What are your thoughts on matchmaking? How did you find your loved one? :) Hit that like button!

@maryannlockwood7806

11 ай бұрын

My hubby & I were set up on a blind date. 😊

@AndrewGold1

11 ай бұрын

@@maryannlockwood7806 that is cool!!

@bluetoad2668

11 ай бұрын

Sounds like a cult to me

@AllyOnHerbs

11 ай бұрын

As a mum of three boys 20,18,15 The older I get the more I can see the value of arranged marriages! Totally convinced I could find a life partner for my young men better than they could. After all I have been on the planet for over 50 yrs and wiser (I hope) for it.….. Now I just have to convince them. 😅

@joliepam

11 ай бұрын

​@@bluetoad2668 Nope, there are sects inside judaism, but it's not a cult.

I just adore her approach to matchmaking and her understanding of love and partnership. She is really the best!

I really admire aleeza's commitment to seeing the best in people. Next time I'm tempted to judge, criticize or gossip I'm going to think of her example 💜

I'm not Jewish but grew up in a Jewish family and interacted with the orthodox community, Aleeza represents the best of it for sure. Love this lady!

@user-je1cu2lt5d

11 ай бұрын

If you grew up in a Jewish family, you cannot be non-Jewish. You may not be a religious Jew, but Judaism is both a religion and a nationality. You can stop being part of the religion, but you can't change your nationality.

@jdjones4825

11 ай бұрын

​@@user-je1cu2lt5d Jewish is more of a culture , not a nation/race.

@Miaow610

11 ай бұрын

@@user-je1cu2lt5d I was never part of the Jewish religion though. My mum married a Jewish man, I had Jewish step-siblings and extended family, most of my friends growing up were Jewish. We had friday night dinners, went to countless bar/bat mitzvahs, but my mum never converted and neither did I. I am Singaporean-Chinese ethnically and have British nationality. We celebrated both Hanukkah and Chinese New Year.

@shonabeggs4640

10 ай бұрын

​@@user-je1cu2lt5dIt's not a nationality at all. It's an ethnicity. Was that a deliberate obfuscation or don't you know the difference?

@shonabeggs4640

10 ай бұрын

​@@jdjones4825it is a race.

I am not Jewish and I fell for a Jewish guy, with an understanding that it will never happen. I always remember the line from The Fiddler on the Roof: „A bird can love a fish, but where will they build their home?”

@thatgirl3960

7 ай бұрын

I feel your heartbreak!

I think this is much better than having parents making decisions about who their kids marry. The people who use this service can always say "no, that's not the one for me."

Andrew, I pray that you read this message. I just reached the part where you say that you are envious of the lady because she's a believer. I was moved by that, and so I want to share with you what my mother did for me, which brought my faith back stronger than ever. I was an atheist for 5 years and I had reached a very dark time in my life. My mother challenged me to get down on my knees on New Year's Eve and to pray to God. It was a simple prayer, something along the lines of "God, if you are real and if you can hear me, please make yourself known to me." I didn't feel any immense immediate change, but I felt a subtle peace. I continued doing this every day for almost 10 years now, and gradually my experience of knowing God became undeniable to the point where I can truly rely on Him and His guidance. So perhaps try that. It will feel strange at first, you may feel as if you're speaking into a void... But perhaps a soft presence will begin to glow in your life until one day you too will become convinced that the living God is real. I pray that this happens for you so that you experience what so many of your people have been experiencing for millennia :)

I was raised Mormon. My husband was raised Muslim. My family took issue with it, but his didn't. We have 2 kids and have been married for 10 years. Our approach to both of our religious traditions (neither of us believe anymore) are very similar. Had someone tried to set me up with a Mormon man, I don't think I would have been nearly as happy.

@sngray11

11 ай бұрын

Similar for my fiancé and I. We have been together almost eight years and he was raised Jewish and I was raised in a Christian family. Both of us are by choice spiritual and not religious and he is my friend, soulmate, love of my life, etc. I don’t think I would be nearly as happy if I had been paired with a Christian man.

@lliselsolis4456

9 ай бұрын

Love is love. Period ❤

I am totally with her. In our younger years we tend to overlook things because we are in lust that we think is love. In older years there is still lust, but we look deeper into the heart, mind, as well as habits, work ethic, what one does in spare time. My husband & I like the same music, movies, & have so much in common such as background.

The crossover I didn’t know I wanted but that I LOVE

@evelineg.1841

11 ай бұрын

The crossover between...?

@PhilomenaSK

11 ай бұрын

@@evelineg.1841Jewish Matchmaking from TLC and Andrew of course

I love this lady so much- she's wise and insightful. Well done getting her on, Andrew. My fave interview for some time. Cheers from Celia in Australia.x

Love this show👏👏👏. Fantastic guest!!! Thanks for bringing such an amazing message

@paulchristian7693

10 ай бұрын

Positive information I think it is better than casual ,superficial, dating with strangers. 🥰

My wife is Jewish. Having different holidays means we get to spend Christmas with my family and Hanukkah with hers

@sngray11

11 ай бұрын

That is what my fiancé and I do as well. 💗

@sngray11

11 ай бұрын

@@Mimi-uv2nhI totally and completely agree.

I’ve often heard you say that you don’t look Jewish. I’m an Ashkenazi Jew from New York City. You look nothing but Jewish to me. We are all cousins, you know. We all look like each other.

I met my husband at 17, we married 4 years later. 3 children, 55 years married, am I just lucky? Not really as I’ve just lost him,and miss him so much!

I love her. I have been married for 42 years and totally agree with her outlook. Love the part of 1 + 1 = 1. Yes!!!!

@TheNinnyfee

11 ай бұрын

Yes, you serve the relationship, that's what most people aren't aware of.

Great episode. She's an inspiring woman doing wonderful work for the world.

@shonabeggs4640

10 ай бұрын

For the world, Or for her group?

Love Aleeza. She's incredibly likeable. Just couldn't help but wish that you push back on the marriage success stats, there are many confounding factors to those statics, like social norms, shunning, family (more religious=more kids = needing to stay married), and many more, all of which would also hold true for historical marriage statistics. Regardless, Aleeza is awesome ❤

@bluetoad2668

10 ай бұрын

His bias prevents any pushback unfortunately.

Just because religious couples have a lower divorce rate doesnt necessarily mean theyre happier. If you dont believe in divorce and you just suffer thru life with a person are we really gonna say thats successful

@juanitamartins

11 ай бұрын

Perfect point. Also, the divorce rates grew with more woman independency.

@chatisawasteoftime

5 ай бұрын

Same goes for irreligious couples. Not all unhappy couples get divorced.

@ashleigh9659

5 ай бұрын

@@chatisawasteoftime whose saying those marriages are successful?

Aww,this one really made me want a matchmaker for atheists that's as lovely as this.

Crikey bobs! I met my man 1968 and married in 1972, still with him... We were drawn towards each other no third party involved.. This is a whole new world to me.

My spouse and I are secular but have been happily married for over 40 years.

First of all, this was amazing. I loved Aleeza's vibe instantly - so much so that I'm thinking of paying for Netflix just to see her show. What an intriguing and interesting interview! I wouldn't mind going through a matchmaker. I'm nearly 49, never had a spouse, and my last partner (we were engaged long distance, then he called to tell me he cheated & he was going to marry her instead. And he did.) broke up with me in 2002. As a confirmed introvert and someone who currently is dealing with some physical disability issues, a matchmaker would be a great tool to have available for someone like me. Also, your partner's from Argentina?? That's where I did my first exchange student experience! Loved it and I've been homesick for it ever since. If there's any chance she's from Resistencia, in Chaco province, that's my adopted hometown. :) ANYWAY - great interview. I don't know how you come up with your topics and find your people, but this is another slam dunk, Andrew. ❤👏👏👏💯

Matchmaker, Matchmaker, Make me a match, Find me a find, catch me a catch Matchmaker, Matchmaker Look through your book, And make me a perfect match

@OuryLN

11 ай бұрын

I was Hodel in a play

Interesting show. We have a saying in Denmark "Lige børn leger bedst" roughly translated equals are best matched. So yes, you DO have (imho) to have the same beliefs and foundation, to make a marriage work. Morally, spiritually and the way you want to raise your children are huge topics, where there must be on common ground.

@BlackStump172

11 ай бұрын

You need a similar moral and ethical base .

Oh, @AleezaBenShalom. You are truly blessed/gifted. To watch @AndrewGold open up to you was such a sweet experience.

not everyone 'should' get married.

Many arranged marriages are enforced upon females who are not allowed to leave even when abused. So I do not agree with the comment that arranged marriages are fair, look @ the stats now and historically to see how many women can’t divorce or they lose their children, are shunned from their communities, are beaten into submission, who weep on their wedding day, who as teens are married to a man 40+ years older. 👵🏽X👵🏻🇬🇧

I love her! She is the most sensible woman I've had the pleasure to hear. She makes sense for all religions. What a wonderful human being. Oh, and I'm not Jewish. 💙

@shonabeggs4640

10 ай бұрын

If you ' love her ' why didn't you listen to what she had to say instead of blowing smoke up her?. It has nothing to do with religion. It's overtly racist, that's all that matters - race. But only for her group. Listen to her own words from 10:56 on that piece of land she lives on that magically grows year on year is an ethno state - enshrined in law. Meanwhile she rubs her hands telling you for every other group go ahead and mix ' Christian + Christian, Hindu + Hindu, Muslim + Muslim They can and are made up of people of various ethnicities and races. Pure racism!. Meanwhile in old YT land Anne Boleyn must be black!, we must overflow with every other colour. Our people on the streets but an army of men living in plush hotels. GTF with your nonsense, you 'love her' your father failed at the most important task he was ever set.

I’ve read several studies showing there is little differences in divorce rates between religious and secular couples.

What an interesting woman Philosopher for sure

I enjoyed the repartee, wonderful guest Andrew. Thank you.

It's devine you ended up with Jewish 😂🎉funny 😂❤❤❤❤

My Father in law told my Jewish husband if he married me " not jewish" He'd be disinherited. My husband didn't go with that we've been together for 36 yrs

Oy Gevalt, Andrew! ❤ Your Channel & Content.....

I would try it, better than Tinder

@cassandra5390

11 ай бұрын

probably by far a safer bet than an app like tender, absolutely correct, those apps can be downright scary.

@DJW1981

11 ай бұрын

Tider has done massive damage to dating. Apps in general are terrible and lead to people having really skewed views of how attractive they may or may not be.

I love your Channel! Sharing these videos with my Sister and Mom . You're always so respectful and appropriate, I'm totally confident sharing your channel with them

I could use a good yenta, lol! Emphasis on “good”…

@courtneyawalsh

11 ай бұрын

Not Jewish though so that probably matters, lol.

@timgreenglass

11 ай бұрын

@@courtneyawalsh you can rent-a-yenta in some cities

Ah she seems lovely, I'd go for coffee with Aleeza.🙂 I agree, values need to be the same. But maybe opposites in terms of introvert / extrovert.

I could do with a matchmaker too

Aleeza is so lovely, she is the best thing about the Jewish Match Maker Netflix series - I'm sure the production team chose quite fussy participants for 'entertainment value' - Aleeza is so patient and cheerful with them I don't know how she does it! Looking forward to the next series for the outcomes of her matchmaking.

I'm a fan of the show😊and i'm Roman Catholic. We believe that faith is a gift and research

This was a great show. Very interesting. Aleeza has a great way about her. I agree with her about love and the spiritual connection. However, I do think intermarriage can work. I grew up as a Presbyterian, my brother married a Jewish woman with an Israeli dad, and they're still married after 25 years with 2 kids and happy. I set up a Jewish ex-boyfriend of mine with a Catholic girlfriend of mine, and they're still married 15 years later. I married another Gentile and got divorced after 9 years, with no kids, even though I wanted them but knew it would have been a bad idea. In one way what Aleeza says is depressing in my situation, LOL but I fundamentally agree with her about the importance of family. Thanks for having her on.

@shonabeggs4640

10 ай бұрын

Sickening. I'm so glad you didn't have children, they'd have been othered.

@susanblake9946

10 ай бұрын

That's a very offensive thing to say--I hope you got a rush from your moral indignation, Shona. Fortunately, the insult is mitigated by your lack of critical thinking skills. You should read Ayn Rand and Malcolm X. @@shonabeggs4640

Jewbu ha ha, If I were Jewish, I would want to marry another Jewish person. It's less hassle. You don't want to be arguing over christenings, schools, first communions, confirmations et cetera. It makes sense, my x was so athiest it was EXHAUASTING, he wouldn't go along with anything just because it was cultural. Drove me mad and it's not like I'm a big believer, but he made a religion out of being Athiest.

Aleeza is the sweetest person! She has such a romantic view of the world. I may not share that view, but it's nice to see a genuinely kind person. I met my partner online 5 years ago, people say we're made for each other

Wonderful interview! Congratulations for your engagment Andrew!

I believe in a soul but i didnt feel like i was more likely to settle long term with a jewish person based on the ones ive met. Im settled with 2 children and ive been with my partner for longer than my mum was married to my dad. I think where matchmaking is most useful is the ultra orthadox community where its essential due to their lifestyle.

Andrew, I can relate to this @18:30 ! Glad to hear you found your person and don’t have that worry anymore.

@joliepam

11 ай бұрын

Me too 😔

Your home is the world. Whatever happens in yr home affects the world. It all comes from the 2 people who marry and then have a family: Everything depends on how the mother & father bring up their children: what that means how the Mother & Father interact between themselves, the children are watching you, listening to you... they are learning from you both, how to become the future mothers & fathers!

True , marriage is difficult So having the same religion is a huge huge huge plus in a marriage

Amazing interview so interesting and she makes a lot of sense . People wait to get married until after 30 they are running out of time for children,after age 35 babies can be born with more birth defects & pregnancy is often harder on the mother the longer past age 35. Also once you have done everything for yourself for 35 years now you have to split your time with a partner & children.

@BlackStump172

11 ай бұрын

I agree . You are more set in your ways and less tolerant if differences .

Great episode Andrew.

Grats on you guys' engagement! Happy for yall!!!

I spent 12 years building a beautiful home, and then he left me for his secretary.

@hemera73

11 ай бұрын

hope you can rebuild yourself, he did not deserve you longer ❤

@JoSpring

11 ай бұрын

@@hemera73 you know I really cared about him and if he wouldn't of done it in such a shady way I think we could've been friends but I have pretty strong boundaries, so it really became a time of deep inner reflection for me and I'm grateful for it. 💞

This was so entertaining and fun to watch, so thank you!

Young People, listen to her. Don’t miss your chance to find the true meaning in life of living and loving in a family community. I’m 70 yrs old and have been blessed with this - 8 grandchildren. But I could have easily missed it. It’s worth any sacrifice you may have to make. But marry what i call a “good-willed” person and someone like-minded in your belief system. You can get thru anything if you do. And you will be so glad when you are old that you have this equity.

A while ago i spoke with a matchmaking agency in London who wanted £15k to find me someone. Absolutely crazy money. If it was more affordable id go for it. Unfortunately the Shul i go to does not have a Sidduch.

I love this woman!!! 😀❤

I really enjoyed this series as well.

A "yente" (יענטע) translates from Yiddish to mean, "gossiper." Hence the negativity around the term - the woman who used to try to set people up was the woman who knew what was what with everyone in the community because she was a big gossiper.

Very interesting! She was an amazing guest.

she is so lovely

I spent over two years @ start of the 80’s in Israel working on two Kibbutzim and when I had to leave suffered severe depression as I wanted to stay forever, unfortunately I was not Jewish and had no chance @ being accepted. Kibbutz + Moshav are just 3% of Israel’s population but their communities as a youngster made me feel the inclusivity + working together the nearest to equality + seemed to work. I am against communism, Marxism, Fascism and what we are experiencing today (equal to the fall of the Roman Empire?) Jews rarely marry non-Jews which I feel is sad. The Hasidic etc are a different group, religious ideological radicals are certainly not my cup of tea! 👵🏽X👵🏻🇬🇧

She puts the sun into sunny 🌞

I absolutely love this show! You’re wonderful, I love the people you chose to present. This is wonderful!

There is a vast difference between the Matchmaking style that Aleeza uses and Forced Arranged marriages that some Cultures employ. I enjoyed her series on Netflix and look forward to the new season. Great interview Andrew - the Indian Matchmaker Netflix series is interesting too.

I do disagree with her statement that everyone should get married. That being said, I love her approach.

'Gossip' is a very important function of society, it's how you find out how other people are viewed by your peers, it informs you of traits and behaviours that are viewed both positively and negatively by your particular group.

@ranchoboomerang

11 ай бұрын

If you look up the definition of gossip, it's not something people should casually do. It's a destructive activity.

@Faeriedarke

11 ай бұрын

@@ranchoboomerang which is why I put the word in inverted commas. I'm talking about the practise of 'casually speaking about other people', both positively and negatively. Almost everyone does it, it isn't usually malicious.

@krystle4248

11 ай бұрын

​@@Faeriedarkewhat are inverted commas for.

My friend’s daughter went on the internet I think she use ‘Jew date’found a good match. Happily married for 20 years. 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨

What a great conversation. Really got me thinking. Love this woman.

My Uncle, who is Catholic, married a Jewish woman and their son observes both Judaism and Christianity. It bothers nobody. Of course, this is in the United States. In Israel, it might raise some eyebrows.

The idea of having the same holidays as your spouse isn't necessarily a good thing. If you have different holidays, you can divide times up between the inlaws better. Lol

WOW!! Aleeza is spot on!!

Gossip in a Jewish context is actually forbidden. There are a set of rules that guide people to guard their speech.

The demonization of gossip actually comes from sexism. In ancient times, people were intimidated by women who knew a lot about the people in their community. Thus, I’m with the host on the idea that “gossiping” is natural, human, and NEEDED. Women often abstain from exposing a creep in the workplace, for example, because they fear being called a gossip or a troublemaker. I hope Aleeza develops more of an open mind regarding the way people communicate, and how ancient sexism can influence how we see certain behaviors. That being said, seems cheerful, fun, and smart!

Andrew ..you know what it means to be Jewish!! As soon as I saw you, heard you and saw your name, as a London Jew I knew you were Jewish immediately! Your cultural heritage and historical ancestry are the same as mine! That's what makes you Jewish

@shonabeggs4640

10 ай бұрын

His surname didn't give it away 🙄

@user-xu8su1xq3e

4 ай бұрын

​@@shonabeggs4640 To the contrary , Gold is more often than not a contraction of Goldstein , anglicized during the 2nd World war era when antisemitism was becoming stronger worldwide

@shonabeggs4640

4 ай бұрын

@@user-xu8su1xq3e We recognise one immediately.

This was so interesting- this lady speaks a lot of sense! I think I might like to have a matchmaker!

Great podcast! Really like Aleeza 😁. I’m just wondering though why you chose the picture you did to put on the video? Unless it’s something I missed as I was multi tasking at first.

I loved this realty show on Netflix and enjoyed Lisa’s personality- I hope if there is another season the guy , I believes he’s in Utah ( he has a son in Israel ) finds a soul mate -

Yes please to changing family life - in fact I said the same thing recently ie build up/change the family life and you change the outside world🏡 Andrew I love your programs and, btw you are all heart & soul you just dont know it yet😄🤗Thanks for this Much Love👏❤

Great discussion full of good questions, and this guest was so warm and positive. I wish I'd heard this discussion long ago, before losing a wonderful relationship which would be thriving today had I known better how to nurture it.

Fantastic interview!

This was very enjoyable, insightful and full of ‘sage’ advice. Thank you

Andrew speaking about people accusing him of being a gossip brought to mind a hilarious mental picture of him laying a bed, painting his nails, phone pinned between his shoulder and his ear…😂🤣

It's not about how it can work, but about what to do when it doesn't work. I married Peter because I wanted to build a life with him and giving the children a stable background. On top of that, my parents had a good marriage and I saw how they took over when one of them was sick - that's how it has to be, but nothing in my marriage worked as it should and when I decided that things would only change if I worked on them, the environment started to stop me from doing that. Indeed, things work for thousands of years but not because they are good, but because women can solve problems without making them worse. It's important that people understand the basics of my ground plan and part of that is changing the must into can and the can't into don't have to. We all want a FUNCTIONAL life, being able to cope with our problems and being loved and respected for who we are. This is where the idea of having a 'nobody' beside our body comes in - what kind of person are you when there is no pressure from outside? My basic program is simple, but effective when the tooth looks allright but is rotten inside, and, if we change therapy (connected to the ba or the master) into supporting without bells and pomegranates, we would be much more honest about the situations we create when we don't feel free to do it our own way. Knowing that we don't believe in facts, but in testimonies, I offer the world my life as an example of the things I learned after the 'perfect storm'. Even talking about my intentions has changed the media - yeasterday, I saw a French documentary about an incest case in the north of France and I was oleasantly surprised. The Jewish lifestyle is 100% based on the ba, although they still use the idea of the female line. That can work, when everybody is respecting the rules and get a lecture when they don't, but the human being is an opportunistic creature and even that aspect became clear when I tried to clean up the mess 'in the house'. The 'tripod' skeleton is stable and mobile - nothing is good or bad without a common context and, using my own experiences, it's better to do the job yourself than letting a stranger decide what to change (outside control). 1. ka-ba-la as it should be used (and be careful not to take the ka for the ba and vice versa) ka = female & spiritual, the Teacher, Source ba = male & material, the Master, God la = body & nobody, the Pupil, Ego (as in I and nobody else) 2. TypeSCaPe represents the 5 levels of the process that has an inwards part and and outwards TPS (inwards) = Trends, Patterns, Strategies (Structures) -> more than 90 % of everything that happens is taking place on this level SCP (outwards) = System, Cycle, Processing the 'food' -> it's time to do the bigger job and getting out of the oppressed patterns that silence us when thing go wrong 3. The Humane Codex: one possesses for 100% one's own life, but ONLY one's own life. Since the actual juridical system is ba-based, we need a court system that is ka-besed to keep a healthy balance. The *Sanhedrin* is meant to fill that in, but (of course) this word is used for ba-related promises and we forgot the ka when we started to lie, cheat, and fight for things that made our life more comfortable. We still talk like the ka, but walk like the ba and that will never change, unless it hurts us badly on the collective level. Kies Boom En Ark - is an anagram of Karen Kiebooms, my 'house' is the Ark (Karen Anker) and the tree (boom) is a kaki-boom (the kaki of Nagasaki) ... Everything I do is on the SCP level and to be sure that I wasn't favoring my own 'club', everything I advice can be used by everybody, who needs it to understand his/her personal situation. I am MORE than the daughter of my father, the wife of my spouse, or the mother of my son(s) and my 'nobody' livs longer than my body because my children will remember me for my good lessons and not for my bad behaviour. That isn't too hard to understand, is it, I am just ONE person, living a complex life between my birth and death. Everything in my life prepared me for the JOB and when I'm ready, I have to make place for my next me that has a new mission. I built up a good reputation in my earlier lives and that should be the green card for trusting me on my word of honor, but it's still just one life that can make the difference and my hourglass has to be turned asap.

@karenkiebooms1373

11 ай бұрын

@@Mimi-uv2nh it's like PREPPING your dinners for the week to come ... on August 9. 2045, a time capsule will be given free on the internet and these kinds of comments (+ the reactions) will be used to explain what REALLY happened in 2011 ... I did my job, knowing that we only had ONE chance to do it right, but people were too concerned with teaching me a lesson and that's why it will be too late to chage the outcome. Is it the end of times or just a new beginning with loads of chances for those, who can at leas understand that everything has moved to the edge. My hourglass has to be turned asap and I already know that this will not be the end of Karen Kiebooms - my nobody (sofie - 356 - Taes) will have her own body and I will have my own corpse Not important yet, but things will shake harder than one expects (this is prepared for ages, don't even think that the idiots will have their victory (and when everybody is into the same mess, people will show their creative power again, not when nobody gives a shit!

@BlackStump172

11 ай бұрын

Your post was incomprehensible . Sorry , but I tried .

@shonabeggs4640

10 ай бұрын

You saw a documentary about a French incest case and were pleasantly surprised? And with no further clarification, I can presume you should never be around children.

@thatgirl3960

7 ай бұрын

Please get off the drugs you are using!

I'd convert if I could have AG.

There is very good point in a matchmaking.Or in having someone who is mediator between two people.If you don't like something or you just can't go further you will not tell in a face to a person what you don't like and explain to him or her what is wrong and offend him.You will tell it in a nice way to a matchmaker and she will explain it in a nice way to other side- person. And by the way matchmaker can be also some of your friends.Or someone who had a good idea.

Interesting how being a Jew is still not clear. It s a soul identity, so can’t see it phisically. And the soul comes from the mother being Jewish, hence maternal lineage matters. Or conversion. The way I learnt it is that marriage is a reunion of what was one soul before being born. And the reason intermarriage can’t work is because Jewish souls are uniquely Jewish and won’t be able to actually plug in not Jewish souls. G-d loves both Jewish and not Jewish souls, so no need to be jealous or excluded .

Birds of a feather flock together. Simple, stay with your own flick

This discussion was fascinating!,this is a truly beauty , if only more people could take this on. I can’t wanit

@shonabeggs4640

10 ай бұрын

Other people are not allowed to do this.

I love her show!

Mind you in traditional arranged marriages the match maker needs to be people focused and really passionate about it. If they're not switched on about people and relationships then it could also be a disaster. Just because someone is a leader doesn't mean they have the natural skills or interest in doing it. For some people its near enough is good enough, now lets do something more interesting and important. the matchmaker must consider that relationships and marriage is the most important thing and therefore arranging what will be successful marriages is vital.

The thing is not everyone can have a family or want one. Also not everyone can find life partner.

Very wise woman

Oops! I accidentally deleted my story of how I met my husband! Thanks to those who said they enjoyed it! This was a very interesting and informative video!

She councils too, which would be a great idea before marriage! Oh, and you can retain the Jewish part of you, and believe in Jesus Both the same and true God! ❤ Also, I met my husband "cruising" down a street in a car and pulled into an A&W restaurant for a root beer. I knew him for 3 years and married him at 19 and didn't really know him. BIG MISTAKE! Everything he promised me, such as fidelity, and honesty is a lie.But amazingly, I am still married to him 41 years later. Long story!

Andeew, did you use a matchmaker? 🙃

Islam doesn’t do arranged marriages, fact check please before you say that. We have the same as Jewish matchmaking that’s the “arranged” aspect but nothing is forced even if there is a minority of forced marriages unfortunately. The term has negative connotations but it’s not used in the right way. Hope this helps.

Great video, your guest was fantastic and very wise. I’ve been married nearly 53 years to a lapsed Catholic. All the subjects your guest covered about relationships and finding a partner are important things to sort out before a couple make a commitment. I’m 25% Ashkenazi Jew, for a joke I used to threaten my two daughters with a marriage maker. In the end they found the ‘right one’ on their own and are very happy. Thank you.

She is wonderful and I do agree.