At 15 years old, the enemy knew that you are going to stand in front of many people and he tried to stop it as early as possible. The enemy lost because what he never knew is the very brave Joy inside of you. The amount of opposition and pain you had is equivalent to multiple people you draw to Christ. I am blessed by how brave you are! Bless your heart and blessings to you family!

I thank you Joy for your test that became a testimony for the Lord.I also was a rape victim.In my whole life I been carrying a baggage and resentment toward my abuser even to point that it affected our marriage because I kept it a secret to my husband.I could not tell him the truth because I was afraid that he would judge me.I was a new christian then and my husband as well.We are both growing in our walk.But everytime we had contact with each other as husband and wife I would have that flasback of the abuse and I was so traumatized by the abuse.I never had family to talk to.Thankfully,one day I ask God to give me the courage to tell my husband the truth.And whatever the outcome of my confession I gave it to God.I was amazed of God's amazing grace coz my husband not only he accept me he also did not judge me instead he told me that whatever happened to me is not my fault and what touches my very heart was that he said " I he will love me unconditionally and if I never loved before he will give all his love for me.I thank God that my husband is a very special man that was sent from heaven by our Almighty God.To God be the glory.

@snehalatamanpadale6893

7 ай бұрын

Thanks for encouraging testimony.God is good all' the time

My childhood is very Painful. No happiness, No Peace.. God.is so good to me after the Tragedy..Praise the Lord.

Forgiving those who hurt us is a great gift from God...it shows that you allow God's power to shine on you.....your decision to forgive is divine.....God bless you and family...

Joy you are very brave and inspite of that ordeal you have that forgiveness in heart and never blame the Lord, instead you trust God's plan for you. God bless you and your family.💖

I praise God for He is Good for He teach us fo forgive and teach us to Love despite of everything. This world is a fallen world and cruel world. But we have Jesus by our side we have Enternal life when we put our faith in Him. .

Learning all a New About FORGIVENESS 📖

Toni Gonzaga x Joy Mendoza ❤🙏🏻 #tonitalks

@vilnongque2262

3 жыл бұрын

Yes meron na sila Watch it! 😍

Thank you for sharing, Miss Joy.

Thank you for sharing your story miss joy. I was also abused with my uncle, when i was 19 years old. Wala akong pinagsabihan sa nangyari, kasi i feel like, napakadumi kona and nakakahiya sa mga tao Especially sa parents ko, and ayuko din na masira at magulo ang magandang pagsasama ng family at nga relatives ko, i kept it for myself until now that im already 30. Ung uncle ko, nag aact sya na parang nothing happened, at ganun din naman ako, nakikipagusap ako pag kinakausap niya ko, pinapakita ko sa kanya na wala na saakin yun, pero deep inside pagnakikita ko sya bumabalik lahat sa alala ko ang ginawa niyang pananamantala sakin, at kung ano man yung pinapakita ko sa kanya pag kaharap sya ay kabaliktaran ng nararamdaman ko, to the point na gusto ko na siyang mamatay. Pero dahil po sa shinare niyong story, i will try to forgive him,and hayaan nalang po si god, na iclear ang mind at soul niya para d na sya makagawa ng gingawa niya dati at may pabiktima pang iba.

@nitro_jin_536

Жыл бұрын

We have the same story. Mine was done by my grandfather. I never tell my mother and father until now. But my bestfriend knows. I was able to forgive him because I have someone who listens to me without judgement. It feels good to be free from the pain and anger. God bless you.

@hearlize7339

Жыл бұрын

Pray about it. I hope he never did that to anyone else. I hope you can talk to him one on one and tell him you are not ok with it, the memories are still there, but you forgive him. Because you deserve to free yourself from the baggage. Para po marealize nia na he did wrong and was forgiven. Just like how God is with us. 🥹🙏 praying for yoou

I can just imagine now, maybe , those robbers can now heard your testimony and accepted Christ as their Lord and Saviour.

You are a brave girl. God bless you & be blessed

A powerful testimony thank u for sharing

she is guided by the holy spirit of here life coz dspite of bad things happine to here the love and her faith its just sourthing deep in her soul thats why she is healed of her pain. trough belivieng never change that God is good dspite of she is rape vectim. she won.of a victory.like christ jesus on.the cross hallelluajh to the highes

THANK YOU JOY AT LEAST YOU FOUND THE GOD BLESS

God bless, ms Joy

My idol

Amen!

God bless you sis. Joy Mendoza 🙏

Please do pray for my daughters

Chose to believe...🎉

😢😢😢😢 God bless 🤗🤗🤗

May Hod strengthen you dear

And to sir Edric👍

😢

Pastor Peter Tan-Chi's daughter, as well as her friends "Irene" and "Lana", in the early 1990's were reportedly raped in Manila by seven men who were then robbing the Tan-Chi residence (in Antipolo's Valley Golf gated community, of all places!). This incident would have then taken place at around the same time as the Maureen Hultman murder in 1991, and in similar residences, since Hultman lived in the exclusive gated community of Dasmarinas Village, similar to Valley Golf. Further comparison to Maureen Hultman, who had an Irish father, is that Joy Tan-Chi (now Mendoza) has an American mother, that would have made this a high profile crime, and could have gotten strong support from the US embassy. Moreover, "Irene" and "Lana" were from expatriate missionary families from the United States. Even though the Tan-Chi's said the police were able to identify and apparently apprehend at least some of the robbers, their family chose to let it go, to not file a case against them, and just "forgive" them. This was supposedly to protect her from "more emotional damage". Regarding the families of "Irene" and "Lana", did they also just chose to "forgive" the robber-rapists and not file a case against them?? Didn't the Tan-Chi's, as well as families of "Irene" and "Lana", ever even consider that these "robber-rapists" may have victimized others in the past and could victimize others in the future? The "robbery-rape" is a key part of the Tan-Chi's Christian testimony that helped grow the CCF network of churches. Why are there apparently no news articles at around the time reporting the crime? Why are the only visible sources online that the robbery and rape ever happened are the claims of the Tan-Chi's, made many years later? Joy Tan-Chi Mendoza wrote a book ("When a Good God Allows Rape", OMF Publications, 2015) lacking many details of the event. Things just don't seem to add up.

GOD 🙏 bless you You are such an inspiration like me A rape victim too

I am mad!!!!! 😭😡

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