I tried dating apps for serious relationships | dating horror stories, my profile, app comparisons

I hope you enjoy this video on my real life experience using dating apps! Let me know if you've ever used dating apps and have any stories to share~
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0:35 Why I started using dating apps
2:53 Dating app comparison
8:00 Dating profile
11:28 Real reactions to my dating profile
15:48 Matching & dating
19:12 Dating horror stories
21:49 Dating app pros & cons
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  • @matchachip
    @matchachip2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing this. I am reaching my mid 20s and have never dated anyone- I have just preferred to be alone. However, this has resulted in me being afraid to even explore anything with anyone. I love your review and the way that you are genuinely looking for something serious. This has given be a little boost in confidence and I am considering trying a dating app now :)

  • @YooJin

    @YooJin

    2 жыл бұрын

    This was me too during my 3-4 year dating hiatus! I think it’s good to get yourself out there and figure out what you like when you’re comfortable doing so :) best of luck!

  • @inactiveuser555

    @inactiveuser555

    Жыл бұрын

    There’s a holy GOD in Heaven, Who created you and I for His glory, but our sins have separated us from Him. the wages of sin is DEATH, but the FREE Gift of GOD is eternal life in CHRIST the LORD. CHRIST died for our sins and was raised to life for our justification. repent, stop living in sin, and believe in the Gospel.

  • @Blonderellas

    @Blonderellas

    Жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @Blonderellas

    @Blonderellas

    Жыл бұрын

    @@inactiveuser555 calm thy self

  • @lauriannajones

    @lauriannajones

    11 күн бұрын

    Which app have you tried?

  • @therightkindofpen
    @therightkindofpen2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing the real life responses. Listing your matches in a chart is the level of organization I aspire towards!

  • @inactiveuser555

    @inactiveuser555

    Жыл бұрын

    There’s a holy GOD in Heaven, Who created you and I for His glory, but our sins have separated us from Him. the wages of sin is DEATH, but the FREE Gift of GOD is eternal life in CHRIST the LORD. CHRIST died for our sins and was raised to life for our justification. repent, stop living in sin, and believe in the Gospel.

  • @kollective3608
    @kollective36082 жыл бұрын

    We are the same person!! I do pro and cons list for the men I date and keep notes too. I’m a christian too and didn’t love Upward unfortunately but hinge is definitely the better option!

  • @Sirg17x
    @Sirg17x7 ай бұрын

    Thanks for your perspective. You seem down to earth and I could relate to what you are using the apps for goal wise. I still am not sure how I feel about dating apps as I was in a long term relationship before they really took off, but I am trying to learn what I can. That long term relationship ended roughly 4 months ago now. I know that I may at some point choose to use an app or two in conjunction with trying to naturally find someone. I think its also important to keep in mind that you take time to heal after longer more involved relationships as you want to present your best self when searching for a relationship. Presenting your unhealed self can be off-putting or land you in a relationship that is only grounded in trauma which can be shaky and toxic as a foundation.

  • @JonathanGarcia-ud2de
    @JonathanGarcia-ud2de Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Ella's Life for posting & sharing this video. I have learned alot from this video & I look forward to reviewing the video again to learn more.

  • @lewistian7975
    @lewistian79752 жыл бұрын

    wow, love that sketch-looking selfie in the intro~

  • @kannot1
    @kannot12 жыл бұрын

    About the thin eyebrows: castor oil is fantastic! I shaved off my eyebrows & applied castor oil everyday - in 2 weeks they grew back! 👀💕

  • @faith.92048
    @faith.92048 Жыл бұрын

    I love this video online dating is super hard but once you find the right person it is totally worth it. I also keep notes about guys too and even write letters to them during the process of trying to move on so don't worry. You will find the right guy one day it just takes time.

  • @Kitty-Cattie

    @Kitty-Cattie

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh wow this is a really good idea. I love it

  • @pallavi_hehe
    @pallavi_hehe2 жыл бұрын

    Loved it !! so interesting and fun.. such a mood lifter.. loved your honesty..

  • @pallavi_hehe

    @pallavi_hehe

    2 жыл бұрын

    ily and loved the pros cons list with straight lines drawn

  • @fakrbob4099
    @fakrbob4099 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you. This calmed a lot of my anxiety around dating in grad school

  • @beatsbykatie7388

    @beatsbykatie7388

    7 ай бұрын

    literally same. i guess i’m not alone

  • @EjAmongansTV20009831
    @EjAmongansTV200098312 жыл бұрын

    Thank's for sharing your dating experience.and I've learned so much

  • @m1r__
    @m1r__ Жыл бұрын

    I don't need dating apps cause I'm already in a relationship, but Hinge would probably be the best because it has nationality and ethnicity filters, so its easy to keep out the crazies

  • @sophybirm9827
    @sophybirm9827 Жыл бұрын

    Oh No! I wanted to hear more about the professor at the end of your video! please, Part 2 perhaps?

  • @clauaome25
    @clauaome25 Жыл бұрын

    Really liked your video!!

  • @mabuhaydxstitchamateurradi6351
    @mabuhaydxstitchamateurradi63512 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your dating experience 👍

  • @SK-kk3fm
    @SK-kk3fm7 ай бұрын

    I'm also a grad student in the US but my english is like intermediate so I am kind of worried about maybe people would not date with me if I use the apps. and also I am not sure how I can let them know I am not fluent but still can have somewhat conversation in my profile.

  • @cupcake125
    @cupcake1252 жыл бұрын

    this was interesting! thanks for sharing :)) I never dared to try dating apps and have never dated anyone. i'm just too afraid somehow :( also becuase some ppl ik used dating apps to prank others, which i think rly isn't very nice

  • @YooJin

    @YooJin

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, you have to be careful! Thankfully it’s a bit easier to figure out whether people are telling the truth or not these days because we have the internet :)

  • @H_K08
    @H_K082 жыл бұрын

    Love your video 😘😘

  • @by_Reshma
    @by_Reshma2 жыл бұрын

    Early Bird here ✨

  • @antaraanisa4221
    @antaraanisa42212 жыл бұрын

    You're so pretty ❤️ and tell yoora to post videos she literally disappeared after her last one🤡

  • @juannahmae
    @juannahmae2 жыл бұрын

    I've learn many things on this vlog again

  • @wrenchguy2937
    @wrenchguy293727 күн бұрын

    You give me hope lol. I hope this stuff works

  • @harniesjourney
    @harniesjourney2 жыл бұрын

    Is new to me this hinge site I will try this I been also in different dating site but now I cannot open anymore coz I forgot the password your so nice. Alot of man like you there sissy but it's hard to prove it if they really a nice man we just becaredul in dating I will try this also. I am sure lot of man wants in this dating site

  • @OFWLutongPinoyinCanada
    @OFWLutongPinoyinCanada Жыл бұрын

    Great sharing, just be patience of someone who will come on your way and probably your partner in life.

  • @mohamedmenni5802
    @mohamedmenni5802 Жыл бұрын

    Hello from new york i realy like the way you do this videos 😊

  • @moniquerussell5117
    @moniquerussell511710 ай бұрын

    Hey where r u now and have u met anyone since this video?

  • @jasmingarcia152
    @jasmingarcia1523 ай бұрын

    I loved how informative this video was. As someone who is striving towards marriage, dating apps are beyond frightening. Did you pay for any of these apps services? If so, what was the cost?

  • @wakakakawaka
    @wakakakawaka2 жыл бұрын

    Hi yoojin 🖐️😊 I've have just subscribed. I just wanted to know what app or software do you use to edit ur videos?

  • @YooJin

    @YooJin

    2 жыл бұрын

    I use Final Cut Pro!

  • @marcopolo2418
    @marcopolo2418 Жыл бұрын

    I used to do very well on MeetMe. I didn't pay any money and didn't do any live videos. An I did great. Unfortunately nowadays MeetMe has gotten way way WAY worse.

  • @user-pu2hf2cs2c
    @user-pu2hf2cs2c2 жыл бұрын

    와 오늘 영상 너무 재미있었어욬ㅋㅋㅋ 요즘 한국도 데이트앱이 엄청 활성화 되고 있는 상황이거든요 ㅎㅎ 역시 연애에 관련된 수다가 제일 재미있는게 맞나봐요😏

  • @gsjdndnndns1818
    @gsjdndnndns18182 жыл бұрын

    Both of them talk the same way ..... By the way, love your content!!!

  • @happystress99034
    @happystress990342 жыл бұрын

    우와 이런 거 공유해주신 거 흥미로워요 ㅎㅎ 뭔가 한국에서는 아직도 데이팅앱에 대해서 가볍게 생각하는 경우가 많은데(사실 저도 그렇게 생각하구 ㅋㅋ) 외국은 확실히 다양한 수요에 맞는 데이팅 앱들이 많네요 ㅎㅎ

  • @inactiveuser555

    @inactiveuser555

    Жыл бұрын

    There’s a holy GOD in Heaven, Who created you and I for His glory, but our sins have separated us from Him. the wages of sin is DEATH, but the FREE Gift of GOD is eternal life in CHRIST the LORD. CHRIST died for our sins and was raised to life for our justification. repent, stop living in sin, and believe in the Gospel.

  • @mysterio5837

    @mysterio5837

    Жыл бұрын

    한국은 친구들 통해서 소개팅 부모님들 통해서 소개팅 등등 많아서 기회가 많죠. 외국은 소개팅 문화가 안되있어서 온라인 어플이 유일하다고 봐요

  • @andrewvasquez573
    @andrewvasquez573 Жыл бұрын

    I’d have to say wow your just like me. You said you don’t like texting I’m the same way and your old school like me and rather meet someone face to face in person just like me. I hate texting maybe it’s just me

  • @paulchen355
    @paulchen3557 ай бұрын

    Her voice ❤

  • @paulchen355

    @paulchen355

    7 ай бұрын

    Jeez, PhD student at Stanford. I was very impressed by the way she speaks. Her education explains all that😂😂

  • @user-ve5wx6sw8h
    @user-ve5wx6sw8h2 жыл бұрын

    Wow thanks I gave the information about dating app. Korean's dating app itself doesn't recognize it. I think exactly abroad is different Today I subscribed.I will come often .

  • @christianemmanuelf.domingo793
    @christianemmanuelf.domingo7932 жыл бұрын

    Hi

  • @vivacaciouslilyvlogs9366
    @vivacaciouslilyvlogs93662 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing never knew this

  • @ratulnabiriyad3759
    @ratulnabiriyad3759 Жыл бұрын

    hi

  • @_tumemanques
    @_tumemanques2 жыл бұрын

    하하 저도 코로나 때문에 만나는 사람이 정말 줄었어요 ㅋㅋ 영상 너무 재밌어요!!!!! 🤩 ( 인종차별 .. 최악이네요 ...)

  • @TanjaTHEAwesome
    @TanjaTHEAwesome2 жыл бұрын

    Really sorry you had that shitty racist date and I hope you have far better ones. I can totally relate to the lists thing xD I make pros and cons lists for a lot of things and it really helps. Also I thought at first with meeting up and not texting back and forth as like a scary bold move but you have such a good point, like you have no idea who they are pretending to be in texts vs. when you meet them. I was thinking of trying Bumble and doing virtual dates first as it seems a lot safer and then you get to really get a feeling for the person vs. texting back and forth. What'd you think?

  • @mochimochi03
    @mochimochi032 жыл бұрын

    💝💝💝💝💝💝

  • @kadamatv2363
    @kadamatv2363 Жыл бұрын

    Am single who is serious

  • @namitpiriya
    @namitpiriya Жыл бұрын

    Make a book so you can read it later. Stanford people.

  • @sangkayabuda
    @sangkayabuda Жыл бұрын

    New friend 😊

  • @Police-Officer-Fan-Club
    @Police-Officer-Fan-Club4 ай бұрын

    I have never used dating apps because they were after my time and I quit online dating after a few months of trying. I felt like I was playing a slot machine every time. On the left, we have weirdos/losers. In the middle, it's all a bunch of aimless conversations that go nowhere or we were just trolling each other. On the right, we have dick pics...😒 One time, I even had a married man ask me to have sex with him because his wife wouldn't put out! 😆 I don't know why dating sites can't just be normal, or is it because the concept of online dating is NOT normal? 🤔

  • @xblade11230

    @xblade11230

    13 күн бұрын

    Online dating is horrible because women are only matching with the top percentage of men. The guys that are handsome, 6 foot tall, physically fit, and have a high salary. Remember every match means 1 man gets a match and 1 woman gets a match Majority of the men that use these apps get no matches and quit. These top men are flooded with hundreds of matches from women so they play to field, and can act like jerks by sending dick pics, ghosting, pumping and dumping

  • @andrewvasquez573
    @andrewvasquez573 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you thank you thank you wow I’m the same way about texting you can’t tex in a relationship you have to get out there and meet face to face and if the one your talking to says well I’d rather tex then simply say ya goodbye. And find a guy like me who’s old school and still remember the old ways pro met before the internet and get out there and talk to people and make a spark

  • @rail7646
    @rail76468 ай бұрын

    choice paralysis everywhere nowadays

  • @mushroomt0p
    @mushroomt0p2 жыл бұрын

    Eyebrows lol. I’m attracted to beards!

  • @davidoster9055
    @davidoster9055 Жыл бұрын

    Going through this, I just don't see how this is really the best way to connect with a person from a picture and a lame prompt and a cheesy one-liner. Of course, you're going to consistently yield bad results.

  • @rose_7094
    @rose_70942 жыл бұрын

    I don't understand, is it possible to add an Arabic translation?😭💗💗

  • @newstar7681

    @newstar7681

    2 жыл бұрын

    تتكلم عن تطبيق مواعده اللي كلها كذابين

  • @ChuloWorld
    @ChuloWorld Жыл бұрын

    I feel too black for non blacks and not black enough around black ppl. And that’s why I’m in isolation

  • @ryankeshet5820
    @ryankeshet5820 Жыл бұрын

    About the date you went on, you're right that it was pretty F'ed up that he faked being a true CEO. But he was also kinda right about racism. It's not true that it doesn't exist (so if he said that, he's wrong), but it's definitely blown out of proportion by institutions and big tech/social media. Also, what rights don't black people that you were fighting for? Just curious...

  • @FrederikEngelmand

    @FrederikEngelmand

    Жыл бұрын

    That's what i thought. I think he has had too many dates where he had to defend himself over not being a BLM. but he prob came off too strong. And the way she said white male.... Ugh.

  • @solgae
    @solgae Жыл бұрын

    영상 잘 보았습니다 듣고싶은 영상입니다 감사합니다

  • @dbsk7545
    @dbsk75452 жыл бұрын

    holy shit that racist dude had me dying. i hope he had some nice thick eyebrows at least

  • @danielsurvivor1372
    @danielsurvivor1372 Жыл бұрын

    0:08 If he's a schizo? He's a keeper 😂. Ok I was joking but man was that dude funny, how did he even come to such a wrong conclusion?