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Jayda and Angel (update 2024)
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In a different life, they could have been a killer model couple!
@coldcloakmusic6630
Ай бұрын
Yeah they’re both beautiful
@Toonces666
Ай бұрын
So what? Why is this important?
@lizstallard9902
Ай бұрын
@@Toonces666I believe it was just an observation.
@Lorenz-lw5bs
Ай бұрын
this is so sad to think about wow
@itswhatever6950
Ай бұрын
@@Toonces666you mad at a beautiful bw and a wm together ? 😂😂😂😂
They talked about him abusing her so casually, as if it’s just a natural element of any relationship.
@Amodernelder
28 күн бұрын
Even Mark referred to them as a loving couple after hearing about the DV. Crazy.
@aitheuhc
22 күн бұрын
Everyone talking about how great they look but they should be apart. He is not good for her.
She’s not ok
@subtomypage
Ай бұрын
he's not ok he sukd guys up to support her prego then they didnt have lT he'sGAYY4EVER
@saramerhar6464
Ай бұрын
She needs to get away from him :( he is a dreamer and shes a doer, and guuurrrl you have it in you to do better! ❤
@subtomypage
Ай бұрын
@@saramerhar6464 NO SHE DONT yall forgot durng that pregancy he sold himself so she wouldnt have to as much yall need to rewatch lT so whle she was oncrack he was sukn up men and taken that up thebutt she owe him he gay 4 life he way worst than her mentally
@leneo1731
Ай бұрын
You think so? They're drug addicts living on Skid Row having to sell themselves, and do everything you can imagine for money, like, how on earth could anyone be okay in that situation?
@carlosbent5046
Ай бұрын
His not well either 😢toxic per they need to be apart to rise....
You can tell she wants to get away from him. She's telling all the business because she's ready to get clean and leave him
@zhumusic-ng9tr
Ай бұрын
She wants to change you can tell, he holding her back
@user-my6yn1uo3b
29 күн бұрын
@zhumusic-ng9tr Noone can hold you back from getting clean if you're ready. Trust skid row is a fucking jungle. They need to separate and treatment. She can do that at any time
@Hollister146
29 күн бұрын
Is he her pimp?@@zhumusic-ng9tr
@hextorcampis6113
29 күн бұрын
It doesn’t seem like that at all. Seems she wants to continue but is upset the guy doesn’t
@deefitzpatrick5810
29 күн бұрын
She’s dopesick and getting sicker by the minute and meanwhile he’s just fine because he has plenty onboard. He got his and she didn’t...and she’s irritated and resentful because of that. It’s easy to be optimistic and make great plans when you’re feeling fine but it’s a whole different story when you are dopesick.
Damn sista you gotta shake the spot nothing good will come from a relationship with this dude. He fears your betterment because then he’ll have to suffer alone. Break loose.
@subtomypage
Ай бұрын
yall forgot durng that pregancy he sold himself so she wouldnt have to as much yall need to rewatch lT so whle she was oncrack he was sukn up men and taken that up thebutt she owe him he gay 4 life he way worst than her mentally
@user-lf9uo2de4z
Ай бұрын
Absolutely 💯 I agree 👍🏿
@jennifergannuscio6086
Ай бұрын
THE ROT IS INSIDE OF HER!!!
@lindsaycromartyward3173
Ай бұрын
9:49 Mark. Spoke. My. Exact. Life. Girl. I remember 22. Now 42 exact… Hit me hard on a soul level but beautifully written and well executed commentary for real. Setting positive vibes to the sick and suffering and idk if anyone heard her- LOVE (aka, HIM- what she is living currently there as “love”) is HER ADDICTION and idk I felt like that went over their heads but I understood and truly see the inner soul sickness part of addiction is equally the same. “Love” addiction on this type of level is not very much spoken of, studied, or especially empathized and spoken about in any type of non judgmental/biased way. Hopefully once the children of this generation are grown, they can finally break down the barriers and the stigma to arrive at a better understanding and therefore hope of being able to help fix this. Idk the answers it’s so sad and just ugh.
@marietjevanderloo6442
Ай бұрын
Pain is looking for company
I hate his hand on her leg . It feels like a ownership of her . She's not touching him at all but he never let's up . He is definitely keeping her down. She needs to get free and go to rehab , I think she has a really great chance at a better life .
@tallyannklitzke932
29 күн бұрын
Yes, yes, 100% yes
@silviafigueroa5259
29 күн бұрын
💯
@celimarcruz2181
29 күн бұрын
I thought it was for comfort but they really just keeping each other stuck fr
@jemmajames6719
28 күн бұрын
Your right, she’s not touching him at all. She wants to be free.Do it please.
@gigiamharic468
28 күн бұрын
He loves her so that’s why his hand is there
She’s so naturally gorgeous. God please cover her and keep her safe allow her to wake up and get the real help and see her self worth. I pray he cleans himself up and gets help too.
@sammyjo2852
Ай бұрын
The hair is def not natural.
@prettygirlprogression
Ай бұрын
@@sammyjo2852 Thank you for pointing out the obvious.
@freezo244
Ай бұрын
Amen
@CocoaBunnie2009
29 күн бұрын
Asé/Amen 🤍
@schoomzer
28 күн бұрын
Yeah, she's beautiful. Lol
Her body language, she does not want to be there with him but they're in survival mode
@Bubblepricezz86
20 күн бұрын
She looks dope sick
@juanitawashington106
17 күн бұрын
Yes she looks tired and wore out mentally and physically.
Two beautiful kids wasting away. This is mad tragic. America is falling apart.
@Toonces666
Ай бұрын
WORD. You can say that again.
@MaltonEdwards-kp7in
Ай бұрын
Lol they DO NOT represent anything about the USA...they dwell in the creases.
@EuleneWages4644
Ай бұрын
America is going to hell in a handbag it's sad to say.💔💯
@mikeodonnell6231
Ай бұрын
It's been falling apart. This country is a complete shit hole
@BC-ti7oo
28 күн бұрын
You think it's falling apart because you frequent this channel. I'm not saying it's OK, but these kind of things have always been happening. A vast majority of America is peaceful, healthy, and safe. Maybe you should move to the slums of South America or India if you think America is so bad.
Mark help her get out of this and away from him 😢
@Toonces666
Ай бұрын
Mark is not Mother Teresa. He does more than enough already.
@jamesbaker-fu2zi
24 күн бұрын
She gotta help her self only person who can do it,there's only so much other people can do
@siyadede
5 күн бұрын
Why did you make it your job to stop someone else's call for help though? How much mark does impacts you how? @@Toonces666
@ashleyrockett6
Күн бұрын
He only helps white girls who rip him off OVER and OVER again 🙄
@1Atlantys1
Күн бұрын
@Toonces666 Why is she not worthy of Mark's help? Mark has helped others-- done tons to help, "Rebecca" ? Is it her "skin tone" that offends you? Smh...
Girl..... You had to buy your own birthday cake. If you're not going to acknowledge the big reasons you should leave this relationship and lifestyle, at least look at the small things. They matter too. YOU matter. RUN!!!
@christinewaddell
Ай бұрын
Yeeees! ❤
@kaioiamo1503
25 күн бұрын
Birthday cake?? She’s on crack.
@ntombihadebe4822
Күн бұрын
My ex ignored me on my birthday and acted like he didn't know it was my birthday. I left him
He's way more high than her believe it or not. She's so uncomfortable right now and he is cruisin. They definitely need to separate and get clean. She's more ready for that than him.
@subtomypage
Ай бұрын
yall forgot durng that pregancy he sold himself so she wouldnt have to as much yall need to rewatch lT so whle she was oncrack he was sukn up men and taken that up thebutt she owe him he gay 4 life he way worst than her mentally
@endtimesninja1235
Ай бұрын
Yeah he's LOADED
@laceyelizabeth816
Ай бұрын
@@endtimesninja1235 big loaded and she's in withdrawal but she's being strong for this interview and him
@endtimesninja1235
Ай бұрын
@@laceyelizabeth816 yeah she sick af. He's worthless I've known a lot of dudes like him. I did 26 years in them trenches
@terrytownsend5583
Ай бұрын
You have it all worked out! In your head. Foo l
*The modeling industry would love her. She has such a unique look. These babies are in for a lifetime of pain if they don't get clean. I was a junkie fro 19-35yo. I'm nearly 9 years clean & still have issues bc those years of poor life decisions still affect me today*
@sheepnomore8063
Ай бұрын
But you are clean now! Kudos to you for that. Try not to focus on the negative aspects. I'm sure seeing something like this makes you appreciate where you are now.
@Ali-Renee
Ай бұрын
@sheepnomore8063 I have a wonderful life. I didn't mean to sound so negative. My 16yo daughter is an honors student at an elite Jusit school, I'm a home owner, I make a great living, I have beautiful relationships in my life. I just wish I had a different career & I have some health issues that are a direct result of years of using.
@ahti29
Ай бұрын
@Ali-Renee why are you counting?To know how much you lasted this time?You are a junkie or you are not.When you carry this with you,you will never be free from it.Forget it and move on with a decision,that you dont use anymore.Thats it.
@lindajohnson6539
Ай бұрын
@@Ali-Renee
@timmywitty1432
Ай бұрын
@@Ali-ReneeJesuits rule this whirled, not a good group.
After this interview he probably put his hands on her because she was very verbal about what he does to her behind close doors . I think this was her cry for help ! I really hope they get better . They would not be a bad looking couple
@jenjay2432
29 күн бұрын
Exzactly what I was thinking...
@horrorbabejada5561
Күн бұрын
I don’t know about that “I hope they can get better.” I know she can get better she deserves better I am sorry, but once an abusive man always an abusive man no man has an excuse to ever put his hands on a woman and no man should ever feel that comfortable and opened about talking about abusing someone they “love” drugs or not especially when it’s other men sexualizing her and causing her harm !!
Watching this woman breaks my heart. I can barely understand her. Shes extremely sick and looks very uncomfortable 😢
@jamesbaker-fu2zi
24 күн бұрын
Only she can change that
Jayda. RUN girl. Far away from him.
I wish she would step away from him, she has so much potential and he is holding her down. 🙏🏻
@subtomypage
Ай бұрын
r u delonsiial he had sex with men for her durng pregancy he should of been left her
@jean55547
Ай бұрын
she's holding him down
@magallanesagustin4952
Ай бұрын
@@jean55547how so?
@reggiecarter9378
Ай бұрын
@@jean55547how when she’s the one trying to get sober and he’s the one beating on her.
@user-my6yn1uo3b
29 күн бұрын
@@reggiecarter9378she is high as hell right now. Noone keeps you using. She can say anything she wants. She hasn't done anything differently then him
She’s too pretty. I hope she finds her peace and get clean away from drugs. 💟
Hes holding her down n keeping her strung out so hes not alone...smh
wohh. I have the impression that Mark trivializes the domestic violence experienced by this women. Its not just about Skid Row. This dude is CLEARLY violent with her.
@Emi-t1d
Ай бұрын
She said that in a previous interview.
@rebeccamoney1589
29 күн бұрын
You are absolutely correct! I agree with you 100%!
@JosephHPaine
28 күн бұрын
I don't think he's trivializing it. If he harps on it too much this pos will just end the interview and leave. He just wants to encourage her to leave him subtly.
@jhandle900
21 күн бұрын
@JosephHPaine yes, you can only nudge and hope.
Its " time "soon", he says... there is the problem! Soon is a dream, NOW is action
@TibiSemper
Ай бұрын
Exactly, 💯 he's not ready to do what needs to be done as yet.
@katharinase614
Ай бұрын
Not soon right now he needs to say
@tallyannklitzke932
29 күн бұрын
@@TibiSemperbut she seems ready. It’s sad.
She definitely needs to get away from him. He's abusive, controlling and manipulative.
@montinacarson2350
13 күн бұрын
And he bites his nails
@LolLol-kh3uj
4 күн бұрын
@@montinacarson2350😂😂😂😂
Omg I’m tired of this lifestyle and I’m only 6 minutes in. I hope they get clean and live their ultimate dream. If you’re reading this, you CAN do it! I have faith in you. Sending love❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@priscamolotsi
Ай бұрын
I’m with you. I couldn’t bear to watch all of this. No wonder Mark has been going to therapy.😢Just listening to this can depress you!
@kymberlycourage
20 күн бұрын
Right!! I’m exhausted. I can’t even finish the video. I thank God for my life and my own manageable problems!
@alabamagirl1363
20 күн бұрын
@@kymberlycourage these videos should be shown in school. Drugs are not cool. They ruin lives.
This was so heartbreaking to watch.
@mzzzmonique
Ай бұрын
I agree.. don’t think I’m gonna be able to watch it in its entirety 💔🥺
@EuleneWages4644
Ай бұрын
Yes 💔
the guy is not ready. the lady seems tired
@subtomypage
Ай бұрын
yall forgot durng that pregancy he sold himself so she wouldnt have to as much yall need to rewatch lT so whle she was oncrack he was sukn up men and taken that up thebutt she owe him he gay 4 life he way worst than her mentally
@EuleneWages4644
Ай бұрын
Yes 💯
@MariThula
29 күн бұрын
Unfortunately she’s way too high to recognise it
@EuleneWages4644
28 күн бұрын
@@MariThula 👍🏻💯😞
She wants sobriety BAD. And that’s all you need in order to have it! You just need to be so sick of that lifestyle. I tried for 15years and couldn’t quit until I finally made my mind up. You can see that he’s hanging on to her so hard- her body language says LET ME GOOOO
@magvs_mæstro216
Ай бұрын
The way he won't let go, is sketchy as he||.....very telling
@rocoustilerocoustile4320
Ай бұрын
He's Spanish lol. Spanish and whytes are like that.
@EuleneWages4644
Ай бұрын
Yes I think she's tired of the junk.
@lindsaycromartyward3173
Ай бұрын
Amen to this
@user-my6yn1uo3b
29 күн бұрын
No she knows how to say the right thing & manipulate because she is a survivor. She Is so LOADED in this interview!! And wont even admit that shes an addict. At leats the boy does. Mark just said neather one of them are any different then they were years ago. I pray they split up and get treatment. ❤
Please tell everyone you interview in CA about Tarzana Treatment Center. They offer detox, residential care and sober living for dual diagnosis. The program saved my life and I came from these same streets. FYI ❤
8:29 why would Mark gaslight them and say they're a loving couple??????? Wtf do you see love? They need to hear the TRUTH
@nicolestargell8323
Ай бұрын
I actually thought the same thing. However, I thought about the relationships that he sees. This actually may be the best of what he sees. That’s just a different place to experience, I’m sure.
@girlcalledmango
27 күн бұрын
He's manipulative. Even the fact that these people are often high when he interviews them. Can they really consent to this?
@mchirdon1
24 күн бұрын
3:25 mark says how they laugh a lot and seem pretty happy, then she breaks down almost in tears. It triggers her so Mark keeps going for more truth/content.
This girl is so beautiful. Not that beauty is everything but her looks could potentially get her out of the lifestyle she's living. I hope a major modeling agency sees her and offers her the opportunity to get clean & rehab with the offer of employment (if she'd even consider it). I could see her on the runway or ads for major labels (Gucci, Prada, Fenti, Calvin Klein, Polo/Ralph Lauren).
@user-sz1pc7ef2i
4 күн бұрын
That’s what I said especially in the black in white picture I could see her features more in I was like dang she’s beautiful in the face she don’t even look as rough as half of the other girls doing prostitution and js drinking in smoking weed she was a soft smooth beautiful face imagine if she js got cleaned up she would definitely go far in modeling and he could too
@ComewithHope
Күн бұрын
The model lifestyle for someone who is already an addict will only exacerbate addiction...more money more access
With drugs his violence only will escalate. I afraid for her. I see the abuse because im a victim of DV.
@fullfiguredgofiguremwah9614
Ай бұрын
@@aliamonique192 he’s very abusive and all about HIMSELF and what’s best for HIM , he’ll just drag her further down into the pits . He doesn’t share the stamps on the card with her and blames her for other men harassing HER, he won’t step to those other men .. he’s not a good individual, he will get wayyyy worst the more time goes by .She has to escape him , he’s a charming devil who puts up a good front for the camera .
@TibiSemper
Ай бұрын
When she was saying that when she brings him something he's mad, when she doesn't he's mad and then when she deals with men he's mad. But he deals with the women. She's his scapegoat for his life being as it is, maybe that's why he doesn't want her or both of them to get better it takes self reflection and owning up to mistakes you've made.
@fullfiguredgofiguremwah9614
Ай бұрын
@@xoxopixiedoll no , I haven’t. I will go back to watch so I can get a better understanding of his situation from the beginning stages of it all .
@jennaphillips5075
Ай бұрын
@@fullfiguredgofiguremwah9614
@jennaphillips5075
Ай бұрын
@@fullfiguredgofiguremwah9614
Jayda, I hope you will see how abusive Angel is to you. It’s not normal or OK for Angel to abuse you. His jealousy is not normal. Run, get away from him. Go to rehab or a women’s shelter and lose contact with this POS. Make a plan and get out! I’m sorry for the loss of your baby. 🩵🥺
She has that beautiful Sudanese, Ethiopian, Somalian look. She could do high end editorial magazines! So sad!! 🥺
@dadao8564
7 күн бұрын
Senegalese look
His hand on her leg is a sign of CONTROL 😢
@rib.7809
Ай бұрын
Thought the same!!!!
@youtubeuser6317
Ай бұрын
I guess It's ok, because she is his bitcр in this relantionship
@tinam761
Ай бұрын
It’s not just his hand on her leg … that can be just connection and support… however… she’s leaning back a bit, she’s not connecting with that hand on the leg.
@Emi-t1d
Ай бұрын
She said he hits her & is controlling in a previous interview. He said he inspects her entire body daily to check every scratch & spot in an effort to "protect" her in a previous interview.
@youtubeuser6317
Ай бұрын
@@Emi-t1d hi is alpha
He is a manipulator This is sad
@subtomypage
Ай бұрын
yall forgot durng that pregancy he sold himself so she wouldnt have to as much yall need to rewatch lT so whle she was oncrack he was sukn up men and taken that up thebutt she owe him he gay 4 life he way worst than her mentally
@magvs_mæstro216
Ай бұрын
Dudes a fvkking creep. He can't even let go of her during this interview...imagine when the cameras are off, and they are alone. Dudes a text book narcissist
@EuleneWages4644
Ай бұрын
Yes
@girlcalledmango
27 күн бұрын
And as broken as her, just displaying it differently.
@MariLionheart
27 күн бұрын
@@girlcalledmangotreu that.
He’s using her and she’s in love. He’s a complete narcissist, him wanting to pimp her out for more drugs and her being pregnant at the time all bad. Maybe that’s why she has miscarriage which is sad. Being a giver to narcissist will make you like this. 😢 Breaks my heart 💔 as a young female.
@sugarsore
Ай бұрын
Narcissist means more than just self centered.
@subtomypage
Ай бұрын
yall forgot durng that pregancy he sold himself so she wouldnt have to as much yall need to rewatch lT so whle she was oncrack he was sukn up men and taken that up thebutt she owe him he gay 4 life he way worst than her mentally
@r0guedoll
Ай бұрын
@@sugarsoreexactly, the internet learned the word and now use it in every other sentence
@deerheart87
Ай бұрын
@@r0guedollexactly 💯
@annatannehill716
Ай бұрын
, it's a buzzword nowadays and people throw it around without actually knowing the clinical definition @@sugarsore
10:00 After the interviewer and the boyfriend disagree with her saying that she "gives, gives, gives", she totally disconnected for the rest of the interview from that point.. playing with her hair... That was messed up for them to do that to her smh.. she was done when her bf said "thank you, Mark".. she knows he got that abusive, prideful ego boost validating him while invalidating her.. men always team up against women no matter what smh. She was pouring her heart out and being the most open and honest, and she constantly gets treated like she's invisible and like what she says doesn't matter...
@Dbby888
3 күн бұрын
She needs therapy it’s deep rooted
I'm crying 😢😢😢 they are babies.
@terrytownsend5583
Ай бұрын
Go away you attention seeker! There not babies. And you are a fool
@vvW888
27 күн бұрын
Just babies 😢
@terrytownsend5583
27 күн бұрын
@@HappyMe-o4w attention seeker.
She's 99% already gone and he doesn't even realize it. It sucks her back in over and over but she's about done with his sorry ass.
@candyce6233
Ай бұрын
Yesss. And the sooner the better
@tinam761
Ай бұрын
His sorry ass ??? Why is it on him??? She’s the one barely able to speak in this interview. They both struggle… they are both humans and I wish the best for them. Just quit with the bullsh1t … he is not responsible for her choices and vice versa. I literally would love to see them sober and productive in life … they could maybe a have great life together.
@subekennedy9554
Ай бұрын
@tinam761 completely agree
@whoknowswhocares885
Ай бұрын
There is nobody in the right and wrong here, none of them have the means to help themselves at this point.
@racheldeck2399
Ай бұрын
Toxic codependency
She could be a model
@terrytownsend5583
Ай бұрын
Airfix maybe
They are both absolutely gorgeous. The modeling industry, social media, & KZread would definitely be successful for them if they cleaned up. They're so young. I pray they can get themselves together
Talking about your significant other’s miscarriage as a “bummer” blows my mind. Wow. That hurt.
@potted-mint
Ай бұрын
He's a child
@jennross6466
Ай бұрын
He also stated,"She's okay, she can (still) produce."🤨
@carolseven3802
Ай бұрын
Thank you! Maybe he can hear this from a man.
@carolseven3802
Ай бұрын
@@UniqueLivingGreennot about the word choice.
@carolseven3802
Ай бұрын
@@potted-mintimmature but not a child
She’s too good for him, even in one of the prior interviews he said that HE introduced her to drugs. He is her cancer
@marietjevanderloo6442
Ай бұрын
He was the one? He's bad news!
@girlygi8
Ай бұрын
didn’t she say she’s been on drugs since 12 years old??
@theawesomest2850
26 күн бұрын
@@girlygi8 he drugged her with fentanyl. She hadn’t tried it until then
@MorenikeGO
26 күн бұрын
She was already using drugs (crack). But he uses both crack and fentanyl, and intentionally tried to also get her hooked on fentanyl by secretly drugging her. He’s definitely not a good influence, but let’s not pin her initial drug use on him. They were both addicts when they met.
This girl needs to ditch this guy. He’s got something up-narcissistic, sociopathic, anti social SOMETHING is not there for him He won’t let her speak, silencing her, she has been gaslighted and brainwashed into thinking she’s the problem. He grabs her leg not out of love and support but control and domination. I don’t like it. She needs to move on from this dude.
Jayda needs to walk away from this manipulator before he goes too far and deletes her existence.
@sia6929
Ай бұрын
so scary :(
@rebeckakisoka5846
24 күн бұрын
Exactly
@user-gv4dq7rw7d
8 күн бұрын
Omg this and also the way he causally says the n word in front of her like it’s nothing
She is so pretty..and she doesnt realize it...I hope she seeks the help she needs.
@schoomzer
28 күн бұрын
Lol
crazy how beautiful they both are despite being on the streets and on drugs
@Toonces666
Ай бұрын
Who cares? Why is this even important?
@ronneshadawsey-ky5vv
Ай бұрын
Exactly
@daffodilfleur
29 күн бұрын
What it’s like to be in your early 20s.
@theTruthSeekerishere
27 күн бұрын
They won't look that way for long if they continue doing drugs.
These two. Separate please. Good on you Mark. Let them have it
@terrytownsend5583
Ай бұрын
You separate them
@sup393
Ай бұрын
@terrytownsend5583 they have to do that for themselves
@terrytownsend5583
Ай бұрын
@@sup393 that old chestnut. Aka you are all talk
@111.blackice
27 күн бұрын
@@terrytownsend5583 wtf. how is she supposed to break them up, and why would she go about that? it's obvious they shouldn't be together: that's an observation.
@terrytownsend5583
26 күн бұрын
@@111.blackice nothings obvious
They are both so deeply traumatized and codependent + active addicts. Though she is tired, she is not tired enough to leave and some of the comments about him “dragging her down” are not very compassionate. It is evident he is very resentful of her, and likely for a number of reasons - she’s feeding (nurturing, even) his addiction, she’s sold her body to provide for them both & feed their addictions, people are willing to help her and provide for her (even if it is drugs), she’s carried and miscarried their child, she’s able to rationalize (albeit fleeting) and envision a future for herself (very likely without him) and even abstain from drugs. Much of his need for control is because he has none over his whole life and he’s starting to lose control of hers too. Up until what seems like recently, the active addiction is what has consistently reinforced their codependency and trauma bonding. The tiny fleeting moments where she regains her own independence and can actively think coherently and want more for herself is a threat to that, which severely triggers his abandonment issues and/or what he views as love and stability.
@tambourine36
27 күн бұрын
The movie When a Man Loves a Woman
@erica1139
19 күн бұрын
🎉that was beautiful
Imo she needs to get away from him 😭
@deerheart87
Ай бұрын
Other way around , he is smarter than her
@sherine5487
Ай бұрын
@@deerheart87he introduced her to drugs
He's keeping her down. She clearly wants out. Hope someone helps her get out of there.
@lysergicflacid
27 күн бұрын
she said it herself in her solo interview. She said she never use to talk to boys before she met him because she learned that boys can easily lead her down the wrong path
She looks so broken 😢
@marieneu264
Ай бұрын
She does. It’s crazy they do the same drugs and he looks completely different than she does.
@subtomypage
Ай бұрын
they both r did yall forget he had sex wth men to support her prego then they didnt even have lt
@rebeccaadamski7743
Ай бұрын
Yeah so true and he's only going to make that worse. She needs to get the hell away from him, sooner rather than later
@subtomypage
Ай бұрын
@@rebeccaadamski7743 yall forgot durng that pregancy he sold himself so she wouldnt have to as much yall need to rewatch lT so whle she was oncrack he was sukn up men and taken that up thebutt she owe him he gay 4 life he way worst than her mentally
@thankor
Ай бұрын
There both victims of the drug use he’s not any worse than her
They are both gorgeous wow.. could both be supermodels 😭
I can't watch past 5 minutes, but I can tell she doesn't want to be with him. He's possessive and acts like he's trying to control her.
I remember a time i was homeless, only money i was able to make was through doordash. I was dating someone at that time, almost made no money through doordash, but two days before her birthday and the day of i hustled so much to make sure i was able to buy her a birthday cake, card, and a gift. Sure it took all my money but it was worth it. He didnt even get you that cheesecake, run
I feel like she is over him, but can't get away. I could be wrong, but something is off...
Hope they both get clean but she needs to get the hell away from this guy. He’s literally physically abusing her because of his jealousy and has no problem admitting it bc he doesn’t see it as being that wrong. He’s blaming her. Blaming her for everything. That has nothing to do with drugs. That’s his personality. I hope they both get help..
This makes me sad, you can tell shes ready to leave this life, idk if he is. They are at different points in their life. Maybe because he looks more put together hes not seeing this addiction as so much of a problem. I hope they can get the help they need whether together or apart. So much life to live its so heartbreaking 😢
Jayda, get away from him! God bless you!
@GiGi_to_3
Ай бұрын
why just her? He should get away from her too. Addicts are toxic to each other
1 word TRAGIC😢
@EuleneWages4644
Ай бұрын
👍🏻👍🏻
Thats her down fall shes a giver
Wow, her body language says it ALL.
She looks like a super model! I hope she gets clean and gets discovered!
Please, babies, get help. You're still young. Turn it around now. I have no idea what you both go through, but I see you as my kids. My son lost his life to drug addiction. He wanted to escape the pain so badly that he took his own life. It's been 7 years since I lost him. I will be praying for both of you to get clean, a job, and a roof over your heads. I want you both to know I love you and would love to wrap my arms around you and take you away from the life you're living. But unfortunately, the two of you have to do the work to get off substances and out of the situation. But know there is help if you ask for it.❤❤
She’s so ready to leave. I hope she gets the strength to take that final step. They have so many programs for DV victims. On a side note, they are both very beautiful.
So he'll admit to putting hands on her but blames it on the drugs...This only gets worse unless someone accepts the fact they can't handle their emotions and actually takes steps to correct this, and puts in all the hard work. God help the both of you and the rest of us because we surely do need all the help we can get.
She is so beautiful. She has to step away from him because he is violent and it could mess up her beauty. He is not ready so she has to let him go.
I am SO tired of hearing how good-looking the couple is. So what? How does this matter?
@avalondreaming1433
Ай бұрын
Pretty is a privilege. Pretty is currency in the world. Pretty opens all kinds of doors. You can deny it all you want but it's the God's honest truth. People are not treated equally. Imagine the difference of everyone being happy to see you wherever you go, versus people looking at you with disgust or laughing at you, or just ignoring your very existence. They were given a huge blessing and they are throwing it away.
@Toonces666
Ай бұрын
@@avalondreaming1433 Pretty is fleeting. You have to have some substance and intelligence or the world will eat you alive.
@leilanikieti3883
Ай бұрын
@@Toonces666And many people have both. In this world every advantage you have counts. Clearly these people have less access to educational resources than resources that are god -given (their looks). You’re commenting on nearly every comment that calls them attractive… idk why this triggers u so much, but there’s nothing wrong w ppl pointing out at least one compliment that will on this bleary video. The fact that this videos is garnering so much attention is partly due to their attractiveness as well.. which expands their pool of viewers who can potentially reach out to them. Wishing you peace.
@schoomzer
28 күн бұрын
And, they are NOT beautiful. That's the interesting part. When a woman is truly attractive, the haters come out and criticize her because they are jealous.
@schoomzer
28 күн бұрын
Most women are jealous of pretty women, and they show it.
Get away from this guy…holy crap look at her body language she is physically moving away from him and He is clutching onto her he pulls her back in ..this is so sad
He’s abusive, he wants to continue drugs , she wants off and away from him. Looks like she’s tweaking and he’s gaslighting her .
@subtomypage
Ай бұрын
WRONG yall forgot durng that pregancy he sold himself so she wouldnt have to as much yall need to rewatch lT so whle she was oncrack he was sukn up men and taken that up thebutt she owe him he gay 4 life he way worst than her mentally
@fabiennesaam4307
Ай бұрын
Agree 👌
@endtimesninja1235
Ай бұрын
Bingo
@TibiSemper
Ай бұрын
He was always speaking over her. When she was trying to explain herself he just leapt in almost as if she wasn't there.
@user-sk2px6ox7m
Ай бұрын
Agree
Man, shes way more real about the situation that they are in, hes probably saying the same bull shit to her every day about getting sober
@subtomypage
Ай бұрын
yall forgot durng that pregancy he sold himself so she wouldnt have to as much yall need to rewatch lT so whle she was oncrack he was sukn up men and taken that up thebutt she owe him he gay 4 life he way worst than her mentally
Dude, angel…think outside the box brother, think outside the box, LIVE OUT SIDE THE BOX BRO. BEGIN NOW
@terrytownsend5583
Ай бұрын
Start by not using cap lock
@Isnotreal42
Ай бұрын
@@terrytownsend5583 Read it again but replace angel with Terry
@magvs_mæstro216
Ай бұрын
@@terrytownsend5583superficial much?
@terrytownsend5583
Ай бұрын
@@Isnotreal42 it’s hard to take note of a cretin who thinks outside is two words. Batty boy.
@elizaschaeffer34
Ай бұрын
@@terrytownsend5583caps indicate emphasis. Calm yourself terry.
11:25 You can tell she's sick of hearing his crap
He's making excuses, she's ran out of excuses , it seems
He needs to let her go. Young People now days think toxicity is normal
Such beautiful youngins🤦♂I hope they get better
@xxXSpookyGirlXxx
Ай бұрын
I hope both of you find the strength you need to get clean. I love you. God loves you.
I heard exactly what she said... love is get drug of choice. It took me 30 plus years to figure out that I had to love myself. I thank God that I was never in a dark situation for too long but as a teenager I remember wanting to be loved so bad that I would have robbed the sky of its stars to make another human happy because their joy gave me joy... that was not purpose so it would always end bad for me. Now I know exactly what makes me happy and I won't settle for anything less. I would rather be alone and focused on my faith and love for myself than expect another human to do better.
She's beautiful.. like supermodel beautiful.. but not recommending that industry either.. it would probably be same story different day.. but she needs to gain some confidence, let Mark help her, and get away from this guy.
@schoomzer
28 күн бұрын
Lol
These two people are toxic for each other. As long as they’re with each other they’re not gonna quit doing drugs.
She does not want his hand on her
Damn fentanyl AND crack? He gna be cute young corpse 😭😞
@sugarsore
Ай бұрын
You'd be amazed at how much the human body can handle.
💔 my heart breaks hearing their story really hits different for me because they're so young and seeing them in this condition. I wish love and peace of mind on babygirl you are beautiful Jayda my love 🥹 I pray this addiction breaks away from you 🙏🏽 Blessings to both of them
Oh dear! Just babies... Cant see this ending well.
Well said, Mark...spot on😊
5:55 This is a trauma bond
@BeccaWilliams8736
24 күн бұрын
🎯💯‼️
They are both good looking , imagine if they didn’t do DRugz, I could see them being a social media influencer couple , they have the look. Hope they stop , what a waste of some good genes if they don’t ,
@marieneu264
Ай бұрын
@@fullfiguredgofiguremwah9614 imagine if they got clean, and made a social media channel about their journey and trials and tribulations. They could do great things!!!!
Duckie Thot and Timothée Chalamet in the upside down world. Smh
@rib.7809
Ай бұрын
OMG 💯💯💯💯💯
@sheniquereid2161
Ай бұрын
She reminds me of the beautiful Anok Yai. Just naturally gorgeous.
@atlmcd
28 күн бұрын
LMAO
He is a sociopath.
@Toonces666
Ай бұрын
I don’t think so. I just think he’s young, immature, and selfish.
@Emi-t1d
Ай бұрын
@@Toonces666 She said in a previous interview he hits her & is controlling.
@girlcalledmango
27 күн бұрын
He is a broken young person just like her.
@WinTW9
26 күн бұрын
@@girlcalledmango Yup, both broken yet still attracted to that lifestyle, quite frankly they both require some therapy, (DETOX), before the drug cooks them up badly
Get away from HIM BABY GIRL!!! YOU DESERVE BETTER AND I KNOW YOU WANT TO CHANGE 💔 I CAN FEEL AND SEE IT!! YOU CAN DO IT, HE DOESN'T WANT TO CHANGE OR BE SOBER . I HOPE YOU BOTH THE BEST EITHER WAY💕💕
@VonMilk
Ай бұрын
Same goes for him !!! They are better off without each other
This is sad 😞 Help her mark !!! Send her to another state for rehab . She’s young and beautiful she has a good long life ahead of her. He’s keeping her down . This is abuse , I was once a DV victim . She’s a baby 🙏🏾 .
@Toonces666
Ай бұрын
Mark is not Mother Teresa. He does more than enough already. Give me a break. Besides you can’t force people to take help. They have to want the help.
@cdavis1286
Ай бұрын
@@Toonces666 you’re 💯 percent right . He can’t help her but he needs to at least give her more confidence on being strong and go to rehab and not resulting to drugs . Call a hotline and escape if he doesn’t want to go to rehab. If that boy loves her she will understand and get clean or let her go.
@cdavis1286
Ай бұрын
@@Toonces666 also he has done more than enough and it’s very sad that people isn’t taking his advice rather then more money just for another fix
@cdavis1286
26 күн бұрын
** He
shady life, he is using her truth be told
I never comment on these videos but but his energy was very menacing and she should run as fast as she can.
@rebeccamoney1589
29 күн бұрын
I agree with you completely!!! God help her!!
They are a beautiful couple. It is so sad. They need stability and need to get totally clean. I know it's hard to say but it can be done. Work towards getting their own place, start a family when they are ready not too soon and only when they are clean. Keep going together guys! I have been with my partner for 25 years and she used to self harm and use and she cleaned up and we have kids now and a home. Stay strong out there !
@Sarah-vl1ct
Ай бұрын
They are a beautiful couple???😮
@lf1496
Ай бұрын
@@Sarah-vl1ctshe looks like a Sudanese model , a runway model, he's handsome too..
@pamdemaray9866
27 күн бұрын
@roninja6929 The last thing she needs is to stay in this incredible toxic relationship. She .makes the money and yes we all know how , and he spends it on drugs . He is a ball and chain and she will drown if she doesn't escape. Good for you on getting your life together , but he is a narcissist and enjoys the life style that goes with the skid row mentality. He is possessive and he admits to putting his hands on her and that's NEVER ok . He talks about pimping her out in a round about way . They are not a cute couple they are in the pit of addiction. I don't know why every one singles in on how pretty or handsome they each are . They are sick , unhealthy , strung out and young . She needs counseling to heal her soul and find her self worth on her own two feet. His hand on her is a sign of ownership not love . She never touches him and even leans away . With help I think she can regain her life but him not so much . He enjoys the walk he's taking. His someday , soon , will probably not come . I have seen addicts get better but they wanted it more than breathing. I hear her , she's ready him not so much . He will find another girl if and when she leaves. I just pray it's before she does have a child because that's when shit gets real . Run girl run before you can't. JS
@pamdemaray9866
27 күн бұрын
@@Sarah-vl1ct WTH is he thinking.
@roninja6929
10 күн бұрын
@@pamdemaray9866 if me and my wife had listened to what our supposed friends said, and they said things like you say we would not be together now. We would not have our beautiful mixed race kids, not had our wonderful life together. She is a terminally ill now and I am watching her die over the last few months. Those friends of hers and mine that said we should not be together are nowhere to be seen. They have not helped or supported us in life, just gave shitty advice to leave each other, get clean and have therapy. We have fought the world and in the end we have won, even though the fucking creator is taking her from me. I just see similarities between them and us, they should stick with it. You can see that they are both still on it and she needs to get off. People change and get stronger and can do together. Broken jigsaw pieces sometimes just fit. These two just need to find normality and any couple like them can do it....if they really love each other.
they are both babies still
@terrytownsend5583
Ай бұрын
No there not .
@terrytownsend5583
Ай бұрын
They got diapers
@tambourine36
27 күн бұрын
He sounds like Justin Bieber
He's not good for her. I agree. They have to get clean away from each other. He knows what to say, that's all.
What a beauty 😢 hope she can recover.
They both could be models if they got clean
@Toonces666
Ай бұрын
Yeah, that would fix everything. Do you know how much drugs play a part in the fashion industry?
Jayda you need to take care of you baby!!! This boy is bringing you down and will drag you without a care.
He doesn't want to put in the work to do better but she does
As a woman that was abused by men in past he is abusing her and isn't safe ! He will.end up hurting her 😢
Poor kid's right hand expresses all his insecurities that try to keep her down. She needs to get out. He needs to move on.