I just published this video going deeper on career advice for INFJs and other Idealist types. I think you'll like it :) kzread.info/dash/bejne/aoGlzsVyaJzMmc4.html

@prasannatashinde7254

5 жыл бұрын

INFJs are hard to understand ,myself an INFj its like v have whole world in our heads. V really need our good time to figure out things.v r loving caring ppl. V try to assume everything most of time.v wan to bring change in world and v cn forget ourselves in the process more power to all INFJs.

@infj-tguy6275

2 жыл бұрын

Why? Because money, lots and lots of money, not to help this waste of a species

@infj-tguy6275

2 жыл бұрын

@@prasannatashinde7254 trying to make a lasting difference in humanity is completely useless any anyone who tries is a fool and is wasting their life because humanity will always be how it is right now and its impossible to change that unless you have Absolute power to force them to change

@infj-tguy6275

2 жыл бұрын

We live in a multi dimensional reality so earth very well might be flat in a different dimension, but not in this one unless there's an earth 2 idk about lol

Does anyone else find, being an INFJ, that it sometimes feels like your brain is going faster then your mouth which leads to messing up in your sentence and possibly social anxiety? I do lol.

@outher9319

6 жыл бұрын

INFJ brain is going faster then what comes out of others mouth.

@outher9319

6 жыл бұрын

This is why INFJ cuts off others when they are talking.

@DougornotMusic

6 жыл бұрын

misskaylee bugs I have that experience myself personally as an INFJ. Sometimes it is a problem while other times in other situations it benefits me tremendously. But never knowing which definitely causes some social anxiety no doubt.

@greatawakening6667

6 жыл бұрын

misskaylee bugs Yes, I also have issues with that. I've learned that if you run though situation in your mind that you commonly run into. Come up with pre-responses. Broad and Felixable statements.

@misskayleebugs

6 жыл бұрын

Joseph Reubart whenever someone comes up to me and I haven’t practiced a response in my brain I just get nervous and start stuttering so they think I’m just making up excuses when it’s the truth I just didn’t practice the response in my brain

My #1 INFJ tip - start a daily meditation practice. I could write a huge screed here, but really that's all. We INFJs go in many different directions, sometimes many directions at once. And we're good at it. Meditate regularly and 'bring it all back home'. Then you'll become effective like a laser.

@NathalieLazo

3 жыл бұрын

You explained this really well! Thanks for the great points about daily meditation practice! :) I'll remember this for next time!

@wanjawillimek676

2 жыл бұрын

Since I am an INFJ I can say that this is the best Advice ever. I wish that every INFJ reads this and starts meditating now. I can can really confirm that it helps so much!!

I really like the sentence "INFJ hate to work for morons" . so true..

@cagneychick182

6 жыл бұрын

This was kind of a revelation for me. I came online this morning searching for answers because I’m working for a guy that I’ve caught consistently lying or giving bad decision. It’s only been a few months but I’m miserable and in INFJ fashion, reacting very badly to it.

@ppfarj

6 жыл бұрын

Tell me about. I'm lucky my new boss is super sharp and extremely bright ;) I had to work for a moron for 3 years.. but in the real world, you have to toughen up and adapt your ways to meet the boss' expectations. It's not the other way round.

@tony62197

5 жыл бұрын

@@ppfarjbecome your own boss , it's the only way or else there will always be a problem .

@kellypawspa

5 жыл бұрын

I had walked out on every job I ever had, until I opened my own business. And sometimes still, I want to quit! Lol Although, I still haven't.

@PS-xb9hc

4 жыл бұрын

Yes ma'am!❤️😂

It really is a struggle being INFJ

@enfp

5 жыл бұрын

My team member Natasa (INFJ) confirms! :D

1) Why 2) Take ideas and perspectives from others 3) Bee u . Bee u. Bee u. Cee u. Sea u 4) .....a basic manner 5) Don't be in rush. Ask for halllppppp!!!!!!

My brain tricks me a lot. It doesn't like to do easier tasks and skips the harder ones. I need to control it.

@abhiram-lt9wo

3 жыл бұрын

Same here

@saina1O1

2 жыл бұрын

ohhh God ... same

True about cutting persons off. I am consciously trying not cut my boyfriend off, getting better. I try to wait until he has finished saying everything now

@andrewhoffy5019

6 жыл бұрын

Abigail Stewart I do the same thing with my wife.

@trenchrock

5 жыл бұрын

My husband complains that I do this ALL THE TIME. I'm like "I already know what you're gonna say" and he's like "No you don't" It really bugs him and I have to stop doing that. It's also hella rude :-(

@thynisia396

4 жыл бұрын

yeah it's so hard because everyone does that at home, so even when I keep listening, they do it to me too lol. not putting blame on anyone here, but just saying that's it's hard to get rid of the habit when everyone around you keeps doing it

@GrafinVonHopper

Жыл бұрын

É por essas e outras que prefiro um parceiro intuitivo. Acredito que ele ofereça uma linguagem mais suscinta e sem rodeios do que os tipos sensoriais.

My intuition is so strong I can predict every outcome.

@ameliedubois9619

3 жыл бұрын

Make a business out of your gift😊

I knew where he was going in the video, so I started reading the comments Damn INFJ brain lol, I can finish most folks sentence it kills me to sit and let them finish, and I won't stand for it if they told me the same story before, I would rather get punched then to listen to it again wtf wrong with me 😧.

@SLICKW1993

4 жыл бұрын

I instantly go to the comments to read what people have said 😂

Nelson Mandela and I share a birthday, and, now a personality type. Im also a community leader who represents and lobbys for artists, which was very natural for me. I look forward to creating more value for people in the future.

@enfp

4 жыл бұрын

You know you're not Nelson Mandela right?

@johnf.hurtado1869

4 жыл бұрын

@@enfp lol, thats what you took from that? Your patronizing intent is flattering. Says alot about you.

I'd greatly appreciate if you could dig in a bit further in terms of advantages of being an INFJ at work, especially in the corporate environment since one needs to make a living in the real world. Yes, I am very insightful, imaginative, organised, able to see patterns easily and I am aware that I can assimilate a lot of information, get the big picture and all the basics. Now can you please advise on how to improve in terms of killing the Ni-Ti loop during office hours? Lack of attention to details? Extremely low levels of energy? Not being a quick thinker/speaker in terms of participating in discussions? Dealing with competition / passive-aggressive behaviour at work? How to better operate in a fast-paced environment? how to be more present here and now instead of stuck in a mental fantasy? As a couch, you know exactly the kind of set of skills that Employers desire. Apart from organisational skills and critical thinking, what else can we use to fight for our place?

@garudabowo

5 жыл бұрын

This is gold

@connie6044

4 жыл бұрын

Fellow INFJ here. You couldn't have said this better! ❤

@ravishingtwinkle3811

4 жыл бұрын

I usually combat thinking much at work by writing down just the name of the topic thought that needs to be processed analysed in an app and focus on it later that day night or weekend. This does help me a bit to focus on present moment and act based on it.

@GrafinVonHopper

Жыл бұрын

Como foi que você acabou de me descrever no trabalho se nem nos conhecemos? Kkkkk😂😂 Alguém aí também tem problemas em lidar com trabalho que exige gente te supervisionando e te dando feedback o tempo todo? Ou mesmo que odeie trabalhar sob pressão? Estou muito feliz de não ser a única por aqui. Acho que o melhor trabalho para os INFJs, é ficar num lugar onde a gente se sinta a vontade em fazer as coisas do nosso jeito, sem pressão e exigências descabidas.

Sometimes I feel that my intuitions are the reason I feel disconnected with some people because i easily understand their purpose and intentions and than I can’t shut my mind and I know the person is faking any lying but I have to just let it go.!!

@arielfarra7979

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly! And because something in me tells me they’re lying or fake I become distant then everyone calls me “anti-social” and it’s so annoying. Like no I like talking to people, but only genuine people, not fake people.

I am INFJ, I took the MBTI test 3times and got INFJ twice, another one is ENFJ, maybe I did a test in a different condition. Of course, I can relate my personality relies on INFJ. I have strong intuition all the time😆 and tend to push my own perspective to others and got really emotionally unstable when I got my opinion rejected. I do really like to think about others feeling instead of the fact. Thank you for the video. It's really related to me

I love the last advise ❤ I need to learn to be kind to myself

Nice art on the wall.

@enfp

6 жыл бұрын

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@faithlavendah3025

3 жыл бұрын

Noticed that too

Thank you, sir. I loved this video

Follow me on Instagram for more amazing videos! @thedanjohnston

thank you ♡ great video!

@enfp

6 жыл бұрын

You're very welcome :)

My problem is not me taking life so harsh on myself. It's quit the opposite! People force me and I give them my opinion which is extremely blunt and sharp, that mostly hurts them before doing any good for them. But that's it! You guys made me like this and I'm just returning the favour! I can'nt anylonger be that day dreaming soul I used to be. I've become harshly rough, and I can destroy people's ego like it's nothing to me. What do YOU have in your sleeve for that bro

So often i really just wish i could trade for a more 'normal' type, this life is exhausting, physically but especially emotionally, at least i know now why i am the way i am, for years i thought i was just partially autistic or has some weird undiagnosed mental problem, its nice to at least know why

Good video for NFs, particularly INFJs. Also camera quality excellent - clear, crisp colors.

@enfp

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks :)

Thank you very much my brother I always feel isolated and always been misunderstood

@enfp

3 жыл бұрын

You are very welcome. You are definitely not alone.

Doctor is perfect for an infj

Don’t forgot to relax too❤️ it brings you back to focus

What is the painting of the face? My Mom painted the same thing a few years ago! Also awesome video! Helpful advice

Idk if this is just me but a lot of what you say I already do. Is this a little subjective? I also have high empathy to where I can feel other people’s emotions. I also have an ability to see through other people’s eyes fairly easily. Relational perspectives. Understanding is smarter than having knowledge imo. Although knowledge is power too. Emotionally and intuitively intelligent. What’s personally frustrating is having a vision of something, but because not many can or do too, it is impossible to make certain types of people see what they already refuse to see. Impasses in perceptions are REAL and everywhere, not just for INFJs.

I liked because of your vibe 5 seconds in.

Very insightful. Additionally, I took the Hexaco and Enneagram which enabled me to better understand my INFJ tendencies, as well as communicate more effectively with my ENFP boss, whom I adore. The insights in the book from the guy cooking for his gf and how he makes decisions was spot on, emotionally healthy, and wonderful. Good info!

Ohemgee! This is a very good advice for an INFJ like me. I wish I have found this video sooner. (But I might still be doing what I have done before) .You were on point, as for me, it's so frustrating to have a moron as the supervisor 😂

Watched you with a gray paint decor and now the yellow artsy. You've changed.

@enfp

5 жыл бұрын

Many rooms for filming in my apartment lol

Ty 💜

Spot on

Thank you 😇

@enfp

4 жыл бұрын

You're welcome!

I like the standing. “Good flow” (says Dan) Hahahaha!

@enfp

3 жыл бұрын

You know it Kathleen!

I am INFJ and had always said Iv’e got a slow but good brain. And i like to talk about the weather, the kids and family. Ok i have learned to do it.. But i still cant handle long meatings at work.

@enfp

4 жыл бұрын

Who really likes long ass meetings?

I've always thought myers briggs to be a subjective checker for personality types based on certain parts of their lives. Since beginning meditation and tai chi 10 years ago, my personality type has shifted quite a bit, and i feel more firmly rooted in a balanced infj, intuitive thinking processing individual. I've worked on things such as listening, and as well, am becoming more trusting in my intuition, however goal setting is the thing I most lack. Having a why rings most true for me, as I most definitely need to work for myself, because what you say about working for morons deserves a amen - someone understands! ha-ha

Thanks!! Very insightful 🙏

@enfp

4 жыл бұрын

You're welcome! :)

@trapsfd5021

3 жыл бұрын

Wait. You are an infj?

@nowayyyyyyyyyyyy

3 жыл бұрын

timeworks!!

@trapsfd5021

3 жыл бұрын

@@nowayyyyyyyyyyyy do u think he is an infj?

@nowayyyyyyyyyyyy

3 жыл бұрын

@@trapsfd5021 idek what is an infj

Not being a douchebag, but i honestly never seen anyone describe and feel infjs except for when the person is an infj, and that includes you (you had many issues in describing us). Infjs on the other hand can almost feel everyone else

INFJ here 😀

Typical ENFJ. Jus' kiddin' and thanks for the great vids.

@enfp

6 жыл бұрын

F*cking ENFJ thinks he knows me!

Funny part is I constantly dream of Nelson Mandela...that's been a weird experience and I am an INFJ.

I take my anger to God not to people because i know people will one day use that against you.

@lightinthedark9201

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@GrafinVonHopper

Жыл бұрын

Exatamente. Por isso que concordo com aquela frase do Dom Vitor Corleone(que aliás, também é um INFJ): "Nunca deixe os outros saberem o que você está pensando". Muitas pessoas são nojentas e brincam com coisas sérias e dolorosas, como os sentimentos.

Hi thanks for the video! Question, you said INFJ need to trust their intuition, but on the other hand they also need to find a "Why" to act. How is that compatible ? Being led by an intuition could mean not to ask ourself questions. Somehow I have the feeling that our intuition can be our tool to find our "Why". What's your opinion ? Thanks for reading.

@thynisia396

4 жыл бұрын

I'm not the one you asked the question to, but I think it's a matter of balance and what situation you are in.

Now i know why i almost always can predict whats going on with person or what not to do. I cry when watching movies feeling like protagonist in movie. I always been likable and open for anyone... But there is a dark side, i destroyed my friend life when after 10 years of playing, doing everything together like soulmates he betrayed me. I destroyed his life in 3 months. His wife divorced, he lost his job, and can see his son 2 saturdays in month... And i dont have any regrets, but i dont want to be ever betrayed again... My pain inside me was devastating.

ENFP female in my 30’s looking for my INFJ male counterpart for love ❤️ and life long happiness. Where are you ?

@GrafinVonHopper

Жыл бұрын

Sou mlher INFJ procurando homem ENFP para casamento também...kkkk

the extended gaps between the table and walls really disturb my infj personality..

This is so true lol

But how to find your why? I dont have any reason to go and work my family don’t force me I don’t feel anything doing. I don’t have any hobby i don’t have any interest in anything I’ve lose everything what should i do how can i get out of it??😢

make a video on trust issues

@enfp

5 жыл бұрын

Awesome idea thanks

Where do I get that pairing on the right side wall?

@enfp

6 жыл бұрын

There is a market in Masaya Nicaragua :)

Can you help me? I'm an Infj and I'm currently studying architectural engineering, I was forced to by my parents yet. I am very passionate about politics. What do you think I should do?

@arielfarra7979

3 жыл бұрын

I know you didn’t ask me, but I think you should talk to your parents and be honest with them. Tell them that you want to do politics, and remember that you’re living YOUR life, not there’s.

@Dreams Around The World: Can ENFP with quite decent life baggage thinks he is ENFP, but actually is INFJ?

Who else here hates driving?!

@enfp

5 жыл бұрын

My team member is an INFJ and she can't drive, nor does she want to! :)

@hollylarochelle3088

5 жыл бұрын

I actually love driving because it allows my logical brain to be involved so my creative brain can play.... I get some of my best ideas from road trips

@fiiano

4 жыл бұрын

Shannon Remanda I think I'm getting worse as I get older with driving. I have to really concentrate and can't have music on, so that my head is totally focussed. I cannot park for shit as I have no spacial awareness. I forget my left and right and I always convince myself that everyone driving behind me thinks I'm an idiot, so I avoid looking in my rear mirror 😭😭😭

@ClutchTrick

4 жыл бұрын

I am a total car guy and driving is one of my favorite things. I have a very hard time trusting other's ability to drive.

@lumaladickson7910

3 жыл бұрын

Me too

❤️

Injf here, I hate hate hate following the herd, avoid it like the peste!😂 ....we get pretty accurate things

Psychology major for infj?

@enfp

7 жыл бұрын

+Cari I could imagine it is a good fit. Infjs what do you think?

@caribaez5711

7 жыл бұрын

Dreams Around The World I am a pre nursing major and I am interested to change it to psychology or sociology to become a counselor. However I need a masters degree to be a counselor and I would like to know what can I do with a bachelor psychology degree while going to graduate school and is worth it to do so what I am thinking.

@caribaez5711

7 жыл бұрын

how about social work?

@JuandelaCruz001

6 жыл бұрын

I am one. I think Social Work and medicine works well too.

@msj5807

6 жыл бұрын

Cari tried that...can be very tricky depending on the field you enter to work...maybe I chose the wrong extension-there are many sub-disciplinaries in the psych field. ...not like you asked lol great suggestion :)

It's so hard for me to find goals beacuse I don't know where to aim and I am starting to get old...

@GrafinVonHopper

Жыл бұрын

Concentre-se no que é mais importante para você a longo prazo.

@rallers3002

Жыл бұрын

@@GrafinVonHopper Like what? Getting an education could be one aspect. But I doubt all the time what education would be best for me.

What personàlity type do you think Jesus was! God told us how to think and how to act, who is to blame but ourselves if we act indifferent?

@enfp

6 жыл бұрын

Not going to touch that one :)

@trenchrock

5 жыл бұрын

So..some of us are not christian so this comment doesn't really apply...

@oilpress7405

5 жыл бұрын

He has the strengths of all and the weaknesses of none. X

@kritikasampleone7457

4 жыл бұрын

I dont get it

@GrafinVonHopper

Жыл бұрын

Há quem diga que Ele é um INFJ. Mas Jesus apenas nos ensinou a como devemos viver essa vida difícil. Porém, Ele não obriga ninguém a fazer o que Ele disse. Ele apenas convida e incentiva as pessoas a experimentarem essa experiência, que é ter um relacionamento real com Ele e seguir seus mandamentos. Acredito que a felicidade reside no que Ele nos ensinou.

Infj have why to everything

Too much bright light, I could barely see you 😂💔

Well your understanding isn't so accurate about us..

@AryanisLeo

3 жыл бұрын

It's not so easy peasy

Why is a mass murderer and a pedophile used in the thumbnail? Not helping your cause.

That room looks fake as fuck

I'm only interested in makin money so I can build my life up AWAY from ppl, "trying" to help humanity is a waste of time, go ask the ants how changing the flow of a mighty river is going 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@GrafinVonHopper

Жыл бұрын

Jesus Cristo disse: Não devemos lançar pérolas aos porcos". Devemos ajudar somente aqueles que precisam e querem nossa ajuda. Depois que tive essa compreensão, parei de me ressentir dos milhões de idiotas que existem por aí.

@infj-tguy6275

Жыл бұрын

@@GrafinVonHopper bruh, i cant understand your comment, it wont translate

Okay here's an insite you talk to fast. slow down. if you want me to finish your video give me time too hear what you're saying and process your information. bye