If you care about what people think or like to lie to yourself, I don’t want to be friends with you.

If you care about others think or lie to yourself, I do not want to be friends with you.
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  • @tsunamisun2369
    @tsunamisun23697 ай бұрын

    Human insecurities are the root problems for a lot of social issues we have. Unfortunately it seems about at least 80% of the population is pretty highly insecure. Even the beautiful "confident" people you see these days are still operating on some level of insecurity because of the way our society operates currently. We're all just taking out our insecurities on each other.

  • @universalredguard

    @universalredguard

    7 ай бұрын

    Yup

  • @tequilachanel7312
    @tequilachanel73127 ай бұрын

    This man is too real for society.

  • @ronaldmcdonaldjuniorghost

    @ronaldmcdonaldjuniorghost

    7 ай бұрын

    Facts

  • @unknowndaddy4587
    @unknowndaddy45877 ай бұрын

    It’s like listening to myself

  • @warr1or227
    @warr1or2277 ай бұрын

    "Just tell me who you are." and "We still small talking...?". Bruh. *This and nothing else.* The world is just one big costume party and we're all just trying to find actual faces.

  • @marshafarquharson3816
    @marshafarquharson38167 ай бұрын

    There are people in this world who only believe that money can save them.🙏🦋🐝

  • @milesofmyles
    @milesofmyles7 ай бұрын

    I'd rather be real and alone over fake and lonely any day of the week, month, year, or lifetime.

  • @napbeatss
    @napbeatss7 ай бұрын

    In her book "All About Love" Bell Hooks, writes that "to live simply makes room for love and negates greed" and she also says "most people are cynical and negative because negativity seems more realistic than being positive."

  • @personaliteeplus

    @personaliteeplus

    7 ай бұрын

    Omg I truly believe that’s why some of my own people can’t stand me because I’m so optimistic like they think it’s fake. It’s impossible for me to naturally be this way.

  • @connificentwatts86
    @connificentwatts867 ай бұрын

    People like Felix isn't given enough props and credit that he deserves. The late half of the Gen Millennials such as myself (87-96) and Gen Z (97-06) need to bring back true authenticity and be unapologetic about it 😎💪🏿💯💯💯

  • @NFSMAN50

    @NFSMAN50

    7 ай бұрын

    96 born right here!!!!

  • @Twelly93

    @Twelly93

    7 ай бұрын

    93 all day

  • @hydrohyperdrive8443

    @hydrohyperdrive8443

    7 ай бұрын

    2001😊

  • @grovedwayne390

    @grovedwayne390

    7 ай бұрын

    Definitely 💯. 1981-1996

  • @EttiCohn
    @EttiCohn7 ай бұрын

    they're breathing but not living... the walking dead...

  • @itsjustmesophini
    @itsjustmesophini7 ай бұрын

    I like how you think great video. Why can't I meet people like this in real life. I feel like everything and almost everyone is so fake. I rather keep to myself, just me and my little family.

  • @trentsteel1542
    @trentsteel15427 ай бұрын

    Sounds like societal narcissism vs authenticity. Narcs “mirror” others to get them to like them. That way the narc can manipulate them to gain narcissistic supply. Nowadays it seems like people just do this to each other. I see this behavior in women mostly. But so many dudes do this too. I think being alone is healthier for me than to communicate with most people. I believe There’s a huge difference between being alone and feeling alone. When I decided to stop communicating with almost everyone in my life I stopped feeling so alone. Narcissists can’t be alone. They’ll go nuts. That’s why I think most people like going to parties and being around others engaging in small talk and gossip.

  • @JayPrakash-th4rd
    @JayPrakash-th4rd7 ай бұрын

    I have my cousin brother' s wedding coming up and I don't feel nothing , no hype no anticipation and when i said my authentic feeling to my mom she was shocked ...I'm like why is this shocking , my cousin and I were never close and she know that I'm not a social butterfly. Its very frustrating to open up to people , no matter how much I don't want lie and be my authentic self I get pulled back with incidents like these . How can I take this society seriously when most of the time I have to severe my authentic self (which makes me angry with disgust ). I donno how to deal with that ..and donno if I will ever "fit in "

  • @nobodynowhere21
    @nobodynowhere217 ай бұрын

    4:58 I'm rollin thanks for that laugh

  • @FelixSkura

    @FelixSkura

    7 ай бұрын

    You’re welcome ❤️

  • @tequilachanel7312
    @tequilachanel73127 ай бұрын

    I don’t want to do thanks giving every 😭😭😭 I’m glad somebody said it.

  • @unknownhollow4141
    @unknownhollow41417 ай бұрын

    Contrarianism is not wisdom. Caring what other people think is part of living in harmony, self-reflection and growth.

  • @Ani-nw5or
    @Ani-nw5or7 ай бұрын

    THE THUMBNAILLLLLLLLLLLLL PARTTTT😂

  • @Akultic
    @Akultic7 ай бұрын

    8:10 THIS IS THE PART THE WORLD NEEDS !! THEN YOUR AUTHENTICITY ABOUT NOT LIKING LIFE! YESSSSSSSSSS ITS OK TO HAVE THAT ATTITUDE, LIKE IM OVER THIS SHIT BUT IM GONNA MAKE IT WORK AND IMA FEED JOY CUZ I CAN.

  • @sneakykamon
    @sneakykamon7 ай бұрын

    Can you do a video about people who feel like they have to be friends with everyone? I’m not sure if it even connects to this topic but it was reminding me of that. I had a friend that insisted on being friends with everyone he met, to the point where I felt like I couldn’t trust him and in the end, I was proven right.

  • @EloTheCurious
    @EloTheCurious5 ай бұрын

    One of my mottos when I was a teenager was “You’ve never truly lived until you’ve died.” I wrote it in huge letters on my main school binder when I could see it everyday. I would contemplate it often, especially when I was having a tough day. There’s so much to life, but the illusion of being able to hold and keep every aspect of life in a constant/perpetual state that we might identify with cripples and dissociated us from the natural ebb and flow of existence. In other words, if we spend our lives holding onto things we fear losing, we will hold ourselves back from the natural ebb and flow of how the human experience functions.

  • @ericshawnthompsonjr.510
    @ericshawnthompsonjr.5107 ай бұрын

    Low-key I care but just not too much. If I don’t see a problem, I don’t care. If I don’t feel talking to people or socializing with them, I don’t care & I’m tired. I’ve been told I’m missing out on the fun by one of my dudes. It’s not my problem because entertainment is always there. It’s not going anywhere. I save money & do my thing. I’m just simply grinding at my job while looking for other jobs elsewhere. 2:21 Dude yes! I did my taxes with them. It was easy to figure it out but they took half getting my money back paying fees. F*ck that! 4:50-5:08 Dude oh you not practicing them thumbnails?! 😂😂🤣😭

  • @celinejb4730
    @celinejb47307 ай бұрын

    Everyone who knows me knows I don’t care about people’s opinion of me. I’m very direct, harsh and at times objective or bias. My husband is the same, we are at peace.

  • @Mannyswanks
    @Mannyswanks7 ай бұрын

    All Good things come to those who stay true.

  • @AssataDemure
    @AssataDemureАй бұрын

    Small talk can be disconcerting. Just talking for forever about nothing 😵‍💫 but I’d rather that than no interaction at all; And sometimes times it can lead into a deeper more meaningful conversation.

  • @AssataDemure

    @AssataDemure

    Ай бұрын

    I’d rather small talk than no interaction at all because I believe human connection is beautiful and important and any attempt we make at that is to be valued.

  • @kickindow3140
    @kickindow31407 ай бұрын

    In a SEA of bullshit and delusion, it's nice to know there is at least one dude that is keeping it real. Not "OH I KEEP IT REAL" by yelling at other people and silencing them, but just simple, calm, rational talk.

  • @Akultic
    @Akultic7 ай бұрын

    I personally don’t think it’s that people don’t care, but I think it is people following the celebrities

  • @Benjamin50003
    @Benjamin5000322 күн бұрын

    I accidentally found one of your videos, and I have to say, I’m a subscriber now. Your articulation and correlation to economics as a way to explain behavior is refreshing

  • @FelixSkura

    @FelixSkura

    21 күн бұрын

    Wow, thank you.

  • @jvlive3469
    @jvlive34697 ай бұрын

    mental weakness is clear to see once you level up💯 thats what they fail to realize

  • @eamy9960
    @eamy99607 ай бұрын

    Your take on thanksgiving is me right now, but we don’t do thanksgiving in my family since we Nigerians we do Christmas, we literally don’t have no real relationship with each other but come Christmas everybody cheesing 😂 clown world, one of my sister marriage falling apart she only share her situation with a select few and church friends but not me cause I ain’t never been married before, so I can’t possibly know shit about it. My other sister literally about to be deployed in the u.s military whole family going on business as usual but come Christmas we all gone be cheesing

  • @copiouscat
    @copiouscat7 ай бұрын

    Felt this. Wanna wake up one day and be like “Ahhh life’s fucked up but I’m still here! *skips back to bed*” lol but nah Fr you said nothing but facts existing is exhausting and I shall be in my house alone for the holidays

  • @terrapin323
    @terrapin3237 ай бұрын

    Manifesting, doing what you have to... what does it really mean to lie to oneself as opposed to lying to others? I suppose there's four possibilities: 1) honesty with yourself, lying to others

  • @emotrash5947
    @emotrash59477 ай бұрын

    Everything you said pretty much 💯

  • @zhengpan1997
    @zhengpan19977 ай бұрын

    You have a solid head on your shoulders

  • @FelixSkura

    @FelixSkura

    7 ай бұрын

    If you are here you probably do too

  • @Lanasiae33
    @Lanasiae337 ай бұрын

    Love your content- stay true to you 💗

  • @FelixSkura

    @FelixSkura

    7 ай бұрын

    Always.

  • @YellaFerrari
    @YellaFerrari7 ай бұрын

    Facts bro!

  • @user-wv8zr7zi1s
    @user-wv8zr7zi1s7 ай бұрын

    I’m glad you’re back man, I was nearly convinced you’d stop making vids (when I couldn’t find any) based on reality that’s too on point.

  • @FelixSkura

    @FelixSkura

    7 ай бұрын

    Welcome back!

  • @emotrash5947
    @emotrash59477 ай бұрын

    You really wrapped that at the end too

  • @nanisemugford7743
    @nanisemugford77433 ай бұрын

    Please upload more. Love ittttt

  • @dark_nightwing_xl2797
    @dark_nightwing_xl27977 ай бұрын

    I really enjoy your videos. Love from Europe man.💯🔥

  • @FelixSkura

    @FelixSkura

    7 ай бұрын

    Appreciate that nightwing

  • @markusmichaels410
    @markusmichaels4107 ай бұрын

    Finally we agree on something

  • @Happy_Limpet
    @Happy_Limpet7 ай бұрын

    A polemicist will fall asleep next to an arctic lemming .

  • @greenheadblackvoodochild2487
    @greenheadblackvoodochild2487Ай бұрын

    Glad i found your channel brother

  • @FelixSkura

    @FelixSkura

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks bro

  • @nickwithal
    @nickwithal16 күн бұрын

    I think just like u are entitled to think the way u do. Others are as well.

  • @klemensheuchert1589
    @klemensheuchert15897 ай бұрын

    Really love the seemingly view authentic. Hope to improve that side on myself too. Any suggestions to implement/develop that side in myself?

  • @FelixSkura

    @FelixSkura

    7 ай бұрын

    I don’t want to pretend like I know the answers to everything cause I just try random stuff until something works. At a certain point, you stop trying to “try” at anything. You suddenly just start doing “you” without consciously thinking about the perception of how it looks. Does that make sense?

  • @klemensheuchert1589

    @klemensheuchert1589

    7 ай бұрын

    @@FelixSkura yep, it does. thanks for your response, trying to get there.💗

  • @israelcooper1148
    @israelcooper11487 ай бұрын

    Thanksgiving thing was on point bruh really not looking forward to it

  • @marcelsaintlaurent
    @marcelsaintlaurent7 ай бұрын

    real shit

  • @destinynicole5145
    @destinynicole51457 ай бұрын

    You always be real as fuck man

  • @FelixSkura

    @FelixSkura

    7 ай бұрын

    You already know

  • @jilldezsenyi7361
    @jilldezsenyi73617 ай бұрын

    Not everyone walks in the right spirit its not my business lol 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @lemonoomy4599
    @lemonoomy45997 ай бұрын

    What is your opinion on the self improvement journey? Asking this bc I have a friend who could not stop talking abt weights and muscles

  • @niku4259

    @niku4259

    7 ай бұрын

    I have a friend like that who's obsessed w gym culture and gaining weight. If anything, it's just annoying when people make it a part of their personality. However, it's a nice way of bonding with your male friends usually, since you both have a goal or at least working towards something like staying fit/developing a healthy body. Although you will never catch me spending copious amount of hours in the gym, inflating my muscles just to impress my friends. To me it's just health maintenance/another form of hobby, I wouldn't call it all that productive, because nobody needs to spend their entire life in the gym, that's just stupid imo

  • @PalpusThoughts
    @PalpusThoughts7 ай бұрын

    Longest title on youtube 🤣

  • @homecourtstory
    @homecourtstory7 ай бұрын

    10:00 dude this is a big reason society is so messed up. Demonic stuff is just a joke to some people now. But like you said in your Drake video, people are tired of the pointless materialism that the media feeds us and want real meaning in their life. I realized that my constant need to measure up made me depressed. But we’re supposed to be glorifying God (Jesus) and not ourselves because he sacrificed himself for us to be with him in Heaven. God didn’t promise us life will be easy, quite the opposite. Please read Matthew, Mark, Luke and John in the Bible. Sorry for the rants I enjoyed your streams of thoughts and have felt similarly in my life

  • @lemonoomy4599
    @lemonoomy45997 ай бұрын

    You forgot to set ur thumbnails bro

  • @esss8162
    @esss81627 ай бұрын

    The walking dead

  • @homecourtstory
    @homecourtstory7 ай бұрын

    9:39 bro please return to church. I grew up in church and fell away from God but recently found Him again. Plus at church you can meet people your age who are down to talk about real topics. You just might have to visit a few churches.

  • @mogomotsimalepe7348

    @mogomotsimalepe7348

    7 ай бұрын

    People at church talking about 'real topics', Wow! 😮 That would be a first. I'm African, the church in my experience is just full of people who are so delusional that they just over religiousize even the most basic sh*t in life. Personally I'm so happy that people are giving it up.

  • @TV14greaterthanPG
    @TV14greaterthanPG7 ай бұрын

    What happened to your "spiritual narcissist" vid did it get taken down

  • @dark_nightwing_xl2797

    @dark_nightwing_xl2797

    7 ай бұрын

    I think he deleted it Im not sure.

  • @FelixSkura

    @FelixSkura

    7 ай бұрын

    Oh you talking about when I was discussing people on KZread that make videos about being “Chosen Ones” ??

  • @TV14greaterthanPG

    @TV14greaterthanPG

    7 ай бұрын

    @@FelixSkura yes

  • @TV14greaterthanPG

    @TV14greaterthanPG

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@dark_nightwing_xl2797that vid was lit 🔥 it caught my attention asap cos these KZreadrs that claim to be "chosen ones" use it to feel special and scam ppl

  • @dark_nightwing_xl2797

    @dark_nightwing_xl2797

    7 ай бұрын

    @@FelixSkura man you were so right about that😂

  • @SukruYilmaz-fx3mo
    @SukruYilmaz-fx3mo7 ай бұрын

    Whassup

  • @FelixSkura

    @FelixSkura

    7 ай бұрын

    wassup