“I was in a very dark place” | Vivek Oberoi on Mental Health, Love & Family | Karishma Mehta | Ep 73
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“I’ve been at the edge of darkest of darknesses; I’ve contemplated doing something Sushant Singh did. It happens when everything in your personal and professional life goes wrong, all at once. But I was fortunate that I was surrounded by people who loved me, who became my pillars and who reminded me, ‘The world can take away my power, but not my strength!’”
Vivek Oberoi is a name synonymous with versatility and charisma in the Indian film industry. Although Vivek was born in the glitz and glamour of Bollywood - as Suresh Oberoi’s son, he chose to pave his own path and strived to make his mark in the industry.
In this episode, we peel back the layers of Vivek's journey - from the story of his debut in "Company" to the unexpected stardom that came his way, from Bollywood friendships to his heartwarming love story, and from worst of adversities to how he found balance in his life.
Join us as we explore the journey of a man who has battled adversities, found love in unexpected places, and achieved success, on his own terms.
We talked about:
. Childhood days
. His father’s reaction to his decision of becoming an actor
. The story of how he landed ‘Company’
. Behind the scenes of ‘Saathiya’
. Experience working with Rani Mukherji
. The early days of success
. Dealing with the negativity and criticism
. Mental health
. Spiritual practices he does to stay centered
. Vivek’s love story
. Vivek, the entrepreneur
. OTT & Indian Police Force
. Advice to the youth
#vivekoberoi #bollywood #podcast
Time Stamps
00:00 - Precap
00:55 - Welcome
01:45 - Childhood memories & Suresh Oberoi’s story
06:25 - The decision to become an actor
11:00 - Living in the slums to get his debut - Company
21:42 - Why was he told not to do Saathiya?
27:57 - Working with Rani Mukherji
29:47 - Riding the highs of success
34:38 - Dealing with the negative press
37:37 - On mental health & resonating with Sushant Singh Rajput
45:08 - Spiritual practices to stay centered
48:12 - “People can take your power away, not your strength!”
50:00 - Vivek’s arranged love story
58:55 - Entrepreneurship; coming on OTT & how it has changed things
01:05:44 - Advice to the youth
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This was such a raw and real interview. Thank you so much Vivek for being so vulnerable & speaking about things people need to hear. Was refreshing!
@parth3337
5 ай бұрын
Ace storyteller ❤
@humansofbombay2801
5 ай бұрын
Yes, it was!❤❤❤
@diffshadesofshady6120
5 ай бұрын
I was hooked once I started watching it
@sabrinakhan8217
4 ай бұрын
He's still trying to cash Salman's name to survive. He got 17 movies after that famous spat with Salman . All movies tanked on over 5000 screens worldwide.. No Salman or any gangster can force people to not watch any movie in one city, forget about all over India. He needs to accept that he ain't got it and Salman has nothing to do with it. He doesn't have a romantic hero look nor a comedian or action hero look.... and public is ruthless.
@LoJoPe
4 ай бұрын
@sabrinakhan8217 Vivek is doing a good job all by gomel. Salman or Aishwarya didn't bring him any fame. Vuvek had his struggles and was not seen in films for a long time! He even did good in South Indian movies.
Its sad that the world once chose to side with a bully, and put him down.
@SMon-wh6om
5 ай бұрын
And still chooses to side with the bully even today
@namratabhatkar2841
5 ай бұрын
No point in blaming Salman Khan who you referr d as Bully.. Vivek came after Salman and publically insulted him. All for a lady who wouldn't even acknowledge Vivek publically. He has later realised what a fool he was.
@SMon-wh6om
5 ай бұрын
@@namratabhatkar2841 doesn't discount salman of all the crimes he's committed aside from the crimes outside the relationship.
@NWSIMU
4 ай бұрын
He didn't bully vivek. This guy was very naive and publicly shamed and disgraced Salman for a woman who very easily left him and married a third guy. He himself has confessed he made a huge mistake and also made it clear Salman never asked anyone to reject him, they did it themselves bcz Salman was a huge star so they chose the stonger side 🤷♀️
@SMon-wh6om
4 ай бұрын
@@NWSIMU Salman could have done a lot still. He chose to stay put. He knew very well how Vivek was being outcast by people. He didn't stop anyone. Such a cry baby.
We lost a gem like Vivek. His screen presence in Dum, Sathiya and Company was the best I have seen in a long time. A powerhouse of a talent. Not getting recognition in this dirty world of Bollywood gangs.
@rajnikanthsangam6500
4 ай бұрын
Rakth charitra ,His Expression,Dialogue Delivery 👌
@thiruvetti
4 ай бұрын
@@rajnikanthsangam6500 true
@lkoshy807
2 ай бұрын
He should've not called that press conference
@thiruvetti
2 ай бұрын
@@lkoshy807 There was nothing wrong. The response he got is what is called Goondaism in bollywood by Salman
@lkoshy807
2 ай бұрын
@thiruvetti no denying on salman's gundaism.....but, Vivek calling a press conference is prolly the most immature thing he could've done....could've handled it way way more carefully and diplomatically. He lost the girl and blacklisted himself in the process.
Kudos to Vivek for maturing so gracefully and a salute to his parents for passing on the positivity! Lots of love to his wise wife for keeping the most important emotion in him alive! Well done, to the entire team of Humans of Bombay for a sensibly crafted episode!! You brought out the true brilliance of Vivek Oberoi!!
@weneedpeace92
4 ай бұрын
yeah he is so versatile
@lohitnarang4701
28 күн бұрын
He lied... His father helped him get movie offers, including his first movie
Ek darwaja band hota hai to dushra khulta hai, im happy to hear your story, im glad you knocked the right door vivek..
When you wipe somebody else's tears, there is a magic.... Wow beautiful words by Vivek❤
Thought provoking interview 👏 He's a gutsy guy who stood against his bully and came back against odds. Wishing him success in his upcoming projects 🙌
I've been going through so much in the past year mentally. I've really cried almost every single day. Even today, I was walking around, feeling lonely, filled with despair - Vivek just spoke directly to me when I needed it the most: "People can take your power away , they can't take strength away" Thank you, Vivek!!!
@aartishah7988
4 ай бұрын
You believe it or not majority faces this issue, but be 100 percent sure these days will also pass,after darkness their is sunshine.Talk to yourself, push,encourage, give a pep up to yourself,
@Yahookudi
4 ай бұрын
@@aartishah7988 Working on it! Slowly but surely finding my feet. Thanks for your encouragement. Hope you have a fine day.
@rinkyrawat3784
4 ай бұрын
😊😊😊 kudos to you,
What an episode. when we are young we choose our heroes superficialy but now when we grow up we see the depth of the person and this man so wise so intelligent so grounded you are a HERO.
Such an inspirational person. He was not valued by Bollywood but he still kept going and created his own successful path. His kind heart and good deeds will always keep him blessed. So glad things have worked out so well for you. Totally well deserved!
As sorted his dad is, Vivek seems to be a real guy, with a real purpose. What a lovely conversation. Love what he is doing with Vivek 2.0, the entrepreneur Vivek! Wish him all the best.
Vivek Oberios blessing is his grounded family a real inspiration for the youth of today
Never seen before side of vivek Oberoi - I wish he gets more work in Bollywood! Thank you Karishma and humans of Bombay for this episode!
I remembered one of best friend saw him at Delhi Airport. He told me that vivek looks much more handsome in person as compared to camera. He was a guy. Imagine how much girls liked him..😊
@Geniere10
4 ай бұрын
He does. He visited my Uncle’s place & I got to meet him. He is so much more handsome in person, he has an electric aura that the camera can’t capture. He sat on the floor with my family & ate dal baati. He was so humble & sweet. He also is very well built but regardless of that, it’s his mannerisms & aura that win your heart. I can’t believe what happened to him IRL
@The-Celestial
4 ай бұрын
@@Geniere10 He's the person who overcame the darkness and the so called "wraith" which should be called Gundagardi of Salmon Bhoi
Never been a fan of Vivek but after this interview... ❤❤❤ he is so real and raw... such a wonderful human being. Thank you Karishma.
One of the best chat in recent times…. Vivek is a classy n well spoken person. Deserves the best in whatever he does.
He is a brilliant actor nd nice person ❤
Salman tried to take his power away, but this guy is phenomenal. Loved this interview.
@Zaara2050
4 ай бұрын
Hero banne chala tha...press conference Kara tha salman Khan ke againt...bht sahi kiya Salman Khan ne
@popon2374
3 ай бұрын
@@Zaara2050 tum pkka Muslim ho..muslim lacks in empathy nd qki salman Muslim hai toh usi ka sath doge..yhi agr tumhre sath hota tb dunia mai victim card khelne ka sauk bhi muslim ko hi hai
@Zaara2050
3 ай бұрын
@@popon2374 do log jab serious relationship mein hote hain.. to jhagde bhi hote hain..after some time relationship normal ho jati hain... but saman aish ke beech mein Vivek ke chalak lomda 😅😅 banne ki koshish ki... Aishwarya ko gf bana loongi..company movie ayi thi us waqt khud ko bada star samjh rha tha
@Zaara2050
3 ай бұрын
Datswy Salman got sooo much irritated with him... till now he z irritated
@Zaara2050
3 ай бұрын
@@popon2374 Aishwarya bhi laat maar ke nikal gayi isko🤣🤣🤣🤣
Vivek was my crush!! Brilliant actor, charming looks, amazing voice. He had it all but a few wrong choices brought him down. Glad he’s in a happy space now. Saathiya forever ❤❤
Justice for Sushant Singh Rajput. Sushant was brutally murdered.
@GoofyChaiLoverGirl
4 ай бұрын
He was probably trying to say the same thing. They might have tried to do the same thing with this guys but he had little bit of support because of powerful father which Sushant didn’t have. Some how this guy was saved
@saurabhpathak3179
4 ай бұрын
Nahi
@hello-zn8fd
4 ай бұрын
Boycott Bollywood Justice for ssr
@kuldipguleria2615
4 ай бұрын
Please help find the murderer. The much derided and accused unfortunate Rhea who suffered all possible ignominies turns out to be brilliant on another channel. Find it difficult to dismiss some of these filmy blokes out of hand.
@The-Celestial
4 ай бұрын
@@GoofyChaiLoverGirl Indeed 😔
Vivek is a good soul, honest, spiritual and could be a good motivational person for me. Good to know more about him. karishma your interview skills are to the point. You let the person comfortable, talk and never interrupt.
Vivek a truly good actor n a good human being who was only Bollywood actor who went through same as sushant singh Rajput n he was present for sushant funeral.
Yes Sushant was murdered & KILLERS are still ROAMING FREE #Justicefor SSR Let's revive this
12.57 ..,Dear Dear Vivek Oberoi, u never cease to amaze me . Today I see u as the wisest , strongest , and most courageous version of yourself . I admire you 😊. Your beautiful family is your greatest source of strength. You are a fantastic human being . God bless you to always be in high life condition and always be joyful and prosperous. ❤
@sonibaaniavlogs
4 ай бұрын
Look its great to desire ...but you have to deserve to desire
his voice is therapeutic..❤
@anjalimishra5173
4 ай бұрын
His father, Sri Suresh Oberoi, too has a powerful voice.
@rajnikanthsangam6500
4 ай бұрын
@@anjalimishra5173yes super voice,👌
Miss him on screen 🩷🩷🩷 He’s been a part of such iconic movies
@humansofbombay2801
5 ай бұрын
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Amazing interview! I have been in love with Vivek Oberoi ever since Saathiya! He is such an under rated actor and I really hope he gets many more movies he deserves! It’s always a pleasure seeing and hearing him ❤
@Aartipakar-uo3pj
4 ай бұрын
Agree 100%
Enjoyed listening to this brilliant actor who has matured into a very decent human being and a gentleman! Thanks
Thank you Karishma for creating this space for soemone like Vivek Oberoi and cudos to Vivek for such meaningful and real conversations🙏🏼
@karishmamehta3337
5 ай бұрын
Thank you Pranav- hope you have subscribed :)
@humansofbombay2801
5 ай бұрын
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Vivek Oberoi is a very good speaker..I cn listen to him for hours.. he has that soothing voice❤
One of the most beautiful and fulfilling interviews I have seen ever. All the best for your future Vivek ji. You are an amazing soul. I wish you get everything in your life what you desire for!! ❤
Vivek Oberoi is very talented ... he must try in Hollywood
Vivek we love you.....I just wish we could have seen more of you, you deserved way more than the people who pulled you down to the places you landed to....
Vivek we all love you…you are a fantastic performer 👍
Your mum and wife brought positiveness, abundance, prosperity in your life.
@aartishah7988
4 ай бұрын
God bless you all Dear
@kuldipguleria2615
4 ай бұрын
Look here Slam, why have you excluded the dad.
@slam390
4 ай бұрын
@@kuldipguleria2615 i have commented about his dad in seperate comment, Suresh ji is epitome of grace. I love to hear him all day.
Sushant didn't kill himself. He was murdered. Please watch what you are saying
Loved the interview! From a young brash boy, he has matured to a man with wisdom! Sushant comments were debatable as none of us know wot exactly happened!
Vivek is a damn good actor, I miss seeing him on screen
Vivek Oberoi is insanely talented!! For him to cross-over to South films itself is a great example! I wish he gets more roles that prove his talent!
You are good human being Vivek. Respect and love to you from a Tibetan. 🫶
Vivek, Sushant Singh Rajput was murdered he didn’t commit suicide.
Saathiya's songs __ memories of my teenage days & romance (Voh din bhi kya din the 💞💞💞) What i learned from Vivek's life is __ self & emotional control. We r human & we all made emotional mistake (especially when we r younger). So always be wise with our feeling & emotion - (don't get carried away by them foolishly.)
What a great & truthful interview. What a beautiful soul you are Vivek Oberoiji. I am a great fan of your Dad too. All the best in your promissing career! Thank you for the great job & questions from the interviewer too! ❤❤❤❤❤❤
His debut story can be a movie in itself.. and the dialogue when his mom said " when the good happens we don't say why me ? so don't say why me when the bad happens ". He deserved so much more success in the film industry but looks nevertheless he is a success as a human.
Sometime i feel pain and sadness that great actor Vivek Oberoi couldn’t make place well in the bollywood industry his acting dancing handsome looks are damn good 😢😞
This interview is so heart touching ❤ Such an Epic human being. God bless him!
Such a gentleman.. his voice , his accent.. style all just wow.. i still dunno how bollywood doesnt recognize him to be potential..
WHat an amazing man! Such passion in everything he does, acting, social work. His attitude to life is worth learning. He turned the negative comments to positive for the Cancer ass! amazing attitude. At times in interviews some stars can be so irritating . Vivek O , i have more repspect for him than other actors/actresses.
This was one great episode he rocked respect for him over coming all that was thrown his way soft spoken can tell the upbringing n education behind him n Karishma I am a really big fan of you ❤
This was unexpectedly b'ful ..❤ It made me wonder how little we truly know about a person beyond what's projected for years through social media ❤
My cousin who used to work as medical social worker had met vivek’s mom at TATA and she is very down to earth and doesnt tell people about her husband or son that they are actors
Wow! what an amazing interview! never hv imagined he has such a profound thoughts and upbringing..! he speaks so well and so articulated. and such a good story teller! he should definitely start writing good scripts!!
After seeing this interview one thing, i have learned so many things about life. So sweet interview.
mam you are a great speaker literally I can listen to you for hours........
@humansofbombay2801
5 ай бұрын
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Developed immense respect for Vivek Oberoi after watching this.. thoroughly inspired as well.. and this interviewer is such a wonderful person!.. I am not going to judge anyone blankly, specially based on how others are treating that person..
Best interview i have watched in 2024 * so far !!! amazing actor n great human being!!! Vivek legendary oberoi.
Love you Vivek, miss you a lot in movies. Infact the recent one, Indian police force, you outshone everyone else to such an extent that me and my wife litererally feel a gap created not just in the story but that X factor was gone with you. Siddarth himself is a great actor but the kind of punch you created from begining was amazing. It was like watching our favourite actor once again full of action, drama, fun on screen. Hey bro give us some frequent stuff, you have some real talent like Suresh ji, 24 carot GOLD !! Not like some over acting or under acting fake insecure type actors, for us you are from gener of Nana Patekar or KK Menon, a way way ahead. Regards
Your father is epitome of grace. 💐
He’s such a charmer.
Such a lovely man he is !!! Thanks for this podscast❤️
Beautiful interview Vivek is beauty and brains..not like some celebs who look good but cant string a sentence.💕
One of the nicest and most heartwarming episode of HOB! Kudos to Vivek for all the charity work he does for cancer patients. God bless!!
You meet people like him very rarely in your lifetime! What an amazing actor but above that what an amazing storyteller!❤️🤌🏻
@humansofbombay2801
5 ай бұрын
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One of the BEST Interviews ever !!! Thanks Vivek, for pouring ur heart out... May U Be Blessed With All The Happiness In The World !!! The hostess is so beautiful and graceful...
He is not working in Bollywood. But he is doing lots of project in south indian industry. Can see his screen presence there peeps❤🎉
We used to watch Vivek oberoi in our childhood . Fantastic actor and looked veryyy handsome and till day he do. Thats reallyyy disheartning which happened to him before but things like that are actually good for u because it can teach u so much and make u sooo strong .Proud of him for believing himself ❤
Awesome wisdom rightly named Vivekananda a real star
The way he's articulating himself is soothing to the ears. He looks very genuine and pure hearted. Props to Vivek! ❤️
Irony is that bully who doesn't know A of acting is riding high even at 60. Vivek, good actor's career was halted. Very sad that bolly mafia can get away with all crimes.
The way Vivek poured on and on in the conversation really is a testament of the person he has become over the years. We see so many podcasts, hear so many gyans' in this day and age but somehow this felt very organic, personal and real. Kudos for the reciprocation and the space provided by Karishma which shaped the entire conversation
Never knew him beyond being an actor... This interview spoke volumes of how he is as a person ❤
Vivek Oberoi Bundle of knowledge because he face it, fight it such a great man best episode
I loved this interview. So glad to seeing him do so well I'm life. I loved him in company. And wondered where did he go. True inspiration and a wonderful down to earth human being. Mr Oberai you need to think of being a motivational speaker for the younger generation.
I'm so much happy to see he's married to a very nice woman. Specially what happened to him in Bollywood
Quite impress with Vivek 😊, I didn’t know he was doing so many good things beside his career as actor..
Love vivek. All his interviews. His become much much better and a stronger man. But the only thing i cant agree with him on is sushants death…. He was murdered not by a suicide. If he looked into deep about his death . He would also know it was a murder….
Ooo miss him.. His iconic presence...
So good to hear him speak, see him..Thanks for bringing him.
Very humble and happy to see him find his inner strength after the tough phase. Love Vivek
This is such a fresh take on Vivek Oberoi
@humansofbombay2801
5 ай бұрын
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Vivek Oberoi one of the best best actors in India.❤you
Sushant singh was been murdered n killed badly... plz No suicide...
he spoke from the heart..he is a survivor & immensely talented
I just loved it. I truly truly respect you. Thankyou so much.
Great speaker ..Very genuine..❤Amazing voice..♥️God bless you..🌹🌹🌹
Sushant did not commit suicide .Period .
Thank you so much Karishma’s for such a brilliant interview of Vivek Oberoi who speaks his heart out so wonderfully. Wish him more power and light to get more deserving work in Bollywood. - Dr Anil Suchak
@Aartipakar-uo3pj
4 ай бұрын
Agreed!! Such a versatile actor
Such a gem of a person, his voice is so soothing and his story telling skills are amazing! ❤ Really wish the world understood his importance!
He looked sooo handsome in Saathiya❤
What a magnificent interview! An hour well spent ❤
Loved this podcast !! Raw & real which is so rare these days.
Why every Bollywood celebrity is telling that sushant committed suicide? The verdict is still not out on high court yet. That police officer who was investigating initially is in jail now.
@AA_RFF
5 ай бұрын
Here's the legal fact check. Supreme court ordered CBI investigation..not High Court. So the verdict will have to be from SC. How can SC give verdict when CBI hasn't even filed chargesheet?? Few days ago Bombay High court quashed a lookout circular against Rhea and court has mentioned Sushant's death as suicide in the order copy. Neither CBI nor family has objected to it bcoz the family themselves have filed an abetment to suícide case and CBI is investigating his death as suicide only.
This interview with Vivek was one of the BEST all the parents should share with their children. So inspiring motivating. Loved it.
Whenever He Talks It Gives So Much Positive Vibes And Calmness To My Ears Can Listen Him Whole Day Without Getting Bored....And Ya For Sure He's Perfectionist ❤️
Point re Power n Strength was ORIGINAL. V smart. Hoshiyar hai banda.
We can learnt a lot from Vivek. He’s so down to earth and not pretentious at all. 😍
@humansofbombay2801
5 ай бұрын
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Beautiful interview! Great respect for Vivek Oberoi. Such a down to earth, compassionate and an amazing human being and a great actor too... Stay blessed!
Absolutely Amazing interview Proud of you Vivek
This is the sad story of indian cinema talent doesn't get acknowledged, ppl love pseudo stars, same person in many movies ,over and over again....
Miss u vivek...On screen...❤