Is Shani’s Autism a Deal-Breaker? 😬 | First Dates New Zealand
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Romeo likes strong-built women, so is wrestler Shani his match made in heaven?
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Two wonderfully un-usual people who were destined to meet and show us something about being authentically yourself. Thank you.
@rachelbailey-no2pp
6 ай бұрын
I thought what a romantic date 🌹 He picked up the bill like a true gentleman.
Lol I can't get over that she said, you don't do that in a restaurant! Lol then bangs on glasses, burns plastic eyelashes and licks the bill😂🤢
@harryvanderveen773
4 ай бұрын
:D
@tizzlekizzle
3 ай бұрын
LOL!!!
@tizzlekizzle
2 ай бұрын
Lol
@user-sl4cd2sz5l
Ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
He was great she seriously confused. He would have treated her like gold .
@laurynbrewitt9668
5 ай бұрын
There's nothing wrong with him, her or their interaction. They didn't have chemistry is all 😊
Did she friend zone him? I was not expecting that.
@Ladybirdtaj
4 ай бұрын
Exactly the chemistry was 💯 percent there lol ' surprised at that 😮
@HopeandaPrairieFarm
3 ай бұрын
@@Ladybirdtaj - Just MHO, but it appears that she thinks fireworks = soulmate. Doesn't typically happen that way. He's a perfect match for her and she seems blinded by some romantic notion that doesn't exist. Even if it were to exist, it'd probably be short lived once the fireworks blew out. This guy's the real deal.
What a shame. They could have been a good couple.
This show does a magnificent job of matching people! I am always blown away. I love how unique and true to themselves they both are.
They seemed perfect for each other.
@citytrees1752
2 ай бұрын
She wasn't feeling the chemistry.
I thought they made a lovely couple. He may have pushed it too far when he picked her up but the rest of what was shown was unusually funny.
She was so drunk by the end 😂Also she’s gorgeous!
@NK-oi2ni
9 ай бұрын
That and a combination of being on the spectrum probably.
Sometimes couples don't start out with that "spark". Their friendshio might lead to something deeper.
Sweeping a girl of her feet literally on the first meeting...I don't think is a good idea 😂
@gillowens24
9 ай бұрын
I agree there
@Rico401Prov
9 ай бұрын
I personally wouldn’t try that but to each his own 😂
@manilkasheran2934
9 ай бұрын
Only figuratively not literally LMAO!
@mattmathematics3591
5 ай бұрын
😂 hes name is romeo
@christinamccarthy8683
5 ай бұрын
Agree
She’s learned over time to adapt to people’s behaviors even though it makes her uncomfortable My 15 year old autistic son does this She acted cool with him but really wanted to get away He was intense Which is fine he’s just being himself Both great unique individuals
@alexaf2744
7 ай бұрын
Yeah she looked trapped. No wonder so many autistic people suffer from claustrophobia. She was masking. But yeah I actually think he was sweet. Just not her thing. I love she did say no at the end 🤘
@dani-elle-au9935
3 ай бұрын
She's a wrestler...not like she's not used to being physical...she just hadn't given him permission as he's a stranger.
@citytrees1752
2 ай бұрын
yes, this.
@citytrees1752
2 ай бұрын
@@dani-elle-au9935 That would have turned me off him forever. Even though he got better through the date, I wouldn't have got over the alarm of it.
FINALLY. AN ACTUAL REAL DATE WITH REAL PEOPLE . WHO ACTTTTUALLY GET ALONG❤
@Berighteousone
9 ай бұрын
So you have to have Autism to be real? I've seen hundreds of real dates
Her little reactionsounds were so funny 😅
at first i was like nah this guy is a tool, ended with me saying wow hes a top guy
Can’t believe this guy first action to he is picking her up she look terrified by it haha.
I thought they matched so well strange she didn’t want him
@powerup9035
3 ай бұрын
She was much taller i think that was it
@rimantasbuivydas2321
3 ай бұрын
So it’s all about physical appearance doesn’t matter that they connect so well
@citytrees1752
2 ай бұрын
She wasn't feeling the chemistry.
Heh as the husband of an autistic wife I could tell from the moment she said hello! Lovely couple
What did I just watch.. That was brilliant 😂
She has a terrific personality
It could absolutely have been a great date if Romeo hadn’t picked Shani up without her permission! He really ruined his chances. One hopes he could recover after seeing her a few more times & being normal. They could be quite a good match.
@aron.gortman
9 ай бұрын
I thought it was dope.
@ProdavackaDivu
9 ай бұрын
@@aron.gortmanLet’s not touch people without consent especially in classy public places where it adds additional humiliation
@anne-mariezack
9 ай бұрын
They have sexual tension and that’s all we can gleam from this clip
@Berighteousone
9 ай бұрын
@@ProdavackaDivuLighten up KAREN
@ENFPerspectives
9 ай бұрын
@@ProdavackaDivu Agree, but dont touch people without consent in public or private.
I hope they are together man this is too cute my gosh
"Do you wanna lick it as I paid for the bill" A line I'm sure all men have wanted to say at least once, but he actually said it the mad man xDDDDD
I wonder what is the update about him. So sad, he is friend-zoned. He deserves so much better.
People fail to comment on The young man physically picking up a woman he has just met. Brazenly unacceptable!!!!
@Sandrocas
Ай бұрын
i thought the same, disrespectful of personal boundaries
They are perfect for each other. I hope he doesn't give up
@johanwitters
Ай бұрын
Of course he gives up, so he should. There's no escaping the friend zone. And in the rare event it happens: it's a terrible idea. Besides... There's plenty of fish in the sea. No point chasing one that doesn't want you.
she reminds me of girl in clueless
I feel like he may be on the spectrum too
@shoelacedonkey
5 ай бұрын
That's what I thought as well... ADHD perhaps. Nothing wrong with either btw ☺
I hope he will continue to pursue her. They seem perfect for each other. It may take a few tries before something takes off.
@melinmove
6 ай бұрын
No he should not, No means no, and she obviously knows what she is looking for and it's not him. Being "perfect for each other" does not exist, it's only in fairy tales.
@melinmove
4 ай бұрын
@@degrotekoningwouter what
@Filippenzen413
4 ай бұрын
@@melinmove Ooh thats so sad. 😢
That’s a real shame…they could have been such a great couple!
I love this lady I pray my son grows to be as confident as her thank you ❤❤❤❤
Yeah. Are we sure they're not both autistic?
@B_27
6 ай бұрын
That's what I was wondering.
@CompetitiveEllisy
4 ай бұрын
Thought it was both until I seen this comment
I hope they both meet up again.
There is something so punk rock about them ❤️
They are adorable 🥰🥰🥰
Lmao theyre both so funny and looney i quite like itttt
I have been watch first dates episodes and just laughing and giggling at some of the episodes. It's fun to watch this show.
I don't think she was saying she just wanted to be friends. She was saying she wanted to try again without all of the weirdness.
It is as if I just saw a scene from a romantic comedy. I thought they were totally for each other. I guess she was masking and mirroring his behavior, not really vibing with him.
What an incredible young woman.
He only drinks water cuz he's cheap ! And why on earth are you picking her up like that ? The music playing was funny lol
Licking a menu???? Ughhh 🤢🤮
These two are awesome together!!
What was going through this guys mind that he thought it be a good idea to pick up this woman the very first encounter he has with her 😳🤔😆😂 That is something someone does typically when people are more comfortable with each other, that made me uncomfortable just to watch and her reaction was understandable 😅
@PROVOCATEURSK
9 ай бұрын
His parents are from two really weird cultures.
@albertvirgil4471
9 ай бұрын
I think it was the fear of rejection, which made him do that unexpected thing. I think he tried to separate him self from the pack in order to make her see him more unique than the others. In the end her judgment is the final the one which counts.
@stoicwarrior346
9 ай бұрын
@@PROVOCATEURSK And your culture would be?!
@leezlvontrapp
8 ай бұрын
I think the producers gave him a little whisper to do it because of the wrestling thing. These dates are mostly staged.
I like his hair in the interview portion
I think men are more forgiving of autism in women than women are of dating an autistic man. Likely because women with autism are better at masking and men are quite visual so if she's autistic they will look past the social shortcomings
@LeMerch
7 ай бұрын
My wife has autism and she’s literally the best thing that’s ever happened to me. ❤ Everyone has something.
@mercifulmermaidtarot2630
4 ай бұрын
Knowing a man has autism wouldn’t put me off of giving him a chance. I think people sometimes assume that if they’ve met a few autistic people, they’ve met them all. Like anyone else, they are all unique individuals.
@user-hx7ud4xe1n
3 ай бұрын
I think that might be due to the fact that women are naturally more clingy, affectionate and like to be close while people on the spectrum really appreciate their independence and naturally express the same things differently while men are ok with being naturally more distant. I don`t know if I worded this correctly but that was my initial thought.
He is a nice guy but I would also be freaked out by being physically picked up by someone I just met. Save that for the second date bro 😅
This was so sweet ❤
This is so bloody cute I’m in ore with the both of them 🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩
Both rather wild and lovely 😂
now that's how you seal the deal: licking the tab. 😅
Less pressure these guys are smitten. I love them!
This is awesome
quite a nice match !!
Good match, both weird but still compelling
I think they were an excellent match!!
I got second hand embarrassment from watching that. It was unique and unexpected, but if that floats her boat I don't judge. Sometimes opposites attract each other very well.
@CanMoose
5 ай бұрын
I've been married 49 years to my opposite. Yes, it can work out well.
I don’t know which part I liked the most…Romeo’s rogue too-soon stranger scoop, ripping off false eyelashes to then burn at the table candle or leave in the water glass for the restaurant staff to deal with , orally assaulting the check presenter that is likely teeming with germs, or the shameless flex and pec reveal. Then her calling it really weird when she contributed to half of the weirdness. You can be a little goofy on a date but this was just…unusual and bad mannered.
@leezlvontrapp
8 ай бұрын
I felt secondhand embarrassment whilst watching this. Eep! No thank youuuuu. Goodness gracious. I think your recap was so perfect and you gave me a chuckle. 😂😂 Thanks! 😊😂
@user-pd3el7yt7s
6 ай бұрын
Rogue too soon stranger scoop 😂
@truth_hunter
6 ай бұрын
Yeah, I think both of them did weird things. It wasn’t only him she was part of it. Either she was doing those crazing things to feel connected to him or she’s just like him. So if she was faking her crazy stuff then she isn’t comfortable with herself. Also, I notice he is a very deep thinker and in touch with his emotions and others. Maybe, his feelings were too strong for her.
Why just not give it a go he is a realy good match for her understanding ect
I know this fool did not just pick up this girl in a restaurant off the first meet up 🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️ My lord!!!! Creep vibes
@hebahamid884
4 ай бұрын
Ikr?
they are so cute and unique😊
It grossed me out when she licked the checkbook 🤢
They definitely have the best friends vibe but since the guy is interested in more....it's better to part ways!
He’s perfect
The ending was the weirdest part about the 😮😅
What a pair of cuties 🥰
There are red flags all over this guy!
I knew they played the goofy music for a reason.
l love dem both
The ending was a shocker for me 😂 i thought it was a match. It definitely was a weird date. I don’t think she got over him lifting her up at first sight lol
They're gorgeous especially him👀
My fav couple
This is beautiful date
All of that and bro ended up in the friend zone 🥲
The menu licking was a bit grotesque for me😅
She friend zoned him. 🫤
OMG so much funny one 😂😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉❤
This was v hard to watch. Cringe.
I thought sharing the fact that she was diagnosed with autism (On the first date) this was not necessary as it was not evident in any shape or form at that stage, coupled with her licking the menu and then pulling off her lashes, were all signs that she was not going to take this relationship any further, I am convinced that if she was smitten with her date, these behaviours would not have materialised. She is a bit too goofy and at times talks too much without listening to her partner.
UMMM ok?
I have two boys on the spectrum. My oldest 16 yr old acts so much like her minus the alcohol
She does look better without the false lashes!
two cool people Xx
I think theres room for growth there.
The title of the video is a bit unfair when he mad3 it a "weird" date (her words!)
Update?
This was the weirdest date I’ve ever seen , hands down 😊
They had really weird but good chemistry but I understand why she didn't pursue. There were red flags...like a lot of them.
She speaks like Kat Dennings from 2 Broke Girls 🤔
@joannenix8497
Ай бұрын
I agree , I was thinking the same thing.
With a person that dtf her standards for what she actually stick with are probably reallly high. Espically in wrestling.
"alot of girls can't put up with reality" 😂😂😂😂😂 Tell em
@Lizbeth36961
5 ай бұрын
He struggles with depression and anxiety then goes to talk about “reality” as if he’s superior. YIKES
@degrotekoningwouter
4 ай бұрын
@@Lizbeth36961Classic PUA vibes, including the weird dress style.
@ppumpkin3282
3 ай бұрын
@@Lizbeth36961 It's an odd thing to say, and probably true, most women are looking for the perfect guy, but that doesn't mean he thinks he's superior. Maybe to direct and honest.
Weirdness Rules.....
The guys is very genuine, kinda what you see is what you get. She is not particularly cool, kinda struggling with who she is, that is affecting her judgement we saw at the end of the show. Romeo should stay away from this troubled lady.
He's Italian ?
@joannenix8497
Ай бұрын
Half Russian half Italian.
@AnonymousTruthTeller
Ай бұрын
He's hot af with the most beautiful eyes I've ever seen. Seems like a good guy really. Just that he needs to brush his teeth, look a bit yellow 😅
They will marry! 👌
Friendzoned?.....What... just... happened?! oh and she's gorgeous
Wow
I think she was judging him for his weirdness. 😅 ...but shes the same. Lol
This was one of the oddest First Dates I've ever watched! They're both oddballs in their own way. He is way too cocky - his picking her up right upon meeting was bizarre. I have to admit that I was entertained, and maybe that's all First Dates is about. I thought that she was warming up to him and was actually going to say Yes to a second date. (He obviously was into her.) But I was caught off guard when she just wanted to be "friends" - a smart choice by her but I thought that seeing all his big muscles was clouding her good judgement.
She miss a great opportunity to find a man like that
@maartjegoede9330
9 ай бұрын
Ahh a man knows it better than the actual person.... Lovely