Intimacy & Romance in Ramadan | Adult Discussion
“Lawful for you, on the night of the fasts, is the approach (sexual intercourse) to your wives. They are your garments and you are their garments. Allah knows what you used to do secretly among yourselves; but He turned to you and forgave you; so now cohabit with them (your wives) and seek what Allah has ordained for you, and eat and drink, until the white thread of dawn appear to you distinct from its black thread. Then complete your fast till the night appears; but do not cohabit with your wives while you are in retreat in the mosques. Those are Limits (set by) Allah. Approach not near thereto. Thus does Allah make clear His Signs to men: that they may learn self-restraint.” (Surah al-Baqarah, V: 187)
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How many unmarried here?😂
@mohamedmubeen4583
4 жыл бұрын
😅😅💪💪
@bhat1325
4 жыл бұрын
☹️☹️
@teck3033
4 жыл бұрын
Most eligible bachelor's 🤣🤣🤣
@furqanmirza7829
4 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭😭😭
@SSSPXP
4 жыл бұрын
Lol
I am not married yet, please make dua for me so that I can get an amazing wife and have my deen completed.
@rokhayasadji1
4 жыл бұрын
and me please
@fatiabdi4861
4 жыл бұрын
InshaAllah you will get be patient
@ahmedmusba8807
4 жыл бұрын
tanveer tayeb inshallah
@omerzainab1273
4 жыл бұрын
In sha allah soon .. May Allah bless you with pious wife... Ameen
@AliMuhammad-vo3cz
4 жыл бұрын
رَبِّ إِنِّي لِمَا أَنْزَلْتَ إِلَيَّ مِنْ خَيْرٍ فَقِيرٌ “My Lord, indeed I am, for any good that you bestow on me, very needy.”
JazakAllahu Khairan! The body has many needs. But the soul has only one, to be with Allah..
@mohamedmubeen4583
4 жыл бұрын
Please remove your face from the profile... It is just a humble request...
@Kingkhangp
4 жыл бұрын
@@mohamedmubeen4583 Please lower your gaze. It's just a humble request.
@maimoonadoraiz3611
2 жыл бұрын
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Profound extraction of the verse. Will save so many marriages. Islam is beautiful and Professor Nouman Ali highlights this eloquently. A discussion many scholars are not able to articulate. Great work Shaikh.
He describes and elaborates it all so beautifully.
Allahu Akbar. This is beautiful. Jazakha Allah Khair. I’m sending this to my husband. 🥰😌
@zainazaza4214
2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
I've been praying all my salah beside my husband. Thanks to coronavirus he works at home and I'm at the hospital, but Alhamdulillah I'm home for my prayers. This fasting is the first time I'm feeling so close to Allah and I feel at peace. What the ustadh is saying, I completely agree. Love your husband, love your wife and feel the peace in your heart.
JazakAllah, for speaking on this topic. We don't read and understand Quran as it should be read and understood.
Beautifully explained 😍
It makes me enlightened more about your beliefs.BLESSED RAMADAN....
Thank you again & always brother nouman ...you are such a great orator of Deen ..! Particularly the Quran !!
Beautiful. Subhanallah ✨
Jazakal-lahu-hairan ya shaike.
Jazakallah khair plz record such stuff in urdu as well plz... our community needs it
MashAllah may Allah bless you and all of us
Alhamdulillah most beautifully described the topic.
Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala said: الَّذِى خَلَقَ الْمَوْتَ وَالْحَيٰوةَ لِيَبْلُوَكُمْ أَيُّكُمْ أَحْسَنُ عَمَلًا ۚ وَهُوَ الْعَزِيزُ الْغَفُورُ "[He] who created death and life to test you [as to] which of you is best in deed - and He is the Exalted in Might, the Forgiving -" (QS. Al-Mulk 67: Verse 2)
Worthy of our Time. Loved it
Good talking.. God blessing you Sheik
Beautifully explained MashaAllah❤
Thanks you may Almighty Allah bless you and all of us
@sabina1514
4 жыл бұрын
Ameen
When i first read the translation of this ayah during my teanage I understood in the same way as you explain but i heard some scholars explained clothing as protection than i thought my mind was messed-up. Now my mind is at peace. Thanks for your explanation.
@user-gp5vj9qs8i
2 жыл бұрын
Loooool, same
You are one hell of a gem sir Noman Ali Khan ♥️
JazakAllah nouman brother..
Even though I don’t have this in my 17 years relationship and he is a religious good men alhamdulilah,but when it comes to ramadan he doesn’t even want me near him 😂.it’s so funny that when I try to even just hold his hand he just smoothly get away 😂 anyway.it’s so beautiful to know what has Allah gifted us with these beautiful ayat. I wish all the Muslim couples to act as what Allah has guided.Aamin.
@zainazaza4214
2 жыл бұрын
😀😀😀Masha'Allah 😘😘
@lahoribadshahinuk6621
2 жыл бұрын
It's a common complaint from wives
Ramadan Mubarak. As the holy month of Ramadan begins, may Allah bless you with peace and grace. Happy Ramadan! In the holy month of Ramadan, may your heart be filled with peace, harmony and joy.
Beautifully explained.
Eloquently explained. Most Muslims think spirituality is about shunning dunya. Spirituality is actually about using the teachings of Allah and His prophet to guide our dunya activities. So everything in your dunya within the limits of the teachings and your spirituality is guaranteed.
@ZikarOwazaaif
2 жыл бұрын
husband and wife are to be forever, even after dunya
Jazakumullah Khayran
Intimacy elaborated beautifully by ALLAH with Many Details or Words...Maa'Shaa'Allah...May ALLAH Almighty REVIVE This Important Institution For Intimate Marriages Full of Sprituality🤲🏽❤️🩹
Very knowledgeable! JazakAllah khair
Clearly explained. Ramazan especially should be spent with family (parents, spouse, children, siblings) and not be wasted away. Sahoor, iftaar, post iftaar. All these times should be relished with our loved ones. It just makes fasting actually refreshing, and energy-boosting both physically and spiritually.
@abdullahzafari3916
2 жыл бұрын
Indeed
The view of Ustaad is totally unique and great. May Allah give us best partner, hope someone also looking from opposite gender.
salute to that person who are still single, but watching this
Allah is your true best friend. Consult with Him, Speak with Him, Only He offers you the best advice.
@zainabzahid2021
4 жыл бұрын
Is doing marriage is compulsory in islam?
@MushrrafBaigAshraf
4 жыл бұрын
@@zainabzahid2021 The ruling regarding the compulsion of marriage in Islam varies from the case to case. In normal cases, it is Sunnah to do so. But, in some cases when a person fears that he is being attracted to illicit relationships, it becomes compulsory. There are some rare cases when the marriage becomes prohibited.
I am just 24 ....Still watching Inshallah I will get married someday when Allah wills
@oldschool5707
4 жыл бұрын
Same and inshallah
@aliarfana6808
4 жыл бұрын
when I got married,my husband was just 24..it's been 3 yrs of our marriage now and I don't think a 24 yr old guy is just some kid..I think if you want and try you can be a perfect husband in whatever age you are.
@John-D327
3 жыл бұрын
Inshallah allah will grant us our dream spouses
@jennalepley2044
3 жыл бұрын
You should all find your mate that (Allah) wants you to have. Praying for all of you to find your mates
@MastersInPhd
2 жыл бұрын
"Just 24" Yeah. Get married when you're just 35, no biggie.
Fantastic to learn Allahs word is so clear to bring your wives closer in this sacred month.
SubhanAllah ❤❤
Dua also heard this lecture and went to Lahore at night
اسلام علیکم Me from kashmir (Iok). Love and like the way u talk.
@OruJaanVairu
4 жыл бұрын
How is the situation in Kasmir...? Now..
What A Video❣❣❣❣
for anyone searching which verse and in which surah it is : Al Baqara S2, V187
Pray for me. I want halal relationship with a person... Please pray
@mohamedmubeen4583
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah... Me too... Why can't we meet and marry...?? 😂😂
@mobeenbadshah5586
4 жыл бұрын
@@mohamedmubeen4583 😑
@MA-2020
2 жыл бұрын
Aameen
JazakAllah
What a great lecture
Jazaka Allahu khair . Amiiin ya Rabb
Nice subjects NAK
I can't stop looking at his watch. That's a nice watch he's wearing it
@englishandbiohub6621
Жыл бұрын
Now that you mentioned i will se it
Jazakallllllllah
SUBHANALLAH
It's totally mind blowing, superb, I'm married so I know what he saying 🤔🤣💗🌸💐❤️
Beautiful
The best words in a ever great order at 10 :56
@unitedlanka2773
4 жыл бұрын
10:56
🌼🌹🌼الّلَّهـــُمَّ صـــَلِّ عَلَى' مُحَمَّـــدٍ وَّ عَلَى' آلِ مُحَمَّـــدٍ كَمَــا صـَلَّيْتَ عَلَى' إِبْرَاهِيــم وَعَلى' آلِ إِبْرَاهِيـــمَ إِنَّكَ حَمِيــدٌ مَجِيــدٌ🌼🌹🌼 🌼🌹🌼اللَّهـــُمَّ بَارِكْ عَلَى' مُحَمَّـــدٍ وَّ عَلى' آلِ مُحَمـــــَّدٍ كَمَــا بَارَكْتَ عَلَى' إِبْرَاهِيـــمَ وَعَلَى' آلِ إِبْرَاهِيـــمَ إِنَّكَ حَمِيـــدٌ مَجِيــــد🌼🌹♥️♥️
@annekemuma6378
Жыл бұрын
Ameen
“Neverrrr” 😂
Finally Found it ☺️
Wow god bless you all
Planning to marry in Ramadan
Theses are the signs of akhira the prophet ص warned us about Sunan Ibn Majah 4036 It was narrated from Abu Hurairah that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: “There will come to the people years of treachery, when the liar will be regarded as honest, and the honest man will be regarded as a liar; the traitor will be regarded as faithful, and the faithful man will be regarded as a traitor; and the Ruwaibidah will decide matters.’ It was said: ‘Who are the Ruwaibidah?’ He said: ‘Vile and base men who control the affairs of the people.’”
What about those who are married but in a long distance relationship? The spiritual connection will not be complet or what?
@AliMuhammad-vo3cz
4 жыл бұрын
It's surely not fulfilling, but some times ALLAH tests us,to bring the best out of us.
Married people are teasing us with this questions,
It was soooooo cute when he roasted himself repeating "Neverrrrrrrrrr"😆😆😍😍😍😍
His wife is so lucky ma sha Allah
@razamughal9095
2 жыл бұрын
Which wife? He divorced one
@kakahamza5972
Жыл бұрын
@@razamughal9095 devil's comment i ever read
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Good explanation
I'm in the same condition as you are brother. I'm always in worry to find God fearing woman in my life.
@syedshahrukh6662
4 жыл бұрын
Then just marry who at least believes in Allah and teach her the words of Allah so that she becomes more God fearing and has the Taqwa of Allah,, Trust me. I too wanted a God fearing woman but its not that easy,so instead I taught her and I'm teaching her everyday and she really understands that, because she knows that if I really love and respect her, I would never teach her something that's wrong.. And by doing this you will also get the reward from Allah. because you're teaching the deen of Allah to someone. And every good deed that she will do, you'll also get the reward of it... INSHA ALLAH
@Kingkhangp
4 жыл бұрын
Are you a God fearing man? Pray 5 times a day? Live your life as per the Prophet (PBHU) instructed?
@razamughal9095
2 жыл бұрын
He wasnt god fearing, he was exposed by a woman
So nice to Listen this late night... I'm single
@Kingkhangp
4 жыл бұрын
You need to work on your relationship with Allah first then seek a wife
@abdulkalamkp1630
4 жыл бұрын
@@Kingkhangp Insha Allah
Let's get married soon insha'Allah
Yeaash..
That "chai" vala point was epic🤣🤣
What a video☺☺😊☺😊😊☺😊☺😊☺😊☺😊🤩
Just wow
Could you please mention the versus where this is mentioned?
@chiragvhora9995
2 жыл бұрын
Al baqara , 2-187
Soooooooooooooooooooooo true
Why was I watching this? I'm not even married 😂😂😂 guess I'll be saving this info for later😬😂😂
Pleaseeeee I really need it in Urdu my marriage life is destroying I cannot make my husband understand the importance of being rumentic, for him being rumentic is just doing sex I am being tired now it's been 4 years I don't know what to do to make my relationship healthy and normal
@maryamyousaf4727
2 жыл бұрын
ask Allah to change his heart when you pray tahajjud namaz sister
Maybe you can translate it in German inshaallah. Thänx
Alxamdulilah we have diin we know whar to do many years.
I don’t know how to tell me husband that I want to be with him. We have never had that conversation in five years of our marriage. It’s just happens when he wants. But there are times when I want it but I can’t bring myself to say it. Even thinking about having that conversation with him giving me anxiety. Just want to know how other sisters out there do it
@user-lv1jc7jr1z
2 жыл бұрын
Text him what you just said. Start the conversation that way and then you never know you and him will actually talk.
@MA-2020
2 жыл бұрын
Intimacy is part of worship. With that in mind, when I approach him, I do it to make Allah please with me. I build my confidence with that mindset. Drop subtle hints. Wear pretty little things. Allah sees your effort, and won't let it go in waste.
@writereader
2 жыл бұрын
Make dua . May Allah swt open the ease beautiful and honest communucation among you two. Communication is like wheels on the car, wont move forward till the wheels are working. Allah swt will set things in a manner that it will bring you two together in a better way. Duas are so huge and then make effort.
@ravinravin5483
2 жыл бұрын
@@MA-2020 little
@sadiyahbandarkar9241
2 жыл бұрын
Stop being so shy around your husband. He is the person who knows the most about u well Shud b. So why b anxious and shy. Just tell him you want intimacy. Have the conversation. How can you be shy with the person who sees you the most vulnerable
Thanks
S A W
What if you have a child who is afraid of the dark and sneaks into your room every single night even if you lock it and will not get out even if you yell at them they will just come back in the room
@aminatadoukoure3855
2 жыл бұрын
What if someone has just one room sleeping in the same room with children
@hafsah6823
2 жыл бұрын
Make him sleep.
@VolatileHunter2
2 жыл бұрын
Dude you care for your child duh wtf are talking about!
@renatahussnain5020
2 жыл бұрын
Just put childs bed next to ur bed till he grows out of it.
I did not understand,what should we do now?
Looking for the part 1 to 4
I hate myself ..my worst Ramadan ever.. I can't focus on my act of worship...I tried so hard to stay connected to Allah in my salaah and I can't...I start early and take so long to bring His word to my heart and doing so takes so LONG...HOW am I going to gain Allah's mercy forgiveness etc?😪😪😪😔
@anaveragemuslim5355
2 жыл бұрын
Don't worry allah will always forgive you as long as you are believing Don't belittle his mercy Just ask for forgiveness
@MadbakhaMuna
2 жыл бұрын
Allah loves when we try and try . Don't hate yourself. Be positive. Be optimistic. Think good of Allah and it will be better. May Allah make it easy for you ☺️
@thepathtosuccess786
2 жыл бұрын
Allah asks us to try, to take a step towards Him. He says that the doors of forgiveness are always open. Don't push yourself very hard, and never loose hope in the mercy of Allah. It is one of the tricks of shaitan that he makes us feel hopeless and makes us perceive ourselves as sinners, just so we stop improving. He wants us to hive up... don't listen to shaitan and listen to what Allah says! :)
@malama8394
Жыл бұрын
Start small, then build up. Start with azkar and istighfaar. Start with little easy goals then work it up
Please I need ur prayer for marriage
Are bhai hum kya Karen is Masle ka. Abhi humari shadi nhi hooi h
Can anyone tell me religiously about if husband wife had good time in bed before sehri n they keep fasting n took bath like 10 am at morning. Is that to keep fast or we dnt have fast that day ?
@nmmalik4747
2 жыл бұрын
Ur fast is intact but you can’t not offer namaz. For namaz purity is must
@thepathtosuccess786
2 жыл бұрын
It is fine to continue fasting but must bathe before fajr salah after suhoor
SubhanAllah
How I wish I could speak Arabic so I could understand the other words that he says in Arabic that he didn't translate to English. 😥
@malama8394
Жыл бұрын
It’s a verse in the Qur’an. Just read the English translation of the verse
It noting to do with ramalaan those we know allowed things and romance.
How can we spiritually elevate ourself if we are busy in romancing and having sex with the spouse?
Can I get this in Urdu???
13:00
Which surah and ayah is this?
@malama8394
Жыл бұрын
Baqarah
7 Major Destructive Sins in Islam The Seven Major Destructive Sins in Islam Do you know the 7 destructive sins in Islam? Every Muslim must know and avoid these major sins to protect themselves from severe punishment. If you have ever committed any of these major sins in the past, repent sincerely to Allah and resolve to never return to it. It was narrated by Abu Hurairah that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: “Avoid the seven sins that doom one to Hell… “…Associating others with Allah (Shirk), magic, killing a soul whom Allah has forbidden killing, consuming Interest (Riba), consuming the property of orphans, fleeing on the day of the march (to the battlefield), and slandering chaste women… ” (An-Nisai) 1. Associating others with Allah (Shirk) The Prophet ﷺ said, “It is hoped that Allah may forgive every sin, except in the case of one who dies a polytheist…” (Abu Dawud) “Indeed, Allah does not forgive association with Him, but He forgives what is less than that for whom He wills. And he who associates others with Allah has certainly gone far astray.” (Quran 4:116) 2. Taking a life unjustly “….Whoever kills a soul unless for a soul or for corruption [done] in the land - it is as if he had slain mankind entirely. And whoever saves one - it is as if he had saved mankind entirely…” (Quran 5:32) 3. Consuming Interest (Riba) Allah’s Messengerﷺ cursed the accepter of interest and its payer, the one who records it as well as the two witnesses, and heﷺ said that they are all equal. (Musilm) “Those who consume interest cannot stand [on the Day of Resurrection] except as one stands who is being beaten by Satan into insanity. That is because they say, “Trade is [just] like interest.” But Allah has permitted trade and has forbidden interest.” (Quran 2:275) 4. Consuming the wealth of an Orphan “And do not approach the property of an orphan, except in the way that is best, until he reaches maturity.” (Quran 17:34) “Indeed, those who devour the property of orphans unjustly are only consuming into their bellies fire. And they will be burned in a Blaze.” (Quran 4:10) 5. Fleeing the battlefield “O you who have believed, when you meet those who disbelieve advancing [for battle], do not turn to them your backs [in flight]. And whoever turns his back to them on such a day…has certainly returned with anger [upon him] from Allah, and his refuge is Hell - and wretched is the destination.” (Quran 8:15-16) 6. Accusing a believing woman of Adultery “And those who accuse chaste women and then do not produce four witnesses - lash them with eighty lashes and do not accept from them testimony ever after. And those are the defiantly disobedient,” “Except for those who repent thereafter and reform, for indeed, Allah is Forgiving and Merciful.” (Quran 24:4-5) 7. Practicing Sihr (Magic) And they followed [instead] what the devils had recited during the reign of Solomon. It was not Solomon who disbelieved, but the devils disbelieved, teaching people sihr and that which was revealed to the two angels at Babylon, Harut and Marut. But the two angels do not teach anyone unless they say, “We are a trial, so do not disbelieve [by practicing sihr].” And [yet] they learn from them that by which they cause separation between a man and his wife. But they do not harm anyone through it except by permission of Allah . And the people learn what harms them and does not benefit them. But the Children of Israel certainly knew that whoever purchased the sihr would not have in the Hereafter any share. And wretched is that for which they sold themselves, if they only knew. (Quran 2:102) Allah’s Messengerﷺ said, “Avoid the Mubiqat, i.e., shirk and witchcraft.” (Bukhari) May Allah protect us from these sins. onepathnetwork.com/seven-major-destructive-sins-in-islam/
I'm sorry but Jitnay aftari Kay kam hotay Hain, cooking, washing dishes , and if we make simple aftari they don't like it , then prayers after all this women r dead tired. , It's not possible for a housewife if she doesn't have any help. It's very difficult to do it, if one is not young and doesn't have any help.
@razamughal4582
4 ай бұрын
Well obviously aurat aaj doh taqy ki hain. Char shadiya rok kar khud apny ap ko nauqrani bana diya
Jazakumullahu khair ya sheikh. I'm a hugger and I try to practice such intimacy but my spouse isn't that way. What should I do?
@kauthartemitope8795
4 жыл бұрын
Teach her
@aliyu5653
4 жыл бұрын
@@kauthartemitope8795 I've tried, and still trying. I think it's one of those things u can't change
@aliyu5653
4 жыл бұрын
@Dark Horse 🤣🤣🤣, I'm sure u're not married because u would've understood the difference between a spouse and a teddy bear
@aliyu5653
4 жыл бұрын
@Dark Horse I surely did, dats why I used the emoji
Is it ok to have sex during morning while fasting
Need info please! my partner is doing Ramadan.. I’m always 100% supportive, never question his faith, that’s fine. But he says we can’t show any sign of affection, no touch, no kiss, nothing intimate, so forget about sex, and 24/7 🥺 he says that we can’t even after the fast ended because we’re not married. we’re not kids anymore; he’s 36/I’m 41, we’re both divorced. We live in Canada (but he’s arrived here about 15 months ago, from Algeria; I’m Canadian born and raised). I’ve experienced Ramadan with another man (my ex) 2 years ago, and that’s NOT how it was (sex/affection wasn’t forbidden at night). I don’t mind *that* much about sex, but I’m missing the affection real bad 😢 I feel distant from him..
@tehminaaboobakar6386
3 жыл бұрын
Hi Annie. Sorry that you're having a hard time. Hope it gets easier for you ❤️ to help you understand I guess it comes to down to different levels of faith .. when you had ramadhan with your ex the fact that he was still being intimate in the evening was based on his faith level. The same way some people may choose not to practice ramadhan even though it is mandatory. The intimacy that the lecturer is talking about is reserved for married couples. In fact all intimacy islamically is reserved for married couples only. Some people choose not to follow that rule and some do. Ramadan is a time where you try to do things the right way .. ie. If I were a person who didn't usually pray at all throughout the year (which is mandatory) I'd make that effort to pray during this month. Similarly I believe your partner is trying to do the same thing in regards to intimacy in an unmarried relationship. I'd suggest to talk to him about it so he can explain his faith to you so you don't feel so alienated. Hope this helps a little ❤️
@healthandhappiness9495
2 жыл бұрын
Dear you are not married??? So he used to have sex before ramadan ...??? So he is telling you less information which means he should not be touching or kissing or having sex with you at any month of year if you are not married to him because its considerd illegal and adultery please...inform yourself from some authentic islamic scholars not these non practicing muslim men you are dating.... Islam is beautiful religion and it do not allow women to be used without commient of men of helding himself responsible for her in the form of marriage and securing her future...sex without marriage leads single moms..and fatherless children and socitial chaos....
@arifaabduljaleel7989
2 жыл бұрын
@@healthandhappiness9495 it's becoming like this nowadays,they abstain only in Ramadan
@simplygraphicdesign1
2 жыл бұрын
@Asfia Obaidullah how about you go and read it! She clearly stated they aren’t married!!
@leen1q84
Жыл бұрын
@Asfia Obaidullah she slept with both. The current one only abstained during Ramadan, the ex didn't.