If you want to learn how to stop your divorce and get your spouse back, you can get our free course here: your.marriagehelper.com/how-to-get-your-spouse-back-mini-course - Marriage Helper

My husband and I just started the workshop today. He was hesitant for the last year about doing it. But your team & approach is so good that he's enthusiastic after the first day. Your no shame, no judgment approach is exactly what he needs and what I need. You are the best I've found in this business. In this cause. Your mission is noble. You deserve every success because what you do is so much more than a job. You are making the world a dramatically better place. Rescuing millions of people for generations. God bless you.

I loved this. It’s at the heart of what I always wanted in my marriage, to be a team and to take on the world together. Not us and all your friends, but us.

When I get married again, I'm going to go to your workshops

@MarriageHelper

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much multiSPEEDitUP. We truly appreciate your comment and are grateful to have you as part of our community here on KZread. Please, don't hesitate to reach out to us if there's anything else we can do for you. marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/ Blessings,

@bigt4331

Жыл бұрын

Don't het married again

My husband choose another woman over his family. He brought another woman in the middle of our problems and tried started a relationship with her while crying for a seperation. All the while he lied to me about seeing her behind my back. She has no clue he has been lying to her this whole while and thinks hes this wonderful man. I wonder how long this new relationship will last before it crumbles with the lies it was built upon

@melly1974

2 жыл бұрын

@@EadsB7002 I did the pleading and begging. Then I tried the advice from this channel. But by the time he realized the mistake he made it was too late. He did plead and beg for me back but too little too late. She can have him. He's not worth the heartache. I have found a real man who values me and treats me like a woman should be treated. I would be a fool to go back

@melly1974

2 жыл бұрын

@@EadsB7002 Thank you so much!☺

@tylerjames2889

2 жыл бұрын

Yall give up to quick marriage takes work from both people when was the last time yall had sex with your spouse and when was the last time you went to dinner or sat and talked on the couch about problems

I went to the workshops, Wonderful Tools. The hard fact is every situation is not the same. For me the reality is the separation is almost two years in. Living in different homes, new lifestyles and other choices made. So for me the disconnect is very real. Marriage definitely should not be this hard in working through together. And I value my self worth and Love myself enough to know I am more than enough to care for myself through the hardest seasons.

@elizabeth1624

2 жыл бұрын

I agree with you! And marriage should not at all be a burden.. but a pact like the Lord says, if the two people in the te nation don’t want to work to make these pact work so staying in it makes us slaves and the Lord Jesus came to free us from slavery ..

@MarriageHelper

2 жыл бұрын

Hey Stephanie Cortes, so sorry to hear you are going through this. Because of the complexity of this situation, we would strongly advise you reach out to us directly! You can call us at 1 (866) 903 0990 and be connected with one of our Client Representatives who will guide you to the best resources we have available for your situation, even if you have already attended our workshop. You can also schedule the call yourself for a time that works best for you by following this link: marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/ We look forward to speaking with you directly if you will allow it! We believe there is still hope for your marriage if you are choosing to keep standing! But we know that is your decision to make. ❤️

Very good video to watch!!! I am far from divorcing but I am learning to stand up for myself in our marriage. He can be quite a tough cookie at times!!!!! 🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🙄

@tylerjames2889

2 жыл бұрын

Find a diffrent way to communicate I'm stubborn to have a talk at a quiet restraunt

if there's no remedy in your relationship or so toxic, get a divorce. Better be single and peaceful than being with someone chaotic and toxic relationship.

@ryanbates7259

2 жыл бұрын

Not sure if you should stand for your marriage? One way Marriage Helper helps frame this is to ask the question, "Is my spouse a good person doing a bad thing, or a bad person." Learn more with this video: marriagehelper.com/should-i-give-up-or-fight-for-my-marriage/

@ryanbates7259

2 жыл бұрын

If you believe your relationship may be toxic, this is another video that may also be of some value: marriagehelper.com/how-to-deal-with-toxic-relationship-cbw/

I want a divorce, I'm in love with someone else.... Those words will bring the strongest person to their knees if they loved the person who said this and had no idea... But, you will get back up and keep moving forward. Improve yourself where you think you need to, and think before you act. Mistakes are compounded, good intentions don't matter. Work on yourself and stay true to yourself. Heartache is the price we pay for love, and it's worth it a million times over...

@nidzainfante6022

2 жыл бұрын

Lord amen

@romanceenthusiasm7972

Жыл бұрын

In fight club we have no women because they talk to much like this women.

I know the reasons why I’m not being full field in our marriage and have talked with my husband nice, calm, clearly, furious, crying, hearting and with the very purpose of looking for solutions and ways things can be good for both of us but he does not react 😔 We have a very good friendship but we’re not a couple already for few years and everything I get from him is silence or an “I don’t know” .. even went to therapy but didn’t help.. I’m very sad and very frustrated. I’ve been praying for years and trying to work in myself to be a better me but I don’t even get feedback and no love either and feel so lonely and undesired that breaks my heart .. Could you please talk about neglect in relationships ? Coldness ? Lack of empathy ? What is real love? I don’t want to divorce but I absolutely don’t wanna stay in these situation either 😞 Greetings from Europe

@tylerjames2889

2 жыл бұрын

It's a two way street if you don't show him thouse things he will turn cold have you tried walking up and hugging him asking how his day was how he's feeling and being the one who engageds sex a man can only be told so.many times before he stops asking

My wife said this to me when she left on December 14 2021. Said I love you but I am not in love with you, and wouldnt give me an exact reason of what caused this. Tried to blame it on an argument that we had around thanksgiving. Things were said out of anger from both of us. I honestly do not think there was an affair but I have no idea why should would leave a 6 year marriage and file for divorce. She didnt want to talk, i never knew there was anything wrong. Whenever I tried to talk she never wanted to. So now that she has filed and is looking to fully get me served what if anything can i do

@aliciashh7369

2 жыл бұрын

Your wife could be dealing with some mental health issues. My only problem with these relationship recovery workshops is that both parties have to be willing. Its difficult if the other person is not even in the "state of mind" and has convinced themselves that what they are doing is for the "betterment" of themselves. I dont know where your faith is. But I encourage you to seek God and allow God to heal you. You cannot control another human being "will" or "emotions". Take it one day at a time. But do your best to take care of yourself and your mental health.

@ryanbates7259

2 жыл бұрын

@MysticNinjaSoul, hey there. I'm a volunteer with Marriage Helper. I can't think of anything that rocked my world more than hearing those words. It is possible to stand for your marriage and fight for it on your own. Marriage Helper has a ton of free resources (marriagehelper.com/free-resources/) to help. You can search the video channel here and Google for things like the four horsemen, SMART contact, PIES, and PUSH behaviors. I wanted a more structured approach and opted for the Save My Marriage course (marriagehelper.com/save-my-marriage/).

The cloud of the condition of anxiety is what's going on in my marriage. I'm stuck as the person who doesn't suffer directly from the anxiety, my wife does.

I truly wished this video work for my situations 😪

What if my wife is and wants to help me find an apartment… mainly because she’s ready to get this over with? I can stay calm and say thank you ect but it’s a little annoying - I like to ask her to stop

@ryanbates7259

2 жыл бұрын

@Jesse Canarte, hey there! I'm a volunteer with Marriage Helper. I'm sorry to hear your wife wants you to move out. Is an in home separation possible? I would encourage you to check out the Marriage Helper free resources here marriagehelper.com/free-resources. Marriage Helper also has a Save My Marriage course to help walk you through things you can do to save your marriage. For me, the best part of going through the course was learning how to be OK and that I WOULD be OK. You can learn about the course here marriagehelper.com/save-my-marriage. There IS hope.

I have traumas, he has traumas. I recognise them, bc I really want to evolve in myself and in my relationship. We met eachother in our teens and I wished we had this resources and this environment of openness and curiosity for personal growth we have today. We just lived out lifes together without having the uncomfortable & vulnerable talks. Now 16 years later we have two children and are stucked in this toxic marriage… I wished we have more coaching options in my country. He doesn’t talk english… so that shrinks the options. I’m so exhausted, I feel like I wokr so much in myself and the marriage whilst he is so in peace with his persona in all this. I actually say’s that he don’t need improvement, its only me who needs therapy to work in my traumas. He totally isn’t facing his impact on all of it… he shi** all over us witj this attitude. I’m so hurt and done, I don’t wanna feel like this anymore, like I’m not enough and I’m a burden… when all I do is giving love and I receive disrespectful and aggressive behaviour from him.

@MarriageHelper

Жыл бұрын

Hey @pinayJayX, so sorry to hear you are going through this. Because of the complexity of this situation, we would strongly advise you reach out to us directly! You can call us at 1 (866) 903 0990 and be connected with one of our Client Representatives who will guide you to the best resources we have available for your situation. You can also schedule the call yourself for a time that works best for you by following this link: marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/ We look forward to speaking with you directly if you will allow it!

Proverbs 14:1 Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands. People can too easily file for divorce. Women far more often discard the marriage (statistically over 70% of divorce filing is done by the woman in the US). Y'all are awesome by the way. My wife would not do the workshop otherwise we would have. I love that y'all are helping to preserve marriages for the ones that can be saved.

My wife just took off with another man when I went to work, came back and she was gone after nearly 14 years...

@nidzainfante6022

2 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry God bless you. I gave 25yrs it hurts but try to puch yourself God seen that move carma God got her. Sorry I no it hurts but lord of you only new it won't work. Mine is now with a crack heron all men and funny there still together. It's ok nidza tx

@Gio-rd4ti

2 жыл бұрын

@@nidzainfante6022 She then made false allegations with the help of this bum...She had been planning this for several months which I didn't see coming. A scam

@sarahs7253

2 жыл бұрын

i dont understand how somone can do that, especially after 14 years. im so sorry

@Gio-rd4ti

2 жыл бұрын

@@sarahs7253 thanks for your support...5 months has passed and I'm living the nightmare.

@sarahs7253

2 жыл бұрын

@@Gio-rd4ti yea, im afraid ill be in that nightmare eventually. It seems enivitable. Things are getting c worse and worse. Just when i had hope his life is all about him. His boxing, his dreams, his brothers, his sister, his training.... fights fetting worse... my hearts hurting and getting harder at same time..

I really liked this video, it makes me question myself

I've felt for a very long time like our marriage was being treated as a competition. My wife wants the divorce and it's taking a long time and although i tried really hard I could never get her to join in. She was always just done. How can I get someone who is unwilling to work or try to come back into the fold? 26 years is not disposable in my opinion.

Ok.. But what if, I'm the one working, and doing 80% of the house work. While she does tik toks and her own "job". All while the kid is at school. While yes I do see the work she does for her job. The house suffers... We both suffer.

The job of a psychologist is to keep your mind programmed. Find whatever makes you happy.

my husband just doesn't want to talk. he just blame me for his weakness. why should i ask if the problem is me? hope costs time that people can use to heal and move on.

There’s no reasoning with the unreasonable. And while I hope my marriage works, I’m not optimistic that it will. And I’m totally ok if it doesn’t work

@MarriageHelper

Жыл бұрын

Hey @thomasbranham4374, Just out of curiosity, have you taken advantage of our free mini course? We know times are tough and want to provide as much as we can to you free of charge. That's why we created this free mini course. It will teach you how to get your spouse back and give you a plan moving forward! You can get access to it directly by following this link: your.marriagehelper.com/how-to-get-your-spouse-back-mini-course

Well whats your opinion on domestic violence? Would that be grounds for divorce? Would God be Angry... I can't find it specifically in scripture.

@MarriageHelper

Жыл бұрын

Our FIRST RULE that goes above ALL other rules is to #1 GET SAFE FIRST Your physical safety are of the utmost importance. If you or your children are in danger, leave immediately. Contact the domestic abuse hotline! Once the emotions have been neutralized and your spouse has gotten help, THEN you can focus on the marriage and relationship. We hope this helps! Call the hotline here if you need it please!! 800-799-7233

How can I attend your course I am in pakistan

@ryanbates7259

2 жыл бұрын

@raza saleem, you can learn more about the Marriage Helper workshops here: marriagehelper.com/workshops/

@MarriageHelper

2 жыл бұрын

Hey raza saleem, so sorry to hear you are going through this. Because of the complexity of this situation, we would strongly advise you reach out to us directly! You can call us at 1 (866) 903 0990 and be connected with one of our Client Representatives who will guide you to the best resources we have available for your situation. You can also schedule the call yourself for a time that works best for you by following this link: marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/ We look forward to speaking with you directly if you will allow it!

My husband wouldn’t go to the workshop. I discovered his affair in 2020. They work together. Now we are separated. We were married for 33 years. I moved to a different city. Our communication is so awkward- he never initiates communication. He communicates through our grown children. It’s awful. I thought that by attending the workshop we could resolve some deep seated issues. Make things easier going forward. I am at a loss. I don’t want to be with him. I am done.

I HATE thinking about said marriage I don't hate him I hate us together and the less I think about us together or him alone the better I can concentrate on the next 17 years of my life. And as for my past as with my marriage there's nothing in those scenarios where I had any control over any situation but my self. And if I was raised in toxic environment and all I recognized were toxic relationships I think that's enough said about spending time trying to love be4 learning to love myself. That's why I need more than want a DIVORCE and I want him to pay for it. Like he paid for my fish sandwiches 🥪 lol

@tylerjames2889

2 жыл бұрын

You harbor anger and resentment maby you should look in yourself marriage is for life

Seems to me that they had too many children. If she was to stay home and take care of them they shouldnt have more than she can handle HAPPILY. So many families have too many kids. Kids are a drain on finances,time and energy.

My wife got a divorce in under 2 weeks and hasn't spoken to me In months

Verbal abuse it's about and I never got a chance ever to have a real family everyone just comes and goes and wants me to do what they want me to do, I want to have my life and to do what God says I just don't want to live my pass over and over and I'm tired of verbally abused and back and forth.

Would this be a good video to send to my wife who is wanting a divorce?

@ryanbates7259

2 жыл бұрын

@flyndrive, good question. Marriage Helper generally advises against sharing videos like this with a spouse that is seeking a divorce. Of course every situation is different and only you will know the right answer for you. I would encourage you to go through the Marriage Helper free resources (marriagehelper.com/free-resources/) and learn what you can do to save your marriage. It IS possible for one person to stand for and save a marriage (marriagehelper.com/can-one-spouse-save-marriage). Marriage Helper has a free Facebook group, too. I'm a Marriage Helper volunteer.

@kishan26950

Жыл бұрын

Probably

Why would they have 4 kids??? It’s 2022. How about not having so many kids. One is already a burden for one working spouse to be providing for.

You are assuming these people wanted to be a team to begin with. Even if you stated all your unhappiness and there are no good resolutions. If you are alone..then what?

I wana go ahead simple

@tylerjames2889

2 жыл бұрын

Why not try again

I want a divorce!