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Internal monologue is both a blessing and a curse because for example it's so great to have when you read books and create fictional scenarios but then when you go to sleep this voice suddenly torments you about your fears and anxieties and plays back all of your embarassing moments like why

@peri_peri.

4 жыл бұрын

So true

4 жыл бұрын

this is true also it sucks a lot it's like having someone talking to you all the time, it's a good thing at times but sometimes it's just very overwhelming

@Dan-jw2cb

4 жыл бұрын

This is so true, and I hate it.

@dreamgirlinthedark

4 жыл бұрын

So true... But wait a sec is it just a thing of people with an inner monologue to get tormented with their fears and anxieties etc. when they want to sleep, for example? I always thought everyone had it...

@aisauleshamil9919

4 жыл бұрын

Nah, people without inner monologue goes through the same stuff. I start to remember embarrassing moments from my past, but only in the “form” of thoughts not words

i never thought people don’t have internal monologues...

@memej1469

4 жыл бұрын

LEGITTTTTTTTTTTTT

@affinanur3515

4 жыл бұрын

bruh i don't"-" i think y'all special,, like jae said.. you can control what you will saying then

@hj-mm2hb

4 жыл бұрын

I don’t have one and I thought no one had it😅😅😅

@poohfai13

4 жыл бұрын

@@hj-mm2hb me too!

@poohfai13

4 жыл бұрын

@@hj-mm2hb me too!

Finally I can share my thought. I am agree with Diane. Everytime I read books, I feel like the voice changes into the character. If I haven't watched the movies, I just imagine how will the voice be like.

@dindaadytya9150

4 жыл бұрын

@salmanaf true!!! We can be anything we want 😁

@lichtcielo6587

4 жыл бұрын

Yes.

@sunn9593

4 жыл бұрын

Truee!! Sometimes I even prepare the voice 🤣

@dindaadytya9150

4 жыл бұрын

@@sunn9593 how do you prepare?

@xxcxremelxx3556

4 жыл бұрын

Same here

having an internal monologue is just like literally talking with yourself. I hear thoughts in my own voice in words, in sentences. Like if I see someone and i like their shirt i can verbalize in my head "ah, that's a cool shirt" and then keep building off that and say, still in my head, "I wonder wear they got it from.... maybe I can find it if i look it up on google or something. I'll check later maybe" It's like if i was talking to myself out loud, except it's not out loud, it's all in my head. I don't know if other people have described this but i didn't read a lot of comments, so if you're reading this Jae, hope this helps i guess And with giving speeches, just because I have an internal monologue doesn't mean I know what I'm going to say. I can write well, I think, but I cannot give a speech or speak in front of other very easily. The speech isn't automatically in my head, I still have to create the speech. So, I think that is something that just depends on how people think and how fast they are on the spot, which I don't think is something limited to only people with an internal monologue, or without.

@munni7787

4 жыл бұрын

Totally agree with the fact about talking to my mind.I actually do that often.I talk to my oinner self about something.And yeah u can't give a speech Instant without preparing it.Good advice though..thanks a lot.

@Unknown-ph8ii

4 жыл бұрын

literally rn typing and reading this i'm talking inside my head and i can hear it but not actually hear the words. like how you can look at a certain picture of a food and smell it but it's only a picture ... , example if you see pizza and you end up smelling pizza but there isn't actually a pizza in front of you.

@robinonsman5333

4 жыл бұрын

Yes! Perfect description hahaha 🙃

@keziahkayemanog558

4 жыл бұрын

Trueee

@keziahkayemanog558

4 жыл бұрын

Munni Sameee

I just can't think about the fact that people can live without an internal monologue, like...how they decide what they will get for lunch or stuff like that. it's insane.

@bibs7378

4 жыл бұрын

@Diogo Macena yes tho 😂

@TeaTeresa

4 жыл бұрын

Honestly i think deciding kn what to eat will be easier without an internal monologue because I have a discussion with myself about what i should eat 😅

@hj-mm2hb

4 жыл бұрын

If it’s like instead of having a chain of thoughts, it’s like all the thoughts you have are there at the same time

@mariagonim

4 жыл бұрын

@@sigridulleland2512 rlly? wooaaaah thats so cool and different 😆

@camille744

4 жыл бұрын

​@@sigridulleland2512 So can y'all sing songs inside your head or no? Do you just never talk to yourself at all

I think I have a self-monologue bcs whenever i read the word "interesting" it keeps reminding me of the way jae said that word sksksk

@k3n2axsx25

3 жыл бұрын

Shxijauahsgahshwv sameeeee... also... TruEeeeeeeee

So this is the reason why I woke up earlier this morning? God bless me

I agree with Diane on EVERYTHING cause I have an inner monologue too😂 wait if Jae doesn’t read in his head then does that mean he reads out loud?

@sunn9593

4 жыл бұрын

I think he just like see some blurry pics or sth??????

@asyrdal4059

4 жыл бұрын

As an avid reader without an inner monologue, I've never read out loud. Usually I'll just see super blurry pictures in my head (which is probably tied to the "not a great visualizer" thing).

@aizlynrose6830

3 жыл бұрын

@@asyrdal4059 wow! as an reader i find it so weird so say im reading Harry Potter i can hear the voices, the scene and its like an whole movie!

@asyrdal4059

3 жыл бұрын

@@aizlynrose6830 that's so cool!! ^^

This was so interesting. I always assumed people have an internal monolog, but hearing Diane explaining this to Jae makes me understand how weird is having this ability. I thought that this skill is '' developed " during your childhood, cause, like, reading books helps your imagination and stuff. But Jae said that he also read books, so now I'm assuming this has to do with your genetics or is just random. P. S. : Dive Studio's podcasts are probably the best thing I had discovered on the internet and I'm saying a big big thank you! ❤️

@qi7029

3 жыл бұрын

this is so interesting! im 8months late but i remember hating reading when i was young but i love listening to radio stations and i imagine what they say and stuff. It’s so intriguing how people’s brain may work differently

So I'm curious then, does Jae ever get songs stuck in his head if he can't hear the words?

@sunn9593

4 жыл бұрын

I guess not?! Unlike me, when I am bored I play a day6 song sksk

@hj-mm2hb

4 жыл бұрын

I don’t have an internal monologue and maybe I’m weird but I can hear songs but there’s no voice in my head

@asyrdal4059

4 жыл бұрын

I don't have an internal monologue, but I can confirm that you can definitely get songs stuck in your head. In fact, songs make up 90% of my constant thoughts, unless I'm paying attention or having a conversation.

@sunn9593

4 жыл бұрын

@@asyrdal4059 oh cool :O

@GBY005

4 жыл бұрын

I don't have internal monologue but i do get songs in my head. Not words though just the melody. If i dont sing it out loud, i wouldn't be able to recall the words

I think parallel universe would be a wholesome topic for jae. Can people that don't have inner monologue hear their own voice while typing?

@aisauleshamil9919

4 жыл бұрын

Raveendranathan VV nope, I don’t hear it while typing🤔

@asyrdal4059

4 жыл бұрын

Nope, not generally! ^^

@chandra0210

3 жыл бұрын

@@sjnead me too .i thought everyone does this.

I find this whole "pre screening your conversation" weird. I actively have an inner monologue but if im in a conversation my inner monologue becomes my outer monologue. Its not like when someones talking to me I think of an answer before saying it, because you actually listen and respond in real time. Its more for when youre by yourself or like now when typing this out.

@jessica4597

4 жыл бұрын

That's exactly what I was thinking...unlike what Diane said, my inner monologue does not act as a filter, it gets projected into real words immediately, so I do fudge up words.

@icematchalattewoatmilk

4 жыл бұрын

yeah i think that's exactly how you describe it. what you're saying verbally is what your inner monologue is saying in real time. for me it's just like im thinking and speaking in my head, but im not actually saying the words with my mouth. i find it so hard to grasp the concept of not being able to hear yourself in your head. like what do people without inner monologues "hear" inside their brain?

@Dan-jw2cb

4 жыл бұрын

I do have an inner monologue, too. But I am so bad at speaking. There's no filter or whatsoever similar to that. That's the only thing I can't relate to Diane.

@AerisTheWhisper

4 жыл бұрын

@@icematchalattewoatmilk RIght?? Like even thinking of this response, im hearing myself say it in my head. I havent said a word out loud, but i do hear it. Are people, who dont have inner monologues, not capable of hearing that? How do they respond to comments like these, i wonder?

@lolann77

3 жыл бұрын

I think it depends on the situation like if I need to actively screen or process through some things, but sometimes I think the words before they actually come out and other times, it just comes out.

Kinda same but different for me too. Whenever I read books, it's almost the same as watching a movie. That's why I'm always confused if I learned something from reading or from watching. Too much imagination. 😳

@emmiebeee123

4 жыл бұрын

omg yes thats how i read too. like most of the time when im reading i slip into the scene and its almost like im not reading just watching.

@cherrykim97_

4 жыл бұрын

TRUEEE

@ella991

4 жыл бұрын

Min Suga oh my days samee, nd people made me think is not normal 🙄😂

@keziahkayemanog558

4 жыл бұрын

😮

@rennmaboo6108

3 жыл бұрын

OMG IT'S FUCKING TRUE!

The reason why I'm always so noisy at home is because my internal monologue is too loud that I need to voice it out lol

@syahrulsyazwanimddesa4962

4 жыл бұрын

Lol same... Sometimes my internal monologues end ups accidentally being an outer.... So my family always assume i like to talk to myself... Hahahhahaha

@bibstobae8444

4 жыл бұрын

same lmao

@manik2472

3 жыл бұрын

sameeee especially when i'm alone, sometimes i have discussion with my own self

JAE BEST BOY

@rebecca-hk9lz

4 жыл бұрын

YES

And also, I love how iNTereSTing you mind works, Jae. I always wonder what other conversation that you'll bring on the next episode because you're that unpredictable! Also big thanks to Dianne for choosing interesting topics for him to share with us.

Dude I'm like constantly arguing with my inner monologue so hearing about this from ppl who don't have the inner voice is tripping me out

we all NEED ep 5 and 6 of HDIGH.

@kissmybabysky

4 жыл бұрын

Fyea

@asyrdal4059

4 жыл бұрын

Pleeeease those are some of my faves 🥺💜

@mariagonim

4 жыл бұрын

yeees ep5 is my fave!

the most intereseting is.. the intro whenn... 'how did i get here' in lazy way

I thought everyone had an internal monologue 😂😅

Heyy! I love the podcast and maybe an interest topic could be Aphantasia, which is when people can't visualise what they think. It's also called the blind mind!

@localdiscg6961

4 жыл бұрын

Hi! I got new information abt Aphantasia from you, thankyou anyway. Ive never been hear abt Aphantasia, but after you put it on i do read an article and make me curious abt that

@jimelosada5009

4 жыл бұрын

@@localdiscg6961 I'm glad you found it interesting!

@asyrdal4059

4 жыл бұрын

This would be an awesome topic for HDIGH! ^^

I’m kind of in the middle of Jae and Diane. I hear a voice in my head, but I find it really hard to change the sound of the voice. I also find it really hard to picture images in my head, like I know what an apple is but I can’t physically see it in my mind.

@seungvocadooo5795

3 жыл бұрын

omg same

Jae and his INtErEstIng.

my inner monologue gets to the point where i can hear people singing my favorite songs in my head, even though they never sang them. and when i'm reading jae's tweets, for example, it's his voice that is saying those words in my head.

it's so cute how he finds it fascinating 😂 "wowww that's so interesting"

Does anyone else just constantly sing in their head? For me, it's on almost all the time. I may look like I'm sitting there but I'm actually just jamming out XD

"Me and Jae are talking." 🤣🤣 I have a very active internal dialogue and it's kinda annoying sometimes lol. I do the different voices things when I'm reading and also see book scenes as a movie in my head when I'm reading which makes writing stories a blessing and curse lol. GREAT VIDEO!😊

i didn't know other people don't do this??? as someone who has inner monologue, i think i do it because im an introvert and i don't talk a lot so i think, talk in my head. i also love reading and its like creating a movie inside your head,, its fun

I honestly get scared when I am having an internal monologue but then I voiced it out accidentally and I started to look on my surroundings whether someone saw me.

@lerie9647

4 жыл бұрын

I actually sometimes find myself smiling or even laughing at the thing I imagine or say in my mind. It's even weirder when you walk in public and you start smiling out of nowhere

@lichtcielo6587

4 жыл бұрын

@@lerie9647 True. It's embarrassing and annoying at the same time especially when you can't help it.

All I learned was that Jae doesn’t think. Like at all. Lol. So jae gets text messages and doesn’t read them in the person’s voice? He just don’t hear youngk talking to him?

@asyrdal4059

4 жыл бұрын

As someone without an internal monologue, nope lol. We don't generally read the words in our head. For me, they're just...there. Some people (like Jae, it seems) see them as pictures. But I think reading it in the person's voice in your head is an internal monologuer thing!

i only found out a few months ago through twitter that some people don’t have inner monologues! i thought everyone had one. i usually think of everything in my own voice pretty much continuously making sentences that relate to my thoughts, but i can change the voice as i please or if relevant. i feel as though even when i’m listening to someone during a conversation, my voice is still doing it, just further in the back of my mind. so, i’ll be listening but also thinking things usually about the person/what the person is saying/what i’m going to respond. i think that’s probably why i’m so articulate too. it’s so interesting! takes a lot to get my head around it

im korean american n im fluent in english bc i was raised here but im not completely fluent in korean but my internal monologue switches into korean sometimes but in my internal monologue i can speak fluent korean but then when i try to say the same sentences aloud my "american" accent comes thru rlly strong n my sentences sound choppy idk if thats just me or-

Thanks for all this full episodes of hdigh! We miss him so much so we don't mind if you just continue upload the old video podcasts, we'll gladly appreciate it!

Y’all should talk about ghosts and stuff

i always thought i was underprepared bc i didn’t have an internal monologue but jae talking about how he thinks really makes me feel more comfortable with how i think🥰

I do not have internal monologue as well and it is so strange..I didn’t even know what is it before :) As Jae said, the thoughts just pops out in my mind and I need to structure them in order to speak up in sentences which actually make a sense. Maybe that is why it takes a long time to write an essay for me ;-;

@asyrdal4059

4 жыл бұрын

I just had this epiphany watching the episode! I _suck_ at essays, like, so much. I think it's because my ideas form _as I write,_ which is why I end up going on a lot of rabbit trails. I'm still figuring out how to bring it back to the center afterwards, though, so lots of editing for me. 😅

And I just wanna say that thank you all the host and writers, the cameraman and all the staff that works for putting out these content. it's really interesting and it's just so comfortable to listen too, and plus, I learn something new every video. SO its a win.

I already listened to the podcast but watching it, its another level! Keep it up Jae, loooove listening to your podcasts!

take a shot everytime Jae says "interesting"

I've never fell for podcast this hard. The topic is super cool!! Like its something hard to discuss but you guys put your ideas into word really well. I've watched some other videos and I kinda become addicted to your podcasts😁

sharing the same childhood memories with a kpop idol is intriguing to me. Jae, from L.A, 27 years old, and I'm from New York, 19 years old and we can both say we miss the scholastic book fairs. Nothing about it is technically or logically weird, but for a peasant like me, sharing an experience with Jae, the king himself, is somehow beyond me lol

When I got insomnia, I'll try to stop thinking. I wouldn't to imagine anything cause it would makes my brain active. And if my brain active I need to do something to stop it kinda read books or watch movies or just listening music and I'll go to sleep after my brain feels a little bit tired

i think having internal monologue can be a disadvantage when you're feeling sad or having anxiety it's like having a war inside your mind but you can't say it out loud

this is my fave episode so far.. can't believe jae doesn't have an internal monologue hahaha really love as the discussion literally have two sides as diane have an internal monologue while doesn't have.. totally love diane's remark how jae has so much to learn about hahaha.. i also love jae's comments (that "interesting" & "oookay")

totally relating to the book voices diane was talking about. in addition to that, if the scene’s escalating into something climactic or it involves a lot of the characters’ actions (quidditch or duels in harry potter for example), i’ll find myself reading the text quicker than how i would read “calmer” scenes. it’s funny when i notice it lol

this is one of my favorite hdigh episodes thank you so much dive studios 💛💙

the amount of times i have rewatch these podcast, i'll never get tired of them and especially jae "interesTING" he's too cute pls protect him at ALL cost ✋🥺

I only noticed the Eric Nam poster in the background now😂

thank you dive studios for gave us another full video of hdigh

Thank you jae, after a long day I put your podcasts on speaker and lay down. I feel happy.

Jae with glasses, dark hair and black jacket with that super white skin is perfection.

I'll be sat in a deadly serious conversation and my inner monologue that never stops literally comes up with the randomist stuff making me laugh so much because I have some weird stuff in my head that will make no sense to anyone else

Thankyou for uploading full vers

I love starting my mornings with watching HDIGH full eps. It’s such a mood booster, I tell you.

I was listening to this podcast this morning lol I love Jae

Always love Jae for being genuine 💛💛💛💛💛

jaes iconic “interesting” and “let’s talk about it” are absolutely amazing

Omg it was so interesting to watch!!

My 3 a.m. thought is just me missing Jae. Thank you, dive studios! 🧡

I was just watching this in the lounge and my dad said Jae has a really relaxing and comforting voice and I couldn’t agree more

12:54 Diane: it's like memories I haven't lived yet. my brain: *flashback to when Jae and Eric were talking about brain transplants*

@asyrdal4059

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@katyliu7832

4 жыл бұрын

true hhhh

This topic is so so interesting! Good video. I am totally on Diane's side, and surprised this is not a common thing. When I read a book, it's almost same as listening an audio book. There is a voice acting the character in the book. If I watched a movie before reading the original novel, then I can hear the voice of the actor who was seen on that movie.

@leximo_

3 жыл бұрын

I agree with you, but I'm pretty sure it's actually more common for people to have an inner monologue as Diane said.

Yaaay another full clip 🙌

So now I’m wondering how Jae writes his lyrics. If he doesn’t have an inner monologue then where do the ideas come from? Does he hear the music in his head along with the lyrics or does he just he just compose it out? When I write I always have a running commentary of what my next sentence would be and how I could change it to sound better but he doesn’t have the inner monologue so where does it condensed into words? I’m so intrigued on how his thought process works!

i tend to think of my internal voice as like... you know when you need to do an essay for an assignment and you do multiple drafts and versions? i pick how to type/write out and even say things in that way (i don't know if this makes sense but it's the best way i can explain it). and sometimes there'll be multiple layers of thoughts, like i'll be thinking one thing but i'll also be subconsciously thinking another thing in the "background" and sometimes i re-explain things to myself in my head in detail to "clarify" despite knowing exactly what i meant the first time i thought it. but sometimes i also only see things as images or scenes and they don't have any bg commentary coming in from me, like when i'm writing a narrative story and i just have the idea (like jae mentioned) and then i have to make a concentrated effort to fully and properly describe it. and all the while i'll be grumbling to myself or panicking in my head if i have a deadline to do it by and it's the last minute i'm writing it at. edit: i realised after rereading this how confusing this is to understand and i genuinely have no idea how to make it make any sense edit 2: also i don't hear a specific voice (or even my own) unless i consciously try to; like if i were to recall something i heard jae say, i'd hear it IN his voice, but usually it's just A Voice in my head emphasising certain parts of speech as it goes.

that is really interesting since I have one I never would have thought that people do not thank u for podcast pls can u keep talking about things like this. it honestly always blows my mind

I litteraly always talk in my head while listening to your podcast, man how interesting this topic is, I've never tought that people could not have an internal monologue

Thank you for accompanying my Sunday morning

I had like internal monologues ever since I was a kid. And those monologues were either funny or deep ones. And I just found about it ever since Jae released the episode. And I didn't know others doesn't have this kinds of things that I have.

first of all, I love listening and watching content from Dive Studio. Even though I just discovered this channel, I am safe to say that I am 100000% hooked. OK, now here's a topic of discussion, has anyone ever wonder or just found yourself wandering into thoughts like "Why is a table called a table? or Why is it shaped like that? or Who decides or gets to name a table a 'TABLE' ?" I found myself having these thoughts a lot.

I am re-listening all of his podcasts now, did not know I would miss him that much...

Good to see you here jae!

We want more of Jae's HDIGH full episodes. Please, upload them.

man, i don't have an internal monologue... I got literally an condo reunion going in my head

damn that's a great song, hope jae can get out a full version of that, really awesome, btw good podcast makes you really think

YAY THANK YOU

THANK YOU FOR SPEAKING UP JAE!

This was a brilliant episode. I don't know what it is but the more I listen the more I am flabbergasted at how much Jae doesn't know... it's a comfort to know that I'm not the only weird one

I LIVE for these. 😭❤️

I actually read books with voices in my head. That helps me set the setting. TBH, there's like a whole movie in my head whenever I read books. I also used to read books out loud, dialogues and all. That helped me a lot with my pronunciation.

I thought Diane would say 'wholemeal bread' after white bread but she said smth i dont even know exist 😂

OMG WHY AM I JUST SEEING THIS??? KZreadIHATEYOU THANK YOU FOR THIS PODCAST JAE AND DIVE STUDIO!!!🔥🥺

Yoooooo scholastic book fairs!!!!!!! 6:35 That was my favorite part of school, I looked forward to it so much lol. And I always bought the highlighters too, they had different scents lol. I'm glad I'm not the only one who remembers them :)

Thankyou Jae, always.

I keep reading "HDIGH" as "high dig hi"

@bosslu2768

4 жыл бұрын

Me toooo, sometimes I read it as height digh. I thought I was just a lost cause. 😭😭

Thank for speak JAE, MY DAY ALWAYS BE WITH YOU

The weird is I can imagine apple if I open my eyes but I can't imagine apple when I close my eyes

I agree with Jae 100%!!! Soooooooo innnnnnteresting〰️

Thanks Jae 💓 we were able to knowing more from your genius-brain and of course seeing you and hear your voice 🌹

always support you ❤️

All the HDIGH topics were so INTERESTINGGG

i love u jae🥺

I remember Jae once saying that he only thinks in one language at a time (either Korean or English), but if he doesn't think with words, how does he think in a language? I'm genuinely curious, not trying to clown him.

Welcome back jae!!

Like Jae, I don’t think i have an inner monologue but i feel like it can be practiced. But does Jae have a inner musical monologue? like he can hear a riff and then replicate it.

@asyrdal4059

4 жыл бұрын

Ooh, that's a good question! I'm curious now...

Dude I literally talk to myself all the time but have never thought of it as weird. *Maybe it’s to combat boredom*

It satisfying to see that Myday's efforts to support Jae and as well as the other members, paid off. We get to see them equally promoted and supported. Please, maintain this Day6 staff who manages them. And THANK YOU for hearing us! We appreciate it. Day6 fighting!

I only recently learned that some people don't have internal monologues and it blew my mind. I can listen to a song in my head and hear Jae or Sungjin singing it and it's so much fun!

yes jae, i have prescreening too before the words come out