One common statement made is ''Velaikku poga husband permission kuduthutaangala?'. I too didn't realize how toxic the statement was until my brother-in-law explained it to me. He told 'Going to work is your right. No one needs to give you permission'.

Mam, you're so right. But people like sir are not ready to accept the change and reality. Still hanging to old methods and behaviours in the name of culture will not make our society grow.

Yes ezhil said it right. It's all a matter of convenience. Many still point out, disagree and blame the lady for this. I am really hoping this would change atleast when my kids grow up. For this reason itself, I feel marrying an Indian is a big problem

Innum channel 1M varlaiyea.. Sad

@ajt11at

17 күн бұрын

Nothing sad about it. Subscriber count doesn't matter. Active subscribers dhan matter

@arunpandi6931

17 күн бұрын

Athu 3 years aa athulaye tha irukgu . Paravala

@vigneshloverosie5300

17 күн бұрын

U know our big brother in Scotland now we just hope ❤❤

@santos8146

17 күн бұрын

Business kum passion kum vidhyaasam idhula irundhe theriyum

Extension of the topic: In the next generation, we all will have to take care of our own retirement life, whether we like it or not, the reason our parents are dependent on us is they spend whatever little they had on us, whereas we need to look at our kids as separate individuals and help them establish a future at the same we should be self sufficient, to the point we can. I mean I understand the responsibility to take care of my parents after my father's retirement, however, I don't want to, or should not put the burden of taking care of me to my kids, after my retirement.

@santos8146

17 күн бұрын

True words. Even I think the same and getting scared to commit to a relationship. Wish there are more forward people like you in society.

Radha - wonderful roleplay as a devil's advocate.... Ezhilarasi - strict, unapologetic and valid points....

10:31 - Well said! Love your clarity! 18:11 - True!

The woman‘s perspective is practical and good.

Nandri itha series ah mathunathuku. Series title video add pannunga call guest 3rd person.

People - this is debate show two person can’t take same side. One has to choose devils advocate. Randy has to choose the opposite side because we have to hear from experts. Don’t give judgment.

Very nice discussion keep it up

Following kichedy for ages first time seeing mam in channel...

Best and most positive channels!

Super sir mam vanthu irukanga😁,mam channel ku subscribe panniten

book ah mathitangapa !!! vera level point

Super debate

20:00 growing together explained ❤👌

This channel subscribers count and My life still stucked in 2019 😁😔

@Kichdy

17 күн бұрын

😂

@Fazan_editz

14 күн бұрын

@@Kichdy ❤️😁

Bro nxt ena cuples vlogs thana

17:04 - Randy, this was several years ago.

Too much exposure setting on your camera?

Anna u r still in the old days and u haven't updated yet Girls' parents are also parents

Marrying women expectations but the problem starts with relationship because marriage is understanding between two soul The women going job without husband permission The demand of marriage on brides the dowry demand Govt job cannot have old pension scheme Govt brides demand less future secure on both sides the education women realise they can live their own so it makes problem on other sides 18:11 women struggle on Myth by precious generation The discussion of marriage expectations Randy bro different perspectives view of marriage

See neenga innom prachana puriyaama pesureenga. Nalla irukkrappo yaar kooda iruppandradhu mukkiyam illa. Oru prachana nu varrapo yaaru at least oru emotional, moral support kudukuraandradhu mukkiyam. Aayiram philosophy pesalaam, aayiram psychology pesalaam but pasi nu vandhutta sooru saapudanum tha thonum nanbargale. Nalla vaalkaya vaalradhukaaga thonaya thedala boss, adha naanga nalla thaana irukkom. nalla sendhu kastathalayum onna vaalanun nradhunaala oru thonaya theduroom. Oru AC room la naarkaali la ukkandhu pesura discussion kedayaadhu idhu. Adha edathula irundhu paathadha theriyum andha vali 😢😢.

@santos8146

17 күн бұрын

Tbh parents ku age aavudhu nra orey vishayathukku tha kalyaanam panradhu. Othukulla naalum Idha unmai. So oru thona nu varumpodhu parents a minji oru support oru adaikkalam(refuge) vandhu venum. Idhu illana enna porutha varakkum kalyaanam panniyum single a irukkradhu tha.

@santos8146

17 күн бұрын

Innonu mukkiyamaana vishayam. Thayavusenji kadan vaanguradha Veedu vaanguradhu kalyaanam panradhu nu ENCOURAGE PANNADHEENGA! THIS SHOULD BE A NATIONALWIDE SIN WE’VE BEEN ENCOURAGED . Kadan vaangunga but repay panra alavukku power irundha mattum adhuvum land maadhri appreciating assets vaangureengana mattum. Show off is a big NO!!!Taking loan for liabilities no matter who encourage ESP. PARENTS is a biggest no!!!!!! You should plan your own retirement not your mother, wife and most important Chidren

Haha, i think after this subscriber increase if you put video like this

5:20 50K or 60K salary normal aagiricha😢😢😢😢 yowwwww eppudi patta varigalllll😮😮😮😮

@sankaranand8352

17 күн бұрын

Ivanga ellm peasratha paatha 50k ku kamya salary vangaravan ellm marriage panave thaguthi ila nu solu vanga pola .....

@santos8146

17 күн бұрын

Dude cities la adhuve kammi bro

@sam-kitchen_89

16 күн бұрын

Ss, apa nenha romba pinthangi irukinga

Randy = Perfect boomer material 🎉

@Kichdy

17 күн бұрын

@@AbdulkadirAN jollyaa sonna ippadi akiteenga

@AbdulkadirAN

17 күн бұрын

@@Kichdy itha eathir pakkala 🤥

@saratharagavendran56

17 күн бұрын

Yes didn't expect this from you sir @kichdy

@saratharagavendran56

17 күн бұрын

​@@KichdyYes didn't expect this from you sir

I need a civil engineer girl because I am a civil engineer 13 to 14 hours working she can understand the problem

@sam-kitchen_89

16 күн бұрын

I think u should expect house wife girl

🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

Listening to him was like awful and grating! Such backward attitude

Yella marittaga mam girls nalla salary vanguraga . Aprm ye konjam kamiya salary vangura pasagala ok sollave matturaga salary la mattum domination venum yena selavu pannanum but matha yethulaium domination panna kudathuna.ethu correct aa. Enakgu purila ungalukgu theva padum pothu domination venum like salary property apadi irutha maximum boy mind domination kitta poga try pannum. Ena pannalam equality ethula mattum vara mattuthu

Hey randy veetla sappadu kidaikkathu pathukka

Randy first unga wife ah pesa vidunga. Avangala pesa vidaama neengale pesuringa

Randy bro Sry to say this no offense... Unga vision romba thattaiya flat ah iruku compare to your wife... I watched your last 2 videos your views are really getting backwards OR if I'm in your age I'll be like this also I'm doubting myself as a man😢😅

Madam u should watch this video again. How many times u r saying "Ella Ella" while ur opposite person is trying to say something. U r not ready to understand the other persons point of view.

17:00 randys point is perfectly fine, I will only marry a traditional women