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Interfaith Relationships || How Can They Work? || Christian And Pagan Marriage
Today a chat on how my Christian husband and I make our interfaith relationship work. Along with many distractions! This is real life today - puppy dogs, crows, helicopters OH MY!
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Owlvine xx
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Respect is the key as well as a perspective that faith is such a personal thing and that even people with the same core belief system can have strong differences of opinion. Knowing that naturally leads a rational person to recognize that there isn't any one right or wrong way to express our spiritual side but rather that we have an obligation to ourselves to find what resonates with us. With my wife and I on different spiritual pages and my experiences with various belief systems it has become very apparent to me that for the most part religions have differing ways of approaching the same subjects; different stories and observances but the core reasons and not how but what is taught have much in common. I tend to simply think of it as expressing the same things using different nouns and backdrops. There are however some things contained within some systems which can be destructive to the individual when not put in the proper perspective such as the demonization of being human and separation from personal love and power. To a lesser degree perhaps the separation between god and self but that can be worked around to a degree. In the end it really comes down to how ones faith affects them, if it is positive and serves them well, bringing what they need, or if it doesn't serve, lowers vibrations, or actually causes trama. There is of course a wise point of view that sees seasons that come with life lessons that faith can certainly play a part in. Much love, enjoyed this video.
I couldn't tell you what perfect timing you posting this is! I have been needing to tell my boyfriend about my beliefs and practices but have been having such bad anxiety about it because I've been shamed for it before. I don't think he would be upset once I explain what it really means to be a witch and everything. He grew up Christian but he isn't an active Christian at the moment. This video is inspiring me and pushing me to just get up and tell him and know that whatever happens will be okay.
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
Oh I love when that happens! I know it can be really scary to come out. Something my spiritual mentor suggested to me once was not using "explosive" terms to begin with - like witch, but to explain what that is first. So taking the long route to present, as you said, what the word witch really means for you, before using that term. It's such a powerful word, a strong archetype and one that I think most, if not all people have a ready made projection of, unfortunately many of them negative. Best of luck with it lovely! I hope you and your boyfriend have a deeper time of connection from you sharing this part of yourself. Wishing you both loads of love xxox
@mellonlord4616
7 жыл бұрын
I'd recommend the book The Pagan Christ. It's about the historical connection between the Christ story/myth, and pagan beliefs in the Mediterranean.
@FaithsLifeOnFilm
7 жыл бұрын
Owlvine Green thank you so much! I definitely agree with that, that's a very good tip. I'm just waiting for the right timing to bring it up and explain everything. Thank you for your help!
@FaithsLifeOnFilm
7 жыл бұрын
Libby DVR thank you! I'll definitely check it out :)
@yvetat
7 жыл бұрын
so... what happened?
I'm from the extreme minority group called Protestant Christians, and my girlfriend is Wiccan. Her faith is really good for her, and even though I don't think I could ever practice witchcraft, nor take another religion, I think it's really really cool. If we love you, we'll want to understand your faith and support you.
@mistonthebanksofthewaal
2 жыл бұрын
Minority 😭
great video! Thank you! I can completely relate! I too started my journey after we had been married several years. My husband does not walk my path, but we work much they way you described. strong respect for one another, even if we don't agree. My husband does not believe in magic, or at least so he says. However, he believes in me. And from time to time he will ask me for things, such as a safe travels jar or good luck mojo bag. So we work well together. ♡
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
That's so fantastic to hear
Christian and pagan relationships were around in the first few centuries of Christianity. I don't know how well they worked, but today I can see it being different maybe among protestants and pagans. The general agreement back in the old days between the church and the pagan spouse was that they weren't to interfere or keep their Christian spouse from attending church, which I think is a fair deal. I myself wouldn't want to date someone of a religion outside of Christianity, but I have a very "to each his own" philosophy about just about everything. It wouldn't be right for me to tell someone how to live and I simply have no interest in dictating someone else's life on anything. Good luck to you and your husband and I'm glad that there are civil conversations happening among people of different religions. I don't know if you've seen the comments on other Christian/pagan videos, but this is a much better comment section to view.
@Owlvine
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your input and feedback Ryan! I really appreciate it. It is so nice to be able to civil conversations with those we may not agree with. I'm glad to hear this comment section is a nicer spot to see :) Many blessings to you and yours xo
LOVE the dog!! Such a sweetie. "Play with me, silly human. PLAY WITH ME!" Hehe. I also love what you have to say about you and your husband not stomping on each other's opinions, nor expecting agreement as validation. To use a New Agey term, it sounds like you "hold space" for each other's beliefs, and that's a beautiful thing. …This world could do with more of that kind of respect for others in general…
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
Haha he's SO like that! Yeah, I thinking holding space is a great term for it. And I agree. I think, if you look back at history, we do it far more now than ever before, but we have a ways to go! And there are definitely still a lot of closed minded, rigid people out there. I can still be like that, but I'm more open than ever and pull myself up on it :) xx
My boyfriend is catholic and im a wiccan. So this video is VERY helpfull... He is very accepting of what i am and what my beliefs are. He's quiet intrested in learning about my beliefs, I'm not quiet sure if he would ever convert to my faith... But my hope is that he would, although i love him for who he is and whatever he believes
I can't get over how gorgeous you are 🤗 and how old you are! You look like you're in your 20's! And don't say it's the video, because you're out in the daylight where it's harder to hide aging. You're ethereal! Love the video editing you did while waiting for the helicopter to pass 🙃
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
Oh you're so sweet :) I still am in my 20s! Haha I'm 28 :D Oh thanks, I thought I'd make the helicopter interruption a bit fun! Much love and many blessings! xx
@anamansfield3297
7 жыл бұрын
Owlvine Green I feel so silly! So you are younger than me lol 😂 on your fb page you have your birth year as 1968 I believe it is. You had me going!
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
Ana Mansfield hahaha I did do that!! I'm tricksie! I didn't want to list my actual birth year on FB, which I probably just should since I say my age here anyway 😋 But my god I'm a youthful looking 48! 😉 xx
ive been watching you a long while now but never commented. you are precious. todays video was one of your best ever. the helicopter footage was wonderful as was your 'dog attack'. the video today was especially helpful for me so I thsnk you. giving the other person a chance to speak is vital. as is silence. your advice always helps me. so with that I just want to say thank you and keep on inspiring us as you do so many times. ( there is no way you are that old ) ....blessings.
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
Hey Marilyn, I'm so glad you said hi :) It's always such a joy for me to be able to converse with people who watch. Thank you so much
Thank you for posting this, it couldn't have come at a more perfect time for me, I needed to hear this :)
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad. I wish you all the best with whatever is going on. Many blessings sunshine
Your dog is adorable.😊. My husband is what I refer to as an agnostic with atheistic tendencies. I had the same thing in the beginning where I wanted to share everything with him. He lets me do my thing and refrains from being dismissive, and I have found other people to discuss religion with. I do know some fellow pagans who don't understand why he never comes to ritual, but it works for us. Thank you for sharing. It's nice to hear from someone in a somewhat similar situation. Have a lovely day.💕💕💕
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
He is a cutie isn't he?! It's great that you've worked out what makes your relationship and spirituality flow. I can't imagine my husband ever engaging in ritual either, although he is an intensely curious being, so I'm sure he'd love to be a bystander, at least once :p It's great that yours is open to you experiencing divinity in your own way. I hope you're having a great week! Many blessings xx
I love what you said about not having to stomp on each others opinions and be right. We should all respect each others beliefs no matter if we disagree or not. You should love the person for who they are as a person not what their beliefs are. As long as they are a decent human being is all that matters. Much love and light to you
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
Absolutely. It's only one part of a person, a reflection. And none of us can prove we are right or wrong anyway, so being open and loving is probably the easiest way to get through life! Not to mention the most pleasant way for us and others around us :) So much love to you! xoxo
@themagnus2919
3 жыл бұрын
The Abrahamic religions don't share the same sentiment.
This one hits home a bit, but we're a little different. Both my partner and I were born into christian households and both of us converted to paganism before we met. We dated while we were younger, then parted ways and now more than a decade later are back together in a serious committed relationship, only catch is that during the time we weren't in each other's lives he converted back to being christian and I'm still very strongly pagan. Its really the only thing about our relationship that conflicts, and sometimes it can be really rough. Its nice to know (judging by both the video and the comments section) that its not an uncommon situation and other people are making it work.
What a fun little video! Love your doggie!! My husband and I were both Christians when we got married, and my spirituality changed about 17 years afterward. At first, my husband wasn't sure what to think, but much like your hubs, he sees how happy and more at ease I am, and although he still doesn't agree with my beliefs, my hubby let's me so my own thing, so it works. Much love to you dear!
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
Sounds like you're in quite a similar situation to me. That's so great, it really warms my heart to hear of spouses accepting their crazy witch or pagan partners! (well... we kind of are yeh?!) It gives me great hope for the direction humanity is heading. Many, many blessings to you and you dear husband :) Much love xoxox
@TheSouthernYankee
7 жыл бұрын
Owlvine Green Crazy? Yes, definitely...no kind of about it! Lol. Sometimes, I think that's one reason our husbands are accepting of us, because we keep them on their toes and they like that. Thank the Universe for partners like ours! Many Blessings to you and your precious hubby, as well! ❤
Thank you for being so personally honest. The principle of being equally yoked is the greatest challenge to any relationship. If there is anything new to learn about Christian practices and those descendants of earlier European practices relating to one and another, your video is on an interestingly positive path.✝️💪🏼❤️
Such a good topic to cover! I think you addressed some very key items like good communication and how silence can be a good thing. Also your lighting and tech skills on this video were on point! So fancy with your youtubing these days ;)
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed talking about it! Haha thanks! I'm getting there :D It's fun being fancy, but my computer protests so it takes aggges, but I persist! ;) Many blessings xx
My boyfriend is Catholic, and I am Catholic but I'm also a hedgewitch💖 both of us always have little conversations about eachothers spirituality and it actually brings us closer! Even witch my more pagan leanings! We're getting married next may💖 in a church but the night before we are going to do a handfasting ritual💖
@Owlvine
5 жыл бұрын
That's awesome! It's a wonderful thing to be able to hold different views and open conversations about them :) I wish you both all the love and joy in the world! Enjoy your celebrations next May! xoxo
I found this very helpful. I’m the only member of my family who is pagan and although I have a few relatives that are not Christians, they don’t live nearby and all of my core family is Christian. I was raised Christian and I understand where they’re coming from but nobody really understands where I’m coming from. I have wanted to find more community but I’m also not very public in my beliefs and trying to keep them a little bit still under wraps from my more judge mental family members
So pretty this day! But always are gorgeous owlvine !
HAHAHA Love your dog!! My dog would do the same thing just as soon as I sat on the ground!!
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
Hahaha he's a nutcase! It would definitely be the same in any relationship, I do wish I had of mentioned that :) That's so cool! Go mum!! It's great you have both created space for each other :) Many blessings xxox
This was beautiful. I found a lot of comfort with this video. Thank you for making it.
You're great! So much of what you say resonates strongly. Much love to you!
Lovely! My husband and I both come from a Christian background. And we both went down our own spiritual journey at the same time. It was such a relief, when I opened up to him about my pagan interests, that he was genuinely interested too. It's great that your husband gives you your own space to become the person that you need to be. Many blessings 😀
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
Oh wow, that is such a beautiful and amazing "coincidence" for you two! How wonderful
Very interesting! I am the same way with my husband. I've studied the craft from a teenager but was raised in a Christian home. I have slowly been introducing him to my deeper beliefs. Thanks for sharing. Blessings.
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
That's so cool! It's great that you're able to be more and more open with your husband, sharing our spiritual beliefs is a wonderful thing! You're so very welcome :) Much love and many blessings xoxo
Hi owlvine ,you look awsome my friend ,great video ,I agree ,with what you are saying ,blessed be
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you Seeker! Many blessings to you too :)
I am ever thankful that I have come to your channel for guidance :)
@Owlvine
5 жыл бұрын
Aww it is a blessing to have you here dear Jayson! Many blessings my friend
aww that dog is the greatest and so sweet wanting to play, i love him!! and thank you for sharing this video it felt real!! blessings to you girl!!!
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
Haha he is :) Thank you! I'm glad you enjoyed it. Many blessings! xxo
I'm loving that headband/scarf you've been rocking in the past couple video's! I'm not in a relationship, but I found this interesting. It's good your both have communication and respect for each other's faith. I'm sure the love you had for each other helped also. I find a lot of people can kind of shut down when you don't follow the same faith as them. -Jason
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks! It's covering my intense blonde regrowth! Haha Yeah, it definitely does. Belief structures are so personal and most of the time something that is so important to the individual, it can feel like a slight if others don't believe in the same way. But it's a growth opportunity! To believe as you do and accept another as they are too. I think as a whole we're becoming more open and accepting of differences, which is very cool :) Many blessings Jason!
I had been married 20 yrs. when I finally found my path, lol, so my husband thinks I'm a little looney, and he and my daughter tease me, but they let me do my thing because it really has brought such happiness and peace to my life. I also have a bad ass baneful herb collection that keeps hubby on his toes, lol.
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
Haha my husband thinks I'm batty too! It's all part of the adventure :D It's great that your family accepts your practice. Oooh nice! I love a bit of baneful aesthetic, and something to keep those men in line! :p Many blessings xx
@nancyc5922
7 жыл бұрын
Jasmine Moon ahhh the herb collection!! that is partly how I came out to my husband, he is RC,,,,,I love herbs and candles and when I met him first, I would say I love alot of flavor in my foods and the candles relaxes me while I cook!! hahahahha In 2013 after 13 years of being together I couldnt hide it anymore and to my surprise, he is very supportive and loves the energies I create within our home. We met online in 1999 and met in 2000 I did give hints about "my other side" unfortunate for him he did not get it until 2013, I will say a side of myself I totally did not expect came out, even tho I knew that other side was there, I was not expecting it to be so very protective and he over stepped the boundary which I had no clue existed!!! We laugh about it now but did not back then but now he knows " my other side" and is very respectful but once in a while he thinks I am nuts! hahahaha
@ccrgrl
7 жыл бұрын
Lady Grey Flower, how boring our husbands lives would be without our magical housekeeping!
Gorgeous! Oh and Owlvine you're not too bad either😉💕Wonderful and cute video
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
Hahaha right? He's such a cutie
Thank you so much for this! I'm new to this path and I had no idea how to even begin the discussion with my Christian boyfriend. Thanks for the confidence boost💜 I'd love to hear some witchy mom advice, too! My kids are still really young, but I know they'll ask questions eventually.
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
Hey Julia, I'm glad this boosted you a little :) Best of luck! I will be making a video about pagan parenting soon too, so stay tuned ;) Many blessings xx
Thanks for sharing on this topic. It can be a bit difficult to navigate spiritual life in this area. I really liked hearing your thoughts and, especially about the beginning part of things. Exploring a different path can feel a bit scary for both partners.
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
That's true it definitely can be, and it's a big step for both partners! Thank you so much :) Much love xxox
LOVE THIS!!! love and light my Ausi sister! 😘😘😘
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you loveliness! And loads of love to you my Arabic sister xoxox
@ArabianConjure
7 жыл бұрын
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I love worship nature..where the diyin Diné (holy people) that dwells to all forms of life..
"come on....play with me! Throw the toy! " can just hearing the dog thinking this! Lol
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
Haha he was practically yelling that, wasn't he?!
I am currently in a relationship with someone who hasn't really found their path, though he is atheistic/agnostic amalgamation currently, and I think that me talking openly about my faith and practice has created an opening for him to really explore spirituality in a healthy way--because as we've been around each other, even when we were not in a romantic relationship, he's become more accepting of himself and his attraction to his heritage and several different paths. When he had more recently stepped away from Christianity, I found that he behaved differently. He didn't speak his mind as much, he didn't seem as comfortable in his own skin. And I think this can be the case for anyone who takes on a path that was not healthy for them personally--no matter what it was. I think that when we do something out of being coerced or socially pressured rather than following our own paths with grace and honesty, it can have a profoundly negative affect on us and our lives, and/or it can inhibit our ability to be our happiest, healthiest, best selves.
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
It's very cool that you've created the space for him to explore his own connection with the divine/All. I think it's a really important thing for us all to question and discover, and find our own connection. And I agree, I think being pressured into viewing the universe a way that doesn't align with us can be damaging after a point. That was my experience. I gained a lot from my previous experience, and then it was holding me back. I'm glad I was able to continue my exploration, while taking all my lessons with me :) xoxo
Our interfaith relationship did not fare so well, sadly. I applaud all couples who can make it work with both respect and understanding.
@Owlvine
4 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear that
Something I would say about a Christian marrying a pagan person is that spiritual growth is what matters most. I’ve studied many religions and even practiced but ended up choosing Christianity in the end while keeping this insane amount of respect for all of them. So with spiritual growth being important I wouldn’t ever see a problem with it and I’d even say it would be a situation that would be more likely to happen anyways. I really enjoyed your video many blessings 🎉
Love this 💖
I don't know if you still make videos but if you do, perhaps you could consider a tough point on this subject.... death. When in an interfaith marriage with pagan and christian (like me and you), have you considered at all what the death of either spouse will look like? The funeral? On one hand many Faiths have guidelines on how to handle death arrangements. But at the same time there's the old wisdom that funerals are for those left behind. How can we conconcile respecting our different faith partner's final wishes but also find the closure and healing we need after they leave through our faith?
I am a Christian, understand that ancient peoples understood the rhythms of the seasons ! And Women held knowledge about healing using herbs and oils ! Of Course! we should not be fearful of wisdom, I am studying Christian Faith and attend Church...I wish we could all get together and talk God Bless....Blessed be ! The Dog is beautiful !
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
Yes, I agree! There's no need to be segregated, we can all learn from each other, and be enriched! God bless and many blessings to you sister :D xoxox
Oh, that dog is simply adorable! You should record more videos with him around... over... under... Lol
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
I know!! Usually when I film he's sleeping just outside the room I'm in. His favourite spot is the hallway outside my magical room. He's my sister's dog, he comes up every school holidays for a while to visit us
You are lucky, I am exmuslim pagan and I live in a muslim country I hide my faith and I am obliged to practise Islam and I can't find a pagan woman for marriage, I have a horrible situation 😔
very useful video for those fellas who are in interfaith relationship like me , 'coz I am Hindu and my girlfriend is Mohammedian.
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
That's great! I'm glad you found it useful. Wishing you and your girlfriend loads of peace, joy and blessings!
It sounds like you have a wonderful partner :-)
I Love this thank you.. First experience I had was a Few Years ago I Felt the same as you and I Just wanted to Shear I Felt so good. when I Finally came out to my mom who is a Christian filled with Fear at First it went bad she did not say Much at first and a week or 2 Latter I got something In the Mail from her Pastor with a Bunch of what seamed Like Booklets for Children, to Indoctrinate them. with all Honesty I was furious and Hurt but after I Observed the situation It only Welded My Faith even More so than Before that is One good thing that Came out of it. I have always Been a witch sense I was a Child getting lost in the woods only at the Time I did not Know what it was didn't start labeling myself a witch until early 20s any how even though I Feel I was Born a witch this encounter with my mothers indoctrinating pastor Intensified my Connection with my Primal roots and Magic so I thank them for that. :) I do Not Talk to her Pastor but Now I understand why my Mom is so filled with Fear and Of course we still Talk she Seams to be ok with my Faith now but Honestly dose not seam to want to Talk about it Much so when ever we Talk I do not Bring it up unless she dose..
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
It can be really hard for people to accept such a different spiritual view point from their own. And I think in cases like with your mum they genuinely are fearful for us and it's coming from a place of good intention. It's wonderful that you told her and that you guys are moving through it :) She may never understand or be on board, but that she loves and accepts you is huge. Many blessings xx
Beautiful video, Many Blessings
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you Craig! It's good to hear from you :) I hope you're well. Many blessings xx
I think any interfaith relationship/marriage can work, both partners have to compromise and be respectful. Being flexible helps too.
@Owlvine
6 жыл бұрын
Absolutely! Without give and take no relationship works for very long :) xx
I believe we should focus more on what various religions have in common rather than how they're different. If we start there, I believe we can do away with the majority of tensions between different belief systems.
@Owlvine
3 жыл бұрын
Wouldn't that be a wonderful thing! I agree
@-_-president-_-richardson-9705
2 жыл бұрын
I agree
My husband is southern baptist, and was in the broom closet when we got married. But he has really opened up and accepted me over the years. It wasn't always like that
@moonmagick9094
7 жыл бұрын
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@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
It great that you've been able to grow in openness with each other. I'm not sure if it's true, but I've heard southern baptists are pretty strict in their religious beliefs, it's very cool that out of his love for you he shifted and expanded those ideas. Many blessings xx
Beautiful video!!
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! xx
Cool. Thanks. But can you turn your old man into a newt? A shout out bark to your dog from our three here. I was raised a Secular Humanist, and at 16 became an interfaith seeker who kept a light hold on Unitarian Universalism and later 12 step Recovery Movement. I then got into Christianity in a way that recognized Jesus´ teaching personal effort, spiritual growth training, and God´s love, and so no actual conflict with an interfaith life. I eventually married the "other side of the tracks" and a Fundamentalist Christian maverick, but have found my Taoist, Buddhist, Shamanic, 12 step Christianity just rock solid, or water fluid. Sure, there´s gaseous, too, but let´s keep thinking happy smells. So, anyway, God is a freaky fritter, and I´m just living one day at a time as an interfaith Sustainability warrior here as an expatriate in Brazil. Your hair colors are cool. My wife´s a babe, and nature rules. Stay Magic! (Thank you Jesus...)
Great video! Thanks for covering this topic. I know so many of us can relate! Just curious...does your hubby watch your videos?
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tess! Yeah, I would think probably most of us who identify as pagan have partnerships with people of other faiths. He does watch sometimes, more in the beginning of my YT journey, but when he gets curious he jumps on and takes a squiz! ;) Many blessings xx
Loved this, I suppose I'm kind of the same, but my partner is a complete atheist, so he just listens... p.s: Love your accent!!! haha. xx
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
It's awesome that he does listen, and yay for KZread so we can talk to others who have similar practices! Thanks chicka! I love yours too! Much love xx
You are so freakin' cute! Great video!
Once again very, very good. I love your honesty. So what do you honestly think of your husband's beliefs? I'm not asking about your acceptance of them, but your thoughts about his beliefs. My understanding is pagans are poly theist or at least female goddess believers. Not exactly Christian, Jewish, or Muslim beliefs.
My wife is a pegan and I'm a catholic in america .... The church refuses to back us but legaly we are married..... Just my family would shun me if they knew but her family accepted me as one of their own on the 24th of feb ... We both see the interconected ties of values even though the religions were different. Just the church i belong to refuses to bless the wedding due to hers being seen as "witchcraft" by the faiths leaders ... Though we both believe that love we share is holy and blessed on its own because in her faith love is the strongest form of magic cuz it cajt be controlled by humans and in mine god is love as taught in roman catholic schools ... So we both feel its the human nature of fearing the unknown is the real reason we are not yet allowed to go through marriage as a sacrament in my faith .... But if god is how we catholics see him the judgement would be our love is just as holy as a catholic to catholic love ... So my perspnal view is fuck everyone else our love is our love no one can stop us
My Catholic husband is totally fine with my new path but I feel silly knowing he's outside the door and can hear me. Really inhibits me in ritual. I'm just totally silent. If you had any tips on getting over that inhibition I'd love to hear it. and no I can't do ritual when he's out of the house. We have three kids. Getting five minutes to myself is a great treat.
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
Yes I can understand that. I would say the way to move through that inhibition is to just do it. Perhaps start small, talking out loud for breif periods of time. The more you do it, the more comfortable you will feel. You could talk to your husband about what it means for you to be able to do it too, open up that dialog. It will affirm that you have nothing to feel shame or embarrassment about. I hope this helps. Best of luck in your continued journey :) And I know about those times alone! Once kids come along, you realised how much you took for granted, the quiet silences! Many blessings xxo
Anyone have any tips on how to tell my family I’m pagan and practice witchcraft? My mom won’t even celebrate Halloween.
@Owlvine
3 жыл бұрын
It's a tough one Sarah! My advice is to "massage" the topic... bring it up subtly in small ways... you're ideas about this or that. Avoid "trigger" words like witchcraft or paganism.. focus more on your beliefs. Over time you may find them coming around :) Best wishes! xox
@sarahdavis331
3 жыл бұрын
@@Owlvine thanks 😌♥️
I enjoyed this because I'm single and I'm wondering how it will be to open up to someone about my spirituality. It makes me wary in general just because society has what I consider an incorrect view of the pagan path- of any sort.
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you enjoyed it and hope you found it helpful :) Opening up about the topic of spirituality in a relationship (romantic or otherwise) has no one-size-fits-all method, but I think just sharing and keeping an open heart towards the other person is all we can do, and take it from there. Many blessings xx
how do we go about and she has a catholic motherI am Roman Pagan living America in orange county and I am also bisexual
Very helpful:)
Interfaith relationship my family would be against it if I wanted to marry a man that was pagan my family would not accept it.
I'm a Witch myself. I left Christianity a few years ago. My girlfriend is Atheist however, she is wanting to learn some things. I subd to you yesterday.
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
It's wonderful that you can both learn and grow with each other from different spiritual/world views :) Nice to meet you! Many blessings xx
@diegooland1261
6 жыл бұрын
So is Atheist a bad thing?
Can you combine Christian and paganism. And if so would you
@Owlvine
5 жыл бұрын
Yes you can Donna, I have a recent video about this on my channel :) xx
I'm wondering if it's wise to get into a new relationship with someone of different faith. I've just started dating a Christian. I've told him what I am. He isn't sure what to make of it, and having come out of Christianity, I'm a bit wary too. But we really get on well otherwise. It's so hard as single pagan men are so hard to find in my country. We, pagans and witches are a rare breed, but we are growing.
@Owlvine
5 жыл бұрын
As to that, it's a very personal decision. I think it can certainly add a challenge when partners are of different faiths, particularly if they're devout. But all relationships have their challenges, we all need to make commissions for each other and compromise to find our harmony. I don't think there's a simple yes or no answer for this one. I know many people in relationships with differing faiths, and some of them are very happy :) I wish you and your man all the love in the world xox
@leenbee17
5 жыл бұрын
Owlvine Green thank you! I actually ended the relationship for a different reason. But I was worried about his response when I told him I read tarot cards. For some reason that really scares people. I'm no longer dating online but rather waiting for the right person in real life. Maybe I will meet a pagan man.
What is your opinion on gnosticism?
@Owlvine
2 жыл бұрын
I don't have a lot of knowledge of gnosticism at this time, not enough to render an opinion on. But I find it very fascinating! I'll share more in future. Many blessings xox
Heheh~ Love your dog~ He is like you need to play with me and stop talking to camera~
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
I know right?! He wants allll the attention! :D xoxo
Are y’all still together? I’m dating a Christian and I really don’t see it working long term
@Owlvine
3 жыл бұрын
We are, although I must say he isn't deep in his faith at the moment. I do know people who are in "strong" interfaith relationships that have made it work. It's all about flexibility and compromise at the end of the day... both parties being able to have space for the other. It's not easy, but it can be done. Wishing you all the best xox
As a Jew, I thank you. Is thetr a video that you can do for me go support my partner. In her spirituality journey. I want to learn more so I can be a good partner.
@Owlvine
2 жыл бұрын
Sending lots of love to you both as you go on this journey together. I recommend you watch various videos that relate to your partners religious beliefs. Ask her lots of questions and simply receive what she says. With flexibility, openness and work interreligious relationships can be very successful. 😊 Many blessings! xox
To answer the title, easily when neither takes their own religion seriously. More of a hobby just for fun type mindset than actual belief. For me i haven't and won't be with a christian, in their minds they think i'm going to hell, and truly believe it as if they are the one in the right and i am the one in the wrong. My religion is one of the biggest parts of me and if i can share it with everyone but my partner due to offending them, what is the point? True test of this will come about when kids come into the picture, either you all will fight about what your children will learn or cave and let them learn about both of the parents beliefs and let them decide for themselves, which is the right call sure, but also points that you don't take your own religion seriously. And in your husbands belief system he is in fact sinning just by being with you as it states in the bible of being married to someone outside your tribe so my point is made that it can be easy when neither takes their beliefs to heart.
@Owlvine
3 жыл бұрын
We had a kid before I started practicing witchcraft. We're both open minded, flexible and willing to find what works. It's true that there aren't a lot of people who aspire to those qualities... close-minded people will find it impossible :)
i am in relationship with christian guy and i was christian before but now i practice witchcraft. he doesnt have problem with that and he watch witchy videos with me and talking about stuff like that :). he like when im doing magic and he dont want change me
@Owlvine
6 жыл бұрын
That's awesome! It's so great to hear you both have room for each other to believe as you do, and accept the others faith :) Many blessings! xx
@almabruja1462
6 жыл бұрын
Owlvine Green can you accept me on fb? :)
great video :)
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks! :) Many blessings xx
I very much like the attitude, _Mmm, okay, Cool_. Yes, my special person and I can occasionally have in-depth conversations, but we don’t need to do that every single time. We particularly don’t need to give rebuttals as if the whole thing’s a damn political debate. PS I love that big white dog, who was then just a puppy ! ? ! 🤠
I too am married to a Christian.. We work great together because we respect each others beliefs. We can share and ask questions to each other and always keep an open mind and sometimes.... you just have to agree to disagree... LOL
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
That's fantastic! It's so great to be able to celebrate each others differences and love each other through them. LOL you're right about that!! Many blessings :D
I am pagan and my partner is Christian
Short answer... They don't work.
My husband is christian. I said that my altar was just for meditation, but one time he saw my goddess guidance oracle, looked at my altar and said : "I see". that was all. He then went to the kitchen to fix some food. haha
@Owlvine
6 жыл бұрын
Haha yep, being in an interfaith relationship can sure be eye opening!! :p xoxo
lol, I like your dog.
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
*giggles* he's a cutie xx
It doesn’t work. Tried it. Her Parents hated me because I was a “heathen”
I am not interfaith like you and your beloved. His is Norse pagan( not asatru) and I am closer individuated with druidism, we do have differences however we are both polytheistic still after 20 years.
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
That's so cool! I have not met many couples who are both pagan. It's wonderful you're still bale to practice you individual branches of faith, I imagine it would be a nice blend too :) Many blessings xx
What if you're in the broom closet with someone that is a God mod? Meaning what if their close to being a bible thumper and theres no way to compromise....
@Owlvine
4 жыл бұрын
that's a tough situation to be in, and something you need to consider. Is it better to "come out" (slowly, over time) and be able to express yourself in this full way? Or is it better to be with the person and keep this part of yourself a secret? There isn't a correct answer, and there's no easy answer. But this is something you need to mull on xox
@lunamai5668
4 жыл бұрын
@@Owlvine thanks ^^
A true practicing Christian, not Catholic, would never accept a pagan partner. Maybe he is agnostic but I am not buying the Christian husband story.
@chrisinreallife2022
5 жыл бұрын
Not all Christians are the closed-minded, mean, judgmental ones that seem to be brainwashed by their church. There are really caring ones out there. But they would catch all kinds of hell for being ok with anything outside their faith. And it's sad, really, to have to be that harsh and shut-down in order to be considered "faithful' or "committed" to your God. Thanks to the higher powers that my fiancé is lucky for me not a Christian. He was kind of agnostic but he's been getting more interested in following my path. that does make it a lot easier.
@Owlvine
5 жыл бұрын
Certainly many of the Christians I know would agree with you on that point! Most would say to be open like this is proof of not being a "real Christian". Some are less dogmatic however :)
You look thinner
@Owlvine
7 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I'm getting there!