I've Been Married For A Year To My Wife And I Still Have My V Card + UPDATE - Reddit Stories

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I've (21M) been married for a year to my wife (26F) and I'm still a virgin. What do I do here? /relationship_advice
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  • @jennyjanejacob
    @jennyjanejacob Жыл бұрын

    No way, that's just messed up. They are still living on the same house. No wonder she don't want it there.

  • @thesixthkid7689
    @thesixthkid768910 ай бұрын

    He should go to Dave's prison and openly announce what he did to his stepdaughter at 13. Do unto others what you want done unto you.

  • @josheii22

    @josheii22

    10 ай бұрын

    …… What………?

  • @thesixthkid7689

    @thesixthkid7689

    10 ай бұрын

    @@josheii22 do you know what happens to pedos in prison? That's what I'm suggesting OP does.

  • @josheii22

    @josheii22

    10 ай бұрын

    @@thesixthkid7689 oh I get ya. Unfortunately an encounter between op in the inmates is unlikely. You just gotta pray Dave gets cocky and let’s slip what he did.

  • @alan77744

    @alan77744

    10 ай бұрын

    I think girl is lying and this OP Guy is so gullible and wimpy. So many things she said that doesn't add up or made sense to me. Why would her stepfather give him his daughters hands and agree to their marriage if he doesn't wanted OP to touch his wife? And with an expensive bottle of whiskey as a marriage celebration? and put her name on the house? When OP wanted to confront him why she stopped him? Afraid that her lie will get caught? Crying is the one of number one manipulative tactics. I also bet wife was getting it from somewhere else.

  • @aaad3552

    @aaad3552

    10 ай бұрын

    ​​​​​​@@alan77744buying a house for the victim is also common for abusers. Being a step dad is also red flags. Sometime victims defend abusers from police etc. Also if she's comfortable from somewhere else it wouldn't be hard to take OP v card to hide doubts during 2 whole years. If you are easily doubted with no advidance you are no different from sluts and you deserve them.

  • @daorientalgamer6610
    @daorientalgamer66106 күн бұрын

    Nah, she couldve told him everything. Dude wasted 5 years of his life

  • @virtualatheist
    @virtualatheist10 ай бұрын

    There is nothing in this world that would prevent me from crippling her Dad.

  • @bakayaru001
    @bakayaru001 Жыл бұрын

    "So her dad" that got me chills for the wrong reasons😤

  • @l0rdapophis
    @l0rdapophis10 ай бұрын

    So what I'm hearing is that we need to help OP invest in a wood chipper?

  • @valentinax8266
    @valentinax826611 ай бұрын

    Welp. Step Dad is going straight to hell. Absolute scumbag bastard. God be with you both and may your wife get the help, therapy, healing, and love that she needs.

  • @sircharlesross537
    @sircharlesross53711 ай бұрын

    God damn. That’s a new level of twisted, Dave needs life imprisonment and hard labor at the very least

  • @justsomedangerbigfootwithweb

    @justsomedangerbigfootwithweb

    10 ай бұрын

    Dave deserves the Theon Grejoy treatment.

  • @kanggetayeng3403
    @kanggetayeng340310 ай бұрын

    she should have told him instead of getting fU@ked by step father daily or did she really thought that by continuous f&cking step father and ignoring her husband for years can fix or help her by any means? She is as bad as her step father poor man suffer so long for no reason she doesn't deserve him

  • @gowongodmom4851
    @gowongodmom485111 ай бұрын

    Bro I would as well want to want to hurt this man and his friends. So I am glad you are still together and you are going to work with her you’re a good husband.

  • @benanders4412

    @benanders4412

    11 ай бұрын

    It's a fake story.

  • @aaad3552

    @aaad3552

    10 ай бұрын

    You sound like this isn't possable lmao get out of your safe zone

  • @cammongo3525

    @cammongo3525

    10 ай бұрын

    @@benanders4412what’s fake about it?

  • @lyndi9719

    @lyndi9719

    10 ай бұрын

    @@benanders4412 No. This is not a fake story. I lived this. I knew where this was going from almost the first line. My heart kept sinking the longer the OP described the problem. His wife story is so similar to my story. His wife behavior was my behavior. I wish my husband and I could sit down with his couple in real life. There is hope.

  • @benanders4412

    @benanders4412

    10 ай бұрын

    @@lyndi9719 These sort of things do happen. But this story, and most of these stories are fiction. Most of them written by the same person.

  • @kingmystery8425
    @kingmystery842511 ай бұрын

    Make sure the stepdad is burned in second degree and salt bath him. And when hes good again do it again

  • @potatogaming7044
    @potatogaming704411 ай бұрын

    “No clappings” Wtf.

  • @benji4177
    @benji417710 ай бұрын

    I know it's a pretty awful situation all around but I don't think a relationship can last after those revelations. He's still a virgin and i don't see him getting any anytime soon, and his wife might never be comfortable with sex after being abused for years, sex is obviously important to him and I don't see his situation improving. Not to mention that now his whole relationship with her will be stained by what happened to her , If I was in his situation I don't think I could look at her knowing that she gave someone a blowjob on our wedding day that knowledge will never go away and will affect the whole marriage.

  • @a_randomuser4

    @a_randomuser4

    10 ай бұрын

    She was forced though, you can’t really blame her for that.

  • @InitialPC

    @InitialPC

    10 ай бұрын

    @@a_randomuser4 coercion =/= forced she is a grown woman who is capable of making her own choices obviously what happened to her when she was younger is not at all her fault but its not like the guy held her at gunpoint on her wedding, she CHOSE to do it

  • @a_randomuser4

    @a_randomuser4

    10 ай бұрын

    @@InitialPC, bro, you have no idea what you’re talking about, he practically owned her. Coercion does equal forced, being forced to do something doesn’t alway mean to be held at gun point.

  • @InitialPC

    @InitialPC

    10 ай бұрын

    @@a_randomuser4 I don't think you even know what coerced means. Also, HOW DID HE OWN HER??? By the time of her wedding she was financially independent from him, but she still fucked him. She CHOSE to do it. Your idea of "it's still r@pe because she doesn't want to do it" fucking disgusts me. You're basically saying if a woman has bad sex it means it's r@pe. By the time of her wedding onward, SHE WAS NOT FORCED. SHE CHOSE.

  • @Rare987

    @Rare987

    10 ай бұрын

    @@a_randomuser4 You can't blame him either. It's not up to him to fix her problems or wait for her to fix herself, he still has a life to live and she is dragging him down with her. Its not up to you to upend your whole life because of someone's trauma. If he's willing to stick around and help her then that's fine but anyone with their best interests in mind knows this relationship is over, she will never see sex the same loving way and it'll be a problem for years on or forever. The relationship has already fallen apart, its just not official yet.

  • @TheSandman1775
    @TheSandman1775Ай бұрын

    I feel for her, I really do. She went through hell. But she put this guy through hell too. She was an adult and kept letting him do this to her. This poor guy needs to help her, but he needs to leave.

  • @AngelDame17
    @AngelDame1711 ай бұрын

    Someone's fitted very nicely for Asbestos Underwear.

  • @thejadewizard6178
    @thejadewizard617810 ай бұрын

    People like this need to be treated like a rabid dog, take um out back and 'get rid of them'. There is no fixing someone who does this willingly to others. They don't deserve to be anywhere near society whatsoever.

  • @Papabear4564
    @Papabear456410 ай бұрын

    op i have to say you're alot more patient than i would be, that man would have ended up with a knife in his neck, as it stands you shouldn't leave the house..you should sue this man and your mother in law for the abuse suffered by your wife, the long lasting trauma and misery endured by her are terrible. sue them for everything you can get your hands on..make them bleed, then once he gets out of prison you wait until he feels safe and break his legs with a hammer

  • @rexcatston8412
    @rexcatston841211 ай бұрын

    I mean.....so how would this have gone otherwise? What if the writer kept silent for the next, lets say, 25 years.... so she would just keep going along with it for the next 25 years? 30? 35? At this point shes a grown woman, married and out the house... It doesn't sound like there would have ever been an end-point if not for the redditor writing that post. He's certainly a more patient man than me to get to that point though but I dont know if its for better or worse. By day 5 I would have given the ultimatum that either we act as man and wife or I get one hell of a good explanation or I'm gone. Would that have gotten this issue dealt with 6 months earlier? I dont know, maybe she'd have just gaslit me and I'd have filed for divorce and left without ever knowing... Awful situation.

  • @darkdragonmoderator5504

    @darkdragonmoderator5504

    10 ай бұрын

    Then you're just a terrible human being. Victims of sexual abuse and domestic abuse don't just spill the beans that easily. Imagine you were a small woman under the constant threat of violence and blackmailing since you were 13, and your own FATHER was molesting you and emotionally abusing you. You wouldn't find it very fucking easy to come out to your husband about that. All in all, you sound like you have complete dogshit communication skills. Jumping straight into an ultimatum instead of finding a solution. That's not what a real man does. Grown women can still be raped, abused and emotionally manipulated so your retarded assumption of "she's 21 now she can control everything" is fucking stupid. Don't victim blame ever again, and go get some life experience. You have no idea what you're talking about. Wouldn't be surprised if you're 15 either.

  • @hahah822

    @hahah822

    10 ай бұрын

    I think him being so patient was for the worst, because when a girl won't do it with you until marriage then something for sure is up, maybe it's because i have seen too much already in life and that make me think the worst of people. When you are a broken person, i guess that makes you doubt even the smallest action of people

  • @Auren23
    @Auren2310 ай бұрын

    There's so much wrong with this whole story... Let's start by the fact that she was 21 and OP 16-17 when they started dating, obviously no one talks about that, but if it were the reverse everyone would be going crazy. Let's also mention that she didn't trust him enough to tell him the truth even though they were getting married, a marriage with no trust is doomed to fail, trauma or no trauma, she should have been upfront with him instead of letting him believe she was in the same boat as him(a virgin and waiting for marriage), but it took him threatening divorce for her to tell him, that's not the behavior of someone who feels the same way about the other person, she lied by omission. She made him wait for nothing in the end. Also, someone going through abuse shows signs that they are even if small they do, if they were really traumatized then surely they wouldn't even feel comfortable cuddling or kissing, trauma comes out in many forms yes, but none of this adds up, i cannot believe that in those 5 years there were no signs of abuse if she was really being abused, if anything those were signs of her not being attracted to OP, that's what it was, especially after being married and still there's no s*x. What's curious is after all this time, she didn't try to fight it, or run away or get anyone involved, that's one of the main reasons why the whole thing is suspicious to say the least... Now thanks to this mess OP is also traumatized, feeling undesired and with someone who's not ready to fully be his wife...OP seems like a really nice person but maybe that's the problem, even if her story is 100% accurate it just shows she is nowhere near ready to be someone OP deserves in his life, she needs to heal away from OP, them being together is not going to be great for anyone, he will feel like walking on egg shells with her and she won't heal being in an unhappy marriage. He is still very young and can certainly find someone else, which is probably what he should do if he wants someone who is as "pure" as him. I doubt he'll find one these days but it's better than becoming a caretaker for a train wreck that made you wait 5 years for nothing.

  • @fabianafagundezmuniz8119

    @fabianafagundezmuniz8119

    10 ай бұрын

    💀💀💀 wtf

  • @neian147

    @neian147

    10 ай бұрын

    Agreed. And I don't believe she refused to have sex with him in fear of getting exposed because how tf would the dad even find out. Also millions of ways of getting him arrested, I mean she didn't even try This is most likely trauma, and she should have addressed this way before they got married.

  • @InitialPC

    @InitialPC

    10 ай бұрын

    @@neian147 her not exposing him when she easily could have reminds me of how they restrained elephants at carnivals a giant ass elephant would be tied by a weak rope to a nail in the ground, the elephant could easily leave if it wanted to but never would, BECAUSE it started when it was young and not yet strong enough to leave, it grew up thinking it would not be strong enough keep in mind this started happening to the wife when she was really young, she probably thought she could never actually do it in spite of how easily it actually would be

  • @PotatoBoi69

    @PotatoBoi69

    10 ай бұрын

    agreed

  • @lyndi9719

    @lyndi9719

    10 ай бұрын

    I've lived this. I dated my husband 5 years before we married. I did not tell him about the s3xual abuse. He found out and asked me. I was DEVASTATED! There are so many reasons why victims don't talk. All of the thinly-veiled victim blaming going on in this comment section is the FIRST reason we don't tell! Survivors are told what she should have done (fought back, get away, tell someone.) and are reproved for not advocating for herself. After being judged, she will not trust anyone enough to tell. Go back and review the video. The stepfather controlled her with threats of abuse, actual abuse, goods (the housing) support (the friend supposedly knew that the wife was promiscuous; not recognizing that those where trafficking instances.) The wife had NO resources. The stepfather made sure of that. If you have never been subjected to this kind of cruelty, sit down and be quiet.

  • @Julioig0
    @Julioig010 ай бұрын

    Definitely need an update to this story but honestly feel bad for op while the situation with his wife is tough when you think about it their are way to many red flags with the whole relationship honestly if his wife gets help it may take years or even never for her to feel comfortable being intimate and OP Deserves better she realistically baited him on for nothing

  • @alan77744

    @alan77744

    10 ай бұрын

    Sure.. In the last update OP said police are investigating the case. So he better update what happened and if justice has been served and stepfather is in jail or not..... Otherwise, *if he don't post update* then you know what happened either his wife was lying and her lies got caught and he's too embarassed to post the truth or... this just made up post for getting up votes and points.

  • @tamoeri

    @tamoeri

    10 ай бұрын

    She was so traumatized, yet she held on to the one person she loved. Yes, she lied, yes, she did inexcusable things. However, if he loves her, he's okay to try and help her.

  • @eboniclarke177

    @eboniclarke177

    10 ай бұрын

    So she can clap everyone else but him?

  • @nickalflen3565

    @nickalflen3565

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@eboniclarke177her step dad was molesting her the whole time. You are cool with that sort of thing?

  • @lyndi9719

    @lyndi9719

    10 ай бұрын

    Her stepdad was allowing his friends to rape her. She is a victim.

  • @onigiri2136
    @onigiri213611 ай бұрын

    Hmmm...makes sense as to why she was comfortable dating a 17 y/o at 21. This is messed up. Fortunately she had evidence. I hope she recovers well.

  • @painnmisery2582
    @painnmisery258211 ай бұрын

    made it to 1:20 and im going to assume shes getting clapped by someone else, and has been for a while. well i was right, but in all the wrong ways

  • @MR.MOUSTACHE.3D

    @MR.MOUSTACHE.3D

    10 ай бұрын

    You are the xqc meme. (A man that can slap but can also stroke)

  • @InitialPC

    @InitialPC

    10 ай бұрын

    no youre probably still right, she probably really is a victim (there was enough evidence to convict) but she was sleeping with other guys before getting married, and im not talking about the fathers friends, she had boyfriends who she slept with and she only spilled the beans after OP brought up divorce he is her safety net

  • @remysadventures-official8357

    @remysadventures-official8357

    10 ай бұрын

    14 someones previously

  • @rickdavis32
    @rickdavis3211 ай бұрын

    I wouldn't let him live without him being beat to hell.

  • @neverint5131
    @neverint513111 ай бұрын

    That’s messed up fuck I won’t sleep well tonight

  • @85HillBobby
    @85HillBobby5 ай бұрын

    why would she be intimate with so many ppl but not him and even after they married not touch him shes not marriage material and he should find someone not so broken stepdad was dating mom and daughter Id normally call it grooming but she had choices as a adult and didnt make any of the right ones

  • @randomperson8405
    @randomperson840510 ай бұрын

    She groomed him from 16 the same way her 'dad' groomed her. This is abuse and he needs to get out, it don't make him weak, it makes him safe.

  • @sunoping9203
    @sunoping920310 ай бұрын

    so tldr in a blunt way she is damaged goods

  • @zanehudson3680
    @zanehudson368010 ай бұрын

    Most guys wouldn’t put up with this lol

  • @rainynight02
    @rainynight029 ай бұрын

    So my comment is gone because it was "harassment and cyber bullying.... Because I said he should have left at the "spontaneity is SA" idiocy. And then said he should, oh, KZread idiots, making people talk around things instead of addressing things properly. He should, delete, the step dad if the courts don't take care of him..

  • @Riddlez24
    @Riddlez2410 ай бұрын

    Not at shot that I could have held myself back in this scenario, I would have been breaking that guys legs. And as some others have suggested, go to the prison and tell the other inmates he touched kids and has proof of it and let nature take it's course.

  • @elizabethweir8777
    @elizabethweir877710 ай бұрын

    Unbelievable! Prison isn’t good enough

  • @jayblack854
    @jayblack85410 ай бұрын

    80 percent they going to get divorced. too much trauma. hope she gets the help she needs.

  • @eboniclarke177
    @eboniclarke17710 ай бұрын

    Im happyshe got saved and dave and herom got what they deserved

  • @rohithc8708
    @rohithc870810 ай бұрын

    The best husband.

  • @samjohnson3124
    @samjohnson312410 ай бұрын

    wow! what a trooper!

  • @congratsyouraccounthasbeen6544
    @congratsyouraccounthasbeen654411 ай бұрын

    ONB SPIN BACK

  • @gcforTRUTH
    @gcforTRUTHАй бұрын

    Open believed that tangent 05:45

  • @remysadventures-official8357
    @remysadventures-official835710 ай бұрын

    Everyone's talking about "get a divorce" - I disagree completely...He can actually have the marriage annulled. SA is awful, but hey, she should have told him about not being a virgin in the first place (also, did he ASSUME she was or she told him?). In any case, she should have said something (14 really? I mean, that's far over 0)

  • @hahah822

    @hahah822

    10 ай бұрын

    I totally agree with you, i think he just assumed that she was. I know it is tough for her, but she should have being honest at some point to him

  • @YungPrincedaGuru
    @YungPrincedaGuru11 ай бұрын

    This situation is so disturbing. It is messed up that her stepfather (and potentially her mother too) could do such horrific things to her. It is totally screwed up. The mom, stepdad, and his cohorts are all sick monsters. With that being said, he (OP) should have continued his life as a single man. It is hard to talk about being assaulted in that fashion, but y'all have been together for 5 YEARS. When was it a good time to tell him? He ASKED this man for your hand in marriage and you didn't tell OP any of the stuff he was doing. The grooming, the friends, the house y'all stay in. Like really (not to blame the victim), but when was it a good time? It is convenient that when divorce was brought up, NOW you tell OP. The evidence is damning and I do want her to receive help, but he can help her from afar. She needs to fix herself before she can give herself to someone fully. OP is a standup guy, but it is clear she can hold water on something that potentially could be "life or death." She wasn't comfortable enough with OP to tell him this information before all of this came to a head, so why continue now. I would love a further update later down the line.

  • @Brandelwyn

    @Brandelwyn

    11 ай бұрын

    This. More than 5 years and she didnt even try to fight back (or at least run away) once? Dont want to blame the victim, but this is ridiculous.

  • @ZObliteration

    @ZObliteration

    11 ай бұрын

    We don't know the entire story, if the dad is this much of a monster he could have threatened her. Besides, having this much abuse and sa for years, getting groomed since her teens, it wears you down. Besides the fact that there are people who try reporting stuff like this as kids and it gets ignored. One girl from my middle and high school told a few teachers and councillors about her parents abusing and SA'ing her, because she was seen as a "problem student" she was ignored. It wasn't until much later she actually got help. Don't forget who the real monster is and that her dad is the one who should get what's coming to him.

  • @Brandelwyn

    @Brandelwyn

    11 ай бұрын

    @@ZObliteration ofc he should be punished, no one argues against it

  • @YungPrincedaGuru

    @YungPrincedaGuru

    11 ай бұрын

    @@ZObliteration true. Not debating that. But this man is your husband. If you don’t feel comfortable telling him about the continuous abuse, then who? It is unfair to your husband that he has to threaten divorce in order for this information to come forth. Her stepfather and mom (plus his friends to which she was passed around) are monsters to the bone. I pray they never see the light of day. But it still remains, they were together for 5 years and never once did this come up. I completely understand she was traumatized, but now her husband is traumatized by the idea she doesn’t desire him (she didn’t say anything nor did they have relations for 5 years and counting). She has to find solitude in herself before she can be the woman her husband needs and wants.

  • @YungPrincedaGuru

    @YungPrincedaGuru

    11 ай бұрын

    Think about it.. flip the roles. He tells her after 5 years of being together (1 year of marriage) that his stepmom and her friends SA’d him for many years and he was blackmailed into not having relations with her (his wife). In most instances, that lady would have been long gone (after maybe two years of no physical contact outside of cuddling and kissing). She would empathize, but she needs to be fulfilled just like he has to be repaired. That’s how that cookie crumbles.

  • @Decimus66
    @Decimus6610 ай бұрын

    Idc wed be getting a divorce.

  • @mrkilljoy6
    @mrkilljoy6Күн бұрын

    Woodchipper it is for dave

  • @Rouk524
    @Rouk52410 ай бұрын

    op should have beat him up

  • @longschlongsilver7628
    @longschlongsilver762810 ай бұрын

    Christ alive..

  • @mattdavis4248
    @mattdavis424810 ай бұрын

    This story is so disturbing, but to be honest, the wife doesn't get a free pass on this. She had years to tell OP, dated him for all that time and said nothing. Why date the guy at all. I really hope this is a fake story.

  • @issnake1109

    @issnake1109

    10 ай бұрын

    He might have been her only genuine good thing in her life (besides her swimming) but didn’t have the strength to break free and tell him

  • @mikeantonin7580

    @mikeantonin7580

    10 ай бұрын

    That's easier said than done though. SA is not something that's easy or simple to talk about.

  • @XxBlueEyedxX

    @XxBlueEyedxX

    10 ай бұрын

    There is a book from a SA survivor with a very similar story and she described why she couldn't break free even though she was already an adult. I know that everyone is screaming "Run away, report it to the police!" But that's way easier said than done.

  • @InitialPC

    @InitialPC

    10 ай бұрын

    @@mikeantonin7580 bro, its literally her husband its inexcusable

  • @InitialPC

    @InitialPC

    10 ай бұрын

    @@XxBlueEyedxX dont care, youre an adult, unless you have a chain on your neck 9/10 you have a choice

  • @raycigar6356
    @raycigar635610 ай бұрын

    Isn't this just another NTR hentai Script....

  • @dominikjt2216
    @dominikjt221610 ай бұрын

    what about 14 partners, she could be intimate with them, I don't want to appear cruel, but I'm confused

  • @virtualatheist

    @virtualatheist

    10 ай бұрын

    Were you listening at all? They were part of the paedo ring abusing her.

  • @gayladybugnotmlb1743

    @gayladybugnotmlb1743

    10 ай бұрын

    Those 14 partners were the men her abusers “gave” her too

  • @lyndi9719

    @lyndi9719

    10 ай бұрын

    She wasn't intimate with 14 partners. She was trafficked by her stepdad. Girlfriend didn't know the true state of situation.

  • @dominikjt2216

    @dominikjt2216

    10 ай бұрын

    @@lyndi9719 a friend from college told him that she knows about 14 partners, I doubt that her mother's boyfriend came to college (and his friends) and did what they had already done

  • @TungNguyen-eu4zl
    @TungNguyen-eu4zl10 ай бұрын

    i figured it had something to do with another man. I'm still confused on why it took her this long and for you to have to bring up divorcing to speak out. Was she thinking you would be okay with this kind of arrangement. Maybe she had some form of stalkholm sydrome or maybe this guy was a doctor that would of known if another man had been with her. I don't even understand how you went a year and not figure something needed to be looked into and hired a dick to investigate. Or at least suggested marriage counseling. This is above my pay grade so i wish you luck and hope the ones get what they deserve

  • @jimmusthegrimmace
    @jimmusthegrimmace10 ай бұрын

    i would've left. i get that she isnt in a position to do those things because of the trauma but the considerate thing to do is not string a man along so long knowing you wont be able to do those things in a reasonable amount of time. she was a victim and sadly, became trash because of it to her husband.

  • @shrekisloveshrekislive2090
    @shrekisloveshrekislive209011 ай бұрын

    As if that would make sense

  • @XxBlueEyedxX

    @XxBlueEyedxX

    10 ай бұрын

    Sadly, it does. There are many cases of SA like this one, and it seems like this is a very common scheme

  • @shrekisloveshrekislive2090

    @shrekisloveshrekislive2090

    10 ай бұрын

    @@XxBlueEyedxX nah sorry this is way too ridiculous

  • @1FriendlyFries
    @1FriendlyFries10 ай бұрын

    With all do respect if that was my wife i would pcik up the nearest kitchen knife and hot have a short "chat with digsuting Dave"

  • @VigoYouTube
    @VigoYouTube10 ай бұрын

    She ain't attracted to you bruh

  • @rampagepotato4307
    @rampagepotato430710 ай бұрын

    No. I'd leave if that were me. I would've understand if she told me from the get go. But to make me look like an utter fool for years is unacceptable. Shame on her.

  • @hahah822
    @hahah82210 ай бұрын

    Divorce her, you are no hero and she also wasn't honest, i know it's tough on her, but if she had atleast the smallest love for you she would try to tell you the truth at some point. I read some comments saying she had 14 other dudes fcking her outside of stepdad and his friends, bro she is a broken soul, i don't think there is any kind of fixing at this point and i wouldn't be able to be by her side after so many years getting lied upon, i'm no hero i'm sorry, i'm just a human being with a broken heart.

  • @jbrake-kp5gj
    @jbrake-kp5gj11 ай бұрын

    Tbh i might be heartless. I'd exit that marriage you didn't sign up for that amount of emotional baggage and she's ruined your trust

  • @XXL-Griefs

    @XXL-Griefs

    11 ай бұрын

    Your not heartless you just have a brain and common sense

  • @rickdavis32

    @rickdavis32

    11 ай бұрын

    No this feels doomed as fuck and honestly, it'll still feel like infidelity. You marry someone and she still spends your entire marriage with someone else it's still going to burn.

  • @gigachad1021

    @gigachad1021

    11 ай бұрын

    True I'd not accept a non virgin woman

  • @CreDFull

    @CreDFull

    10 ай бұрын

    Totally agree

  • @monkeydgoku6163

    @monkeydgoku6163

    10 ай бұрын

    You’ve obviously never had a breakup

  • @xSuperMetroidx
    @xSuperMetroidx10 ай бұрын

    Story sounds extremely fake

  • @lyndi9719
    @lyndi971910 ай бұрын

    I wish my husband and I could meet you in real life. Our story is so much like yours. I'd love to encourage you both. There is hope.

  • @hiba_sal
    @hiba_sal10 ай бұрын

    👏👏👏👏👏

  • @sdmedia1323
    @sdmedia132310 ай бұрын

    They're both messes. But the way I see it, two messes can be put together as one, and become inseperable once more. I think they'll make it out of this.

  • @hahah822

    @hahah822

    10 ай бұрын

    Tbh i don't think so, could you really be the better person and still stay by your wife's side after knowing she was blowing another dude's dck in your wedding day and let you do nothing for 4-5 years and even after marriage? Even if it is not her fault, i understand that what happened to her is a fcked up situation and i'm not trying to blame her, but still, this situation would break my heart into pieces. Btw it's easy to say that you could and would do it without really being in that kind of situation, but would you really be able to if you were? I know it's difficult, but the atleast she could try to tell him and let him decide what he would do and ofc go to the police and fck it. If you are going down in a situation like that make sure to bring to hell everyone that put you into that kind of situation

  • @gyulaposztos3848

    @gyulaposztos3848

    4 ай бұрын

    OP should divorce and get out of that situation ASAP or else he will destroy himself over the whole fact.

  • @Brandelwyn
    @Brandelwyn11 ай бұрын

    You get a divorce, lol. And I can guarantee with 90% accuracy, that its just you who dont get any in this relationship. UPD. Fkn hell, thats even worse than I thought.

  • @user-su4dd9kp7l

    @user-su4dd9kp7l

    11 ай бұрын

    Unfortunately you were right in the worst way possible

  • @Brandelwyn

    @Brandelwyn

    11 ай бұрын

    @@user-su4dd9kp7l yeah, and I hate it

  • @gigachad1021

    @gigachad1021

    11 ай бұрын

    Nah still he's a virgin and deserves a virgin not this mess

  • @nileshdesilva
    @nileshdesilva10 ай бұрын

    It's not his responsibility to fix her. Just divorce her. The whole marriage started at the wrong foot. It's not fair for OP. Furthermore, she would just probably leave him when she finds her "true self".

  • @alan77744

    @alan77744

    10 ай бұрын

    Guy is so gullible and wimpy. So many things she said that doesn't add up or made sense to me. Why would her stepfather give him his daughters hands and agree to their marriage if he doesn't wanted OP to touch his wife? And with an expensive bottle of whiskey as a marriage celebration? and put her name on the house? I bet she is lying and when OP wanted to confront him why she stopped him? Afraid that her lie will get caught? Crying is the one of number one manipulative tactics. I also bet wife was getting it from somewhere else. Her friend know her best.

  • @InitialPC

    @InitialPC

    10 ай бұрын

    @@alan77744 exactly, one of the red flags op brought up in the first post is that the wife was having sex with previous partners before him, even if shes telling the truth about the sa whats so different about op compared to the other men she slept with? (other than the ones who sa'd her I mean)

  • @ryuk6517

    @ryuk6517

    10 ай бұрын

    I'm not even sure if this story is legit. Seems like fresh out of a novel. Also, if it's true then OP was literally groomed.

  • @celestialsoldier622

    @celestialsoldier622

    10 ай бұрын

    @@alan77744 I thought that as well but the father and mother went to jail and they showed police evidence. It clear is true if she could provide evidence proof to have them jailed.

  • @alan77744

    @alan77744

    10 ай бұрын

    @@celestialsoldier622 that's a common thing for a police to take statements, call backlogs, emails in every case they investigate.. but that doesn't mean they can find everything they require to prove that accused person is guilty in the court. If they can find any hard undeniable proofs on the evidence collected for example where precipitater is openly admitting the deed and telling the victim to do the stuffs he's accused of.. then thats good. Victim will get justice and guilty will get served what he deserved. Happy ending. But if those emails, call recordings are just normal conversations that doesn't contain anything of worth value then its just a waste of time. Let's wait for OP to post the story update about what happened next. Did judge really find them guilty sentenced them OR women got caught lying.. if thats the case, it would be too embarassing and humiliating for the OP to post the update.

  • @legiontepes3474
    @legiontepes347411 ай бұрын

    Yeah, ytah. The kid never had a family. The start is bound to be awkward. Give him a chance like your husband did for your children.

  • @monkeymaster27

    @monkeymaster27

    11 ай бұрын

    What

  • @danielbarnett3672

    @danielbarnett3672

    11 ай бұрын

    ???

  • @privateuser3726
    @privateuser372611 ай бұрын

    I don't even have to watch the video to know he should leave his wife, that's not a real relationship

  • @Pangolin676

    @Pangolin676

    11 ай бұрын

    💀How is that not a real relationship

  • @Emperor-Z

    @Emperor-Z

    11 ай бұрын

    Bro didnt watch the video and it actually came back to bite him 💀

  • @Marius123YX

    @Marius123YX

    11 ай бұрын

    Agreed

  • @Marius123YX

    @Marius123YX

    11 ай бұрын

    ​@@Emperor-Zbro tf if someone is a virgin he should dump her only bc she already fucked idc if its the rape or not even if she only got raped she was no longer a virgin i would dump her for that lol not a virgin not a relationship

  • @worldspam5682

    @worldspam5682

    11 ай бұрын

    ​@@Emperor-Z he's kinda right. It's not a real relationship if your wife is giving bj on your wedding. Bruh, even if your future house was on a stake (which was not because of course stepdad lied) it isn't right.

  • @RohitKumar-sx9qy
    @RohitKumar-sx9qy11 ай бұрын

    She is at her fault too man I know you are gonna say that she was a child she didn't know anything then ask her what about her past boyfriends i mean her own friend confirms it that she was a 304 if she didn't answer let me tell you because she found a perfect doormat who believe her every words unlike the other boyfriends take my advice don't try to change a hoe into a housewife i mean she is capable of hiding something this big she will gonna hide many things form you keep being a doormat 😅

  • @ghoste3991

    @ghoste3991

    11 ай бұрын

    Hate the people who blame the victims. Man you suck.

  • @potatogaming7044

    @potatogaming7044

    11 ай бұрын

    Wtf did I just read.

  • @DannyKay.

    @DannyKay.

    11 ай бұрын

    Did you even listen to the whole video?

  • @yozarahirvi4750

    @yozarahirvi4750

    11 ай бұрын

    Did you listen to the part where her stepfather groped her and groomed her since she was 12-13 ? Did you listen to the part where she show proofs of it to the police ? Did you listen to the part where both the step father and her mother get arrested ? She's a victim man, and her husband who love her try to help her the best he can, it might never work between them because of her past but I wouldn't say it's her fault ... And he's not a doormat, he's helping someone he love to get out of a horrible situation !

  • @RohitKumar-sx9qy

    @RohitKumar-sx9qy

    11 ай бұрын

    @@yozarahirvi4750 Ok then here is a story then decide for yourself I knew a person who grew up in a bad environment he was using drugs and doing other criminal activities now to today's date he killed over 40-50 peoples ra**d over 30 - 40 females and committed other crimes and he is just 18 years old what you gonna say his father groomed him to be like this or society let me tell you what happened he got death sentence he got caught when he was 17 and half and after he turn 18 he got his birth present as death Another one do you know what happens to the kids who are used by terrorist as suic*de bo*ber or b*mb implantation they are just kids they are just brainwashed don't you think It's not like she was prohibited to go outside when she became adult she definitely knew what was going on with her and according to the story she made few boyfriend and more importantly don't you think if only man she knew from the the childhood do something horrible like that she would definitely hated the whole existence of men and her behavior don't that there are lots of loop holes in this story I mean nobody knows this story is real or not and about the doormat thing is not because he was helping her in the time of is because she used him for five year for emotional support and what he is going get another emotional burden

  • @rm7338
    @rm733811 ай бұрын

    This went from both are abstinent a year after marriage to she had sex with at least 14 people to my stepdad is still and has been raping me for many years. My first thought is this woman has been having serial affairs with a number of different people and now that divorce has been mentioned she is ready to lie her ass off so she can maintain your sympathy. You're about to buy this woman a house with your own savings and not only have you not had intercourse, but she's been secretly involved in over a dozen previous romances and has out of the blue revealed her stepdad is evil after protecting him for so many years, but suddenly after the word divorce is mentioned she's ready to call the cops? I have hundreds of red flags firing.

  • @ST-oy3vs

    @ST-oy3vs

    11 ай бұрын

    Well she has evidence (chats and written as well)

  • @yozarahirvi4750

    @yozarahirvi4750

    11 ай бұрын

    did you missed the part where she show evvidence of what she's saying to the police ? and they arrest the step dad and the mom ? dude you're way too cynical !

  • @thegreatepic

    @thegreatepic

    11 ай бұрын

    ​@@yozarahirvi4750did you let your emotions do the thinking?

  • @yozarahirvi4750

    @yozarahirvi4750

    11 ай бұрын

    @@thegreatepic seriously ? this woman have been blackmailed by her step father into sex since she was 12 and you don't have a little bit of pity for her ? I may be emotive but you sound unable to love, I pity you too !

  • @ElytrCSGO

    @ElytrCSGO

    11 ай бұрын

    @@thegreatepic he's right tho. he said that she gave evidence

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