Men need to control their sexual urge. It will destroy your life. Cut it out. Edit* Cut Off Porn, Cut off IG, Stop Tempting yourself and use the energy to Self-improve

@jarvisaddison8560

3 жыл бұрын

Best comment on this thread!

@BabyLoloify

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly!!!

@BronzeTiger82

3 жыл бұрын

Cant cut it out, its nature. You can curb it Through exercise, Meditation and hobbies.

@mwebster3265

3 жыл бұрын

@@BronzeTiger82 FACTS! We were born and wired to procreate. Curb it!

@Hbsmooth

3 жыл бұрын

I agree

Superficiality is killing this generation. Physical beauty is temporary

@janexavier6680

3 жыл бұрын

Amen to that!

@astro429

3 жыл бұрын

Underrated comment

@bolotabr12

3 жыл бұрын

True. For centuries men only care about physical beauty, just now they care about inner beauty. Too late, many good women gave up on them.

@maxfernandes8559

3 жыл бұрын

That's why the Boomers who encouraged the present dysfunctional paradigm are banging hot Millenial and Gen Z models on social media. It is what it is.

@houseofmatrix6174

3 жыл бұрын

So true

I am dating a girl who doesn't use social media. She is thoughtful, funny and looks after me when I need something even though I don't ask her. She is humble, down to earth, it's crazy she reminds me of how girls were before instagram.

@mps397

3 жыл бұрын

You're a very fortunate man.

@unapologeticcandor9171

3 жыл бұрын

you are blessed bro!

@emmanuelking9988

3 жыл бұрын

Congrats...don't take each other for granted.

@Jon_Snow_88

3 жыл бұрын

You’re very lucky! I wish I could find someone who isn’t a slave to social media and who isn’t obsessed with it.

@limitlessinfinite2284

3 жыл бұрын

You've found a 🦄. Cherish that my bro.

Majority of these IG women or models don’t even look great in person. Make up, filters, lighting, and angles.

@dionnewalker2308

3 жыл бұрын

Facts

@peopleschampiii584

3 жыл бұрын

💯

@mistypeek3581

3 жыл бұрын

The makeup and lighting is true af my gf is a straight 10 with makeup and filters but found out she was a 6 after I seen her with it off 😭

@mroblige1018

3 жыл бұрын

I know some models who look the same in person and they're down to earth.

@TheFuss85

3 жыл бұрын

@@mistypeek3581 catfish be REAL

Delete Instagram. Don't waste your time scrolling down the feed of cars, models, fitness stars, cribs, clothes and vacations.

@jaughnekow

3 жыл бұрын

I only go to Instagram to get ideas for photography. It’s my hobby

@renebleu8711

3 жыл бұрын

John Ekow That’s good then. It’s an investment. It consumes most people. I make art and Instagram sometimes gives my inspo.

@jaughnekow

3 жыл бұрын

Rene Bleu that’s good too. My ig feed is mostly about good pictures from some top photographers, cars, news, anime, video games and things that interest me. I’m not into those Instagram models. They put me off.

@yme3267

3 жыл бұрын

I use it for architecture. I'm an architecture student.... otherwise.... I would 😐

@motivationandmeditations7600

3 жыл бұрын

💯💯💯

I’m 21 I haven’t been on instagram for almost 3 weeks now I feel so much better and more connect to God.

@aseelidubad9130

3 жыл бұрын

Same!

@omarvaliente5223

3 жыл бұрын

My man I’ve been off all social media for months now (other than KZread, and the occasional Reddit) it really does feel better and different after a while

@jft2nd

3 жыл бұрын

I was this same way idk why i went back man just recently deleted my social media

@doranyahsharahla7262

3 жыл бұрын

4 years for me

@doranyahsharahla7262

3 жыл бұрын

Omar Valiente now they starting to come on KZread this just use to be a informational hub but here comes the bs because KZread pays more money

When I dramatically decreased my social media viewing, especially after deleting IG, I realized that I saw women in the real world as more attractive. I especially appreciated the natural look more as well. I don't want my desire for women to be rooted in a superficial presentation.

@juleeanng

3 жыл бұрын

thank you. I cant be an IG model. lol. too much work to fake it.

@kristabistaify

3 жыл бұрын

None of us can unless she got dietician,s trainers, surgeons, makeup artists, etc

@goatstatusj5112

3 жыл бұрын

I mean most women in real life also uses makeup for good looks too. But I get your point

Dudes be in front of a good chick in real life but don’t see her because they’re staring at their phones at a Instagram model that doesn’t even follow them let alone give them the time of day

@ln8396

3 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY how sad

@hillarybillary21

3 жыл бұрын

YUP.

@ThisBraveHeart

3 жыл бұрын

Mhmmmmm!

@davidrubinstein5359

3 жыл бұрын

Bruh, 98% of women are the same “for the culture.”

@miyalee24

3 жыл бұрын

Sad

They have no personality. If a woman is 24/7 on her phone taking selfies and just scrolling through social media that a red flag . Find you a partner that is not addicted to their phone’s

@WestCoastAce27

3 жыл бұрын

Or they DO have a personality - narcissist. Guessing most of the very successful IG models will never marry (unless they decide to snag an old billionaire) - their laundry list will be so long but the guys who meet it will be Alphas who won’t simp to them.

@Mrsmerlinsantana

3 жыл бұрын

Right

@wlovelex

3 жыл бұрын

Facts

@PeteS_1994

3 жыл бұрын

@@WestCoastAce27 Are all of them narcissists though?

@TopFlightSecurity415

3 жыл бұрын

@@darianjohnston1658 validation Is digital crack to women

“Everything that glitters ain’t gold, the grass ain’t greener I’ve been told.” -J.Cole

@LaRonSantiagoMusic

3 жыл бұрын

Amen 💯

@trizzysmeez3698

3 жыл бұрын

I say that's cake, that's what your supposed to do

@TheGoldenCapstone

3 жыл бұрын

Lol he took a famous quote and a famous colloquialism and rhymed them together.

Dudes who chase those types of women aren't interested in whether or not they are "good" women.

@s.g.3042

3 жыл бұрын

they're not. There is no such thing as a good woman - a woman is only as loyal, as she has no options and in the age of tinder there are no such women except the amish ones 😂

@bobbym1799

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly let them chase them

@chadparks4841

3 жыл бұрын

Hell yea true

@tblack9711

3 жыл бұрын

@Alex Reign exactly

@indiee4971

3 жыл бұрын

Right! They want the fast life just as much as those women. They mostly just want to show off and brag and is ego based.

I know everyone is saying don’t date an ig model but, it’s men(in the millions) who follow them. There wouldn’t be ig models if there wasn’t supply/demand. Men are obsessed with looks and that’s the reason why I have no sympathy when these “models” take them to the cleaners.

@JESSKISS19

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@hanabae_

3 жыл бұрын

Facts

@JCJW101

3 жыл бұрын

That's why this video exists, to warn men and get them to follow the right path

@s.g.3042

3 жыл бұрын

All married women can take their husbands to the cleaners... and they do. 80% divorces initiated by whom? Women. So a man marries a good looking woman - so it doesn't hurt so much at least losing his home and money afterwards. But every day there are less men, who would want to marry at all. I wonder why that is 😋

@wolfhawk1999

3 жыл бұрын

Well, of course there's supply and demand. We are hardwired to want to fuck, especially women that have strong, feminine attributes. The key here is not DATING them. If people want to follow them, cool. That's fine. But no one should harbor illusions that DATING them would be healthy

Yes Instagram models are distorting the standard of beauty because most have had lipo, implants, fat transfers, tummy tucks, silicone, lip injections, etc... natural and real is still beautiful ...

@LemansSunset350

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely

@kaz9242

3 жыл бұрын

Yet so many women want a man who looks like mythical Greek god who s natural. Or at least they are only attracted to them. And social media and feminism is making them believe they are all queens and deserve whatever the want. Lmao fat has become plus size but fat men have remained fat😂😂😂

@k3th.b.w122

3 жыл бұрын

And face tunes.

@camero4134

3 жыл бұрын

They even probably use performance enchancing drugs (steroids, sarms, synthetic hormones), I wouldn't be surprised if an IG model was caught using it

@kidneycarecoaching3766

3 жыл бұрын

No amount of surgery will have me looking like that...75% genetics 25% Dr. cosmetic surgeon

I feel bad for this generation. When I was in High School, most people knew this things. This millennials weren't raised by their parents.

@StageInTheSkyCreations

3 жыл бұрын

*weren't raised by their fathers.

@Opethfeldt

3 жыл бұрын

We were taken care of, not raised.

@vincentmokoena4004

3 жыл бұрын

Haha this is what you get from Social Media being your mom and dad😂

@RLucasReviews

3 жыл бұрын

Mills are the first generation to reflect the results of having the internet, social media and the option to make millions from our selfies.

@flightforlight157

3 жыл бұрын

Millennials were raised by your generation. You're responsible. Just kidding... Maybe

"A beautiful woman with bad character is like a gold ring in a pig's snout" - Proverbs 11:22

@shaneanfriends

3 жыл бұрын

🙏🏻

@coolbreeeze6018

3 жыл бұрын

True True.

@jdel2272

3 жыл бұрын

amen

@thecowboy9698

3 жыл бұрын

Amen. My friend, who was from NY and who passed away some years ago, told me once: "Pussy is all the same. Character is what counts."

@tairschol6910

3 жыл бұрын

@@thecowboy9698 Yes yes yes

I had a guy ask me if I'm on Instagram & he was shocked when I said NO because most YOUNG women use it.....If you're not on Instagram OR Facebook, people look at you as if you're crazy & they pity you.

@camero4134

3 жыл бұрын

Nah, its something to APPRECIATE. I'm saying this as a person who doesn't use IG for over 9 months.

@lulug6924

3 жыл бұрын

same thing happened to me

@nishisalott1839

3 жыл бұрын

There was a point in time, I did not have a mobile phone. This dude tred to talk to me. I let him know that I did not have one. My dude would not give me the time of day because I did not have a phone in that moment. Mind you, I had social media and e mail. He was not trying to meet me half way. I was like "it is like that G?".

@fitxxtube4618

3 жыл бұрын

Me too it's dam true

@ChrisBred4s

3 жыл бұрын

Your Blue Pilled that’s RARE 🔵 🔥

So glad I deactivated my social media. I feel at peace ☺️☺️. We have completely loss sight of what makes a great relationship. Our society today is so superficial.

@user-tk7rl6hw6c

3 жыл бұрын

You look amazing btw

@876tisha

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you sugar plums

@cloudniine9

3 жыл бұрын

Same sis!

@Ray-uv4sk

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely 💯

@SirBrucie

3 жыл бұрын

Well done

In Nigeria we say "iwa lẹwa ọmọbìnrin" which means character is beauty of a woman

@Toozip09

3 жыл бұрын

I love African men.

@sokoyaadedolapo5321

3 жыл бұрын

@@Toozip09 am curious

@Telvo24

3 жыл бұрын

Ive always wondered how things were for you guys in Nigeria.

@therealone8628

3 жыл бұрын

@@Telvo24 I don't get. Did they tell u that Nigeria is on fire? Or that people live on trees?

@Telvo24

3 жыл бұрын

@@therealone8628 lol no they just told me that its not as fun as it is here.

The men complaining about "simping" as if they weren't the ones chasing superficial things 🤣🤣🤣

@AbdulSheik1

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, but the key word is "were". We saw the light and came out of that simping tunnel and now we're helping our brothers do the same. Change is on the horizon and it ain't looking good for all the superficial women out there.

@masonridgewell8063

3 жыл бұрын

@@AbdulSheik1 haha and they hate it because men are exposing the truth and learning other men.

@johnjandoh6732

3 жыл бұрын

@@AbdulSheik1 Exactly.

@zakiasimpson8928

3 жыл бұрын

Facts, men be letting beauty make a fool of them. Most of those simpin, ignored red flags

@johnjandoh6732

3 жыл бұрын

@@zakiasimpson8928 Don't you know why we keep calling the men simps? It's because of this exact reason. That's why we stress it over and over again, but then we'll have women like you, come in and tell us that these simps are actually "kings" and that them putting the woman above themselves only because of their looks is good. They say this because these simps like to pay for it with money. If you're attractive, you will have these simps always trying to get something materialistic for you as a gift in order to try and get with you, because they know that women like those superficial things a lot.

Wow...a man that values the character over the physical. You are truly a unicorn in this Matrix.

@comedytv2832

3 жыл бұрын

most men do that. women on the other hand.....they like to pretend they do, but they really are much more superficial

@iStorm-my5fp

2 жыл бұрын

He didn't say that. He actually said he loved models and baddies but expects them to come either 100 personal traits. This dude is really superfical

@splishsplash3492

Жыл бұрын

@@iStorm-my5fp dude just postez a 10min video talking about jow important character and spirituality is and not to date people who love you for your money. What else is he supposed to say to not be superficial

A simple advice I would give young men is that: 1. Most of these instagram 'models' usually sell themselves to rich men, that's how many of them afford to travel to expensive areas without ever running a multi-million business, so do not even bother trying to woo them. 2.The pictures they post are highly doctored; you might be surprised when you see them without make-up. 3. The most important thing is these women are not wife material.

@essentialoilsme

3 жыл бұрын

It’s all a facade

@henrymmene4470

3 жыл бұрын

@@essentialoilsme exactly.

@SeanD44

3 жыл бұрын

A lot of these chicks will even use old pics, I'm talking 2-3 years old. They'll use pics they havent posted before, when they were a little bit better in shape...old vacation pics to make it seem like they're still traveling, still living that life

@henrymmene4470

3 жыл бұрын

@@SeanD44 Those with some cash will undergo some surgery, apply a lot of make up and hire photoshop experts to edit wrinkles and stretch marks out of their photos.

@TheNegrodamus89

3 жыл бұрын

Watch out for a bunch of pics of them in Dubai...

To be honest too, most of these IG model pics are extremely sexual in nature. Do you really want to get into a relationship with a woman where any man can look at her practically naked at the click of a button? Those kinds of pics say a lot about her character, so in that sense you can tell something about her just be the way she looks. But if we men pursue it anyway, it also says a lot about our character. Yes, baseline attractions has to be there. But looks aren't just the starting point...

@PTRK490

3 жыл бұрын

Keeper of Knowledge yeah it's a sick obsession

There's no such thing as an "Instagram Model!" There are pretty girls who "use Instagram" and think that this counts as being a professional model!

@pmoreau283

3 жыл бұрын

I correct you right there : There are pretty girls who only have their physical attributes so they capitalize on their only quality and there are pretty girls who have a brain, are clever, have ambition and have too much morals to show their butts on the internet and don’t care about the attention. Maybe guys have to rethink all of that. Theres plenty of girls that could be instagram models but CHOOSE not to do it cause they re against it.

@bhunji1850

3 жыл бұрын

"Instagram model" is just a general term to describe them.

@klaudinegarcia8932

3 жыл бұрын

They just use the term instagram model because it just sounds more nicer, but they're really just influencers.

🙌🏻 i used to be one of those girls..I was spoiled & .I messed up a relationship becuase I was that girl full of expectations...etc. I erased my social media for a couple of years (yes...years). man getting off social media and doing internal work changed a lot of things for me. I got my master's in Psychology and now im a whole different person than I was. Im glad social media wasnt what it was when I was younger. Not sure if i wouldve erased it if i would have been making all that money lol

@klaudinegarcia8932

3 жыл бұрын

Wow that's amazing! I'm so proud of you! 😊 And remember this: Never let anyone use your past against you! ❤

To be honest, they don't seem like much fun to begin with.

@nickhousman6222

3 жыл бұрын

Probably boring ass personalitys

@nellynel6141

3 жыл бұрын

You know what...a lot of them aren’t

@TheRoommatesPodcast

3 жыл бұрын

Yup. And you can either learn that the easy way or the hard way...

@TopFlightSecurity415

3 жыл бұрын

@keepnitreel 4me fo real...there fun is just making you spend money on them

Beauty can hide a evil heart.

@mahoganysoul7195

3 жыл бұрын

💯💯💯

@UltimateD755

3 жыл бұрын

I learned the hard way

@Metalpazallteway

3 жыл бұрын

Lucifer

@Enwillme

3 жыл бұрын

I know this one all to well learned the hard way.....

@AshzxQuidYT

3 жыл бұрын

💯 true!

I remember listening to the joe budden podcast and they jokingly talk about the "400 follower joints". These are everyday regular beautiful women who are working, got their own place, in school etc. Parks girl is an example. Social media has created a fake reality where someone's currency is valued at their blue check or follower count. The "400 follower joints" are the everyday women who are doing well for themselves. They may be at whole foods, hiking, at that concert, eating a donut at your favorite donut shop, karaoke spot, traveling solo or with her friends.. but she is out there. I know men are visual creatures and who you are with is also an image of you. Just remember there are sweet girls out there that will love you. She probably doesn't have social media. GO against the grain.

@tiffanibanks7218

3 жыл бұрын

Well said...facts no 🧢‼️

@user-zd4sk4li8e

3 жыл бұрын

This is pure facts.

@colleenroache7744

3 жыл бұрын

Not the biggest fan of JB lol but this is a good point. I only have Twitter and don’t even post pics there. Nowhere near 400 followers. Not “on the radar.” But I have a job and a degree, have my own spot, and handle all my own bills. As they say, the squeaky wheel gets the oil. The ones who are out there on IG get attention because the rest of us are too busy chasing goals to be posting pics all day 😂

@joannajourneys

3 жыл бұрын

100

@jonathanameyo3608

3 жыл бұрын

@Jerseygirl8999 m I have a question, Shakira said in an interview she wants Pique to be calling him his girlfriend and not his wife and Shakira is 43 years old, so what is the problem if a guy does it?

THANK YOU! I hear too many guys complaining about women being “stuck up” or “gold diggers” all while passing by kind, smart regular women who just go to work, the gym, and church 😂 Guys, we don’t need Birkins and red bottoms, just love and loyalty.

I made a choice not to follow ig models because I know it’s gonna keep me in that mindset! Fellas STOP FOLLOWING THE IG MODELS!!!

@julifunnygirl71

3 жыл бұрын

Wise decision.

@deanofpledges

3 жыл бұрын

Facts

@rebeccagreen6647

3 жыл бұрын

That’s good

@BarestTruths

3 жыл бұрын

I stopped following IG models, influencers and celebrities. IG amongst other social media platforms causes the most mental health issues. Too much comparing our lives, cars, faces, bodies, clothes etc. we forget that we can be happy with simple life. You can drive a Toyota, live in an apartment and shop at Old Navy and live a great life and that’s all that matters just remember in the end we all go to the same place and can’t take anything with us.

@ln8396

3 жыл бұрын

God bless you

I’m not even 3 minutes in and I agree so far.... and I’m a woman. A lot of men are tricked by the outward beauty. I am beautiful on the outside and inside but I know the inside is actually what counts.

@michaelangst6078

3 жыл бұрын

Seems like a big waste of money and time for a man to expect any relationship out of an IG model, since they have a ridiculous amount of men messaging them and asking them out all the time.. If the dude isn't perfect and buying her shit all the time, she can just leave anytime she wants... That's not a real relationship, it's just paying for sex

@regb6989

3 жыл бұрын

It all counts and men aren’t as much tricked rather we go after what we are attracted to. Beauty does not define character, character is revealed in time

@cloudniine9

3 жыл бұрын

That part!!!

@courtney6797

3 жыл бұрын

Michael Angst facts

@courtney6797

3 жыл бұрын

Reg B 💯

Quietly Work. Quietly Grow. Quietly Ascend. Most People Of Extraordinary Value Are Unknown 🤙🏽

@sineshabalala6249

3 жыл бұрын

Agree!!!!

Since when does being good looking mean you’re automatically a nice person...?

@tkraid2575

3 жыл бұрын

It's a psychological phenomenon named as a "Halo Effect" where attractiveness makes people by default associate good things, character, etc. to that person. Happens in entertainment industry where people usually view good-looking actors or actresses as good people until a little scandal or leak breaks out.

Life gets "real" and looks are the last thing that can help you psychologically, spiritually and emotionally WHEN your storms hit your life. Character over EVERYTHING!

@BareNakedTruthPodcast

3 жыл бұрын

Alot of them have huge insecurities also and don't look the same once that makeup comes off

@trenaceandblackmetal5621

3 жыл бұрын

Women will leave when the storm comes

Yet we have an epidemic of our husband's and boyfriends sitting next to us on the sofa drooling over IG pics of these exact women 😃

@evangelineisolde

3 жыл бұрын

kimani It all depends on what you are hoping to achieve. If it’s fitness, well your body is a machine. That means you can transform it however you want it to be. With God you can do it!

@Lemniscate1027

3 жыл бұрын

Ummm we just wanna smash ...not wife them ...why do y'all constantly think just cuz we wanna smash that means we respect them ?

@wagamama8

3 жыл бұрын

@@Lemniscate1027 it's not about whether you want to wife them - no girl wants to see her man lusting over these half naked "perfect" girls on IG. It triggers feelings of not being enough

@howboutdat4053

3 жыл бұрын

We also have an epidemic of women threatening to leave their boyfriend/husband because he doesn't measure up to the guys in her past relationships

@dna8269

3 жыл бұрын

wagamama Are we going to ignore the female side of this?

BUT a guy won't give you the time of day unless he is attracted to you FIRST, only then will he get to know you better to find out about your positive qualities. 😔

@crumesd

3 жыл бұрын

thats HUMAN nature.....

@tkraid2575

3 жыл бұрын

Which is why taking care of yourself matters. You don't need to be on par with Insta models or look like an actress; just be a better version of yourself. Guys usually get interested in someone who's good at what they do and know how to play with the looks they have.

@comedytv2832

3 жыл бұрын

chad wont give you the time of day. maybe date a guy whos not in the top 10% of men. maybe you have deluded sense of your sexual market value

@kingjaydex7464

2 жыл бұрын

People in general won’t give you the time of day if they’re not attracted to you… That is normal.

I think the problem though is that many girls feel they have to compete with those Instagram models and they resort to appearing that way too when they know they are more than that. And they also struggle with depression and anxiety from social media. It’s really best to stay off social media honestly.

@Glambutfirstcoffee

3 жыл бұрын

Only small girls have this problem. I work on social media and I could care less how fake thots on Instagram look like

Dawg I deleted Instagram for self improvement reasons glad I did. 💯

@sagesports7724

3 жыл бұрын

You're not alone. 😂follow me in real life

@IenaInspirations

3 жыл бұрын

How’s it going now

@Seafarers199

3 жыл бұрын

@@IenaInspirations bro it’s crazy I’m at peace but you see how everybody’s face is glued to a screen.

@ln8396

3 жыл бұрын

God bless you

@hawkdefa3018

3 жыл бұрын

Same

That's the Halo effect for ya.

@darylallen2485

3 жыл бұрын

You are a smart man

@keo_oeem5616

3 жыл бұрын

I agree

@darylallen2485

3 жыл бұрын

@Cairo A. FACTS!!!

@thathandsomedevil0828

3 жыл бұрын

Straight FAX, aye!

I'm so surprised that many people, men and women, don't already know this! What are parents doing??!! We need to get back to parenting our children properly 🙏🏾❤️

“Comparison is the thief of joy”- Beene Brown. This is exactly what social media does, causes us to compare ourselves in all ways to others thus stealing the joy we could have in our lives!!

I’ve noticed that usually the more beautiful they are, they less of a personality they have. They are so boring. Because they never had to be funny or be a good person. Their looks got everything handed to them. I’ve met beautiful women who are funny and cool but rarely.

@hgzmatt

3 жыл бұрын

I wish it wasn't so.. but that is basically my mother. Maybe not only that but there is an element of that. I can see she is now starting to work on herself but it took her decades to get to that point.

@Psychoterratic

3 жыл бұрын

Lol they’re no different than a doll or statue right 😂😂

@meuniversity4155

3 жыл бұрын

Challenge

@andremotivation6561

3 жыл бұрын

They play a certain role cause they see it gets them benfits. You gotta get these women alone.

@jft2nd

3 жыл бұрын

Usually those are the ones that were not pretty/attractive at a young age but worked on themselves and became beautiful/worked out to become sought after, the ones that were always pretty usually are the ones that have no personality

The men that are going after the IG model are not looking for a healthy relationship....they want to prove to themselves they can get a beautiful woman. Also I've never heard anyone look at their pics and say "oh wow I bet she's got a good personality... " 😂

@prettybold3990

3 жыл бұрын

Lol, I agree

@Sigma200O

3 жыл бұрын

Or look at their pics and say " Wife goals "

Imagine following women just to look at them everyday on the phone😬SAD😂

In Swahili we say " mwanamke sio sura bali tabia" meaning a woman is not just looks but behavior matters most.

Not one lie was told during the filming of this video.

@BareNakedTruthPodcast

3 жыл бұрын

I tell guys this same stuff alot and they be so stuck on the fact that a female looks good

Satán is the most beautiful angel created, but he's evil, right.

@ApolloTheLeader

3 жыл бұрын

She*

@iloveyou281000

3 жыл бұрын

that describes most beautiful women, not all , but most of them

@HusbandoCollector

3 жыл бұрын

Antonio Mais Every single beautiful woman I know are some of the kindest ones I’ve ever met. The rude ones are always ugly lmao

@musicislife2000

3 жыл бұрын

And IG models are the jezzebels

@jjp8991

3 жыл бұрын

Yup

“I’m not saying every single ig model has bad character, but a lot of bad charactered people are ig models” FACTS!!!😭😭

@SadClown438

3 жыл бұрын

That's true

I remember once I read on a "red pill" website (literally): " _only_ beautiful women _deserve_ high quality men". I was like "deserve?". Unfortunately, may websites like these are making young men think that outer beauty is everything...I know it helps, but you need more in life. In six months, all faces and bodies are the same. Character flourishes with time. Same goes for the women: look beyond his wallet. Your new Gucci bag will get older, his kindness and manners will never.

Social media creates all sorts of illusions and we feed into those unrealistic pictures and standards. In the end, beauty doesn't matter because it's subjective and it's fleeting. It's not that you can't look for a physically attractive partner, but you should really search for a beautiful soul.

@masabozicfilm

3 жыл бұрын

well said 👌

@cloudniine9

3 жыл бұрын

sis. c’mon now!!!

A lot are also TRANS but most don't know it

@DjGo99

3 жыл бұрын

Same goes for celebrity’s.

@SuperLucylola

3 жыл бұрын

@@DjGo99 yup most are trans

@noulafrantz8589

3 жыл бұрын

😆 🤣

@AveryBlackman

3 жыл бұрын

Even the transgender that claim to be pregnant to hide that fact that they are men. Look at her "baby bump" then they have six pack abs in a month. Hollyweird and music industry. 😒

@eupiaeupia2647

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

Being good in relationships requires a lot of inner work ! Most people don’t even have good relationships with themselves

If a girl doesn't show interest in me I won't show interest in her. I prepared to die alone.

@jaybrick8973

3 жыл бұрын

Same with me every single women ive been involved with they showed interest in me first

He said “headache free dating” 😂😂😂 #facts

When Kim K started taking her own pictures and posting mostly her face and body, psychology papers have been written on the topic. And only now men are discovering these women might be vain and self-centered?

Great video. I’ve seen guys assume a woman was feminine just because she was super attractive and then after they got to know her they were like “no she’s like a man in heels.” This is why getting to know people is so important.

Not sure how many women will agree with this but I DO!!! There are baddies, who are educated, kind and don’t need all the extra stuff and can value the simple things in life and live in the moment! We do exist

most attractive models don't have much of a personality anyway

@mrcarterfx885

3 жыл бұрын

Facts

@nicolehazel4466

3 жыл бұрын

Some beautiful women have a personality, I know, I worked with one and she is a Doctor, and she would have her ward dying of laughter because she is funny and actually kind. She was raised to be proud of herself and where she came from. I think the difference with her is that she was never taught to sell her sex for profit.

@mike0800000

3 жыл бұрын

I’m a model and I do. Don’t be so quick to judge

@Jaslath

3 жыл бұрын

@@nicolehazel4466 "Some beautiful women have a personality" attractive models are beautiful women but not all beautiful women are attractive models.

@punchn9001

3 жыл бұрын

Very true

"Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised." Proverbs 31:30 Some ate dessert before dinner, where their appetite for stability via an authentic relationship is ruined. Leave them for the streets, as their feet rarely stay home.

PREACH KING!!!! Where have you been the last 3 years of my life? More of these great brothers need to hear this. 👏🏽💯👏🏽💯👏🏽💯👏🏽💯👏🏽💯

You want to know why? Well, I consider myself as a Beautiful woman, 15 years ago I was a brat, I expected the red carpet to be rolled out, I felt I was better than everyone, men flocked all over me, until I met life head on. Let me tell you, life has humbled me with many trials. God literally made me fall to my feet with life learning lessons. These woman haven’t experienced it yet, which is why many are not humble. Trust me, only through experience will you become a better person, then you realize how vanity isn’t important. That valuing life and others is more important.

Men need to respect themselves more……that is real talk

Many very beautiful people who make a living off of being beautiful have underdeveloped personalities. Because they often leverage their looks to deal with problems. Realize that some people aren’t “down to earth” and they don’t have to be.

As a woman I appreciate you for clarifying, I may not be super model beautiful but I notice when convenient some men that are bitter about their situation will lump all woman in one category when convenient while at the same time pursuing these shallow woman .. thank you for that

Brilliant!!! It’s so good to hear a brother speaking like this!!! Blesya🙏🏽

Dated one, she was insecure and always thinking i would cheat even when i showed no notion to do so. She was never satisfied and always asking for more, i let alot slide because she was beautiful but one day I had enough and broke it off and never going back regardless of how hot she is, almost married her and thank God I didn't.

@doranyahsharahla7262

3 жыл бұрын

James II Dodge a bullet my guy hey try the Lord it’s more power in him

@Orgizo08

3 жыл бұрын

Props to you walking away from her. That’s not easy!

@TopFlightSecurity415

3 жыл бұрын

Well you know the sayin "for every beautiful woman there is a man that is tired of her shit"

@doranyahsharahla7262

3 жыл бұрын

Vianna Janelle No problem cutie it’s my job.

@UltimateD755

3 жыл бұрын

Letting things slide is dangerous

Yeahhhhhhh 90% of these dude will still thirst and if they can afford it get one

@snowboardman420

3 жыл бұрын

Those guys won't be able to afford it for long though

@bkwcanton5615

3 жыл бұрын

So true!! Lol!!😂

@kendallbrickssmith9945

3 жыл бұрын

Right!

The thing is we as women need to have high standards. Because most of the time good women are taken for granted.

@Meeounn

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly. A lot of good women ride the struggle love bus and end up getting left after supporting the guy. 🤦🏻‍♀️

@bg4843

3 жыл бұрын

Sophie Lee YUP going through that. First and last time doing that. Raise your standards ladies!

Great video Hafeez. This topic definitely needed to be broken down for many! Thank you for going deep.

Before you listen to this; I wanted to tell you, that you are beautiful and exceptional. Also your a phenomenal human being; I love you and I hope positive experiences will start happening in your life, if they haven't already. Keep moving forward my friend; start adopting positive and beneficial habits & behaviors. Eat healthy and treat yourself with kindness, in addition to others also. Fair well my friend; God Bless you 💖

This is facts most ig models are conceited and not good partners

@Ejr82u

3 жыл бұрын

All women showing their body on there or to many selfies it says a lot right?

@Shogun636

3 жыл бұрын

They’re Decepticons as well

@GoldGollum

3 жыл бұрын

@@Shogun636 And beauty always fade away with time...

@LuvKitKatt

3 жыл бұрын

@@GoldGollum this is what I always say

@Jessicawatt521

3 жыл бұрын

WOW.

Whoa. When named these 5 traits I got emotional. I just think about the things I’m after as a person and a wife. Man, I could be so much more, ya know? Thanks man.

I completely agree. I’m slowly weening myself off social media. I’ve realized it doesn’t make me happy and makes me insecure. I feel like so many people look for approval via social media and I’m just over it. I’m hoping to be completely done with social media by the end of year but I still go on for like an hour a day. We need to put the down the phones and work on our character and aspirations.

Good advice young man! Looks are important but character is so much more important. Do you want only a woman that is built body wise or do you want a woman built to last for a relationship that adds value to your life. Great advice for both genders, thx for sharing!

@doranyahsharahla7262

3 жыл бұрын

Beginning to think once they know their looks are nice the character leaves

@twistsnkicks

3 жыл бұрын

Why can't I have both?

@thenameisjohncena2005

3 жыл бұрын

Here I was thinking that the fact that looks doesn't equal personality was kind of obvious, but apparently not

Its crazy how broke these insta models actually are. Everything the get is from guys who flew them out to get railed. The only thing they invest in is their looks and when those fade they will have no personality to fall back on.

@rahsaantalley2012

3 жыл бұрын

In Arabia i believe

@briankenome

3 жыл бұрын

Alot of them look confident on picture but have low self esteem

@nwk-wt3ty

3 жыл бұрын

Lol yeah. Gotta wonder who is actually taking those pictures in Dubai.

He is speaking the TRUTH and dropping some major gems! Listen up fellas! 👏🏽👏🏽

Can I say this is the best conversation ever. Thank you so much for this video.

Don't turn an IG model into a girlfriend!!

@JLricas

3 жыл бұрын

Or a bf

Really appreciate this content, you guys have done an amazing job. I'm a relationship and dating coach now based in Jamaica. And these men need this information and serious counseling. Keep up the great work.

Just found this message. You preached on this Sunday Brotha. TY!

Thank you sonny! I’m so glad to see and hear an intelligent, grounded young man talking this way. Preach son! PREACH!

There’s a girl that hit me up the other day on Instagram,,, she’s not a model or anything but shes a baddie... left her on read... I’ve hung out with her a couple times in the past, and it was so boring. Dry conversations, no chemistry. Hate that

@enadine6405

3 жыл бұрын

You could have been nice to her and just been honest and said u were not interested tbh. If she aint treat u bad she dont deserve the disrespect tbh

@SWIFTzTrigger

3 жыл бұрын

@@enadine6405 Nah ghosting is good to put her ego in check... Its healthy for her.

@enadine6405

3 жыл бұрын

@@SWIFTzTrigger Nah. You can check someone if they need to be checked and you can do it respectfully so. Quite frankly I dont think she lost out on this dude. Thats just an ass move. Just admit you didnt have the balls to say sorry not interested. I personally view people like that as a waste of time.

@SWIFTzTrigger

3 жыл бұрын

@@enadine6405 There was a study that showed women ghost twice as much as men do. She likely ghosted many men before and I'm sure you have too. I didn't do it before I'd always say I wasn't interested. but virtually all dudes I knew got ghosted. I then thought, this must be how women express lack of interest. Eventually you find yourself doing it too. I think this is that "what you put out there can come back to bite you" scenario. If mostly women ghost then its them that created this environment. Men just replying in kind. This dude also leaving her on read is something he learnt from a woman. I guarantee it. Generally men aren't petty like this naturally. Just giving back what we get.

@enadine6405

3 жыл бұрын

@@SWIFTzTrigger Lol who cares if he learned it from a woman? Or from his friends? His bad decisions are his to take responsability for? You dont know if shes done that before? And if she treated him individually with respect, he needed to do the same period. Thats like saying most men cheat, and then women cheating on all men and saying "hey learned it from a man". Its absolving responsability. Ig you wanna be a shitty person go ahead, bit dont blame it on others. People that think like you are what creates a never ending cycle of hurting innocent people. Ive been treated well and badly. The ppl I got treated badly by where just shitty and I didnt and hasnt done anything to them or anyone. Also Psychology has proven ghosting is highly detrimental for society and people psycjologically. There have been multiple studies done on it. Just cause someone punched you a few months back doesnt mean you should punch a stranger, that is how flawed your logic is. I am only mean if a guy is mean to me. If not, I am respectful period cause thats what decent ppl do. Fucks sake.

That concert story is wild. I go out of my way to show you I’m listening to what you like and I value you, and the first thing you say is “if you didn’t get backstage I’m not going”. That’s wraps lol goodbye

This channel is elite you’re out here doing gods work bro

Your advice is straight on and gave me positive reinforcement of my own thoughts, only with greater clarity. Thank you.

I've dated 3 "IG models" not famous ones but still these typical model/influencer types. All 3 were the worst relationships I've been in...they're generally not worth it. A genuine connection is everything and it's hard to find with these types because they're often so self obsessed to even remotely care about you.

I deleted Instagram almost 4 years ago. Life is golden ⭐️

🙌🏾💓 I'm so glad you spoke on this!!? 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

Beautifully put my brother. Epic indeed. This was a great topic.

Yep...deleted my Instagram. One of the best social media decisions of my life. Good stuff!

Great topic , I was dicussing this topic with a female friend two weeks ago . About how people attach positive character traits to strangers who they find attractive . I find it to be a form of poor social skills because if you meet a lot of people .You will start to be see that's not true. Infact women have 5 types of physical beauty let me break it down : 1) Photogenic beauty 2) Beauty from a distance or mirage beauty 3) Beauty from upclose or face to face 4) Natural Beauty ( without makeup , eye lashes, hair wigs and etc) 5) Butt naked beauty or bedroom beauty . You need to see the full range before , you can actually go like this girl is physical attractive . I think even when , I didn't know the neurological damage Instagram had on people's brains especially women . I guess , I never like the idea of liking and sending DM's to women I didn't know . I'm old school , I physically cold approach women in real life . 99% of this Instagram models are totally insecure about their looks , otherwise why would you be selling yourself in a sexual way . It's simple their need male validation to make themselves feel good . It's an addiction and their simply not dating material their fuck dolls . Plain and simple !!

Brother, seriously, you absolutely nailed this one. Wow. On so many levels you got it right. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Preach! Young brother, excellent video!Mad respect!

I just deleted my ig and Facebook earlier this morning. it soo dangerous. As a woman feeling less pretty because I think all this photoshop bodies looks better than mine. Nope we are all pretty, and beautiful. Social media is just insane

Good reminders. Thank you for bringing us back down to earth

Excellent truthful advice!!!! Keep teaching great advice like this to men. We are living in such a superficial society.

Instagram makes girls weird, I had a girl I use to work with obsessed with me but when I follow her she didn’t respond. Like they become so fake

Social media has ruined society as a whole

Glad you put this out, because so many hear the word Attraction and automatically assume that the standard of beauty is based on the outer appearance.

Shout out from South Africa, I love your podcast man. Keep spreading that knowledge bro!

Read the bible, Proverbs 5.... don't go near the door of her house.

@thediabolicalempath7246

3 жыл бұрын

Proverbs five verse three “For the lips of the forbidden woman drip honey; Her mouth is smoother than oil.”

@sagesports7724

3 жыл бұрын

This lady speaks language of the gods

@alnotbiggaytho7124

3 жыл бұрын

@@sagesports7724 ironic cause it's a (kinda)monotheistic book

@sagesports7724

3 жыл бұрын

@@alnotbiggaytho7124 😂you make sense