I Want To Win Her Back!

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How to win your girl back so she falls back in love with you and wants to live happily ever after.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a coaching client who I have worked with off and on over the past five years. When I first stared working with him he had trouble approaching women, setting dates and seducing the women he wanted. He dutifully applied what I taught him to do and within a few months he was dating and hooking up with more women than he ever had in his life. His current girlfriend has become cold and distant over the past six months after telling her he wanted to date other people. Over the past few months he decided he only wanted her. Now he is getting frustrated, worried and upset that he is going to lose her and you can tell he is struggling with being patient because she has not fallen back in love with him yet. He went from not really caring and wanting to date other people, to feeling like it’s an emergency to get her back right now. He’s in an unresourceful state that is making it really hard to do everything right. This email comes about two weeks after our last phone session and he has disregarded much of what we talked about because he is in such a fearful state.
“Learning to practice infinite patience, stick to your ideals, values and goals often feels impossible when you are in a fearful state. Fear of the future and feeling not good enough will make anyone try and force things to happen in order to gain certainty about the future and have a sense of peace about ones current life circumstances. The key is to do whatever it takes to get yourself into a peaceful and relaxed state and let go of any attachments to your outcomes and the timeframes you expect things to happen. The reality is that things never work out exactly as you expect them to, but when you can look back upon your current situation in the future, you can always see that things worked out perfectly anyway. People who are meant to be in your life will willingly choose to be there if you give them the time, space and freedom to choose you willingly instead of trying to force things. Otherwise, you’ll drive them right out of your life and talk them out of liking and loving you.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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  • @CoachCoreyWayne
    @CoachCoreyWayne6 жыл бұрын

    Here's the link to my new book on Amazon Kindle: Mastering Yourself, How To Align Your Life With Your True Calling & Reach Your Full Potential: amzn.to/2swqeS7

  • @josueflores4908

    @josueflores4908

    6 жыл бұрын

    Just waiting so I can buy the paperback

  • @danncapitan

    @danncapitan

    6 жыл бұрын

    Coach first of all a big apreciation for your dedication. I understand that your new book just came out, looking forward for the audible version because I am a truck driver so I pretty much combine the work with education. But my question is, is there a nutrition oriented book project? Imho this is the next big topic you hopely will cover in the not so distant future.

  • @paullesieur147

    @paullesieur147

    6 жыл бұрын

    Nice video content! Sorry for the intrusion, I am interested in your initial thoughts. Have you thought about - Mahorrla Bringback Her Method (Sure I saw it on Google)? It is a great one off product for getting your ex back fast minus the normal expense. Ive heard some super things about it and my good mate called Gray got cool success with it.

  • @seemeeverywhere7589

    @seemeeverywhere7589

    6 жыл бұрын

    Coach, I want to do a live session with you. However, to clarify is it 1000 USD PER session??

  • @bibousisi5437

    @bibousisi5437

    5 жыл бұрын

    Kudos for the Video clip! Excuse me for the intrusion, I am interested in your opinion. Have you heard about - Mahorrla Bringback Her Method (search on google)? It is a good one off product for getting your ex back fast without the headache. Ive heard some incredible things about it and my mate at last got amazing results with it.

  • @h.s.4795
    @h.s.47955 жыл бұрын

    Getting your ex back is acting like it's a military operation. No emotions, no time limit, pushing forward, retreating to be mysterious and in control, pushing forward again, not showing weakness, and always know that you will succeed in the end.

  • @oldcunt574

    @oldcunt574

    4 жыл бұрын

    I like this 💀

  • @carltrotter7622

    @carltrotter7622

    3 жыл бұрын

    However, if it just doesn’t work then there are plenty of other fish in the sea.

  • @DTHUNDERDK

    @DTHUNDERDK

    3 жыл бұрын

    So..... did you get your Ex back?

  • @kevinglazier8950

    @kevinglazier8950

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ScarfaceFranckRibery 😔

  • @djfueler

    @djfueler

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's great enforcement of where I'm at right now . I've got all of my things from her place but have since realised my passport and macbook is still there. However I'm just practicing patience and being quiet. There are also flights in place for both of us to go to ireland and shes not mentioned cancelling or refunding me yet. Also her car is insured by me still and shes not mentioned that either. Just hoping she'll begin to miss me.

  • @Toineuchiha
    @Toineuchiha6 жыл бұрын

    Happy Valentines day everyone, my girlfriend of 4 years cheated on me and today she dumped me for the guy she was cheating on me with, so no matter how you feel today, trust me, it could be worse, keep your heads up everyone.

  • @itsagoodday2165

    @itsagoodday2165

    6 жыл бұрын

    Toineuchiha you are better off without her and it’s better not to waste your time on someone like that.

  • @chavellaminerva

    @chavellaminerva

    6 жыл бұрын

    Oh nooo I hope you feel better soon.

  • @Jiggamanigga13

    @Jiggamanigga13

    6 жыл бұрын

    Toineuchiha fuck that bitch. Time to really become a 3% fella

  • @domsiniscalco4688

    @domsiniscalco4688

    6 жыл бұрын

    Fuck that skank bro you'll be better off without her. Love yourself to the max.

  • @averageasian5462

    @averageasian5462

    6 жыл бұрын

    A great attitude facing such a horrible situation, keep it up man, it will get much better and you'll find a new girl who's twice the person your ex ever could be.

  • @albertthewriter7558
    @albertthewriter75586 жыл бұрын

    I am glad I can laugh watching your videos. I couldn't when I started to watch them. I was fucked. God bless you.

  • @DmoCUSE
    @DmoCUSE6 жыл бұрын

    A good question a lot of us guys need to ask ourselves is "Do we really want them back?!" I've been no contact for almost two months now, and the reality of what kind of woman I was dealing with is finally becoming clearer to me, and it's more of a relief that I got rejected in the first place.

  • @biggs1077

    @biggs1077

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here brother

  • @Bgen9472

    @Bgen9472

    Жыл бұрын

    Did she ever get back to you down the line?

  • @xElectricWorldx
    @xElectricWorldx6 жыл бұрын

    I always feel calm and re-gain my faith in myself whenever I watch your videos, coach!

  • @truckerchops444
    @truckerchops4446 жыл бұрын

    We need a good "come on man"...

  • @maxiclasher
    @maxiclasher6 жыл бұрын

    Never clicked so fast! Thank you Corey for everything you are changing our lives!

  • @mikepepper8395
    @mikepepper83956 жыл бұрын

    I was pretty skeptical about how another man could possibly know the secrets to attracting woman. Corey.. I couldn't have been more wrong. The information you provide truly has helped me navigate so many situations. Thank you

  • @rodiellveloso326
    @rodiellveloso3266 жыл бұрын

    So timely for me. Thanks, coach! Rejection definitely breeds obsession!

  • @Champ1988
    @Champ19886 жыл бұрын

    Congrats on the new book! I've already applied your previous teachings to myself as a whole. But this true, dedicated book to self-help was a great move that will reach people unfamiliar with your dating tools. Again, congrats and thank you for being you.

  • @manin5082

    @manin5082

    6 жыл бұрын

    Kudos for the Video! Excuse me for the intrusion, I am interested in your opinion. Have you heard about - Mahorrla Bringback Her Method (should be on google have a look)? It is an awesome exclusive product for getting your ex back fast without the normal expense. Ive heard some amazing things about it and my good mate called Gray got astronomical results with it.

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    @williambradley2722

    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @bojankotur4613
    @bojankotur46135 жыл бұрын

    Looking for certainty is how I most probably screwed up my latest relationship... I now know what I did wrong and hopefully I can avoid it in the future. Thanks for the great advice that you give.

  • @last.visuals
    @last.visuals6 жыл бұрын

    we will all enjoy it, coach!! thx always for the endless advice!! you’ve changed my life for the better for years now!! thx you from LA!!

  • @stevensjoseph95
    @stevensjoseph956 жыл бұрын

    Guys I have to give Corey all the credits he deserves and more. My dad is a good guy but he sucks at women,he's a good worker but he is weak and likes to point fingers,he didn't teach me the way of the man. To get to my point Corey Wayne technically has been that guide for me and I couldn't be any prouder of him for his second book,I look forward to learning from it. Thank you Corey,you are making the difference that is indifferent.

  • @tomplatz7494

    @tomplatz7494

    6 жыл бұрын

    Stevens Joseph me too dude

  • @plushmeth
    @plushmeth6 жыл бұрын

    Its really nice to watch your videos. You bring such an optimistic attitude that always cheers me up

  • @rja2208
    @rja22086 жыл бұрын

    Amazing how scarcity makes people neurotic

  • @TheMach93

    @TheMach93

    6 жыл бұрын

    Rja2 does no contact include not looking at her snaps/Instagram story? Girl left me on read and I’m not going to chase. Pretty much remove yourself of everything from her until she contacts you? I’m new to this stuff, so I’m just trying to learn and get better.

  • @rja2208

    @rja2208

    6 жыл бұрын

    Yeah don't contact her under any circumstance(no birthdays or condolences like Coach Corey says) and start talking to other women. Like I said scarcity makes people behave neurotically and having options helps you(it helped me). If/when she contacts you directly make a date at your place because she needs to earn another chance with you. If she says no then just say that it's been a long week and to contact you later. You want women to want you to and talking to lots of women has helped me and it will help you as well

  • @rja2208

    @rja2208

    6 жыл бұрын

    Also I encourage your corey wayne 7 principles to get an ex back, very helpful for me

  • @dbennett4

    @dbennett4

    5 жыл бұрын

    Especially in our instant gratification society

  • @joeyrodriguez5628

    @joeyrodriguez5628

    4 жыл бұрын

    Rja2 truer words have never been said

  • @AmandeepSinghSaini
    @AmandeepSinghSaini6 жыл бұрын

    Another quote that fits well with your teachings Corey “the hungry don’t get fed”

  • @geneisxincuenta9447
    @geneisxincuenta94476 жыл бұрын

    Coach I want to really thank you, you changed the way I looked at dating, and commitment to myself. Ive gotten to meet many women and hooked up with various but over the past 2 years I haven't had a relationship but being on the game and focusing on my purpose. I encounter 2 really beautiful women that knock my socks off that before I would of thought they was out of my league but now Im an Alpha. I gotta say that your book helped me to really see where their interest level is, Im just outgoing and letting them come to me. Im living my purpose and thats thanks to you!! Thank you so much. Infinite patience pays off and more if you're ready after reading the book that you know what the coach would do in any situation.

  • @TheColtonStreeter
    @TheColtonStreeter5 күн бұрын

    "You know I really liked you, and you pushed me away and I dont know why, and it just sucks." I'll never forgive myself.

  • @Alan_Wigz
    @Alan_Wigz6 жыл бұрын

    What I find quite ironic about this whole breakup and "winning her/him back" fiasco is that we watch all this content just for ourselves, thinking it's just US that wants to win them back. Like, lets say it does happen and our ex actually does in fact "come back to us," and in doing so breaks it off with the person they are currently dating - then that person gets devastated and starts watching all this content. They now want to "win their ex back" from you. Round and round we go.

  • @f.lashby8298

    @f.lashby8298

    6 жыл бұрын

    LMAO dude

  • @hakimdawary5587

    @hakimdawary5587

    6 жыл бұрын

    That's not wholly true, at one point either the guy stops caring altogether which I've seen in some cases, or they end up finding someone they really like and being with them which I've also seen.

  • @RYEINDUSTRIAL

    @RYEINDUSTRIAL

    6 жыл бұрын

    Alan W. kzread.info/dash/bejne/Yqls1seRgpu8dZc.html

  • @Alan_Wigz

    @Alan_Wigz

    6 жыл бұрын

    RYEINDUSTRIAL well played. Very well played!

  • @mrsemifixit

    @mrsemifixit

    6 жыл бұрын

    I’ve thought of this too. Then it comes down to who applies the principles better I suppose

  • @eugenefontenot7898
    @eugenefontenot78985 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Coach! There was so much value in this video.

  • @staceyswope3438
    @staceyswope34386 жыл бұрын

    Yes, let go of time frames and attachment outcomes. My ex broke up with me three months ago and that’s exactly what I’ve come to learn as I focus on myself and we begin to rebuild and communicate a little more each day. Baby steps. Patience and understanding. No rush

  • @danusher8061

    @danusher8061

    6 жыл бұрын

    Stacey Swope fancy seeing you here #CraigKennethOnTour

  • @staceyswope3438

    @staceyswope3438

    6 жыл бұрын

    Dan Usher - yeah, I’ve watched Craig’s videos 5 times over!! He’s the best.

  • @danusher8061

    @danusher8061

    6 жыл бұрын

    I know I always see your comments :') I'm more of a lurker than a commenter but he really is good.

  • @staceyswope3438

    @staceyswope3438

    6 жыл бұрын

    Lol Dan

  • @pacopike1
    @pacopike16 жыл бұрын

    Just started reading your book How to be a 3% man. Loving it. it was recommended by someone i'm trying to date. :-)

  • @CoachCoreyWayne

    @CoachCoreyWayne

    6 жыл бұрын

    sounds like a smart woman who likes you. Women help you when they like you.

  • @chloroplast8611

    @chloroplast8611

    6 жыл бұрын

    WOAH THE GREAT COREY WAYNE REPLYED TO THE COMMENT I CANT BELIEVE IT OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG

  • @chloroplast8611

    @chloroplast8611

    6 жыл бұрын

    oh and by g, i mean evolution

  • @Coach-MG
    @Coach-MG6 жыл бұрын

    Hyped for the new book. Thanks coach

  • @kory9790
    @kory97906 жыл бұрын

    Just got the book. Appreciate the content on your channel.

  • @tomschumann5857
    @tomschumann58576 жыл бұрын

    thanks coach, cant wait to read the new book!

  • @IsraelSocial
    @IsraelSocial6 жыл бұрын

    Congrats Coach, looking forward to buy the book!

  • @tanmayjoshi1128
    @tanmayjoshi11286 жыл бұрын

    Let's go coach!

  • @Lumpia_In_Texas
    @Lumpia_In_Texas6 жыл бұрын

    Cant wait for the audio book!

  • @AmandeepSinghSaini
    @AmandeepSinghSaini6 жыл бұрын

    Thank you coach for all that you have helped me!

  • @TheTCOLL
    @TheTCOLL6 жыл бұрын

    These concepts are gold. But I have always wondered how to approach the question "what are you looking for." I kind of feel like it a lose lose situation.

  • @johnathanellis9010
    @johnathanellis90104 жыл бұрын

    Corey being nice and doesn’t want to say the girl was fat but has a great personality 😂

  • @demarcusfaulkner7411
    @demarcusfaulkner74115 жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much for what you teach. I have learned a lot from you. I wish I could learned earlier I would have never lost my ex.

  • @sparkzmentalz2
    @sparkzmentalz26 жыл бұрын

    Instead of focusing on "winning her back", most times, it's better to focus on "letting her go", and moving on. What dudes fail to acknowledge, is the reason women can move on so quickly after a break up, is because she already had your replacement lined up before she left you. Many women will keep you around as a back up plan, or a beta orbiter, for your non-sexual attention (long phone/text convo, hanging out with her like you are two girlfriends) in case the new guy doesn't work out.

  • @Eddieeloverr
    @Eddieeloverr6 жыл бұрын

    Great video coach!

  • @berineayala4767
    @berineayala47675 жыл бұрын

    Such good information man you!

  • @theriwen7863
    @theriwen78632 жыл бұрын

    Thank you this video, really needed...

  • @n.f.m-noobfilmmaker-4512
    @n.f.m-noobfilmmaker-45126 жыл бұрын

    This is a goddamm legend... Dude thank you so much

  • @vadim6921
    @vadim69216 жыл бұрын

    Reading 10-15 times new book as well, coach! :)

  • @PancakeLizard710
    @PancakeLizard7106 жыл бұрын

    very good information Corey i've watch most of your vidoe's. But In this day and age nothing works on social media, dating sites or in real like like in clubs and bars you just get conflict.

  • @moritzschroder
    @moritzschroder6 жыл бұрын

    i just got to know you through a friend of mine. you have a lot of really cool content! i am actually learning a lot for my own channel 😃 keep up the good work!

  • @anthonymurphy342
    @anthonymurphy3426 жыл бұрын

    So i guess 10-15 times for the new book and on the 3% man book am only on my 8 read through , cant wait too read this new book .

  • @gunterschulz9411
    @gunterschulz94116 жыл бұрын

    The beauty of uncertainty is that the sky is the limit

  • @nickmaitilasso2513
    @nickmaitilasso25135 ай бұрын

    20:01 Moral of the story: date women from a really high altitude. Love that analogy!

  • @tryfreeforexsignalstoday
    @tryfreeforexsignalstoday6 жыл бұрын

    I had lost a gf a few weeks back when I had two at the same time. They knew but one decided she couldnt stay that way and left. I won her back!! The other I'm just going to walk away because I'm not happy with her. I gave the "Corey Wayne speech" about if you ever change your mind. Took a few weeks to work but she caved after letting her sink it in. Thanks

  • @lorrymckay5609
    @lorrymckay56096 жыл бұрын

    Hi coach, I am from NewZealand and i wish i could shake your hand! I separated from my wife 9 months ago...found your work, studied it as you prescribed and now I have met an awesome woman, my business is on the mend and life is feeling soooo much better than it has ever been, so thankyou so much mate! As a testament to your work, I now have the ability to make almost any woman melt and it is such an empowering thing. Just grasping the fact that women are EMOTIONAL beings, I can now communicate with them effortlessly, it's like magic. Again thanks and much love brother. One question, is it at all possible for 2 people to fall completely in love within 2 weeks?, as i know you teach that women fall in love slowly. After a week and a half my girl has told me that she loves me... with all her heart and it shows thru clealy with her actions yet it doesn't match with you teach. I truly believe in your work and just want some clarity. Thanks heaps Coach.

  • @myyoutubechannel3161
    @myyoutubechannel31616 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations on the new book coach I can't wait to get it

  • @thebransniped4771
    @thebransniped47715 жыл бұрын

    this girl and i have been on and off for 4 years and we split back in Nov and one thing that ended it was that i started chasing too much and drove her away, since then i have been reading your book and watching your videos, good stuff! i am pretty much part of her family; i'm friends with her cousins, brothers, etc, even before i met her. her mom and dad see me as their son and her brother is my best friend. at a recent dinner my ex brought a new guy over and no big deal, i kept my composure, something i didn't do before. she introduced me as the "adopted whatever" and i just laughed. she was actually showing interest in me, she was laughing at my jokes, jumping in all the conversations i was having and commenting on a lot of stuff i said, body language was pointing towards me, and when we made eye contact she would look at me with the same eyes she had when we dated. i would like to get me ex back and apply this new knowledge into the relationship. how should i keep going about this? just give it time?

  • @pascal6158

    @pascal6158

    4 жыл бұрын

    Update?

  • @heae90
    @heae903 жыл бұрын

    Holy moly, this was how I was before I found coach, its like walking down memory lane. I ended up getting my ex back and she fell in love with me, but as coach says, I ended up not feeling it with her again and broke up with her.

  • @jacobwinter7501

    @jacobwinter7501

    3 жыл бұрын

    There's a powerful man that can help you get your ex back without any stress and delay, he helped me bring my ex back within 24hours, believe me that it is 100% legit and really works... As soon as you contact him, he can start helping you with bringing solution to your problem..

  • @jacobwinter7501

    @jacobwinter7501

    3 жыл бұрын

    Text him on WhatsApp.

  • @jacobwinter7501

    @jacobwinter7501

    3 жыл бұрын

    +1 (937) 8 2 6 2 4 8 9.

  • @MohawkFlippinMike
    @MohawkFlippinMike6 жыл бұрын

    Coach I love your videos, but damn like 5 or 6 ads in it kept me in suspense each time they cut in between

  • @shockwave1gh
    @shockwave1gh6 жыл бұрын

    Hey Coach Corey. Thanks for all your advice on Breakups. I followed your methods and it worked like magic especially the no contact rule. My ex came back begging after dumping me. I was pursuing too much after we started dating again which caused to lose her. I tried the no contact, being patient, pretending the breakup was a good idea. This was going so well n she started pursuing until I used one of my girlfriend's pic as my profile pic one valentine day n this really hurt her. I tried setting a date today n she told me no. I need your help now coz I'm confused. I really don't want to lose her.

  • @FINALLYOUTAFTER7
    @FINALLYOUTAFTER75 жыл бұрын

    I really needed to hear this coach, thank you very much. And how do I reach you directly?

  • @JoseRuiz-ls3lg
    @JoseRuiz-ls3lg6 жыл бұрын

    Coach Corey, I ordered your book and it will arrive next week. Can you look into my situation?

  • @thomasjust2663
    @thomasjust26634 жыл бұрын

    I honestly don't think its woth it to take anyone back in 90% of cases, to not accept this is a lack of maturity and a waste of time

  • @Charless4141
    @Charless41416 жыл бұрын

    I am so fucking mad.. i screwed up with an awesome girl only because i did not know of coreys work.. why in the fuck is it no requiered from us in school to read this ? Relationships would be so much smoother..

  • @mrsemifixit

    @mrsemifixit

    6 жыл бұрын

    Charles41 because they rely on movies and tv shows to (falsely) teach us that stuff. That’s why we have to be the B rated movie with insight that most the population never watches 😏

  • @Jiggamanigga13

    @Jiggamanigga13

    6 жыл бұрын

    Gunter Schulz true.

  • @itsjustnopinionok
    @itsjustnopinionok2 жыл бұрын

    It's good to always ask yourself. What was dating this person like the last time?

  • @grupopalmitas4473
    @grupopalmitas44735 жыл бұрын

    Omg I fucking love the video but the beginning is priceless

  • @That_Handle
    @That_Handle4 жыл бұрын

    13:17 - That's assuming he can accurately read the genuine versus disingenuos excitement.... For example, a gal can pull off the disingenuous pretty dam good if they feel guilty about something and have successfully deluded themselves into a different narrative of perception to ramp up their outward appearance of excitement. But, conversely at the other end of the spectrum, there may have been love bombing from limerance/infatuation before eventually having mindfulness prior to which she/them were well beyond their norms.... When things aren't quite ~ the way they used to be with a relative reference being drawn to a particular arbitrary prior measure taken For what might be a convenient reference mark, you may simply finally Be getting the Emotional integrity of your woman finally. Yet, if she is still exhibiting pleasure and interest with you, Then all you need to be concerned about is not being friend-zoned and show her you can explore a lot of other intellectual, sensual, etc. aspects of eachother's minds. So don't rely on one signal. You can't have the re-excitement and anticipation of the flow without the ebb. Tidal?

  • @bigd3721
    @bigd37216 жыл бұрын

    Is just ? or the more happy I become the more fearless I am

  • @andrewmunczenski3632
    @andrewmunczenski36326 жыл бұрын

    I working on doing this now.

  • @davidduncan9201
    @davidduncan9201 Жыл бұрын

    This whole scenario is so common. It's all about oneitis and a scarcity mindset. Now that she's not with him anymore that caused the fear to arise in him - fear that he will never meet anyone better and fear that no other woman will want or love him. All he needs to do is remind himself of the time before the breakup which hold the reasons why he shouldn't try to get back with her. When he was comfortable he didn't give two shits about being with her. He was complacent and not enthusiastic about her then and he wanted to date other women. He felt these things when he was WITH HER. And if he got back together with her again he would have went back to exactly that same place. Those are his true feelings about her actually. All he is doing is acting out of his fear of loss, which causes him to focus only on what he perceives he is losing while glossing over the reasons why he lost interest in her and broke up with her to begin with. You need to keep your head in these situations. The fear and strong emotions are not logical. It is your brain desperately trying to get that bond back that you had with that person, because you have been cut off from them and so you are also cut off from experiencing those pleasurable neurochemicals and hormones associated with pair bonding. But you have to let the rational part of yourself be in control. Just because you experience fear and strong emotions it doesn't mean you have to trust and go along with them. All you have to do is let that person go, don't try to keep in contact with them, forget about them, move on, and allow your brain to remap itself and adjust to that person no longer being in your world. A good understanding of neuroscience goes hand in hand with the study of relationships.

  • @danncapitan
    @danncapitan6 жыл бұрын

    Mastering Yourself - How To Aling Your Life With Your True Calling Looking up gor it coach, wasnt so excited since I lost my virginity

  • @danncapitan

    @danncapitan

    6 жыл бұрын

    inker1972 yes

  • @connorseaman4739
    @connorseaman47396 жыл бұрын

    My ex and I did 5 weeks of no contact successfully. (She broke up with me) I did my thing and became a much stronger version of myself. We went out last night and had an amazing time until she asked about who I’ve been with during the past month and I told her and she was absolutely heart broken. I ended up calming her down but the next day see was crying and said she can’t see me anymore because she is so hurt. My question is what steps should I take to win her back? Please help I really care so much about This girl

  • @JK-ly6wu
    @JK-ly6wu6 жыл бұрын

    💯Corey knows!!!!!🙌🏻😘

  • @JulioCesarMarques82
    @JulioCesarMarques823 жыл бұрын

    5:35 to 5:55 - Words to live by.

  • @dofodamofo
    @dofodamofo6 жыл бұрын

    Corey i totally fucked up.... read the book 4 times but wasn't doing everything exactly right and was a bit full of myself because i was regularly dating a 10 and serveral 8s... fucked up with the 10 and have now read your book 7 times in the past 2 weeks... the shitty part is I totally had her on the 8-9 attraction level but never made a move. I will read your new book as soon as im out of work in two hours

  • @kimmieclay1
    @kimmieclay15 жыл бұрын

    @coachcoreywayne @Coach Corey Wayne My friends Husband had affair the affair partner is in another state he agreed to call her to tell her he loves his wife( one of the things he said to her among saying all her insecurities to his mistress) should my friend be worried that he is resisting texting or calling the lady to tell her only one thing he loves his wife. She’s not asking him to take back the things he spoke behind his wife’s back or humiliate him intentionally. The mistress has texted the wife and told her she is inadequate and basically bullying the wife. She believes that it would feel like protection her husband would do this. She loves him and is only asking him to do this, they have remained in the same home and are to my knowledge hysterically bonding still. Discovered the affair 16 days ago.

  • @emmanuelroswell9464
    @emmanuelroswell94646 жыл бұрын

    Got a girl coming over my place tomorrow. Been reading the book and watching videos in order to overcome last minute resistance.

  • @coachmichaelanthony3502

    @coachmichaelanthony3502

    6 жыл бұрын

    Two steps forward, one step back

  • @CameronBaileyQuote
    @CameronBaileyQuote6 жыл бұрын

    Best part of the video was when Coach Corey announced his new book. "Yea bitches...600 pages this time." I'll wait for the audio version.

  • @mattykay1137
    @mattykay11375 жыл бұрын

    I’ve been going on a few Catch up dates from online dating since I’ve become single I really did struggle losing my LDR Ex. I do pretty well attracting women on line But... for some reason I keep getting friend zoned And or they don’t want too see me again I’m not sure if it’s because they’re Australian woman who are very hard too crack into Well for me it is😩 I really hate getting rejected all the time My self esteem is Low And I can only think my only option is too try and win my Ex back I’m really lost and it’s actually making me feel very angry Which I don’t want in my life I’m so sad I don’t know what too do besides getting on with my life and knowing that I’ll never be with anyone else again

  • @4570Govt
    @4570Govt6 жыл бұрын

    Coach, what's the estimated pricing on the new book? Might want to order an extra copy or two for some family members, but want to get my shekels lined up before the launch. cheers from LA!

  • @shinfujiwara
    @shinfujiwara6 жыл бұрын

    Sup, Corey. When you mention that 3% figure, is it literally? I'm curious how you got to that figure. Thanks for the content.

  • @chloroplast8611
    @chloroplast86116 жыл бұрын

    15:52 but corey you said to not talk about negative stuff and that she would see you as a negative person if you do that. You even wrote in your book: "keeep the conversation light and positive"

  • @chloroplast8611

    @chloroplast8611

    6 жыл бұрын

    Ooh ya now i understand if she is showing that she is sad then you need to talk about it. But if she is not showing that she is sad then dont talk about it.

  • @chloroplast8611

    @chloroplast8611

    6 жыл бұрын

    19:03

  • @chloroplast8611
    @chloroplast86116 жыл бұрын

    Woah that place looks awesome!!!! Where are you?

  • @miasworld9627
    @miasworld96276 жыл бұрын

    Thoughts -- My ex for 5 years left me 2 1/2 months ago unexpectedly, we were in good terms from what she would tell me until one day I asked her she said she ddnt know if she wanted to be with me ... After reading the book I got to complacent, I got needy and I was to pushy now that I see we’re I went wrong .... But I found out she was hiding stuff behind my back with a co worker all the signs she threw at me were here being uninterested , and her leaving me ......

  • @miasworld9627

    @miasworld9627

    6 жыл бұрын

    lalo rc yes sir it sucks

  • @coreychad6993

    @coreychad6993

    5 жыл бұрын

    The almost 180° turn points to another guy so often. If that is the case, hard to find out sometimes, you may spot them together or somebody might mention it, you don't want them back anyway.

  • @mellowvibes1636

    @mellowvibes1636

    5 жыл бұрын

    Going through that right now on day 1 it hurts so much but there is just nothing I can do.

  • @hunt-sm8vd
    @hunt-sm8vd2 жыл бұрын

    Forced things and drove her away due to my impatience!! F**k it, away to hit the gym.

  • @PokePresto
    @PokePresto4 жыл бұрын

    This is my story: 2 years ago i met a girl and go a huge crush on her. Exactly my type naturally beautifull tall blue eyes brown hair and a smoking body. At the time i was 45kgs overweight and super depressed. Started loosing weight abaout a year ago. 4 months ago i finally got the courage to ask her out excpecting to be rejected before i even asked. She suprissingly accepted and we dated for 2 months before she dumped me. I decided to contact her after 2 weeks and she started to date me again and that went to crap 1 week ago. The sad part is i now realise i have spent 2 years obsessing over a girl that would litteraly throw me out like trash once she was done playing with me and the worst part is i know i would let her do it again just to be with her again.... The 1 good thing i have gotten out of this experience is finding Coreys work. Just picked up the book and im 50% done with my first read.

  • @ryanhall9487

    @ryanhall9487

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's ok friend. I suffered the same loss some months ago but everything is fine with my girlfriend and I know a man that can help you get her attention back and she'll love you like never before

  • @ryanhall9487

    @ryanhall9487

    3 жыл бұрын

    You just have to get in touch with him on his personal wazzap

  • @ryanhall9487

    @ryanhall9487

    3 жыл бұрын

    +2349017847541✔️✔️✔️✔️✔️

  • @PokePresto

    @PokePresto

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ryanhall9487 Dont want her back :)

  • @mae88b.16
    @mae88b.163 жыл бұрын

    I wish my guy finds out your chanel like these guys over here. I’m so frustrated on how he was treating me.

  • @uyouv1411

    @uyouv1411

    3 жыл бұрын

    +:2:3:4:9:0:5:6:2:1:4:1:1:4: whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here.......

  • @joshs8273
    @joshs82736 жыл бұрын

    Y'all gotta understand that getting caught up in one person will only make your mind toxic. Move on anyways! If she comes back, cool. If she doesn't, fuck it. Just because y'all didn't work doesn't mean you can't.

  • @uieluck
    @uieluck6 жыл бұрын

    Hold on... water boils faster at higher altitudes!? Crazy.

  • @mrsemifixit

    @mrsemifixit

    6 жыл бұрын

    Yes due to lower atmospheric pressure the higher you go the less gravity 😳

  • @coreychad6993
    @coreychad69935 жыл бұрын

    So which is it? Be patient or try and hook up when you first see each other again?

  • @gothamcity007
    @gothamcity0075 жыл бұрын

    0:06 😂 lmao

  • @TheDrnorton
    @TheDrnorton6 жыл бұрын

    @Coach Corey Wayne How are you supposed to recreate attraction to someone you love and care about if they have totally blocked you and you are just walking and never looking back??? If attraction is caused by what a person is bringing in person with body language etc wouldn’t them somehow seeing you in your new state be the only way to have them change their mind?

  • @mrsemifixit

    @mrsemifixit

    6 жыл бұрын

    TheDrnorton You don’t try to win them back/recreate attraction. You simply move on and that will recreate attraction (if it’s ever going to happen but you have to convince yourself it won’t if you want ANY chance)

  • @TheDrnorton

    @TheDrnorton

    6 жыл бұрын

    mrsemifixit I don’t see how pulling away from someone whom has already blocked you out of their life is going to cause any spark. I believe they would need to SEE YOU IN YOUR NEW SELF first before that would even be possible. Some people are extremely stubborn....

  • @Amctothemoon
    @Amctothemoon3 жыл бұрын

    Top and bottom of it why would you want your ex back It didn’t work Once it’s done best leave it and start your like again without them

  • @jo-senpai5551
    @jo-senpai55516 жыл бұрын

    How are they gonna choose you willingly if they practice what you practice and they are waiting for you to choose them willingly?

  • @jo-senpai5551

    @jo-senpai5551

    6 жыл бұрын

    My question refers to "The guy who was rejected by a girl in the past and let her go but is waiting for her to come back". They'd never get back together. Unless one of them dared show an ounce of desperation by contacting the other. I think honesty works best--and i dont mean clingyness. If I like you again imma just say it. And if you dont then ok fuck you lol i just dont see the point in waiting for someone to come back. And if we're dating I'm gonna be honest with how I feel. That shows more respect than lying and holding back emotions because its not "socially acceptable" yet. All these mind games do is confuse people and keep them forever "single and dating" until you finally just quit the games and start being honest, communicating, and just having fun. If there were less fuck boys and chick mind games, there'd be less miscommunication and lies. Idk just my 2c anyways. Carry on.

  • @magic7mark
    @magic7mark5 жыл бұрын

    Hard part is being patient damn! i hope my ex comeback i have her name tattoo on my chest she have my name tattoo on her chest. i hurt her and made mistake. you really will realize all bad things you did when that person is gone. fucking sad!

  • @xianabbeloos9107
    @xianabbeloos91073 жыл бұрын

    So i recently my girlfriend dumped me for another man, since then i've had no contact with her whatsoever, no phonecalls, texts or e-mails etc. I can't recall me telling her i wanted her back and i wasn't interested in a relationship less than a romantic one. My question is: should i e-mail her and tell her that i am sorry for the mistakes i made but do not want any other relationship other than an exclusive one? What would anyone over here advise? Thanks in advance Xian

  • @chancepeach5944
    @chancepeach59446 жыл бұрын

    Just bought the new book for Kindle version! Anyone know if the book will be available as a hard cover copy?

  • @vadim6921

    @vadim6921

    6 жыл бұрын

    Chance Peach yes! He said in around 6 weeks

  • @bashier9439
    @bashier94395 жыл бұрын

    Hi Corey How is it possible to get your email. I’m a Syrian man who came to Germany recently. I was in a short relationship. I was acting right according to your book bus then I missed it up. I need you to consider being Syrian in Germany that means whenever I say my nationality that brings serious topics.

  • @QBlond84
    @QBlond844 жыл бұрын

    I tried all ways to open here up for 2 days never stop, but she wasn't able to and get more pissed off then she dumped me.. Is that a good sign of a bad communicator??

  • @gtp408
    @gtp4085 жыл бұрын

    Will you be doing emails again anytime soon?

  • @BlightBreedOfficial
    @BlightBreedOfficial6 жыл бұрын

    I’ve wanted this answered for a while. I was dating a girl for only two weeks (doing everything right) and she asked to be exclusive and said that she loved me, only after two weeks. She’s not possessive, doesn’t blow up my phone, isn’t always asking who I’m with or what I’m doing, and is mostly laid back. We even slept with each other once while drunk without protection and she insisted she took the morning after pill, which I was happy with (showed me she wasn’t a nutcase) she is a little bit insecure, but nothing crazily out of the ordinary. Even really beautiful women are insecure at times I’ve realized. My question is: You said it usually takes a minimum of 7 weeks for a women to fall in love and want to be exclusive, so what do you make of my situation? She’s fairly attractive has had guys ask her on many dates, but decided to choose me and wanted to be exclusive after 2 weeks.

  • @BlightBreedOfficial

    @BlightBreedOfficial

    6 жыл бұрын

    Sam Bat I’m certain it’s not a rebound, and I’m fairly certain that she isn’t crazy. So who knows. Still strange. Thanks for trying to help!

  • @symbolistic9993
    @symbolistic99936 жыл бұрын

    Where should I take a girl on a first date? Whats a cheap place for someone on a budget?

  • @Bearnos

    @Bearnos

    3 жыл бұрын

    Kfc

  • @ximbabwe0228
    @ximbabwe02286 жыл бұрын

    Coach you always say "if she wants to be friends, say no, I'm interested in you, call me if you change your mind." This happened to me but I hadn't watched your videos so I asked about friends with benefits and she said no again. I think it's still assumed that were friends because I talked to her friend after and said I was amenable to it. Of course I don't want to be friends. I did no contact, I'm 10 days in. Should I say I don't want to be friends or just leave it?

  • @ProggingTroll
    @ProggingTroll6 жыл бұрын

    My girlfriend canceled a Date yesterday and said we could "maybe" meet today. This Bullshit of course and I want to Show her that I wont accept to be treated like that. Is it appropriate to das that directly like "if you want to Keep me you have to treat me with respect " or shall I just tell her to Contact me when she wants to meet and ignore her?

  • @cynthiamartin7608

    @cynthiamartin7608

    6 жыл бұрын

    WOMEN say things like that; I think there's even a song about it R-E-S-P-E-C-T. When your girlfriend called and cancelled; and then suggested the "maybe" date you really should have stopped her cold in her tracks. By that I mean; you should have said "No, I have plans I'll call you later" ....later can mean several days.... and let her call you. Let me tell you something about women, if she really considers herself your girlfriend and does want to go out with you she will be expecting a call to go out even after she cancelled a date. When you do not call within two days AND again if she considers herself your girlfriend she will be on that phone to "check-in" ..... "Hi! Whats going on?" because she wants to know what IS really going on? Why did you not want to meet on her "maybe" date and why you haven't called the last couple of days.....

  • @tonywoutrs
    @tonywoutrs6 жыл бұрын

    When she's cold and not talkative, either she's not feeling well or she just isn't very interested in you. How do you tell the diffrence? It appears most guys assume something is wrong and dig for something while actually she just doesn't feel like talking to them. just curious

  • @AnoBananoSRO
    @AnoBananoSRO6 жыл бұрын

    i was seeing this one girl once a week and after a couple of dates i asked her out again she didnt replay, I didnt ask why and didnt think about it much... after another week i asked her out again and she said she's really busy but she will let me know when she's free (which she didnt)... after the 3rd week of not seeing her i asked her out again and she said now she has time... so i set up a date today on the 14th and she told me that a friend of her came to visit for 4 days so she couldn't today... i took it as an bullshit excuse and told her that she doesnt show enough interest and she said that's not true, so I basically told her i'm not having any interest anymore as well. Now im not sure what to do... she was texting back with very linear answer and not asking any questions back... i was doing all the texting first, but she was ready to see me so im not sure if she has interest or not. also after i told her i dont wanna meet her anymore 3 days passed and she texted me first... I really don't wanna come over as a clingy person and ask why she is not replaying sometimes or why she was busy, looks kinda boy-ish in my eyes and not really masculine. im really confused.

  • @FlaCrimeCam

    @FlaCrimeCam

    6 жыл бұрын

    AnoBananoSRO move along soldier, find someone he shows equal interest

  • @jorgel.quiroz8862

    @jorgel.quiroz8862

    6 жыл бұрын

    You fucked up by not doing the takeaway.

  • @shanemarkmendez5008
    @shanemarkmendez50084 жыл бұрын

    Hi coach corey, I just need some quick advise or insight, currently I’m in no contact for 40 days now (working on myself etc) out of the blue my ex gf just reached out today morning via text message but the content is nothing positive “she message me in a polite manner that if I can delete now our photos together in social media because its almost over 3 months already since our break up then she ended with thank you.” I am blocked in all her social media but i know she’s stalking my fb via dummy account, rory is this a test from her? I did not reply to the message. Should I break no contact? and if I what should I tell her? on this regard because some of the vids is that if the ex reached out I should not ignore but what confuse me is the content of the message so should I reply back or just leave it and continue in no contact, she is stubborn that is why I’m surprised she just reached out. And I just checked as well her fb via my mom’s account our vids and some photos together are still there (another confusion to me that she is telling me to delete in my account but hers some of our vids and photos are still there)Happy halloween and God bless and apologies for the long message. 🎃

  • @hamza1517

    @hamza1517

    Ай бұрын

    That’s why u should read the F book ten to 15 times dude. Sometimes women say things just tot test the shit out of you. She wanna know if u still love her or caring the torch for her… your case is very simple and Corey already did cover this topic! U should invite her to your house. No Dates, no gifts and no expensive dinners. She must come to you. And read the book 10 to 15 times.

  • @michaelmoore8129
    @michaelmoore81296 жыл бұрын

    What would you guys say about unfollowing someone on Snapchat who you dated but ultimately ruined for being weak. Unfollowing was to get over her quicker but it’s not helping too much as it’s been 2 months and I think about her all the time while she keeps moving on and on

  • @mrsemifixit

    @mrsemifixit

    6 жыл бұрын

    If unfollowing helps you move on, then good choice. Now if she still follows you, you could snap things that could slowly cause jealousy and curiosity. But it has to be super subtle and not blatant or it’ll backfire forever

  • @corde1517

    @corde1517

    6 жыл бұрын

    Michael Moore most ppl say unfollowing looks like a “spiteful” “petty” move but I don’t think so if you’re looking out for yourself. I did when she started dating someone new why? Because it would trigger negative emotions every time I have to be reminded about when she posts. So yes the start of healing mentally and emotionally is detachment and cutting ties. Out of sight, out of mind and you probably will think about her we’re not robots lol but it won’t be those obsessive thoughts it gets better with time and the more time passes you’ll find yourself asking “do I really want her back, is it worth it?”

  • @kylechapman98

    @kylechapman98

    6 жыл бұрын

    Bro i am speaking from personal experience: If it's been 2 months and she hasn't contacted you, then that is a DIRECT answer from her how she feels about you. Attachment = suffering. Let her go completely and enjoy your life. Why let someone you doesn't give a shit about you have such a strong influence on how you feel? PS - unfollowing her on Snap, IG etc is exactly what you should have done.

  • @songwang2664
    @songwang26646 жыл бұрын

    Hi there, my girlfriend being so distant lately, she takes hours to reply my massages and told me she is really busy , she apologized and promised me she will make time for me. But i can tell that she is not as interested as before. What should i do? Please help!

  • @salomaos.3634

    @salomaos.3634

    6 жыл бұрын

    Break up with her and date other women (Two people have to put in the effort to make it work,your relationship is likely to fail - btw this is a sign that she's cheating.)

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