I Wish Someone Had Told Me | Midlife Rumble | Life Over 60
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I wish someone had told me years ago that my childhood things I have carried around with me would cause my midlife rumble. Let us talk about that today. I really wish someone would have told me years ago.
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We , never know how heavy the bags are until we put them down. Thank you Sandra…
@brendagordon4936
2 жыл бұрын
Love this!
@dulcehajjar5826
2 жыл бұрын
I like that : We Never Know how Heavy the Bags are until we put them down “ Very True 👏 🤗
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. So well expressed
@mikedenison121
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Kat.how’re you doing
My dad loved me, but was a scary alcoholic, military lifer so we didn’t have a lot of security growing up since we moved around a lot. My dear mother was very loving, crafty, sewing, cooking, laughing, playing. I chose a lovely husband who was afraid I would be bored with him. But I LOVE his stability. I am so lucky and grateful that we found each other 20 years ago now. Our house is happy, calm, stable, secure, loving. We still have a romance. I recently retired and he retires in April and we are excited for our next phase in life.
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Barbie you are so lucky do have had a wonderful relation and have found your soulmate in life. Thank you so much for sharing
For many years I carried that heavy baggage from childhood and I thought to myself nothing would ever change for me. Many bad decisions. I had very little for a long time. And then one day I made the jump and I made my way to Europe at 58. My life took a lot of turns and bumps but at 69 I can say I am only carrying a light back back now. It truly is never too late. Life can change for the better no matter what the age. Thank you so much Sandra.
@sgray4995
2 жыл бұрын
I'm 66 and struggle with childhood my whole life. You're not alone.
@mariekitty
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@seventhchild7270
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you also....2EternityButterflies
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
So true. It is never too late to find yourself or happiness.
@purplesky3053
2 жыл бұрын
I started thinking differently about my childhood traumas. Instead of being angry or depressed about the negative experiences, I now believe they made me the strong woman that I am today. I also lost my 19 year old son 10 years ago to viral encephalitis, which was a shock with deep, dark grief. He was a healthy, intelligent, athletic and sweet son. One would never have guessed he would be taken from us so suddenly. I guess my point is that all experiences shape you, but it’s within our power to MAKE THE DECISION to be the best version of ourselves that we can. I love Sandra’s format for life lessons and love. 💞💞
I am 76. Several years ago, I found a book called Women Who Love too Much by Robin Norwood. When I read it, I completely dissolved into tears as I saw the emotional blueprint of my life and how it was formed. What you are saying today is so profoundly true about what has happened to us as children goes on to affect us the rest of our lives! We think we are making mindful decisions but it truly is our subconscious mind that is guiding us. Thank you so much for bringing this to light as it is NEVER too late to make changes!❤️❤️❤️
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Roberta for sharing that title of the book with us. I do remember when that came out. I would suggest to women to read that book.
@roberta9622
2 жыл бұрын
@@lifewithsandrahart thank you for taking the time to respond Sandra! Your strength and wisdom are truly appreciated.❤️
@beulahbenade4098
2 жыл бұрын
I read that very book after my divorce long ago. Very helpful xx
@roberta9622
2 жыл бұрын
@@beulahbenade4098 all the best to you going forward!🥰
@beulahbenade4098
2 жыл бұрын
@@roberta9622 Thank you very much. This is such a lovely place to share our experiences. God bless xx
Good morning Sandra! There is a line from a movie that says “childhood is what you spend the rest of your life trying to overcome” this is so true for so many. I so enjoy listening to you I miss these kinds of talks with my mother, as I mentioned before you are my Mothers exact age. Hugs and love to you! Thank you Sandra!
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Donuts so great to hear from you. Thank you for sharing that with me
@bluejeans1773
2 жыл бұрын
I think the Movie was Hope Floats.. it's at the end of movie 💕
@TheNourishingGurus
2 жыл бұрын
that's a great quote Donna! so true - thanks for sharing
@utube0372
2 жыл бұрын
@@lifewithsandrahart I just stumbled onto your channel today and I’m so glad I did. You’re a very beautiful and interesting young lady and your devotion on a healthy journey is very inspiring. I am 55 years old and I want to start making healthier choices and exercising ... and I live in Palm Coast Florida so it’s so wonderful to know you live in the sunshine state as well. I look forward to watching all your videos. 😊
Dear Sandra you are such a blessing! Your words of wisdom and encouragement means so much! Thank you for being the lovely,beautiful soul that you are! 🤗
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
As usual you were "right on". I'm now 83. I was 45 when my father first told me he loved me. He also planted a kiss on my cheek. How special that was. I'll always remember! ❤️
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Father daughter relationships are so important because they really do affect us for the rest of our lives. What a sweet memory
Good Morning Sandra, I have tears in my eyes as you have verbalized what has been my "baggage" since I was a little girl. My Mother was narcissistic and didn't allow a closeness between my Father and me. At 73, while I have finally reached a self-acceptance, I still mourn for the loss of a "could've been" childhood and a young self-confident woman. It certainly did affect the choices that I made. Blessings, Diane
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Diane, we could never capture the past can we but we can certainly let go, forgive and change the dynamics within our own family
@suekaiser4163
2 жыл бұрын
Diane, I completely understand and glad you have reached a self acceptance as a daughter of a narcissistic parent. My narcissistic mother is almost 95 and still at it. I am in therapy finally getting to discuss my pain and journalling is helping. I too, at 69, wonder and grieve what my life could have been if I would have disengaged from my mother early on. I now have trauma therapist. All the other counseling and books in the world are not going to take the place of another human validating you and your life experiences. Peace, sister.❤❤❤.
@JayneNicoletti
2 жыл бұрын
Daughter of a Narc Mom and even though she died in 2017, it still haunts and upsets me. However, I try to see some positive and it made me more compassionate and I think that allowed me to be a better Stepmom. I have a better relationship with them than I did with my own birth Mother.I have been able to understand why she was like that as I aged and talked to people who knew her. It gets better but never goes away...the yearning. ❤️
@suekaiser4163
2 жыл бұрын
@@JayneNicoletti I agree. One really can change the way they treat others, and I hope I have, but the "mother ache" will never go away. I know that. I am working on closure. It's tough when you don't get that gift of closure. Forgiveness is and letting go is important, but just when you think it doesn't bother you anymore, it comes out of nowhere seemingly, and messes with ya.It has made me question my whole existance. Personal closure and peace is my goal . Good luck and peace to you.
It raises up the question of who you are in relation to the Creator of Heaven and Earth; Our Heavenly Father and our Lord Jesus Christ. This is part of what He is doing in these last days(before He cleanses the whole earth)… is ask yourself,”Who are you-In Christ? I can say to that~ I am a blood-bought born-again believer in Jesus Christ of Nazareth, in the heart of the Body of Christ, and in the Bride of the Lamb, in the Mighty Matchless Name of Jesus Christ. HalleluYah 🤗❤️🔥🕊✨
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Anen
Everything you have said resonates with me. I try not to perseverate. "Don't look back, you're not going that direction". Suns out in Iowa.
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much
Early trauma certainly has had an impact of decision I have made. Knowing yourself And understanding and acceptance are my key to a happy life.
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
They are both to good things to consider. Acceptance is the key to moving on and dropping the baggage that we carry
@hurstjames6196
2 жыл бұрын
Hello 👋how're you doing today hope you're safe over there?
Indeed, it’s never to late to discover you! I didn’t get where I am today by sitting “eating her curds and whey. At 75 I have buried two husbands (blessed to look great in black and love riding in limos), recovered from three months of paralysis and treatable autoimmune diseases ( incl Addison’s Disease) and still have a positive outlook for life. Thanks to my childhood and God I was able to survive all surprises in my young life! Thanks for reminding us to reflect…👏💁♀️☕️❤️🙏🇺🇸
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Joyce, it’s always good to hear from you and have you share your wonderful outlook on life with a little twist of Joyce inside your message. Thank you so much for being here and I am so happy that you are feeling so much better. Love you my friend
@hurstjames6196
2 жыл бұрын
Hello 👋how're you doing today hope you're safe over there?
Great talk! Thank you! I married a man who is the opposite of my father which is a wonderful thing. We have 3 grown wonderful young men because he is a great father and dad. 💞💞
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Smart and beautiful
It’s also good to see if our soul is ready to meet God when our final breath is taken. Jesus brings peace and a secure place in Heaven.
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
So true
Thank you so much. I love people watching, too. My whole life I did that. Sometimes the people don't liked it. I like the area you live, it is beautiful, the beach. Thank you so much for your input. (Excuse my english, it's just from school in Germany). Best wishes to you, lovely Sandra. I learn who I am in this time now, because it's so important. I think, no matter what happend in life, try to be happy with what you have. I believe in this.
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Excellent advice!
@susannslebensberatung
2 жыл бұрын
@♜Pinnedby Life Over Sixty With Sandra Thank you, is this Whatsapp or Telefon?
Such a great topic of conversation, thank you for making us all think and reflect 😊
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
One aspect or attitude of my life I would love to overcome is to stop the.past from still hurting me or control me and accept every day as a clean canvas and write a new story everyday , love you Sandra.
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
I hope you will be able to do that
Sandra your daughter is so blessed to have you for a mom ❤ Thank you and God bless you as always for your wisdom and inspiration! 🙏
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
Me too. My dad never paid attention to me and never said I love you or I'm proud of you. I made bad choices in men. I never married. I miss him as he gone now 6 years. I go to therapy to heal these hurts.
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts today
Sandra, you are so stunning in this video. When I was young, I also was somewhat bullied by other girls. I only wanted friends... Looking back, maybe there was some jealousy. But then, THEY were coping w/ internalized hurts also. As an older lady, I see the other side too. Becoming mature...we can forgive it all. I didn't have loving parents. There was a lot of many types of abuse. Yes, it did affect EVERYTHING about me. The shame. However on an intellectual level, I now know it wasn't truly 'me'....but THEY had internal issues. It wasn't true what they said. I was (and am) a valuable person. Took a long time to realize it. Thank you for having 'this conversation' with us.
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Victoria I think it takes us a long time to understand that we really are worthy and have our place that is unique right here while we’re here
"What can I do to make my life better"... thank you for that Sandra... this struck a cord with me!! Stay safe...xo
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
I am so happy that you watched
@mikedenison121
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Catherine Eddy, How’re you doing
Thank you Sandra for your enlightening advice. It always helps. Also, I enjoy reading the comments and testimonials from those in this community. Our challenges, successes, things we're all pulling ourselves through. Thanks and cheers to everyone🙏💖🥂💃💐
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your thoughts
Good morning Sandra! Oh, how I agree with you! I have always said that things in our childhood have an impact on us as adults. I have been trying to “find me” for several years. Thank you so much for this video! 💕🙏🏻
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Kathy
My parents were born in the 1920's . I never once remember them telling me they loved me or ever hugged me growing up..They provided for me, but I sure could have used some validating words, and a hug. I outwardly seem successful, but never felt truly loved by anyone. I too, made bad choices with men. I often wonder how my life would have turned out. Still in and out of therapy at almost 70 dealing with this baggage.
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
From the comments I’m getting Sue, I am finding that we’re not the only ones who had parents like that. It may have been a generation thing. But I sure tried to change the cycle with my own children. Letting go of they have a baggage we often is hard, but possible.
@suekaiser4163
2 жыл бұрын
Yes, My mother is still still alive, and at 95 she still does very hurtful things to me, so I am now no contact with her. My baggage has never been addressed until now. It was always been fixing what was "wrong with me" medicating my depression, and getting functional. This is the first time I have been able to address my pain and the source of it. I do feel hope I will have peace, finally. Thank you for your kind response Sandra. You are an inspiration and a treasure.You have had a hard, but very successful and interesting life, thank you for sharing. I pray for you too, that your later years are filled with peace and joy that you deserve.❤❤❤
Dear Sandra…. I would love to hear more on your relationship with your kids. Advice you’ve given them, how you show your love to them , and maybe any regrets you may have in how you built your relationship through the years with them. Thank you for today… my good deed today…. Letting an older lady at the back of the line at my Covid booster shot clinic go first. She was so happy 😀 so was I ❤️
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for thinking about a topic that I might be able to address. How wonderful it was for you to do that act of kindness to the older woman. I really appreciate your sharing that.
That's so true, Sandra! My parents were abusive, emotionally and physically, when I was little. Even after I left them and started my own life, I made so many mistakes by hanging with toxic friends and staying in abusive relationships for too long. I didn't know I didn't deserve being mistreated until I got older and learned more about psychology. Now I am in total control of my own life and would not let anybody take it away from me :)) I tried forgiveness but it didn't work for me. So, I came to terms with it by forgiving myself not to forgive :))
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Sorry you had to go through that as a child. It does leave scars and influences our decisions as adults. I’m so happy that you have found happiness at this time in your life. Thanks for sharing Mel
Thanks once again Sandra,for reminding us that we matter 🧡😊
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
Did not have parents that were warm and fuzzy, but my dear favorite aunt was. When she’d tuck us in at sleepovers, she’d always plant a kiss on us kids. Very endearing. Thanks Aunt Boo Boo! Love you!
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
How beautiful. I had an ass like that as well but she died when I was a little girl. I loved her so much
I agree with you. Sometimes how we were treated when we were young, keeps us from becoming who we are meant to be. I've finally been able to let go of my mother's rejection of me, and am able to move foward with more confidence, to lead a more fullfilling life.
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
So true
Dear Sandra, I love your openness and wisdom. Every time I watch your videos I learn, laugh, and understand more deeply. 🥰
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much Sandy
@hurstjames6196
2 жыл бұрын
Hello 👋how're you doing today hope you're safe over there?
Sandra, my father was the same way. He took care of his family but never said I love you to me until about a year before his death. As I grew up I would see my cousins and friends get hugs and kisses from their fathers and I always envied them. He was basically a cold person who tended to say unkind things and who was not that easy to get along with. It took years to finally accept that that's just who he was, but at age 66 I still wonder what it would be like to have the memories of a loving father who hugged, kissed, and made me feel like he loved me. And I ended up getting married twice to men who very similar to him in character. Thankfully I'm no longer in those marriages. But, life goes on and that's just the way it was. It no longer upsets me, but I do wonder. As always, I enjoy your wonderful videos.
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
For sharing your thoughts on what we’re talking about today in this video. Surprisingly I have found that there are a lot of us there who have had a similar relationships with their fathers
Thanks Sandra for a wonderful start to the day with your wise wisdom🧐💕🙏😊
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
My dad never said he loved me and I only remember him hugging me once in his older years. I would hug him. I am 70 and I can relate with so many things you have gone through. I too had a first marriage that ended with my husband dying prematurely but by suicide. But thank God my faith like you has gotten me through so much and you my dear Sandra is one of those ways God is using now. God bless you. ❤️🙏❤️
My Parents that raised me adored me. I love them with all of my heart. They are very special to me
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful!
Living in the past and dwelling on our mistakes only paralyzed us in the future. At this stage of my life in my senior years I intend to live my best life. Sure I have regrets, but those regrets were lessons and made me the independent woman I am today. Because at the end of the day we are our own best friend. As a best friend we handle with care, love and encouragement. Stay safe my friend and keep sharing your pearls of wisdom,
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Love your post. Thanks for sharing your thoughts
@mikedenison121
2 жыл бұрын
Hi 👋 Dori .
Sandra, what you're describing is mother wound and father wound. And yes, virtually every single person on this planet has them. Sadly, almost no one heals them, ending up perpetuating and passing down these paradigms generation after generation. People form relationships wound-to-wound instead of soul-to-soul, trying to compensate for what they weren't given in childhood. Healing of course is possible and more people should know about it.
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for your thoughts on this topic and joining in on the conversation. I loved your observation
Good morning 🙏 🌄 enjoy your videos. You have a soothing nice voice and good energy....thank you for sharing wisdom. Have a blessed day..... Miss Lizzie from beautiful Az
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you and blessings your way
You've touched on one of my favourite topics to ponder : How past events shaped us. Once one is aware of these things, one can make peace, I think, sometimes, with these traumas. But boy, there are some traumas that just won't ease up. I so wish I could just FORGET the hurt. You're looking very beautiful today. I'm so happy that you have one of your children nearby. I stayed across the road from my parents ... and was able to be with them right to the end of their lives. Something I'll always be grateful for. In fact, you have become just as precious to me as my parents were. Meeting you on KZread every week is just like visiting my parents regularly. I cherish it.
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Beulah, what a kind and wonderful thing to say in your comment. I really enjoy spending time with you too. I am happy you enjoyed this conversation
You are a lady of wisdom thank-you.Blessing to you
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
Thank you for such beautiful words. You are a blessing 😘
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much.
Good morning Sandra both my parents were not huggers but my grandmother was. I now always tell my grown children I love them and give a hug. Like everyone else I knew my parents loved me and the other 6 kids in our family. Have a good day and thank you 😊
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
I love to hug my children because I wasn’t .
Thank you Sandra for your words of wisdom. That is nice for you to have your daughter moving closer🌟💕👏👏 That will be lovely for you both.! We never stop learning do we... To actually slow down and ponder ,how our past experiences have shaped us and our beliefs... This world tries to tell us who we SHOULD be, but worth the effort to figure out ,who we are..🌻 And how who we become effects others,for good,or bad... May you enjoy your week. And many thanks Big hugs..xx
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
I am excited to have her near.
@mikedenison121
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Marianne Ellman, How’re you doing
Have to forgive yourself and others and move on. Can't change the past. Love yourself and enjoy every day. Love your channel. Helping others. Life is a gift.
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Yes. It’s true
My childhood was not bad I can say that we were poor bur with enough to eat. Now I am not rich but I have enough to live better than my parents and with all that technology I have learned much more than I ever thought, even still not knowing for sure who am I, i can say most of the time I feel happy in mines 75. Thank you dear Sandra when I see your videos it,s like your are talking to me😊🙏
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this topic Maria. So nice to hear from you and I think we all are a work in progress
You look so Elegant and Stunning😙 You are so right about the past. I wasn't raised by either parent. My Mothers Parents raised me from 3 weeks old. Of Course my Grandparents are long gone. God Bless you Dear Lady, I wish Everything Good for you and Arthur And your loved ones 😙💖❤💖❤💖🐕🐕
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Michelle thank you so much for sharing your story with us. Thank you for being here.
Oh Boy, my dad. Took us years before we could get close and express our love, long after my many bad decisions as a teenager and beyond. But I miss him and the love he had for me, my husband and our children. He turned out to be the best grandparent anyone could wish for. Go figure. My children and I reminisce all the time about how funny he was and how lucky we were to enjoy his company for so long.
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Patsy that’s very interesting. Because my father was the same way. He was so great with my children. So mysterious.
I just love this. Thank you so much ❤️
Thank you for sharing this ❤️
Such a great topic of conversation, yes sometimes it takes almost a lifetime to undo what We were taught or we have gone through, so interesting 🌹
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your thoughts Gloria mobile
I love this message! You are so wise, thank you. 💕
Wonderful words of wisdom Sandra. I'm sure many of us don't realize how our childhood has shaped our adult years and why we are the way we are. Thanks for giving us something to ponder about over the next couple of days🤔❤ Have a wonderful 😊 day!
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for lending your voice to this conversation
@hurstjames6196
2 жыл бұрын
Hello 👋how're you doing today hope you're safe over there?
You are a wonderful person,thank you
Amen Sister! Know Thyself!! Ty for another needed subject😘
Thank you, Sandra!
Congratulations 🍾🎈🎊!!! You have an awesome channel and so deserve reaching this milestone! Celebrate you!
Thank you so much for this advice. I am going to use it🌸
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your time with us today
Thank you Sandra 🙏💞🌈 and for all your wise thoughts 🌸🥰
Excellent!!! Thank You!
Thank you for so much inspiration. Much to think about and pass on…
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
Glad I found you. Very inspiring!
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
I am happy that you found me also
Thank you for all the good advice and for sharing your own experiences.
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
Thank you so much for this wonderful advice! Important to Know Who are you! ❤️
I am grateful for you.
Thank you for this important information regarding AGE. 🙏
How lovely you are, Sandra. Thank you for your excellent videos. So many wise and heartfelt words.This tugged at my heart. Everyone should forward this to their best friend and their daughter.
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much
Blessings, thank you❣️
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
Sandra you are a beautiful lady inside and out and such an inspiration 🌻
Sandra انا احبك كثيرا واسفه لاني لا أجيد اللغة الانجليزيه حتى استطيع ان اكتب لكى واعبر عن إعجابي بك والمواضيع المهمه التى تتناوليها انا الان في تكساس وإنشاء الله عندما أجيد الانجليزي سوف اتواصل معك واتي لزيارتكم فأنا معجبه بك والهمتيني بمواضيعك الجميله شكرا ليك على جهودك واتمنى من الله ان يعطيك الصحه والعافية وطول العمر love ❤️ you Sandra
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so very much
Thank you so much for your words I really needed to hear this. God bless you.
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks and blessings your way.
This topic i can relate thank you Sandra I hope you are having a great week ❤️
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
I hope you have a great week as well
Sandra probably one of the best messages I have heard in a very long time:) THANKS so much.🌻🌻🌻
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy that you enjoy this today. Thank you for letting me know
Sandra thank you for this, I have recently shed the shackles of trying to gain the approval of my father for who I am and what I have achieved. As a child being called scruffy and mental by my father left a feeling of not being good enough and accepting anything to fit in with others, just to be normal. When feeling undermind in front of my own children by my father, at the age of 55, enough was enough and I made the decision to distance myself. I am now finding myself and realising that I can do anything. I look back at my childhood photos and realised I was actually quite pretty but at the time that was not how I felt. My mother was my biggest supporter, although undermind and physically abused by my father. I love your words of wisdom. Thank you again for this lovely talk, Shara 😊xx
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your story. Abuse like that, mental abuse when we are young is hard to shake. Good for you to distance yourself
You are so inspiring…. Love your warmth
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for letting me know
Absolutely stunning video, you are wonderful Sandra💐🌷🌹🌼🌸🌺🪷🌻
Wonderful talk from you today love it when you talk about life x I needed to hear this today x Love to Arthur x
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much
Hi Sandra I so enjoy hearing your words of wisdom I so identify when you were talking about your parents and school experiences! Thank you so much it makes sense now that I'm older
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
I think it’s much easier to have hindsight isn’t it
Thank you for this encouragement!
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Theresa
Hi Sandra, I am from that era where parents did not say I love you, you just knew they did. The way that affected me I made a very conscious effort to be the opposite so I told my kids that I love them every day since they were born and we still do it. The result of that is that I have very loving affectionate grown children who have raised their children the same way and they never have a conversation with me without telling me they love me. My dad died when I was 30 but my Ma is still here. She never could spit the words out I love you until she was until I was in her 70’s but she hasn’t stopped saying it since. Much love to you Sandra, Sheila
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
I saw the video with your two sons and I know that is absolutely so true.
Thank you for your wise words and teachings this is so true to be curious about the world around us but most importantly to be curious about us 😊🌷❤️
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Let’s hope we never lose our curiosity
Fantastic really good podcast.
You are a wise woman. Thank you
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks
Thank you Sandra your amazing x
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks
❤️ Thankyou Sandra. Luv your hair style /side part.
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
You are so wise Miss Sandra! Love to hear you!
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks
You are heaven sent. Thank you from my depths. I just discovered you today and I'll be lingering in this warm place. So welcoming, so wise! 💗
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Welcome and I’m so happy that you found me. Please enjoy our community here
Hi Sandra, I loved your post. I found your words wise and insightful, and it is uplifting. You look amazing btw, Love Valerie. xx
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching today Valerie
I so agree with you Sandra, I think the importance of telling our children we love them. I tell my children and grandchildren all the time I love them, but I show them as well. Love without action, is just a word….Much love my beautiful friend…Bella xxxx🌹
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much my friend. I appreciate your spending some time with me today
Thank you ! so beautiful! with respect!
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much
Thank you Sandra. This is so true about our fathers. My story is a bit much to put here but its very unique. I love your videos no matter if they’re old or new. Your a wonderful inspiration. Thank you again!
Thank you! I love this message from you today an the comment are also beautiful and helpful.💞
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Sherry
This was lovely, Sandra, & so important. Wonderful to hear your thoughts.
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
This was just what I needed to hear. I’m glad you have your daughter near by. You are SO lucky. Thanks Sandra. I love you ! ❤️❤️❤️ Give my LOVE to Arthur. 🥰
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much
I love listening to you Sandra. Appreciate your gentle wisdom🤗🙏
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much
Excellent advice, dear Sandra.🙂 I'm starting my list now!
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Great news! Best of luck
Hello! You crossed my path today. Thank you for what you do and your wisdom. 🤗
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for stopping by!
Warm and kind greetings for a good morning and Blessed week Sandra. This video is beautifully personable, and relatable, and it's impact really resonates powerfully. Wisdom, grace, curiosity, kindness, self care, honesty, hope, humor, positive encouragement, and life changing transparency about life and living. Wonderful:)! I can and do relate to it all. Great conversation:)! 🙏😊🎀♥️👍
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
So much for your thoughts Tamatha
@tamathagilbert5816
2 жыл бұрын
@@lifewithsandrahart Thank you for your kind response Sandra:). Enjoy a Blessed week and enjoy a lovely valentine's weekend.🎀😊
You are so right Sandra! I am doing my level best not to pass my matching set of luggage and travel trunk to my two daughters. I believe we must honestly share our past with our adult children in the hopes that they are able to live their best suitcase-free lives. 💖🇨🇦🥜
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
So well put. Thank you
Thank you ... for many years I felt weird, strange and honestly I still feel I do not fit in this society. That’s how I feel. Listening to you lifts my spirits. Thanks so much for sharing your wisdom 🙏❤️🙏
Thanks for sharing your positive vibes and may God continue to bless you 🙏
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Blessings your way and nice to have you here
I agree wholeheartedly with all you are saying. I can identify with it all. Thank you Sandra.
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching Mary