not someone like me. They want someone like me later down the line but I don't want to be put on the shelf to be taken down when I'm priceless like a collectible or something like I wasn't worth something . I was worth so much then and now

@KourtneyLove

3 жыл бұрын

Yes nothin but the truth

@overheavendio5665

3 жыл бұрын

It happens in reverse too. We all just need to stop going savage just cuz we hurt.

@queejay9008

3 жыл бұрын

Them some big facts

@tawandajohnson603

3 жыл бұрын

Q

@kimbrown1830

2 жыл бұрын

Wow I felt this 😔

Tf I’m crying for ?! 🙄🥴

@teetee8118

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr.. smh

@lx9414

3 жыл бұрын

I’m over that boy I ain’t crying over him I’m crying over how dirty he did me

@cassandradavis2670

3 жыл бұрын

Oms i started crying

@MrBoston517

3 жыл бұрын

Listen 🙌🏾crying to death😫

@MsDaVis-hr6qb

3 жыл бұрын

Glad I wasn't the only one

“I can’t do this good girl shit nomore!” Is the realest line ever

Man Im crying so hard right now! Sing my pain baby girl sang!

This song hit hard men don't know the damage they be causing and then act like they don't understand when a woman reach the limit

@moneygreen1953

3 жыл бұрын

It's always our fault, huh? Even if you picking the wrong dudes ,huh? What about you ? Are you cooperating with black men? Are you feminine? Or are you a feminist?

@balancebeam2511

2 жыл бұрын

Yes sis, this got me to. I thought I met the men of my life and he went ghost. I was sad, but I did bounce back. But this jam hit you different.

@gaylehicks5079

2 жыл бұрын

Damage that takes years to bounce back from

@gaylehicks5079

2 жыл бұрын

@@moneygreen1953 separation of the black family started along time ago and continues today. A woman will do everything and it still not be enough.

@nmessai215

2 жыл бұрын

@@moneygreen1953 You know what they say about women and accountability😩 Definitely are men out here that move foul, but when they show those red flags a woman needs to move on. But yea choosing the wrong type based on image and feminist attitudes have hurt women and will continue to

Love this song..2 of my favorite artists..that's why self love is so important..no one should be significant enough to change your character or integrity...you can't seek your happiness in another person..you have to love yourself so much if someone rejects you..you can gladly smile and keep it pushing and be like "you missing out on a dope ass person" God closes doors for a reasons..some people don't even deserve to have your time..Thank God I learned to love myself despite any rejections from others

@tamekajohnson8100

3 жыл бұрын

Very well said!!! Thank you 🙏🏾

@ashleyvlack

3 жыл бұрын

Extremely well said! 👏

@audreybaine2649

3 жыл бұрын

Yes ma'am ♥️

@jazzieperiod290

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you💛💪

@jermainewilliams5296

2 жыл бұрын

Ase 🙌🏿

Cried myself to sleep for the past few months to this song. My heart is so broken . I love him so much i dont know what i did to deserve the way he treated me

@gaylehicks5079

2 жыл бұрын

You did nothing. Hurt people hurt people.

@lovelybrown5339

2 жыл бұрын

Lady nothing..it was bit you..it was him...your more than enough!

@brucesmith6953

2 жыл бұрын

So sorry sis, get yourself together I'm praying for you

@MomTheEbayer101

2 жыл бұрын

Queen… it’s going to be ok. Trust me, you’ll forget all about him in a few months. Remember, crying is a natural emotion and it’s ok to do when you’re hurting. Sit in it, feel the pain and get up so you can come out a conqueror!

@ms.ladysanders3939

2 жыл бұрын

The only thing you did wrong was...Stayed. You gonna be fine. God closed that door to open another.

The two of them together are Real Blk Girl Magic❤️❤️❤️I guess I take this one as MY new anthem 🥲😫

I cant do this good girl shit no more...🤦🏾‍♀️

And when people say that R&B is dead they don't truly understand that there are people like Jazmine Sullivan like H.E.R. and several other people who are trying to keep it alive. It's explicitly sad when you have a generation that has no idea what you love music sounds like or what self-reflection sounds like. When somebody could realize that they made a mistake and they can understand themselves through the power of music. You will know - BMU Someome to Love You - Ruff Endz Not gonna Cry - Mary J Blige Confessions - Usher Raymond And now this, let this be a revival to the way R&B can make you feel the lyrics and understsnd the music.

I knew it was real when u blocked me,Now I sit at home judging my body. I Felt THIS😳😥😩

@mrsjordan2452

3 жыл бұрын

My ex of 5 years just walked away from this relationship he blocked me and i knew he wasnt coming back

@kamarahfrancis

2 жыл бұрын

Felt it to my core

@sag112789

2 жыл бұрын

That line hit every time

I'm older in my 60's ,this CD Hotels gives me life . I love it .

YALL BETTA SAANNGGGG!!🔥🔥🔥

This song is real...but do not stuck in the moment cause it's just what it is. Love is an ADDED ATTRIBUTE, ATTRACTION. Not everything and depending on a whole other person to create your happiness thru love.

Cant turn a bad girl good but once you turn a good girl bad( she gone 4eva). She said fuck it after going thru all that.

@ramonicadennis3754

3 жыл бұрын

I feel that cause I'm at that point. Fuck it and that nigga lbs.

@TLD_777LOCS

3 жыл бұрын

When a good girl fed up is the worse

@shadashiathompson4356

2 жыл бұрын

!!!!!!!!!

This song hits so different when your hurting....real love doesn't even seem real anymore 💔

This song is crazy! H.E.R and jasmine firaaaaaa 🔥 why am I crying 😢

This song will touch all the numb senses. No matter how you've managed to get through the pain, hurt, questions, fight and hopelessness. I guess that's a good thing when it's all said and done, it makes you feel and you need to feel to heal. Thank you Jasmin and H.E.R.💜

They voice match up so well💯

This makes a man think hard very hard 💯💯💯💯💯💯

@leahjones3308

3 жыл бұрын

AND A REAL MAN LIKE YASELF WILL ACKNOWELEDGE IT💯💯💯

@user-zw2rp4qp3j

3 жыл бұрын

As it should ✊🏾

@moneygreen1953

3 жыл бұрын

Why should we think real hard? What should we be thinking about? Jaz picking the wrong dudes. Whose fault is that? She , like most black women, don't know black men. They refuse to listen to black men, so writing a song or buying a dog is what they do.

@itsjustmefr

3 жыл бұрын

@@moneygreen1953 right

@antoinettesmith4307

3 жыл бұрын

@@moneygreen1953 Not right. A lot of black men want women to submit and they lead , but reality is that MAN isn’t leading or doing anything to make US want to submit. A lot of black men were raised by single moms and have ALOT of female feelings. It’s not that we don’t listen. Are you a LEADER for US to listen and make this team work ? Seriously 😐

Anyone can relate to this. Such a beautiful song… She’s beyond her time 💯🤞🏽

@richardgriffin811

Жыл бұрын

Yes because it happens to guys as well.. facts .. some people are not content with a good thing till it’s gone.. and by then most of time it’s too late.. !! We do move on!

Still feeling it this song stays on repeat and it cant get old to me

Preach mama. Got me almost in tears. I feel you and anyone who says they've never felt like this is lying. Love you Jazzy!! 4eva and always

1st time ever hearing it. Love it n made me teary eye. And these girls super talented and need their flowers for sure. Talent.. they don't have to twerk or dance, just sing and passion and talent. #respect.

“Yes be taking us there.” Then they want to say that we crazy.. yes why because you take us there.. This song hit me every time. Yes I’m in my feelings.. he straight played me. Had his child, then cheating on me then left me to take care of the baby by myself. But it’s cool. God didn’t and want put more on us then we can bare. Whoever going threw with this so called lil boy’s.. God have us. And he will bring a good guy in our life.. don’t give up it’s going to be ok.. we have this!!!! Frfr..

@queenallie428

2 жыл бұрын

Good luck baby girl it's all good coz that baby will always love you better 😘

@Demibrown1

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you because I have three kids and mine left too

There is power in a woman's strength. Let God choose your Mr.Forever. This man is Mr. Right now.

This song will bring the tears up out of you! ❤❤❤

Idk who needs to hear this BUT: There is not one single thing she can do for that man that you can't do EXCEPT make him feel comfortable in his mediocrity. Keep your fucking head up👑

Singing my soul out to this, 5 years down the drain.

@ms.ladysanders3939

2 жыл бұрын

Never down the drain. It's ok to be a good person but you just have to know when to walk away. Then you won't feel like you wasted your time.

@nicolemoore6809

2 жыл бұрын

Same 5 years wasted

@payattention365

2 жыл бұрын

15 years for me sis🤦🏿‍♀️

@oliviafrazier7424

Жыл бұрын

11 for me 😓

@nikkipayne1939

Жыл бұрын

5 whole years wasted

This song makes me cry everytime I hear it because it takes my feelings and put it on vinyl!

LOVE the runs...and the 🎸. What a heart-felt song.😐

They are Both Beautidul and Powerful Artists. Great song expressing real life. The lyrics in this song is so true to life. It does make you feel like that in real life. The only difference is that I refuse to allow a man to dictate to me what I am going to be. It's not about a feeling but a choice. The song is real life and the feelings will come but it's all about a choice and which one will you make. A feeling can be overturned and conquered by a choice. I'd rather focus on my healing and in doing that he will look back and say like they always do "Darn, what was I thinking" and "Darn I messed up and lost a good one." Just pray for him and move on. I guarantee you that one day you'll look back and laugh while feeling great and accomplished." 💞🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

Idk.. I never been a good girl in 42 years.. This song makes me thankful

Jazmine and that pen is amazing!

We can push about self love and everything but this is often the reality after it's all said and done.

Bringing me back to 2016 ugh! Most hurtful shit but wouldn't change this experience for the world. Made me who I am today and I learned how I really should be treated and how I should be loved. Past 4 1/2 years I've been with a real one! Prince Charming who I never thought existed. 😊❤️

This song reaches so many dimensions. Black men choosing other races, not appreciating a good women who will do what they require and calling us mad after they cheat and disrespect us. I ❤️ this song it speaks to my heart. I prefer my black man and they are just not available 😟😞

This girl is so unique and underrated 😍

God I thank you for loving and protecting me covering and providing for me as I worship you serving you living in my truth as prove that My God is more than real and to him I'm everything living life with me is his dream and it's my job to make them come true

Thank God for growth. Cause never again will I let a ninja make me feel this way 🙌🏽

It’s even better if they leave and your emotionally still stable 😂😂😂😂🥳❤

God thank you for letting me win this time

This song hits every point that I’m going through in lyfe

@indigoblu3951

3 жыл бұрын

I can seriously relate to this one as well my last relationship broke me behind limits i had never felt this intense about love and rejection im still dealing with the trauma from that needing healing for sure smh

This was my story... My BD left me for a stripper and that’s all I ever do is question myself... why am I like this😔😢... The only thing I really want outta life is my own family😔

@taylorpinkney7253

3 жыл бұрын

Girl I feel your pain😩😩

@tinakinzer1664

3 жыл бұрын

I know you posted this a month ago oh, I'm sorry for your pain but I'm sure we all been in your shoes before. If it helps and bring you any consolation oh, I learned it God allows certain things to happen for a reason and if you left you for a stripper you was too good for him it wasn't the other way around sweetie. God has something greater and better for you you missed a bullet don't think of it as being bad, I'm where I'm at today I've been through some things but I learn now I'm working on myself love myself, start my own business going back to school for nursing I'm investing in myself. Yes I'm single but I'm happy I'm not stressing over who he whip what you doing me and God I'm loving on me that's the best love ever to get to know who you are and your worth as a woman.. I see all this to say you going to be okay you going to make it why because I am.. We are our Sister's Keeper, just know it's nothing wrong with you you're better and greater than him the problem is him he chose someone that was beneath you when he went low you go high the sky's the limit to what you can have. Be blessed

@lateshataylor1528

3 жыл бұрын

@@tinakinzer1664 Thank uuuuuu for your kind words... i really needed to hear that... I’m not a woman who expresses my emotion a lot of the time but this song really hit home everytime I hear it... I’ve been bundling up these emotions for some time now and it gets hard sometimes only cus we share a child but I kno this happens to the best of us... I shall overcome this obstacle

@teleshiaedwards4576

3 жыл бұрын

I understand. My BD left me with 3 children years ago, but I stayed strong and held my own. Now I'm winning, kids are grown, and he's in struggle mode and unhappy. He tried to come back and I told him to step off. I just felt so much above him..nothing he can say or do now..I'm established! It gets better over time.

@jsmith1909

2 жыл бұрын

An old thread....but I wanted you to know your comment hit me. Everything you need...divinity intuition resources....they are inside of you and I wanted to give you a hug. ❤

After dealing with hurtful man after hurtful man I met my ex really thinking that was it. That this man did truly love and the hurt was over, and of course it turns right into the same old shit… And now after dealing with him? Oh I feel this song in every single breath they both sing. In each fucking word. Because I had heard this song years ago. And thought wow she can saaaang, but never really felt the true meaning in the song. I’ve definitely over the years said “eff it imma be a b*tch from now on” but after dealing with my ex I feel THIS. Like on a whole new level. She’s being real. Like I didn’t want this, I was a good girl. But fuck it now. Got what you wanted. Can’t stop listening ❤️

I feel like this song is my anthem you can have every emotion I love this song and these two Beautiful Queen hit the nail on the head ❤ ❤❤❤🔥🔥🔥

Ur a true queen that knows what ppl are going thru keep singing I need it💚🤦🏽‍♀️🙏

Here we go again God and thanks for allowing me to heal and showing my kids all the secrets they thought were lies just to protect you from all that could've been said

Girl I felt this 😭😭😭❤️❤️

On repeat!!

Love me some Jazmine real R&B to appreciate it’s the guitar for me! On repeat

This song is hitting home right now

"What you asked I would've given"..sadly this is the cycle that keeps so many women in bad relationships. Let em go

@Demibrown1

2 жыл бұрын

Yes and she was just speaking from perspective. Women who are still in the toxic relationships who are still making excuses just to keep the man around. This song is a message to let women know they are not alone and she gets it. And yes self love is important

She's describing how I fell rn

Man... this song 🎧😢

“Why you don’t love me no more? And I don’t even know what for.” Hit hard My bf ghosted me out of nowhere I’ve still never gotten an explanation We were so happy before that idk what happened

When she said I can't do this good girl shit no more I felt that 😭‼️‼️

The sad truth is men go through the same pains we do. They just have been taught not to show, share, or admit them. So they hide their pain in ways that ultimately end up hurting females. Then those females are hurting and hurt men. HURT PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE..Unfortunately. The cycle has to be interrupted and stopped at some point. I'm so grateful my husband and I decided to be the ones to end that cycle in our lives. Not after first really hurting one another over and over. BUT JESUS!!! He can help anyone change if they truly want too.

3/23/22💔 J.J🤘🏿💪

Me Singing this to my ex on FT is craaazzzyyy 😂

I think all women need to learn to be alone and love themselves! It’s hard because loneliness will start to drown you! I’ve been in a VERY long relationship and alone most of my life and I have to say that the most peaceful moments and happiest moments was when I was alone! BUILD YOURSELF UP because trust me depending on another person to take care of you, physically, financially, mentally or emotionally will almost always hurt you in the end 😢🤍🤍🤍🤍 there’s no better way to experience love than from yourself!!! TRUST ME 🙏 🥰

I was just looking for sad songs to make my heart break again. To let it hurt. I never thought about it like this from a woman's perspective before

That last verse tho !!!! 💣💣💣💣

I can sing this without crying two years ago this ate me up, You will survive ❤

I love this song...got that 90s vibe...90s had the best r@b..

All these comments are about to make me cry! Stay strong ladies! Xoxoxo ❤❤

This entire album is 🔥🔥🔥🔥

This is my first time listening to this song so I had to find the lyrics to read the words to understand what she saying. Hell no the song and the words make me thank God for where I am at in my life happy and single.. It is so important to love yourself, but it's all so easy for you to get lost in someone else.

Being loyal don't pay off... Never believed in depression until recently

“I can’t do this good girl Sh!T no more”….. 🔥

Words spoke 2 me.. feeling it all

This shit hit different when you're going through. Frfr

FIRE BABY FIRE 🔥 always been such a true Queen...

My heart is so fragile right now!!!! Preach sister

The War of Love isn't between men and women. It's between Good and Bad. There are Bad Men and Bad Women. Good Men and Good Women. Unfortunately there is more bad than Good In this world. Don't give up Heal, Grow, and Keep Searching. This time pay attention to the signs.

I’m hella fulfilled 🔥

I CANT STOP THINKING AND LISTENING AND CRYING

These two ladies need to make more songs together

My niece has not ate in three days and have had this song on repeat

She snapped

This song always makes me cry

Felt the whole song. Nbs. I’m not crying. You are 😩😔😓

This song takes me back. I have been happily married for 20 years but in my twenties…

JAZMINE!!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

SpongeBob brought me here

This song hit all the way home!!!

THE GOOD GUYS ARE RIGHT HERE!!!!!💙

She is straight 🔥

I love this song sm

I hope everyone leaves that nigga alone. He can’t do shit for you… but God will. Get right with yourself and seek God, promise he’ll never delay in your values and wants. ❤ This is for my beautiful queens!