Chase the Creator not the creation, and watch how the creation chases after you

@EV-EV-EV

12 күн бұрын

JazakAllahu Khayran my brother. Really loved this quote, I will seal this into my heart. May Allah shower his Rahmah Baraqah and 'izzah upon you

@CoachYusif

12 күн бұрын

@@EV-EV-EV Ameen! This is one of my favorite topics to talk about on my channel. May Allah bless you

@MoesAk47

11 күн бұрын

Ameen my brother spot on have strong faith with Allah and he'll do the rest.

@rehmanahmed7742

10 күн бұрын

Let's be honest the more holy you are the less people are going to chase you. Stop it with these bullshit slogans

I think this is the most valuable video you've ever made. Its so raw and real.

@jaffaraltamimi9206

11 күн бұрын

Came here to write this

This is a mistake a lot of brothers make. Of course we should love our wives but not in a way as if it's a forever ting. Let's be honest g, if something happens to us, after the iddah she's defo getting action from someone else, be it instantly or a year or two later. Always put Allah above everyone and everything.

@EV-EV-EV

12 күн бұрын

Haqqun 'Ala haqq!

@mohammadtaha7973

11 күн бұрын

is it prohibited for widowed women to get married or something? Why do you say it in a negative way? What do you say about men getting married after their spouse's death?

@iluvzaytun

11 күн бұрын

Not really. Not all women. Tbh if one day I married the guy I like, and I ended up a widow, I wouldn’t see my life with anyone else. And if it’s not for him, I don’t see my life with anyone else either. You can’t generalize it like that for all women. I feel offended that my love may be taken as fake.

@Marypoppy-bee

11 күн бұрын

This is so toxic and dumb. It's so weird that men like you actually are saying that you shouldn't live your wives as a forever thing. So nasty

@HHH-31.

11 күн бұрын

@@iluvzaytun I feel like anyone would say that, but eventually you'd move on and find someone else because no one wants to be lonely or sad forever due to someone passing and you'd want to find joy in another person

I see you've become especially refined as a man by Islamic tarbiya and 'Ilm and it's made you a more complete man over the years. Allahuma Barik May Allah continue to increase your blessings and grant you prosperity in this Dunya and the Akhira Akhi Much Love

Correction of ayah: يا أَيُّهَا الَّذينَ آمَنوا إِنَّ مِن أَزواجِكُم وَأَولادِكُم عَدُوًّا لَكُم فَاحذَروهُم وَإِن تَعفوا وَتَصفَحوا وَتَغفِروا فَإِنَّ اللَّهَ غَفورٌ رَحيمٌ﴾ [التغابن: ١٤]

The best of you are those who are best to your wives

@l__Dark__l

9 күн бұрын

This is being best to your wife. Because you cannot show suffocating amount of affection like simps do, such actions will destroy the marriage.

@bagh98

7 күн бұрын

Jami` at-Tirmidhi 1997 Muhammad bin Sirin narrated from Abu Hurairah - and I think he (narrated it from the Prophet) who said: "Love your beloved moderately, perhaps he becomes hated to you someday. And hate whom you hate moderately, perhaps he becomes your beloved someday."

This has to be your best video yet, JazakAllah Khair brother ❤

loving too much simply means you are trying to keep the vibe balanced, you should be acting as a man, and keep things crisp, loving her too much becomes too nice of you, the same way she is, and same energy dont attract. opposite feeelings attract

This is one of the best advice iv ever heard, and it makes so much sense

For us sisters it is the same 🤍

@l__Dark__l

9 күн бұрын

I don't know about that. Men are a lot more easy to please then women. But if a man sees how religious and pios his wife is, no sane man would complain.

@hakimdmhakimdm3282

9 күн бұрын

I mean man is most damage , Women in general are in anything on easy mode

I needed this, thank you so much

Jazak Allaah Khairan brother

جزاك الله كل خير أخي مهدي.

Allahumma barik. Jazakhallah khair. Your statements are strong and convincing especially when some of us know what you've achieved and gone through.

Bro that was beautiful and consoling. Barakallahu Feekum

Mahdi THANK YOU for the practical advice!

4:51 onwards. Subhanallah the most beautiful advice I have been so privileged to receive, allahuma barik feek dear brother. Seriously life-changing.

{*إن من* أزواجكم و أولادكم} not إنما بارك الله فيك يا أخي مهدي🩵

@MahdiTidjani

12 күн бұрын

JazaakAllahukhair

MashAllah, like every time, very good advice,very honest… 👍 Selam Aleikum from 🇧🇦Bosnia🇧🇦

Much needed reminder. Never love anyone/anything more than you love Allah.

Good reminder

A thought that occurred to me that helped me garner this balanced relationship with my wives, which is loving them but knowing fully well only Allah's recompense is guaranteed and she's not part of the guarantees. Also knowing fully well we men should be doing Jihad. Knowing fully well I might die and she'll become a widow. Knowing fully well its SUNNAH for men to marry and take care of widows. So I'll have died and she's with another man. That was a hard pill to swallow but by the time I got around it, it gave me a more grounded viewpoint on my relationship with this Dunya including the relationship with the family.

@emma647

10 күн бұрын

What pills do you think your wives are swallowing while your married to multiple women worrying about them remarrying when your dead? 😂

If a woman puts Allah first some weak men try to do shaytans work and discourage her or call her a neglectful mother or best one .."hypocrite/fake" or remind her about her past when she wasnt practicing.. Lol

@awrjkf

11 күн бұрын

Women who put Allah first, will respect their man and vice-versa. It's for both.

@user-ve4zw6jp9i

11 күн бұрын

​@awrjkf. I agree but putting Allah first involves seeking Knowledge such as knowing his names and attributes and learning the fundamentals of tawheed ... Seeking knowledge takes time and not everyone is on that path at the same time or even at the time of marriage

Back to the old setuppp…….. letssgooooooo

Ahsant brother

Subhanallah ❤

Old mahdi viiiibbbbessss let's goo

We love you for the sake of Allah mahdi

May Allah reward you for your work akhi Mahdi

Correction of the verse: قال الله تعالى: " يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا إِنَّ مِنْ أَزْوَاجِكُمْ وَأَوْلَادِكُمْ عَدُوًّا لَّكُمْ فَاحْذَرُوهُمْ.."

@Zahin-d8e

7 күн бұрын

Which verse and Surah is this?

Think of it like a magnet and a spoon. Finding that balance of distance & closeness is the key, just enough for the spoon to feel the magnetic tension. Have too much distance and you'll be a jerk. Be too close and she'll lose respect for you.

Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Love whom you love mildly, perhaps he will become hateful to you someday. Hate whom you hate mildly, perhaps he will become your beloved someday.”

ماشاءالله احسنت

There are men following you tricking women to marry them saying Allah and the angles are their witnesses and then offering her zero mahr. And then telling her to obey him. Then taking away all her freedom and providing her no place to live and not letting her talk to her family or even female friends. Thinking she will get “ideas”. It’s horrifying

❤❤❤

Never love your wife more than she loves you and this way you never let her have leverage over you, because this dunya is all about having leverage and the upper hand.

@awrjkf

11 күн бұрын

And this does not work the other way. Because if a man loves a women more, she will loose attraction, desire, respect, and ultimately love. She will be bored. But the other way around, if a woman love more than the man, the relationship still remains strong.

This is what stoicism teaches basically. Beautiful philosophy which of course I believe came from Islam. mA

Applies to ALL men. ( from any religion )

Perhaps Allah divorces people when they unintentionally make their lives about eachother and neglect religious duties and dhikr so that they go back to Him

@1saadx

12 күн бұрын

This cannot be as in a hadith I believe, it is mentioned that the most permissible and hated thing to Allah is divorce.

@user-ve4zw6jp9i

11 күн бұрын

@@Quran_and_dawahhh i feel like this applied to me except jt wasn't love it was hatred. Too much focus on revenge and tit for tat

@user-ve4zw6jp9i

11 күн бұрын

And hatred shaves the religion

The best marriage scientice

True, Women will always disappoint you.

Your wife needs to love YOU more.

@muhammadomar784

12 күн бұрын

dont worry about him he got multiple wives

What’s that on your nose

Dwellimg on sinful thoughts is harām and harmful, INVASIVE thoughts are what is not sinful in terms of blame...

Allah

Asalam alaykum. We shouldn't be calling women bins.

@MahdiTidjani

11 күн бұрын

Bints** = daughter of

@isaaclowe5000

11 күн бұрын

@@MahdiTidjani ohh okay. Sorry, brother

@shabanatasleem3532

11 күн бұрын

@@isaaclowe5000Someone’s DAUGHTER/SISTER etc.

@shabanatasleem3532

11 күн бұрын

“Keeping her at bay” sounds like or comes across as “playing mean to keep her keen” etc.

@SoloPro

11 күн бұрын

😂😂😂😂

Everyone tries to teach men how to behave, but ALMOST NOBODY WANTS TO TEACH WOMEN HOW TO BEHAVE, NOT EVEN THEIR MOTHER OR FATHER, THIS IS THE PROBLEM OF OUR UMMAH 04:30 Brother if someone takes 50% of what you had, even if you wanna marry, not many women will wanna marry you - for them you are damaged goods: 1. You know their manipulation tactics and you wont fall for them anymore 2. You are bitter and will not act as a doormat nice guy anymore 3. You dont have as much money to offer 4. What is even worse - if you pay Child support. Almost no women wants to marry a man who pays Child Support. Cause you already have less money than other guys per month Instead of attacking the Muslim Brother who is disappointed in Women - try to teach women a lesson. Lately very much of Muslim sisters "disappoint" men by initiating divorce without proper reason. So if you are a millionair you can marry 10 times until you are broke. But if you are a regular guy it takes 2 marriages and Child support to make you live like low life if you pay 50% of your salary for Child Support. After such experience you start thinking that women see you only as a wallet and this is pretty much insulting... just as if men were viewing women as if they had nothing to offer except their body.

We shouldn't be making new schedules of habits that Muhammad sallilahu alayhi wasalam didn't have. This is a bidah

@enacausmembrane

12 күн бұрын

you making this new rule IS A BIDAH

@isaaclowe5000

11 күн бұрын

@@enacausmembrane Asalam alaykum. "You should make this specific action on this specific time schedule part of your habits in order to improve your religion" is definitely a statement that invites others to bidah. Our religion, with all of its actions, and all of the times those actions are performed in, are already perfected. We already have the principle of thinking about Allah. But there is no "every one hour" in Allah's religion. We have specified times for Salah, Hajj, Ramadan, Tahajud, etc. And if there are specified times where we think about Allah like this, then they have to be specified times that are from Islam. The rules of our religious actions have already been made. We shouldn't be making new ones. This is clear-cut the definition of bidah, in terms of time. I'm not being paranoid.

@shabanatasleem3532

11 күн бұрын

Can you clarify what’s “bidah” about what he’s stating? It’s obvious that one must adopt an Allah-centric approach, putting Allah SWT at the centre or at the core of one’s existence. However, there’s a narration that states (don’t quote me as am paraphrasing ), if a woman should bow down to anyone after Allah SWT, it’s the wife to the hub! Now, I’m uncertain as to whether this is weak or authentic, TBC in due course. FI: kzread.info/dash/bejne/pn-TqdKSltPKeZs.htmlsi=tBpBEjpeKEG_s7gz

@user-ve4zw6jp9i

11 күн бұрын

Where is the evidence supporting your statement?

@shabanatasleem3532

11 күн бұрын

@@user-ve4zw6jp9i watch the clip. The brother states the narration in the clip. Now, this doesn’t mean to physically bow to the hub, however, highlights the prominence of the hub in a marital relationship (providing he’s not telling the his woman to engage in haram or anything that goes against what Allah and His messenger have stated).

The more I see who women really are, the more I love Allah. No woman can love and forgive you like Allah. In fact a woman can divorce you and turn your children against you even if you do everything she asks. But Allah will never turn away from you if you act as He wants.

Brother mahdi , how can i get over the obsession of marrying the most beautiful woman and marry an average looking conservative sister

@Muslim-87

11 күн бұрын

Looks will fade deen and character remain the same remember her looks will not rise your children her mind set will

@ThisisEnzoman

11 күн бұрын

@Muslim-87 but i see 60 yo women still look younger and even young men desire them , they are also religious

@ThisisEnzoman

11 күн бұрын

@khanhamid3744 nobody is perfect but I'm 1000 percent attractive, not tall but i believe i deserve better not a narcissist

@zain371

11 күн бұрын

@@ThisisEnzomanjust by looking at your pic your below average looking so relax bro u would be lucky to even get a average looking female

Your teachings are very negative about women and you talk about disappointment from women but without highlighting the character failings of men who interacted with or treated such women badly in the first place. Good character men will produce good behaviour from women or rather those who are supposed to be their wives. The question is why are there so few good men, even in the Muslim world? Have you reviewed your own behaviour and attitude towards the women you interacted with, before you concluded that they are the faulty or defective?

@carljohnson2194

12 күн бұрын

lol triggered

@TheFatMan

9 күн бұрын

Women in the West are a lost cause. Good riddance

You need to believe in Jesus that’s what u need to do

@sarahassafiri1490

12 күн бұрын

Islam is the only other religion in the world that believes jesus was a prophet of god other then Christianty . Go tell the jews , hindus , buddhists ect to believe in jesus

@carljohnson2194

12 күн бұрын

We already do as a prophet

@awrjkf

11 күн бұрын

But we do believe tho