Put up a super chat we’d love to support/Fund these conversations brother.. good work

@wnttalk

10 ай бұрын

Cash app is best🙏🏿 $wnttalk

@frequencymoss6932

10 ай бұрын

@@wnttalk cool, you may be ‘leaving money on the table’ if you’re only limited to Cash App.. (I sent my support) again I appreciate your work

@BigNorm87

10 ай бұрын

Super chats are taxed big time.

@wnttalk

10 ай бұрын

@@BigNorm87 FACTS!

WEALTH IS QUIET, RICH IS LOUD, POOR IS FLASHY.

You know what frustrates me about these conversations..….... Is how the men have to keep breaking something soooo simple down. I really think women love the freedom of putting themselves in chaotic situations while simultaneously being a victim and complaining about their actions they've purposely put themselves into 🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️

@chasehlee7197

10 ай бұрын

Freedom without consequences. Credit without blame. That’s what they think being a man is.

@kingjay1524

10 ай бұрын

That’s their natural. Let’s not get mad at a woman for doing womanly things. We just have to adjust and make sure the message it transmitted in the correct way without losing her nor the essentials of the content. All in all it can be frustrating 😂😂 but we must stay patient in our actions to reach the greater goal.

@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13

10 ай бұрын

Someone pretending to not understand you is a way to frustrate you so that you become emotional instead of logical. It’s intentional. It’s designed to frustrate you.

@theoddsheep5

10 ай бұрын

On the contrary, I believe conversations like these are necessary, because a lot of people, especially african americans, don't have the father figures, or school teachers, to have these very simple conversations with. People go into adulthood with such ignorance, and it starts from young. Not everyone is given the same opportunities to learn, and not everyone is trained to know when to listen and absorb knowledge.

@dafreako95

10 ай бұрын

@@chasehlee7197 lmao no cap that hurt my feelings because that's the exact opposite of what we go through. I'm grateful for the mistakes I've made and if I did it again on purpose I won't complain just take the action of my decision

"Blackmen can never protect a woman who they can't correct, it just doesn't work that way." -Dr. Frances Cress Welsing

40:59 mother's telling their kids"dad ain't shit" is the prime example of "sick'em boy" and it's sad, a pity.

@anthonysmith3349

10 ай бұрын

I think that more gals are going to need stuff to happen to you, before you gals are honest 😮

I'm glad she brought up sitcoms. I'm currently writing one on a positive black family.

Her idea of protection is ridiculous. Call your brother call your dad call your uncles those are the only ones designated to protect you. Again protection is our obligation to them then what is their obligation to us?

@kpw12002

10 ай бұрын

They will proudly tell you they have none

@kreativeforce532

10 ай бұрын

yea, women who are concerned with words need to stay tf at home. babies know someones mean words can't actually harm you. bw's confusion that physical violence is appropriate retaliation for mean words IS the epitome of ghettoism & valuelessness.

@BlackGodKing-oi2gr

10 ай бұрын

Community Protection is a utopian concept when it comes to it being practiced here in this country. No community (besides maybe the Hispanic community) operates at this illogical capacity. Most ppl are hyper-individualistic and only care about people close to them.

@ReaveIdono

9 ай бұрын

There is no problem with protecting someone who is not the aggressor in a situation that you can discern to be the case. At best you could at least call the police for them.

@ian_ford

9 ай бұрын

Male burden to women is maintaining “Security.” Physical security, financial security. The female burden to men is maintaining her “Beauty.”

We are not in our infancy. We are in our ignorance when there are better examples it’s not lack of knowledge it’s a lack of will

I love this conversation, watching the other twoepisodes I can see the evolution. It was no longer Male versus Female but about how we can build together.

The minute he ask her, Do you know how to play Chess.😂😂 She just couldn't simply say no. She had to say , I watched before. 😂😂.

Black Ice said it well "external blingers is all we can be because on the inside we've been given nothing to shine on.."

Social media is making people's highlights of celebrity life seem like life goals when you don't really know what's the reality. It's sad. Aspiring to be shallow l highlights and not living a life with substance. Shit is crazy.

@josephwilliams6543

10 ай бұрын

The God father God rest his soul said “we are taking the highlight reels of the super successful and using it as a measuring stick to compare to our everyday life.” The reality is most people don’t know the amount of effort and work it takes on a daily basis to become super successful. They (women) will only focus on the outputs, never the input.

What young females hold in high regard in a man dictates what the young men will aspire to be. In other cultures what the woman hold in high regard is different than the community. They look for intelligence, hard working, ingenuity, a life plan, comes from a good family, stability, & etc. Big difference. SMH

@rejectionisprotection4448

10 ай бұрын

But BW are criticised when they have those standards. Why young "females" but "men"?

@StandingPeacefully

10 ай бұрын

Absolutely…Every time I go into a Chinese food store I see a couple. In the Korean store I see a couple. With rare exception, a black man will not be able to convince a black woman that that is a worthwhile life. Black women would rather be single and struggle (miss me with the $100k salaries because I don’t see that when I go into black neighborhoods and all the black women in towns like mine are married to high earning men). Every Asian engineer has multiple prospects, a black engineer is offered the leftovers after the women have run the streets in their 20’s.

😊 this was an absolutely great discussion and awesome panel... Everyone gave everybody time to work through their points and express themselves and kept the over talking each other to a minimum....💯 That is exactly how viewers can learn...

@wnttalk

10 ай бұрын

That's what we do here.

The brother in the red cap is SOOO damn irritating. His attempts at TRYING to say something deep and profound all the time is annoying. 🙄

@babajidejoshua7287

10 ай бұрын

He just be rambling 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@BigNorm87

10 ай бұрын

Man it started to get on my nerves at the end.😂😂

@dillamadukes21

10 ай бұрын

Red cap definitely detracted from the overall quality of the podcast. These spaces are full of men and women who want to participate in conversations but have little of substance to say. It actually ties into one of the overarching themes in this video of aesthetics, pageantry, and rhetorical sloganeering being of greater importance to black people than cogent, grounded ideas that could make a meaningful difference. "God could never civilize the devil", GIVE ME A BREAK lol. Love bro's content otherwise.

Protection doesn’t always mean physical it can be conversation towards something positive to help you

41:15 "A True Warrior doesn't need a sword" Thors from the anime Vinland Saga This guy *gets it*👌🏿

@orenbroadwayjr5799

10 ай бұрын

"You have no enemies"

This was a great conversation

Ok she was on point this episode I will give her, her props

That default is ENDEMIC of who they’re “dealing with” at that time in real time.

Love the part about protecting black men, the men in my family sometimes don’t like when I say I will not call them for minuscule disagreements or instances where I’m disrespected by men because I know they may react in a way that’ll put them in danger. I rather deal with the situation and STILL HAVE YOU unless it’s a dire circumstance I’m not calling for your protection.

My friend was murder July of this year his sister was dating this new guy they all stayed in the same apartment complex one day there was a weird situation where his sister was yell for help from inside the apartment, my friend and his mom broke in to safe his sister and her boyfriend shot and killed the mom and my friend. This is how black women protect black men

@wnttalk

10 ай бұрын

😔

@kreativeforce532

10 ай бұрын

she set him up to get shot and got her brother shot instead. that's proxy violence like Pebbles on Top Boy. Women think they have ultimate control over other people and dont realize they don't until the situation goes in a direction she didn't imagine it would (what she intended was still chaotic and evil).

@bhillboy37

Ай бұрын

He didn't really have a clear choice in that situation. Sister screaming for help on the other side of a door. Most people going in.

@TyrillCelestine

Ай бұрын

@@bhillboy37 they were ppl who told her not to date that guy, I never meet him but after the incident I remember a lot of ppl saying damn we told her not to mess with that guy.

Because they don’t have sons and never grew up in the ghetto. They talk fantasy world. Don’t put yourselves in a position to be in danger.

When we put up socialites and musicians as leaders, its because those select few have been "allowed" to peer behind the curtain and live life out of the box. They should have the freedom and experiences necessary to effectively help us out of this mess.

Great conversation. And Peace to the 7

I love to see our people help our people!!! This is how we fight the black man vs black women online battles

Holmes kickin that 5%r ish. It was cool but he needs to take it down a notch. Even godbody dudes were living foul

This was a good try. Having a convo with you and her is better. Adding the others people makes it harder to keep the women actually on task. BM are not competing with BW. That’s the trash feminism in her. The convo was worth it , however it didn’t resonate like it should have!!

Being Receptive whether male or female is one of the first steps to self improvement. Most people just want echo chambers and not someone to challenge them to be better.

They probably mean well, they just don't know well...

Great take on the modeling. I believe and I’m not alone on this but we must take control of OUR media. We must change to the ghetto street poverty dead beat broken home etc narrative. Idk if Tyler Perry is up for that

@kreativeforce532

10 ай бұрын

if you don't control it, its not yours.

@kingjay1524

10 ай бұрын

@@kreativeforce532 then buy it, and control it. However, we do control our minds and nobody force you to do anything. We as a people can force the change of we don't support what's going on in media from the participants to the audience. We need a moral standard that is followed from top to bottom left to right that will elevate us in a positive manner and that can not be sold nor bought. When face with adversity, asked the question How? How can we have control of our media, how can we change the narrative that is put out there about us, how how how. No weak victim minds over here. We don't stop at a wall, we find a door, create one or destroy the wall.

Appreciate you 👸🏽🙏🏾 teaching. My Brothers thank You Both

Wahala be like repentant feminist😂

Excellent conversation!

Great thumbnail. Productive discussion. I had to keep fast forwarding through Reum Dr. Hotep.

I really enjoyed this conversation! But I wish there is an option where you can call in and ask questions as the conversation develops. I have so many questions! Lol

Don’t agree with the idea of meekness avoiding conflict. Bullies in our society are attracted to meekness. They’re the first people to disregard integrity.

#Flamboyance is often a symptom of egoic #overcompensation.

that man just died fighting at a the patriots game

I enjoyed this conversation ❤

@wnttalk

10 ай бұрын

Im glad you did🙏🏿

"All of who you are is not okay" she spitting bare facts innit! Unless a man has a nuke there's nothing he can do to fully stop another man. Does the situation warrant atomic bomb level damage? Will the bomb dropper get off legally? Unless those men are a nation, no. Shooting isn't enough of a consequence as gangs have proven. Jailing is not a power that Black individual men have (not a nation), so that doesn't leave many options for consequences. 25:42 only those men who control the mass production of food (the land), goods and the rule of law can create & enforce consequences. In NATO that's white men currently.

Each one teach one. Word up

This is a dope conversation they’re touching on all the nuances and all the interpersonal dynamics that’s going on in the black community in terms of all the things we seem to talk about in the quote on. “woke community very good conversation.

Real talk sis👍

Damn good conversation 👌🏽💯

I’ve been critical of porky’s perspectives sometimes but her responses this time seem much more grounded. I gotta give her props just like I gave her criticism. She went OFF this episode. Great convo y’all!

🤔🤔🤔 She only respect a man if he's leading and giving advice in the right way, but notice she don't use the same metric for the women she speaks to.

Wow...she has grown...

I remember seeing a video of a woman arguing with her ex (who had recently got out of prison) at a family party. She chased him out of the house. Fathers, brothers, cousins came running to her aid. That guy pulled out a gun and shot everyone! Everyone! And went back to make sure they were all dead.

@dinedoll

9 ай бұрын

I think I saw this story....he was on drugs... PCP I think

Go to the store. Your friends and family pay the bill. This is the truth of marriage and becoming a baby daddy for most people. Your homeboy goes through a break up with his wife or baby's mother. He needs help (financial and/or a place to stay). Young guys, go ahead and get married or have kids. I pray you have family or friend backup to help you live.

Thanks!

Your transitions from the prone to kneeling and standing has really improved since I've been watching. Keep up the good work. I gotta start training more myself

Allen with the circus bar 💪🏿

Thanks Man. Hope you are well. 🍻

@wnttalk

10 ай бұрын

Thank YOU brother!

This is full of gems

@wnttalk

10 ай бұрын

Preciate you brother!

Proxy Violence is not Protection.

aaaah I thought was on now

“Hiding in plain site” I been saying similar sentiments forever. More relatable example is the Jews. They historically been under somebody’s authority, however, they seem to prevail. Slow but methodical, silently moving towards the top. They have concrete standards with a common goal and obedience. That’s what we need. Amongst other things of course.

She lost. She not perfect but still judging these men. Burnt

If you are a woman in need of help arguing with a dude. I step in and say shorty calm down stop talking. Stop talking let me calm the situation down and whatever measures need to be taken let me handle it. If i step in and you continue popping off you are on your own.

If you are a bad boss b&#%* and don't need no man, then keep that same energy when in danger. No man is obligated to put their life on the line for you, if he is not your husband (covering). If you brag about not needing a covering, then don't get mad when you get hit with everything imaginable, because you're not shielded. Remember, you don't need us in this feminist society.

CELEBRITIES ARE NOT LEADERS.

We ain't teaching sh*t. It's time for a good student to put in the effort to learn!!!!

This was a dope intellectual convo 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

Man dude with the glasses only one made a little sense

“It’s ok to be who you are, but all of who you are is not ok.” Shook my tambourine on this one…

Women love Drama ,if it ain’t Drama it not worth it😀

47:21 im the gentle giant lmaorotmff 🤣🤣🤣

Great job a love this.

It's OK to be who you are, but all of you is not okay......#BARSSSSS

Good Lord man... Bro' you are a blessing and a gift. I hope there is some type of writing in you in the future to explain your ways of your thoughts. Hope this helps. 🍻 cheers mate.

@wnttalk

10 ай бұрын

Thank you so much brother! Writing a book is on my goals board 🙏🏿

10:44 delusion is the new reality what?

It's sad that Yall have to Teach so many GROWN black women how things are Really are. 😔😔

Life imitating art. Simulation and simulacra.

2:10 80% of men are positive like the ones she know.

55:56 Homie is talking

She capping every male friend I have we keep it real with each other women have a hard time with that I see that at work in family and friendships

Keep going!

Circus over substance! 12:07

Comment in support

I really do love the conversation so much is on point...I however do agree with the gentleman in the white shirt about feeling a bit hopeless because while a great conversation its alot of generalizing woman and placing blame... just more gender separation in a sense.

18:05 its amazing how these women never know these things thats been going on forever was a thing.

6:00 agreed, an unpopular opinion, you do not need to have sex to be in relationship.

The guy in the red cap waffles too much. This B!ack man is God talk is soo exhausting. Dr Obi please get another male host like Omowale Afrika, or whomever.

44:58 what? Noooo blk ppl always had money yes even during slavery. Us is black people lost class lost how to act being rich doesn't come from the amount of money you have. It comes from dignity and self-respect that you have for yourself.

See I love her image, and her mindset has change too adapt to good black men. When need more women to speak out like this and to hold other women accountable for there actions, because if we do it, then we'll get killed 😂😂

54:24 the lack of stealth, tact, and being full of flamboyance is a very west African trait. Myself I'm quiet and low-key which is unexpected and Black people don't respond well to it. (many country whites hate it too) However I don't have as much conflict as other brothers experience. We need to take a page out of our East African cousins book. They're quiet too, but they had the Mau Maus right. We can be stealthy and still handle business. I'm also not influenced by music, advertisements etc

22:13 SHE SAID THAT! THAT WAS SEXY LORD!

22:10 mark..... she said a word

This signaling @3:21 is a repetitive pattern among female delegation, I think this needs further study, but also think the findings will be kinda bittersweet, and second realization for some

Would Alan be interested in getting some local Israelites interviewed?

Women tend to go the softest approach and at tine is bad ..

We have a power is so misleading. When it’s not true power. It can’t be when their power is given, its tolerated. True power is taken. And women aren’t able take power from men with out it being allowed or some form of trickery that’s not true power. When you have it only because the giant is distracted or sleeping.

@rejectionisprotection4448

10 ай бұрын

You have a very limited understanding of what power is.

1:05:45 but see the world is documented we should learn fro. The history that is already out here.

22;00 wow just wow

22:48 Thats not true KS was holding men accountable. 23:23 but i also understand what allen is saying right here.

God couldn’t civilize the Devil. Interesting Frame of reference.

@SunFromBrooklyn73

10 ай бұрын

God created devil. Allah is All-encompassing, so how can the Master of Creation "not civilize" what he created? That is placing limits on Allah, The Most Glorified and Exalted, and that is "now-cipher". That is a no go sir.

@Mr.BigBadWolf

10 ай бұрын

@@SunFromBrooklyn73 I’m repeating what the guy said in the interview did you watch the entire interview? I never said I agreed with it. But it is interesting play/use of words. I was born in Sudan but by blood I’m Ethiopian/Kenyan Oromo Tribe, I was raised Muslim and I actually speak 3 languages. I speak Arabic fluently because it was my first language, so trust me I know how Great and Almighty God/Allah is, by choice now I’m Christian.

@SunFromBrooklyn73

10 ай бұрын

@@Mr.BigBadWolf I know you were repeating what was said. Its all good brother. Peace.

26:38 oh and Daphne Ford Sutton aka queen of accountability, @celebird exposed Roda was lying by the way. And blk women jumped down blk mens throat about a lie. 28:28 and this isn't blk mens responsibility lol. Especially when respect for blk men isn't reciprocated

Algo👍🏾

Modern women love the lime light especially with social media