If Women Were Honest

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  • @tobiewolfen01
    @tobiewolfen01 Жыл бұрын

    2023 should be the year we practice unfiltered honesty like this.

  • @josefzalusky7307

    @josefzalusky7307

    Жыл бұрын

    Ah, were it so easy

  • @ElysianKink

    @ElysianKink

    Жыл бұрын

    Some people just want to watch the world burn

  • @31tentacles

    @31tentacles

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm autistic (diagnosed autism, not tiktok autism) and our brain comes with no filter, we have to learn it but many don't even get it and others just forget to turn on the filter before speaking, so we tend to talk like this but not angry or trying to be rude, we just say what we think. It is awful most of the time, you get misunderstood, everyone thinks you are a jerk or trying to be edgy by being rude, but also nerd in a bad way and it makes it way more difficult to socialize, work, make friends, or even ask for something at the grocery store. It is not as cool or funny as it sounds.

  • @StoriiDraws

    @StoriiDraws

    Жыл бұрын

    @@31tentacles I have ADHD and also have the same no filter thingy it can be annoying and I lost some friends bc of it

  • @jkbtulsa

    @jkbtulsa

    Жыл бұрын

    Hell yes

  • @pedromorais6826
    @pedromorais6826 Жыл бұрын

    Honestly, that one at the end is the single greatest rejection I've ever heard at a club. If only

  • @bluesteel8376

    @bluesteel8376

    Жыл бұрын

    Ya, I wish I could get that kind of feedback from women.

  • @SsoulBlade

    @SsoulBlade

    Жыл бұрын

    Typically women would take the drink and start chatting with Chad.

  • @BekSep

    @BekSep

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah. It would be great if we weren't afraid of rape and murder due to simple rejection, too.🤷

  • @Viidarr13

    @Viidarr13

    Жыл бұрын

    yes!

  • @kiyokumabear

    @kiyokumabear

    Жыл бұрын

    That's the type of rejection I do, but honestly I don't go to clubs, so that may have something to do with it. 😅

  • @reginaldtyler3581
    @reginaldtyler35817 ай бұрын

    That last one would save alotta people alotta time and frustration

  • @annablaze4577

    @annablaze4577

    6 ай бұрын

    It would have been funny if the guy said .......Aye fair enough

  • @FireGuyPig

    @FireGuyPig

    6 ай бұрын

    And money for the guy. But then again girls love free drinks regardless if it’s at the buyer’s expense

  • @janaelqubatan

    @janaelqubatan

    6 ай бұрын

    ⁠@@FireGuyPiglove how y’all blaming the women lmao don’t be a pig and go after every single woman you see and maybe you won’t waste any money

  • @FireGuyPig

    @FireGuyPig

    6 ай бұрын

    @@janaelqubatan wild you think I’m a desperate pig off of one comment lol how about this one: don’t go for the first guy that gives you any attention, ignore how he treats you like shit, then paint all men as evil after he leaves you used and abused. There’s a classic blunder

  • @janaelqubatan

    @janaelqubatan

    6 ай бұрын

    @@FireGuyPig lmao never me 🤣 never let a man even raise his voice at me try again 🤣🤣

  • @loneronin6813
    @loneronin68135 ай бұрын

    I wish women were this honest. I wish people in general were this honest regardless of gender.

  • @daemonsadi4964

    @daemonsadi4964

    4 ай бұрын

    People say they want this level of honesty, and then they meet me. Most people don’t want this. Trust.

  • @asierurteagaaguirre3462

    @asierurteagaaguirre3462

    3 ай бұрын

    @@daemonsadi4964 Same

  • @josephpotter5766

    @josephpotter5766

    3 ай бұрын

    I mean. Yes, with my whole heart, but that may just be the autism talking.

  • @seraphinajadeite

    @seraphinajadeite

    3 ай бұрын

    @@daemonsadi4964You are absolutely right. The people who say they want unfiltered honesty are the very ones who can’t handle it when you are absolutely honest with them.

  • @delena4evertvd267
    @delena4evertvd267 Жыл бұрын

    the “DO YOU WANT A FCKN AWARD?” one was so spot on.

  • @conniecakes06

    @conniecakes06

    Жыл бұрын

    facts, the stfu was priceless! 🙌🏽🤌🏽

  • @yentlcloud

    @yentlcloud

    Жыл бұрын

    i used to work somewhere FOR FREE just like my colleagues. every freaking saturday 3 people who worked there (again for free) would be going ''' omg i haent eaten all day'' EVERY week. at some point it was clear to me these people just refused to get a quick sandwich or something, i dont understand why?!?! you arent even getting paid BRUH you're not impressing me either.

  • @aidenflame1576

    @aidenflame1576

    Жыл бұрын

    Id be the onr doin this but because i legitimately forget to eat xD id hear them do this Pause Eyes widen Oh shit i didnt eat today yet! ....or dinner yesterday fuck. Move i gotta make somethin or my brothers gonna be mad Lmao

  • @wyclefohara4169

    @wyclefohara4169

    Жыл бұрын

    @@yentlcloud it's their way to bring attention... They might want others to feel sorry for them or they think it's a cool skill to not eat🤣 My mother also thinks this way, she doesn't eat for hours while scrolling on her phone and then sighs theatrically and, using a lot of pain in her voice, goes 'I haven't eaten all day🥺😣' 🤣

  • @eliashuapilla

    @eliashuapilla

    Жыл бұрын

    I prefer cookies. Thank you😂😂

  • @DMBMattMan
    @DMBMattMan Жыл бұрын

    Real talk, if a woman answered the drink question that way I’d high five her and go on my way. That kind of honesty is incredible.

  • @pauldanyliuk6356

    @pauldanyliuk6356

    Жыл бұрын

    I'd come up with a comparably elaborate reply that would basically mean, ok you're not initially attracted to me but that can change if we talk a little because now you got my sincere interest.

  • @pigeondance687

    @pigeondance687

    Жыл бұрын

    do keep in mind that women don't feel safe with men they don't know and being honest about not being attracted to them might set that man off. yes some see it as honesty, as it is, but some see it as her being rude, or an "entitled b*tch" (something a man told my female friend after she didn't give him her phone number). so it's better to learn to understand signs of her not wanting to hang out with you

  • @Joostmhw

    @Joostmhw

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@pauldanyliuk6356 just take the no and go dude

  • @dzbanecekfrost666

    @dzbanecekfrost666

    Жыл бұрын

    Good for you, that's nice. With a lot of people tho it isn't so easy. It doesn't matter if I find a dude attractive or not, I don't feel safe in that scenario because it generally means I owe them something. But sometimes you just have to say you have a boyfriend or smth because a lot of people won't take a no. And saying this only makes them respond with "that can change" or them just pressuring you. Also, in a noisy club I doubt the guy would even hear a half of my monologue xD

  • @kam.kam.

    @kam.kam.

    Жыл бұрын

    @@pauldanyliuk6356 I would accept the drink then and hang for a bit. I like that response.

  • @AYuxlin
    @AYuxlin6 ай бұрын

    You forgot the famous line: "I'm fine."

  • @geraxho

    @geraxho

    5 ай бұрын

    Es lo mismo en español, my brother.

  • @Dovewcue.

    @Dovewcue.

    5 ай бұрын

    As a Woman I can confirm that this is true

  • @mrsaltydino4817

    @mrsaltydino4817

    5 ай бұрын

    def think men have the im fine one under control rn

  • @SomeDude.1117

    @SomeDude.1117

    5 ай бұрын

    She didn't forget it. It's not an honest statement.

  • @krisdagger9486

    @krisdagger9486

    5 ай бұрын

    That line is famous for being the least honest response to a situation a woman is in for defusing or avoiding her true feelings to not make things worse it is the biggest most toxic lie that woman use and it not only hurts the person that asked if they're okay because it implys that they can't be honest with them but also hurts the woman being honest with herself, it's about as far from being honest as you can get lol

  • @-caspo-
    @-caspo-7 ай бұрын

    That last one is unironically a good idea

  • @janaelqubatan

    @janaelqubatan

    6 ай бұрын

    not at all I always till this day reject men by a no thank you and many many times they became very aggressive because when a women tells them straight up im not interested in you it hurts their ego

  • @-caspo-

    @-caspo-

    6 ай бұрын

    @@janaelqubatan I agree that their is a chance that they become aggressive but if you’re in a public place, that chance goes down close to zero. Unless their super drunk that is. Super drunk guys don’t care how many people are around.

  • @alphonsenguyen3737
    @alphonsenguyen3737 Жыл бұрын

    Damn that honest answer at the club deserves praises and respect for honesty 😳

  • @christopherstein2024

    @christopherstein2024

    Жыл бұрын

    It should be the standard answer. Nobody wants to pay a drink for a person that doesn't want anything to do with them.

  • @norelizrosa3469

    @norelizrosa3469

    Жыл бұрын

    @@christopherstein2024 Just because she isn't initially attracted doesn't mean much. I've given guys a chance and found other qualities I was attracted to, and that turned into physical attraction. That's up to her if she's interested in exploring or not.

  • @lucasbolton3951

    @lucasbolton3951

    Жыл бұрын

    Honestly, that would be the best answer to hear personally. It's direct, honest, and wouldn't leave me with a "is she trying to tell me something, or do I just walk away." I got my answer and move on.

  • @anthonygregory6797

    @anthonygregory6797

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@lucasbolton3951 the whole cat-and-mouse thing silly to me.

  • @audhumbla6927

    @audhumbla6927

    Жыл бұрын

    well now you know thats what that means. should be obvious but ok

  • @whoahanant
    @whoahanant Жыл бұрын

    "Looked at but not touched" is so accurate call em a sharp shooter.

  • @maxwellsmith1578

    @maxwellsmith1578

    Жыл бұрын

    First comment 😮

  • @mediasheeple6143

    @mediasheeple6143

    Жыл бұрын

    Not touched unless it's the 1/10000 guy that walks in*

  • @gemmaclark4684

    @gemmaclark4684

    Жыл бұрын

    "Yes I would like a free drink that sounds great, but only if I don't have to engage with you or ever see you again the moment the drink has left your hand and entered mine, thank you"

  • @jan_1sep566

    @jan_1sep566

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi

  • @tired-soup

    @tired-soup

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@mediasheeple6143not touched period actually because we don't know u 🙃

  • @naheleshiriki5496
    @naheleshiriki54966 ай бұрын

    This woman is my spirit animal for the most part I do in fact speak this bluntly because I'm tired of awkward social misunderstandings.

  • @christiewolters9597

    @christiewolters9597

    6 ай бұрын

    Same, the reception isn’t as good as these comments

  • @brogers1559

    @brogers1559

    5 ай бұрын

    I bet you get called ugly things because of it... Personally, I prefer the direct approach! It does make things so much easier! So, I will say thank you, dear, keep it up!

  • @MojoPup

    @MojoPup

    5 ай бұрын

    That was the nicest letdown I've ever heard. Would've saved me so much time and money.

  • @humpadumpathump5918

    @humpadumpathump5918

    5 ай бұрын

    Hurray!!

  • @Luna-ky3jl

    @Luna-ky3jl

    3 ай бұрын

    Yeah, it'll only be awkwardly social 😅

  • @matthewmaccaughey5016
    @matthewmaccaughey50165 ай бұрын

    You've helped me understand women more in this video than I have understood in my entire life.

  • @trogust
    @trogust Жыл бұрын

    Honestly if I was given that answer about ordering her a drink I would have been delighted at such clear communication.

  • @theroachden6195

    @theroachden6195

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah. I mean I prefer a direct "no" so I can get everything she said in just one word and I don't have to be water boarded with the rest lol.

  • @soulhunter59

    @soulhunter59

    Жыл бұрын

    @@theroachden6195 But then you get a “Why not it’s just one drink.”

  • @BravosReviews

    @BravosReviews

    Жыл бұрын

    Lol me fucking too. Why waste both of our times?

  • @esme_melody

    @esme_melody

    Жыл бұрын

    @@soulhunter59 exactly. u have to absolutely crush their soul or they will not give up. and even then

  • @soulhunter59

    @soulhunter59

    Жыл бұрын

    @@esme_melody Thats why I ask “would you like to have a drink with me.” I think it worked because I was a pretty boy with blue eyes.

  • @STARKILLER15100
    @STARKILLER15100 Жыл бұрын

    Ngl I’d actually prefer to be rejected like that than given some rude remark. It’s genuinely respectful.

  • @STARKILLER15100

    @STARKILLER15100

    Жыл бұрын

    @mac it’s boys who act immaturely. Men take it with dignity and move on. They don’t waste time chasin a girl who clearly said her piece. Boys on the other hand will do.

  • @sebdapleb1523

    @sebdapleb1523

    Жыл бұрын

    @@STARKILLER15100 men sized boys

  • @JustapErson

    @JustapErson

    Жыл бұрын

    @mac I feel like I see comments like this a lot online, that women are too afraid to turn down guys, but from what I've seen with my friends, it seems like women are more likely to be cruel or laugh when turning down a guy instead of being scared.

  • @RustyShackleford86868

    @RustyShackleford86868

    Жыл бұрын

    Problem is they don't have respect, but they want respect.

  • @flakesinyershoe8137

    @flakesinyershoe8137

    Жыл бұрын

    Easiest way to attract women at bars is to look like the happiest guy in the room. Their natural instinct is to destroy happiness, and they will practically bang you right there in front of everyone.

  • @ashleyhang445
    @ashleyhang4456 ай бұрын

    Freaking GOLD. I stopped drinking but still hang out at the bar because all my friends work there and I'm 100% going to test out that last one and report back. 😂

  • @hardtymz2517

    @hardtymz2517

    4 ай бұрын

    If this bar isn’t in a good area, this might go badly.

  • @Torithewanderingma
    @Torithewanderingma Жыл бұрын

    “I’d rather dance by myself and be looked at, but not touched”. I’m feeling that vibe.

  • @choc113

    @choc113

    Жыл бұрын

    I think a lot of men don't know that some women go to clubs for this and are confused by the "brush off" as to them the only reason to go clubbing is to hook up

  • @Grenadaspice1

    @Grenadaspice1

    Жыл бұрын

    Same, the last part was me when I went clubbing with my girlfriends. Sometimes I just want to shake my behind without some dude trying to rub up on me 😂

  • @kr8s

    @kr8s

    Жыл бұрын

    Do girls like to be looked at clubs ?... All drunk man out of their senses

  • @swewunna

    @swewunna

    Жыл бұрын

    A simple "No" would do.

  • @loreless1258

    @loreless1258

    Жыл бұрын

    We really need to change society so it's the rule for women to approach men/make the first move. It'd be so much less bullshit and trauma on both sides. Let's face it's it's mostly down to the woman's selection, men just haveto kiss a lot of frogs and hope they eventually get a positive outcome. But it just breeds a world where women get hastled and men get increasingly negative views of women due to being told to f-off etc.

  • @serotonin5852
    @serotonin5852 Жыл бұрын

    I love how the reaction of the guy is always just vague confusion. Like "...wait...that answer was straightforward...is this real life?"

  • @someoneudontknow3709

    @someoneudontknow3709

    Жыл бұрын

    To be fair you would be confused too if you were in "read between the lines mode" but there was nothing in between the line's

  • @mysocksarewet

    @mysocksarewet

    Жыл бұрын

    @@someoneudontknow3709 it’s a single line

  • @someoneudontknow3709

    @someoneudontknow3709

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mysocksarewet don't make it more confusing my brain already hurts from trying to find a double meaning in a blunt statement

  • @mysocksarewet

    @mysocksarewet

    Жыл бұрын

    @@someoneudontknow3709 😏

  • @staycheifien

    @staycheifien

    Жыл бұрын

    @@someoneudontknow3709 tbh I wouldn’t be confused :/

  • @callyiahmcfadden5238
    @callyiahmcfadden52386 ай бұрын

    "I am testing you and his depends on my mood for the rest of the day... *Does a big breath* HWAUGH.. Does this make me look fat?" *SO RELATEABLE*

  • @Ryanpullin8852
    @Ryanpullin885217 күн бұрын

    2023 should be the year we practice unfiltered honesty like this

  • @JELKEK
    @JELKEK10 ай бұрын

    I once had a girl in a club flat out tell me she wanted to talk but my breath was bad, she was right and I never forgot to freshen up again before going out. Unfiltered honesty fucking rules.

  • @ggmochie2615

    @ggmochie2615

    7 ай бұрын

    And people who can take unfiltered honesty also rule 👑

  • @priscila_gomez_perez

    @priscila_gomez_perez

    7 ай бұрын

    @@ggmochie2615 ikr

  • @jamiepianist

    @jamiepianist

    7 ай бұрын

    It's very hard to take unfiltered honesty but also very important

  • @camelio10

    @camelio10

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@ggmochie2615lol you want to test that on a woman?

  • @ggmochie2615

    @ggmochie2615

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@camelio10 hate to break it to ya but...i am a woman. honestly, no filter. ;)

  • @AB0786
    @AB0786 Жыл бұрын

    It'd be way better like this if everyone was honest like this lol

  • @lilah_barrels

    @lilah_barrels

    Жыл бұрын

    Frr

  • @Grivton

    @Grivton

    Жыл бұрын

    @Jack Wrath i keep seeing this guy in different comment sections doing the same thing

  • @dayjwalker4220

    @dayjwalker4220

    Жыл бұрын

    If you’re honest like this with some guys they would be offended and say or do something stupid

  • @RRKS

    @RRKS

    Жыл бұрын

    As someone on the autistic spectrum.. that would be a true relief 😂

  • @sarahr.rosenvall7978

    @sarahr.rosenvall7978

    Жыл бұрын

    Vegan Teacher is that you?

  • @Mac_n_Cheesyy
    @Mac_n_Cheesyy5 ай бұрын

    "Come on dude the worse she can say is no" Kris: (says a entire rejection sentence) "Dude she said more the no I had a whole rejection"

  • @liv_balanced_llc
    @liv_balanced_llc5 ай бұрын

    Love this so much, especially the “want an award” scene. Me? I want to eat food😂

  • @Tra5h_boat6368
    @Tra5h_boat6368 Жыл бұрын

    The guy still trying to find hidden meaning in the statements because he’s not used to a straightforward answer is very accurate 😂

  • @yeastofthoughtsmind9623

    @yeastofthoughtsmind9623

    Жыл бұрын

    "I know she said this was a test, but what if that was *part* of the test and there's some secret meaning?" 🤔

  • @nasreensarah

    @nasreensarah

    Жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂

  • @itjustworks7386

    @itjustworks7386

    Жыл бұрын

    IS THE TEST A TEST? To test if you failed the test that isn't infact a test but is?😭 Legit how some guys gotta think when they think a girl tests them😂 we get so fcking confused

  • @borano2031

    @borano2031

    Жыл бұрын

    @@itjustworks7386 Who promised life would be easy?????? Rgr

  • @personne6600

    @personne6600

    Жыл бұрын

    open a book, maybe you'll understand words better.

  • @Cleisthenes607
    @Cleisthenes607 Жыл бұрын

    The last one was brutally honest to both sexes, the whole wanting to be looked at part.

  • @MsBluebot

    @MsBluebot

    Жыл бұрын

    I’ll pass personally it’ll make me feel uncomfortable

  • @ricardopaez1745

    @ricardopaez1745

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah, if this was reality I would really appreciate the honesty, then I’d know I’m not being creepy, she just isn’t interested

  • @samwebb3577

    @samwebb3577

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@Ricardo Paez idk a no thanks is a pretty good sign but a lot of men don't seem to get it unless we're rude. I told a guy no thanks and he was like "are you sure?" Like would I have said no if I wasn't?

  • @YourRussiandad650

    @YourRussiandad650

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@samwebb3577 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @YourRussiandad650

    @YourRussiandad650

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@samwebb3577 Some are stubborn 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @mikeisthelunawolf
    @mikeisthelunawolf5 ай бұрын

    I wish so much for this to be the norm. It would save so much time and so many big arguments.

  • @jessicadelrosario2185
    @jessicadelrosario2185 Жыл бұрын

    After 15 years of marriage, i'm realizing that this level of honesty is actually very effective for both my husband AND myself.

  • @mertentischler8815

    @mertentischler8815

    Жыл бұрын

    🙈

  • @-A-c

    @-A-c

    Жыл бұрын

    Growth....not many experience it, but it's one hell of a gift that keeps on giving. Glad you guys survived and were patient enough with each other to gain it.

  • @GMM_munkey55

    @GMM_munkey55

    Жыл бұрын

    Can confirm, as a male species of the human race. I appreciate when my wife who is the female species of the human race. Speaks what she actually means. Been working for 18 years so far. Shocking apparently lmao

  • @mertentischler8815

    @mertentischler8815

    Жыл бұрын

    @@GMM_munkey55 i thought that youre a Cat using a device conected to the Internet.

  • @GMM_munkey55

    @GMM_munkey55

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mertentischler8815 I didn't identify as a cat? But also thank god you said that, where did the people go?

  • @sebastianshine4262
    @sebastianshine4262 Жыл бұрын

    This is what KZread was made for. You write a title. And then you deliver what's in the title. Perfect

  • @commandercaptain4664

    @commandercaptain4664

    Жыл бұрын

    B-b-but how will I know to like/comment/subscribe if no one tells me to at the beginning of every video ever? HOW, YOU MONSTER??? *HOW??????*

  • @FroobTubeLIVE

    @FroobTubeLIVE

    Жыл бұрын

    Shouldn't be such a turn of events, but here we are

  • @gabrielgraf2521

    @gabrielgraf2521

    Жыл бұрын

    Or you make a video and give the video afterwards a title 😂

  • @sebastianshine4262

    @sebastianshine4262

    Жыл бұрын

    @@gabrielgraf2521 rickest rick out here to bend the laws of physics, hm? Go back to you universe where such things are possible. Burps

  • @gabrielgraf2521

    @gabrielgraf2521

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sebastianshine4262 🤣🤣🤣

  • @waynehewett4017
    @waynehewett40175 ай бұрын

    I wish all women were so blankly honest like that Fights and disagreements would vanish over night And divorce lawyers and the family courts would go broke In fact it should be a trial law you have to tell the truth no matter what

  • @gnarshread
    @gnarshread5 ай бұрын

    I legitimately appreciate and respect the honesty.

  • @mlmj1994
    @mlmj1994 Жыл бұрын

    “I’d rather be looked at but not touched.” 💯😂

  • @daleford8621

    @daleford8621

    Жыл бұрын

    Then talk shit about the male gaze

  • @Ur2ndfyp

    @Ur2ndfyp

    Жыл бұрын

    @@daleford8621 yeah bc most dudes make it obvious😂

  • @WeAreInYourWall

    @WeAreInYourWall

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@Ur2ndfyp as obvious as walking around with visible underwear/ a whole titty out?

  • @jaideepshekhar4621

    @jaideepshekhar4621

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Ur2ndfyp WTF is this logic?

  • @foxybalanza1315

    @foxybalanza1315

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes

  • @loonbyrd3688
    @loonbyrd368810 ай бұрын

    This is so accurate. Esp the "i wanna be looked at but not touched"

  • @catalinat4721

    @catalinat4721

    10 ай бұрын

    Not necessarily. Some call it S.H. just by being looked at when the guy's not attractive to them. Nowadays you never know.

  • @loonbyrd3688

    @loonbyrd3688

    10 ай бұрын

    @@catalinat4721 that's the exception, not the rule.

  • @catalinat4721

    @catalinat4721

    10 ай бұрын

    @@loonbyrd3688 not as uncommon as you think.

  • @loonbyrd3688

    @loonbyrd3688

    10 ай бұрын

    @catalinat4721 you don't know what I think. And I didn't say it was entirely uncommon. But I think the reason people think it happens more often than it does, is because people who complain, are louder than people who don't.

  • @catalinat4721

    @catalinat4721

    10 ай бұрын

    @@loonbyrd3688 your comment was more than clear, I obviously don't know what you think. I do however, understand the meaning of the comment you made but apparently you don't. AnYwAy, good day!

  • @dainejir661
    @dainejir6615 ай бұрын

    I wish our corrupted politicians would be this brutally honest.

  • @hardtymz2517

    @hardtymz2517

    4 ай бұрын

    trumpy bear pretty much is. He yells the whisper politician parts and vice city versa.

  • @QuilloManar
    @QuilloManar3 ай бұрын

    We starting open and honest communication with this one!! 🗣️🗣️🔥🔥🔥

  • @Scott-jk5zk
    @Scott-jk5zk Жыл бұрын

    Rejection hurts but hurts way less than being led on

  • @ShitpostingJoJo

    @ShitpostingJoJo

    Жыл бұрын

    Fax. 😅But tbh that rejection was pretty polite 😆 hell, I'm pretty sure most of us guys would've taken that answer and been like: Understandable, Have a nice night 🗿👌

  • @-KMA-

    @-KMA-

    Жыл бұрын

    Sooo you’re being led on of a girl accepts your drink and doesn’t mess around with you? Maybe guys should be honest and say, “ can I buy you a drink with the expectation of you hanging out with me or fkn me?” because it’s one of the two and you never really just want to be generous and buy a girl a drink for the hell of it. Works both ways.

  • @dawnvega383

    @dawnvega383

    Жыл бұрын

    I will almost always dance with a guy even when I’m not interested & tell the guy while we are dancing so he can always save face with the boys and ask someone else who will probably dance with you! Cuz she watched you dance and not try to grope the last girl! Good luck! The odds are in your favor! Talk to girls and Listen!!!🎉❤

  • @davidkadiri5905

    @davidkadiri5905

    Жыл бұрын

    ​​​@@-KMA-women feel "led on" by way less as long as they find him attractive. A man could do basic acts of kindness and they would take that as a "green light" for attachment... Then accuse him later of leading them on.

  • @PunkyPrincessPop

    @PunkyPrincessPop

    Жыл бұрын

    @@davidkadiri5905 Come off it, men are rarely kind to women they don’t find attractive. They usually do something nice with the expectation of getting something they want from them.

  • @aj3751
    @aj3751 Жыл бұрын

    ladies, it's okay to be this honest. This is such a relief

  • @zacharyclarke4991

    @zacharyclarke4991

    Жыл бұрын

    @Melody Baird Nah

  • @ATruckCampbell

    @ATruckCampbell

    Жыл бұрын

    @melodybaird Better that then beat around the bush for a while then ghost you.

  • @AdamMclardy

    @AdamMclardy

    Жыл бұрын

    @Melody Baird I’d way prefer that

  • @Derzull2468

    @Derzull2468

    Жыл бұрын

    @Melody Baird, Being taken advantage of with lies and deception is way more brutal, don't you think?

  • @themaggattack

    @themaggattack

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah right if women said half this stuff, especially the last one, they'd get called a b*tch.

  • @lanceroparaca1413
    @lanceroparaca14135 ай бұрын

    The dancing response is actually very well recieved

  • @tynryder27
    @tynryder276 ай бұрын

    This would make life so much simpler and more peaceful

  • @alphabetagamma4142
    @alphabetagamma4142 Жыл бұрын

    If a woman said that to me in a club... My respect for her would 📈📈📈

  • @1BuFo

    @1BuFo

    Жыл бұрын

    Before or after being friendzoned 🤣

  • @sumbunniii8721

    @sumbunniii8721

    Жыл бұрын

    And then it would quickly be used against us later in relationship. Literally always happens. That’s why I’ve started to change and adapt accordingly. Being honest is literally a vulnerability for women. It’s only got me burned and used against me in the long run. Prolly why women have put up so many walls

  • @heehoopeanut420

    @heehoopeanut420

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@sum bunniii dude, literally!!!! something in our culture has to change so that men and women can find harmony. Like how the hell have we as a species let this shit go on for so long?

  • @vidosanchez6900

    @vidosanchez6900

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sumbunniii8721 because the dudes you got with were attractive/financially sound men. they know they are a commodity and don't have to be decent to women. that is not a dig against you - attractive women do the same to men. its just the nature of things. my best wishes to you in the dating / relationship field.

  • @urotakufujoshi9331

    @urotakufujoshi9331

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@heehoopeanut420agreed

  • @lauratogni2472
    @lauratogni2472 Жыл бұрын

    Ok the dancing one was unreal.... I feel violated. I never even knew thats exactly how i felt and now someone else has expressed my feelings using their words.....

  • @anjigoree9494

    @anjigoree9494

    Жыл бұрын

    I feel so attacked by that one. Lol. 😅

  • @JamesLeeRebudz

    @JamesLeeRebudz

    Жыл бұрын

    I would actually accept that answer as a guy. I'd rather know than not know

  • @thesmilingknight4982

    @thesmilingknight4982

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@JamesLeeRebudz i agree, just tell me what you want

  • @Watcher-in-the-Dark

    @Watcher-in-the-Dark

    Жыл бұрын

    That answer seems more than reasonable to me, just say it lol. "Hey sorry I am not really interested in you and just wanna dance but id like a drink anyway if you want" lol.

  • @Saintphoenix86

    @Saintphoenix86

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Watcher-in-the-Dark Yep and you know what even though she just shut down anything physical happening id buy her that drink just to show her i appreciated the honest answer

  • @littlelilacbunny
    @littlelilacbunny6 ай бұрын

    Last one is too relatable 😂😂❤❤

  • @wikyoOFL
    @wikyoOFL6 ай бұрын

    the last one is so accurate

  • @Exurdos
    @Exurdos Жыл бұрын

    The council of men politely requests more of this.

  • @Kevin-ox3db

    @Kevin-ox3db

    Жыл бұрын

    As a member of the council, I vote in favor of this(1).

  • @ferchuu9

    @ferchuu9

    Жыл бұрын

    I vote in favor (2)

  • @theterriblesensei1205

    @theterriblesensei1205

    Жыл бұрын

    I also vote in favor

  • @United.Kingdom.

    @United.Kingdom.

    Жыл бұрын

    I vote in favor

  • @SamTheMan55555

    @SamTheMan55555

    Жыл бұрын

    I also humbly affirm this request of the council of men.

  • @hexicsupera3526
    @hexicsupera3526 Жыл бұрын

    I honestly feel like this kind of honesty is the breath of fresh air

  • @Stethacanthus

    @Stethacanthus

    Жыл бұрын

    You'd think so but it really backfires a lot.

  • @scootinkermie

    @scootinkermie

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@Stethacanthus yep gotta keep up the good face or whatever

  • @gozzilla177

    @gozzilla177

    Жыл бұрын

    @@scootinkermie Do it with laughter anytime you say something I have built up an entire persona of sarcasm around being brutally honest and laughing while doing so and people are just like "he is just sarcastic!" Haha

  • @ShamanMcLamie

    @ShamanMcLamie

    Жыл бұрын

    The problem is that you have a lot of entitled men who get angry when a girl directly rejects them. This is part of why women are so ridiculously subtle with rejection. Another part of it is that they constantly test men to see their emotional fortitude. Are they weak, needy, conniving, and overly emotional followers. Or are they strong, independent, honest, and stoic leaders. This is why they say nice guys finish last because they often give off the vibe of the former, while the bad boy comes off as the latter. The real trick is to be a good guy who is nice to everyone and to not completely change your behavior around a girl you like.

  • @Stethacanthus

    @Stethacanthus

    Жыл бұрын

    @@scootinkermie growing up with ASD, you take things literally and rely on rules for structure. So I was honest to a fault. Broke up with a girlfriend of about six months and she asked why. I told her it was because I had come to realize over that time that while I respect her humanity and wanted her to be happy and fulfilled in life, I didn't really respect her personally and didn't want to be part of what that meant for her, which made staying with her morally wrong for me since we were holding each other back from what we wanted out of life. That didn't go well.

  • @thariliyanage929
    @thariliyanage9297 ай бұрын

    This is the level of honesty you'd expect from most women where I'm from because they always tend to have a good masculine figure or figures that'd protect them in any situation.

  • @darlenea653
    @darlenea6535 ай бұрын

    I find this up front honesty refreshing ❤

  • @chiepah2
    @chiepah2 Жыл бұрын

    If a girl actually answered that way about the drink I'd buy her one anyway on principle and leave her alone.

  • @brandoncastellano1858

    @brandoncastellano1858

    Жыл бұрын

    “A toast to your honesty. Have a great rest of your night.”

  • @-KMA-

    @-KMA-

    Жыл бұрын

    I doubt it lol

  • @imjustsayin34

    @imjustsayin34

    Жыл бұрын

    @@-KMA- right 😂😂they’re only agreeable online irl I’ve had guys literally stalk me over a drink

  • @chiepah2

    @chiepah2

    Жыл бұрын

    @@-KMA- I understand your doubt, most people wouldn't, but I like this sort of behavior and would like to encourage it.

  • @JoshAllenberg

    @JoshAllenberg

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@imjustsayin34 the guys who go to clubs and bars for the sole purpose of picking up women are the same ones who get salty over rejection. But you'll never run into the guys who like brutal honesty there because clubbing and alcoholism are inherently dishonest activities

  • @ichbrauchmehrkaffee5785
    @ichbrauchmehrkaffee5785 Жыл бұрын

    "You guys want a f***ing award?" just killed me lol

  • @Monika-mb6jh

    @Monika-mb6jh

    Жыл бұрын

    I know! I hate diet culture and people glorifying it!! It’s not cool, you’re just annoying 😅

  • @ghostbravo7127

    @ghostbravo7127

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Monika-mb6jh Depends, when you are an athlete, sometimes you have no choice.

  • @susanazinger2525

    @susanazinger2525

    Жыл бұрын

    Me toooo 😂

  • @blademasterzero5295

    @blademasterzero5295

    Жыл бұрын

    I feel terrible that I thought “There’s no winner to this hunger game” as the preceding sentence 🤦🏽‍♂️😂

  • @Mallchad

    @Mallchad

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@ghostbravo7127 almost no athlete diet includes fasting though lol. intermittent fasting is ok on lazy days though

  • @Anduz001
    @Anduz0016 ай бұрын

    I would 100% prefer this honesty in every interaction!

  • @grittyfaithgrittyfacts
    @grittyfaithgrittyfacts5 ай бұрын

    Clear is kind ladies. Clear is kind.

  • @letitgrow1846
    @letitgrow1846 Жыл бұрын

    My wife is totally unfiltered like this. It's great. No games, no BS, just honesty.

  • @electrictroy2010

    @electrictroy2010

    Жыл бұрын

    That’s because you’re already hooked

  • @ajmclendon5219

    @ajmclendon5219

    Жыл бұрын

    I hate to tell you this.... but you married a dude!

  • @deadbeats4417

    @deadbeats4417

    Жыл бұрын

    probably cause you give her the safety to be honest, most men get mad and throw a fit.

  • @FeliciaKrismanta

    @FeliciaKrismanta

    Жыл бұрын

    Women cannot be totally honest because they are afraid of the backlash a lot of abusive men will inflict.

  • @unikeko96

    @unikeko96

    Жыл бұрын

    Only strong men can be with strong women. Fragile men throw a fit very easily so they want to find even more fragile women to be with

  • @TheKinglaharl
    @TheKinglaharl Жыл бұрын

    Perfect. That rejection at the end is honestly really nice in comparison to what usually happens

  • @V8_screw_electric_cars

    @V8_screw_electric_cars

    Жыл бұрын

    Don't ask them just look into her eyes until she comes to you.

  • @TheKinglaharl

    @TheKinglaharl

    Жыл бұрын

    @@V8_screw_electric_cars pretty sure that doesn't work unless she finds you incredibly attractive already. Average or below men would be called creepy for staring. Most women are already terrified of random men trying to do something to hurt them

  • @someonerandom704

    @someonerandom704

    Жыл бұрын

    Realistically her big boyfriend would come and assault you, and then everyone would cheer him on because he beat up a loser.

  • @shawiegand3183

    @shawiegand3183

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@V8_screw_electric_cars Wow... How many women have you forced into compliance, or were you just verbally & physically abusive and narcissistic?

  • @straw1berry11

    @straw1berry11

    Жыл бұрын

    What usually happens?

  • @austinmaiden4663
    @austinmaiden46637 ай бұрын

    I would buy the last girl a drink for her sheer honesty. Everyone please be more like this

  • @hardtymz2517

    @hardtymz2517

    4 ай бұрын

    You got trumpy bear money then! Just say “aight shorty” and bounce. No one has $85 to spend on a generic thank you drink.

  • @SealMan-tp8pp
    @SealMan-tp8pp7 күн бұрын

    Ngl my mom asked my dad if he thought her outfit made her look weird or something and he said “yah but in a hot way.” It caught her so of gard that she didn’t know if she should be upset or flattered lmao

  • @simonbarrett9194
    @simonbarrett9194 Жыл бұрын

    Tbh would love if a woman at a club or bar was honest like that.

  • @doyouevennaturebro4593

    @doyouevennaturebro4593

    Жыл бұрын

    Every dude would

  • @ronburgundy3172

    @ronburgundy3172

    Жыл бұрын

    That seems fair to me that way we would not waste each other time

  • @AARONPLAYZ1230_

    @AARONPLAYZ1230_

    Жыл бұрын

    I (girl...not Aaron) said no and he was like you don't have to talk to me...just want to buy you a drink. Ok, I took my beer, said thanks and walk away. He called me a bitch...so guys make up your mind cuz I was completely honest. LOL

  • @Merlincat007

    @Merlincat007

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah, unfortunately a lot of guys would get really angry (and some would get dangerous) in reaction to an answer like that.

  • @ihkeseteeietos5722

    @ihkeseteeietos5722

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah… women will get killed. You have no idea how many times I got harmed and threatened just because I reject men politely. Men do not take rejection very well.

  • @anthonygibbs2465
    @anthonygibbs2465 Жыл бұрын

    "Worst she can say is no bro" The last one:

  • @TheTpointer

    @TheTpointer

    Жыл бұрын

    @@badwolf3618 this

  • @koellekind

    @koellekind

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@badwolf3618 Very true. But the easy and not so hurtful option would just be to say "No thank you" to the drink offer. Honesty (especially with strangers) is not always the best option.

  • @msj9097

    @msj9097

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@badwolf3618 unfortunately many woman learn from an early age being that honest leads to confrontation that can easily lead to harassment or worse yet violence. Its easier to lie and avoid the situation. I know that's not comforting but it is honest

  • @pandaman1331

    @pandaman1331

    Жыл бұрын

    I've heard worse

  • @puppydogface2333

    @puppydogface2333

    Жыл бұрын

    BUT when she doesn't say no people are like just say no

  • @ErikratKhandnalie
    @ErikratKhandnalie3 ай бұрын

    This is it. This is what men want from women. Give us this level of honesty and bluntness.

  • @smirkinatu5512
    @smirkinatu55125 ай бұрын

    Precise and accurate. Thank you. It was funny in the past, now it saddens me.

  • @AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH.
    @AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH. Жыл бұрын

    She’s so pretty and annoyingly relatable

  • @user-nb9nh4qi9q

    @user-nb9nh4qi9q

    Жыл бұрын

    Omg the “69 years ago” Got me real good💀

  • @toshi_owl

    @toshi_owl

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@Jack Wrath wtf 💀

  • @ClaraJC99

    @ClaraJC99

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@user-nb9nh4qi9q I didn't see it until you pointed it out

  • @ClaraJC99

    @ClaraJC99

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@Jack Wrath sorry shan't chance clicking on a link just incase it's a scam.

  • @bi.fruitsalad

    @bi.fruitsalad

    Жыл бұрын

    @Jack Wrath stop lying challenge

  • @zoeyboo9352
    @zoeyboo9352 Жыл бұрын

    “Hey babe” “yeah” “ I am testing you right now and your answer will set the tone in my mood for the rest of the evening all right does this make me look fat?” Got me dying on the floor 😂

  • @playmusic8056

    @playmusic8056

    10 ай бұрын

    My aunt's favorite answer it's: "girl it ain't the outfit"

  • @natehill8069

    @natehill8069

    10 ай бұрын

    I offer this solution for what its worth. YMMV. My wife was pretty cute. But occasionally she would hit me with the "does this make me look fat?" grenade. Originally I would stupidly answer (truthfully) "No". But that didnt work, for no reason that a Y chromosome can fathom. Eventually tho I hit on a good technique. She would ask me that, and no matter what our schedule was or what she was wearing, I would say "It makes you look like someone Id like to be amorous with"* and then I would proceed to disrobe her and sometimes it led to stuff and sometimes not, but either way at least it wasnt cold shoulder for the rest of the day. *paraphrased

  • @07foxmulder

    @07foxmulder

    10 ай бұрын

    Why do people feel the need to type out the entire joke? Do they think no one else saw it?

  • @DegnaDings

    @DegnaDings

    10 ай бұрын

    @@07foxmulderwhy do ppl feel the need to correct ppls grammar and spelling? I don’t see you runnin into those comment section and crawlin up their asses abt it.

  • @xBintu

    @xBintu

    10 ай бұрын

    rip

  • @Matt-bu3ml
    @Matt-bu3ml5 ай бұрын

    Wish more women were honest like that during my clubbing days- would've saved me a lot of time and money 😂

  • @hardtymz2517

    @hardtymz2517

    4 ай бұрын

    Most rappers always rap about just pulling up to the club when it closes and the women come to them in the parking lot. Cheaper too! Go to the local library and rent a few rap CDs. How didn’t you ever not know this?! Never go INTO the club. It’s a trap! Learn.

  • @zp5808
    @zp58085 ай бұрын

    As a man I would love this honesty. ❤😂

  • @TheTwitchyBrownGuy
    @TheTwitchyBrownGuy Жыл бұрын

    If a woman rejected me in a club like that I would have so much damn respect for her lol, I'd buy her a drink and let her dance in peace

  • @nimeryaspawnbrd1049

    @nimeryaspawnbrd1049

    Жыл бұрын

    I've rejected man in clubs like this plenty of time. In my experience, they usually become extra grumpy and leave after dropping the saddest, butthurt retort they can think on the spot ("I was hitting on you out of pity anyways" kinda shit)... 😅 But if you really mean it, I hope you get rejected by the right girl, so to speak 😉

  • @golden_leader9227

    @golden_leader9227

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@nimeryaspawnbrd1049 In my experience too. The standard comment after the rejection (direct but not rude, mind you) is "well, you're too ugly anyway, i was asking because i have pity for you, but clearly you're also a b*tch", sooooo

  • @Ttavoc

    @Ttavoc

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly what I thought. Buy her a drink and let her dance 😅

  • @wruzzer

    @wruzzer

    Жыл бұрын

    @@nimeryaspawnbrd1049 well, i would do the same as twitchy, but u would never see me in a club. pretty sure that's the case for lots of males who would act like this.

  • @blue4u2054

    @blue4u2054

    Жыл бұрын

    Damn dude. Now I wish no girl ever rejects you 🥹

  • @BEEFDOCTOR
    @BEEFDOCTOR Жыл бұрын

    As a man, and a very literal creature, this is relationship goals.

  • @kprocess9058

    @kprocess9058

    Жыл бұрын

    i feel you man, sometimes it's so goddamn hard to understand what someone really wants, why can't everyone be simple like us? lol

  • @--2659

    @--2659

    Жыл бұрын

    Good luck literal creature, I send you good vibes!

  • @gateway2hell

    @gateway2hell

    Жыл бұрын

    As a man, sometimes men are just as cryptic as women I wish all humans were like this, upfront and honest

  • @the_biggest_chungus7508

    @the_biggest_chungus7508

    Жыл бұрын

    Instant proposal material

  • @Mamon_Saleh

    @Mamon_Saleh

    Жыл бұрын

    let's hope all humans be like this CUZ I'M LOSING MY MIND FROM ALL THE CRYPTIC BS.

  • @clydethecat1176
    @clydethecat11763 ай бұрын

    this is one of the best shorts you've put out. spot on in every way.

  • @glitchbear2047
    @glitchbear20476 ай бұрын

    "You guys want a fuckin award" 🤣

  • @kevink7534
    @kevink7534 Жыл бұрын

    As a card carrying member of the male society, we need more of this last bit.

  • @ajsiemers

    @ajsiemers

    Жыл бұрын

    give it a few years and you'll learn. Or listen to dr Denis Leary if you want to speed it up because we're never gonna get more of this kind of honesty ;)

  • @Montaph

    @Montaph

    Жыл бұрын

    We have a card? Probably lost it with my last wallet.

  • @NeilCWCampbell

    @NeilCWCampbell

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@Montaph you have to find one of the women who dispense them...and ask them about their father

  • @gato313

    @gato313

    Жыл бұрын

    Only a trans would think there’s a card and carry it 👀

  • @Klaaism

    @Klaaism

    Жыл бұрын

    We can neither confirm nor deny the existence of any form of male ID, regardless of format

  • @damaldazzar
    @damaldazzar11 ай бұрын

    "And thus the perfect society was formed"

  • @JDRants

    @JDRants

    10 ай бұрын

    It couldn’t hurt

  • @stitch2147

    @stitch2147

    10 ай бұрын

    893 likes and 1 reply let me fix that

  • @WideTrutty

    @WideTrutty

    8 ай бұрын

    If only women weren’t such highly expected to be following the woman’s law, which is to always look good and look happy, or they will be judged

  • @zoenelson3340

    @zoenelson3340

    8 ай бұрын

    If only we were aloud to act like this without being called unladylike and all other kinds of awful things 🥲🙃

  • @WideTrutty

    @WideTrutty

    8 ай бұрын

    @@zoenelson3340 fr, at least I don’t have to put on makeup every day, it doesn’t really look good on me

  • @primarisgainssbbg3038
    @primarisgainssbbg30386 ай бұрын

    The last one would actually be greatly appreciated.

  • @troytucker3467
    @troytucker34674 ай бұрын

    In the hospital with my child. And just want to say you give me a smile. And just wanted you to know you bring sunshine, thank you mate.

  • @DN_13
    @DN_13 Жыл бұрын

    Everybody wants honesty until they're honest with you.

  • @1god2savem37

    @1god2savem37

    Жыл бұрын

    Factz

  • @MysteriousMadnessOfficial

    @MysteriousMadnessOfficial

    Жыл бұрын

    I wish... it turns out, that you don't get what you give when it comes to honesty.

  • @BrunoInterlandi

    @BrunoInterlandi

    Жыл бұрын

    They are never respectable and honest, normally just disrespectful honest. Thats the difference.

  • @DN_13

    @DN_13

    Жыл бұрын

    @@BrunoInterlandi The truth is rarely kind and mostly ugly. The delivery of it has nothing to do with it.

  • @champselyseesao3

    @champselyseesao3

    Жыл бұрын

    this is exactly what i feel reading these comments

  • @rogerstroklund6809
    @rogerstroklund68097 ай бұрын

    I would actually appreciate this level of honesty.

  • @phixter

    @phixter

    4 ай бұрын

    People say they do, but then they learn they don't.

  • @daninaydenova7115

    @daninaydenova7115

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@@phixterso damn true 😂

  • @lordmemnoch518

    @lordmemnoch518

    2 ай бұрын

    Same! At least we know what they really want!

  • @danielrollins7426
    @danielrollins74265 ай бұрын

    I love this. My gf practices the same level of honesty with me haha. I love that woman.

  • @mistyleo
    @mistyleo7 ай бұрын

    that last one is such a mood, its why i use the internet as my 3rd place. easy to set that boundary or block if someone gets too much

  • @Saturn2888
    @Saturn2888 Жыл бұрын

    If every person was like this, I'd feel much more comfortable talking to strangers. Honesty like this is super helpful to the furthering of humanity. Too bad very few people value honesty.

  • @eeo1156

    @eeo1156

    Жыл бұрын

    idk. sometimes what people say due to their unfiltered honesty can be perceived as offensive. plus i think if someone was honest all the time about their opinions, they'd get judged a lot.

  • @tra12048

    @tra12048

    Жыл бұрын

    @@eeo1156 Yeah, have you seen Twitter (or the internet in general)? People are completely unfiltered there and it's a fucking cesspool XD There is a certain level of honesty that people need to practice in real life though. The type of honesty in this short, for instance. Though I have to wonder how many "alpha males" would still throw an absolute tantrum about it.

  • @FiddlebirdBlue

    @FiddlebirdBlue

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree. I try to be kindly blunt. Gotta choose your timing and words verrry carefully. Spinning for humor also helps.

  • @yagnikbose8973

    @yagnikbose8973

    Жыл бұрын

    I get what you're saying, mate. But do think, the strangers would be comfortable talking to you?

  • @jmorgan2391

    @jmorgan2391

    Жыл бұрын

    when I'm honest I usually use sarcasm but it doesn't seem to soften the blowback

  • @GalacticEmpire-sl2ij
    @GalacticEmpire-sl2ij Жыл бұрын

    This would make dating much easier

  • @alexfrank5331

    @alexfrank5331

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly. Men are so much worse at reading signs than women. In a truly gender-equal society, they'd have women lead/start most relationships because merit-based role-assignment is the only way that makes sense.

  • @dana102083

    @dana102083

    Жыл бұрын

    Swipe left? Lol

  • @lordtartarsauceb8348

    @lordtartarsauceb8348

    Жыл бұрын

    @@dana102083 im not that sad. I talk to women.

  • @edgreen8140
    @edgreen81405 ай бұрын

    I love it " do you want a f*..ing award! They do.

  • @scallywag1716
    @scallywag17164 ай бұрын

    Everyone…please take steps to be more open and honest with others. We all appreciate it even if our feelings get hurt initially.

  • @angryktulhu
    @angryktulhu Жыл бұрын

    The world would be a much better place with all that honesty

  • @heinousgamer7610

    @heinousgamer7610

    Жыл бұрын

    It would be annoying at first but overall I agree

  • @Syagrius91

    @Syagrius91

    Жыл бұрын

    There would be murder all over the place

  • @senshix_official

    @senshix_official

    Жыл бұрын

    @@heinousgamer7610 I agree and it’s because we just follow the teachings of our parents that tracks all the way u our ancestry

  • @joezar33

    @joezar33

    Жыл бұрын

    Yo I wish ladies where based like that .. seems like it can save people lots of time being direct and too the point .

  • @senshix_official

    @senshix_official

    Жыл бұрын

    @@joezar33 We replicate the things that happened to us because that’s what kids do, woman and men both but men learned to accept it because of how long we had to face the reality of things. I agree though just thought I would explain it further so no negative thoughts develop

  • @mdredheadguy1979
    @mdredheadguy1979 Жыл бұрын

    Women need to be this brutally honest! Come on ladies, make it happen!

  • @MakingtheCase

    @MakingtheCase

    Жыл бұрын

    Many of us would like to, but some men hit on us in such a forceful way that we're scared of the consequences if we were to be this blunt. Some women get stalked and beaten up by men just for saying "no." :(

  • @thatdamnjezebel6858

    @thatdamnjezebel6858

    Жыл бұрын

    @@MakingtheCase also many of us have faced those feared consequences before and would like to simply avoid that happening again

  • @MakingtheCase

    @MakingtheCase

    Жыл бұрын

    @@thatdamnjezebel6858 -- I've had a guy from the bar stalk me halfway home. Luckily, I noticed him following me before I got home and managed to lose him.

  • @oliviapuchalla3865

    @oliviapuchalla3865

    Жыл бұрын

    If you try it, you'll see that most men can't take it. But of course you're right, it also feels shit not to be honest. But a mens pride can be very dangerous for women.

  • @fredrickvontater5433

    @fredrickvontater5433

    Жыл бұрын

    yes

  • @DJTobyVR
    @DJTobyVR7 ай бұрын

    “The worst she can say is no, right” The last one 💀💀💀

  • @clarissaflowers6200
    @clarissaflowers62005 ай бұрын

    So relatable! Especially, the offering of drinks.

  • @RyanMK666
    @RyanMK666 Жыл бұрын

    My partner is like this and I love her for it, I told her on our first date to just be blunt with me at all times cos I’ll miss literally everything otherwise. 6 years strong.

  • @teamojesusss

    @teamojesusss

    Жыл бұрын

    I'll be like this with my future boyfriend and husband

  • @vannavanilla

    @vannavanilla

    Жыл бұрын

    Good advice, I'm taking it

  • @PK-cg5ej

    @PK-cg5ej

    Жыл бұрын

    U interested in proposing

  • @hayleyxyz

    @hayleyxyz

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm like this with my girlfriend. It's cause I'm generally bad socially, and I've found just being super honest and unfiltered works best for us both.

  • @lsjt8924

    @lsjt8924

    Жыл бұрын

    Let me guess, you’re still not married.

  • @AfroGl0
    @AfroGl0 Жыл бұрын

    Honestly the Bar scene was valid af. I would accept that 💯

  • @galaxydrifter9799

    @galaxydrifter9799

    Жыл бұрын

    2 drinks for the lady and ima peace out

  • @sweetburgers1

    @sweetburgers1

    Жыл бұрын

    For real

  • @jemand8462

    @jemand8462

    Жыл бұрын

    In realtor though the girl will always take the free drink and then call security on the guy to get rid of him

  • @tomfoolery7797

    @tomfoolery7797

    Жыл бұрын

    That was honestly still a good response, wouldn't be mad at that but most cases are the girl just taking the free drink and walking away.

  • @FluLemish

    @FluLemish

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@jemand8462 'always'

  • @Iliadic
    @Iliadic7 ай бұрын

    I wish more people could just actually talk like this.

  • @danielsingeorzan2808
    @danielsingeorzan28085 ай бұрын

    and this would solve a lot of issues that usually occur between men and women

  • @radowane101
    @radowane101 Жыл бұрын

    we need more of this shit to understand life better

  • @marli288

    @marli288

    Жыл бұрын

    Like it

  • @kel4461

    @kel4461

    Жыл бұрын

    It seems to me like you're not going to please them no matter what you do

  • @load7791

    @load7791

    Жыл бұрын

    @@kel4461 Yeah, okay "lady killer."

  • @abc-qk3ml

    @abc-qk3ml

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@kel4461 Then don't please them and marry a man. It's 2023.

  • @blendedfamilymama4224

    @blendedfamilymama4224

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@load7791🤣

  • @LedWolf7
    @LedWolf7 Жыл бұрын

    These are the direct signals men are looking for

  • @DGneoseeker1

    @DGneoseeker1

    Жыл бұрын

    This but also literally any obvious sign of interest and/or attraction instead of the woman expecting the man to do it first then acting like he's creepy when he does.

  • @mystraunt2705

    @mystraunt2705

    Жыл бұрын

    @DGneoseeker1 This.

  • @DGneoseeker1

    @DGneoseeker1

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mystraunt2705 Also if women could please stop acting interested in other guys when they have fiancés it would be great too. The most cringe inducing time of my life resulted from this. Also it's the only woman who ever showed interest.

  • @cgg2621

    @cgg2621

    Жыл бұрын

    @@DGneoseeker1 maybe they were interested in you as a person rather than a sexual partner. Seems unsurprising that it was the only time, though.

  • @WeebsArePathetic

    @WeebsArePathetic

    Жыл бұрын

    ​​@@cgg2621 Nah dude lmfao. So many men and women in relationships flirt with other people. It's ridiculous. It's like they test to see if they still have game or are attractive or something. Or sometimes they go through with the cheating.

  • @hellogoodbye388
    @hellogoodbye3885 ай бұрын

    I wish this skit were irl if women were honest it would make life way easier

  • @gokuusf
    @gokuusf4 ай бұрын

    Absolute candor is so refreshing 🤗

  • @mars7612
    @mars7612 Жыл бұрын

    "I would just like to dance and be looked at but not touched" omg 😭💖💕 What a mood

  • @BabylonPatrol

    @BabylonPatrol

    Жыл бұрын

    Why? Wouldn't most women feel like that most of the time?... and minus the dancing, most men?

  • @HelaIsComing

    @HelaIsComing

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@BabylonPatrol Women are not sex objects.

  • @rexydallas8D

    @rexydallas8D

    Жыл бұрын

    @@BabylonPatrol Pretty sure most men don't mind being touched nearly as much.. That's a woman thing.

  • @cceerrs

    @cceerrs

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@BabylonPatrol yes I suppose so. I can't speak for all girls, but I certainly would rather not be touched - can be a bit invasive. The staring can't always be helped though

  • @BabylonPatrol

    @BabylonPatrol

    Жыл бұрын

    @@cceerrs I would say staring at a dance floor isn't really objectionable because the set up essentially suggests it's a stage. And I'd say it's one of the minor disadvantages of being a western woman or child that women feel entitled to touch or hug you. It's by and large unpleasant to be touched by women because there tends to be manipulative intent... at least under consideration. Asian culture, for example, is far better protocolled in that regard.

  • @necasa4919
    @necasa4919 Жыл бұрын

    Ironically, this would make communication absurdly more simple and easier.

  • @ArcaneAnouki

    @ArcaneAnouki

    11 ай бұрын

    There's nothing ironic or absurd about communicating effectively

  • @globalist6574

    @globalist6574

    10 ай бұрын

    funny thing is that this is exactly how men communicate simple and direct ,but women have different thought process so they dont communicate like that ,they are more analytical, less direct and thus less confrontational,in other words it is a more effecient way of communicating with everyone

  • @globalist6574

    @globalist6574

    10 ай бұрын

    u just find communication that way easier cause u are a man like me,our brain is hardwired to work like that

  • @Frederic_104

    @Frederic_104

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@ArcaneAnoukiand nobody said it was

  • @lillyisaacs2929

    @lillyisaacs2929

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@globalist6574you do realize menaced women process information the same way...society can change the way people look at thinks but we do process the same way.

  • @brendanlanham4817
    @brendanlanham48174 ай бұрын

    This is the honesty we need you are an angel

  • @Itscolbyanimates
    @Itscolbyanimates2 ай бұрын

    “You guys want a f**king award” got me laughing

  • @dylzoe
    @dylzoe Жыл бұрын

    I would actually love to have a friend who was this brutally honest all the time, lol. Edit: bro i didnt realize the there was an entire army of you fellas

  • @triforce_xiii

    @triforce_xiii

    Жыл бұрын

    i am. most ppl are irritated at first. but those who can take it come for my opinion often. all two of them ;-)

  • @musicallydisneyamvs6731

    @musicallydisneyamvs6731

    Жыл бұрын

    @@triforce_xiii Same. I have a friend we’re we can literally insult & terrorize each other relentlessly & still be cool.

  • @Aliya06

    @Aliya06

    Жыл бұрын

    That’s me 😂😂😂

  • @rocketta.chique5761

    @rocketta.chique5761

    Жыл бұрын

    Lol my experience is like 5% of people actually want this person in their life

  • @musicallydisneyamvs6731

    @musicallydisneyamvs6731

    Жыл бұрын

    @@rocketta.chique5761 Unfortunately it’s easier for most people to play it safe & stay in their comfort zones. It’s the same link to why so many rather stay home & complain why nothing gets done on the internet.

  • @TrapLordJbaw
    @TrapLordJbaw Жыл бұрын

    Honestly, this is exactly what men need to hear. Just clear, obvious and simple.

  • @yrp237

    @yrp237

    Жыл бұрын

    Then society should have raised us like that instead of raising us to be NICE, and SWEET and to SMILE and be ACCOMMODATING...oh, so sorry, I appear to be shouting, and I was raised never to shout so please pardon me and I'll just politely walk away and continue to keep my pretty little thoughts to myself like I was raised to do...

  • @Derzull2468

    @Derzull2468

    Жыл бұрын

    @YRP Yes it's bad that society teaches boys the opposite of reality knowing fully they'll have to learn the hard way or stay miserable.

  • @bakerboat4572

    @bakerboat4572

    Жыл бұрын

    @@nobody-xh6ii Cite any example for this, because that's a strawman (no pun intended) if I've ever seen one.

  • @thetruefirelord2248

    @thetruefirelord2248

    Жыл бұрын

    @@yrp237 society is bs

  • @Derzull2468

    @Derzull2468

    Жыл бұрын

    @@nobody-xh6ii That's an absurd statement. But lets entertain it for a second. You're telling us that men are more upset and more likely to be violent when women are honest than when women are deceitful and manipulative and they find out? 11/10 logic

  • @HexesAndWitchery
    @HexesAndWitchery17 күн бұрын

    if women were honest, lots of peoples masculinity would shatter and im here for it.

  • @matheusfreitas9932
    @matheusfreitas99327 ай бұрын

    I like that a lot a honest communication makes easy for understanding and even more easy to really appreciate people for who them are and to care about their preferences

  • @glasglass
    @glasglass Жыл бұрын

    Men, including myself, would welcome this. 9 times out of 10 this would help us to understand your mood and/or make you feel better.

  • @borano2031

    @borano2031

    Жыл бұрын

    They would find another way to cover everything up?? Just asking.. Rgr

  • @harrypike5140

    @harrypike5140

    Жыл бұрын

    No, this makes her come across as extremely insufferable and neurotic to an almost psychopathic degree lol. Women know this about themselves and keep it hidden for a reason. If they let their neuroticism run rampant, men would flee for the hills lop

  • @zombiegun71

    @zombiegun71

    Жыл бұрын

    @@harrypike5140 I would MUCH prefer the honesty. All of us hide so much of ourselves.

  • @Loralanthalas

    @Loralanthalas

    Жыл бұрын

    I actually speak like this and you can see the instant my husband's eyes glaze over. Usually 0.02 seconds into the explanation of what I'm thinking and why I'm about to make the decision I'm about to

  • @ClarinoI

    @ClarinoI

    Жыл бұрын

    @@harrypike5140 No, real men would love this. Douchebags who are afraid of women would run for the hills.

  • @Veikra
    @Veikra Жыл бұрын

    I would bow and salute for such a rejection. This is a lot more respectful than being lied to, or taken advantage of.

  • @Matt_from_Florida

    @Matt_from_Florida

    Жыл бұрын

    _"I'm gonna string you along 'cuz it makes me feel good about myself and I don't give a 'uck about your feelings."_

  • @mckitty4907

    @mckitty4907

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Matt_from_Florida it's not that, it's the fear of being murdered when saying no, like happens all the time to women.

  • @Matt_from_Florida

    @Matt_from_Florida

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mckitty4907 You're not listening to what the men are telling you here. Men appreciate the truth, and will actually respect you for it because we've been lied to so many times.

  • @starlette7820

    @starlette7820

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Matt_from_Florida Ive told dudes no straight up before and they would not take it as an answer, they took it as a challenge to be persistant or change my mind. Honesty doesnt always work and the times it doesnt can lead to uncomfortable or sometimes even dangerous situations. There was one incident in broad daylight in public transit i had it happen to me, and another kind man on the train stepped in to help me out/get the guy out of my face until i got to my stop. Some men are pieces of shit, and we dont know which ones are and which ones arent, so often times we lie because we don't want to risk it.

  • @jepsen1977

    @jepsen1977

    Жыл бұрын

    @@starlette7820 In other words: you become a piece of shit yourself. An eye for an eye only ends up making the whole world blind as Gandhi said.

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