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I only have few friends but i realize i am better off alone especially being an introvert. Some people just disrupt your peace and they cause nothing but drama, confusion, and problems. I have proven it that being by yourself helps. I go to the movies,restaurants, read, listen music and walk by myself and it feels so good .It is very liberating and empowering.

A lot of people look at “friends” as contacts whom they can call on depending on the need and situation. At this point in my life I believe I don’t have the capacity to be a friend to many and I try to keep that reality upfront in my head so that I don’t mislead and lie to people or let them down unnecessarily. Stay well, Sam!😊😊😊

I see my life get lot better when friend circle got smaller

@inspirationalnomad

4 жыл бұрын

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What good are friends when you cannot see them. Learned to be a hermit and love the freedom being one

Friends always ask way too much from me. It’s ok to have very few. I’m ok with myself working all day and relaxing in peace and privacy. Agree 💯

A friend is a enemy you have not made mad yet

@inspirationalnomad

4 жыл бұрын

It's not always that deep, sometimes people just grow apart

@samuraisorrow9916

4 жыл бұрын

@@inspirationalnomad you got your self a new sub and I' dig your content

@inspirationalnomad

4 жыл бұрын

@@samuraisorrow9916 Thank you for the support, much appreciated 👍

Great content...I've stopped making friends very early on in my life. I have 3 friends and those are the People that have been there for me through thick and thin. We normally don't spend much time together, maybe 1 week a year but always catch up via a phone call twice a month. I prefer not to have any new friends as it keeps my life simpler, also I like my peace to much.

Friends fucked me up as a kid. I was weak minded and easily influenced. Even if they have good intentions, sometimes there are bad things out there which are considered normal. I don't really have friends now, except my parents

Some of my newer friends sent me down a bad road, used me, and blamed me for everything. My few longer-term friends stood by me and built me up when I needed their support. Choose your friends wisely. They say a lot about YOU too.

Like you, I became super independante and also cautious with friendship with time.. I learned to do my own things and enjoy them without the need to follow or seek for any validation but mine. Finding your own freedom and your own confidence can be a long process but without any friend it's even more authentic because this is really you, and without any (sometimes heavy) influencesn and this is so liberating

This is a really good video. It's a subject that a lot of people don't want to consider due to societal pressure telling us it's basically "unhealthy" to be alone. Frankly, it's all kind of bullshit. You're the only one you can always depend on. Trying to maintain the nonsense in most relationships is a huge energy sink.

@Keyuntay

Жыл бұрын

Wooo I'm always so glad to find out there's more people with a mentality like mine. "You're the only one you can always depend on", I agree. I only depend on myself and my actual family. Everyone else is fake, full of drama/bullshit, disingenuine, full of nonsense, and full of bagage thinking people are supposed to tolerate their bullshit and give unconditional love or forgiveness. 🤣 No thank you.

Very few friends in life that will be there for you when you really need them.

People only contact me now when they want something,They no longer even try to conceal the fact.Its like no contact for a year or 2 and then all of a sudden ''hey I am in a bind, need help'' ,LOL then vanish again.

Hello Sammy!!! Hope you're doin well. I think having a few good quality friendship is enough than a lot of superficial ones 😊 I'm an introvert so I prefer just a few. God bless you! 👋😄

Coming from a 41 year old man I'd say most friends aren't worth it. But a few long term friends can enrich life. I pretty much roll solo.

On point as hell and eerie timing as I’m thinking about this exact same thing right now

And most so called "friends" have high expectations

Spot on about drinking 🍸 To this day if I say I don't want a drink I get, "Are you sure you don't want a drink ?" Next time I'll walk out !!

it's not the friends or the relationship that cause problems it's the emotional state the healthier you become inside the healthier relationships you will attract for me my long term friends are one of the best things in life

To me the operative word is Boundaries. Clear defined boundaries. I can do this much but that's it. It is not ok to drain my blood. People are imperfect and impermanent. For those who can deal with that go for it if you want.

Good morning Sam. You should have a cooler week coming in our North East.

I think one of my friends became a bunker boy because of the pandemic.

Frenemies are in disguise as people who care about you, however at the same time, humiliate and discredit your character.

Incredible logical logic here by the voice of reason... Priceless

Maintaining boundaries are very important with regard to the quality of life. I make a determined effort to avoid the ignorant and sociopaths.

In my case it’s not worse to have a friend. And I am okay with out so called “friend”.

@inspirationalnomad

3 жыл бұрын

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Great discussion sir, well balanced and sensible. Thnks.

Sammy great video brother.

Interesting perspective. Thanks brother 🐶

@inspirationalnomad

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks brother 😎✌

Living can be intense…I like how you said not to overthink it because it’s organic.

Great Video Sam !!

@inspirationalnomad

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you Sheila 🙂✌

I dont like to be in debt. ie.... well I did this for you now you owe me..... If I socialize its in groups so Im not dependent on One person. Re what you said the best people are the ones who can take it if you disagree with them. That dont need you to support them in everything. IMO

If you play with a puppy it will lick you in the face. I leave people alone and I want to be left alone. It's way to risky to bare your heart and soul to another human. I kind of talk to people on the fly and even then I only speak about general things not my personal stuff.

Hey Sam. So true. Take care of yourself.

@inspirationalnomad

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you Myra 🙂✌

U have all the right answers , apparently yes lol .

When I was younger I almost desperately wanted to be accepted. Sad but true. But as I've gotten older, and *perpetually* single, I see those around me differently. Maybe I'm different, but I'm almost thankful the smaller my circle is today. Oh I have my former shipmates that I'd almost do anything for, even though many I haven't seen for 30 years. And some friends from college that are nice to hang out with once or twice a year. High School...meh...Not many. Being an extroverted introvert (yeah yeah contradiction in terms), I enjoy being around people...To a Point. But prefer to recharge and lost in my thoughts solo.

@inspirationalnomad

4 жыл бұрын

I can understand that brother, when I was younger I had modes of that as well.. everything has a Season in which we mature and grow from.. YOU ARE A STAR 🌟.. KEEP PUSHING FORWARD 😉👍

@richardkimpel6142

4 жыл бұрын

@@inspirationalnomad you're up early Sam. Me, I'm on my way to work. Still killing it doing DoorDash. Saving most of my money. Though The money I did spend was on a new to me car with better gas & a touch more reliable. Hope all is well brother! Stay safe, stay sane, keep you doing you, and have an awesome day!

@inspirationalnomad

4 жыл бұрын

@@richardkimpel6142 💰💰💰💰🚘🚘🚘🚘👍👍👍👍👍👍

What’s up Sam positive vibes to as always me and my PYT are at Starbucks and guess what they started playing on the music speakers the artist Sade I and thought of your brother had to send you some good vibes😎👍💯😊🙌

@inspirationalnomad

3 жыл бұрын

That's awesome brother.. Thank you for sharing.. Keep Jamming 🎶🎶🎶🔊🔊🔊☺✌

Dig it.

Nope..that was an easy question

I swear you sound like the male version of me

@inspirationalnomad

2 жыл бұрын

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No. It is not.

I love you Sir، in Arabic احبك ❤️