As I heal I see how much it was all lies and deceptions wrapped up in a pretty package and love bombs and then they are out of our lives we see how much we accepted wrongly

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

27 күн бұрын

😌😌💜

They don’t deserve ANY TEARS from our eyes! Thank you 😊 for the reminder.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏

@valb9963

2 жыл бұрын

The new supply threatened me while he denied it. Good, she can suffer now

@MIRNA_LIZ

2 жыл бұрын

👏👏👏👏

@lynchang2007

2 жыл бұрын

I cry many times in the front of him and that is the one why he starving to keep coming back to me. But never again i hit him once and now he hiding the control is mine now not to him anymore

@davidhodgson5252

2 жыл бұрын

I have a paper to read when I think of the narc. Its easy to hate the bs I went through

I do not ruminate about the good times, I was being used. It was all smoke and mirrors. The triangulation,smear campaign, the taking,the fallen mask and shifty ways is what has been hard to forget.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

I understand completely..we won’t forget.. we will heal and move forward with our education and strength 🙌☀️🙏

@silviadolma1739

2 жыл бұрын

Remember, yes, forget , never. He loses, not u

@phoenixmode6909

2 жыл бұрын

Part of the grieving process is also anger. Grieving isn't linear, many feelings come and go, you go through the several stages of grief at times, some stages more than once. But, being as it IS a PROCESS, let whatever comes come, don't het attached to the feelings. Sit with them, understand your 'why', and REMEMBER WHO YOU ARE. You aren't a victim, you're a survivor and a badass. You are worth so much more, regardless of what any shallow, self-absorbed, short-sighted person anywhere in this world thinks of you. The only opinion that matters right now through the grieving process s YOUR opinion of yourself. This is YOUR time, to find you again. You got this. ❤️🌻

@lj7780

2 жыл бұрын

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone attachment, dependency, expectations, taking yourself for granted, covering everything with blanket of love is all from lack of controll on our own mind, relationships with a narcissist should remember us, that we are on wrong track and need correction, sometimes it has to happen in order to learn the hard way, be proud that the Universal Soul, Paramatma, sees your value and finds you worthy for following these lessons and helped you survive gloriously, now you're stronger and the obstacles for growth has been removed, time heals wounds, Jay Mata Kali

@grufflelafoo6263

2 жыл бұрын

After 24 years I can’t remember any good times

The narc really DOES go for anything, as long as they are supplying their immediate needs

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Completely true 💯💯😉😉

@coldawson8486

2 жыл бұрын

That was soo funny 🤣 No. They don't care about anyone Just their supply That was great call. I have well and truly moved on. Hahahaha 😁

@krissymarie5270

Жыл бұрын

YES! My narc ex is dating someone not even REMOTELY attractive!!

@kostasplafountzis3544

Жыл бұрын

@@krissymarie5270 its true,they do not have a good taste anyway,someone to cover their needs is enough even fat or ugly guys are good,believe me.

@marcialussier2467

Жыл бұрын

I think it depends on what they want. You're right though. My next victim lasted 3 years, she was incredibly unattractive, but she was supplying him with a place to live and eventually paying his telephone bill. So he played it until he got money himself and then he dumped her of course.

Been hurt by a narcissist so bad that I’m finally finally 90% over him after 2 1/2 years that I really don’t care if he’s treating her bad or good

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Beautiful progress and growth Pauline 🙌🙏💯

being a empath is such a beautiful god given gifts it is also a curse

@CJLinOHIO

2 жыл бұрын

There is so much truth in the saying, they take your kindness as a weakness.

@CeluiEtSeul

2 жыл бұрын

It is. It is a very lonely life

@sandrazawada5316

2 жыл бұрын

I hear you but I don't see being an empath as a curse. I see it as a life lesson. If I was any different I would not be who I am today. The pain I went though and you too was more than we could barely bare but here we are. I've had to learn to set boundaries. I've had to learn to not be so much of a pleaser. I've had to learn so many things just to survive. And so have you! These lessons will help us in the future. I am so much stronger than I used to be. I used to think I was the weakest person but now I know I am so much stronger than that.

@teresap.5991

Жыл бұрын

I'm starting to believe that empaths are God's chosen ones... How else could we love the unlovable? Turn the other cheek a million times, suck up the deep, shredded pain and the stabbing, gut wrenching hurt when you realized they don't love ANYONE but themselves. I have so many memories of times I thought oh how wonderful, we're finally getting along. He brought me flowers or my favorite candy or a trip to my favorite place. Then I mentioned something he didn't agree with and bam!!! Just like that, you are an idiot who just tried to piss Him off and ruin everything and how we don't care about them at all. Suddenly one day you wake up and realize it's never going to change never going to get better. That's when reality hits harder than the cruel things they said to you. That's the day the wall goes up and you begin to live for yourself and put the fairytale to rest... Forever.

@The311wax1980

Жыл бұрын

Knowing what I know now about narcissists I would much rather go through the pain and trials knowing that there is something for me to learn from them. Think about it, the narcissist doesn't think they have anything to learn from life, that their trials are all just someone else's fault. I tell you they are cursed. Never growing as a person or truly loving anyone or anything.

They never ever stop their chaotic BS. Never!

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

3 жыл бұрын

Drama manipulation and destruction is how they live.

@Surfsup448

3 жыл бұрын

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone They are psychopaths. They are living in darkness.

@lumity238

2 жыл бұрын

So true the Narc never stops.

@sandrazawada5316

2 жыл бұрын

I never realized how my husband could treat me the way he did until I left then his lies and behavior were revealed to me. Just since listening to Andrew do I really understand what I actually went through. My counselor was surprised that I was still alive at age 38. I can now see that I won --- I survived!

@Surfsup448

2 жыл бұрын

@@sandrazawada5316 They live for getting away with everything. It’s a fun game they play. Glad you are away from it. Chaotic.

After 22 years of marriage and 4 daughters with a narc (psycho, liar, theif, snake, rat, bully). I am finally free from the madness. I heard the term Narc about 5 years ago. In the beginning I thought she was just overly jealous. Then overly controlling and then manipulative. I always said my happiness comes in small doses. Get married, buy a house and have kids. Life is good for awhile. She seemed happy when the kids were small. She liked being the mother duck- being in control. Always had to be the center of attention- the star of the show. As the kids started to get older I coached their basketball teams, hockey etc. The kids on the teams loved me and I was popular with the parents. The NARC HATES THAT. The now insanely, jealous, controlling manipulator is on a mission to destroy your character and credibility. She did not like the other mothers telling her how much their children loved being on the basketball team and how much they loved the coach. She always had to keep me down, clip my wings and keep me under her thumb. And yep- it gets worse. At the end- when she realized I was done and she was losing me/ her control over me, she behaved like a wild animal. Violent fits of rage- worse than the usual fits of rage. Belittling me in front of my daughters. She loved an audience. She tried everything in her power to destroy me as a human being. Not just ruin my reputation or something but really try to destroy me. Next comes the fabricated - he hit me. I ended up paying for a criminal defense attorney in addition to a divorce attorney. Best money I ever spent. I had a hard time escaping her altogether because the kids were still young enough for her to USE them as pawns in her sick little control games. She brainwashed my children- turned them against me. It was almost 10 years before my oldest would speak to me. When my oldest daughter moved from her mother's house- it was then that she decided to speak with me. My ex still has a tremendous level of control over the kids. She stole my daughters from me and robbed my daughters of a loving father. If their is one unforgivable sin, this is surely the one. What really, finally set me free was ZERO CONTACT. My life is so peaceful now. I am now living happily ever after. ZERO CONTACT.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this Josef..🙏🙌💯

@alimarie67

2 жыл бұрын

God bless you for escaping. I was in the exact marriage situation. Finally, when I decided to escape, he tried to destroy me, humiliate me, and he left me in financial ruin. I’m thriving now, alone and peaceful. I couldn’t be any more at peace. I have been no contact for 4 years now 👍

@josefbleaux6724

2 жыл бұрын

@@alimarie67 good for you. Life is sooo much better now...

@brendahall8461

Жыл бұрын

Wow, your story IS my story!! Only I was the dutiful wife. I hope your life is wonderful now 🙏

@ckvarnmass

Жыл бұрын

My nephew is in a similar situation. His 3 kids have been brainwashed, and he only gets the youngest child once in a while, but ex tries to derail that, as well. My brother was so close to my nephew's son, the oldest, and the ex poisoned his mind so badly, that he no longer sees my brother, his grandfather. My brother took him hunting and had many special times with him. She basically made her son responsible for raising his sisters, changing their diapers and all that when he was only a child himself. Major issues for the future, he is now over 18 and his narc Mom has been to counseling for how she has made him responsible for caring for his sibs. This counseling was court ordered and very short-lived, as she felt she didn't need it. She is a doctor and has been fired from her hospital jobs, etc. My nephew has had no choice but to move on and pray for the day that his three children will see the truth, as they become adults. Meanwhile he has a lovely person in his life and she has two young sons who adore my nephew. Nephew is in emergency med profession and does life-flighting. He is a great guy, never tried to bring harm to the ex despite her hatred.

Missing out on nothing, you got that right!!!

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Agree completely 🙏

It like cuddling a Dangerous reptile 🐍! Go NO CONTACT and stick with it no matter what attempts the Narc does Period! It’s better to live alone and happy, than to live with a Monster who constantly treats you like 💩! The second supply will NEVER be YOU and that’s their KARMA to live with!

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

😉💯🙌🙏💪

@rosemaryrogers1478

2 жыл бұрын

Sure ya right🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

@sandrazawada5316

2 жыл бұрын

Monster is correct!

@AlwaysHope2019

Жыл бұрын

absolutely we are one of a kind

Even though I know better, I can STILL have a terribly heart-broken day here and there. I'm afraid this one caused me such terrible pain that some days I just wanna kinda be done with life. I appreciate your wonderful words and truth Andrew. It's been real tough some days. I'm glad that that's a sign of my good and wonderful heart, but........ Rough night tonight. Thank you though Andrew.....you are a real blessing to so many. It's just the hardest thing I've ever been through. Thank you, Rick

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Rick.. I understand completely where you are.. I was there myself.. be patient and know it will get better..IT WILL .. You Are Not Alone ❤️🙏🙌

@Rick-hf6ov

2 жыл бұрын

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Thank you so much Andrew. I think there is no one better to understand these issues than someone who's actually been there! Just a few "understanding" words of kindness and understanding coupled with the truth and firmness......a great balance Andrew and I cannot thank you enough! It's truly amazing how something like that and SOMEONE like that could possibly be so demonic frankly - it rips your heart right out of your chest. I'm truly thankful for your sharing YOUR experience Andrew. Your channel - your videos help US all in unmeasurable ways. God bless you Andrew. And God bless your listeners too. I found good friends AND family here. I look forward to speaking to you in the near future as well. God bless, Rick

@chantehowe7798

2 жыл бұрын

When my ex was with me he was always seeking other women always on fb always looking at other women i caught him talking to a woman in are relationship but with the new supply he's all about her he take her out he barley get his kids on the weekends because he needs to shower her with attention his behavior has completely changed he was always a home body and family oriented now he rearly get his kids or call for them he's always out and stay buying new clothes spending lots of money on iphones he never did this for me or are kids smh I just to don't get they thinking at all

@Rick-hf6ov

2 жыл бұрын

@@chantehowe7798 I know......I got that too. My ex does things with her "supplieS" that I was encouraging for us! I know how you feel. I think it's because they have to learn from us on how to even have a personality and treat THEM! The way I see it is WE taught THEM how to be a better person!! Make sense to me! By themselves they are as much fun and interesting as an empty shoebox! 👌😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

@stainless1175able

2 жыл бұрын

@@Rick-hf6ov I think you're right. LOL, mine went from mirroring me to mirroring the guy she cheated on me with. Suddenly ,she was a beer drinker. She was portraying herself as a country girl. She couldn't have been less a country girl. It was a complete switch. She explained that it was how she really was but couldn't be because of me. The poor bastard thinks he's special and is the hero of the story the way I did. Little does he know.

I did 20 years. 20 maddening years. There were many reasons why I stayed so long. I regret those years but I have not regretted one second of my permanent freedom.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Beautiful message of inspiration and healing 💯🙏☀️🙌

@sandrazawada5316

2 жыл бұрын

For sure! I have not missed him even one day!

I found out he’s treating her now the same!! The honeymoon faze is over good luck to her these creatures r exhausting on every level n vibrate on a very low frequency

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

So peaceful to be out of the narcissist grasp..

@rosemaryrogers1478

2 жыл бұрын

She deserves everything she gets...these women aren’t as innocent and poor her as you think...many aid the narcissist in leaving you

She can have him, I only want my 38 years back!!!!

@RedRose-el7wn

Жыл бұрын

Time lost ... absolutely!!!!

I thank that girl day and night, she solved all my problems...she is the best thing that came along..no contact 2 full years..

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Hi bless bless.. thank you for sharing this 💯💯🙌☀️

@loverules802

2 жыл бұрын

Lol

@juliettehasenbar9211

Жыл бұрын

💖💖💖💃

I'm not always a fan of Dr Phil but I do like one of his many quotes. I've said it often whenever I need to remind myself of the past. It goes something like this: "It's better to be healthy and by yourself than to be sick with someone else". Understand it, say it, remind yourself often and live by it. We all deserve to be loved. Happy healing ❤️

I hear ya I walked on eggshells every day for ten years not knowing what I was in for, or when. Its a sad life.😞😞😞😞🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

I understand completely Bonnie..💯💯🙌🙌

@bonniecraig1316

2 жыл бұрын

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone I'm total blackout almost 22 months now, and I feel like a new person. God bless and I hope everything works out for you.🙏🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤❤

You really got this right. Especially the part about them moving on long before it was over. I left slammed that door shut. Wouldn’t ever want to go back. The damage done to me has left me isolated. I prefer it that way. My circle is small. I don’t let many in now. A lesson learned. I’m finally moving beyond the abuse. It’s slow going but just take one step at a time.

@sandrazawada5316

2 жыл бұрын

I agree!

@Donnahodgins

Жыл бұрын

I too isolated myself. Fear of abuse. I am moving on slow. One day at a time.

@ckvarnmass

Жыл бұрын

Same here for the isolation. It has been over 30 years since I left the narc. I tried other relationships and gave it up. I think the damage the narc does on us really makes us gun-shy. I'd rather be alone and lonely, than be with someone who you wish loved you and doesn't. That pain is worse then the pain of loneliness.

NEVER FORGET!!! ENERGY VAMPIRES!!!! NO GOOD MEMORIES 😕. BLESSINGS. I HAVE MOVED ON. BLESSINGS.

All of these friends getting with the narc is disgusting, what kind of morals and character dies any of these people have? It sounds like none! I will not even date someone that someone i know of has dated that person especially a friend. How sicking!!! People should do better and be better than this! And they weren't your real friends.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

After the narcissist relationship ends you will be amazed at how you see people

@yvonnehall3312

2 жыл бұрын

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone This is something i always knew not to do, but i think i see people the same and for those that make me question them i do have more decernment and question their character and do step away from them.

My ex narc is moving in with his ex from before me, who he remained friends with the whole 2 years we were together. Last year, I nearly put my life's savings down to buy a flat for us to live in, then I had a weird gut feeling and pulled out of the sale, a week later I was discarded. He asked to stay friends, foolishly I did for a few months until I learned about narcissism. He had his ex lined up as a supply from the moment I was discarded. These videos were so calming in the way they taught, they weren't videos of an angry ex, they were heartfelt, realistic and genuine. They were sympathetic to those of us who didn't know we were with a narcissist.

When Narcs get with someone they'll always withold something that partner wanted. Could be anything from marriage to sex to a new washing machine or car etc.... Whatever they witheld they'll make a point of giving to the new supply. This is purely to upset the former supply or to decieve the former supply into thinking they may've changed so they'll give them a 2nd chance at a later date. 9x10 the witheld gift is something the new supply doesn't even want. Or something they're totally unaware of. Its a show. Behind the announcements and pics, the new supply is already being devalued especially if you didn't notice

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this 💯🙌🙏

@rosemaryrogers1478

2 жыл бұрын

Yes I’ve heard this...what starts out as her thinking she the answers to his prayers an that she is better than you, ends with her realizing that she is not....the bloom has come off the rose

So true...they never cared...so great at manipulating great empaths!

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Agree they were.. we have the knowledge now ..💪✊

@gailramlal8138

2 жыл бұрын

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone thanks to you, people can chose to make the right choice...God Bless you Andrew🙏

I’ve seen a lot of narcissism channels and yours is different I can tell you know what your talking because everything you talk about is spot on … I went thru a 7 year narcicistic relationship so I would know …this channel helps me a lot ! Thank you

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Welcome always 🙌💯🙏

@sandrazawada5316

2 жыл бұрын

Yes Andrew is a gift to us. Things are finally making sense to me. The biggest gift to me is understanding more why I have had to cut off relationships with my children. I have endured a narcissist father, an enabler mother, 3 narc husbands but I refuse to be treated less than by my children. Not happening!

I'm in narcissistic relationship I've lost almost everything I ever loved in my life I am llistening to you and you make me feel a little bit stronger . Thank you

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

🙏🙌☀️

@Rick-hf6ov

2 жыл бұрын

Stay strong Lorraine. You are loved by the "right" people here.....and those who take advantage of US, don't deserve US! Rick

@darcybarwick3766

Жыл бұрын

The narcissist isn’t even a real person.. they just mirror us .. no real identity… we must remember all of the bad times. There was never any peace … ever

@debbier9555

4 ай бұрын

​@@darcybarwick3766Yes. They mirror us. All the good in the narcissist was actually a reflection of US. All the bad in them is who they really are.

I was the best of the best Glory to Jesus..

@gordanamajor9109

2 жыл бұрын

Me to😁

@ginag1290

3 ай бұрын

😊❤

Thank you for this Andrew!! I just saw a picture this past weekend of him with his new supply. Yes it hurt like hell and I let it hurt! But I'm moving on now. I feel sorry for her and pray she sees the evil beyond his act. As for me.... I'm moving on in love!!

@loverules802

2 жыл бұрын

I seen my ex bff post a marriage pic and them at kbotts and san diego beach on his page but why don't his wife have it on her page. I think they did some wedding on the beach that isn't real. Everyone congratulating him in the comments. He just was married for 3 mos a year ago I don't even think the divorce is done. Narcs are sick

@AlwaysHope2019

Жыл бұрын

i just saw my pic 2 days ago hope your doing well

My goodness you keep putting up titles that are exactly my life experiences for 40yrs. Yes I am 67 and still growing.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Beautiful.. education is empowerment.. my hope is you are learning and growing 🙏🙌☀️

@halopeople6462

2 жыл бұрын

40 years,you are really a strong queen 🙏❤️

@virginiaroettger4186

2 жыл бұрын

I am 67 and I put up with 32 yrs. I am happy I left him,he took all of my strength, I am now happy. Thank you 😊

After the discard, my ex-fiance told me I was like the sun beaming on a windowpane and he was the shade trying to block the rays. .. My response was I've always been this way?! .. In hindsight, the discard and him calling off the wedding was a blessing.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

I understand completely 💯🙏🙌

@loverules802

2 жыл бұрын

Yes

All I care about right now is what's happening with my daughter,hoping she's okay.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

That’s the path.. beautiful 🙏☀️🙌

@jeanniejeannie7258

2 жыл бұрын

🙏🙏❤

@sandrazawada5316

2 жыл бұрын

My four children are grown and I wonder how he as a Narc and me as an empath have affected them.

Today's the 7-month anniversary of being discarded by the narc. I BLOCKED the narc within 30 seconds of the discard and went completely NO CONTACT. I've maintained my no contact status and will do so for life. His loss.

Wow! Andrew!! I saw him the other day and felt nothing but discust. Today I hate him. I dont want to hate anyone. Its disturbing someone can bring emotions out that are so unlike us. It makes me sad to hate anyone. I just want to heal. Much love. From Canada🎊🎉🎁🎁😍😍🤗🤗🤠

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this Kimberly..🇨🇦🇨🇷💯🙌

@kimberlyturmel5538

2 жыл бұрын

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Thankyou Andrew!! You are helping me and many other people!! Your a Beautiful Soul!!! Much Love Sir!!

@mmm091000

2 жыл бұрын

Stay strong Kimberly best wishes to you.

@elainedownes4488

2 жыл бұрын

I also hate my ex husband. I spent 27 years of my life with him. When he left after meeting his new woman. His words to me, 'I am going to make you suffer'. I am an Empath - a very kind person.

Thank You Andrew...You are the BEST! You made me realize that I am wasting my time ruminating! Because the narcissist doesn't "FEEL" like we do so he won't waste time doing that. Really Thank You!

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Welcome Nahla .. I am grateful to be able to help you 🙏🙏☀️💪

Six years….hmmm I had 26 years and I didn’t know it until everything aligned and the bottom fell out… thankfully right before Covid hit. So glad I woke up and started honoring myself!

@sharon9585

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah couldn’t imagine having to isolate with him. It would have been a nightmare.

@sandrazawada5316

2 жыл бұрын

21 years for me and many, many tears. My love bucket was totally empty for years but tried to hang in there for my children and because I thought I needed fixing.

Andrew I just started listening to you. I never realized what was happening to me over the course of 12 months. You have boiled it down so well I can finally get my head around it. I found out the truth and discovered the behavior is premeditated all the way .. When I found out how I was being played I ended it . I hurt everyday and keep encouraged to move forward thanks to your perspective bc you are firing on all eight cylinders!! Thanks

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Welcome Cornwall..💯🙌🙏

I've met the old supplies and the incoming supply. I could tell they were treated the same. We elders got out of the circle of that "friend"

This is 100% correct. He did what he did to his ex wife, to me. The patterns of abuse and poor behavior was identical. She had kids with him, so she will always be tied to him. I never did, thank God. And now he faces his own karma. I am free. Still have days of loneliness, i fear that, as a result of the last relationship with him, it could happen again. He destroyed my spirit. I hope to have a heathy relationship one day. I see red flags off the bat, now.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing Kim. 🙌💯💯

@Ali-ms4ir

2 жыл бұрын

Having kids with them is the worst part for everyone except the narcissist.

It's difficult for me to put into words all that I'm feeling about what I went through. Everything you're saying is absolutely true. Thank you for your wisdom.

I was married for 25 yr my husband took off with some bimbo 13 yrs younger then him he told me he needed to find his happiness she made him happy and he didn’t love me anymore. when l admitted to all the wrong I had done in the marriage he said he couldn’t think of anything he ever did wrong it was all me. I was devastated it’s been a few years these kind of videos help me understand he was always a narcissist I just was blind. I now realize I was no longer that young naive women he could control and manipulate he had out grown him.

when I went no contact, five years ago, I went off social media, quit drinking, took up yoga. NOW I looked, GROSS! LOL

I lived with a psychopathic narcissist for 20 years. I was totally naive about him. He was what I thought was my true love- but I was completely in the dark. One day he just decided to leave me and my two boys and I found out - he drained the bank accounts, refinanced the house that went into foreclosure. When we were married, I had to scrap money together to buy groceries. He totally abused me mentally and financially. He isolated me from my friends and family. I was totally alone. He constantly tried to control me even after he left me. I had to move 5 hours away so he would leave me alone! I went through counseling and that’s when I discovered that he was a Narcissist. I gave him everything, I gave him love, he just took everything. I couldn’t buy anything for me or my boys- meanwhile he was spending money on deer leases, guns, barbecue grills, boats, etc. He would give me flowers like once a year and somehow that romanced me and I would never see what was happening. He left me and found a new supply who had a house already (so he didn’t have to pay for rent), she bought him a new truck and I guess as long as she spends money on him- he stays. Meanwhile- he neglects his boys. He tried to NOT pay child support and he never helped with the boys. He would just try to control them! Luckily- they understand it now but it still hurts them. Please do a chat about kids being abused by the narcissist. That would help a lot! Love your channel!

You have no idea how much your videos help me. We were together living in different houses. We spent time for the kids. In smaller dosis she could be okay, but so happy to lay in bed alone when she'd flip. These videos are bang on. How can they all be the same? Peace and love to all of us survivors ☮️

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Welcome 🙏 always

For years, I would cry during the holidays because I missed the narc’s family, but not the narc. Holidays, vacations and special +1 events are when I missed my narc. BUT I don’t miss him or the games he played. There is no way he could treat the new supply better - he is more unstable than ever before. The discard was a HUGE blessing in disguise. He gave me freedom and life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness! (Sounds like a declaration, doesn’t it? It is! Let freedom ring! 🔔💪🌸🦋🌼💜🙏🏻✍🏻

Thank you for this channel 😔😢healing after being with a narcissist for 9 years… married for 7 of those years.. with one child…. He sucked the life out of me… made me lose who i am… and tried to destroy me…. No more… I’m taking my power back.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this beautiful message 🙌🙌🙏

Your only missing out on the the turmoil and abuse! Thank God!🙏♥️

I recorded my husband's rants one time so that when I broke up with him and started second guessing myself, I'd just play that audio back so that I'd know I'm doing the right thing.

I knew something was off during the 5&1/2 years. But I didn’t know what it was. I started getting emotionally abused by him and his son. I let it go. Nothing I did was ever good enough. Then he used my farm for his business and I was treated like crap even by his father. I was constantly put down and I became a shell of myself. I got to where I didn’t want to be around him and I feared him coming home to complain and put me down. I thought he was the best I could get. Boy was I wrong. I’m done ruminating over him since he abandoned me. He won’t get his stuff off my farm though and he already has a new girlfriend. I just want this over!! Plus he wants 180,000 dollars for upgrades he made on my farm for his business. I’m conflicted about what I really owe him.

@debbier9555

4 ай бұрын

Well, morally, you already gave him more than $180,000 of upgrades. Your life is much more valuable than that! Find out if you have any legal obligation. If not, give nothing more. Maybe charge him for the use of your farm for his business or evict him from your property!

Hi Andrew. Today is 11/25/23. I remember listening to these videos, but I can't imagine not sharing back then. The topics are terrific. I do believe the new Wife ,(victim) will also be abused in due time. The narc married her only 2 wks after I left him. What monsters they are! I used writing therapy also. I did everything right. I stuck w/Therapy , and I made it. I'm ready for that 3 lb Lobster, even for breakfast. Unfortunately, the new supply/wife will suffer. GREAT TOPIC ANDREW..LOVE YOU..❤

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

8 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing..🙏💯😌🙌

@jannlewandowski5540

8 ай бұрын

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone I corrected an error. I meant to say that I do believe the new supply will also be abused.

Yes one will never succeed around the narcissist. Thank you🌿

You make us all see THIS person for exactly who they are.....I do not wanna go back but I find my hard days and the good days....

Thank you this has really nailed it for me and gave me more strength to keep away

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Beautiful thank you Charlene .. I am grateful to be able to share my experiences and insight with you 🙌☀️🙏

I was really missing him ,thank you for this video , after listing out the negative and positive things about our relationship, I realised there is nothing good to miss !

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

Жыл бұрын

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Why should we care ? They were only faking, acting, bullshitting … with us..what a life….we are better off with them Gone!!! Preach Andrew!!!

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏

Well said. It took me over 20 years of my life/relationship to realize my ex•narc wasn't good to me. I suppose I got adjusted to being mistreated over the years. Sad that once I filed for my divorce, many people including many family members and good friends said how he mistreated me over time. Problem is, I always gave the ex an excuse all the time and I didn't realize it until now. I love your channel. Thank you.💛

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Welcome 🙌🙏💯☀️

I love you too! Please never stop educating the dangers of narcissism.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

Жыл бұрын

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Yes please don't waste your time energy or resources worrying about what the narc is doing now or who they are with. The only way to heal fully is to have as little contact as possible.

My narc had a new supply while still living with me and moving things out. At the same time, he was still trying to convince me to stay in the relationship. He left and he kept saying to me he was missing me. After six months, he came to tell me he wanted to be with me forever and we should have been always together, that he was missing me so much. At the same time,he couldn’t deny that he was having his options open while with me, he couldn’t deny he was pursuing other supplies when I started to complain about his behaviour with me, and he started blaming me for giving up on the relationship. I came into the conclusion that these kind of people are truly sick, but I couldn’t helped it and I expressed myself and told him how wrong he was about everything, specially for what he was doing to his new supply, which was the same he did to me. The pattern was there and real. I could witness it. Sick!!!!!

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

Жыл бұрын

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Thanks, Andrew! 🕯 👍🏼 Precisely stated! 👍🏼 Exactly, the self-absorbed narcissistic indiviual never upheld his end of a loving and caring relationship. To the narcissist, it is easier to start over than to fix the problems. 🙏 🎶 🌞 🎶 🙏

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Welcome Karen..🙌🙏😉

@karenzilverberg4699

2 жыл бұрын

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 🎶 🕯 🎶

Oh my goodness .. just wanted to share this with you Andrew!! When you said we are the "creme de la creme" I couldn't believe what I was hearing ... I was looking for a new job back in 1992 when I was 24 and the newspaper advertisement read "Creme de la Creme"...AND through that job.... that's where I met my ex-husband!!! Thank you for helping me come full circle on this ... WOW!!! We sure were the best!!! AND the best is yet to come!!

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Beautiful message 😊🙌☀️

Treating better if her supply is worth faking

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

The new supply will become replaced eventually with another new supply..

Wow Andrew! What a difference in this video. It’s 2024 and you are a complete different person. It truly is inspirational watching how you transformed. God Bless You for all your doing for us. 💕🙏🏻

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

5 ай бұрын

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You are so right!⭐️ When did some investigation...one of the females he was working on (love bombing)...Texted him “I don’t feel liked or loved” #duh “Give me another go around” #desperate #smh Not to mention he was still begging me back. 🤨😳😬🙄⭐️❤️🙏🏼

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

They actually believe you will forget about all of the abuse and manipulative behavior.. 😳😳

You are incredible and loving. I can see some pain leak through at times but you take it and transform it into a loving productive mission that helps other people. Truly beautiful and difficult during such a healing process. Thank you for all that you are doing and have done

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Welcome 🙏🙌💯

Thank you for cheering me man!!! ¡very apreciated!

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

I am with you on your path always.. we as a community are as well.. keep moving forward everyday 🙌☀️🙏❤️🇨🇷

I'm so glad I found your channel. I watch a video every time I feel the urge to contact my narcissistic abusive ex.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

💯☀️🙌

Yes he is treating her better, with respect!

Exactly what happened to me. My ex was also very abusive (like physically) ☹️. 20 yrs of marriage😔…. I like your words of encouragement, the filet mignon and the lobster comparison made me smile

One positive out of this is that I don’t have to deal with him anymore! Good luck to you new supply! 😂

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

Жыл бұрын

😉💪💯

It might appear so but keep in mind that it is all an act... many times just for you ‼️🤓

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this 🙌🙏☀️

Every day he is with her is one day he is not bothering me. She knew he was married with little kids. I have two words for her, THANK YOU.

I already gave him enough of my time, he don't deserve to anymore from me...I'm so totally done with him💯 Thank you Lord ❤️

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏

True. They get worse with age

I was lead into a false sense of security and I can't believe I fell for it and hung around for so long,but boy am I paying for it now.......but I really do thank you for your reassuring video........Thankyou xxxxxxx

I am appreciative of you ✨

You are a blessing Andrew

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

I appreciate your kindness Darcy.. 🙏☀️🙌

Wow. I needed to hear this today. Thank you. God bless you.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Welcome Milagros 💯🙏🙌

My narc's daughter once asked her mother how daddy could change for us (me and my kids) and not for them. She later asked her dad, my narc, how he was able to hide his temper from me. Well, the answers are he didn't change, and he was only able to hide his true self for a few months. :( So, no, the new supply is not going to have it any better in the long run. He even told me in the love bombing phase that his "crazy ex-wife" thought he was a narcissist. How crazy of her, eh.....

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this Becca 💯💯🙌🙌😉😉

This is so true. It is hell being with a narcissist and there are very few good memories. I have been through it and every thing you say is sooooo true.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

😉😉💯

You have been healing my very deep wounds Andrew.. Thanx a mil really.. Blessings to you..

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Welcome 🙏

Andrew Thank you!! so much again. I don't understand this narc he was always the same This man was like on prozac. He never treated me mean never called me names and. For sure, never really moody. What he did was. Play mind games which I didn't understand no affection for months flirting. I didn't understand all that. I just thought he was being nice. Stupid me and then at the end. He used all the personal things. I told him the same. Things that happened to me by my dad things my dad said he said to me it was mind-blowing. Everything I ever told him like I've never had anyone ever cheat on me. I don't know what it is to have that. And then all of a sudden, he has supply behind my back. That's really funny, not really. Then I had told him something. My father had said to me That's what I went through. I don't understand why he was so nice every day. His personality was the same no matter what. But it was like living with a mask on. There was underlying issues he refused to talk about. And it was very lonely so I guess there's different kinds of narks.😂 It's been 2 and a 1/2 months now, and I'm waiting to get the rest of my things back. And then I'm blocking him done done done. But what a thing to get over the lies that went on for 7 years.😊

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

Жыл бұрын

Welcome 🙌😌💯

One year ago I had dated a narcissist I got fast. I with the narcissist for 7 weeks. I got out when he grabbed my arm. I was trying to figure him out. I had lost my boyfriend 4 years ago I was still grieving. I just kept keeping my eye open. When he hurt my arm I told him you hurting my arm. He said I am not hurting you. That was the end. He did not get to steal the bags from Walmart that night. He knows he was wrong but he still had to be mean. I did not care on what I had bought at the store. He only took the salad dressing. One day I see him at the store. I was trying to find my brother. I went back of the store to stay away from the front of the store. It’s been one year ago.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

My hope is you are healing and improving 💯🙌🙏☀️

Thanks for your honesty and understanding..I have bad days too

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Welcome Cindy 💯💯🙏🙌

Good morning 🙏 thank you for these highly appreciated videos. I'm still in it but building the courage to walk away after 5.5 years. I realize if the new supply comes, id actually feel sorry for them cos I know now they will go through the same trauma and that saddens me.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Welcome Adel..sending strength and healing energy 💯🙌🙏☀️

Dude you're spot on. She made you an expert (the same here). Another thing, working on yourself day in and day out is the best and maybe the only way too stop from going back. It's really sad to feel like a victim for a sad person. And the annoying part is that they look perfectly ok. WTF.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this 💯🙌🙏

THANKYOU AGAIN 👍 ALL TRUE AND REALISTIC TOTALLY....THE NARRCCIST WILL LOVE BOMB AND PUNCH THE LIFE OUT OF THE NEXT VICTIM AMAZING HOW WE STRONG PEOPLE SUSS THESE TOTAL MARD ARSES SO HAPPY AND GLAD IVE FOUND YOUR CHANNEL ANDY YOUR THE BEST MY FRIEND BECKY 🇬🇧 🇬🇧 XX

I’m dealing with a really nasty one and she keeps the castaways on a long line for future use. Thank you

Your message couldn't have come at a better time in my life right now I'm at a crossroads , it's been hard lonely scary sad bitter angry rejection coldness untrusting beaten abused bruised thrown away You're a reminder and others that I cannot give up and I just wanted to say thank you

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Welcome 🙏💯

Andrew, you nailed it. I spent over 30 years trying to recover, heal, and understand what he did to me in those short nine years. I definitely NEVER let it happen again, though. And even in hard times in those 30 years...was better than the nine years spent with him.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

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Thank you. Your words are so true. I have often wondered if my ex narcissistic husband treats his new partner different to me. No I don't think so. In fact I don't know if I feel sorry for her. But she rescued me from narcissistic abuse. I am an Empath - very kind and sympathetic. I still get upset when people show me any kindness - as my ex husband was cruel to me in the end.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Sending healing energy and strength 💯🙌🙏☀️

When he called me a 3 1/2 pound fresh maine lobster tail lmao ❤

Had to laugh over your title on this. Many years into my narc's second marriage to his new supply, she told my daughters that their Dad does not treat her like he treats others that he knows. It was confirmation to me that someone else knew exactly what he is like. He treats those outside of family very nicely and they all think he is so sweet and gentle and a quiet guy. As I always said, when others doubted my truth about him, "No one knows what goes on behind closed doors." I was never a problem for the new wife, as I was just so glad that someone else finally could see and know the truth about him. One day I hope to have a nice, "sit-down" with her, so we can finally have a heart-to-heart about what an emotional abuser he is/was.

I had 10% happy times to 90% bad times! Two months not a word from him and I don’t ever want to hear from him. I was dumb with him. But I’m not stupid either! I shut down with him 5 months before he left I d just did not care at all what he was doing. It was all lies anyway. I’m getting happier and I’m calmer each day! I still have a ways to go. Yes I’ve done the list all ready. Good 10 bad 90 %. Yes, I was the best!! I think less and less thinking about him every day. I’m ready for god to give me a normal stable man. Love you! I watch u every evening! From Ohio hello! God bless you

Ok we need a site how to find truly loveing people Not Narcs.....not duped again .34 years gone.25 years, alone since.. to late for me.but I pray for real true love for each one of you to come 💖🙏🏻😊

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

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@jfranco3842

2 жыл бұрын

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone You to if that's what you want in this hour.ask Jesus to send her to you.💡🔑🙏🏻✝️💖😊in Jesus name

Another great video that captures being in a narcissistic relationship pre and post very well. You are spot on with you never know what you are going to get from that person. After she discarded me, she went to therapy and claimed "emotionally, unavailable avoidant men" were the source of her problems. Yet, every time I would go to share my emotions and feelings, she would belittle me with "Oh, you're not going to get all squishy on me are you." Then, I stopped trying. I'm sure she is doing the same thing to the new supply, not giving him a safe space to share his emotions and feelings, then blaming him as the source of the problem in the end. You are so right on finding someone that provides a level playing field, being supportive, negotiating issues and disagreements.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your kindness and support.. I am grateful to be able to help share my experiences and insight with you always.. 💯🙌☀️🙏

You are helping so many people.. thank you!

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Welcome 🙏

This is so sad especially when you have yrs of wasted energy and emotional invested time hurt pain tryna get them right for you and some cases you supported them helped them and groomed them to a extent where they never tried to as hard as they did for the new supply and give them everything you asked of them thsts so sad

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Completely correct.. thank you 🙏

Andrew, I really appreciate your videos

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this beautiful message .. I appreciate your kindness Liam 🙏☀️🙌

I used to think, ye but the good times were really really good. That's not good enough. My number one rule, respect me, or close the door behind you. It doesn't matter who you are, Basic respect is the barometer for human.

The new victim is trapped in a living hell like we were...

Not after the initial..."love 💣 ng"

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

3 жыл бұрын

Agree after the love bomb 💣 it’s all a different and destructive relationship.