There’s a really beautiful scene at the end where he goed to a pool and floats on his back. Someone asks “what are you doing?” “Understanding”

@Me-fc9pf

Жыл бұрын

Im sorry but...its "went" Goed doesnt exist😅

@rurururi256

Жыл бұрын

​@@Me-fc9pfcatch that at first 😭 I'm gonna use goed instead of went from now on

@demonick8489

Жыл бұрын

@@Me-fc9pf lmfao I think they meant to say "goes" 😂😂 definitely love the word goed tho

@supper-girl7405

Жыл бұрын

@@Me-fc9pf yeah i meant goes, I blame dutch autocorrect lol

@jellycube898

Жыл бұрын

nah that's just actually made me kinda tear upppp aa 😭😭

I love how he just asks questions in the most pure way, just out of sheer curiosity

@naylisyazwina6836

Жыл бұрын

So he transitioned because she got bullied in school by being a boy with more feminine traits smh. Why not accept if a boy wants to play with girl toys and hang out with the girls

@TravissBr

Жыл бұрын

Changing a childs gender is not “pure” it’s disgusting

@GacktsBigTiddies

Жыл бұрын

@@TravissBr im talking about the questions he's asking 💀 mfs always gotta bring gender into it even tho they ignorant

@sugoi694

Жыл бұрын

​@@TravissBr If the child didn't make any permanent changes to their body, I don't see whats wrong with it. If looking like male makes them feel secure and happy and doesn't hurt them, why take it away from them?

@ShadowCompany01

Жыл бұрын

@@sugoi694 Typical anime pfp

Asking questions is ok. Don't judge and just learn about the other person's situation

@ace4009

Жыл бұрын

Asking questions to learn is great, just understand that asking questions about genitalia is not okay and not everyone will want to answer questions:)

@Moss-and-T3A

Жыл бұрын

@@ace4009well said

@pixelsyndicate3662

Жыл бұрын

And what if what you learn is gender dysphoria is harming that person? That transitioning wasn’t the answer?

@ace4009

Жыл бұрын

@@pixelsyndicate3662 well, gender dysphoria is obviously going to harm someones mental state, but that is what makes people want to change, of course transitioning isnt for everyone and sometimes people make mistakes but that is extremely rare, especially since now you have to go through a lot of therapy and get a doctors note in most places in order to start surgically transitioning. Everyone is different and every transitioning story is unique to each person

@WyattMcNeely

Жыл бұрын

@@ace4009 what if I think I am a horse can I change into a horse or am I just mentally unstable?

He fully understood her explanations. Especially being alone comment. He wishes he could experience the floating, I.e being free.

@TheBigBadRaven

11 ай бұрын

As a son of a bisexual mother, this hit me hard for some reason.

@period8705

6 ай бұрын

His

@yubri2f

5 ай бұрын

It’s actually his

@vincentfisher950

4 ай бұрын

He was expanding on her metaphor/allegory.

@JustAnObody812

Ай бұрын

Its a him

Murphy (the doctor) is autistic, the dude genuinely can’t understand why people would feel that way, if you’re a member of the LGTBQ, hating on his character being so adamant in his mentally is being hypocritical.

@DroseraNara

Жыл бұрын

Autistic people are more likely than neurotypical people to be gender diverse. This character might not understand it, but many autistic people have first hand experience with it.

@hag8752

Жыл бұрын

@@DroseraNarapeople with autism generally have difficulty with social cues and comprehending others decisions. It doesn’t change how the feel about themselves, just how they think about others.

@robinw.8083

Жыл бұрын

There's a correlation between autism and transness. It seems like the lax and constantly-changing boundaries of gender kinda don't work with our tendency to need things to be clearcut. For me the confusing thing is that people feel like they have gender at all

@SubASHtomic

Жыл бұрын

Well the only version u usialy see is the bit before he undersands and a bunch if homophobes in the coments so if u havent seen it i cab see why but i totalt agree with u

@moonoverstars.00

Жыл бұрын

well as a member of the lgbtq i can say that i actually really like his character, hes just curious

He learned to be an ally, by asking questions of the one person who might be able to answer them. And he genuinely tried to understand the answers, instead of coming into the conversation with his own preconceived ideas.

@SegularRpork

Жыл бұрын

Who would want allegiance with that disgusting organisation? Burn it to the ground. It gives people bad reputations.

@meannn417

Жыл бұрын

I mean it’s ok if he came in with his own idea it’s called an opinion I would have done the same thing logically.

@shawarmagaming9510

Жыл бұрын

an ally?! tfu bro LGBTQ is just so bad and nonsense the problem is with the Gen z boys and girls who don't know how to act around people due to the lack of interacting with people that we are in that's why when they see that they can gender switch online and maybe the other side will accept them that's what they do because they are not returning to anything else

@ClearestofGlues

Жыл бұрын

His preconceived ideas of objective reality? Like for example that women can’t become men and men cannot become women ? 😂

@SegularRpork

Жыл бұрын

@@ClearestofGlues correct. Women cannot become men, and vice versa. At least not with current technology, we would have to change every cell of the body. Probably before specialisation occurs.

I love how after not understanding he tries his best to ask about her identity

@JustAnObody812

Ай бұрын

His

@flamingpansexual

Ай бұрын

@@JustAnObody812 does misgendering people bring you and your fragile masculinity joy?

@BigSmiggles

20 күн бұрын

​@@JustAnObody812Clearly you don't care

I really love how he progresses through this episode. He’s open from the start about how he doesn’t understand the logic of someone being trans because it doesn’t make sense to him, but aside from some rudeness at first, he shows a genuine want to learn the other perspective and asks questions to get a better understanding. By the end once he’s got the answers to those questions, he actually understands it and is happy to support her. He never means to be disrespectful and gets a better answer when people aren’t dancing around the topic like it’s taboo

@smalltrashman4227

2 ай бұрын

Children cannot be trans.

@Xuff._.

24 күн бұрын

​@mrkissbobong

He's so sweet, he's just curious ❤

@RolveTheProtogen

Жыл бұрын

bicurious

@JustAnObody812

Ай бұрын

@@RolveTheProtogenno

He is an ally, he's just one that didn't understand at first. At least he's putting inthe effort to understand.

@Ceoofedging

11 ай бұрын

No not really, he understands the boys reasoning but still thinks the trans claim is relatively insane. I mean the boys got reticular cancer, sh1t dousnt get more ironic then that 😭

@wilow20

11 ай бұрын

They should Understand biology

@Noba46688

11 ай бұрын

@@wilow20for the trillionth time, sex≠gender. There is not a single “objective” part about gender - it’s all arbitrary. Or will you please enlighten me how fabric arranged in one way can be “feminine”, but in another can be “masculine”?

@thephoenix4093

11 ай бұрын

@@Noba46688 gender is related to sex. a human male on average is stronger than a female male. cutting off genitals doesn't change that. that's why men are more involved in physical jobs. that's how gender works. its not even just with humans. animals also got genders and biology is related to it. first grade children that are not mentally ill understand this.

@dutchpatriot17

10 ай бұрын

​@@Noba46688Feminine/masculine =/= man/woman. Gender and sex are one and the same. You don't become a woman just because you wear a dress and put on makeup, that is called a sexist stereotype.

Shaun was really trying to understand

Not the “#iamasurgeon” hashtag on the caption 💀

@ellalloyd17

Жыл бұрын

💀💀💀

@mollyo207

Жыл бұрын

💀💀💀💀

@SCOTLAND_ISGREAT

Жыл бұрын

I AM A SURGEON I AM A SURGEON DR HART

@vincentfreddoyle7555

Жыл бұрын

Sturgeon 🐟

@krichenboi

10 ай бұрын

​@@SCOTLAND_ISGREAT*dr han

"The kids at school didn't understand me so they picked on me." That is the most relatable phrase ever...

Be you = NOT CHANGE

i think that it is important to understand that in some cases, individuals with undiagnosed ASD may do surgery and go through gender transition, but still struggle to find a sense of fulfillment. So this interaction between a transgender patient and an ASD doctor is quite interesting imho

@chazer0075

Жыл бұрын

That's just not true though...

@JmenEdits

Жыл бұрын

@@marcox2001ou ratioed that silly little guy. high five! 🙏

@brain-gymnastic

Жыл бұрын

​@@chazer0075Yes, the chance of finding unddiagnosed asd among transgender people is quite high.That's Fakt.That's the answer of a psychiatrist here in my town.I have asd and Genderdysphoria.

@rigby.walabee

Жыл бұрын

​@@brain-gymnasticyes BUT this commenter is making it seem like the autism invalidates the gender dysphoria and that the autistic people aren't really trans because they're just autistic. I'm an autistic trans person and it's a lot to process and it's hard to separate the things that cause the social dysphoria and the gender specific dysphoria, but that doesn't mean that they aren't both present. I'm sure you get that part.

@rigby.walabee

Жыл бұрын

@@nunyuh111 if you mean why I trust that I'm actually trans, I came out when I was thirteen and then went back in the closet before coming out AGAIN at nineteen. It was always apparent to me from the moment I started puberty that the wrong thing was happening to me. It felt wrong. At fifteen I had a breakdown in the doctor's office and they couldn't figure out how to help me because everything was normal (and nobody connected the dots unfortunately). I can't tell you WHY I feel that way, but my brain and my body feels opposed with each other. It's incredibly uncomfortable and sometimes I want to just peel my skin off to the point I stim compulsively, though. If you're asking me why I trust my doctors, it's because I've done my research. I know who I'm going to, I know their reputation, I know what they should be giving me based on the recommended practice (and my own preferences for needle size for hormone injections) and I know that, even if something were to go wrong, I'm still happier than I was before I came out permanently.

"I dont know what it feels like to be anyone but me". And that's ok embrace who you are you will feel sad and lonely sometimes but thats just you telling yourself that you changing and you can embrace that. And I you cant or do not want to that's ok you do what you feel like. Not anybody else.

It’s kinda crazy because since he’s autistic he insists a lot on something but then after a while he just starts to question to learn more and he’s always very serious and doesn’t understand some peoples intellect so that also makes him a bit funny

He’s an ally to science/facts, bravo

@darkmeth1118

Жыл бұрын

What science and what facts lol

@darkmeth1118

Жыл бұрын

Where is the science in butt se3?😅 or you trying to act smart thinking no one gonna read your comment

@AngelEyes0.0

Жыл бұрын

@@darkmeth1118chromosomes

@danger5486

Жыл бұрын

​@@AngelEyes0.0bro chill it's a show, which I absolutely love

@hildielover

Жыл бұрын

​@@AngelEyes0.0 except some people have mosaic chromosomes so no. Chromosomes arent the be all end all. Just leave trans ppl alone and live ur life

I completely resonate with this I’m also autistic and ask this question they were so understanding and helped me learn some people get mad cuz they don’t understand

His curiosity is both a nuisance and a blessing. Makes him a better person and doctor

when i heard "when i used to be a boy" i spit my water out

I felt and was treated differently in school too. Turned out I liked men and then when I realized, everything made sense. I kept it locked away for a long time out of shame. It's nice to feel free but the way people treat you... That isn't nice.

@Rapid-Response

Жыл бұрын

Happy Pride!

@Rainbow_Neos1

Жыл бұрын

@@Rapid-Response As to you!

@Mahalqahtani

Жыл бұрын

Imagine being mentally ill and not getting a therapist also you don’t have enough testosterone cause your weak and you don’t have a healthy diet

@noob1625

10 ай бұрын

Ey gay

@noob1625

10 ай бұрын

Eww gay

It’s so interesting that they chose to go the route of “person with autism doesn’t understand transitioning” instead of the more accurate portrayal of “person with autism doesn’t understand the gender construct” more often than not, people with autism are more likely to not be cis

@chazer0075

Жыл бұрын

I don't think that's necessarily true, i think it's more the fact the trans people are more in tune and understand themselves better so can recognise when they aren't neuritypical

@editsilovebananafish5184

Жыл бұрын

@@chazer0075false😭So many trans people have come out saying they regret their decision on transitioning and theres so many people who wanted to be trans that realised that the thought of being trans was a physchological issue that was encouraged by society

@ILoveEclipses

Жыл бұрын

This can be true! Ofc they can both be true,but I feel like yes theirs a higher percantge of not being cis! I’m neourdivgent and I’m trans, it’s common but ofc people still get confused about transitioning in such, great comment!!

@veez4299

Жыл бұрын

@@chazer0075 Or vice versa. I realized I was autistic before I realized I was trans.

@rigby.walabee

Жыл бұрын

​@@chazer0075so, autistic people (like myself) are more likely to be trans because we experience EVERYTHING differently than neurotypical people do, including the gender construct. A lot of autistic people will feel non-binary because the way that the gender construct exists doesn't make sense with the way our brains categorize things. Now on the contrary side, some autistic people are very into rules as written/taught and will be able to put themself in a binary box which might be their sex assigned at birth. So while it's not like ALL autistic people are trans, we are more likely to be trans or gender non conforming than non autistic people.

Guys. His character is neither an ally nor an enemy. He is genuinely curious. It’s who he is to ask questions. This interaction gives no data on whether or not he supports or neglects their being or not.

@arhyllinchroma9062

Жыл бұрын

The way I see it, he doesn’t show directly if he’s for it or against it, but he still treats her as a person to be respected. In that way even though their respective ideas are different, they can still speak out and connect their thoughts in a respectful way. It’s a genuinely good thing to have because it opens up the way for genuine communication rather than purely debating

@human439

Жыл бұрын

@@arhyllinchroma9062 exactly. That’s why I admire this character so much. Respect is a highly valued characteristic in today’s world.

The lengths this guy goes to understand other's experiences is how he expresses his big heartedness

For those of you that havent watched this after work in this episode he ended up asking his neigbor to break them into a swimming pool building to see what she felt like by floating on the pool

I love how he goes from completely confused, to asking questions, and then to understanding and acceptance by then end of the episode.

Hes an odd case cuz he doesnt really understand the concept of gender as far as i understand and probably just sees people as their sex not even woman/man but just female/male

@bangchansrightbreastimplant

Жыл бұрын

He’s autistic

@Imperial.Productions

Жыл бұрын

gender = sex, sex = gender

@amokriinprolgiid3409

Жыл бұрын

Frankly, I think his way of seeing things is better. Adding socially constructed identities is more a recipe for discrimination, the likes of which early feminists fought so hard to try to rid the world of. Seeing people in terms of their biological differences is important for things like medicine as those differences make a noticable impact on what's most effective in medical treatment. And it's easier to rid the world of discrimination if there's less denominations by which to split up the human species. Frankly, I've never seen merit behind forming social identities like these of any sort.

@celestialveins

Жыл бұрын

Not odd. Most people see sex.

@nepi7847

Жыл бұрын

@@Imperial.Productions factually wrong, that's been proved time after time but i guess the whole "facts over feelings" thing doesn't apply when you don't like said facts

Murphy is just a hinged version of sheldon from big bang theory

i like how the girl was so open and noticed how he was seriously just curious and wanted to learn

@lambolance7182

4 ай бұрын

*boy

@call-me-phia

4 ай бұрын

@@lambolance7182 dawg its a show r u seriously freaking out rn actually grow up 💀💀

@lambolance7182

4 ай бұрын

@@call-me-phia look at you getting mad at me having basic knowledge, don’t tell me to grow up when you look like a average white girl straight out of middle school

@lambolance7182

4 ай бұрын

@@call-me-phia not you getting mad at me having basic knowledge, and don’t tell me to grow up when you’re a average white girl from middle school

@lambolance7182

4 ай бұрын

@@call-me-phia not you getting mad over the fact I know basic knowledge and not your gender identity bullshit, how about you grow up

I knew the "I'm not a very good swimmer" was coming but it's still funny😂😂😂

I love how he puts in the effort to actually understand how the girl feels. He isn't judging, he's curious. We need more people like him.

Murphy is 💯% right

@glitchgames6195

Жыл бұрын

Right about what

@guychilling

Жыл бұрын

He accepted her at the end idi0t

@anonimulmistocar4542

8 ай бұрын

Because he accepted her

I’m actually happy to see this kind of interaction, Dr Murphy is curious about this girl’s gender identity and basically how she became who she is in body mind and heart, as I see it, Murphy understands the human anatomy by remembering books that he read but doesn’t understand how the human heart and mind works when it comes to gender or sexual identity and tbh I understand that from both the girl and Murphy, I have felt for YEARS (almost 10 years to be exact) trying to understand why I wasn’t comfortable dressing like a girl and then I try being a guy it didn’t feel right either sometimes, going back and forth of “am I bi-gender? Am I non-binary?” It was tough once I truly figured it out with help from my husband and realized I am gender fluid, I had to face the “Dr Murphy” in my life, my grandmother, she doesn’t understand what the LGTBQ+ is and what she knows is what she learned from her life before the concept of LGTBQ+ even came into existence, so it’s still tough to explain it to her, which is why this scene alone makes me smile and proud to be who I am.

HE IS A SURGEON HE IS A SURGEON HE IS A SURGEON DOCTOR HAN HE IS A SURGEON

I'm trans and autistic, so I can relate to both of these characters in different ways. Murphy had a lot of development when interacting with this patient, he started off a bit stuck, transphobic, though not on purpose. It came from a place of lacking understanding and he learned really fast when that need for understanding was pointed out to him. Asking questions is okay, even encouraged as long as you're genuinely curious and not trying to make fun of anyone. And he absolutely is being genuine here. This is how people should be, try to learn and understand and just respect that people are different and that different is okay. Best way to learn is to ask questions.

@xdnsvexd1401

11 ай бұрын

Bro got bombed with all mental disorders😂

@artbookgaming

11 ай бұрын

@@xdnsvexd1401 uhhh thanks? But neither are mental disorders (being trans isn't a disorder but is generally comes together with a sexual disorder, ya know there with things like erectile dysfunction and infertility, known as gender dysphoria, and autism is a neurological develepmental disorder, meaning it's in the neurons in your brain as mental disorders are in the hormones and hormone levels in your brain) though I do have some mental disorders too (a couple anxiety disorders, depression, and ptsd), I don't have anywhere near all of them. Like I don't have any type of dissociative disorder like DID, any hallusinatory disorders like schizophrenia, or any personality disorder like OCPD or NPD.

@xdnsvexd1401

11 ай бұрын

@@artbookgaming my friend what are you trying to prove? Gender dysphoria is a mental condition not a physical condition, which is a type of body dysmorphia wherein a person is not satisfied with his body and wants to make it look like the opposite gender

@yournerdiness3135

3 ай бұрын

I am also trans and autistic, I completely agree.

@nickrodriguez7245

2 ай бұрын

Why?? Just why??

I have very mixed views on this show, I don't feel it's the worst rep, I think for who made it it's decent, and I feel it's a relatively realistic approach when it comes to autistic individuals with a similar level of emotional maturity, Ive never personally met an individual on the spectrum with his type of lack of people skills/stunted emotional maturity (God I feel demeaning wording it like that, I just don't know how else to word it, homie isn't emotionally mature, just look at that scene with him and doctor chang) so I can't speak to it being perfect rep, and even then I'm not autistic so really can't say much on it, I am but a dyslexic/add person

@sarahburggraf907

Жыл бұрын

Exodus 20:7

@KrakenWind

Жыл бұрын

Autism isn’t something you can get away from by just interacting with people. People with autism have a hard time being subtle or non-blunt about their experiences, opinions, wants, and thoughts. I have a little brother whose autistic, he says whatever he feels without embarrassment or discomfort, sometimes he says things like “I don’t love you” and sometimes it does hurt a little when it feels like he means it, but I know my brother is just a little angry and doesn’t have the same tools people without autism have to deal with their inner thoughts and emotions.

@theoutsiderjess4869

Жыл бұрын

For a doctor show it's not bad at all

@kimmyera174

Жыл бұрын

@@sarahburggraf907 "Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own guacamole." (Proverbs 3:5)

@lara_collins3

Жыл бұрын

I will admit you don't often find that many people with autism that presents itself in this way, I only know 2 people that's my younger brother (19) And my friends younger brother (6) I also have autism (and adhd) but mine presents in the form of sensitivity and eye contact, other than that I can talk and interact with others amazingly and love learning new things My older brother (22) has autism that presents itself with sensitivity, a lack of social rules (like chewing with your mouth shut or looking both ways when crossing the road) and melt downs due to not being able to process or explain what he's thinking in the right words. The show is amazing at representing autism for those who don't understand social cues, sarcasm, things that break they're logic, interaction with others, as well as the ability to be absolutely blunt asf with no care 😂 and thinking in a way that most people don't

heavily considering sending this to my parents bc im trans and they like this show so maybe they'll finally listen to me if i show them this

@usenamer3635

Жыл бұрын

@@zeenunew2008I went from h-ah

@usenamer3635

Жыл бұрын

the other person deleted her comment so i will say i transitioned from human to attack helicopter

@funkymonkey7252

Жыл бұрын

comments went from "GRRRR I hate Hollywood trans propaganda" to "I'm trans" and im confused as fuck

@Dudejohn-dj8cr

Жыл бұрын

​@@usenamer3635go get bent by stinger S.A.M Ya transphobic spastic go take a nap ya twag

@soe8888

Жыл бұрын

They will probably stop watching the show as it pushes certain ideologies

Bro, every single damn show at the house I’m like this it’s so stupid I’m done

His face expressions are so adorable, if I was the patient, I would have died 😅

Cant believ no one is taking him to get checked out on his mental issue

Guys, I think he’s a surgeon

@nitatv3395

Жыл бұрын

Omg, I think you might be right!

their interaction is wonderful,as an Autistic person who happens to be NonBinary myself. This is beautiful to me,this is how people should be!

I love this scene but my favourite scene in this episode is when he finally calls her a she ands said “she’s more of a purple girl” after he finally understood my brother has autism and this show did a really good job and replicating it and proving that people on the spectrum can be successful to and can learn to understand. 😊😊

@jisooayoo543

Жыл бұрын

Same😊

I hate the people using this episode as a reason to be transphobic rather than realize that he tries to understand

@soe8888

Жыл бұрын

Nobody is using anything as an „excuse“ to be „transphobic“. People are just pointing out the purposefully placed propaganda

@Hxrness_your.h0pes

Жыл бұрын

@@soe8888 what propaganda?

@soe8888

Жыл бұрын

@@Hxrness_your.h0pes the pushing of the lgbtq ideology and child transitioning

@anonimulmistocar4542

8 ай бұрын

@@soe8888 there's no propaganda. Trans people exist in society, so is only normal and expected for trans people to appear in media too.

Courageous writing! BRAVO!

"when my parents let me be me" that reminds me of: .....so the FCC wont let me be or let me be me, so let me see they tried to shut me down on MTV but it feels so empty without me (-eminem)

It makes no sense why the media insist on putting a condition that in reality affects .1% of the population into every movie, TV show, cartoon, commercial and theatre production.

as a lgbt autistic person, i think he's probably an ally but just lacks further understanding (I haven't seen the show though). it took having lgbt friends in high school to teach me about these things and understand why people felt that way. we don't tend to understand emotions as easily, and honestly i think murphy's response was fairly similar to what some of ours may be. i was very confused for a while when my friend told me he was trans, but after he explained and answered some questions i understood and was supportive. we just need time and explanations, then we can understand just as well as anyone else for the most part.

@Noname-gm5om

Жыл бұрын

No he doesn’t lack anything Shaun sees objective truth and the objective truth is male is male and changing sex organs and putting drugs your body doesn’t naturally produce doesn’t change your very biological makeup. And trans is a trans not the real thing. There’s women then there are trans women it’s a difference I respect trans women but I don’t respect trans women who pretend they’re real women own what you are! a man who wanted to transition (if that’s what you truly want that’s ok to transition but don’t lie to yourself and others and expect others to have to respect or believe your fairy tales) don’t delude yourself of elsewise.

@wiking4770

Жыл бұрын

lolol sure thing

@danicegewiss862

Жыл бұрын

He's just wanting to understand. He's being a kind man to the little girl. Ally? Who knows?

@Luv_weasel

Жыл бұрын

@@kyloluma I’m going to do my best to explain how it feels to be trans, but if you still have questions I’d be more than happy to answer. It’s kind of like if you had a rock in your shoe your whole life, and you lived with it even though it was uncomfortable and made you feel bad, then one day you mention it to someone and they say “what? People don’t have rocks in their shoes.” Of course this would lead to confusion, but eventually you decide to take the rock out of your shoe. To represent the different stages of transition let’s say the rock is a bunch of tiny pebbles because it’s been crushed. Socially transitioning (ex. Changing name, going by preferred pronouns, etc) is like taking the first chunk of pebbles out of your shoe, it feels so much better, but there’s still rocks in there (obv some trans people never go past this step as they are comfortable here, and that’s completely okay). Then you begin hrt, another huge chunk of pebbles gone. Then, after months of hrt and at least a year of social transition, you are able to get gender confirmation surgery if you’re above 18 (which usually comes with at least a 4 month wait), and with that step (usually) that is the final chunk of pebbles removed. Now you can walk around with no rock in your shoe, just as everyone else is, comfortable in your own shoes. Sorry for the super long reply, I hope I helped, again if you have any more questions I’m happy to answer, have a great day!!

@kyloluma

Жыл бұрын

@@Luv_weasel thanks for actually replying and giving a helpful answer btw. so it's kind of just like, something feels wrong, and at first, you don't know exactly what, and then you figure it out slowly? i sort of get it, but if you know, i would love to know the psychology behind it. i'll do my own research about it if not, i just find knowing the psychology of this kind of thing really helpful

As someone who’s autistic and none binary this is a very interesting thing to see. Understanding is hard and sometimes you need to learn different to get it. He didn’t understand and showed that by calling her a boy but he did really care. When he heard what she had to say in a way to he could grasp and maybe even relate to you can see he understood more

He is actually rlly good with kids and such a good doctor ❤

Can’t get over Dr Murphy. The way and how he ask question. devoid of prejudices or anything of that sort. Love this character so much.

The actress is trans. So for everyone getting triggered that "THAT'S NOT WHAT A TRANS GIRL LOOKS LIKE!" She's literally a trans girl. xD Male to Female.

@JessieJ93

Жыл бұрын

That young?! Yikes

@wiking4770

Жыл бұрын

@@JessieJ93fr

@dankwolf1157

Жыл бұрын

​@@JessieJ93perfect example of grooming

@guychilling

Жыл бұрын

​@@JessieJ93We are born trans, it's not a choice

@anonymous_girly

Жыл бұрын

@@guychillingo being trans is smth ur born with? nah gtfoh💀

I get the doctor is autistic, he was genuinely trying to understand this girl, in his own way. He was just asking a question and listening to the answer. He was attempting to be nice and not hating on LGBTQ, just because he doesn't understand something, doesn't mean he hates it

Dr Murphys stare makes me wanna cry😭😭

I AM A SURGEON!!

You were born a girl or a boy. You can't change your sex. If someone have problem with socialising it is doesn't mean she or he have different gender. But culture of this days saying to you opposite things because of "tolerance", they saying "you can be anyone you want" forgetting about biology and common sens. And some people are like "oh, ok. If I have some problems, maybe it is because I am not my gender". No. You are who you are. Maybe you going through hard times. Maybe you need some help. But you shouldn't think you can change biology. Because this is all artificially. Surgeries, hormones - this is not a change of sex. This will not change DNA. And you shouldn't succumb to propaganda of 21 century. Fish don't want to be a fox, fish is who it is. And when a human wanted to fly, human didn't try to become a bird. Human invented a plane. If you want to find your happiness, you should work on yourself, learn something new, be a good and decent person, try to figure out your problems, maybe to find some help, this is ok, but not to try to go against the nature and to become someone you never will.

He so cute and more important question what episode is this?

@altheafloof1325

Жыл бұрын

season one, episode is called She

Felt diff doesn't equal cut off body parts

@alfiehopkin5795

9 ай бұрын

According to?

@richardgarrison8328

9 ай бұрын

@@alfiehopkin5795biology

@armyrunt01

6 ай бұрын

@alfiehopkin5795 according to anyone with a non fucked up mentality. There's people who believe they where meant to be disabled. They put bleach in thier eyes or get thier legs cut off. Do you think that's any crazier than thinking just cause you feel like a women that automatically means you have to cut body parts off

I like how he tries to understand

Her: I'm a girl Him: I AM A SURGEON

I also don’t understand why people feel that way, because they shouldn’t have to feel gender dysphoria and they should’ve been born in the right body

@catrinoiuandrei4624

Жыл бұрын

Just because you don't understand it doesn't mean it's not true. Trans people exist

@ryanmackenzie6109

Жыл бұрын

Trust, we also wish we were born the right way around. Just that society tries to fit people into little boxes based on what's in their pants, instead of what roles they want to fill in society. Or which people they feel most comfortable around. We wouldn't choose to be trans if we had the option not to. But ignoring it just makes it worse. 😅

@catrinoiuandrei4624

Жыл бұрын

@@kyloluma very simply put, the brains of males and females are wired in different ways, and this difference developers in the uterus, after the sex is already determined. So in rare cases the body can develop as it's supposed to, but the brain develops in a different way. For instance a drop in testosterone right before the brain begins developing can cause this to happen.

@ryanmackenzie6109

Жыл бұрын

@@kyloluma "Being born in the wrong body" is a shorthand trans people use to sort of quickly explain the idea to people who aren't trans. Not *literally* born in the wrong body. More accurately, there's a disconnect between the brain's mental image of the self, the body's image, and society's view of the person. For another little bit of shorthand: it's sort of like anorexia, where the person will always perceive themselves to be overweight no matter how skinny they get. The only real difference, is that the best treatment method we've found to alleviate the distress for trans people, is gender transition. Letting people fill the societal and social roles that best allign with their sense of self. Letting them modify their bodies to better be in line with the the brain's image of the self. It is the least harmful method of treatment we have, which is what we should always strive for. Whatever does the person the least amount of harm.

@RandomPerson-lh6cs

Жыл бұрын

@@catrinoiuandrei4624 not what I was saying at all, I was saying that I wish people didn’t have to experience the pain of gender dysphoria. I’m a trans man, I understand how much it hurts

Both of them are such good listeners

This dude smart

That’s sweet and all but it doesn’t change the truth. The kid is a boy regardless of what he feels and same goes for the actor that played “her”. Transitioned or not Sophie Giannamore was born male and will always be a male. Facts don’t care for your feelings and honesty I don’t either.

@Nightshade_Realm

6 ай бұрын

You're absolutely right! Facts don't care about your feelings, and unfortunately for you, every professional in the field of neurology and psychology agrees that being Trans is an incredibly normal phenomenon and that gender is a social role that can be changed. Historically, there have been records of multiple different genders across cultures and texts documenting cases of transitioning gender roles. You may not do your research, but others do

@baldwinthefourth4098

4 ай бұрын

​@@Nightshade_RealmIf a human starts identifying as a cat, does he become a cat? Yes or no?

@ASH3RPRASH3R

Ай бұрын

​@baldwinthefourth4098 well no but we do identify nonphysically, though while others do infact identify fully as non-human, the majority of us doesnt so to answer your question: no we are not cats, we will say we are ____, or we identify as/with _____, but it doesnt actually make us actual nonhuman Personally, it wouldnt actually refer to itself as "identifying as a fox", and i wouldnt say that either, me and it would both just say "we're a fox" and that would be the end of it

Why do the kids have to think so much about identity and all. Just make friends and go out to play. Once you run and sweat and eat together, even if you are a bear or turtle, you will feel good and try to ignore nomsense around you.

@Dante_yo_son_of_sparda_yo77

11 ай бұрын

Its not my fault kids bully me cause of my identity Its not my fault my so called freinds outed me

@shivanikaushik1269

11 ай бұрын

@@Dante_yo_son_of_sparda_yo77 but it will definitely be your fault if you take their nonsense to heart...peopel will go on to mind their business as they grow up but you will be left with mutilated heart and body. You can be gay or a feminine men dressing in skirts ( it is absolutely fine) but don't let others tell you that you can only do that by being in a woman's body.

@Dante_yo_son_of_sparda_yo77

11 ай бұрын

@@shivanikaushik1269 I'm not trans I'm bi man in a deeply conservative state legit I get told to off my self I get called slurs and I got assaulted in the restroom but yeah totally my fault

@anonimulmistocar4542

8 ай бұрын

@@shivanikaushik1269 here we are again, blaming the victims but never the disgusting people who harm others.

I've never seen this show. But I like the chemistry between these two. She understands him. And she gets him.

@TheScotlander

Жыл бұрын

He*

As another autistic person I didn't realize he was being rude until the other people were upset and I I hope I haven't done that

If you watch the whole episode, he’s not really an ally

@vsmx6275

Жыл бұрын

he's a doctor difference is what u say can't prove nothing because of the simple fact of the situation lying and or leaving any evidence about yourself just feel "satisfaction" over something as small as being insecured is the reason why you'll die over being stubborn about something you can't admit

@2GoatsInATrenchCoat

Жыл бұрын

​@@vsmx6275it's a made up show and a fictional character bro, breathe

@amokriinprolgiid3409

Жыл бұрын

​@@2GoatsInATrenchCoatin fairness to that guy, in a hospital, the biological sex of the patient is kinda important since various biological and hormonal differences can make different treatments more or less effective for one sex vs the other as well as some medicines can have nasty side effects if they're not properly suited to the patient. So, giving one's social identity to the hospital and omitting their biological sex can indeed have negative consequences.

@2GoatsInATrenchCoat

Жыл бұрын

@@amokriinprolgiid3409 I honestly didn't even realize that's what he was trying to say and, though I agree that it's dangerous to hide your biological sex from doctors, it doesn't seem relevant to this comment.

@2GoatsInATrenchCoat

Жыл бұрын

@@amokriinprolgiid3409 I just looked up the episode btw and it says nothing about her hiding her biological sex. She was being transparent because she came in for testicular cancer. So it felt like an unnecessary thing for that commenter to say

This was by far one of my favorite episodes. I loved that she was okay answering his questions so he could understand it better. I also liked that she didn't get mad at him for calling her a boy at the beginning because from his point of view she biologically is a male and the treatment and diagnosis still has to be based on that but she was so understanding of all of his questions. My favorite was "do you like pink?" "I'm more of a purple girl" 😊 this is such a good show

Damn this hits deep for me

To me, that doesn’t answer the question. Not fitting in or being a loner is a common problem. People change their appearance both to fit in or to mask something. I remain curious as to how she knew she was a girl instead of a boy. Any trans women in the comment section have thoughts on this? It would make more sense if you had a serious conflict with your body - like it didn’t belong to you in a fundamental way.

Fun fact, there are a lot of autistic folk who are trans and/or some kinda gay. Considering I'm all 3 of those things, I should know lol

This is what parents need to stimulate. You are unique and sex does not define you, your mind and spirit does, which dies not mean cutting off your genitalia or adding an appendage to identify with a sex you will never be.!

Hot and Sour Cabbage sounds so good! You reassuring Roo 😭💖 All the love 🤗 I've loved the last two tonight 🥰

OMG OMG HE IS SOOOO SWEET ! WE MUST PROTECT HIM AT ALL COST !!

Leave kids alone groomers

@Dante_yo_son_of_sparda_yo77

11 ай бұрын

Didn't conservative mike moon defend child marriage who's the groomer now

@krsnv2e684

11 ай бұрын

​@@Dante_yo_son_of_sparda_yo77 you and that conservative))

@Dante_yo_son_of_sparda_yo77

11 ай бұрын

@@krsnv2e684 bitch I am not no groomer just cause I exist doesn't mean I'm coming for your kids

@anonimulmistocar4542

8 ай бұрын

Say this to cisgender parents

She has testicular cancer 💀

@snkae7139

Жыл бұрын

☠️

All the people talking about how innocently he asks questions but I know for a fact, half the people saying that in this comment section would get pissed when a real autistic person asks them something.

Dr. Murphy is so lovable n cute😍😍😍

Aaaaand of course in that case, they take an actual genetic girl to portray this. So that everybody thinks that it looks actually that normally.

@cadeptt

Жыл бұрын

So?

@AAAAAAA66879

Жыл бұрын

@@cadeptt if you don’t see it, then we disagree probably on many things. But that’s fine. 👍😊

@jazzpro985

Жыл бұрын

It’s not a difficult thing for a cisgender girl to play a transgender girl, because transgender girls are girls and don’t “look” a certain way, the way you’ve phrased it makes it seem like you’re upset that they chose a cisgender girl to play a transgender girl because she doesn’t “look like a transgender person”?

@RosieDecaro

Жыл бұрын

Well if you look at it people who actually want to transition and go through all the surgeries do look like women or men, so I don’t understand ur point 😂

@AAAAAAA66879

Жыл бұрын

@@RosieDecaro yes most of them look like women indeed but they don’t look exactly as this girl looks but i told you we would disagree.

I am a surgeon chain 👇

@rounak9117

Жыл бұрын

I AAAM AA SURGEEEOOONNN !

@danlee7923

Жыл бұрын

I am a sturgeon

@fruitbowlproductions7327

Жыл бұрын

I am a surgeon

@wolverineisdaman

Жыл бұрын

I AM A VIRGIN, DR. HAN

She gave up the anything toilet ability 😭

He literally wasn’t staring or pointing at her. This does accurately describe the community though so good on them.

This is the problem when you are normal no one gives you any attention or they bully you so you decide what if I change myself then they will not make fun of me, I will be special, I will get noticed but what you actually doing is running away from the reality, instead of facing your fears you just run from it, which is a sign of weakness. People say you're very brave that you "Came Out of the Closet" but the reality is you are so afraid of the world, of the reality that you put yourself deep into the closest.

@shoshyLovely

Жыл бұрын

👏👏👏👏👏👏

@user-mh5hq5ni2r

Жыл бұрын

You don't know what ur talking abt, when u have gender dysphoria u don't want attention, you just want to be the opposite sex, liek everyone else.

@anonimulmistocar4542

8 ай бұрын

Normal what? Cis or trans? Hetero or gay? What are you talking about?

@user-uj9xj5xq1l

8 ай бұрын

@@anonimulmistocar4542 if you are a male then MEN and if you are a female then WOMEN this is normal. What else could it be. Trans Gay Lesbian these are just po*n categories which when people start watching they get addicted to it and want to try it because after watching these things you will not feel satisfied with regular s*x. This is a brain disease where people don't feel satisfied with normal s*x they want to try something new. It can be treated just by stop watching these filthy things and embracing a healthy lifestyle

As an Autistic person that has grown up around other autistic people, both trans and non-trans. There are a lot of autistic people that have different views on different topics as is true with anything. That may include this topic too. Some autistic people will struggle to understand, and that’s okay. Some will not care either way. Others may be trans themselves or have experience with exploring gender identity. It is true, autistic people have a higher percentage of people that are gender diverse, however, please keep in mind that there are lots of autistic people that are cisgender as well as trans. I think this scene was written really well because Autistic people think in black and white. This is what some autistic people will do, and like the doctor, they may struggle to understand. It takes a little guidance and explanation to help them understand. They usually (in my experience) will accept after a little time, love, and patience. Gender is extremely complex, extremely “grey” as the autistic community says. The thing about autism is black and white thinking, the world is extremely confusing. Absolutes, the familiar are more mentally comfortable and less stressful. Again, the doctor eventually came around. I’m sure a good percentage of autistic people would come around as well. That’s my opinion, keep in mind.

I love it how his so understanding of his patience choice in life I'm bi and I don't actually hate this character his not judgemental at all

His original reaction wasnt malicious he just didnt understand it.

Propaganda ...

@user-mh5hq5ni2r

Жыл бұрын

Bro can't spell

@jackieann5494

Жыл бұрын

@@user-mh5hq5ni2r 😅🤣🤣😅 Typo ! Thanks

♡🥺 im so glad as someone who has autism and is trans

I thought this comment section would be filled with hate but i was plesantly suprise d

I love this omg I wanna see the full episode now! I saw and earlier clip yesterday and omg I hated how the other staff kept shutting Dr. Murphy down just for being extremely curious and wanting to understand this new form of information he's been presented with. He's not even asking in a condescending way, they got more offended than the patient which was a little sad tbh.

Doesn't matter a doctor or any kind of cival service person should be 100% neutral on everything and just do their job of helping people because that's what their supposed to do Also he's autistic so he probably doesn't fully understand what she's saying but he probably can relate feeling different from others and how it is to be bullied for being yourself just because others have no idea what it's like to be in their situation

@nayan.punekar

Жыл бұрын

He*

@_Chaosnight_

Жыл бұрын

@@nayan.punekar Just be quit

@arcandcardinal968

Жыл бұрын

​@@_Chaosnight_If an autistic person can tell he's a boy, then a normal person can. girls dont have xy chromosomes, you liberals say trust the science but dont trust it when it goes against your narrative

@skyy2665

Жыл бұрын

100% agree. opinions shouldn’t be able to come between someone being able to do their job correctly or being able to help someone else

@nayan.punekar

Жыл бұрын

@@_Chaosnight_ You're the one who should be quiet

I can relate to her experience, but as a trans guy. It feels so freeing to let go of that awful mask you were given at birth and told to wear. Coming really was the best thing I did❤

He's so cutie patootie 😭😭

If this is the episode I think it is the kid is later diagnosed with testicular cancer

What show is this?

@_Hajime_-

Жыл бұрын

Good doctor

Poor thing needs help to be comfortable with what he really is and not brainwashed in to believing he can be something he isn’t

@rabbitorgans

Жыл бұрын

You aren't brainwashed into having gender dysphoria my guy

@nexis4369

9 ай бұрын

Trans people know what they are. They know how they are happy, even if it takes some extra work to get there. They're not brain washed, its just how they are. They can't be what their not. Why can't other people just get that?

i'm sick of this shit. you don't "FEEL" like a girl. you ARE one. don't matter if your comfortable in your body or not, you are what you are.

Doctor Murphy is one of the most logical people ever shown on television, we can all agree on this. He thinks only in the correct and incorrect right and wrong. So, his initial reaction to a trans woman is uncertain of course, because biologically, it should be incorrect. But he, using his own unique perspective on the situation, Understands how people can be different, and chooses to ask more questions rather than block the unknown out. He is someone we can all take notes from in our everyday lives