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@danielcurry4011

9 ай бұрын

That book would be interesting you are really wise and smart,yes I will admit attractive too.

@G534th

8 ай бұрын

What about the religion card? I'm saving myself for marriage lmfao this one is a dangerous one.

@danzokenzo8017

8 ай бұрын

loving your videos you are on point. guys this girl knows what's up and she telling the truth she definitely wife material

@lenosleno-ld1qe

6 ай бұрын

Just one thing, you need nicer microphone.

@valeforedark

6 ай бұрын

74% of adult women don't work more than 20 hours a week. If anyones leaving.ita the one that doesn't pay the bills

Another thing. If she doesn't respect you and you live together she will bring other people around that don't respect you. Remember that.

@bark22

Жыл бұрын

or she'll turn the other people that you have living there against you too. EVERY. SINGLE. ONE!!!

@vernondunbar5846

Жыл бұрын

@@bark22 ain’t that the truth

@craigzeigler124

Жыл бұрын

You got that right my friend!

@craigzeigler124

Жыл бұрын

​@@bark22 I have had that happen before.

@videowilliams

Жыл бұрын

Excellent insight. Even just with a male (fake) friend, I have experienced the same. It's like his friends had been told in advance I was there to be used.

She's right. Don't stick around. You can't make someone respect you. They either do or don't

@-JIGSAW-

Жыл бұрын

👍

@mikemiles7750

Жыл бұрын

Yep

@hotpick3lottopredictionsmore

Жыл бұрын

Stop messing with toxic disrespectful people. There are plenty of good men and women out here, first thing you have to do is decide whether or not you want one...

@Kmack3rd

Жыл бұрын

Facts!!

@Deviljho5

Жыл бұрын

I agree 😊

If a woman doesn't respect you - she will never love you. Disrespect is my red line. Olivia is so right!!!

She is absolutely correct. The first sign of disrespect, you must leave this woman immediately. There is no coming back from this. Its over, and be thankful.

She's describing textbook narcissistic personality disorder. I dated someone who constantly tried to tear me down through accusations, had zero respect for my boundaries. I told her if i was so bad, the door is always open for you to leave. She wouldn't leave. When i finally told her I'm done with her and I'm ending the relationship, she called me 17 times in a row (i didn't answer). She then showed up at my door at 1:00 am to continue arguing (i never answered the door). Next day i told her I'd get a restraining order against her if she shows up unannounced again. I later realized that the whole point of being in a relationship for her, was to shift her own internal rot onto someone else so she didn't have to "look in the mirror". That my friends is textbook narcissism. Stay strong my fellow men! And thank you for all the insight Olivia!

@Henry1965ism

Жыл бұрын

Blatant contempt and disrespect is a core trait of highly narcissistic individuals. And they often see nothing wrong with it either.

@chestergloyd7530

Жыл бұрын

@@Henry1965ism 💯 severe lack of awareness and take zero responsibility for their actions.

@glocksantana853

Жыл бұрын

My ex would always threaten to kill her self every time I would wanna break things off

@chestergloyd7530

Жыл бұрын

@@glocksantana853 that’s horrible. Would she go through with it or just bluffing?

@glocksantana853

Жыл бұрын

@@chestergloyd7530 who knows she was in a mental hospital tho

Disrespect leads to destruction, so there is no coming back.

This is why I NEVER SAY A WORD no response & I disappear. Speaks volumes

@Ali-qz4lw

17 күн бұрын

We've got a lone wolf here 🙌

Thank you for this. We need more women who think like you. My ex-wife is a raging narcissist who uses manipulation tactics and gaslighting to get her way. And if she doesn’t get her way, watch out. She will spit the most venomous hurtful things, attacking my pride, my manhood, or any other personal matter I may’ve shared with her in the love-bombing stage. I dealt with this abuse for years unfortunately, and it has changed me. I refuse to be taken advantage of and disrespected ever again in life. I realized to begin the healing process, I had to forgive myself. Fellas, if you're being emotionally abused and gaslighted by a woman with no empathy, it's time to leave bro. GTFOT. She doesn't love you and never did. She was just mirroring you bro. You don’t love her either. You fell in love with yourself in that reflection, that’s why it’s so hard to leave her. That was the hardest thing to accept. Get out now before years fly by, and you must dig yourself out of depression. I want to write so much more, but I’ll stop here. Leave her.

@kayiverson5304

Жыл бұрын

Damn this is me 😭😭

@cosimskrwd6991

Жыл бұрын

😢😢

@cosimskrwd6991

Жыл бұрын

​@@kayiverson5304 me 2..

@CrashBangWolup

Жыл бұрын

I needed to hear this. She doesn't truly love me but I keep going back. Wise words right here, feel free to share more. I need to snap out of it

@davidrue5488

Жыл бұрын

Yo...you are speaking to me right now. Thank you

Sadly, my wife said this to me during an argument. Because of my 14 year old son, is the only reason i'm still here. We sleep in two separate bedrooms, and months later she acts like nothing happened, and when i tell her that that day, was the day i mentally checked out, she goes in defense mode and says it wasn't even that serious. The day my son graduates from HS , is the day I'm out. I chose not to have my son grow in a house without my guidance and presence.

@richardyoung8213

Жыл бұрын

Relatable b to the T

@StanSanDiego-wg4wj

Жыл бұрын

So sad

@creating1_c1999

Жыл бұрын

She's sounds narc. Protect your peace like an ice cube passing through hell.

@xplosiv4918

Жыл бұрын

Take my hat off to you brother. I wish I had the staying power to do the same. My son is 6 and I wasn't going to let him grow up thinking the relationship between his parents is a normal one. I want to show him that you don't need anyone else to feel validated or complete.

@TerrenceLCarpenter

Жыл бұрын

@@creating1_c1999 but thats what she calls me, why? i have no idea, i never initiate conversation, anything she says or asks i give one , two word answers, and pretty much try to stay out of her way.

The most disrespectful displays I see increasingly, is when anyone, man or woman, openly talk about who they would cheat with given the chance, cat call or openly flirt with another person in front of their partner. Anyone who does that immediately disqualifies themselves as a partner, period. That's lack of self control over the lust of the eyes, flesh and the boastful pride of life.

@creating1_c1999

Жыл бұрын

It's a manipulative tactic, one that hardly if ever is applied to affirm you, but control you.

@Just_a_Reflection

Жыл бұрын

People actually do that?!

@searlearnold2867

Жыл бұрын

@@Just_a_Reflection Have you ever seen the videos of people who are asked who their Hollywood crush is and if they could get away with cheating or taking a relationship break to cheat with that crush, would they do it? Sadly, most people asked this on camera say yes.

@Just_a_Reflection

Жыл бұрын

@@searlearnold2867 No, i don't watch much of that type of entertainment so it isn't suggested to my feed. One of my exes had a crush on Bob Marley and told me that he was the only man that she would leave me for, but that was okay because he is long past😅. I never told her that my crush is the comedienne, Mo'Nique, because I didn't want her to be suspicious around pretty larger women😜.

@Xthreeofthe757

Жыл бұрын

This bih goes Gaga everytime method man comes on the tv. Her excuse is “ I’ll never meet him”

Been through that hell. The irony is that I thought she truly was my friend before we decided to get together. Back then, I was ignorant enough to give her a pass (at first) thinking that she was my friend and that her idiotic behavior wasn't who she was. I was wrong, it was indeed her true nature. I let a lot slide at first. Until one day I noticed how she was affecting me. She slowly tore me down mentally and physically. I went from working out in the gym 8 to 10 hours a week. To not going at all and being out of shape. I had zero energy, I was depressed and she had me to where I just had brain fog all day. I looked around and said wtf am I doing? I couldn't believe I had allowed someone to tear me down like that. I turned around and made it a game. Start taunting and laughing at her ignorance and idiocy. Once I woke up, the gloves were off and I did things just to piss her off. She started noticing that her manipulative tactics weren't working anymore. I then told her I was out. She still to this day tries to contact me. Never again will I ever allow a woman to manipulate me. Women like that are a huge burden to your life. When they start playing games, throw them out into the streets where they belong. Don't be giving them a pass. You'll just burden yourself.

@bigslatt5520

11 ай бұрын

Amen brother amen

@readyredglobal4058

9 ай бұрын

Going through this now bro exact same

@muhammadsteinberg

2 ай бұрын

Good for you! After ignoring the obvious red signs, I finally decided to bail. Congratulations to you for regaining your dignity and self-worth.

Once you think or feel it's over. IT IS, LEAVE IMMEDIATELY. When a woman falls out of love with you, there is nothing you can do to change her feelings.

This goes for anyone never tolerate disrespect. Most women lack respect for anyone even themselves.

@christianbenn316

Жыл бұрын

I agree & total diserspect from a toxic woman has a lot of red flags.

@christianbenn316

9 ай бұрын

For me i don,t tolerate women who loves drama & disrespect for when i see those red flags popping up i,d stay gone & no contact.

zero tolerance is the only way to deal with a women who demonstrates disrespect. you gotta be willing to walk away for good . it's hard, especially if you got real feelings for her, but the long term damage staying in a relationship with a toxic, unappreciative women is a lot worse than the short term pain of walking away.

@boricuaprincipe3462

Жыл бұрын

this the one 💪🏾💯💯💯

@roreo5539

Жыл бұрын

I needed this

@leohawkins1737

Жыл бұрын

I agree with that 💯

@MakavelithePrince96

Жыл бұрын

These women are killers too homie.

@lavelhare3723

11 ай бұрын

True zero tolerance for everyone tbh

Unfortunately a woman with no empathy will never change. That woman had me second guessing myself and finally a day came where I had to look in the mirror and say I’m better than this. I left without saying anything, and felt I gained my power back. Moral of the story is no matter how pretty they are do not accept disrespectful behavior from women, ever!!!!

A majority of the time she won't say it out loud but her actions will reveal it for sure🥂

This is facts right here. Men please understand walking away from a disrepectful female is a superpower. Working on you, putting yourself first and your peace better than dealing with the disrespect.

@PlayaflyJoe27

Жыл бұрын

The masses don't understand.. Women can't take it when you walk away from em!

@iandiru6433

Жыл бұрын

​@@PlayaflyJoe27 i walked out on a relationship where i wasn't valued

@bconni2

Жыл бұрын

walking away is a superpower not only from toxic women, but toxic people and situations in general.

@PlayaflyJoe27

Жыл бұрын

@@iandiru6433 good job brethren! Continue to do that when you don't feel valued!

@iandiru6433

Жыл бұрын

@@PlayaflyJoe27 🙏

Gentlemen you're not only sending a message to her and yourself but most importantly to the universe

@creating1_c1999

Жыл бұрын

That is powerful!

@jameshunt3504

Жыл бұрын

@creating1_c1999 Thank you my friend. I just turned the big 50 even though people tell me. I don't look it or sound like it with my very deep masculine sexy voice. Women. Tell me every day. It's a blessing sometimes a curse lol but seriously though you don't get to be 50 years old to be this healthy and strong. Without learning a few hard lessons over the years and decades thank you and sending blessings your way again. Don't mind my silly sense of humor I love to make people laugh

@dareo25

Жыл бұрын

...that's deep. I must've sent a clear and cordial message to her and the universe. I walked away from my girl. She changed or I just didn't know her, but the disrespect was clear. I broke her spell and I hope the universe is pleased.

@-JIGSAW-

Жыл бұрын

@Patrick James Holmes 👍

@godfromthecreator

Жыл бұрын

​@@creating1_c1999 no it's not simpleton

Reminds me of something my late grandfather told me when I was till a kid: "I can respect someone I don't like, I can't like someone I don't respect." Respect is the foundation of any relationship, not just romantic. Without it there is nothing.

Facts. I got divorced *immediately* when my ex wife said this. Literally gave her everything and she still didn't respect me. I didn't shed a single tear or look back once. I'm with someone that actually respects me, and it's way better. Hold your head up, kings. And good luck to her. Gonna need it lol

5:10 {walk away like the king that you are. } Exactly what I did 3 days ago with a girl who was disrespectful after dating for months. I told her “ I deserve better” to her face.

@kufarimahdi9636

Жыл бұрын

You Sir are a National treasure ❤🎉🎉🎉🎉

@BigJay039

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. Stay strong and keep it ended. Speaking from experience.

@hplaya2268

Жыл бұрын

Everybody ain't a king. Sorry. People like olivia playen crazy generalizing all men are kings. Naw all men are men of God. Not kings.

@erolish

Жыл бұрын

@@hplaya2268 I smell negativity. All men are not kings but you can choose to be one of them.

@L8Pl

Жыл бұрын

@@hplaya2268 - a good man - on top of his shit in life and has a good system going - able to relax and give time to things other than work, despite being on top of his shit - recognise when he is making a mistake and when he is not making a mistake - also important because it’s also knowing when to take full responsibility for a mistake to fix it, and knowing when a problem in a relationship for example is not his fault but could potentially get blamed on him - doesn’t take shit because he knows he deserves better, and doesn’t waste his time on people who don’t respect him, doesn’t give those people the power of allowing them into the inner layers of his being where they can sabotage him for their pride’s sake I.e. knows who to and who not to have close to him This is the path of the king. It’s the path every man has the capability to walk, and it’s the path our instincts are really telling us they want us to walk - until we fool ourselves. Don’t fool yourself.

When the emotions come out so does the truth

They usually wont come out and tell you that they dont respect you,but they will definitely show it. The longer you allow it,they will begin to actually disrespect you. The moment you feel a woman is trying or testing you,its time to move on. Dont argue dont try to figure things out,just move on.

I can't even imagine being with someone who doesn't respect me. That's the entire foundation of the relationship to begin with. Trust and respect. With out either, there is no relationship. You don't even need her to say it, you can tell when someone doesn't respect you through their actions and demeanor. It's written all over them. If you let go to the point where she actually does say it to your face, then you're a sucker.

She will SHOW you disrespect LONG before she ever says it !

I turn the disrespect into no or limited contact. They can't stand it and become irritated

I don't know how you decided to put the information out here but I've been there when I was 30 to 32. You have to leave if you respect yourself and love a great situation. If you do take her back and it doesn't change you gotta leave. I learned once in a relationship and that's all it took. I'd rather be single than to give my pearls to swine who intentionally or unintentionally but consistently undermines my abilities, doesn't have respect for my efforts or well being in a relationship. Guys if you care about having a healthy relationship and yourself you gotta choose respect over feelings. They both should go hand in hand when its worth it and makes sense.

A relationship can't work without boundaries, respect, or trust. You gotta value yourself if you want someone else to do the same. That's why my last relationship went sour because I let go of my boundaries, and it opened the flood gates man. I'm mad at myself for not having the self-worth to leave sooner, but I feel like I needed that wake-up call.

Damn! I'm living it now! I just got fed up with the disrespect by my wife and I just filed for divorce and now she's mad and blaming me for everything!

@Sdy187

Жыл бұрын

@@otdreamer193 Thanks for your advice! I'm working through it right now but it just going to take time for me to get over it. She acting like she doesn't have a care in the world and I am going through it all. Then I had to leave my house to start the separation period for the divorce.

"A drunk mind speaks a sober heart." This quote definitely came across my mind while watching this gem 💎. Blessings to you 🙏🏾 ❤️ ✨️

@Jay-T283

Жыл бұрын

Crazy that the only time a person will listen to or believe another person is when they're drunk smh.

@Jay-T283

Жыл бұрын

Crazy that the only time a person will listen to or believe another person is when they're drunk smh.

This is spot on! Another thing that a woman says is "You don't know me" which has the same vibes as "I don't respect you." It's usually a nonchalant vibe if you have been the man who does everything and you have been an open book.

@therealdutchjohnsondutchvi2312

2 ай бұрын

Spot on 💯

A woman once asked me to be in a relationship with her but told me I had to earn her respect. I know I did the right thing by walking away from her before anything had even started. I don't have to earn someone respect, the only thing that needs to be earned is trust. I'm sorry for whatever man she may find that does not realize what kind of person she is until it's too late, but it won't be me. 😊

Unfortunately when you have to let her go to respect you, it's time to part company forever. It's too late for anything by this point.

@mikepiccolo32

Жыл бұрын

Especially if you have a Lizzo type whos costing you 1000 a month on food

@CitygirlRayA

Жыл бұрын

Mike 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Damn.

@mario-k.

6 күн бұрын

Im now at this moment and is so hard. I know I made mistakes and faults, so I want to give her a second chance because I also blame myself. On the other hand, at the end, it was her decision to do what she did, and actually, I also see no way this working again.

Queen once again spitting factuals. Salute. Before you even jump in a relationship respect has to be established from the gate. The moment she starts to test you is the moment you chop that down. That behavior comes from a place of manipulation in order to gain power/control over you as a man. Don't even waste your time trying to get something you already deserve to get.

@melechstewart

Жыл бұрын

And here is where I failed myself by sticking around, hoping it would change and I could do things that I would gain respect.

@williepirtle7201

Жыл бұрын

@@melechstewart I'm glad you valued self higher in the end bro. Trying to "earn" respect after you've given it is like giving water to a dead plant and expecting it to blossom. You always deserve to recieve the energy you put out.

@DanXJ19

Жыл бұрын

It must be squashed immediately like whack-a-mole. Let it slide and it will become more frequent and intense.

@thesniper321

Жыл бұрын

bars

@chillywill95831

Жыл бұрын

"Queen?" This is the kind of language men need to stop using! She is a woman with a KZread channel giving her perspective. Where does that make her a "queen?"

Always know your worth , never tolerate disrespect from anybody, most importantly stay away from low vibrational frequency!!

Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasnt going to let my marriage of 18years crash.

@peterwilliams6361

Жыл бұрын

amazing,i am kinda in a similar situation,how did you handle it?

@DailamiPuang

Жыл бұрын

@@peterwilliams6361 well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer

@peterwilliams6361

Жыл бұрын

@@DailamiPuang please how can i get in touch with the spiritual adviser?

@DailamiPuang

Жыл бұрын

@@peterwilliams6361 her name is *Victoria Lee Hess* ,and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster

@DailamiPuang

Жыл бұрын

you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.

Not only be aware of her words, but also her facial expressions & body behavior or language. What suppressed in the spirit & soul, will sooner or later manifest outwardly. In these days most women show their true colors immediately. Peace!

@kayochambers9418

Жыл бұрын

Facts

Most won't say it verbally. They will say it with body language and actions. Pay attention

@rockkstah2550

Жыл бұрын

Been there seen it, and they will always find different angles so to let your guard down… be alert Bruthas! Women of today are brainwashed by Walt Disney,Hollywood, and especially the feminist academia that came out from the 1960’s

@TheBanjoShowOfficial

Жыл бұрын

Clothes will tell the tale. If they don’t care about your thoughts on how they dress themselves, that tells you what you need to know about their feelings of respect or lack thereof to you

Agreeing with this. After 2.5 years ex said to me “what if I never find her?!?” I realized we were incompletely two different places in the relationship & the next thing I said to him were my final words to him were “Go find her.” I walked out the door 6 months ago & I haven’t bothered saying anything since. I paid for & Shipped his sh*t back UPS 30 days later despite the fact everyone told me to burn his stuff. I lost complete respect with him in the 6 words he said - highly insecure & lining himself up to be a potential cheater if that eye is gonna keep wandering looking for “the one”. Don’t need him being a narcissistic cheater like his mother was. After investing a lot of work, effort & commitment into the relationship I don’t need to stick around for someone who is gonna disrespect me & waste my time & effort. They aren’t going to make the growth relationship a priority. It’s all about them….

Nawww when you leave stay gone! I have noticed that women only come back so that she can gain the upper hand and get the drop on you and leave. I have seen this too many times with my friends. Stay gone block her and put them people in her life if she keep harassing you.

I remember being a simp for my toxic clinically insane ex, who would say "I need someone that challenges me" when I would pay for months of her rent, internet bill, pay for bday events for her daughter to which I was never invited and school supplies/ field trips. It was Psychological Manipulation and I was not aware of it, instead I would take it as if I need to step up and become better in life and pay for more of her stuff, take her on vacations so she can 'realize' I am a good guy and a challenge while always trying to be extra cautious to not 'ruin' things or 'start' an argument because apparently everything was my fault. I ended up leaving her and realized that I had money every weekend to buy new clothes and travel and hang out meet new and NICE people.

@CitygirlRayA

Жыл бұрын

Dang she stupid. Sounds like you have good qualities. Your spending is a bonus. I would’ve appreciated and thanked the hell out of you everyday. Yeah she stupid.

@darrellking7831

Жыл бұрын

It's never enough with some people, no matter what you do .

@Gz3HOE5

Жыл бұрын

In the same boat and happy bye felicia

@MelenaSoleil

Жыл бұрын

Uhm your problem was that you took what she said and interpreted what it would mean to YOU. I don't think you were listening to her. "I need someone that challenges me" doesn't translate to "I need you to pay for more things and throw more money at me to prove you're a good man"... Yeah those two things do not equate lol you were probably boring the hell out of her.

@joelsantiago9148

Жыл бұрын

@@MelenaSoleil yea, i know it did not equated, however she was still taking advantages by not complaining of what she did not meant since she was getting free shit, I got the hell out of there and allowed her to find someone toxic that can challenge her and fight with her so they can make up until the next argument, thats what I found out she really wanted

Walking and silence is the most biggest weapon you have as a man. Once you walked away she’s dead to you delete her number, unfollow all her social media and change your social media account and profile name so that she will never see you again.

@CitygirlRayA

Жыл бұрын

That’s a bit extreme with the changing your profile name and social media account. Don’t you think? Just delete them from your account like you would from your phone contacts. Unless you two were long distance, you may run into her and see her again so you can’t delete her from Society. Dang man you’re trying to change your whole existence to keep this girl away from you. You don’t have to do all that!!! Lol! She must’ve really had power over you!! 😂😂. That’s doing too much don’t do all that. Just keep it simple and release her!! Booooy you…! Lol

@YourOneStopShop

Жыл бұрын

Just by being silent and walking away, closing the chapter is so powerful.

@CitygirlRayA

Жыл бұрын

Which island are you from?

She doesn't have to tell you...with words. She will show you. She probably will never come out and say it anyway, and May actually tell you that she does respect you, while showing the opposite.

..."...a Freudian slip"......wow, never heard that term. That's why I love your content. It's always fresh.

@Allan_aka_RocKITEman

4 ай бұрын

It has been around for a long time, but not used much in contemporary society.

Exactly. Even if those words aren't said to you recognize her actions towards you and call her out immediately! If she deflects, walk or show her the door.

I rather be single than to be putting up with stuff like that

Im going through the separation phase now. Soon after will be divorce. She puts the blame on me entirely and always says that I failed the kids too if i bring it up. So im waiting patiently for my kids to get older and continue being cordial with my ex. When I get my Best self going, Im going to be better for myself, my kids, and whoever i end up with. She may one day realize that it was always a two way street but by then i will be happily strong and confident in myself with or without someone at my side. Got lots of healing to do.

Protect this woman at all cost

Pro tip......if you going to be dealing with these girls and dating them, YOU SHOULD NOT under any circumstances take them SERIOUSLY 💯🙏Take Care🔥

So far in my experience, they’ll show disrespect more than they say it, or they will say it indirectly. LEAVE!!

@FreeTraderFREEMAN

Жыл бұрын

I have being recording all her disrespectful insults towards me. But she kept denying it. I will throw the recordings in her face soon. What they say behind you matters....

Did exactly this one month ago. Never felt more satisfied w any decision of mine. You WILL be respected at the end of the day - whether you're being respected by her or by yourself. And if not by her then it must be by yourself.

This not only is limited to relationships, this also goes to working life/bosses etc. Get out immediately. I literally called out their behaviour and walked out..infact if your superiors bullying you its even worse than relationships imo because you can be used as a puppet for manipulation and lies.If you know you know. Atleast with relationships you have more power to take any decision and make it out without a dent.

I’m staying single until the right one comes in my life I won’t settle for less.

@TheFeezy777

Жыл бұрын

Theres no such thing as the right one😂

@mauricewilliams1724

Жыл бұрын

@@TheFeezy777 speak for yourself this isn’t a laughing matter

@TheFeezy777

Жыл бұрын

@@mauricewilliams1724 if you think theres the "right one" out there, youre in for disappointment.

@mauricewilliams1724

Жыл бұрын

@@TheFeezy777 like I said speak for yourself. I know where I stand.

@CitygirlRayA

Жыл бұрын

@maurice the feezy777 is right tho. Nobody is perfect. Even the “right one” has some flaws. Man y’all gone trick yourselves out of “what could be” and before you know it time will be up.

I went through the same shit. Took her back, moved back in together for the same damn shit to replay. 1yr later, going separate ways again. This time its PERMANENT. Narcissistic people are the worst. Dont waste valuable time on them. They WONT CHANGE. Im Living and Learning.

But the disrespect is normally shown vs verbalized. Pay attention to how she treats you and use your head to interpret what your heart feels. If it helps, write down what she has done to you and a day or two later, read it as someone wrote a letter to you saying what they are going through. The advice you give this person is the advice you should take as your heart is now removed and logic is in the forefront.

@coopdog7793

Жыл бұрын

this is a helpful exercise!

@toneyclayton485

Жыл бұрын

As men, we cannot let out hearts overrule common sense.. if you are confused, talk to a friend who is not captivated by love. A woman wants and needs a man of strength.. no matter what she says. Being so in love, you loosen restrictions and allow things you normally would not. She will definitely take advantage of this..even a good woman will do this so it must be their nature. So if she is true to hers.. BE TRUE TO YOURS.

@kayochambers9418

Жыл бұрын

@@toneyclayton485 facts bra

@toneyclayton485

11 ай бұрын

It is sad but being in love you drop your guard and use your heart instead of your head. Now you will do things without logic. This is extremely dangerous for men. Because God gave man the logic and spoke to him. It is from God so when it is removed you will do something stupid..like Adam. Don’t be like Adam..be better.

@kayochambers9418

11 ай бұрын

@@toneyclayton485 facts

Such a woman won't say it outright, but will be obvious disrespectful via how she speaks and acts towards you.

Facts...I've been there and am happy I didn't accept disrespect because women are wired to respect the man that they truly wants. Disrespect suggest that you should hit the road.🏃‍♂🏃‍♀🏃‍♂🏃

@CitygirlRayA

Жыл бұрын

Well not all women are wired that way. What I mean by that is I respect all men whether I want him or not. If I don’t want him I just be cordial and polite but I won’t toy with him and falsely lead him on. What’s the point of being with a man you know you don’t like like that just to disrespect him?? That’s a waste of time.

Never, ever, put up with disrespect. It will make you absolutely miserable. Even if she doesn't admit it, if you see the signs it's time to leave and never look back.

She will rarely tell her she doesn't respect you but she'll show you repeatedly

Definitely experienced this. She tried to disrespect me and then post victim.

Thank you Olivia for looking out for us men!

@crwnofenlightenment

Жыл бұрын

Us Men need to start looking out for ourselves and start holding these women accountable for their actions. We shouldn't need anyone to speak up for us.

@kennymanuel4980

Жыл бұрын

@@crwnofenlightenment I agree with you 100%

@angryktulhu

Жыл бұрын

@@crwnofenlightenment disagree. We do need women - like psychotherapist 😂 not KZread “influencers”

Wow… you’re so on point! I’ve been tolerating her very behavior for the past 6yrs and am at my breaking point now 😢

@tyronebarbee6878

Жыл бұрын

Walk tf away it ain’t worth it bro

@Pmason718

Жыл бұрын

I feel you my dude. 5yrs in. On and off. Today I’ve made the decision to walk away and to be honest I’m up beat about it. I should have never been in this situation and I will never take her back. I’m excited for what the future holds.

@cliffinambao6228

Жыл бұрын

@@Pmason718 I’m really glad you did and I hope to get some pointers on how to make that shift.

@Pmason718

Жыл бұрын

@@cliffinambao6228 It’s a hard decision to make but in time you will see it’s probably one of the best decisions you could ever make. Write everything down. Good and bad. Ask yourself do you deserve that type behavior? That type of treatment? If the answer is no it’s time to walk away.

This is a very important message fellas. I had a similar experience... meaning, the only component missing was the verbal confirmation of not having respect for me. It was shown in actions. It was tough to get in the mindset of leaving, later realizing I had fallen into an unrecognizable state. You know what you want out of your relationship, and are in complete control of making that happen!

Every man of race needs to listen to this message.this is the most powerful message that I ever heard in my life.

Pure facts Olivia!!!! You got to walk away!! It'll NEVER get better!!!!

@joseg3003

11 ай бұрын

Nope it will never get better, replace her.

Walking away is what I did with my ex and I haven’t looked back

I’m over 40, divorced, and have dated A LOT of women since the divorce a decade ago, This lady is Right on point! I’ve lived exactly what she talks about. Wow!!! Listen to her! Walk AWAY from insecure, disrespectful women. Here’s something she didn’t mention- DON’T LOOK BACK. Go find better!!! There are millions of women out there. Expand your horizons and find your partner somewhere else.

She’s a breath of fresh air…all day long!!!

Real talk! She doesn't has say it! By her actions the first time she disrespect you LEAVE!

Everything you have said literally described my “ex-wife” she later turn lesbian, weird right!?! Anyways thank you Miss Olivia for all you hard work.

Facts...i was jus becoming a paycheque for her. Stayed as long as i could for the kids sake, but i had to walk away. Could not let my kids be around that negative nrgy any longer...co-parenting is a work in progress, but at least my kids smile when they see me. My heart n soul feels so much bettr. 👊🏽

This woman is a gem, saving countless men from toxic relationships. ❤️ Stay strong girl

Thanks for the refresher. Like many of you, I've also learned this the hard way. If circumstances that are out of your control happen to complicate your relationship, and the first thing she does is not only blame you, but try to break your self-esteem and try to make you feel like negligible scum, this isn't because she feels deeply about your relationship; it means she emotionally moved on from you, and, as was my case, is interested in someone new. Like Olivia said, even if such blatant disrespect is followed by profuse apologies and supposedly reciprocated understanding, that should give you a hint that you should leave. Whoever wronged you now has a downright cruel way to manipulate you, not just during trying times, but otherwise when she simply feels like it, and it's better to simply move forward and not put yourself through all that again.

If she says don’t tell me what to do, that’s basically the same.

Oh I’m definitely bouta walk away with no remorse.Olivia your words validate what I feel internally.been going crazy now I know that I ain’t.thank you🙏

I rock with this little sit down for the fact it’s a simple and informative talk with none of the extra shit people do for views. Fucked up that it deserves recognition for keeping it real now a days but I appreciate the honesty and respect you both for it. I can’t ever knock anything genuine and real life not an act. Props to you both for being true to yourselves and nothing less. Been in a rut and been through a lot this last year and I can relate to the foundation Peter stands on

We are kings for a reason. She knows from both sides of the story and we appreciate it because it’s not many who does. Protect her at all times. #KeepBringingHeat #OliviaAlexa2023

Trust Your Gut. Thank you for this Olivia, I am in this situation yet again. And this time its not even a romantic relationship. Great advice as always

I had to learn this lesson the hard way years ago

I ignored it for YEARS and made excuses and over looked actions untill i couldn’t take it no more smh checked out mentally and then i left

@josephballard4565

Жыл бұрын

*Write me on the Number above for more enlightenment,Tips and advice * ⬆️ 👆 ☝️

💯✅. Thank you so much. You hit the nail right on the head. Respect is everything to a man and foundational to a healthy relationship with a woman. If she doesn’t respect you be ready and bold enough to walk away. DO NOT COMPROMISE on this. You will live to regret it.

I love the sincerity when you said “It’s game over”. Great lesson. Thank You

Olivia,you're on point once again-as always! One definitely can not tolerate disrespect from anyone at all under any circumstances.

You can't explain any more better than this. What just all said. I was just in the same situation if what you just said. I did really walk away no any contact .She did came back and she is nice and sweet. She knows now. Disrespect is war zone. Don't come close. Thank you Olivia ❤🙏🏽

FRL FRL queen. ❤I see this from family members and co workers. and you’re right on ghosting them when they try to undermine and disrespect you. 😊♏️

@CitygirlRayA

Жыл бұрын

You a Scorpio? That’s true there’s a lot of co workers I had to ghost. I walk pass them like they’re an old trash can. I don’t go out my way to dodge. Their existence is irrelevant.

And as a man speaking from experience, you are correct.

You have a perfect and very clear way of saying the obvious. All who r evolved in a relationship like this or even close to it . Everyone please lets be strong and be there for ourselves so we can really be there for someone else.

It's truly a breath of fresh air to listen to you, because cut & dry.....you say it the way it really is....with absolutely no bs....thank you sincerely

So true, there is life and death . No respect is a sign of death. Peace, I'm out for good where there is smoke fire will be a 🔥.

I used to hear women say things like only your disrespect earns you respect. People who think this way are insecure. You will never have peace nor create a symbiotic relationship if you are competitive with your partner, mistreating your partner, or withholding love and adoration to control your partner. Rejoice and be glad in choosing peace, spirit of team/compromise, respect, and love. If a person is not reciprocal of that, then you move on. It's their loss. Never retrofit Godly principles to match the devils energy. The devil will never like you. His spiritual mission: steal, kill, and destroy you. If you ever want to learn how a person truly is, give of the spirt things which are priceless and cannot be commodified. Then watch how the person responds to you in earnest. And once they show you, believe it.

@the_one_who-knocks

Жыл бұрын

What do you mean by give of the spirit thing? Sincere question

@creating1_c1999

Жыл бұрын

@@the_one_who-knocks No problem. Spiritual gifts or giving spiritually: 1. your wisdom and teaching 2. patience and understanding 3. love and kindness 4. respect and submission

@the_one_who-knocks

Жыл бұрын

@@creating1_c1999 oh ok, that makes sense

I just went through this. I don't have no tolerance of disrespect at all, and she knows that now

Truly appreciate you saying this Olivia, so many men need to hear this, wake up to the situation, and just leave. Self preservation is key here at this point. Keep doing what you do!

Fuck it’s taken me awhile to realize this was me. Love made me blind and I lost all sense of self and pride trying to save the relationship and, when it ended, trying to get her back. In the end, I left it ugly and aired it all out, which I’ve felt terrible about, but I realize I wasn’t wrong about what I said, still wish I hadn’t said it all the way I did though. I came off as weak through it all. Miss her incredibly, and even knowing all this I still have bad days where I just want to reach out to her. I’ve never known love like the kind I had for her. These videos have helped me realize that seems to be more of a problem than a blessing though. Keep your head up y’all. For any going through something similar, stay strong. It’s going to take what seems like an excruciating amount of time to heal and return to some sense of self. You’ll likely never be the person you were before so don’t get caught up chasing that. You’ll probably never completely lose that love or longing either, but stay strong and don’t reach out. It’s for the best.

@creating1_c1999

Жыл бұрын

Love is free, it's truthful, it's light, and it gives sight. It doesn't blind us.

Well said, remove yourself, be mindful, especially if you have family/children it is truly about self-worth 💯, from it gets to that level time to disconnect.

Damn! You're in tuned. I just got done with another argument, 25+ years of the same same same, and this rings true. She's not able to see what she's doing to continue the non-stop drama..

Point blank, non-negotiable, solid, and valid facts. Thank you, Queen, for confirming this.

My opinion, but most men can't walk away because they don't have their shit together so they fall into the needy category. A girl will feel that lost when you walk away if she knows that she can easily be replaced because you are in excellent shape financially and personally.

Fellas please listen to this woman she giving us free game

This is crazy! Where was this video two years ago my soon to be ex wife told me this very thing and I stayed with her anywhere knowing at the time when she said it I should have left., but I loved her so I stayed and suffered the consequences for that. The emotional abuse from that point forward was so bad I lost my sense of worth and self respect. To the creator of this video I appreciate very much what you do keep up the good work! 👍🏾