What you are feeling is totally normal so don’t question yourself too much. It’s a big adjustment and it does feel final. They can sometimes reverse the surgery so that is always something you can ask about if you are still regretting your decision. You and your family are so wonderful and loving. Try to focus on all of the love around you and enjoy your new little one. ❤

I know you feel most confident when you’re pregnant but you can’t be pregnant all the time, it might be your time to focus on yourself and your family and what makes you feel confident outside of pregnancy (which will take time) 😊

@jayneforster5677

7 ай бұрын

It’s totally normal to feel like this ! It’s a finality for her !

@amburrelizabeth1572

7 ай бұрын

​​@@jayneforster5677Exactly! It must feel even harder because she felt like she had to do it to stop people from talking shit. But every single milestone is the last and that must hurt more knowing that its the last

@B33K1ND89

7 ай бұрын

@@amburrelizabeth1572no one made her do anything shut up

@sarahwilson-jb5fm

7 ай бұрын

Totally agree.. Focus on what you have. If it's really what you need to keep being pregnant then it can be reversed and you can keep having children until you don't feel empty and grieving.

@chelsclements

7 ай бұрын

@@LauraJayneWhite97 she’s a rare breed 🤣

I am positive I felt the same way, but also knew it was time to stop. So I stopped having babies but then in twenty years I was living and loving my grandchildren!!!! They are that lovely gift that waits for us when we no longer have babies! Big hugs Sarah!

@shay4482

7 ай бұрын

i love this reply!

I had my tubes tied 4 months ago and I regret it sometimes but you can have them untied hun , wishing you the best recovery ❤️❤️

Hi Sarah. C section recovery is so hard. Your hormones are all over the place at the moment. I cried so much more after my c section compared to my natural delivery. I did t have my tubes tide but always wanted more children but everyone said to me you have one of each so there is no need. To this day I always think about it and wished we had more especially now my oldest is 20. You rest and recover and enjoy your time with the family. They love you very much. Sending you lots of hugs 😊😊

Stop beating yourself up you are an amazing mother and family focus on what you got. I felt exactly the same. Xxx

you’re feelings are SO valid. luckily…. tied tubes can usually be reversed. of course it’s another procedure which is scary but it may not be final. praying for you sarah ♥️

Awe sweetie , it's normal to feel like that, your hormones are all over the place, you will feel better, and many are right , you can reverse the tubal , but enjoy every moment, and please do not worry! Many Blessings! Hope you all enjoy your holidays!

Ok you made me cry 😢Sarah I am sorry your feeling this way! My heart goes out to you ❤️ I am hopeful you will come to be at peace with it soon. 🙏💗

It’s so normal to feel the way you do, I had my little boy at the end of February and I cried all day everyday for the first month and just didn’t want to be on my own I wanted to be be with people 24/7 and hated the nights. I hope you start to feel better soon. And massive congratulations to you all 🫶🫶🫶

my wife cant have kids and she is going through emotions

Sending you big hugs Sarah ❤❤❤❤ I think you are valid to feel that way.. I had my parts taken out and I felt the same way ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ maybe also talk to your doctor?? I feel you so much girl !!!!

Sending you the biggest hugs Sarah ♥️ your feelings are so valid and you have every right to feel whatever feelings you want to right now

It is totally natural to feel what you feeling especially after a c section mine were terrible. You have 6 beautiful children to enjoy and I'm sure your feelings will ease and you will feel it was right for you all as you recover more but if it isn't in time then look in to options but don't let anybody tell you what to do take care x

Bless you , I hope you feel better soon , you can give all your focus to your 6 and look forward to your grandchildren xx

It´s normal to feel like you do. It´s just the hormones right now to that makes it feel even harder. It´s always sad, hard to know that part of your life is over everything is the last time but just give it some time and you will see it´s going to feel better. It´s okay to feel sad

You are going to feel so many emotions right now anyway!! I totally get it, I am pregnant with my last now and we are adamant we don’t want anymore but that doesn’t make me feel any better about knowing this is the last! The most important thing is it’s not final, they can be untied if in the future you decide it wasn’t the right choice! Nothing is final unless you choose it ♥️

I know how you feel Sarah,I had my tubes tied in July after having twins.I knew it was the right thing to do after 8 babies.But I felt so bad afterwards and thinking what if I want more children in the future xx

you are such an amazing and strong mother we all appreciate you so much we love you sarah!

I hope you feel better soon, prayers for you Sarah!

You are very brave Sarah for sharing such raw feelings, my heart breaks for you. I hope that you can overcome this and you find peace xxx

You’ve got this Sarah! You’ve got so many people here to support you! We love you. And just know, you’re like family to many of us and their kids so you’ve got loads of kids through us too.

I had 4 healthy sons, and at the last , I had my tubes tied. I was so sad!!! I cried for days. Your hormones are crazy right now. I promise you , you will feel better. Rest Sweetheart. The sadness does dwindle, and the joy will increase. I'm 66 now. I promise you, it will feel better

I felt the same when I was offered to be sterilised but you have an amazing family and there are other ways to have children. Once your hormones calm down u will feel much better. I'm sure it will be the thing to have done as time goes on. Chin up ❤

Sarah at this point you are probably feeling better but it’s 100% hormone drop . Just know your limit and see your GP if you aren’t feeling ok . Think of all your grandchildren you will have eventually . Let your girls take it from here . Your family isn’t finish just this little chapter is closing . 💕💕💕💙💕💕. I’m sorry you are feeling this way and maybe it’s just part of the process , cry those tears if you need to . Sending so much love .

Bless you Sarah I hope you are feeling better soon xx

Sarah you can get the tube tying reversed but you can also do ivf also in the future if you feel the same. I’m only 35 and never had children watching the girls and jace grow up I feel like part of your family and I’m super proud of you all !!

@eliciaholland9870

7 ай бұрын

Or adoption!

@leahheapp

7 ай бұрын

@@eliciaholland9870or even foster!

@Vay..1_1

7 ай бұрын

@@eliciaholland9870don’t be rude !

Society is crap and everyone passes judgement…. What your feeling is natural I was same and sometimes I get that gut feeling still 9 years later….. you shouldn’t have to please anyone and if you decide in the future you can still have more don’t beat yourself up your amazing

Aw sarah hope things get easier for you big hugs from norway❤

Your hormones are all over the place atm I hope your feeling better soon, but there is nothing wrong with how you feel right now xx

Sweet Sarah.. Ur not the only 1.. I felt & done all of what u r doing.. 1 of the reason I realized I was doing that is cause it makes it final.. I just want u to know ur not alone..

I’m sorry to see you upset Sarah 🥺

Congratulation with your beautifull little girl.Hope you feel better soon❤️

oh honey you decide what's best for you, you, no one can do it for you, be strong and know you are not alone

Sarah this is 100% normal. You are also more likely to get postpartum depression with a c section as the body undergoes something very traumatic. You are strong. You are the most amazing mother and parent. If you are struggling ask for help. Know you aren’t alone. Sending you all the healing energy and love to you and the family

I have 4 children all c sections but after my last child 2years ago I had my tubs tied and yes I was so upset and sometimes still do have moments I wish I didn’t , but had to as it was not safe to have any more children xx

My sister went through the same thing. She had her tubes tied and she had every emotion you've gone through. She regretted it to start with but over time it fades away from your mind x

I had my first class section with my twins in the hight of lock down and I have 2 older children so I understand what your going through and it's only natural don't don't so hard on yourself ❤

Sending lots of hugs Sarah ❤❤ Glad to see you home with your beautiful family. 💞

I definitely grieved my pregnancy with my little boy. It took us 10 years to get him & ivf and I knew every first was going to be my last too. My heart aches everyday still & every milestone is so bittersweet. If you still feel like you do in the future, you can have it reversed and if your really certain you want more ivf is an option too. You know what's best for your family, if that means expanding your family, then that's your descion and yours alone. No one can tell you what's right for you x

My 4th is due may, I’m asking for my tubes tied, I’ll probably feel like you but it’s for the best. Hope you’re doing okay x

My hormones were all over the place the same as yours and i was crying for days after my c section, you will feel soo much better in the days/weeks to come, as your hormones level out youll be able to think and see more clearly, take care of yourself and try and enjoy this time ❤ xx

Hey Sarah it is up to you no one else don’t listen to no one else it is your life wot to do xx

That's normal love I had the same thing it's the emotional toll from the surgery c section is not an easy thing to go through hugs

Sending so much love to you , take all the time you need ❤❤❤

Love how brave you take all time u need you are so brave thsnks for sharing you are wonderful person ❤❤

I’ve just had my third and positive he’s my last, but it’s a really horrible feeling the thought of everything being the ‘last’, it’s so much pressure trying to saver every ‘last’ with them. Give yourself time and see how you feel, hormones are an absolute bitch them first few weeks, your doing amazing 🥺

Hope you are all doing good, I have a 9 month old, he's the best thing in my life

Aww bless you, stay strong, push through it you can do this! We all get it and are all here to support you through the way💗 stay strong beautiful x

I felt the same way after my seventh. With seven miscarriages also. Grieve the loss of the possibility give yourself time for hormones to get back to normal. It took me about six months. I had to get some help for post partoium depression.

Oh Sarah…It’s completely normal to be feeling like this, my lovely. Overtime, it’ll become easier ❤

My goodness this is heartbreaking , poor Sarah :((sending lots of love to you during this time ❤️

Sending you so much love Sarah. This will pass. x❤x

Ive sadly been un able to have children , but i think if i had had some and then been in the position your in id probably feel the same. Right now your hormones are all over the place. Alow yourself to feel how your feeling dont feel like you have to hide how you feel. If later on down the line you think youve made the wrong decision theres options. You shouldnt worry about what others think if you want 6 kids or 16 its up to you and no one else. Selding lots of love to you.xx

@suzannalouise2904

7 ай бұрын

Awe I'm sorry you can't have kids that's really sad 😢 my cousin can't have kids either as she has PCOS I have cysts all over mine but had 4 kids 21 20 16 and 15 and only found out about the cysts last year xxxxx

I don’t have much advice for you other than to feel your feelings and don’t hide them. Be honest with yourself and your medical care team so they can make sure you don’t have bad postpartum depression. You are absolutely loved and I’ll be praying for you. ❤

AWWWWW sarah i wish there is something we could say to make it easier.. all i can say is always talk about it. There will always be someone that will listen and not question.xxxxxxxx😢😢😢😢❤

It’s totally normal feeling the way you are. Give it time. I’m praying for you.

i felt the same way u did i felt really sad but it was my body telling me its time to take care of my self.Sarah u are not alone u will be ok just love ur big family and enjoy what u have

Bless u Sarah hope u feel better soon take care of yourself xx

I’ve never had any children and I can’t even imagine what you are feeling. I would never dare tell you or anyone in the situation how to feel. I just wanted to send you very big gentle hugs.

hope you okie honestly don’t listen to people that are making you feel like this if y want to get pregnant that’s fine don’t seem why people need to responds negative honestly hope y okie sarah sending all my love and support and kisses ❤x

Happy Sunday and much love from America ❤❤

Your amazing person never think less off yourself xx

Sarah, I was crying along with you…..I don’t know if you can have your tubes tied procedure reversed but check with the hospital or your midwife to be sure. So, please don’t cry until you know what your options are. We love you & your Beautiful family.

Aww yey she's home ❤❤ huge big hugs Sarah. Sending you huge hugs and lots of love xxxx

Bless your heart! I definitely felt this way after having my son. I made the decision to have my tubes tied after I was told I had to have a c section. Please talk to your practitioner about postpartum depression. You may need to talk with someone. I send you so much love.

You raise your children with the headstrong mind of never worrying about what others think, so I don’t think you should have decided to have your tubes tied just because of other people’s opinions. As far as we’re aware, you get one life, so do what makes YOU and your family happy, Sarah. You have the money, the space, the stability that you need to carry on having as many children as your heart desires until one day in your own time, you will come to accept that no more means no more! But I don’t think that is today. Your tears and your emotions clearly show you are not ready to stop growing your family. There’s still more beautiful souls to be born ✨

@digital_prosperity50k

7 ай бұрын

She already did though.... Unfortunately.. This is not helpful... 😔

@emilia9455

7 ай бұрын

@@digital_prosperity50k I’ve seen people say you can get it reversed or go through IVF

Give yourself time Sarah. It probably is your hormones. Plus it’s very raw. Things will get better and easier. Confidence will come. Believe in yourself.

Sarah my heart breaks for you😢 we love you Sarah you just take each day slowly. X

I can only send big hugs Sarah xx and hope you can get your head and your heart over the tubes being tided and enjoy your beautiful family xxxxx

Congratulations, Ingham family 🥳 Ashley, USA 🇺🇸

Omg Sarah watching this broke my heart. I really felt for you watching you so emotional. I wish I could give you some advice but I can’t. I hope you start to feel better about thing soon sending you hugs xxx

Shara be strong n feel better soon .

Stay strong

your one comment answers your question everything about this pregnancy was prefect and the family will be stronger together you will work through this together i hope this comment will not upset you ❤

Sending massive hugs. Take time to rest and recover. Your hormones will be all over the place. Xx

So sorry you’re feeling this way Sarah my heart was breaking for you watching the vlog I was the same after my third caesarean very tearful ❤

Sarah, you are amazing, allow these emotions to happen and let them out❤️

Sarah, I am sorry you feel bad. Within 10 years, Isabelle could be married and having children. Enjoy your 6 children, and then you can travel and enjoy your grandchildren someday.

Totally normal what youre feeling! Its also up to you guys if you want more kids, nobody else! You guys are wonderful parents who take great care of your children, and are more than financially capable of doing so. So who cares what others think! If its possible to get your tubal reversed thats an option or ivf is always an option as well. Do what YOU feel is best. I hope things get easier for you with whichever decision you make❤

It is natural to feel like this. You have just given birth. Hormones and emotions all over the place.

Sarah We All Love You And You just Be You Are You are amazing and Your Family is Amazing too!

Awe Sarah my heart broke for you watching tonight's vlog I haven't gone through what you have but I just wanted to say that I hope you are doing better sending you lots of love and well wishes ❤

❤congratulations ❤️ she’s so precious

Sarah, I cried with you!! My heart is breaking!! This is the problem with society nowadays, people involve themselves in people lives they have no right doing!! And it’s just accepted!! It is wrong!!! ❤️❤️

People shouldn’t judge you. You’re an amazing woman and wonderful mother.

Oh Sarah 😢 . Your such amazing momma to your beautiful children. I hope yu feel better soon ❤

I have had 2 dothers and 1 son all c sences never my choes and had infashen with my son for doing to much so be careful what you rest when u can

Aw Sarah I really feel for you ❤

Love u hang in there it will get better

I went through it. I had my tubes tied, and I went through the same thing. All you can do is pray to God and move forward.

Sorry to say but don't think you were ready. it's heartbreaking to see how emotional you are ♥️ please try and stay positive sending hugs and love to you and your beautiful family ♥️

Congratulations 🎊

I was exactly the same I have 3 boys and 3 girls and my last girl was c section and was sterilised I wish I didn't but I know I'm done but I'm same I regret it I get how u feel

It's just your hormones give it time will settle down I felt same and I only had 3 but I knew after my 3rd that I did not want any more after tho I did regret it for good like 4 weeks but it's just hormones it's not been over 10 years and it was the best decision I made ❤

Although I can't exactly relate - your feelings remind me of how u felt after i had my full hysterectomy. Between the hormones and the finality of it all I was all over the place! I would most definitely speak to my doctor about how "out of control" you're feeling and maybe there's something they can give you to help with leveling out the hormone side of things. I'll be praying for you Sarah - sending you love!

I understand all of those feelings it’s the dreaded hormones sending love xx

Love ur videos all ways makes my day hope u all doing well 💓 😊

Sarah you have been through major surgery so you must let yourself recover. Your hormones are all over the place. Just time & if it's not what you want them I'm sure it can be reversed. Sending you so much love ❤️ Take care xxx

Hi Sarah I felt the same way cry and cry for weeks after I had mine I was 20 when thay tired mine but after my hormones claim down I know I had made the right decision hope this helps x