The way the dad educated his son calmly and jaeyul completely listening to his father's words rather than throwing a huge tantrum, i can see that they're amazing parents

@felixdom9693

Жыл бұрын

Jaeyul really listening to minhwan instead of yulhe

@Meth_24

Жыл бұрын

@@felixdom9693 he also listened to his mom 😅

Mom-in-law is so annoying 😂 you should let the parents decide for their own kids.. We all have our parenting styles

They are doing an excellent job with your son. Grandma is grandma, parents are parents. When the grandmother leaves angry, she just seems like another child, throwing a tantrum because they don't fulfill her whim. And it is as she said "they are her children", the old woman must let her parents educate their own children.

@linasbubble

2 жыл бұрын

THE OLD WOMAN HELPP

@user-hl4vl8qd7h

Жыл бұрын

Calling her an old woman makes you an idiot! As a working mother of triplets I never ask for my parents help or live in their house! When you start a family be prepared for the difficulties!! When you can ask for help, don't expect others not to get involved in your life!!

Minhwan and Yulhee did a great job on these activities. They let their children do more physically that can make the kids more active, stronger and knowledgeable with things. I know the grandma's intention is not bad however her actions will make trouble in the future. I can understand why Minhwan and Yulhee have the thoughts of moving out even though it was Minhwan who contributed a lot in making that house.

I also agree that the grandmother is making decisions to the best of her knowledge. However; she may later realize that she was probably the cause of this couple marital problems. We as grandparents are called to enjoy and pamper them. Not educate the whole family. I hope they can move miles away instead of having to walk on eggshells when trying to make decisions on their own. In my case I almost got separated twice. Not because I didn’t love my husband but because we always had to please my in-laws. If you rewind the video, you can see the expression of the both of them ( the couple) when the grandmother stopped everything and said, “Ok, that’s enough”. All four of them were devastated. Just saying.

@Lightup12

5 ай бұрын

Here I'm after getting know about their divorce

We know Grandma means well, but this is not her house. She must sit back and let Minhwan and Yulhee raise them as they see fit.

@abhilashmehera3813

2 жыл бұрын

It's actually her house she used to live down there but shifted up as her daughter and son in law shifted to minhwan previous house so minhwan and yulhee had to shift to their parents house

@hueyhuey5371

2 жыл бұрын

@@abhilashmehera3813 Did Min Hwan's family own the whole building from the start? Because before Min Hwan left for the military they do not show that the building has another top floor

@abhilashmehera3813

2 жыл бұрын

@@hueyhuey5371 it did but it was used for storage purposes which was later on renovated

Grandma started this, the child was happy and having fun 😱 then she storms off making it all about her 🤪

I wonder if she is happy now since her son is divorced. She is probably one of the reason why her son is divorced and her grandkids suffering from their parent’s separation. I wouldn’t want to be her daughter in law and I don’t want a mother in law like her.

now I understand why they got divorced I could not handle a mother-in-law like this either

2:45 excuse you grandma you better come back and apologize to the children for slamming the door!! That's just childish, you get mad because the babies wanna have fun and you don't want them to? The three kids looked so startled when the door slammed, whether you're a parent or not this is not okay, so what if the kids wanna have fun, it's okay, let them have fun...

Did the grandma really just say it was working up too much dust in the house LOL

Yulhee and Minhwan are great parents and raising their kids very well. Regardless of grandma taking charge and trying to control the situation, those are their kids and she should realize that they know what they are doing.

I want to shout out to the parents! They did exactly what they needed to do in this situation. At the age the child is at it is fairly common for them to throw a tantrum. The parents did there best to soothe there child while being seen by thousands. Way to go parents!

My goodness this mother in law is something else, slamming the door like a tantrum child, saying things like do whatever you want it doesn’t matter what i say, and stopping the children from having fun. I’ve only seen three videos but every time, it has been the mother in law who made an issue over nothing 😐

Jaeyul is such a good boy, stops crying when his dad tells him to 😭

Move out there guys. You will live happier and even your relationship with Minhwan's parents will become better. Nobody else decides the way you rise your children. Only you. That's the best for your babies.

why is the grandmother giving orders ? That’s not her kids and not her house.

I don't understand why Grandma has a problem with them rocking

This is why it is sometimes difficult to start some things with children because they don't know when to stop and it sucks to see them cry but they need to know that there's a time for everything. I think Grandma needs to lay down her load. I understand that they were young when they became parents and then Minhwan went into the military right after the twins were born but they are back together now. She should go enjoy her life and let them handle it on their own. I don't think she should set herself up to get her feelings hurt.

Not at their grandma acting like a child by slamming the door 😂

I completely understand Minhwan's mom. Every grandma is like that to their grandchild. My mom act like that too with my older sister's children but I usually said to my mom, "That's her children. Let her be. She knows what best for her children like how you did to us." Usually that works for me if my mom acts too protective. I understand why she got mad. She want the best for her grandchild, but so is the parents. I believe the parents have a say in making the decision, more than the grandma in here.

It must be hard for yulhee to have a mother-in-law that essentially tries taking over the mother role. It’s insulting tbh does the grandma think that yulhee is not capable of raising her own king by her how means??

Grandma was being controlling and silly. She should just go into another room if she doesn’t want to watch. Kids were not in danger at all

I don't like this kind of grandmother HAHAHA Just let the child have fun, it not even dangerous 😭. Sometimes kids need to do things like this , the grandmother overthinking and react 😪 This is the reason some kids doesn't have a happy childhood, elder always say no in a wrong way. Thanks goodness I have a great vibes since I a little kid 🤚✨ They know the limit but they don't really force

An interfering mother-in-law is a marriage killer

@andiuptown1711

Ай бұрын

*And they’re divorced now*

@terra-xoxo

Ай бұрын

Can't agree more.

I really think they need to get their own place and move out of there. The mother in law has no say in how they want to raise theire children and if things continue like this I'm afraid there will even be problems between the couple. The whole situation is just toxic tbh.

@Imanina-kh1ju

2 жыл бұрын

They actually don't live together. The mil just live nearby.

@sofypi7493

2 жыл бұрын

She lives upstair

@andiuptown1711

Ай бұрын

*Theyre divorced now*

I think this could potentially lead to a bigger problem if they do not raise this matter immediately. Also, based on what I notice.. Minhwan's Mom behaviour seem to imply that : "I contributed a lot for Yulhee in taking care of the kids, when Minhwan is out for military services. I know these kids well so i should have a say too". Something like that? Another point is that Elders in this generation particularly had way different processes back then. They dare not say anything to their own parents when they were the younger parents as well so they do not know anything about "keeping boundaries", til today. Unless, again - Minhwan & Yulhee talk it out in amicable manner.

@syahqirahhalim7967

Ай бұрын

Well i come back after their divorce. Can see why they separate now.

For me the act of the grandmother on this clip is so annoying haha the child still want to have fun but she wants him to stop that short period of time...she should let him do what he wants cuz eventually if the child is exhausted because of playing it can help him to sleep fast...

Now I know why families gets issues especially if they’re living together or next to either their in-laws nor parents. Sometimes grandmoms or granddads throws a fit like their grandchild. We do understand their pov on how to take care of kids but let the parents decide what’s best to do especially on this situation. older generations sometimes doesn’t understand and wants to discipline and make decisions like how they do it on their old way, but they have to understand and keep at their mind that they shouldn’t take over the ‘real mother’ position and let Yulhee decide what’s best for her kids.

it would be a happy complete family if the mother in law stop showing off who has the authority

I wish I had parents like them. Both are calm but firm and know how to get a child to think ahead.

Grandmother is too much poor jaeyulee

Not impressed with Grannies passive aggressiveness. She needs to relax and enjoy her grandkids being kids and having fun.

i always feel uncomfortable everytime their grandma is there since previous season. There's a limit on how much mother can interfere with their kids own small family. Your kids already grown up and know how to handle their own kids.

The Grandma's intentions may have been good, but slamming a door like that, in front of impressionable kids who can pick up on that behaviour will cause more problems than solve it...If she was upset and had complaints, she could have simply gone to them later and talked about it when the kids are not around...Plus it also puts both the parents in an akward position where they are forced to hold her feelings above the child's in fear of her getting upset again and I don't think that is OK at all...I just hope this resolves amicably....Love to both the parents and the kids....

Lol I can work out or understand problems with my partner, but if his mother is someone like this, I'd rather be alone. Elderly people who knows how to listen and empathize with those younger than them are rare, most think they're always right. 🙄

If the family had no prior engagement why not let the child play till his hearts content I’d rather have a happy child than an upset child

@mikimishisa

2 жыл бұрын

Because maybe they have other things they want to do that day, like clean cook dinner sleep lol.

Grandma probably felt left out they should have asked her to join😯

Grandma is not letting them having a family time of their own let them make memories and stuff shee always comes between they were enjoying before in that pirate ship

I can see where the grandma is coming from, but at the end of the day they are still Yulhee and Minhwan's children so Yulhee and Minhwan should have the final say on whether or not to stop what their children are doing. Also what the children were doing was not dangerous, the parents were on there with them and holding them to make sure they didn't fall, plus that's how kids learn not to do things: by falling, making mistakes, and being adventurous. Grandma need to chill and put some distance between the lines of "I wanna spoil them" and "I tell you what's best for you, not your parents" or something like that. Given all I've seen of this couple the last few years, I think they should for sure move out and away from Minhwan's parents just to create that distance because this is a toxic environment and I really don't want there to be serious marital problems between them resulting from it.

My mother was like the grandma. I have always been afraid of trying new things bc of that and have severe anxiety

Omg they r way to cute but a handful GOD Bless y’all from North Texas

Granny is a weirdo. Usually I see grandparents doing all funny things and parents telling her to stop!

The one who should do the parenting is the parents, that is why it is not good to have your in-law while still educating children

I think Grandma thinks that she's the parent I find she's a little jealous

Yulhee’s soooo pretty

I don't know that they got divorced until I watched TROS ..when I watched that show I felt pity to Minhwan .but I think twice when I read the comment ..and watching his mother in this show make me say "WTH"

I remember when Yul Hee on live ig, she said that Jae Yul listen what Minari said.

Minhwan's mom should let them rise their children on their own way. Even if they got hurt or something, it's only mom and dad responsibility. Nobody else. I'm pretty sure if she insists being the one who decides how they should rise their children, Minhwan and Yulhee relationship will be damaged. So please mom, stay away from their parenthood.

@abhilashmehera3813

5 ай бұрын

This is why they are getting divorced 😓

why don't they just take the twins out and let jaeyul plays alone if the grandmother is so worried about the twins??

To be fair I know that the grandma didn’t do it to annoy them but it was annoying they bought it for the kids to have fun and then they were having fun but because of her they had to stop. It’s annoying because the poor boy was having fun but they had to stop and they didn’t play that much. Just imagine having to put toys in front of a kid and asking him not to play I really felt bad for him. He was so sad and it must be been painful for him.

كيوت

Ini liat versi fullnya dimana?? Sub English pun gpp.

Grandmum seems more like child .usually older people thinks they are always right just cause they r older.They teach their kids discipline but they themselves wont follow it .And i guess thes is something this generation should be more concern about ,older parents throwing tantrum to kids and forcing kids is what led kids to depression and low esteem honestly Im facing same situation right now i cant even explain its just so suffocating as if its not my life i feel my life has no meaning and its boring lost my childhood towards strict parents now lost teen to strict grandmum all alone no friends no fun at all

Gostei que a sogra não se faz porque tá na TV. Embora a intenção dela seja boa e ela tenha ficado chateada, pelo menos ela reconhece que os pais são eles e a decisão de como educar é deles. Uma noite de sono resolve a chateação.

While her intention was in the right place it wasn’t accurate to the situation the inflatable is perfectly safe especially with parents around (it’s not kick up dust) if those babies fell (unlikely) it would be into the middle and would do basically no damage to them and everyone but her was enjoying it. This isn’t the only time this mother has stepped in a bit to much and “overruled” these parents in decision and really her son need to grow up and tell her to let him and his wife parent their children, she should be a grandmother to those kids and stop trying to be their mother.

I'm an asian and I was also raised, wherein proper meal must be eaten before snacks. The reason is because children can lose their appetite eating a proper meal if they eat snacks first. Eventhough the approach to Yulhee of grandmother is not proper, she meant it well. And as a young mother, she should learn from her mother-in-law. I also work with children. They are also raised that way. Proper meal first before snacks.

Minhwan is a weak sauce. Tensions can be controlled if he knew his place. It comes down to him. Anyway, glad to see the fam together again.

The mum was abit controlling nice though all in heart but sometimes gotta leave the parents teach the kids themselves

Grandma needs to relax

duh mertuanya knp sampe banting pintuuu kasian si kembar sampe kaget gitu

Bayang kan Chen Bobby ikut semacam progam kayak gini

I know she is mom she's older and has alot of experience I respect her but she shouldn't do like this she always in their house but she should leave them and let them the way they want...she should just watch and after that say something in privecey..they are kids with a lot of energy..

Ternyata sama aja yah semua mertu kyk gitu 😣😣

The Grandmother just had to ruin everything for the kids. This is the reason why living with in-laws can cause marital issues among the couples.

@abhilashmehera3813

5 ай бұрын

Yeah she also drove the couple to divorce

Maybe i am wrong. Is this show change the show format? I watched early episode when they have moon seyoon, bong taegyu and others as the main cast. And the format feels different from back then. I don't know , maybe i am wrong

@MariaSoares-dr4ko

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, is has been a couple of years already, this two MC's are the new ones too, there was another couple after the initial format too

I'm sorry but... what's wrong with the mother in law?? I'm asian with strict parents but that's literally build inside their house and both of them are watching the kids. How dangerous could it be? Let child be child for god sake.

Mom in law!!! You’re so annoying!!! 😡😡😡😡 let them be!! You ruined their moments together 😡

Actually the grandma really good mom.. dont judge her.. she just worry..

@gigit8234

2 жыл бұрын

There is a difference between a good mom and good mother in law. She has to understand the boundaries.

Grandma has no right to be upset. If the parents want the children to continue playing, that should be the end of the discussion. Walking off in a huff and slamming doors is very childish on the part of Grandma. Seriously! I think it it was very poor show on part of the Grandma. The child should not have been rewarded for throwing a tantrum. Perhaps no Kids Cafe tomorrow should be the consequence for poor behaviour. It’s not part of my culture to live with in laws after marriage, so it must be difficult for Minhwa and Juhlee to have to tolerate living with in laws. Apart from anything else, everyone becomes so judgemental as if they’re all perfect. They are new and very young parents, and will learn along the way what to do in various situations.Minhwa is a tolerant and loving young father, and Jukhlee too is young and inexperienced, and no doubt is doing her best. After all, no one gives you a hand book on how to raise children. People frowning and making comments is awful! Of course, this makes Minhwa the ‘meat in the sandwich’ so to speak. Not a pleasant situation, however, Grandma does much to help the couple, but she should allow the couple to make their own decisions, and not interfere, unless advice is called for.

@mikimishisa

2 жыл бұрын

I don't think it was a reward I think it was already planned. Like with my kids I usually have a park visit and playing outside and riding bikes if I tell them this is what were doing in the week that's what were doing. He had a tantrum all kids do he was told not to hit and he stopped. You have to realize that children are never going to be perfect as an adult we get mad and sad and cry and we learn. He's 3 or 4 like he's still learning. It isn't really about them being new parents they just are trying to deal with the emotions of 3 children as well as their mother in law.

@wandawolfe8665

2 жыл бұрын

@@mikimishisa I am an expert in child management.

@wandawolfe8665

2 жыл бұрын

@@mikimishisaYou misunderstand the connotations of the English language.

@mikimishisa

2 жыл бұрын

@@wandawolfe8665 lol you don't seem like an expert at all. Just because you personally don't understand then idk what to tell you.

Huft grandma why did u do that? Let them raise their kids the way they want.. U can give an advice but don’t control them.. As someone from a broken home family and one of the reason is a very controlling in law this is really frustrating to watch😭

the grandma is not the parent she should mind her own buisness and stop interfering with their parenting

He must go time out

The mother in law is too much, and hella rude to Yulhee.

Ah yes, typical old school tactics. Guilt tripping/Emotional manipulation, interfering and controlling things that are none of your business, behaving immaturely. I hated living with many family members and relatives (three generations) because our culture is traditional too and elders usually believe they're in the right (even if science disagrees) and they have no idea about ACTUAL respect, communication and boundaries. Unless your parents or grandparents are more on the logical side and are more modern it's hard to live with them. I wouldn't do it again.

Only if the Grandmother disappear, and let these couple have fun with their kids. Leave them be. I like this show but this Grandma is depressing to watch.

What is this show about?? Can anyone tell me plz....

@miimx6018

2 жыл бұрын

about artists who were married and they both being helpful in taking care of house and children

@subhasmitadash4759

2 жыл бұрын

@@miimx6018 thank you

@miimx6018

2 жыл бұрын

@@subhasmitadash4759 my pleasure ^ ^

Onlar ateez le videosu olan çocuklar değil mi? Valla ikizleri görünce şık diye tanıdım 😂

Seeing Mother in law mad makes this episode scripted.. She's one of the most considerate and loving grandma. She love Yulhee as her own too... don't make her look bad😍

@mikimishisa

2 жыл бұрын

Your acting as if mother in laws don't do this. She thinks she knows best because she raised children, and this isn't the first incident of her acting this way.

Sorry to say...get rid of the grandma, the family will be happier. Even couple relationship will also improve.

The mother in law overreacts. She seems really controlling, let the kids have fun, how could they possibly get hurt from an inflatable ride?😒

The mother in law is so overbearing.

The grandmas so annoying

That’s why i’m glad I’m staying away from my in laws. At least, for now.

The grandma is so childish. She needs to chill...

I don't think this well built without sharp edges play thing is bad at all ( though play time can be adjusted), esp cz parents are with the kids in it, so grandma's reaction is not right. Cz anyway kids can get hurt with anything if it has to happen . Esp how she took it to her pride n behaved also overall not a good example.. did cause sadness in parents n the child both. I know she loves them n afraid always that kids can get hurt but still. Parents respected her well in front of the kids by stopping at Grandma's first saying, also by deciding to send the thing off even though it breaks their heart cz their child likes it so much . Also parents teaching their desperate child to behave 👌👌. Generation gap also brings difference in the method of raising children. Difficult situations due to age factors too . Hope they all get back well and live together happily forever laying aside their prides and just embracing love only.

Gosh so annoying

Grandma overreacted