this is why it was so irking to see people say stuff about baby reindeer like “if he had been a woman stalked by a man he would’ve been believed/taken seriously by the police.” No! Stalking cases are systemically dismissed

@Krissy_K888

26 күн бұрын

People said that women are believed by the police?! Are they living under a rock?!

The police also let me down, my stalking got that dangerous that I had to sell my home, my car, leave my job, loose contact with all my friends and family and finally move to another country for my safety. I begged for help but they didn’t care. I will forever live in fear, it’s now just part of my life. I hope things change for others and they don’t have to live their life in fear like I do.

@livingwell7308

26 күн бұрын

This is absolutely crazy isn't it? That we have to go through severe lengths just to actually feel safe. I'm so sorry for you going through this. I've had this stuff happen to me as well, I know exactly how you feel. 💯. Im glad you did what you know is safe and hope things are ok.🙏🙏

@HoneyHoops-ig9ws

19 күн бұрын

Sad you had to go through that but glad you used your brain to leave. Change your name if u can

@2_thumbs_up_baby

18 күн бұрын

You take care of yourself. What a travesty of justice that you have to live like you do. Horrific

Police should have far more psychological tests ! I had a friend who called the police and they knew her husband and downplayed her having been threatened with a knife! Thank goodness I begged her to go to the doctors each time he physically assaulted her. Later in court that was so key ! If you feel that you can’t trust the police , please seek help from your doctor or a local MP 🙏🏻

I was stalked for 6 months and the police had the audacity to ask if I may have provoked it.

Police have let me down consistently too. Which means I’ve had to endure extra months of harassment and stalking because they’ve failed to arrest the perpetrator promptly. And even now it’s been to court, and he’s pleaded guilty, the police have failed me once again because he has breached his bail conditions on numerous occasions and rather than arrest him they’ve spent the last 4 weeks batting my case between departments because no one will take ownership of it.

@sfxbysallie

26 күн бұрын

I'm having the same thing... 6 months and he's still not been arested... knowing his car, his address, family friends addresses and where he works... and I'm still in hiding... well known criminal and they just can't be bothered!

Cases like this make me grateful that the police took my case seriously 💜

Poor lady . Heartbreaking. This lady deserves compensation. What a brave lady

Amazing how much crime could be prevented if the police just literally did their job.

Whay aren't the stalkers named and shamed here? Both have been convicted, so why should they get privacy after committing such a creepy crime.

This woman is clearly very intelligent and so well spoken. She is to be applauded for speaking out about the injustice she has suffered. I realize I don't understand the British justice system being an American and our laws are very different. But, this seems heartbreaking on so many levels how she was let down by those who are sworn to protect and serve the public. I hope her words encourage change.

Bless this lady x

I have been stalked for 10 years with a permanent protection order but nothing done because no evidence

Exactly. It's absolutely disgusting how some of the police employees are supporting and covering up the perpetrators because happens to be that some of those police employees are perpetrators themselves. If someone is working in police it doesn't make them absolutely innocent and perfect. Police employees are just simple average people as everyone else But for some reason the police employees don't want to understand that they are just the same as all the rest of the public. Thank you for bringing up this issue and talking about such problems publicly 👏💐🌺

What a surprise , betrayed by the police!

What is wrong with people…this is why people end up in trouble…they do not tune into their intuition or gut instinct…you never let you heart rule your head or vice versa…nowadays…people get warnings about these people…but most people don’t heed the warnings…unfortunately you have to be constantly vigilant especially on social media sites.

@unicorntears6514

26 күн бұрын

She’s hardly a buffoon, she’s a medical professional . What is unfortunate is that good people project their qualities onto bad people because they themselves are good people they don’t expect there to be such evil in their world.

@CatsJP

26 күн бұрын

@@unicorntears6514Being a professional makes no difference….she admits to using a traders app…same old same old applies….if you run the risk of dating someone you meet on an app…no sympathy…it’s always the desperate and dateless.

@aurora6920

15 күн бұрын

how would anyone predict he was going to commit crimes and put a tracker on a car? it's not always obvious who is a criminal and who isn't, he was her friend. Manipulation and crime can happen to anyone.

Are there any laws about garages putting trackers on cars?

Stalker : I put a tracker around my wife’s neck because I don’t trust her. Police officer : that’s understandable

@marie-joselelan5323

26 күн бұрын

No funny

@jujutrini8412

20 күн бұрын

That’s basically what happened! Makes my blood boil! 😡

Wolves in sheeps clothing. If we can't go to the police because some of them are corrupt the we are on our own. Scary stuff of nightmares. Bless anybody going through this 💗

I’d imagine it must be so hard for the victims to be taken seriously about being staked. I’d imagine being a women in the u.k. have go. To the length having a protest. Possibly. In order to be heard. I live on the east coast of Australia. I support this issue very seriously.

A verbal warning is near pointless, no paper trail or accountability. A complaint should have been made against the police

I'm sorry so many have had bad experience with police but i had one guy who made me feel heard. Always took me seriously, i hope i don't need him again but as far as police go, he is fantastic

bridlington are doing it to me i cant add details it keeps being deleted

The police don't actually protect us yet we pay taxes to pay for them... when will they stalkers seriously? must we have to be already in a dangerous situation for them to do something? but then it's too late for many in those cases. It's like the NHS, won't actually help you anymore unless you're in an extreme situation.

Oh dear Kat wanted to chat over you constantly

@Raad187KO

26 күн бұрын

Probably the producer in her ear

@WeArePreciousLittleThings

24 күн бұрын

she was taking so long to get her words out that's maybe why

@rozdoyle8872

16 күн бұрын

She really isn't emotionally present or listening properly to anyone who sits on that couch.

Yep let me down too.

Seems a nice lady

I have being stalked by my brother Syed fawad and my ex husband brother

@HoneyHoops-ig9ws

26 күн бұрын

Troll

Police NHS bully do care do trust thsm all

Pigs fail again

@sfxbysallie

26 күн бұрын

That's all they are good at... failing!!!

@aurora6920

15 күн бұрын

the police only seemed to appear during lockdown... they were everywhere telling people off, pulling cars from the road to stop them from travelling. Disappeared after covid.

🤔

ben have turn in to Phil die the hair ben the silver look ant a good one especially on that sofer

@acs6785

26 күн бұрын

Hes coming up for 50 why should he care if he's going a bit grey it's perfectly natural

@JDP1tube

26 күн бұрын

@@acs6785 but Phil ant

@JDP1tube

26 күн бұрын

@@acs6785 natural